I have an overextending of the self issue, I’m really learning to not even think of how to help people just because they expressed they’re having it hard. Those people are never there to even check if you’re ok. Anyway I relate ❤
Also helping people without them expressing they need help, gives them an entitlement. All of a sudden you are the bad guy and they give you an "I didn't ask you to help me" attitude. I'm no longer helping until someone explicitly asks for help. I'm no longer reading between the lines 🤷🏾♀️
@@tumibaloyi2915 I am repeating after you Tumi, I’m no longer helping people unless they explicitly say they need me to help. Oh and within reason of course 🙌🏾
This is some wholesome content!💗💗 I suffered from broken bird syndrome, because I myself had never healed from my own childhood traumas. I found myself always trying to 'fix the next person' even if that meant it would hurt me... Acknowledging my issues has really elevated me as an individual and I have let go of those 'crutch' relationships, including my 7year relationship with someone I genuinely thought was the LOML. I am loving life now and this boundary thing , WOW its amazing, people should really try it. 💯
Oh gosh am only 23 and let me tell you am so over alot if things that you just mentioned. I thought I was the problem in friendships but I recently started telling myself it's okay to be different. I guess I just matured earlier than others. I just gracefully excuse myself from an groups or situations that make me feel uncomfortable now and it doesn't matter if the people perceive me differently or they thinking I am stuck up . As long as I am at peace that's what matters to me. I enjoyed this vedio ❤❤❤
This video was needed especially female friendships when we grow older it comes with unnecessary drama . But we choose growth and classy like you mama TGGANG 🫶🏽 from 🇿🇲
I am leaving my thirties and i was nodding alot as i did get to the place of stuff i truly do not have time for. I think you hit that point where you truly get comfortable in your skin..get comfortable in your yeses and nos. Rest is also important. Creating a sanctuary at home was so important to me as i enjoyed being more in my space. ❤
Loving the woman who you have become… All Grown up beautiful and Wise… Super proud of you.. Iam So grateful and thankful… This is God’s Grace he is a wonderful God…. Stay blessed and be kind…..🤗🤗🙏🙏❤️🙏
Beautiful makeup❤❤...I have been at that point where I would put aside myself and give my all to help other people but when my time came no one reciprocated,I was all alone..I learnt my lesson.
Darling we should run away from friends in the present because they are forever complaining and not taking accountability, lets go for future friends to grow in life.🤞🤞🤞
hey Thandi & T-GANGS,i'm a new subcriber shout out to @xoligcabashe for plugging us with your skin journey,checked few of yo vids from onset and i LOVE your skin currently,ive used oratane back in 2015 and leg go without DR's notice & haven't had any pimple afterwards,i'd like to know what cleared your dark marks after oratane use?? thanks.
