Amen on the shoes sister. I have worn an 8 1/2 shoe for decades. DECADES. I'm 75 and I'm pretty sure I stopped growing some time ago. I suddenly realized that the last half dozen pairs of closed toe shoes I have purchased have been bumping into the ends of my toes. I guess I didn't catch this because I live in a warm climate and wear sandals 7 - 8 months of the year. But my wee brain tapped me on the shoulder and said, "At some point you became a size 9." I got rid of several pairs. But boy was I surprised.
You are not alone! I have a friend who is 68 and just realized she needed to size up her shoes by half a size. I had always thought when your feet stopped growing you were done. I've learned from the two of you that is not necessarily the case. Thank you for being here with me - I appreciate you 🌻
I get it - they can be so expensive! But - if you're not wearing them they are just taking up space no matter how much we spend. Thanks so much for being here with me - I appreciate you 🌻
I have to disagree with the suggestion of getting rid of clothes that don’t fit because you’ve gained weight. I see this everywhere, and I followed this suggestion a few years ago with some really nice pieces, and I HUGELY regret it now that I’ve gotten my life together, got myself fit, lost the weight and more, and REALLY miss those beautiful pieces I know would fit me now… because the ones I DID keep are now in my rotation. I just put those in a bin, tucked them away, wore the ones that still fit, and kept on keeping on as I changed my diet and habits and fitness and got back to feeling like myself.
Hard to get rid of my high heels. They are part of my identity. 👠 But long winters, aging, and confinement have made them become just decorative. Still, I can't bring myself to get rid of them. Probably never will. 😢
Hi Lori good advice on the shoes, as you get older you need to wear shoes that you feel really comfortable in. As for the underwear yes you need to get rid of those ones that ride or like you said roll down both very uncomfortable they need to go. Thanks Lori have a great day.
I always remember the warning about how you feel if you got hit by a car and the hospital staff saw your nasty underwear. That visual has stuck with me for 50 years!
I've been much quicker to get rid of things in my closet that doesn't work for me. Even if I just put it in storage, it's been nice to have only clothes that are easy to wear.
I need you to know that I am genuinely SO happy to have found your channel. I binge watch your videos almost every day! I love your content because it is actually GOOD ADVICE for a change, advice that I instantly put to work in my own closet. I have been in a horrible rut for a few years now, but you have made me come out of that rut. So thank you for your hard work and help. The way you speak, your different angles, it’s all great girl! Plus, I was watching in one of your videos you said you are over 50 and I cannot get over how amazing you look for your age, you are radiant!! Love your hairstyles too! And I would love a video on how to find personal style, please!! 😊Blessings!
Lori, while I can't relate to the high heels, I'm a big believer in comfortable footwear. While I was still on active duty, the issued boots were "lowest-bidder" horrible. Fortunately, I was able to get my own and still wear them without a "uniform violation." Spending 12-13 hours a day in your shoes, you gotta be comfortable. Uncomfortable shoes can ruin your entire day. BTW, you've stepped your editing game up. Well done, Lori. Cheers to "the Captain."
I live in a climate where the temperature drops to -30° for weeks at time, so fluffy wool sweaters are my ❤. However, not next to my skin. I wear underlayers like long-sleeved cotton t-shirts or cotton turtlenecks with wool sweaters, always.
I can't totally agree about clothes that are too small. I gained about 30 lbs with menopause, and packed my high quality natural fiber classic cuts into boxes I labeled "off size." I didn't even use the term "too small" because I didn't want to torture myself. The cheaper and trendier stuff I did toss. It took several years but I eventually lost the weight and am so glad I kept those pieces. I'm also amazed at how the quality of many midrange brands has deteriorated from only 10 or 15 years ago. Anyway, yes get them out of sight, don't store them with your current clothes, but you may want to hang on to the good stuff if you can store it out of the way. Lots of women do lose baby/menopause weight gain eventually.
I have skin allergies to synthetic fibers. I can tolerate high-quality cashmere pretty well, but I always wear a long-sleeved knit silk tee underneath my woolie sweaters anyway. Merino is more itchy, I can feel some irritation through my under-tee. Undifferentiated “wool” can be very low grade and itchy, but price and brand reputation are good, but not infallible, guides. Lambswool and virgin wool can be a bit softer.
I wear cotton underlayers with my wool sweaters. Silk just doesn't protect my skin well enough. I have a big stack of long-sleeved cotton t-shirts, mock necks, and turtlenecks for wearing under my wool sweaters. I can't tolerate any wool next to my skin, but the winters here are too cold to do without them.
Thanks for posting this helpful video, Lori ‼️👏🏻 I’m one who tends to hang on to clothes which no longer fit 🥹 You are so encouraging with your “5 rules” posting🥰
I never could wear high (3-inch and up) heels, the arch pain is killer. Nor pointed toes, my wide toes just won’t go into a shoe that’s half the width of around my toes. I do love the extra height from 2-2.5” block heels and wear them whenever I go out. Mostly I’m at home, though, so I wear Birkies, Steggmann wool clogs, or sneakers - for many hours on my feet. I’ve had to nearly replace my entire wardrobe this year because of age-related weight loss. I’m constantly sizing down skirts, but nothing else can be sized down from a size 14-16 to my present size 6-10. This time around, I’ve chosen much better-quality items, all in natural fabrics/materials. I keep to mostly classic styles, so they will last and not look outdated in a year or two. I love and wear everything in my wardrobe, it all fits well and us comfortable, but it is a big one and I have only two very narrow closets. I’ve had to put two garment racks up, and have accessories on racks all over my bedroom. I will try to do one more round of editing soon. Thanks for your tips❤
For once, good, practical advice rather than yelling at you to throw away stuff you love to wear because some fashion designers declared it out of style.
We do have a tendency to gain weight in our 30s-50s, but after that, the reverse, weight loss, can also be a big wardrobe problem. Also, around menopause, our shapes change because the body stores more fat around the middle and sometimes loses flesh in other areas, like in my skinny legs. Loss of height, too, by age 60 I had already lost 2”, mostly in my torso (partly because of spine disease). So, “high-waisted” pants really don’t work on me anymore, I have to fold the waistband over, which is neither flattering nor comfortable. I never thought I would want mid-rise, but now I do. Everything I pull out of my wardrobe is too big, even though I just finished another round of alterations, some garments have had the waists taken in multiple times already. But, I love these clothes, so I try to make them work, at home, where mostly being on my own, I can get away with baggier fits. Especially comfy stretch or knit pants, they’re hard enough to find in the colors I want to begin with.
Lands End has nice knit / stretch pants in various sizes , styles , & colors - often at sale prices . Very good quality & friendly customer assistance if needed . 🥰 ( I'm a firm believer in cold water Woolite wash , a very brief low / air tumble dryer then hang to dry for most all my clothes to retain shape & color . )
I love that you do alterations when you can. I've always had a more difficult to fit body type and had to learn about alterations early. I nip, tuck, or pinch here and there can be awesome! 😉
Kimberly, I’m 65 and completely agree. I have many beautiful classic pieces. Bought them at the right price, many years ago. Loathed to part but I’ve lost so much weight. 2 dress sizes. Will maybe cost as much to get alterations done. Lots of trousers where waists are so lose. I need to find a seamstress. Gave up on sewing machine as I’m jinxed with the thread tension. Love hand sewing. Do lots of grandchildren’s clothing rebuttoning, alterations. Best wishes.
@@danoyse8233 I understand the " do-it-yourself " alteration problem ! If the pieces needing alteration coordinate w/ other pieces that fit well , perhaps alteration would save money by not having to start over w/ all new . However , an extreme alteration sometimes does not work out do to proportions / placements of closures , pockets , etc. Big decisions ! 🥰
Great to see you. Closed in shoes much too hot in summer…got rid of all but 5 pairs…except for my “collection “ of steel capped work boots..just a necessity. 🐨🫠🥂
