Getting Divorced 

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Dubs sent me here.I started my family late at 46 because of my bad decisions.My daughters now 2 and 6 are not only a blessing to see them play with my senior dogs (kids) ,but it’s relevant to my health and well being.❤Hang in and be strong for her homesJust subscribed.

I got divorced 6 years ago. At the time I was devastated. Lost everything. But I put on my big boy shoes and put in the hard work to be happy and successful. I hate to say it Divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me.

Not many more things in this world more beautiful than a daddy and his baby together. 🙏🏻

Only a REAL man will shed tears in public and in front of his little girl. It shows your humanity. Stay strong. Your world needs to revolve around that beautiful child on your lap. You’re STILL a rich man! “Vamonos recioooo…!!” 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

I was divorced in 2010...lost everything..end up at my mom's at 34 yrs old. I had 3 bags small super market bags of my stuff. It was very hard for me amd my daughter..but 2024 by God's grace I am a business owner a home owner and remarried. I put all my Faith in the Lord our God and by His undying love and grace I am standing and pushing. Mr Hector Pslams 3 verse 5 and 6 is all u need to get through thos trying time. May our God be with u and ur family.stay strong and put ur Faith in Him. God be with u my brother.

The Big "G" works in mysterious ways. Sent your angel in to comfort you , when you were about to talk about a tough subject. Keep your head up!

Im going thru this currently with a 4 year old Son.Im crying currently..stay strong Sir

That's crazy she walked right in when her daddy needed that hug in the moment. Crazy how intense a relationship is that she felt that she needed to come in right then. Stay strong brother. She's probably the only reason you were sticking around as long as you were, and a lot of us out here can relate to that.

Prayers for you and your family. I pray that you reconcile your matrimony.

4:07 I spent almost 40 years of my life incarcerated, and I have never seen a more honest showing of heartbreak from a CDC officer... I hope you get past the heartache soon... Stay strong, stay safe... Respectfully me.

I feel your pain. I went through a nasty separation (never married) but my ex never let me see my little boy. YEARS dealing with drama, ultimatums, and constant 8!tching from the ex. Fast forward 8 years later, got custody of my boy recently this year. Whatever you do, don't find refuge in alcohol bro. Avoid that at all costs. Join your local American legion, church (find a chill one) ect. Just don't isolate at home.

Been there, done that LT. Divorce is always painful, physically , mentally, and emotionally. Stay strong and take care of your daughter. In the end life goes on. Just make sure you are there for your daughter. God bless🙏

Bro your daughter really cheered up my day(i needed it) you are a blessed man fr,,,shout out to you and yours from London

Take as much time as you need, Lt. Just remember you are never alone. You’ve saved many of us with your videos and pushed us to do better things in life!

Totally feel this. Married over 25 yrs and divorce is devastating 😢. Prayers friend 🙏🙏

Bro, this made me cry, I'm 41, I've went through a divorce,was married for over a decade and can totally relate. I have 2 daughters, and a son. It was difficult trying to get through the haze of misunderstandings, it's like there had been so much damage already that it couldn't be repaired! Have strength moving on my friend, have strength being all you can be as a father, and don't worry you're going to get through it! If I can give any kind of advice, or even take an edge off of the adversity your feeling, all I would say is that, don't worry brother you've made it this far, and everything will get better as time passes by! Your a great father, it shows, you have a beautiful intelligent daughter and I respect you for that, I respect you for having the courage to be who you are, a human being. Made me think about my own daughter's. I also like how she tried making a contribution to the YT channel, just like her pops, ha!

He Ain't Heavy... " He's My Brother "

Divorce sucks but have to have faith and always remind your little one that you will always be there for her no matter what.

Man brother, this one got me…. Straight to the heart cuz me and my wife are really working things out and sometimes I feel that we are not going to make it. I have two little one, my youngest boy is 9 and my little princess 6. Much love and respect.

This cuts deep I feel this as it's happend to me before. Thanks for your honesty.

Everything can get fixed unless there is cheating, worst thing ever the breaking up of family work it out.

I been there most stressful 😣 uncertain of my life . In the darkest hours the light will shine again. Hector stay strong and endure brother.

Keep your head up, LT!! Things happen for a reason…When one door closes another one opens. The utmost love and respect from Los Angeles! 🙏🏻💯

Stay strong, I been there, I didn’t have no support system. I went straight to drugs. I was 33 years old. I ended in prison. I finally got sober . Go to meetings, have a support system

So sorry to hear this but stay strong for that little girl right there 💖 she needs you more then ever

I’m going through the same situation right now and I have a 6 and 8 year olds who I’m extremely close with. I feel your pain brother stay strong. Firme holmes 💪 this video hit me hard.

Have a Blessed Day. If the title is correct I've been through it twice and my first I had 2 daughters it's rough especially when the vindictiveness starts. Stay Strong Brother.

I’m going through it also Lt. Stay strong and rooted in the Lord and he will get you through it. We got your back! 👍🏽

Brotha I’ve haven’t been thru a divorce yet but I feel your sadness and pain … . Stay strong for yourself and your beautiful daughter it’s a rough ride but things will get better … it’s ok to cry .. you’re a hero big dog .. I’m very sorry bro … we here to support you and anyway you can always reach out to many of us on here.. don’t hesitate … 👊🏼👊🏼👊🏼

Unless your spouse cheated on you, getting divorce is just convenient. Marriage can be challenging, but working out your differences is very rewarding. I have been married for 39 years and my grown children and grandchildren see stability in my wife and I. Marriage is no longer sacred.

This is so sad, Im sorry Hector😢 be strong Carnal we are all here for you! We know it’s not easy! But we all get through it! Your babygirl is so beautiful and she looks like you!❤

What's up Hector , I got your back brother , much love support respect all the way from Monterey California

I feel you Hector... I have a "Wedding Band with Oak leaf Cluster" too. Got divorced and married again. 28 years later, happy as ever!

Good morning LT keep pushing brother🙏 have a blessed day.

Brother i was on the other side of the badge since i was 12 and finally checked in at 42 not volunteeraly but either way it was GOD SEND and never looked back, i been watching you since day one and bro major respect to you I've done time with C O's , Srgnts, Captns ETC that conducted the way you did...thank you for exposing the way things are ran in there for the good or the bad people need to know... Blessings to your kids and your journey

I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm praying for healing and strength. I pray that your marriage may be reconciled. Stay strong for her no matter what comes your way🙏🙏🙏

Anything you need Lt. You ain't alone. Much love and respect to you and yours.

Stay strong brotha💪💪you got all you need in your arms right now.

Awe Hector relationships are hard,it takes a lot of work and communication. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Praying for you and your wife things to get better 🙏🙏🙏 love you Lt.

Much love my boy..sending strength and wisdom at this hard time. ...IT WILL PASS

KEEP PUSHIN FORWARD 🛹 * Dang Lt been there before its hard.. God bless you and your daughter i wish you the best 🙏🏼

I pray that God is with you through this tough time Hector. I can’t say I know the feeling exactly but I know how it feels when your whole world falls apart or at least changes. Me and my daughter’s mom ending things after 11 years in 2021. My heart is with you bro.

I'm going through the same shit bro!! Keep your head up homie!! The last laugh is yours!!

Brought me to tears my boy, god bless you, keep pushing forward...

Many of us combat veterans have gone through this process of brokenness. Stay strong bro you will be fine. Saludos from El Centro California soy El Mr. Magik.

Nothing but respect for you. Keep pushing. Been watching your videos. Keep doing you Hector. Sorry to hear about the divorce.

I have 3 lil girls and going through a divorce hurts and no one knows the pain inside. Understand that your daughter knows who her Dad is like mine knows. There's little girls that don't know who their dad is. Stay strong Hector it's easy to be weak. Eso daddy's lil girl

Bro I lost my wife 🙏🕊 and became a single father, family is a beautiful thing..If you can’t make it work be the best father you can be you can’t force a woman to be with you as you said “reality” so “reality” is your kids need you to show an example so let’s show them how a real man handles loss…You’re blessed regardless..

Been there. Your daughter will be as okay as you are. 💞

Much love and respect to you sir, and thank you for your service. I'm from the blue side of the wall, been out 10yrs and I salute you for being real. Sometimes being on that side we don't see a father, husband or even a real person...we just see the C.O and the C.O only sees a convict. But I see this video and I can see the pain in your eyes your face your words and my prayers go out to you sir. I know you have your beliefs on the convict, but there are some of us that aren't all bad we just messed up and made a mistake somewhere on the road of life, and once in the system you have to put on a mask to survive it, it sucks but it is what it is. Keep pushing forward God has a plan for everything.

Stay up man I know things can hit hard and life is rough but through it keep pushing to stay up💪

This video killed me to watch LT. Thank you for being so real on your channel and connecting to those who have also gone through it. Keep pushing forward we have your 6

LT, nothing more important than that little Nina Bonita. Stay focused on her. My prayers are with you. A phone call or an email away. Stay strong my brother.

Animo Viejo. No one is perfect but you’re a good man & a good Dad & that means more than Anything

Breaks my heart. Praying for you, that this family of yours might find a way to keep the bond.🙏

Don't know your situation or what the ex will try to get or argue about. But one thing I do know and had the bad experience over was this. When you put your child on media like this is not a big deal for most of us. But if your at war with some out there or know people are hating on you for your movement or what you got going on. God forbid your ex will use the internet and from what you do to try and not let you see your child or get a restraining order for b.s. reasons like letting be on social media and putting thier life's in danger ? . That's what I went through 3 years of a restraining order but has been over years now , have not seen my daughter for almost 11 years now. Been done with child support for 3 years now and still living with a half broken heart over the situation around my daughter. I would hate for another man to go through something like that so just a heads up on that homie. Mucho respecto and keep positive and keep moving forward ✊🏽🙏🏽

I've been watching your channel from the beginning Hector. I've replied how my dad's side of familia is entirely from The Imperial Valley. Brawley, Calipat, El Centro, Niland. You name it. I'm in Phoenix. But visit Imperial Valley 3 times yearly (It's only a 4 hour drive). You've been a huge inspiration to not only me. But thousands of others. I've never been married. I have many friends who've been divorced though. They describe it as a death of sorts. My heart goes out to you ❤ I have an almost 7 year old daughter. She's in the 1st grade. In fact, she's sitting next to me asking "Why is Hector sad?' Because you're a bit of a staple now for my family. This breaks my heart to see you sad. Please stay strong. You'll get through this. Many people can't hang with being attached to prominent whistle blowers like yourself. Because it's intimidating. I understand your situation. Just on a different subject matter. Don't let anyone or anything take your strength away💥

Look big dog I pray u get through it I went through a bitter divorce but gods got u bro

Dammn brother im sorry to hear that this is truly heartbreaking i went through a breakup recently and i try every day to not think about it because it will get to me but your a tough man I know it’s difficult but keep pushing forward things will get better over time.

Brother my heart goes out to u I got divorced 9 years ago I lost myself to the bottle stay prayed up and seekngood for his wisdom on what to do if there's one thing I can tell u is never let your kids see u hurting and be friendly with their mom in front of them they are going feel like they have to pick sides to keep their world intact your going to get threw this brother my prayers go out to u and ur whole family

Sorry about this personal situation you’re going through….keep pushing forward and make sure your little one is loved every day. 🙏🏽

Real shit man, thank you, and god bless. I will never have the opportunity to actually feel what i saw in this video. It can always be worse no matter what it is. It can always be worse

I saw this in my feed and paused...I am so sorry, Hector...grief is often the price we pay for love ❤️ and there's a lot of love there.

Keep your head up Dogg keep moving forward 🙏 hope all ends Well it's been a while since I Tuned in but I see the Channel don't stop growing salute brother ....

I pray for you and your family brother that things will work out , I’m so scared of the same scenario happening to me and I can’t imagine how your feeling but at the end of the day your daughter is what’s most important 💯 no matter what the outcome is stay strong for her and be the example of the man so she isn’t lead astray when she’s older and starts dating…much love and respect LT, I truly teared up writing this 🙏🏽💙💪🏽💯

Damn Hector this one got me tearin up. My daughter turned 6 September 2nd

Stay Strong Bro Will Be Praying For You

Stay strong Brotha it’s hard at first but gets easier in time .

My dude. I'm so sorry. I've been there. Keep ur head up. That little girl really loves u. Appreciate it.

DAMN BRO RESPECTS TO YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER. TIME HEALS SIR.

Lt. I'm so sorry for the pain you are going through. That little one is number one, so stay strong and be involved with her day to day.

May God bless you and ur beautiful daughter. It’s not an easy thing to go through LT. But you will get through.

I was just scrolling my feed, and I happened to see this. First and foremost, I just want to give my condolences to the family situation. I had a feeling something was up cause if you look back at your videos, you were really dropping some hints cause you sounded weighed down. My dad always told me to listen to what they don't say. I pray for both of you and for you both to find a peaceful place for yourselves as people and as Co parents. I still believe in the nuclear family and its foundation, but the reality is that some things in life aren't supposed to be (at least right now) When situations kick you in the gut, you feel it, puke if you have to and keep rolling. As much as I miss my family as a whole, I don't miss the fighting. God bless everyone in the Ferrel family

I hope that somehow it can work out brother. Prayers for you and the family

Sorry to see u hurt like this man. May good blessings come to u hector ur a good man 👊🏼💯

Sorry to hear that LT Things happen for a reason man, stay strong and wish you best in life big dog💯😏

Prayers 🙏 bro I appreciate your content. Hope everything works out for the best G!!

Awww 😢 prayers for you guys for strength n clarity & patience to walk the path ahead of you with the best outcome for everyone 🤍🙏

Stay strong for your little one carnal 💪🏼

Keep your head up broo!!!! It's hard but you'll get through it man....chin up !!!

Keep your head up brother if things work out they’ll work out and don’t be ashamed or embarrassed to ask or get help we all have the same or similar problems in our marriages your not alone I promise you stay strong 💪

She like her daddy she can talk!!! Stay strong!! Be strong for your girl, not all kids are lucky enough to have a dad that cares enough to be around!!

Bro We Appreciate All Your Videos You Do For Us To Keep Watchin 🙏🏼 And Con Mucho Cariño ❤ And Blessings, Dont Cry For A Girl Big Dawg And Dont Be Sad, Cry Bcus Who Are And What You Did For That Person🙏🏼 There Losing Someone Special,Hardworking Mf💪🏽,Loyal To His Family,And Not Just A Dad To Your Daughter But Her King 🤴🏾 I Married My High School Sweetheart, We Were Together For 10 Years Married Thru Church And Court 5 Years. In Those 10 Years We Had 3 Kids 2 Boys And My Lil Princess 👸🏽 💕 .. When She Told Me She Didn't Want To Do Nothing With Me Nomore I Was Heart Broken, Knowing I Supported Her Since High School, Thru College And All The Way Were She Is Rite Now To Be A Nurse. I Said I Waisted All My Life With Her For This Day To Come.. Tbh Only 1 Day I Was Sad And After That Bro I Was Like Fuck That. I Aint Shouldn't Cry For Her.. I Should Cry For Those Nice Memories And Be Bless To Have My Kids With Me❤. You'll Might Not Find Someone Exact The Same As Her. But Someone With A Big Heart You'll Will🙏🏼 Keep Up Lt 💪🏽🙏🏼 We Here If You Ever Need Something Or Someone 🙏🏼

May God give you strength while you go through it..Your baby is your strength as well. 🙏🙏

You’ll be fine… think about your kids… it sucks and be strong for your kids. God bless

Damn this hurt it hit home for me,I remember splitting with the mother of my child and I felt the same way ,keep your head up man it’s going to get harder before it gets better but keep pushing forward

Hector, feel your pain but hang in there bro, you have your daughter who loves you, needs you, and will give you support. Trust in God during the process. Some of your videos have given me motivation. I'm sending my prayer for you that you heal during this rough time. 🙏 Stay Strong L.T. ✊

Im freshly experiencing the whole dissolution of marriage process & going through all the motions & playing back over 17years of sharing the same last name & raising kids,being a family….My heart goes out to you because it’s honestly like going through the 7 stages of death/grief everyday all day long….the only advice I can offer is “….don’t forget to breathe….”

U made me cry Lt. 😢😢😢😢 ur little girl came in at the right time❤

I was never married but I recently went thru a breakup of a long term girlfriend. With that going on and working inside the joint it put on a tremendous amount of stress, anxiety and depression on me and my mental health. I had all this going on outside of the joint but as soon as I stepped thru the sallyport I had to suppress all that. I had some dark days where I really felt like I couldn’t do this anymore but I pushed through it. I knew help if a really needed it but I later found out writing whatever I had on my mind really helped me. Even if it was just a word document I’d write everything out, read it back and delete it. Keep your head held high brother! It might feel like the walls are caving in but it really ain’t. Know who you can open up to. We all got your back!

Man, this is heartfelt, with few words i understand you Hector. No matter what, you’re still a great person and father, keep that bond with your child or children. Salute 🫡 at the end it’ll be alright. Keep your head up

We love u LT. You'll be ok and will be happy

I'm sorry you are experiencing this disappointment and loss. Stay close to your kids and be present in their lives on a daily basis (or as close to daily as possible). Keep your chin up!

You’re a great dude Hector!! All cops been there done that!! Keep your head up. In the long run it will all work out!!!

I was given great advice when I was younger. If you look at your decision through your children it's a easier choice when you're making any decisions. As a example, if you wouldn't want your child to make that choice or hang out with certain people then you have your answer. Life throws us some curve balls but there is a reason because our creator has a plan we sometimes we just don't understand it at the time. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Your a good father bro keep your head up show no weakness.keep fighting the good fight. LETS GO WARRIORS.💪

LT, much respect to you sir. I am currently LASD.. my RDOs enjoy things like this.. stay safe brother 💪

LT. Moving show. Beautiful daughter. Right now your emotions are raw. It hurts, it's lifes way; you never know, this might be, further down the road, a better life. All that matters is you standing up as a father, despite what comes, divorces can work out and be a road to a different life with your little girl as #1 priority. I wish you well, love the show and you have helped me see co,'s in a more human way than my [years ago] experiences. I May see you in SD619 one day. From Your 72yo San Diego grandmother with a past. Haha. Blessings Sir!

Stay strong brother. Things happen sometimes that are difficult but it’s part of the human experience and we have to remember to hope that future is a present which will be revealed in good lords time. The best thing you can do is be there for your child and remember that there is nothing wrong with asking for help if that’s needed. Depending on your beliefs preference pray or meditate. I will be praying for you and your family. In difficult times I remember a few verses such as John 3:16 and Psalm 23 from the Bible.