I saw this reel on Instagram and then I searched it on RU-vid and was numb for a while. Firstly I want to thank you guys for bringing such real life stories and spreading awareness among people and secondly hats off to this woman. This lady has such a positive aura, she stayed strong throughout which was commendable . I literally can't stop my tears ...... I wish this lady all the best for her future endeavours and sending lots of love and blessings to her son ❤️
This whole podcast is not fake I’ve watched vinita going through all of the stuff she is my childhood school friend and she is very very strong for this we all should take a stand for something goood ❤️
This podcast has left thousands of us speechless. It was a whole rollercoaster ride and alot of things were hard to digest and even more difficult to understand one's mindset. This shows how a single person could destroy so many lives just because of their own trauma. This girl has shown such a bravery throughout her journey that one could've never and would've given up easily. Girl much power to you and your child🤍. And i hope you never come across that inhuman person ever in your life.
Throughout the whole podcast I was just figuring out "HOW??" ...Like tf man how can something like happens and this lady she's just insanely strong...I just wish her a good and happy life to her child and her parents..Man Salute to her strength!!!!!!❤️
Didi,17 ki Umar me Intercourse krna(obviously consensual ho hoga) Isme pyar ko jhutha bolna?? Hypocrisy hai! Woh banda hookup sochke aya hoga,aur yeh didi......Khair chodo She is a STRONG WOMEN undoubtedly
@@reine2212 na bhai I meant ki bhai u can't blame a boy who has ur consent while having it. Uske baad usi ko gaali dena,doesn't make sense. Bhai aisa to hai ni ki 17 me sex ke baare nhi pta rehta. But ha baad me Jo Jo family ne Kiya is absolutely unacceptable,uske liye gaali koi galat ni.
@@alltimefire545 you can't say that "you can't blame the boy", the pregnancy part was both of their fault, equally. but that guy is a fcking predator, and it's not a joke
hats of to you guys for making this prodcast face to face in person with that girl! And she’s so strong!Truly an inspiration for all the young girls and everyone watching this! salute to you🫶🏻
@@ramt6102 well I think what she did at that age was really stupid but a lot of teenagers don't think before doing all this she was wrong I'm not defending her infact no one should such things at that age, but the way she managed everything is commendable thou she has gone through a lot because of her fault obviously but managing a kid,her studies,work,household chores,a dumbass grown man, while being cheated on. It's not easy.
Well we all Make mistakes but to own them and take responsibility change. Face it needs courage I also had problems but listening to her story I am like my life's going good. Salute To you mam May God bless you with everything you want.
I was crying over my studies and thinking im not in a good state seeing all other going up successful in life and thinking my problem is the biggest and why im suffering so muchh and suddenly this video came in yt recommendation and you made me realise that problem is to not to suffer but to find solution if possible and be happy with no regrets, there will be many people who still might think that you were a bad person getting pregnant at the age 17 but the realisation you have made till now and shared it with us believe me my point of view have changed and be strong there are still many people who got some life lessons by you!
she has a lot of patient, whatever the incident happened afterthat we saw that she is a soul of positives, has a smiling face🥺❤️🩹...if i put myself in the case I will be break down for sure..💔.. One thing I would like to say that..God gave her this much of strength and I would Lifting her up in prayer and hoping she has a better days afterwards 🙏
Watching it at 3:41 am ,I am feeling so sorry for her. I wish I could help her 🥺 she faced alot!! Vinita ended up with a smile after all this , really very brave ♥️
Bro this was the most genuine podcast I've seen till date... Need 2nd part too.. You guys are doing a great job And this girl gives us so much strength Lots of love and blessings to her❤
Need part 2... Salute to this amazing hero sitting here.. i got goosebumps while watching.... Nowadays most of the people having small prblm nd making it big... But this is what problem and she face so bravely.. i admire her for this... Thanks for there and encouraging us... And shoutout to the boys over here for bringing amazing heros ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I m totally numb after hearing this. More power and strength to her. Being a girl, I can understand how things could have been for her. I cant offer big things but this is an appreciation to you people for bringing this story to us.
Hats off to her. I got goosebumps & cried throughout watching this podcast. And every girl needs to watch this for awareness. All the love, happiness, success & mental peace to you mam✨ Also want Part 2
@@debosmita7 Why would I joke? Whatever I have said is perfectly correct and scientific. Women become fully developed adults at menarche(1st period-10-11 yrs), completely fit for reproduction. Only boys are children till 25 yrs. No doubt a male and female of same age can never be equal biologically. The woman here, should be severely punished for having sex with a small child(same age boy or a boy just 2 yrs older). She should have had sex with some guy 10-12 yrs older than her and should have had kids with him, which is ideal.
Hats off to her.. For not giving up.. This was a traumatising but an inspiring story ♥️ Please do shoot part 2. Want to know more because every incident has something to teach .. I hope she gets the support she needs
Hi Vinita, if you read this message. I wanna say you are really brave to share your story on a public forum. As a wellwisher, my request is to mend your relationship with your parents. Whatever time you've lost is gone and but by avoiding your father you both are only losing time. He taught you being strong, its your time to show him that you're strong. He will always be your strength even in his weakest phase. I hope you find peace in your life. Also, Dear Hosts of @kissey, its understandable that its a lot to hear such heavy stuff and you want to react. But, it breaks the rhythm of the conversation. The timeline is broken due to incessant interruption. The verbal anger/ abuse should be refrained the most as this podcast could be a deal breaker between parents and children. They can watch this together and learn a lot about how the world is changing and how can parents protect their children from manipulation and emotional torture from outsiders. Whom to trust, how to say No, setting right boundaries, and keeping communication open are most important talks between parents & children and the need of the hour. Hosts are requested to avoid to put personal opinion or examples like Captain America/philosophy etc. It should be shared at the end. Call out everything wrong but in a respectful manner. I personally didn't appreciate you cursing. I understand the sentiments but felt you are better than this. Your audience can be from young ones to old ones, therefore, please be careful with that. You're doing good work, you are quite young as well therefore learn and speak with maturity that sets great examples for your audience. I hope you'll take the constructive criticism in good spirit.
As u felt your mother didn't come to know u r pregnant, because any mother never think her 16 or 17 year old will be pregnant, in fact some children's boy or girl at this age put on wait as they like junk food more and only after 20 or less they feel to be conscious about there shape or stomach, and u only mentioned in the story that upto 5 months there is no big belly, for her u r little teenage girl enjoying junk food without body shape or figure, always take it positively May your daughter who will next generation blame for her birth, u can't explain it to old generation or younger one, always there will be generation gap, this is opinion, may it is wrong But one thing I will appreciate that u r brave girl and u tried come out of it your own, very strong girl and really every body can learn from u a lot positivity, hard work, bravery
This is very traumatizing in every possible sense. Hatts off to this girl who stood strong throughout this nerve wrecking journey also special mention to @kissey for addressing these kind off stories and providing a platform where ppl can speak their heartout keep going guys!
Her whole family suffered without uttering a single word to her🙂and everything is fine but if your partner is cheating that doesn’t mean that you will too🙂
She was not cheating him. She tried to teach him lesson and while doing this, she fell for that guy, for his care and attention that was actually a trap and she has no idea about it. That guy plotted everything for infamy or slander. Don't be so judgy to everything, use your own brain.
@@nandinikukde105 I can see that very well I am not judging her what’s the point is that she knows she has a kid and still can be so careless to get recorded on videocalls and let the guy records the intimate scenes so keep your judgement to you.
I'm not getting why ppl are actually supporting her and showing sympathy in the comments bro like at this age i get that someone is not that mature but they are not even that dumb that they don't understand a difference between what is to be done at the right time and what not. Watching characters on Netflix have made ppl so much mad about all these things that they thing ppl at their age are okay to not prioritize their studies. This is not okay
Plzz don't say such things just because you can do that and just bcz you were lucky enough to have observation power and people around you who made decisive enough to do that.... There are people who are completely unaware in such situations... Yes they know it's all wrong but they have no idea how to get out of it and there is no one to stand behind their back... Understand everyone is not like you, people are different and their emotional maturity is different irrespective of their physical age 🙏
@@That_misfit nowadays ppl are educated enough about such things and if they aren't then it's high time they get knowledge about such things... But things like this are to be taken lesson from and to not be followed by anyone who isn't aware about all the consequences
I actually agree with you..she acted stupid during her early ages, if she valued herself,parents and career it wouldn't have happened... But it's okay, it was her destiny...and we can't judge any person..
True , yess appreciate the way she stood strong , but all that bitching about his mom was wrong on multiple levels. His mom was forced into a marriage which wasn't her choice. Not everyone goes against parents , breaking barriers for love , yes sometimes a person does feel the need of love , didnt she do all the mistakes for that one factor that is love?, also we never know how his must be treated at home which made her cheat
She is very strong❤ I hope she achieve whatever she wants in her life and wishes her and her son a good and healthy life. She deserves everything in this cruel world. She is such a pure soul ❤. I would like to meet her in real to appreciate her . And most importantly she is beautiful by heart . And thanks s to you guys who are introducing us to this kinda story . Please bring episode 2 as soon as you can.! We are waiting.............!
This girl is soo soo strong really i have not seen any girl this strong much much power and strength to you and your baby....i really hope you get the respect the justice you deserve....need a part-2 for sure♥️
We want part 2,a huge salute and great respect for you mam sharing your problems to us teens is a greatest thing you have done we need more people like you who can share their experience boldly so we can learn something. Respect for you mam and the whole team of kissey to bring out such a real story to us.
Second part needed, you both are doing great job by connecting us to these stories, she's a very strong person and an inspiration to many people, hope her story inspires others to go on right path 💯
Oh my god i salute her for the way she stayed strong in her toughest times suffering all alone and yet she has overcome that .........may god ease all her sufferings....she deserves lot more in her life 😢... may god give her strength...and may that guy whoever he is pay for the sins he did in the wort way possible for ruining her life .... I'm 19 now n i could literally feel all that she's been through.....
I love how strong she is! Kudos to you guys as well,that you guys are doing a great job in spreading awarness like this. Vinita needs to be heard so requesting for part 2. Just wondering ki kitne tarah ki log hain is duniya mein!
She is so strong , Her story has shaken me from inside, I was getting goosebumps sometimes while watching it and she has faced it the whole by herself 🙌 like I am also 17 , at this age the things from which she has gone through is so horrible and unexpected 😰 Please make a part 2 . I really wanna know more
I myself being a girl of 19 i would contradict a lot of her statements..and at the end what parents say is the truth even if parents are not that frank and all but they never provoke their kids to have a romantic relationship from such an young age..people be rebellious and then have to pay the price its too simple to comprehend
@kurosaki_ichiGOAT whaa? when did i say anything about explore? and you see how her story is not only about getting pregnant but also being cheated on and having to get married to a predator?? she would've had a much better life if she weren't indian
@@reine2212I disagree. she wouldn't have had a much better life if she weren't an Indian. teen parents suffer and go thru a lot no matter which country. The only thing that could've been better was that in other countries, there is sex ed so sheight have got some knowledge from there. But apart from that, nothing could've been easier for her. It's a sad reality 😢
@@daidipyaa i'm not talking about the pregnancy, if she were in a different country which is not patriarchial like ours, she wouldn't have had to marry that predator for "izzat" and gone through years of trauma coz of that
Such a strong woman you are ❤ And thanks kissey for bring this story in front of everyone I saw this video after watching your reel on Instagram It's really inspiring
The strongest woman i hv seenn!!! girl you have gone through so much and now i feel u deserve world ❤❤ Hats off to you vinita raul ✨ Part 2 is needed !!!
You guys at some point I don't trust her story completely ,she said her parents were not loving then she said my father was there for me always never blamed me. Parents were very supportive from my point of view nobody was blaming her but she was blaming her own parents that they never showed love and all... She used to give her mother hugs every night before sleeping n still blaming mother for not knowing she is pregnant , bro is she serious ?? How can her mother expect that her 17 year girl who is preparing for Neet is pregnant. And I don't agree with the point where she said every girl has tendency to fall in love with a bad guy . No not every girl like bad toxic guy in their life stop putting other girls . She seems kind fake to some point i respect her for what she has been through and how she came out as a strong women .
Exactly, there are many inconsistencies in her story. First she said, her parents never communicated and that her father told her so many good things and would always encourage her to do her best but there was no communication?????? Also another inconsistency is she said she had a dubba phone and then again she said she had whatsapp on her phone?? Do we have whatsapp in dubba phone?? Please someone enlighten me.
@@nishagupta63 She may not be lying but there are some inconsistencies in her stories. It's sad whatever happened to her and she didn't deserve it. It's the lack of judgement and maturity from both parties.
The moral of the story is this girl first of all betrayed her parents trust.she said that her father always worked hard ..kbhi Kisi chiz k liye mana nhi Kiya..paise se bahar khane pine se..they trusted her n this foolish girl fall for a useless guy only in the name of true love..she thought a guy would love more than her parents..she cheated her parents
Firstly wanted 2nd part .. Secondly... Salute to her , this is some skill of controlling the emotions. She smiled and told the whole story .. great ... I'm just speechless. Can't say a word for this.
You guys are doing a great job and definitely we need part 2 ... Vinita you are so strong, confident and so inspirational to a lot of people who are going through this .. Superwoman ❤️ Hats off to you
@@Kissseyro I'm a software engineer with 60 K salary 24 age with 0 girlfriends my whole life and I'm average looking guy .how can a jobless guy at 17 getting girl'sss😢😭? ....
I have shared this video with all my siblings also my younger sisters and brother to get some precaution in there teenage..hats off to vinita ji to come forward and express this reality
Listening to her is so motivating all that she's been through and the way she is talking about all of it and coping so we'll raising her kid is just so powerful of her for sure this should be heard by every other person out their either it be a girl or a boy or any parent to understand about mental health is a need as well in today's world.Vinita you are a great inspiration for each and everyone ❤
Dear kissey team, i personally learnt allot of things in this 1hour 36min video thankyou so much for these videos and to the girl also....❤ we are surely waiting for the part 2 also
I'm really cried right after watching this bcoz of some point i can relate her nd the she pain faced is very scary thing bt I'm very proud of her that she overcome that situation hat's off sis......nd more power to uh....❤
I'm 17, gave my 12th boards, it gave me ghosbumps when I saw this reel on instagram, aaj ke generation ke ladke sachmein aise hai, aisa bhot hora hai, aur mere age ke ladkiyon ne yeh sab chezo se safe rehna boht jaruri hai, thankyou for awaring us!
I am seriously crying after what she told...... Someday... I want to seriously meet her❤.... She is very strong.. Stay strong and happy.... Lots of love....
She went so much more. God bless her❤. Someone might be suffering with the same situation or story and I hope this video reaches to her so that she also could be strong like her.❤❤
This episode is dil dehelane wala 😭 All the best wishes to the strong woman and mother to the great years ahead ✨❤️ surely in need of part 2 if she wants to 🤧 THANK YOU SO MUCH for sharing, this can aware all the girls out thankyou @vinita may God bless you with good health and wealth 💌
This woman she is so strong and inspiring. I got goosebumps through the whole video. I have never watched or listened so carefully to a video about this long. But I did I watched the whole video. We definitely need a 2nd part!
This is only the one story there may be many more Hats of to you woman how did you handled it really means so much yrr it’s not that easy how can you handle it yrr we find our chillar problem too much and yours is so big really hats of to you love you Ma’am ❤️❤️
'She didn't get to know that I was pregnant' Girl that's because she never in her dreams expected that her daughter would get pregnant at the age of 17. Moreover she might be having so many problems or thoughts going on in her mind already. How can she think about it?
Agreed! Not in her wildest dream she might have thought about that! How can she say about mental health? Getting pregnant at 17 n blaming parents for nit understanding! She should consider herself lucky for having supporting parents
@@surabhi5677frr like why is she blaming her parents for her own bad choices? The last thing to expect something from your child is being pregnant at 17💀
@@surabhi5677 every parents should ... it's not blaming parents but the bond between parent and child relationship which makes a difference with open communication understanding and knowledge of mental health.. Her mom should have taught her 👍about consent good touch bad touch and sex education same it's not only the responsibility of a parents or a kid but a school as well we failed as a society if a child is getting abused like this Or even in that matter of fact if a child is abusing themselves or commiting any crime that means society is failing to give them right knowledge at time and to understand them as well.. There should be no reason to supression your emotions so that no child will commit a crime and also no child would become a victim... It's still very much responsibility of the society teachers as well as parents 👍
We need part 2..she is so brave and strong..a special thankyou to channel' kissey' for uploading such videos which are very helpful for girls/womens to be aware 👍😊
That's why i am single at age of 16 years but i love to spend my time alone by watching bts and kdrama or cdrama and studying to be a doctor i made a decision for myself i will stay single until i think this boy is good for me But this girl is so courage full i support you Thank you to this guys fir giving me such a motivational video
Same I am also fan of 💜ᗷTS⟭⟬💜 and k drama I don't wanna get in relationship and i don't believe in love Try elove doesn't exist My age is also 16 Only radha krishna❤ Shiv parvati 🕉🕉🕉 Love Divine
This video is a awareness video for all the young girls out there YOU ALL CAN TAKE A LESSON FROM THIS VIDEO AND PLEASE DON'T DO ANYTHING LIKE THIS WHICH MAY MAKE YOUR PARENTS SUFFER. YOUR MOTHER FATHER IS THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN LOVE YOU TRULY UNCONDITIONALLY NOONE CAN GIVE YOU THAT LOVE DONT CHOOSE ANYTHING OVER YOUR PARENTS AND DONT DO ANYTHING STUPID WHICH CAN MAKE YOUR LIFE A HELL. KNOW YOUR LIMITS KNOW YOUR VALUE AND WORTH GIRLS FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE GAIN SOME KNOWLEDGE. 🚩🙏 Focus on your life not on boys in this tenage you should be careful..
33:14, Nope not all girls are fools 😶 I mean she was preparing for neet and she doesn't know about such stuff..? And blaming her parents for age gap..? Not being so rude but just curious that how is she saying we didn't know about s*x at such age herself being a neet aspirant like seriously😶. I am not denying the fact that she suffered a lot, more power to you❤ but these were few common questions arised in my mind.(plz don't come and fight in the comment section, I am not hating her.)
Agree yaaar. She even said it's a girl's tendency to fall for such guys. I mean why to say that? Not all girls fall for bad boys. Some are sensible enough. Having said that, she has suffered and no doubt about it.
i can't even imagine how she is so strong,and she is telling everything so calmly. I can see that she has become numb to the pain,she is so strong damn
Omg! Literally got tears throughout the whole podcast. I can’t even imagine any girl would have faced this ever what she has gone through. Like hat’s off❤️ More power to you.✨
She is a superwomen yrr hat's off to her how she handle such situation in such time it was brilliant and a huge respect to you mam eagerly waiting for part 2
Seriously first of all how strong she is she don't even break down once I listen her without a single skip and damn her smile hides so much of pain.. We definitely need second part...
She did wrong and she got her karma. Mere maa baap ne ache sanskar de rkahe hai i ma very religious. Aur hume s*x shadi ke baad karna chiye. This generation is ruined I am 16 year old
@@MagicalDivine-o2i usko khud to pta hona chahiye dharam k bare m ho skta h usse bad m pta chle phir??? Iss generation ki responsibility bhi kha lete h log
@@MagicalDivine-o2iehen tumhe tumhare maa bap n btaya h you r very lucky sab ko itni privilege na milti h na aisee situation milti h tumhe milti tum bhi same hi gltiya krti but since tum lucky ho tumhe aware kr diya parents n tumhare ander samjh aa chuki h tumhare parents n pehle hi aware kr dia sab ke parents ni krte h na sab ldkiyo m akal hoti h ya maturity hoti h na hi sab lkdiya dimag use krti h dil bhi use krti h
@@theselflessenergy5065 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣mujhe maa baap ne ni bataya call it as a gift from God but mujhe ye sab Pata ni kaise pata hai idk sab log bolte hai i am very wise from childhood
@@MagicalDivine-o2i ha dil use ni krti na tum zyada dimag use krti ho or dil use krne walo ka or gullible or naive ka jo har kisi p bhrosa kr lete h unka abuse hota h y bat sab bacho ko ni pta hoti na ki dil ni dimag use krna cahiye insan ko parakhne k bad bhrosa krna cahiye
Life me aisi almost same meresath bhi huaa thaa like lockdown me i was so depressed like 2 years was so difficult for me to handle this but jab 2021 ke ending me like december me i decided to move on that time usko pata chala i will leave him he came back to me..he apolozise,he has regrets and now i gave him a chance to prove himself amd he did .. and we are happily living our relation... Thank u for this podcaste i love that she is so strong ... I love her ❤️❤️❤️
