Getting To Know Him On A Deeper Level - Gdansk 

MJ it always happened, the separation anxiety but you have to accept the reality of a long distance relationship, enjoy while you two are making good memories together.❤️❤️❤️

I love your level of maturity in this relationship. You seem to be taking it one day at a time, enjoying your time together but realizing the challenges involved with taking it to the next level. In real time, you’ve spent the equivalent of maybe three months together. You still have a lot to learn about each other. Wishing you two the best!

I don't think Robbie likes you A LOT. He might like you but not A LOT. If you know what I mean. I also dated a foreign guy, now married to him, and we were doing LDR as well and so everytime I visit him or he visits me we always maxed out the days in our tourist visas. He works too so I just stayed home waiting for him, stroll around. The important thing is he sees me when he gets home from work and we spend more time. Good thing I'm also working remotely so it worked out really well for us. I also never got the feeling of guilt from him whenever I get separation anxiety. I cried a lot in the airport too even days before that as well but never got the negative feeling of guilt or him making me feel bad about being emotional. He actually likes it cause it meant I really love him and enjoyed our time together. I don't know Meljean. Robbie doesn't look too in love with you. I tried letting my husband look at your vlogs as well and he said Robbie's a little too nonchalant borderline towards not caring. He pointed out how he doesn't cater to your slight needs like when you say you're cold or when you alluded to wanting to move there. It's hard to explain but don't rush it. Also, starting over again is okay. I stayed single for 2 years and focused on the Lord before I met my husband. I knew he was the one because everything just falls into place without us putting too much effort. It just works, really. There was a lot of peace. I was treated like a queen lol. Super gentleman in actions and in words. Man of God too. Anyway, praying for you! Make space for your THE ONE. If you get too distracted with this relationship, you will not make space for that guy who will truly love you. Do not drag this out too much and letting this relationship drag even longer for more years. This dude is not IN LOVE with you. The most masculine guy will still be cuddly and sweet with his woman if he truly loves him.

NOSTALGIA always comes before parting: Read “IF” by Rudyard Kipling … and you will be so proud of your accomplishments. Think of your growth as a person. Some questions: Did you offer help in some household chores there? Did you do your part of offering expenses?

Thanks Mj, for sharing some of your experiences from this trip. As an American, the views of this European country and culture have been a different experience for me too. I've observed that your Polish language has been developing well. When the desire is there, it comes easier in any language I think. Your command of the English language has been growing too, over time. Gdansk did seem to have unique vibe, as you said, with all the beautiful boats and waterways and old world architecture. I love you in that elegant sweater--a souvenir from Krakov! I'm glad that you and Robbie had a wonderful time together.

He is not ready yet… it’s new relationship… a must know each other first in long term… it looks like he is thinking. What is nice …he invited you back to his birth place to know his families and cultures. That is a very precious moment to remember. While you were there you should have also contribute your share of responsibility. Not just being a guest and gf… in my opinion. So that … him and his Mom can get to know you more in short time you were there. Good luck … best wishes🍀🙏👍✌️🤞I do not think he will stay in the Philippines for long term. Poland is so clean vibrant full of history… weather wise he used to it … he will not take tropical climate 24/7 all year round… in my opinion as well🍀🙏✌️🤞👍

I don’t know . There’s some kind of awkwardness when they talk to each other . She keeps calling him Honey and he’s feeling very uneasy . Very different people . He’s just being hospitable . Better not put your hopes too high .

Thank u for sharing the beauty of Poland.It’s indeed one of the best countries in Europe

Wow, did you see the way his eyes went up when she said she wants to move there, it seems he’s not that into it. MJ be you and travel, stop looking to this man for approval. ,

Worries of tomorrow, take away from the happiness today.

MJ talks about her separation anxiety as if it's something new to her. She wants LDR and am sure she knows how her life will be, unless she looks for her local PH guys and forget the foreigners maybe she'll live happily ever after but she always said she's clingy which is also her problem. Only MJ could solve her wants/needs.

Be brave..Tell him you will miss him, but empower him to make the next step. ( just by being Mel Jean.).a special soul !!!! Please dont cry. It will let him down. Dont be childish. No way be sad..let him see how glad and thankful you are having him in your life. Everything will become okay. God bless you.

in life you choose a path, you cannot be in 2 places at the same time.

All things are temporary.. Enjoy the rest of your time with Robbie, MJ ❤

In my experience, seperation anxiety when you are about to leave your LDR partner just makes thinks bad and robs away from the now and the joy in what you have now. One day at a time. Get to know each other more and I say plan your next trip/meet up together. As you have said, you never know tomorrow brings. So enjoy it while you are there. Leave with good memories. Have something to look forward to again. I wish you and Robbie the best in the future!

Are you serious...he is proving repeatedly that he's a self centered person who constantly trolls you...and you are obviously trying waaaaay to hard to pretend there is more there. "I love how he takes care of me"...honestly... he's feeding you cuz your his guest!! OMG

The beauty of Poland, never cease to amaze you 💕

Parang walang love affection si Robbie kay Mj. 😢

Been to Gdańsk many years ago. It was one of the stops of our Scandinavian cruise. Poland has many beautiful sites. Thanks for showing us those that grandma has not been to. Like their amber stones. I also collect magnets of places we’ve traveled to. Careful with alcohol (can cause liver damage). Love the beautiful flowers in the garden. Hope you had offered to cook or do some of the chores at Robbie’s place. I would feel uncomfortable not helping or just allowing my host to do most of the chores. If the mom is around, she is observing you whether you are masipag or not. In our country, we have help that make life easier for us. Hope your relationship has a happy ending. 🙏🙏🙏

MJ, don't worry too much, enjoy while u a there with Robbie......

M.J don`t worry to much magkikita pa naman kayo ulit, pero wag mo pakita sa kanya nga bad mood ka, kasi ayaw mga European ang ganyan lalo na pag hindi mo sila kausapin nga walang dahilan, Try mo maging masaya kahit paalis kana. Good luck to both of you God bless.

1. Dont rush this relationship, take it at your own comfortable pace. 2. LDR means it will be tough at times but if it is meant to succeed then it will. 3. You both have to be realistic in that one or both of you will have to move. Can you work anywhere? Can he work anywhere? Be realistic and fair to eachother. 4. Enjoy life!

I can say ice cream really plays agreat role when it comes to moods Mj😊. Mood changer that is. Well, that is normal, I myself experience that too..mood swings, maybe. But I’m glad that mood swing didn’t last for long😂. At the beginning of the video you seem so sad, but that ice cream put back the smile in your face and eyes again. That is normal Ms Mj, that proves your authenticity and we, your fans, love you for that! Enjoy the remaining days left you are there with your sweetheart. Wish you all the happiness❤❤❤❤

MJ please dont let your seperation anxiety drive Robbie far from you. If you are secure in your love you should not be having any anxiety at all. All will happen in the right time.

From what I observe watching all your vids with Robbie in Poland. You guys are compatible in some ways, and because of age and level of maturity, love is just not enough. You are a princess, and Robbie is a builder, farmer, organizer etc, Robbie is a busy person, whilst MJ loves chilling, driving, eating out, roaming in cities, helping her community with foods and monetary. She and that Singaporean rich guy probably have compatibility when it comes to classy outlook which MJ portrays. Robbie, with his age, i think he realizes that his most priority is his family, second is Timmot and last is MJ.. both spent 15days together and Robbie showed his life with MJ. Now MJ you should be the one adjusting when you come to Poland again. You should help him in building, cut those fancy nails and go farming with him, cleaning and cooking foods. MJ should show and let Robbie’s family eat Filipino foods that you cook..

MJ I know you said the food is great but I see the expression on your face when you tried that 3 day dish. It cracks me up😂. But brownie points to you for going without rice for that long. On a different subject, I'm not sure if that beautiful message at the end was a way of saying you guys broke up or just sadness because of immigration issues. Either way, let me just say you're a very pretty, smart girl with a successful channel and many viewers who adore you. Just some advice and observations. You don't have to take the advice. Concentrate on growing your channel. You're good at putting out great content that everyone is interested in. The more you grow the better for you. If a guy happens to come along, great. But let him work for your hand and be up front with him in the beginning if you like him. If you're not on the same page about your future, say sayonara. Also try not to date subscribers. If you find someone maybe you should keep him under wraps. We don't need to know him. Your channel is still great. With Robbie he probably is scared with all the marriage and baby comments. And the nosy ones about his job and his house. It's an Airbnb guys😂. You're a pretty put together young lady, you'll be fine. ❤ Take care.

Hi Mj & Robie. Always excited to see your blog. Just enjoy your remaining time together.

😔😔 Oh Dear MJ!! I can only imagine the sadness you are feeling. However, you have to remain positive ALWAYS. Remember… we shape our own moods. Rather than think of it as “I’m leaving” think of it as “I’m leaving with a loving smile after spending a few good days with the love of my life”. All for you 2 to do it again ☺️ it adds excitement to the relationship . We have to accept situations as it is. Just until either of you are able to make a distant change ❤you don’t want to run Robbie away. You 2 are perfect for each other. You have mature a little love!!! Make Plans for future trips right away so it will give you both something to look forward to. It’s like looking at the glass Half Full… rather than Half Empty. Balance yourself MJ ❤❤❤😌

MJ is very Filipino and Robbie very Polish. Both come across as genuinely sympathetic and really good people. But neither can I imagine MJ living in cold Poland, nor Robbie living in a Visayan barrio. And herein lies the dilemma (or maybe drama). Robbie would be a perfect match in many ways: He is very down to earth, authentic and mature, qualities which MJ may still want to develope a bit. Likewise, it seems that Robbie (unlike his predecessor) can see and appreciate the deeper qualities of MJ. The more authentic and mature she becomes, the more these qualities will manifest. She IS a beautiful woman, inside and out. Having said that, MJ now comes across less OA and more authentic than before. After much hardship (break up, house building/repairing, father's health problems, separation) she definitely has matured. (In due time she will also get rid of antics like "Tada!" and "Beautiful People!"..) Also, her vlogging skills (story telling, camera, editing and sound) have improved. I wish her - actually them! - the best of luck!

I feel u MJ. I know the feeling of ldr, its very hard, u both have patience & trust in a relationship. U did your part well, u went there alone just to be with Robbie, so it's up to Robbie if he level up your relationship. Put a smile on your face, go back to your family & let God works on your relationship, just trust HIM. If u are meant to be, u are meant to be. Have a safe travel , MJ! 🙏 God bless 🙏

Robbie is assessing and reassessing whether or not her personality and preferences will fit into his lifestyle and goals.

For a Filipina to live in a small town in Poland is a muuuuch larger and more difficult step than for a Pinay to move to the US. Just think of language, culture and (in most cases) climate. There are not millions of Filipinos living in Poland. You're pretty much out there in the cold. Secondly, MJ would have to sacrifice a looot to move to Poland. Not just a cosy life in the midst of her family (which would be hard enough). She also has built a beautiful home of her own which is pretty much at the center of her life. Besides, she would have to give up her vlogging-career which she built up diligently and with quite some success - which gives her independence and satifsaction. So far, her channel is of interest to Pinoys AND Non-Pinoys. That would certainly be no longer the case if she lived in Poland. Winters are long in Poland and the language is difficult to learn. She would be socially uprooted and totally dependent. A very big, difficult and costly step, a step which, in my opinion, should only made after first having spent some winter months in Poland.

This vlog is the BEST in terms of discussion in the diversity of opinions. No bashings, just different POVs. There’s a lot of lessons to be learned but I always say this … KNOW THYSELF … the rest will follow!

Thank you for sharing this part of your life. Take it easy, and be safe going back home.

Robbie don’t like the baby talk of Mj😂

Additionally, when you made a remark “oh I wanna move here” he didn’t respond with “ would you?” Big hint! Has he ever been married? How old is he? He may just want to have a friend… unfortunately I may be correct.

When they were eating breakfast it seems so awkward …..

My wife is one of ur subscribers she loves ur channel 😊but watching one of ur vlogs when you said I would love to live here I was so shocked on the expression of ur partners face I’m so sorry that I spoke up and said take care safe journey home 🙏🙏

I smell something.. i hope its not what i think..i hope you two are in good shape.

Robbie soo handsome Mj its hard to part with this special Polish man

The dog is so cute...MJ , i am LDR too for 6 years... sometime you have wonder if it works and now i am married with my husband 33 years. Just trust the process and dont force anything. Pray to God that both of you will patients and consideration. That God will give you the eyes to see , the heart to believe. Without God in the middle of relationship it work. Keep on praying and ask God if Robbie is the man for you and He will let you know. God bless you and Robbie. Be safe coming back home.

Separation Anxiety............so many of us have experienced this and can only let you know that we understand. LDR's especially those from such different cultures and distance have a difficult time surviving. There needs to be that close connection for love to grow and LDR's just can't provide that. The visuals on her channel regarding this relationship brings much to the table. Reality.........there is a connection, but not leaning towards a permanent connection.

Gdańsk and Malbork Castle are beautiful and built on an epic scale. This has been such a wonderful trip MJ, its only natural that you will miss Robby when you both return to an LDR but you will always have the memories to look back on and can continue to videocall eachother as often as your schedules allow. You managed before and you will again until a more long term solution happens.

Secret to getting over and coming to terms with separation, cry and cry with each other until you stop. Roll in the emotion of grief for a time then it's easier to deal with later, won't hurt so bad

MJ, remember the privilege of at least given a chance to travel and once again see Robbie and have a great experience and memories to look back... Be grateful for that amazing opportunity to see more about the country were Robbie 's came from... Cherished everything that great moments... Don' t imbibe negative thoughts or feelings... Just enjoy every time of the day and stop the feelings of being anxious... Just hold on... If it's meant to be... It will happen... Again, in "God's" perfect timing... Always keep focus on the bright, best side of life possible... It's a matter of choice... It's already to personal to pre-empt/meddle to whatever level of relationships you & Robbie have... You and Robbie are the only one knows about the kind of level your relationships you have... Don't be too hard to Robbie... if ever your not in the mood too share your feelings or what's bothering you... Of course, his wondering too what might be the reason of sudden change of your actions... Be aware also of the feelings of that fellow too... Just saying... LDR relationships are not that easy B'couz Alot of sacrifices for both parties... But, if both of you are secured as individuals... No amount of hindrances can ruined a stable relationships and a good mindset... And if "God" is in the center of every relationship... Nothing is impossible... As to be Possible truthfully, Pure, Sincere... Ciao! ❣️

Poland is such a beautiful country. I like wat I see. 👍🙏😍

Such an interesting place🎉 Well preserved majestic architecture!

Omg please take care Robbie it’s difficult to find a really gentleman and respectful responsible and caring he has everything that a woman loves to have a partner in life he is a very family man congratulations and take care of him ❤

You two love each other very much, don't worry about leaving poland 🇵🇱, you will be back together soon, remember love conquers all, May God bless your love ❤

After almost a year together, I was surprise that marriage and starting a family was not mentioned. Your both in your thirties so time is a ticking.

Important question MJ! Our neighbor's 19 year old daughter was struck by a vehicle yesterday while waiting for a multicab to her University in Cebu City. The driver was using his cell phone and not paying attention, he drifted off the roadway and hit her. She fractured her arm, cheek and nose. I'm going to pay her medical bills and would like the name of the reconstructive facial plastic surgeon that performed your rhinoplasty procedure, so I can confer with him/her regarding reconstructing her nose. Thank you in advance. My sincere appreciation.

Mj you were not having separation anxiety but PMS...... even Robbie knew it 😅

Been there and Dili gyud lalim😢😢😢 sending hugs day❤️❤️❤️ pohon

LDR, Mj you will learn day to day your strong person you can do it we know you're happy with Robbie we will wait the right day ring the bell and walked in the middle of the isle May God Blessed

I think Polish people are private and into present people. I mean they want to live their lives at this moment so being a vlogger for MJ to Ruby is a big adjustment including culture and beliefs. Cheer up MJ everything will be okay🤍♥️

Touring Poland 🇵🇱 through M & R lens thank you ❤

You always look gorgeous, but when you wear a ponytail... WOW!

If Robbie truly has intention of taking this relationship to higher level, he would know by now. If I were you, I would enjoy it while you’re with him but don’t harbor over whether he is going to propose marriage and when. Just live your life and enjoy every moment as an experience. God will lead you the way .

Mj seems so sad after 17days vacay.Are you guys got engaged?Robbie is a way different compared before when he was in Cebu.Hope I was wrong,but I observed him not really into Mj now. But we dont know what tmr brings for them. Goodluck Mj and cheer up😊

You know you have separation anxiety, then don't go there anymore, or don't be in a ldr.

Piękna historia z dodatkiem egzotyki jaki wnośi MJ , niech ta opowieść trwa i niech zakończy się szczęśliwie bo tyle romantyzmu jaki wnosicie to nawet w najlepszych filmach nie uświadczysz .

Thank you for showing the beauty of Poland. I find it interesting how so many people are leaving negative comments about whether you could continue in a long distance relationship. As you said, you are only showing us small snippets of your days. I for one think that if the love and commitment is there, any relationship can work. Stay strong and you will make it thru.

Does Robbie talks to you about planning of getting married? Or does he propose marriage to you already or not? Because maybe he has no plans of settling down and wants to be bachelor forever, and he just wants to have girlfriend like you and after that he will remain single for the rest of his life. I think you should open up to him about this topic so that you'll know his future plans and for you not to regret or feel hopeless waiting for his actions to marry you and start a family life together as husband and wife either you'll live both in Philippines or in Poland.

MJ I really understand your feeling, its being human in your feelings. Anybody that's been there will surely understand. Try keep it together for the last days, its difficult but try. Love your realness. Love you from Cape Town ❤❤

you should have gone to sopot, so close from gdansk! ask robbie about it MJ....

I enjoy this vlog of yours MJ for sure❤️❤️

Life is there, live it

Thank you MJ for sharing the Beautiful place there at Poland 🇵🇱 ❤

Maybe you can do a more historical vlog with dates and names to go along with the cities ?? That should occupy some of your thoughts and time traveled. Being homesick is normal.

Woww, that is beautiful and romantic story. Enjoy to the fullest. God bless you and Robie.

I couldnt blame Robbie for frowning upon your being moody for hours. You acknowledged it was bad of you MJ. Such wasted time ☹️ 1:43

❤❤❤ Happy watching here again

Do not worry about tomorrow, let tomorrow worry for itself… each day has enough trouble of its own Mathew 6:34… Just pray everything happens for a reason… if you will be moody and you kept showing actions that he might not like or annoy him then Robbie might think you are a red flag… Of course who would want LDR but that’s the reality and you choose that from the start. So cheers and enjoy the warmth of hello and the sad of goodbyes …

You look great in a pony tail. That way you don't forget with it so much and then your hair doesn't look so oily. It's a bad habit especially to your audience. You're a beautiful lady but you can be annoying with your "TA DA" and hair figiting. Please enjoy your time with him and show me you care ❤️

it seems the girl is chasing the guy crazily, but the guy just tajr it easy .

Watching 2020 movie Mulan. You are loyal, brave and true Meljean but you must not based your destiny on another, but in your self. Because others have their own life stories.

Very nice, positive about life and at the same time very sensible, and also trying to cheer her master up a bit.😄

MJ please ignore some of the comments here. However please try to control your emotions. You lost 6 precious hours that you cannot regain. Whenever you are with Robbie forget the world live love and laugh. For those that say Robbie is not affectionate give it no attention. He holds your hand he looks into your eyes with love i see how he loves and cares for you but he restricts how much he displays it publicly. If he wasn't serious about you he would never pushed for you to join him and his family. Men who are only interested in sex don't take you home to meet momma. Remember that. Be patient and trust God. 🙏🏼 for you and Robbie. ❤

Ang ganda ng house ni Robie

Ang lungkot n Ng aura Ng face mo M j khit pilitin mo mging msaya ramdam n UN lungkot s paghihiwalay nio ni robby😢

From my observation it seems like Robbie is a more serious guy and on the other hand MJ is a more romantic, giggly, emotional person. That honey thing I don't know...lol. He can sound and act crude sometimes but maybe that's his personality. Maybe he is not ready to settle down yet since it's a big move and enjoys a more friendly, casual relationship for now. LDR is not easy we will have to wait and see. It will be very difficult when you leave and go back to living alone again especially after having so much fun together and you guys will be so far apart. It's all part of the game of love. Enjoy every moment whilst together. Love that little dog !

MJ I can teach you everything, move to Gdańsk! 😊❤🎉

Wow, congratulations MJ & Robbie! You now have 148 K viewers!🎉

I feel you mj i have been same situation but life goes on hehe Robie is nice to you while you are there in Poland

Hey Mj. As you walk through the buildings , castle and town, can the underlying sadness of your soon leaving. You would move there Mj? Leave your family? You and Robbie knew. Still learning each other and because of the distance things moving a little slower. Time will tell and you two will decide the future. Robbie’s a good cook of his native foods. You of Filipino foods. As you talk with us it seems Iike you could possibly be willing to live in Poland. Definitely both of you visiting back and forth. Praying for your and his peace 🤗❤️🙏🏼

Wouldn’t it be great if Robbie gave her a ring to lock the relationship. If it is as serious as it seems a commitment would be bad. Hope it works out for the best but that little talk is giving me doubts❤

I know n feeling ate Mj❤ pero ur bless pa din Po kc nkasma mo c Robbie at nkapnta k s knla at nkilala u family nya. Robbie is Good Guy, Sna kau Hanggang s huli. God is Good 🙏🙏🙏

I feel i agree Robbie not shows interested with MJ

I hope that with your short stay in Poland with Robbie, you were able to discern whether both of you will make a happy marriage. From my own experience in my love life, the determination and great love of my late husband to get married made things possible and i am glad i had a beautiful and happy marriage to a man worth remembering for 58 years. Our marriage was just simple, he remained faithful to me and our six children. Di kami mayaman, very ordinary family and i glad i remained faithful to him even after death. Walang namagitan sa amin, sheer faithfulness for each other. I pray God will bless you with the same. Love you Robbie and MJ.

Thank you for sharing to us the beauty of Poland❤enjoy and treasure the moment with him ❤God bless you😇

Ya your right Meljean you should know him more if you both compatible it really hard to say sorry when it's too late or if you really comfortable around him or if you just fair each other😮

Lovely couple and beautiful flowers.

Just enjoy! Seize the moment! Life is too short! Ce la vie, your “time “ will come. If it’s meant it’s going to happen. I had a life that was nothing but frustration but I prayed and stayed strong, one day Prince Charming came and to make the long short . It was a bliss More than I have dreamt . Just be happy.

I feel like I’m watching a movie. Waiting for the next chapter. Best wishes to you both. 🎈🙏👍🌹

Gdansk is definitely the most beautiful city in Poland ❤

You deserved all the best in the world, mj ❤❤❤

MJ.. you are right ! Life is short and enjoy every moment you have.

Beautiful music

Thank you for sharing and I wish you both all the best!God bless always and have a safe trip!

Im so much happy for you now MJ always careful God bless you always Amen