Girl Chat: 'Wife Material' and Calling Moms by Their Names 

I think the traditional definition is the same. However the term is relative per individual. As men grow up not witnessing traditional representation, their idea of "wife" changes -- aesthetics over qualities.

@@janedough6410 that's def not true many men grew up seeing traditional settings and still rather a woman that contributes more than staying home and cooking which is great but doesnt work in our world. Back before the 60s women could be home makers and live off their husbands salary. I'd love to stay home with my kids instead of having them thrown in daycare and I love to cook and was raised to know cleanliness is next to Godliness. BUT we could never survive off my husbands salary and most families couldnt survive off the husbands salary. Most men especially in my generation with a middle wage income that wants children is going to choose a woman that works hard and beings in money as being wifey material hands down. My grandma finds that crazy and has always told us paying half the Bill's isnt for wives it's for roommates but shes from a different generation. That isnt working in ours. Time and time again the couples I see where the woman insists the man takes care of her ends up cheated on and left unless her man is making 6 figures because men rather a woman paying half the Bill's so they can live comfortably, go out and enjoy each other than having no money paying all the Bill's on his income and being stuck home every day off

Possibly too literal. The term "wifey material" in this context are young ladies that possess qualities for an ideal wife. Most guys inquire when they're serious and have their life in order. Finances is not a factor. Young ladies get this title while in school, and it doesn't mean to be a housewife. RE: Grandma - She's right IMO. When you're married tabs shouldn't be "half" because it's combined incomes. One or the other pays. Half is for an acquaintance. Some of us pay full tabs for friends. Your spouse take hierarchy.

it depends on the person like everyone has certain traits and characteristics that suits their life and beliefs

@@janedough6410 ain't nothing wrong with both parties paying the bills and both taking care of the house. My aunt and her husband chose to do that : combine their salaries to pay the bills and stuff and they both cook and clean etc so no one in society should put a standard of what and husband and wife material is like do what you want

Agreed :))

No it isn't because "steven" and "aden" aren't supposed to be satan children they are Yeshua's family. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@antonialovesyou4462 what?

Ikr so do I!

Tamera has been looking great lately.

Tamera is one of those people that could pull off anything, she always looks beautiful

Tamera’s been bringing it lately!

She looks amazing

I've always said " I might've been the one for you, but you weren't it for me". I could've been great for someone else...anybody else, but what I'm looking for...everybody doesn't have. Happily taken now, but my relationships were hard.

VeronicaVeeTV the death glare, I so know that 😂!

@@AahyiSam time STOPS with that glare...and not in a good way! Lol

I've done this with my mom at the store too! Although I've justified it with her and said "you know how many people here can be called mom? I wanted you to know I'm calling YOU" 😂

ginashas 😂

@@ginashas yyyyeeeesssss

Adam is racist and brings out tameras submissive qualities in a bad way

It’s possible that he had the intention. We, as women need to remember that not all men are the same, just like not all women are the same. The purpose of dating is to find someone to marry. It IS possible you’re right but maybe he was actually courting her and thought she was what he wanted. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Just saying...

Or he was in college and wasnt ready to get married at 17 but acknowledged her as more than a play thing you all are super dramatic

orrr cause she was a virgin

BlackGirlLovesAnime6 How is he racist?

Phoenix Rayne 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯💯

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Ruude!! Men have all these standards for women but switch it around and they stay quiet. 😑

Exactly

Right 😂😂😂

So on point👌🏾

@@cecemac988 idk what you are talking about but idc who I'm married to, they better have a source of income cause nowadays, its so expensive to just live. The stereotypical stuff is ridiculous like fixing a car, opening the door, paying for dates, etc. However, I think the reason why having a job and paying the bills is a lot of women's standards is because sometimes their income is not enough to support both people. (and that's without kids) So i don't think wanting the person to have a job is a bad thing. (as long as you aren't being hypocritical and wanting them to pay for you the rest of your life)

Grace S all I’m saying is that women are always saying “a man needs to do this” or “it’s a mans job to do that” But when a man says “a woman needs to do this” or “it’s a woman’s job to do that” they get mad and say that’s sexist.

@@cecemac988 Nobody says its a man's job to do this. They say, I would like a man to do... or I prefer if a man did... (aka, having a preference which is perfectly fine) Only sexist people use that term and that's few and far. From what I've heard its more men saying that though but either way your point doesn't make any sense because that term, "its a woman's/mans job to do this," is never if rarely used.

Grace S is you’ve never heard these phrases that’s fine but I hear them all the time. You mentioned preference earlier. That’s my point. If a man “prefers” a woman who can cook, clean and wants children why do so many women get offended and say that’s sexist? If he thinks all a woman is worth is cooking, cleaning and breeding then yes, thats wrong. But otherwise I don’t get the outrage?

SIERRA MCCHRISTIAN Nobody gets mad at men saying they want a woman that cooks and cleans. Women get mad at men who think it’s a woman’s “role” to cook and clean or like it’s something they have to do because they’re a woman that’s we get mad at.

Laeni Rose Castaneda for real!!! They need to be sensitive about this topic.

That's what I said it breaks my heart whenever she talks about how great Freddy is

Regardless of the legal standpoint, it’s still cruel. I understand the legal standpoint having a family of many business owners, but it is still unkindly of the team to decide this.

@Ash Tree the legal stand point is the network who owns the youtube channel own the rights to the show and the rights to any clip or segment they post. ABC does this successfully with the view.

Personally I think it helps show that even though in life you are going through some tough segments you shouldn't let them weigh you down completely and by surrounding yourself in a different and positive environment it can help a lot. I truly respect her and all of the other ladies for supporting each other in whatever form they can.

so?

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(**throws trophies and plaques in your direction**)

@@tamtamr9081 q

unicorn chic I think the term was created to identify a woman a man wanted to spend his life with, but maybe isn't ready for the commitment.

Andersia Fernas lmaoooo

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They throwing Shade🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴

This is the second video already 🙄🙄🙄😐

I think it's disrespectful towards Jeannie. They don't post videos which include Tamar...for obvious reasons so why don't the stop posting videos in which Freddie is mentioned? Also for obvious reasons.

agreed!

@@MsSexyladyinred it's not for obvious reasons they can get sued captilizing off vids with tamar this is helping jeanie image keeping viewers sympathetic of her and showing Freddie's babymom is a liar slandering jeanies name.

T Y That's ridiculous of course men and women can be friends.

T Y my friends being sexist.. they are not sexist or even a bad person in general, because if they were, i will not be friends w/them.. they are just not that woke, or they are conditioned to think that way(because we live in a more conservative country), or even simple ignorance.. i am not excusing their behavior, in fact as their friend i take it as my job to help correct their behavior by educating them on this. the world is not black & white, yes there are those that are very good & very bad but there are plenty of kinds of people in between & a lot f the are more on the good side, gou cant just dismiss those just because there not perfect. YOU yourself ARE Not perfect. does your flaws define you? because labels such as "being sexist" is not thing you just throw around on anyone. its such an condemning title reserved only for those who truly deserve it, cause if you start throwing it on anyone, it looses its true weight.

T Y & also women & men can be friends.. i'm not gonna explain further on that cause if you cant see that for yourself i doubt anyone can make you understand.

I mean isnt it ok for people to have standards? Whats the issue? Some women have standards that some men thing are rediculous but, doesnt mean those women shouldnt have em. Whats the issue here?

If I were a man I would def want a woman who can cook. Food is tradition and a gift. Why are we surprised most guys would want this in a longterm partner? Why would we be mad at it? If you dont cook then find a guy who doesn't care, and stop hating on the others for having a preference.

I definitely feel the same way...!! It depends on the guy.

Cool. I've always wanted to visit your country. I hope I can do it one day

Amen!! Sister👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Agreed :))

Oh lol