I feel like my grandma has a similar approach to me not finishing my food as they do at that restaurant 😂(shout out to all the Polish Babcia's out there)
You should try an afternoon tea cafe. We have a lot in England and its quite popular. You basically have a lot of sandwiches and cakes and baked goods which are often a lot of peoples fear foods.
during the car segment where Tyler was talking about how only recently Rebecca started her recovery honestly made me start to cry. It just goes to show that recovery really is possible and as a current still recovering person with ED's, seeing Rebecca recover makes me want to recover even more :') thank you for being a complete inspiration to me everyday, Rebecca (and Tyler ofc, honestly Tyler is such a sweetheart and an amazing person) ❤️
How is even possible for someone to be this stunning? And to have found someone as supportive and loving as Tyler?! Still don’t know how to pronounce your last name 🙈
very much....although if it was my husband saying he loves how much I eat, I couldn't help but think, "yeah, while I still look like this you do, but if all this food makes me fat, would you still feel the same?" I sometimes wonder whether the same thought runs through Rebecca's mind..
of course. I mean heart disease is the highest cause of death in the US, morally I couldn't support it on so many levels...but, this is how Rebecca deals with her fears, and for her, its working.
That is the point of the restaurant tho. It is meant to be problematic and to show others the reality of their eating choices. They are doing what other unhealthy restaurants are not doing...they are being honest. Def recommend looking into the history of the restaurant.
@Bad Cattitude eek. Poisoning your own people who are too weak to resist, and too stupid to understand that others are profitting from their sickness...great country indeed 😳
THANK GOD FOR TYLER SPILLING TRUTH ON LIKING GIRLS WHO EAT A LOT I’m a competitive rower and currently recovering from anorexia, but rower’s appetites are hUGE and that honestly made me feel so much better so THANK YOU
Whenever I challenge my eating disorder, I always think of you. You guys, especially you Bec, are the only reason I’m trying to combat my eating disorder and I’m really grateful towards you for giving me that willpower. Thank you guys, from the bottom of my heart. 💕💕💕💕
Tomorrow I'm going to a restaurant for my 19th birthday and I was planning on skipping breakfast. But you know what?! I'm going to have a delicious birthday breakfast whatever that might be! I'm going to celebrate with good food and my ed can't stand in the way! Thank you for giving me strength to keep going with recovery ❤ Edit: wow I didn't expect any likes or comments but thank you so much for the birthday wishes and the positive messages! You guys gave a fantastic start to my birthday ❤🌹
Oh my goodness, I love that bit at the beginning about not eating unless someone else is eating. When it comes to dessert, I will not eat it unless someone else is eating, and I won’t get something unless another person does, which is just so. Annoying.
“You don’t have to feel strong to be strong” 😭😭you’re so right. Love this video and how supportive Tyler is!! You really made AMAZING progress. So so proud of you❤️
I was watching your video, and soon after went to make a huge pancake breakfast with sweetened coffee. It's the first time I've had pancakes in over 8 months. Thank you so much for your recovery Rebecca!! It's so inspiring and encouraging for the many people who struggle. I'm rooting for you!!!
tyler actually made me cry in this one. he is so supportive and his words really do make an impact, at least on me. he's the motivational speaker we all need!
I've had my eyes opened recently I've considered myself recovered for a year now but I cant eat waffles or butter or beans idk why I'm so scared of beans and protien in general I can only eat breakfast foods at breakfast time lunch isnt usually an option I'm getting enough calories but I'm scared of all but 6 foods.... im weight restored and I dont feel guilty eating meals when it's my set times for food but if it's not 10am or 6pm I wont let myself eat. Im not recovered and I've been hiding my ed inside a little box keeping it safe instead of letting myself live. I'm going to break this cycle but the thought of that is terrifying
Omg yesss Bec!!! Well done!!! You did amazing!! Sooo proud!! ❤ This video and challenge is amazing!! Love your videos sm, you and Tyler are sooo funny!
Even though I've been triggered and jealous of you (hey I'm human you are gorgeous, have money, have a more serious ED then me which your boyfriend seems to "understand" and respect in a way I've never been able to let my partner in. ...So all of that considered you've STILL inspired me to push forward in recovery. And times when I've been afraid to eat something Ive thought of you and I've pushed through because of all the challenges you showed us . Thank you Bec. Keep shining bright.
I fucking love Tyler- Becks go on girl, getting a guy like that is a bloody miracle. Wishing you the best, I'm currently struggling and feel very alone x
Tyler reallyyyyy called me out when he said one of the rules is eating less than or the exact same as what your partner is eating, I get such bad anxiety when I have to eat more than my bf but I really want to work on it! You’re such an inspiration Bec x
You are a sweet and kind person..beautiful inside and out.. I can so much relate to your videos..Thank you for making them and being so open with us..and You have a great understanding supportive guy..God bless you both❤
Rebecca, I never comment but I’ve been watching you for a while and though i watch you consistently, i watch even more when I’m struggling. Watching you and hearing your words makes me feel so supported and understood and not alone. Like you (or so if seems) i also struggle the most with eating more than someone I’m with or eating when they aren’t so i really appreciates what you and tyler said about that. Thank you for allowing me to see the “light at the end of the tunnel” and live life how i want to, not in the way that ed wants me to.
If you make it to Oregon I highly recommend going to old town Bandon. The fish and chips on the board walk is unbelievable but to terrifying for me. And the cheese factory is legendary the umqua icecream is like no other made all right there in front of your eyes it's amazing. But I'm always so scared to eat it again. It's been years
Tylers speech made me tear up. I am currently dating someone just as supportive which I never thought would happen. I think you guys made me believe in love again. Side note: Rebecca you are such a beautiful person, inside out. It shines through 🧡
O my god Rebecca I am so damn proud of you and this video inspired me so much to fight even harder against my ed! Btw Tyler is the best boyfriend ever, lots of love for both of you guys❤️
Wow, I don't know but I'm crying (probably due to Tyler his incredible loving words and they also push me to beat my ED and because I am so DAMN PROUD OF YOU GIRL!). I almost got an heart attack only by watching this and the anxiety that came up..
I hope you guys get married 😭 listening to Tyler talk about you like that is so inspiring and it’s evident how much he loves you and how much he thinks of you and the strength you have.
I hardly ever comment on videos like this but I just wanted to say to Tyler that he is an exceptional man and boyfriend. His words on EDs were brilliant. Becca, you are pretty as a flower. Thanks for inspiring me and helping me understand I ought to look after myself.
You are an inspiration to me. Seeing your videos, even when you struggle with food, helps me to shut up that annoying voice in my head. Thank you and please never stop being like this😊
"It's my choice to be offended by something. The power is on me." "You don't have to feel strong to be strong" Definetly some things that I will keep in mind, thank you!
Your strength and Ty’s love and support for you gives me so much hope. I don’t think you understand just how much you’ve supported my recovery journey, thank you!! ♥️♥️
You probably won't see this, but I love you so much Rebecca. You have helped me tremendously to stay focused in my recovery. You are so beautiful and strong. Although I don't know you, I'm literally so proud of you! I know how hard it is to live with an eating disorder, and what you did in this video is truly incredible. There is literally no place that is more triggering to people with an ED than heart attack grill. And you smashed it!!! And Tyler is such an amazing, loving, and supportive boyfriend. His speech in the car literally brought me to tears. I can tell that he genuinely cares so much about you. Keep going Rebecca!! You are such an inspiration to me. ❤️
It’s amazing that you have the will power to do stuff like this. My relationship with food is so distorted. One side of me doesn’t know how to control myself once I start eating and another can become so restrictive that even eating a piece of fruit or vegetable outside of my ‘allowance’ is a no go. Great work Rebecca!
Tyler is so supportive and amazing. And you're so positive in your videos. You guys are great together and I'm glad you have each other! Love watching both of you :')
First few minutes of the video, imp point. Something that has been rly difficult for me is continuing to eat when others around me are full or just being the only one eating when others aren't hungry/ eating
I live you guys! So so inspiring and loving attitude that you have is overwhelming, even tho it's just via RU-vid but I feel the power and will growing stronger after each video I watch on this channel. Really, appreciate all you trying for yourself and for us!💞 Keep it up, kisses sent to both of you xxx
As someone currently in treatment for an ed. This really got to me. I cried when Tyler was talking about the triggers and pushing through them. Thank you for being such a great inspiration and being vulnerable sharing your life.
