If she starts literally hitting on you like Mike Tyson, and there are other people around, just say "She can't keep her hands off me!". Then Brace yourself. I find the fetal position works well in this situation.
For twelve years I was a college professor and a lawyer. Nearly every semester one or two of the young ladies (20 to 30 yrs old) in my class acted differently from the others. I didn’t know quite what to make of it because (1) as their professor, I had to remain strictly professional both in and out of class; (2) I was much older; and … there was something else … oh yeah, I am married and happily so, and I mentioned my wife here & there during the semester. Thought I was safe. Still, there were young ladies who would sit in the front row, stare at me nonstop while smiling and fiddling with their hair. The professor in me was annoyed that they weren’t paying attention to the discussion, lecture or whatever I was presenting. The older gentleman in me was flattered from there to Jupiter & back. Another semester, a drop-dead gorgeous student arrived late for the first class and said her car broke down. I asked if she could arrange a ride for the next two classes that week; she said “I want you to pick me up.” Convinced she was joking, I told her I’d pay for a cab. She looked disappointed and asked me again to fetch her. I didn’t. Mid-semester, she said she had a job interview and asked me what she should wear. I told her to dress “business formal,” which she made me explain from top to bottom. She was absent the next class, but came in after the other students had left, dressed to the nines and impeccably made up. She asked what I thought; I said her choice was excellent. I thought that was it, but she came over to my desk and sat on it, about 18” from me and asked me to ask her some questions she might get during her job interview. I did the best I could, then told her I had somewhere I needed to be and excused myself. Thought I could make my exit, but she asked me to walk her to her car as it was getting dark. I couldn’t say no, and of course her car was parked on the other side of the campus. Finally she got into her car and I turned and started walking back to my car, breathing a sigh of relief. Too soon. She drove up beside me, said she felt bad that I had to walk all the way back and offered to drive me back. So, I hopped in hoping she didn’t make any detours. Happily she didn’t because by now the tension was nearly unbearable. Made it to my car, thanked her, got into my car and locked the door. Just to be safe. Typical semester. Nothing improper ever happened. I am an oak.
Many times women will do many of the above things you mention as friends. I think to boost their own self confidence. So it's still difficult to tell if a woman is truly interested in a romantic relationship or just wants to remain friends.
Lots of signs women give are just friendly, it’s still up to the guy to ask her out. If you want to be sure and approach to ask the woman out then obviously find out if she’s single first!, look for obvious signs like rings on her finger, and maybe find out through someone who knows her if she’s single, that might give a guy a bit more comfortable and confident to ask a woman out. There’s lots of signs that a woman is just friendly. It’s mostly about confidence and being comfortable and just getting to know her a bit more then ask her out after a few chats. I’ve tried to ask one woman out before because she was being super flirty with a lot of guys in a office environment including me but she was like no I’m busy kind of thing one day or the next day so….. it’s not that easy to tell if a woman likes you and just wants to be friends or friendly and wants to go out a few times to see if you both are good for each as bf, gf. So now I generally won’t approach a woman who is being super flirty with every guy. Good tips tho, like your content
As I grew up, I started to like girls, little did I knew how they are and act on the daily basis… she compliments and is initiative with you and after awhile they ignore you completely… 🔥
I’ve remarked on other videos of this stripe; None of this is hard evidence that she indeed “likes you”. The modern generation of young women can do all this with her “best buds”, male or female. It’s called “playin’”, or “funnin’ wit’ you”. It’s on display every day.
I would love to have some of these advices in One direction, how does a man, affirm that he is only seeking friendship. There are a rare amount of us that don't wish to get into romantic relationships and end up hurting a lady. However we're plagued with many attractive women that want us in a romantic relationship. How about doing that one as a topic. 👍🙏🐺
Great tips! If a girl seems to always be smiling and happy whenever you’re around - watch out! - she’s interested in you, trust me! She doesn’t do this with everybody - so there’s no doubt that she’s into you, and that she likes you! It might be time to make a move - don’t snooze, or you’ll lose her! Lol Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
I find if they are acting a bit shy and 'giggly' and with her friends whispering to each other then looking at you quickly from the corner of their eye. Time to make a move, but then dont do it like a cat amongst the birds all they'll fly away. Got to pick your time right. I never do. Maybe they were just making fun of me. I'll never know.
@ B M - You sound like you have been around the block a bit and know what you are doing ! Why does it STILL sound like this has to be such a difficult, frustrating challenge ? You deserve a LOT of credit !
What do you do when a woman brings up their boyfriend but also puts out all these signals? Just today a woman I work with and am interested in worked overtime. Our times coincided where it was just the two of us. She looked extra good. Different style of dress and very pretty. We're close and have shared a lot. I know there is something there but every so often she'll mention her boyfriend. I keep distant because I'm not sure how she really feels.
Keep the distance if there's another guy in the picture. You don't want to be involved in that drama. I'm in a similar situation. She teases me a lot, casually touches me in the arm/ shoulders, and laughs at my comments even when I'm not really trying to sound funny or witty... I've never had this experience with women before, it's almost surreal. They usually ignore, reject or treat me as a friend. Oh, and the other day as we were having a conversation she was looking at my face in a kind of hypnotic way. I swear, it was like she was under a magic spell or something... I had to break the moment by asking her if my hair or forehead had something wrong. She snapped out of it (like when you are daydreaming and all of the sudden you wake up in the real world). It was weird to me because, again, it was the first time a woman was staring at me in a deep and almost loving way. But it is not possible to have something with her because she also talks a lot about her boyfriend. This is the worst thing: she doesn't speak in a possitive way about him. It's like she's annoyed by the reminder that she's already in a relationship. That's messed up. I love the attention and this new feeling of getting these looks, but at the same time I am aware of the existence of the other guy and I don't want to be the second option and ruin the things between them. It's hard to ignore her advances but I must deflect them if I want to be at peace. As much as she gets me hard I must force my will and mind my own business.
Now, there is another sign that a woman is attracted to you that is not discussed on this list. It's kinda weird and strange but this is my personal experience. Sometimes there are women that I will be introduced to or meet either at work or a party and she won't pay me any heed and will totally ignore me. She won't even look at me for that matter. I usually will act like I don't care also, like I don't give an "F" and not pay her attention. But over the course of time she will go all Jekyll and Hyde on me and start to give me lingering glances and looks and smiles and start talking to me and before I know it, I have her number and a date. This even works in my workplace, where a new female employ will not give me the time of day for a few days and then, whamo! We're going our for lunch together in our lunch break. I wish to stress that whenever this happens, I know in my gut that she really is attracted to me. This has happened several times in my life.
02:35 I put off too much energy and it makes it difficult being around (Not-Single) married or taken females. I like having permission too hold/touch but the single females are too Shy and the others are Aggressive... Most guys would be taking advantage of these vulnerable ladies.
I prefer to communicate with my words in an actual adult way. I'm not entertaining the idea that I have to do anything for a woman including learning an iffy unstable type of language. I don't have the time or immaturity for that.
Well she smiles and sees just through my fucking SOUL !!! She would just looo at me continuously non-stop and it's always me who looks away. But the thing is, that i asked her about her elder sister if she can for a movie or a coffee with me. Didn't get any answer on that but she has her eyes dead Locked on me since then. But she has been doing the same from much earlier as well.
Once I had a much younger woman blatantly flirt with me at work. In front of goawd and everybody. I had no fuckin idea how to respond. I kinda just played ignorant. She's now dating a man much closer to her age and I am happy for them both.
A girl I asked on a date said she wasn’t looking then got to know me more then asked me out to the cinema just us when I talk about things in my future she includes herself and if she mentions her future she includes me but then again says she’s not looking but hints on us in the future is this her being scared or just not wanting a relationship or mind games I need advice badly
One lady knows the rule for all women Hmmm , NOT ! If a woman smiles at you and lets you approach her while giving you her attention, that's an open door that she might give you a chance so say something that draws her in like I noticed you when you came in the door and I wanted to say hello my name is ***** and yours . Be genuine but confident and she continues to smile ask for her number! O.K guys that will be 10.00 bucks 😅
She kisses your neck when you get her order. True story. She comes up behind you and presses her enbonpoint against your arm. True story. She visits you to get your tactile and visual opinion of her new implants. Hey, I lived in LA, California. It really is a weird place.
i well been talking. about our future too togerther with my new lady freind aka my new crush aka my newgirlfreind an asking her what she whants in her future with haveing kids or babys any time soon. idk.
Don't know where that woman lives buttt if in her world those signs work in the real world they don't.... they are all just being nice....aaand why we have to play the game with the signs if like someone show it don't play games.....
No woman hits on me because im not tall,dark and handsome I'm just a short pale skin redhead and most women aren't attracted to me. Been single for 3 plus years and zero dates. Most women are very shallow and superficial
Joya: "is she hitting on you " Me: "no she's really not, it's my wishful thinking causing me to have serious delusions which is trying to turn me into a creep. That shit will turn me into swiss cheese soon if that shit keeps up."
These are good. Every girl that ive been with started with her scooching over to sit closer to me. That was always what gave it away. And then if you like her you can give her all your attention while being really close to her. Compliment her. Light touches if appropriate. Be playful and not creepy.
Guys, just take the safe road and wait until she actually says she likes you or asks YOU out. Not to be mean, but most of them just want to talk to use you for resources, attention, emotional tampon, or just one of her many backups lol. Plus there’s so many allegations going around left, right, and center. I’ve been married for 12 years….but she’s the one that made the first move. This way, you DEFINITELY know she’s in to you.
Another great video Anna always amazing to see you and how you are able to help many. Sometimes we get so bogged up with the daily of life we miss small signals that in the end could be a positive thing for everyone. Much love and support always.💕
I stopped trying to figure out if a girl is hitting on me ages ago as its hard to tell sometimes. If me and a new girl started getting on well and it looks like the possibility of romance is there then I just tell them straight. I say to them that I like them and if they want something to happen the ball is in their court. That seems to work.
Signs are much more difficult to interpret when there are cultural differences too. As an example: When in Mexico, people are very much accustomed to greeting with a hug and kiss and they also use terms that we would deem endearing like "love, sweetheart and more" sometimes among other friends and to a lesser degree with people that just met.The only reason I know we are more is because I can give her multiple kisses; our hugs are very body close; finally, she has specifically said that she does not like to be touched, but is ok by my touch.
Yep. Latin America and the US are very different in terms of culture. I moved here when I was 16, and still have been unable to fit with Americans, not to mention reading women (ESPECIALLY AMERICAN WOMEN). In fact, all of my best relationships had been with south americans or mexicans
A girl I work with has shown me a LOT of these signs and i'm certain she definitely likes me and I like her too however this coworker has a boyfriend 😂😂
Yeah this gal and I would flirt with each other all the time. We couldn't keep our hands off each other so I figured this relationship can go only in one direction. So one day I suggested to her that we go and celebrate one of her accomplishments. Misconstruing my suggestion she told me she has a boyfriend. Since then all though I am respectful to her I treat her like she's just a normal freind. Little does she know it she did me a huge favor because now I have women much younger and far better looking than her knocking at my door. Now she stares at me as if to say" Why won't you flirt with me anymore. Answer: I don't want to make your fictitious boyfriend jealous. It actually worked out great for me. I'm not into adolescent games.
I once was irreverent towards my Spanish class topic and laughed off that I didn't know how to Speak Spanish once a girl started greeting me in Spanish. Later on I saw her turn towards me whilest smiling at me for no reason and I just passed her as if I wasn't interested. Apparently she was flirting with me..dang.
Lately, the last few times I've heard these things were from women I worked with and they were all in relationships. Some were very touchy-feely and some were very into telling me about their relationship problems. Which is fine. I'm glad to be a sounding board for my friends and coworkers. Additionally, if any man can't be bothered with being a friend (and only a friend) with a woman. Then don't expect to ever have a proper relationship with one.
Honestly trying to figure out if a girl at work is into me, but it's really hard to tell sometimes. Lately she seems to have pulled away alittle I think, but I haven't done anything to suggest I'm into her.
Then again, you could be dealing with the county tease. In today's age men are much more likely to play it safe. Things have changed so women have to be much less subtle and much more overt.
The problem with women who use signs instead of clear communication, is that they struggle to communicate properly during the relationship. Men shouldn't have to learn a different communication style just for women because many men do this, but the women rarely ever put in the same effort.
I saw lot's of charecterless girl do those stuff with many guys 😁😁😁... Smart guys never fall for it,,chosee the girl for whom u r the first & last love.
Another great video. There is another subtle thing that can be included. If you are sitting at a table or standing at a location, she comes to you to be beside you and chat a bit, standing or sitting closer than normal.
I am older now so have many years of experience. Well, I guess throughout my lifetime no women were ever hitting on me because NONE of these things ever happened to me! Not even the idiotic "flipping their hair" that each and every female "dating coach" lists in their list of signs! And certainly nothing about "our future children". I'm sorry, I have to chuckle that these videos are still being produced to mislead young guys. These things do not happen.
