From experience if a woman is interested in you, the first thing she does is to size you up to find out how much money you make and how much interest you have from other women.
100% Hypergamy and preselection will hook 90% of women if you are tall and have decent genetics. They don't even realize how primal those triggers are themselves. The last person you should listen to regarding what attracts women is a woman.. They think they know, but they don't. They just have feelings and vibes, etc. Preselection is a huge one.
@@mickbenson9161 Know thyself is not something a woman wants to do because the reality of her place in nature is something she rebels against. She will always be at the mercy of nature just as we all are, but she wants to believe she can control the wind and tide just by batting her eyelashes (or swinging her rolling pin).
Dude, from my experience: Find a sapiosexual woman and everything you've just said goes out of the window, even if she's a professional model who has more money than you will ever earn. All of a sudden, it's your intelligence that matters -- brains over brawns. But also from experience: Have said model-type by your side, and all of a sudden all the other women at the place will start chasing you - only to find out that you no longer have ANY interest in any of them at all. Which only confirms: Women, just like men, want the most what they can't have.
A girl recently stayed on a one-on-one business call with me after discussing all formal matters to chat about our recent life events for 40 minutes. That's pretty much the only sign, but i will keep track on it to fund out whether this interest is repetitive and systematic.
My manager definitely wants me😂 She asked for my "help" putting toilet paper away with her in the bathroom, the only reason we both got nervous was because we worried our boss would see us in there together, she often shows so many signs she has feelings for me and I pretty much show her I have feelings for her as well.
I’m so tired of test that they think will show them to the correct person the only people that pass the test are the narcissist that cheat because they cheated with enough different people to get the answers
This stuff is all subjective. There’s no right or wrong. Just follow your heart and gut. All these youtube guru’s all contradict eachother. Ana says things that we as men may have tried in the past but found no success. It might have been that particular woman who wasn’t open to the advances or the interest. Or the signs the girl is giving us may seem like nothing but it could be something. Again, it all depends on the woman. But Ana is a woman and she has some merit to her advice. We as men have to remember that we can’t ask a fish on how to fish, though.
In regards to the teasing, almost every source has told me to not tolerate disrespect. So how can I tell if the teasing isn't a sign that she's got an unfavorable opinion of me?
TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK??? I know this girl that tried the teasing on me. Problem is, we didn't know each other and she was more hot & cold, and I mean cold. I started ignoring her in which she started being a bit of a kiss ass. Started talking again, then she did the push/pull on me. I called her out then she started being super friendly, in this time she jokingly said she's afraid of rejection (with a really awkward laugh) Asked her a question one day and she blew me off. Shortly after releasing she messed up she went into kiss ass mode again. Then she tried to make me jealous. I know girls that are insecure will play games like this and unfortunately it's a big red flag. It can mean indubitably in a relationship and if she's trying the jealousy game to see how you respond. This means she could cheat. She's openly said she wants my company but with these red flags I feel like she's just a attention seeking narcissist. thoughts???
I just found you and I been brushing throw your videos to see if anything I find from you is what’s happen with this one girl at work I found an interest in. Hard part is she is Albanian I would say 50/50 locked in to her culture. But comes off more of a “out of respect for her parents” type things but so many hints I noticed and even matched from what info you as a female have been giving and out of the few females I meet along the life journey she is the hardest to gaze in what she is trying to directly but indirectly say. Plus knowing she is Albanian, and respects her parents just seems really uneasy to pursue her, knowing that it might not go nowhere for her hint are so strong it’s hard to ignore. It’s a challenge but one I am invested in and one I think would be worth it in putting in the time but I am unsure of the hints that I know is there let me knew watching as much videos that can give some insight as I can 😅
Interesting Signs to be aware of however, I'd love to understand the percentage of women who naturally come up with these subtleties; Then, the age/maturity groups of the women most likely to use them. Ex Age groups like: 28-35, 36-43. and >43. IMHO, I do believe that the mature and confident women would most likely be the ones to use them.
Porn took my hand and showed me that reality is constructed in a huge factory run by little hidden creatures. While I was distracted by the beauty of that machine she surprised me by showing me that I'm one of the creatures in that cosmic factory as well, who is merely suffering from the illusion that I'm a human living in the Universe that was think we know. As I was coming to grips with that, she showed me that myself and all the other creatures running the machine are actually just singular, primal points of observation -- possessing no other actual attributes than the pure ability to know. Before I could process all of this I was gently transformed back into my body and sent home again.
what if she says 10 years after marriage she is still looking? kids also 10.. oh right after year 18, she's still looking, and your marriage ends when "you're child is 18." We still have her debt 3 years later.
Lovely one lovely...We love classical music/a nice PIANO, but me obviously being a block head couldn't focus on both the piano OR your voice. Relaxing Music + Mulitasking \=\ Sleep zzz. LOL. The part about helping to move furniture though, some girls/women may be just Users as well, so Fellas make sure she Really does like you! Otherwise be the forever handy friendzone guy...Lol ;)
It gets entirely too complicated twisting yourself into a pretzel to please, ah, maybe please, I mean it COULD happen..women. The good news is, there are excellent solutions. Don't torture yourself!
I just came across this channel, and this is the first video of hers that I've watched but... Is she AI? There's something "off" and even algorithmic in the way she moves and talks. Her mouth looks "off." Am I the only one seeing this?!
Well the only thing I'd add is if all this is coming from a girl you don't want or care about, you are well within your rights to stop her right then and there and say no. Just because she is offering doesn't mean you have to accept. Hold yourselves in higher regard boys.
I'm so used to automatically avoiding women I was walking home at night and a women was walking towards me. I did the usual and crossed the street to avoid her then crossed back after we passed. I looked back and realized It was my sister lol 😆.
I rocognize two of these signs from a couple o girls that gave me them. However, when I responded, they show either anger or flippancy. I suspect one girl to have bipolar disorder an the other one to be a narvcissist.
Most women are like that. I think that only the women who are average or below average in looks tend to be nicer and exhibit these signs and may be more desperate for attention. However, women who know themselves that they are highly desirable, good look, have nice bodies will be more demanding and will show anger or flippancy if the man is not attractive or below average because these women are looking for alpha males. The problem of Joyanima's argument is that she seems to assume that women are universally doing these signs to all kinds of men without considering that women themselves are going to be at different levels of attractiveness and are desiring for a man who is above average because they are looking for the most viable seed for reproduction purposes.
Important note, guys - if she asks "If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go, and why?" "Paraguay, because they have no extraditioin treaties" isn't a good response.
The problem is not all woman are the same. I've had woman silent when I try to talk to them to the point that you feel ur annoying them and turns out they are absolutely infatuated with u and nervous when you talk to their girlfriends. I've had some lightly talk very short with me, a chick friend of mine will show up and be all over me and ask if I know that girl I'll be like no just chatted, and she will tell me the girl was giving her back off eyes. I'm a 6' 6" good-looking athletic guy and I've really never found two girls the same. Honest opinion, just have fun without being a dick while ur out and take them as they come. Never chase a woman or a bus, another will be alone in 15 minutes
That's so true...some will compliment you like crazy, others won't ever compliment you, but they'll be really touchy-feely. Some will be more bold and outgoing with their interest in you, while others will avoid you when they like you out of shyness. Some will stare at you, some will avoid eye contact. Some will tease you super hard, some will be too scared to tease you for risk of upsetting you. Some will always initiate and hold convos with you, while others will wait for you to do it, etc.
@Joyanima A co-worker that i thought liked me, because of her constant stares, talked with me one day for around 15 minutes while on the clock. I thought it went very well and she stated that we better get back to work and I agreed. Then as a walked away she says "You crack me up." And I said "I Do?" And she said "Yeah you always walk around looking confused." It took me about a week after this and after asking everyone i knew if this was some how a good thing that she said that and no one said it was. So I cut off all communication with her. This was a year and a half ago. Was she flirting? No one said she was. Did I make a huge mistake? She chuckled as she said it to me.
I'm a really goodlooking guy. I never realized it until I started watching your videos. I've been a lot more aware of all the signs I used to miss before. My problem is I just can't keep myself well groomed and I don't have a career of any assets and I can't even find clean clothes to wear. But I am a man with a job and a truck and a big knob that works great. The only thing a woman can really do for me is you know what. So I'm alone.
The problem of Joyanima's argument is that she seems to assume that women are universally doing these signs to all kinds of men without considering that women themselves are going to be at different levels of attractiveness and are desiring for a man who is above average because they are looking for the most viable seed for reproduction purposes. Majority of women are looking for the most handsome, successful, wealthiest man, not the average or below average just as most men desire women with good looking bodies but most men will be satisfied with average or below average women. True, average and below average women would probably exhibit these behaviors to more men because they need to work more to attract men. However, most men will be satisfied with any woman. In contrast, women who are 8 to 10 in attractiveness may be more selective and exhibit these signs to a smaller group of males, but most women desire alpha males and only a select few of males are taking most of the women.
I would like to believe your outlook, however I believe my energy was removed due to "past experiences." Thanks for referring to me as kind of man, I'm sure "it" will work out for me. Especially since I can't even remember the last time I worked out! I remember knowing where the gym was, in some small town's I was in. At the time, or, at that time, still infinitely broken by reality. It'd be nice to believe that soul's exist forever in the make believe land of heaven. I think realities consolation prize of not giving a fuck, may be what removed me from life.
ladies- asking us for favors isn't the mthrfkin shot you believe you're giving a dude. Especially if you ask for more than a few small favors before realizing he's reliable, helpful, kind, but isn't getting your point in asking for those favors without explicitly stating your interest in him TO HIM. Then it becomes using him, and it will over time make him like you less and less, till he starts disliking and resenting you and starts ignoring your messages and calls. Men don't view being asked to do stuff for women as a sign of her interest, we view it as a sign of "another woman who thinks because she's a woman the world owes her everything she asks for," Especially if he's already not getting the point and you've already asked him for several favors before and has started to become less and less happy to help, and finally says no to something you ask for and you respond emotionally to that and blow up angrily at him because it was her saying she wants him and is taking his saying no as a rejection of her, but see ladies. He already hasnt gotten that, doesn't realize its a sign of interest, just thinks he's being used. Especially if you haven't actually clearly told him you're interested in him. It's not a rejection of you, gals, it's a rejection of being used. And youre anger when he says no wont be seen as hurt over percieved rejection, it'll be seen as entitlement, and confirmation that you're only using him. Men arent always comfortable making the initial sexual advances on a woman they aren't sure actually sees him that way or not, and it should be taken as a good sign when he isn't. It means he respects you and respects women and doesn't want to upset you or make you uncomfortable, it means he's not sure if you like him or not, and it's safer for him to err on the side of not. Solution? Actually tell a man who you like that you like him or in some way actually make it absolutely 100% clear to him by asking him why he hasn't noticed youre into him or whatever, kiss him first, shit. Shit. it's not really that hard to make your interest actually known. Especially if he's already made it clear that he's into you and just hasn't made a physical move because when he expressed interest by telling you you didnt actually respond to it or changed the topic or whatever without telling him anything about your interest after he told you bout his. So he assumed it meant you weren't interested. How could he at any point after that awkward situation make the physical move you prefer is made? He can't. After that his only choice is to forget bout his interest in you and move on with his life because ouch fucking city.
Don’t know if this is the right place for this, but fuck it. I’ve been watching countless of these videos to try and make sense of my current situation. I go to class with this girl who gives me all these signs, she stares me down, blushes, laugh at anything I say, sit next to me, fix her clothes, doing the hair thing. We only see each other two times a week, but she hits me up almost everyday and want to do things. The problem is she’s forbidden fruit, has a longtime BF already. I don’t want to mess around with another mans girl. Even if she left him for me how could I trust her not to do the same to me? Is she playing me? It’s driving me crazy because I start to fall for this this girl, but sadly I don’t see this ever working out. What is the right thing to do!? God bless
I definitely would agree that she is as likely to cheat on you. Some people really like to get high on the beginning with a new person, but they grow bored with the security. This is especially the case for highly desirable women who get loads of interest. The key is to love yourself enough that you can walk away from an attractive woman without FOMO. I wrestled with this throughout my 20s. Now in my 30s, I have both more humility & more confidence in who I am.
It's hard to say if she's playing you or not. Maybe she's ended things with the boyfriend or as far as she's concerned it's over with the boyfriend. The fact that they've been together a long time in the past doesn't stop him from being an abusive arsehole to her and she's had enough. You need to look at several things to get a better idea of what is really going on. Does she consistently talk about him in a negative way? Does she complain about him treating her like shit? Has he been or is he violent towards her? If the answers are consistently yes to these questions then maybe she wants out from a toxic or abusive relationship. Does she expect you to pay for everything? If her relationship with the current boyfriend is mostly good or positive and she expects you to pay for everything then she might be playing you for a sucker. When it's all said and done, just ask her does she want a serious relationship with you or does she just want to be friends. Does she plan on leaving the boyfriend? Maybe she hasn't left him yet because she's frightened of him? Out of all of this, the most useful thing for you to wrap your head around is that there will be others if things aren't right with this girl, walk away before you get hurt. So many guys stress out and their lives become miserable because they can't get past this one girl that isn't right for them. If she can't or won't give you a straight answer about leaving the current boyfriend, then I'd be inclined to not get involved with her. If she does leave him, I'd give it literally several months with him well and truly out of the picture before getting involved with her. If they stay as "friends" after they split and he still hangs out with her regularly, it's time to move on my dude because it's not worth the head and heartache. Her age and maturity definitely comes into it as well. If you guys are high school age or university / college age, then I'd be inclined to forget about it and move on. It's just not worth the bs and the drama that comes with it. What ever comes or goes, this girl isn't your last chance of happiness. There will be others 100%.
This is so elementary. If you need a guide to tell you these things, I feel for you. Pretty much if she’s engaging with you, doing more than simply (and only) responding. If she contacts you first, or tries to extend conversations or provide new topics, she’s interested. It’s not that deep, nor is it that subtle.
I absolutely love how Anna has never failed to give us insight on signs that a woman is into us, and the music in the background behind the speaking is a really nice touch, the piano complements the video really well.
If she wants you do to stuff for her, she might just want you to do stuff for her. If she flirts with you, she might just want you to do stuff for her. If she really wants you, you won't have to do any stuff for her.
The problem of Joyanima's argument is that she seems to assume that women are universally doing these signs to all kinds of men without considering that women themselves are going to be at different levels of attractiveness and are desiring for a man who is above average because they are looking for the most viable seed for reproduction purposes. Majority of women are looking for the most handsome, successful, wealthiest man, not the average or below average just as most men desire women with good looking bodies but most men will be satisfied with average or below average women. True, average and below average women would probably exhibit these behaviors to more men because they need to work more to attract men. However, most men will be satisfied with any woman. In contrast, women who are 8 to 10 in attractiveness may be more selective and exhibit these signs to a smaller group of males, but most women desire alpha males and only a select few of males are taking most of the women.
Does anyone know what the name of that song is that is playing in the background. I think that it is very beautiful and would really love if someone could provide me with the name of the song.. p.s thank you joyanima, you are like the perfect big sister that wants to see her little brother win…
thanks for the video. Now I know that I had just one woman in my life that interested in me. First one. Well, it was turned out that she just wanted a child from me and right after she got pregnant she married another guy who could not have children. That was really cringy for a young man who just lost his virginity))
I often get these from different women, I see my value and only would seek a relationship if she shows support, and many I'll simply reject, everything free is inexpensive
Greetings I was on work outside the building relaxing...n the girl said hey why are you out here..give my stoic reply..she said well if you hadda chill outside do it in the back in case some car drive-by n shoot up the place (laugh in mind)..it's a fairly safe place but I guess no place 100%safe
