Girls REALLY Want Guys To Talk To Them Like THIS (How To Talk To Girls 101)

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Learn how girls want you to talk to them! In today's video we're going to be discussing the topic of how to talk to girls and most importantly how women want you to talk to them. The way you talk to someone can make all the difference between the liking you and finding you attractive or them instantly disliking you. If you want to make a good impression with a woman you have a crush on then knowing how to talk to her is vital.
Here is the question of the day, do you think you know how girls want to be talked to? Women and men are not complete opposites but they're not exactly the same. Girls are more emotional than guys on average and this changes how they want to be spoken to. They will prefer those deeper conversations instead of chatting about sports, for example. In today's video I'm going to actually tell you how girls want you to talk to them. It might be shocking to hear some of these things because you would have never thought they would be true. But these tips are fail-proof and if you start talking to girls in this way you might just have a little bit more luck than you did before because all of a sudden you've gone from typical dude speak to romantic.
0:00 Intro
0:48 How girls want you to talk to them
0:56 Girls want you to compliment them
1:31 Girls want you to tell jokes
2:01 Girls want you to find common ground
2:29 Girls want you to notice details
3:08 To ask about their favourite movie or tv
3:47 Girls want you to ask about their passions
4:12 Girls want you to pay attention
4:41 Girls want you to introduce them to people
5:10 Girls want to talk about mundane things with you
5:31 Girls want you to be yourself
6:06 Girls want you to let them talk
6:27 Girls don't want you to mansplain things
7:13 Girls don't want you to talk about your ex
7:33 Girls don't want you to flirt too much
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@Joyanima 2 года назад

Be honest - between 1 - 10 how do you rate your confidence when talking to women? (10 being the highest confidence) reply to this comment and let me know!

@krishmarsmith3405 2 года назад

@michaellabajoromantico5275 2 года назад

@cliveharman7237 2 года назад

0 except for family or work colleagues.otherwise a big 0

@geo_neo9 2 года назад

10 confidence in myself but 1 in women due to vast knowledge I am aware of I am an intellectual awakened super nova soul so have to wait for soul mate.

@paulmarado 2 года назад

I wear a bullet proof vest. But nothing is worse than a good looking single girl who has a girlfriend, not as attractive, that’s a cock block.

@roymillsjnr5172 2 года назад

i speak to them like my mates they no different if they havent got a sense of humour im off 😂😂😂 like really far 👽🎅👍

@williamsantiago9480 2 года назад

That's really good advice

@Positionzen 2 года назад

Jeeeezus all this work guys have to do but what the f*ck do girls have to do?! Just look good???🤦🏾It's like babysitting sometimes

@jayphive2468 2 года назад

Check out the channel Alpha Male Strategies. This chick here is brainwashing guys to be beta males

@jayphive2468 2 года назад

Also, buy the book “The Rational Male,” by Rollo Tomasi. Coach Corey Wayne also has some good videos here, but I wouldn’t take too much advice from a girl. They really don’t know what they want. Psychology gives us the answer, but this fluff, so get to the research and find that power! Then you’ll have unlimited options with women…

@initiatorhater0688 2 года назад

i get pissed off when people say women need skills as well

@TheRumpelstinskin 2 года назад

@@initiatorhater0688 makeup skills maybe

@MarvelMTs 2 года назад

There’s a New Years eve dance coming up really close to me, so this video prepared me for how to speak to a woman there, thanks a bunch Anna!

@deandreharrisonatalltimes5413 2 года назад

Your tongue game is on effin point 🤞🏾👌🏾🎯

@bryanmccallum4614 2 года назад

Thank you Joyanima your video has great information and is well appreciated!

@scotttabak6755 2 года назад

Never raising the tone of my voice like a phoney is one way but being good at speaking to woman is a learned trait, you ladies are different some situational joking flys way over some heads yet others get it right away. I give myself a 10 all day not overconfident just knowing

@andywhite514 2 года назад

Good evening to you. I learned a lot from all your videos you put on RU-vid. All I need is girlfriend to tell her what I learned from you thank you. Andy.

@pseudopsychonym 2 года назад

This is all that stuff that keeps U in the friendzone 4 ever guys.

@JazzBear Год назад

This is just good advice on how to talk to anyone.

@kingkanoworldmedia4389 Год назад

This is the truth. You look fantastic in a tee shirt, especially this one. I love it

@sagemood 2 года назад

I enjoyed realizing that you refer to women is this video as 'they' lol

@gerrywarner4736 2 года назад

What about if she insists on talking about your previous girlfriends etc?

@PaulMiller54 2 года назад

I noticed you're wearing your heart ❤ on your shirt. Sweet!

@rockpilesled 2 года назад

If she doesn't like hockey and can't do drywall or basic framing its a no-go. Also changing oil and landscaping is a plus.

@josephrandolph325 2 года назад

Too funny man. Made me lolololol. How about if she can’t form concrete?

@rockpilesled 2 года назад

@@josephrandolph325 then she's binary its a go.

@collinsmidello4389 2 года назад

you'r a life saver

@frankboone8380 2 года назад

I got prepared speeches conversation with her that makes her feel good about herself and then make fun of myself to make her feel better

@guybaker869 2 года назад

And we also wanna make sure that we wanna get in to know them and present myself in front of him and Melissa and get into their heart so that they learn who I am And I also learned from them so we both do each other and where we talk to each other and to the heart

@invertedgentleman8137 2 года назад

2 points. As an introvert I get exhausted talking and need a break. Or sometimes a conversation ends earlier than I expect because I "hit a wall" so to speak. Thoughts? 2nd, mansplaining is a nonsensical neologism. Please don't go woke on us. (For more on wokeism see John McWhorter's new book.)

@HamoTheUltimate 2 года назад

Im sorry but what ta fug is a neologism and wokeism

@invertedgentleman8137 2 года назад

@@HamoTheUltimate John Mcwhorter is a professor at Columbia University. His latest book, Woke Racism, argues that woke (or the "elect" to use his word) is a budding new religion. While his book deals with race, elect/woke ideology has found its way into much of modern feminist theory. A neologism is a new word (from the Greek "neos" and "logos"). The elect has introduced many new words to our vocabulary such as mansplaining.

@kallemetsahalme5701 2 года назад

@@invertedgentleman8137 Yeah, these were good for a while but just now I saw this and then there was recently also that note about "Care about environment because for sure she does too". It's tippytoeing from "not every girl is like this but this is general common sense psychology" into "eat vegan food and give money to charities and join pride rallies because for sure the dream girls like those things too". The euphemism to mansplain is simply "don't be rude", which would follow channel's style.

@JackieLastrada 2 года назад

#1 You are not even CLOSE to being really woke. Trust me. #2 All this advice this woman is giving only applies to the so-called top 5% of men. The rest, well they probably won't hear , see or even, care what you have to say. Thats on the REAL.

@dazeleaper4542 2 года назад

re. introvert. try reading magazine articles aloud. increase the amount as your capacity increases. make them relevant to what women are interested in as well as your own. the only thing left is how you will ask her if the recent topic interests her.

@mikeburgan7675 2 года назад

I had no idea

@PaulMiller54 2 года назад

Joy how many ladies does it take to change a light bulb and what is the easiest way to change it? I'll wait.

@TheTrueMariWho 2 года назад

The term “mansplaining” is sexist, no self respecting man will have anything to do with a misandrist who uses sexist terms. I know a lot of great men, who won’t have anything to do with feminism because of the misandry sexism that comes with it.

@mr.soundguy968 2 года назад

Notice that women only accuse men of mansplaining if the men in question are ugly

@Keeter101 2 года назад

Correct 100%

@patrickmcdonald8513 2 года назад

Excellent advice very well-balanced

@NOAHCASAS 2 года назад

I LO❤E THAT T~SHIFT LOOKS GOOD

@guybaker869 2 года назад

I have no problem talking to women I got the 7 sisters so it's very easy to talk to women I grew up around women

@califamob 2 года назад

What’s the difference between being friendly and flirting? 🤷‍♂️

@TheRumpelstinskin 2 года назад

a sexual and/or dating undertone

@andersnielsen6044 2 года назад

The difference is in the female brain only..

@jamesdonahue3227 2 года назад

I would say seven out of ten. I do not have issues talking to people that I do not know however I am very guarded for lack of a better word. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt however due to past circumstances of attempted exploitation once certain things happen that I feel that they are treating me like a mark I them choose to reassert firm boundaries which is rarely taken well.

@honeybear8485 2 года назад

Anna Anna you amazing

@theodoresweger4948 2 года назад

After all of this the best trick is no trick be yourself and have confidence just my opinion..

@mattwhite8579 2 года назад

What the hell is this next date" of which you speak?

@captain_daniel9y631 2 года назад

How do mansplane changing a light bulb? What type of bulb was that?

@Ch2.0ris 2 года назад

After watching all your videos, I am still confused how to initiate conversation with her, because things I wanted to do many guys are doing with her, I know I am special for her but still not sure if I take initiative, she might can think others did the same,

@josephbedwell3164 2 года назад

Easy way to find out if she likes you and/or how much she likes you, just ask her where she sees herself in 5 years.

@paulmarado 2 года назад

Ask what her latest haul was. Like Shien. Ask what is their favorite clothing line.

@glenjohnson9039 2 года назад

Girls like who they like, like is inevitable

@andersnielsen6044 2 года назад

And that "who" will change every single day..

@sahalstudio799 2 года назад

I like your T shirt

@georgebalmer3310 2 года назад

It's not what you say, it's how you say it

@johnmcenteggart1663 2 года назад

Why is it all about what do girls want?

@rjw4rjw4 2 года назад

Robert Willis 1 second ago I bet if you searched RU-vid for videos about what men want, you could find them 🤷🏻‍♂️

@frankboone8380 2 года назад

I'm posed to flirt with her but yet I'm not close to flirt with her but yet when she feels like it

@ilyr73 2 года назад

Always be yourself, unless you can be Batman, in which case always be Batman! :)

@humultebaatulti9040 2 года назад

you must be an actress because you are very beautiful

@siehimienroland9676 2 года назад

Lie to them📝but be her guarantee 9🤝

@paulheiting6484 2 года назад

But, really, how many girls can change a light bulb without assistance? lol

@shodan198 2 года назад

I do t agree with the term mansplaning

@johnnylee8762 2 года назад

Tampon or pad always works

@oliverpetroski4205 2 года назад

First😃

@sethwashington6450 2 года назад

Of course

@robertrobinson6541 2 года назад

With 40 years of experience, I can say with absolute metaphysical certitude that if you treat her like crap, she'll love you forever. It's just how they're wired.

@TheRumpelstinskin 2 года назад

Yeah, the advice in this video is a sure way to being sent to the friendzone in record time.

@aarongonzalez4458 2 года назад

@@TheRumpelstinskin I'm so bad at this. I'm good looking, ripped, and have a sense of humor. I'm in wresling at school and there is this girl I've talked to casually but she liked me for sure cause sometimes she touches me and laughs when I saw something that wasn't even funny and some guys were saying that she keeps looking at me outloud when I was flexing in the mirror and she blushes. But I have social anxiety and can't make a move. I was doing great at first but now day by day my confidence is going down. It's weird cause I'm aware of it I just mentally block myself in the movement idk what to do

@robertrobinson6541 Год назад

@Emerson Biggins No, I'm really not. Thanks for playing, though.

@robertrobinson6541 Год назад

@Emerson Biggins Yes. That's why I replied the way I did.

@Meldrick-jv7sy 20 дней назад

7:15 and vice versa.

@symoreprimus2303 2 года назад

Today I’ve learned the woman manual is hard to read.

@bencevoros3295 2 года назад

@frankboone8380 2 года назад

But yet she doesn't want to be honest with me she wants me to be honest with her

@anonannon5986 2 года назад

“Mundane doesn’t mean boring” If you say so…

@robertfindley921 2 года назад

"Do you think you know how girls want to be talked to?" No. I don't think I know, I know. Tall handsome guys, any way the guy wants. All other guys, not at all. Next question?

@bobhess5986 2 года назад

But what do women want?

@joseramone9802 2 года назад

You'll never know because they won't tell you. It's up to you to keep on trying and making a fool of yourself doing it - women like that so they don't have to do anything, inside they're laughing.

@kushalrathod3632 2 года назад

Did I miss something ? Yes your number 😀

@PaulMiller54 2 года назад

Ok, ok are you making enough cabbage to keep me in the ways I'm accustomed?

@spidersj12 2 года назад

Change alight bulb huh? You should have heard a computer science professor that i over had in the 1990s, teaches intro to computer programming explain how to brush your teeth...

@Shihab1979 2 года назад

😜

@honeybear8485 2 года назад

A lightbulb how many blonds bimbos does it take to change a lightbulb hahaha sorry I couldn't help it just kidding

@joshkaye5303 2 года назад

Gentlemen - show some dignity and don't be THAT guy who thinks there is a chance with this chick.... actually keep those comments coming, it's hilarious.

@initiatorhater0688 2 года назад

the word "practice" gets annoying and enraging in regards to this

@veelowmuymalo7258 2 года назад

Girls I attract like the fish hooks

@guybaker869 2 года назад

I just want to talk directly to you Ann and not look anywhere else except look at you and everything you have to say to me and what I need to say to you And then we make that eye contact when we look at each other just for a moment or 2 will bolt melt like a piece of ice cream And then it's to the next level may I ask you where would you like to go out for dinner alright I can just pick a place for you to go out to dinner with you romantic And to make sure that I ask you what kind of food do you like that will have a better idea what restaurant to go to You go to subnice place where they got jazz playing or some kind of music by we're eating and then when the slow dance comes up that's when I'll ask you to come out to the floor with me and dance with me And then we'll get a little to know a little bit more by slide you the most beautiful kiss I could ever give a woman like you Because when I look at you the whole world will be OK And when I look at you it's gonna be a lovely day

@lockyp204 2 года назад

Urghh the whole dating male female paradigm is so skewed. It’s all about the male being good enough for the female. Who could be bothered, really? 🤷‍♂️ This site just reinforces the whole entitlement princess thing.

@Kevs442 2 года назад

I agree, BUT, check out Jordan Peterson's thoughts on man/woman relationship dynamics and why from a biological standpoint, why women really are the choosers.

@lockyp204 2 года назад

@@Kevs442 yeah I’ve seen that. But it’s not biology when you’re 35 to 50 and single. It’s life choices, and maybe you’re not being realistic.

@paulmarado 2 года назад

Chick you get a lot of views.

@guybaker869 2 года назад

This isn't a game when you want to date somebody you just copy the ass compare what you want to go out for dinner my name is guy It's nice to meet you you should be look beautiful and I'd like to take you out for dinner that's all you have to do is simple You know I'm a couple more compliments and you're good to go

@andersnielsen6044 2 года назад

Why do women and/or girls assume that we want to talk to them? And I do think you need to look up the word "genuine" in the dictionary...

@ThenameisOskar 2 года назад

You have no idea how bad it hurts them when they think you want to talk to them, but in stead you just ignore them and walk past them. Their facial expression is priceless.

@andersnielsen6044 2 года назад

@@ThenameisOskar I do it several times every single week.

@ThenameisOskar 2 года назад

@@andersnielsen6044 I have been doing it for the past 10 years. I just cant be bother with girls/women anymore. I also put them directly in their place when they misbehave. If that hurts her I dont even care and dont start treating her better or something. The ironic part comes now... They like me for being like that... Women are weird honestly.

@samppakoivula9977 2 года назад

Girls want compliment: Sure, but don't overdo it Girls like jokes: EVERYONE likes jokes Common grounds: It ALWAYS is good to find common ground with people Want to notice details: Well yeah, I don't Favourites: Sure, good conversation topics, but also risk you ending up friendzoned Passions: same as favourites Pay attention: Just give'em good sex - need to pay less attention Introduce to other people: Good girls do want, bad ones not so much Talking mundane things: Sure, can do that Girls want to be yourself: bwahahahahahahaaa....but yeah, if you TRY, with DESPERATION to be something you are not, but girls like douchebags more than nice guys, if they have to choose Let them talk: Interaction, sure Mansplaining: Yes, that may come as arrogant, but men do it so easily Talking about your exes: Men don't like that either Flirting too much: Sure, but what is too much, varies

@bernarddugo9955 2 года назад

So, when you say mansplaining, you mean condescending? In which case why not say, girls do not like it when a man is condescending. When you use the word mansplaining it sound like men can only be the ones who are condescending and never a woman. God forbid I ever say woman splaining, I would probably end up in hell. Furthermore, I always believed in the old saying, "if you cannot say something good, do not say anything at all." Whoever coined this, must have issues. Go figure. By the way, love what you do, it is pretty helpful. Except there is a lot of information to remember and it's kind of exhausting. I feel like I have to jump through hoops just to win a girl's heart.

@NOAHCASAS 2 года назад

IS IT TIME FOR LADY ANNA TO CHANGE HER "THUMBNAIL'S" TO SHOW OFF HER NEW LOOK CAUSE THAT COLOR & CURLS ARE HER NEW LOOK AND SHE REALLY ROCKIN IT ?¿?

@alejandrodelabarra2838 2 года назад

That is irrelevant.

@chrisdavid735 2 года назад

man splaining is a BS term, If you want to teach someone you SHOULD say it in an slow and simple way ( like what you are doing in this video) Woman splaining to us!

@Meldrick-jv7sy 20 дней назад

There's no such thing as "mansplain."

@Matt2010 2 года назад

Already, way to many contradictions in a lot of what she says.

@whisperwalkful 2 года назад

Do this...dont do it too much...

@EamonReillyartist 2 года назад

‘Mansplaining’ like ‘manspreading’ doesn’t exist. It’s a misandrist term. Please stop using it. It devalues your videos.

@frankboone8380 2 года назад

So-called dude speech isn't good but romantic speeches he thinks his romantic is right

@needparalegal 2 года назад

Pete Davidson is not funny...

@silkyjay869 2 года назад

Thinking the same. His joe Rogan snl was horrific

@gargantuangoose9098 2 года назад

Pete Davidson is the epitome of unfunny. Have you seen his lame attempt at imitating joe Rogan on SNL?

@raxxtango 2 года назад

THIS IS ALL BS - WE'VE BEEN TOLD OVER AND OVER...WOMEN DO NOT WANT TO BE APPROACHED. _ WOMEN ARE GAME PLAYERS AND SHAPE-SHIFTERS.

@jock3l 2 года назад

I love your channel but "mansplain"?! Excuse me? That's such a sexist word

@edwhatshisname3562 Год назад

Yeah! As a guy, I hate it when women femsplain things to me! If it sounds stupid or sexist in that context, that's because it probably is. If I'm explaining something to a woman, and she starts to feel stupid, that's almost certainly coming from a personal problem of hers that she should consider addressing with a shrink or something. Maybe she is legitimately not smart enough to follow the topic that I'm talking about, and that's fine, there are topics or concepts that humble me in that way as well from time to time, that doesn't mean that I should then internally accuse the person talking about the topic in question of making me feel stupid or inferior in some way, as if that was their intent all along. That's an unhealthy and divisive way of thinking about things. Instead, a bit of honesty is in order "I'm sorry I don't follow" or "this is a bit over my head, can we talk about something else" are appropriate ways of responding, if that person makes fun or is condescending at that point THEN it falls on them, then THEY are the jerk.