Going against my better nature, after hundreds of requests, here is my dating advice for women. 

if a woman is pressing you to marriage constantly she jsut love the idea of marriage more than you and you're a mean to an end. your end. never get married.

Yes yes yes. Watch how she reacts to a pre nup

No she wants to be the star of her own show.

sooo true!!! She just wants the aisle and the white dress. F all that. She should find CHAD for that!!!

Even if she doesn't appear to be all about the wedding there are still potential pitfalls for the guy. If the marriage certificate is her clear priority then he needs to ask "Am I a life-jacket and, if so. what is she secretly drowning in?".

They cheat on these types. And then blame him.

That's why you tell them it's my way or fuck you from the get go and use those exact words and don't come here asking for structure and discipline to only say im to controlling later.. You must always discuss the future and longevity of the relationship up front as well. If a woman tells you she loves you and wants to be with you ask them will you still love me or want me 05/10/15/20 years from now and if you have not even thought that far into the future than shut you ass up little girl even if she is in her 30s or 40s. I always tell them if you disagree with me and you are wrong I will take you and practice MMA moves on you. For some reason I have had really good luck with women and in the last almost 3 decades I have only had 3 relationships that did not work out

They lack accountability and have no responsibility for their actions because they don’t have to. Your strength comes from not letting it get to you and moving on to better things. Be indifferent. The difference that makes a difference is indifference (a Paul Elam quote).

By better you mean sane right?

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This! 👆🏼

Finally someone gets it

I've said that for decades - If you're not good enough *without* a relationship in your life, you'll never be good enough *with* one.

Facts😂

@Gerr Gerring They have nothing to do with each other. The statement means that your shouldn't enter a relationship. Unless your **** is in order not that you won't love your woman I'd you do get in a relationship. (That's how I read it anyway)

You guys problably lived in the golden age for relationships. Today things are too messed up. But there are still some lucky couples out there.

I'm in your age group and we grew up when color TV was the hot new thing. Plastic toys were just becoming obtainable for most households and the birth of supermarkets revolutionized shoppers choices. We also had more traditional family structure based on biblical teachings where shame was still a very real possibility. Without these biblical and ethical guardrails society fragments into the chaos we see today. The radical influences of the 60s and 70s may have given us some good music but there were a few people that survived the communistic forces of the SDS and Weatherman that have contributed to many in government and especially all levels of education. These forces are now bent on destroying the very traditional principles we were raised up to revere. Much of the costal populations and larger cities have fallen victim to these small minority players, but the mainstream media wants us to believe this is the new norm. However, there are more of us that are waking up to their schemes and are firstly throwing out the bums at local, state and eventually federal levels of government. The real problem is the unions of government workers and the problem of terminating federal employees. If Christ delays and these are not the end times one of two things will happen to the U.S. Either we wrestle our country back from the brink of chaos or it's too late and chaos will destroy it from within. The wild card that other civilizations have never before witnessed is if a population of armed Patriots stands up and takes control from the posers in D.C. that say they will protect and defend the Constitution of the United States. Almost all could be brought up on charges of one thing or another where they have violated that oath. There may be a handful that could escape being brought up on charges! P.S. Sorry about the loss of your husband. Losing someone whether you've been together a year or 50 years is heartbreaking. Not only do you feel the loss but you feel lost.

My answer to dating in a messed up environment: I only talk about courting the woman I'm interested in Marrying. Cuts out the looky Loo's.

Amen Mame'.

@@randyeast2542 I am sorry for your loss. I do pray you find that deep love again with someone new sometime. Please know you're not alone either in your grief or your confusion about the dating scene now.

that's pretty good......too bad not one woman will read that and "get it".

This is correct. The only thing chicks have to do is NOT create conflict. THEY are the ones with the laundry list of demands, not guys.

Damn that 95%

@@muskokamike127 They will have shaming tactics ready to go after reading the first line.

@CvnDnRU - for what’s its worth, I absolutely agree with you... Is this not common sense though?

This is truly golden advice 🌟

Thanks

Low key perfect.

@shakhir r I pray to God that this guy wakes up and pisses you off immediately!

This comment could end feminism, lol. If only they'd adhere to it.

Yeah, that pretty much sums it up.

Most women nowadays seem to only bring one thing to the table. And that one thing has been passed around like it's going out of style.

How to be a good woman: be loyal

You cannot make a woman go against their nature. And there is absolutely no point explaining anything about ego or cooperation to them. They will nod, they will agree, they will subtly virtue signal to appear as if they understand where you're coming from and agree, but in reality they will never go against their nature/ego.

@Blaster Master Exactly.

A VERY smart man indeed.

Did you ever get a man like that in the end?

I suppose the same goes for women. Btw, did you find that man yet? Just curious

@@spicybreadproductions1972 I've been with my husband for the last 8 years...so you tell me :)

@@koroglurustem1722I think most men innately understand that no one is perfect and are willing to compromise. I'm happily married to a wonderful man. My father didn't raise a fool, nor an entitled daughter. I'm lucky to have him as a father.

man, you deserve a motorcycle, some sunglasses and a sunset

Beer to you

Saint David :-)

All exes should be cold turkey cut off. You did the right thing. Never do that halfway in and out garbage

Well Richard Cooper of Entrapuenors and Cara says you make friends with Men not Women you're interested in and it fails. You did the right thing.

Too true. Always a one way power imbalance. They want you to do things for them, but moment u ask them for a favour... flake city.

I told a women that female friends are a dime a dozen. She got pretty angry. lol

My response was fuck you. Considered it an insult...

Some girl i met online was like "lets go out but has friends" was like im good/pass.... 😂😂

Hahaha! That's classic. I like that. It's a nice tactful exit. Sometimes I feel like saying all my friends are more than capable of keeping their vehicle maintained, paying their rent on time, changing tap washers, mowing their lawn, chopping down trees e.t.c. And even if they can't/don't know how to do some of those things, they always know how to do something I don't. E.g. Invest efficiently. What can you do that makes you worth being friends with? In my experience the answer is either a shocked look or batted eyelashes.

Too short. Are you attractive otherwise? Fit/ripped/style? If you're sloppy, no one cares about a $150K income. That's what $75K was in 1992.

@@Re3iRtH Not ripped, but I could probably get laid quicker than you!

Re3iRtH that last statement is false but ok.

​@@Re3iRtH "no one cares about a $150K income" - Of course they do. *Plenty* of women will be very happy indeed to leech off of that money like a blood-sucking parasite. Granted, they won't be genuinely attracted their provider male...but they *will* be to his money, and hence would agree to enter a relationship with him on that basis. You are quite ignorant if you think that kind of money can't pull women. Granted, it wouldn't be attracting them for the right reasons. Then again, neither would Looks, which is what you are advocating for. I'm not a Chad, but if I was, then I wouldn't want a woman to be using me just because of my appearance.

Wow sad but true . Mad respect tho . Least u have a great child not bad !

Hehe I'm French but didn't know about this good advice...

Damn straight. My wife is happiest when she is taking care of me. She shows respect and support, as I do for her. This is probably the only time where I agree with the phrase "happy wife, happy life." So it becomes a case of "Happy spouse, happy house." Like Joker says, we are together because we both choose to be together.

That’s good advise

Choose a spouse for the conversation, marriage to me is nothing more then a piece of paper that cost thousands to be recognized in the eyes of the government. I dont need a priest, God, or the government involved in my relationship.

We need to go back to polyamorous TRIBES like the Native American Indians (most were poly). Monogamy is not natural for primate mammals like us. That's why it fails so often. It's been a failure for thousands of years actually (I've done my thesis on this topic). Not only is poly more natural to our s3xual biology but it's also better for children, since they will have many fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, cousins, aunts, uncles, etc.. so even if the primary biological parents separate, it doesn't have an impact on raising the child. It worked perfectly for the Native Tribes.

happy for you, at 64 some of the women who ignored me have died, others never married and are still looking in their 50s, moral--life is short

Happy for you

Me and my husband are opposite personality, but have the same values and morals and ideals. I believe God brought us together, and choosing to love each other, support each other with God's help has kept us together. Married at 20 and 23, we grew up together and it was the best. 16 years and 6 kids later. All the dating rules now make me nervous for my kids, with social media. Love your story Sherie.

Just Me inside you! It sounds like you ignored a lot of red flags. Number 1 is the materialistic adittude your wife had.

@Just Me inside you! I have a Tomi (Tommee Tippee) blender that doesn't like dates either. The dates must be hot and soft or she'll struggle and break down.

Amen.

Women are like: ''Let's ask this guy to give us advice it so we can ignore it,teehee!''

@Alexander Leonard Ahem, *waving hands* Some of us are here. I've actually pointed my brother to this channel too, as he's going through a bad divorce. If/when he's ready to start dating again, I will make him watch every episode.

They don't have to, until the wall hits..then it's too late...feminism and simping are cruel af to women. The world is not getting better for them at all.

I was thinking this the whole time too, they will scoff at how unrealistic it sounds. Similar to the way men don't take advice from women seriously either.

lol

I can still see him saying that... lol 😂 I have the box set ,)

I disagree even my skiny ass looks fat in some stuff

No, your fat ass makes your fat ass look fat - Walter

She tells Al she is going to call in a complaint. AL says try complaining to Jenny Craig.

Better be alone than with someone who makes you feel lonely.

BRAVO Lou....

I agree with this. We have the same system minus the children. We talk to each other and both have different interests and areas of expertise. But very common hobbies and goals.

Dear Michelle - 👏 Bravo... this is also how I was raised... I am so happy for you both :)

I wish women could get over what they think submissive is. My mother is a Leo sign and no doormat. But she has always been submissive to my dad and if he says no then it is no and that is that. There is no arguing.

You are valuable. Your kids will thank you in the long run. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise. We have this modern idea that we don't need to raise our children, because other people can. Why would I raise my children when there are babysitters, and schools and the like. They will teach my kids the values I see fit right? Nobody has the same vested interest in seeing your children succeed as you. I find it cringy to say keep up the good work as I haven't observed your parental skills in action. But hopefully that applies.

Extreme exception to the rule so congratulations. Most times when Husbands put in hard work at a relationship the Wife sees that as weakness, the "chase" is over and she starts talking to that new Chad at work who mentioned he liked her smile a few days ago. Sad truth. The harder you try the quicker you die with most all women.

This is so true.

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Damn, now I'm hungry.....

Can you tell I didn't have dinner yet? Given the choice between steak and potatoes or steak and more steak...I'd always take the second option.

Damn you guys are still up? What’s the time at your local area right now? Down here in Germany it’s 08:07 am 😂

@@GruseligerZigeuner It's 1:50 am where I'm at lol

Yep. Dated a gal, off and on for years. She ran for the hills when she had to interact with her 'friends' when I would be there. I said, ok. Actually gave her another chance when we lived in the same city. Same song and dance. I like going on dates with you, but I don't want people to think I'm actually associated with you. Listed her wants in a man, (of my ethnicity, etc). I said, fine. Found another girl, actually fairly similar to her. She was shocked. She met up for coffee and asked me why I'd date someone like her when she's so far away and she's right here. All I said, was - I DID! You had multiple chances. You chose not to take them. Not interested in you anymore, but I was 15 years ago, and you knew it.

I had a women I knew casually from a group of friends ask me years later to my face "Why didnt we ever hook up" I said you werent my type. I've never seen a women disappear so fast. She was one of those that everyone slept with

A girl from my HS days told me a week ago that she always had feelings for me..... I am already married tho 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

This girl Lindsey did that to me way before I was woke. Now she comes after me here and there. And I shut her ass down. It's honestly great. I'm so glad I woke up to this shit years ago.

@@Benkenobi8118 odd

Those principles aren't mutually exclusive though. Sometimes the quickest filter are the negatives

but they'll rule'em out cause...hypergamy

Tomi Lahren comes to mind

@@richiebambara3980 you really have to look that far?

@@richiebambara3980 That was the first thing that popped into my head!!! LOLOLOL!!

I was thinking about 80% of them myself

I think women who truly meet this description wouldn’t be looking for a relationship at all. Women are humble and cooperative as a response to a man they have truly bonded with. If they are the opposite in manner, then they simply aren’t interested in that man.

so true

Good point. That's why I will never remarry.

It's all about being a bride and living like a princess for a day, never about being a wife for life. You're right. They want to be bride and not wives. It's like wanting a puppy, but not a dog.

Most of them just want the wedding and not the marriage

I think that too many women are also living in a blue pill haze.

Or actually wants to be friends 🖖

@MrGunboat78 That's why you instantly get up leave and next her. Time is money and you don't waste money on stagnant investments.

For a man it (mostly) means rejection, for her it means (if he's friendzoned) constand validation.

Yes, true.

Let's be friends,u are such a nice guy,why can't i find a bf just like you?=rejection. U will never see Chad or Tyrone in the friendzone

no its close to 120%, count the simps

I agree with everything he said.

Because most of them will assume that - like they do for a fact - Joker is actually meaning the contrary of what he is saying.

Look on the bright side! That means 0.0000001% of women WILL believe it - an improvement.

I want to like it... put is perfect...

Matter of fact, there are indeed a lotta women not even considering a first date without a full dinner. I couldn't say by principle "the younger the more spoilt", but it tends towards that. Many are surprised or even repelled when I say exactly what You put out as Your first rule.

@@manfredschmalbach9023 Then they do not need the pleasure of your company. I would never expect to be wined and dined on the first date. Starbucks coffee is a great place and that was my first date with the guy who became my husband. He asked if I wanted to go to a night club, but I've never been comfortable in those places. They are like meat markets and you cannot have a conversation with the insanely loud music.

Great comment. Yeah, coffee and conversation is all that's necessary if the two people are actually trying to get to know each other.

@@StratumPress I prefer a drink and dancing as a first date personally.

How often do you pay for yourself?

@chris ., yeah but you can't put them down as your emergency contact.

@@babyzorilla you cant rely on them to be faithful, why rely on them in an emergency?

Exactly the same here. Stay brave my friend, stay brave...

@@ligdeyendama884 👏👏👍👍

@@babyzorilla who cares? Seriously, I bet if I needed a ride to the hospital in the middle of the night and called my last GF she'd probably give me a hard time about it. I mean, I drove her to drop off or pick up her car at the shop a dozen times, I asked her to do the same for me 1/2 dozen times and she always had an excuse not to. Last time she volunteered, then when the time came she refused to. The last straw was: text: hey can you pick me up at the garage tomorrow? No, I'm going with my brother and his van to pick up a new couch. What time? 10. Ok, I need a pick up at 8. Then she went "dark" as I call it (when she doesn't respond).........the funny thing? Not a week later she called and asked me to come to her store and see about a repair she needed. I ignored the message she left. Then she came knocking on my door...."can you come over and take a look at what I need fixed"? Nope. What do you mean nope? It means nope I can't come over and look at it. The look on her face was PRICELESS what what what? how can you say NO to MEEEE?

Hmm, I only thought there was 4 sixes. Can you tell me what they are?

I was matched with a girl on a dating app, we talked for a couple hours casually! After she found out i have kids, she said I’m not into guys with kids!”. Now insert plot twist..... she’s 5’2 and easily 450lbs, easily! Now I’m not into those types of females. So I let her know I said well “I’m not into BIG girls but Here I am talking to you!” I was BLOCKED quickly!! Now I was not mad about the kid thing, just trying to figure out where she got such an inflated idea of herself, idk

6 figure salary, 6 pack abs, 6 ft y’all, 6 inches in the pants, 600 hp car, 6 months since last relationship

@@turtleman8476 they keep adding more. Pretty soon it will be the 16 sixes

Where can I find women with a 7 figure income? My friend says he doesn't mind ugly women as long as she is rich, I'd stick with the teenagers.

so true, many women lack the courage to approach a guy

@@michaelsix9684 and yet it's probably easier than approaching a woman in terms of success rate (exception being a gay man approaching a violent misohomosexual/homophobe)

Dam this is refreshing! I've always thought it would make me appear less feminine... P. S women feel the same about men... Im sad about the state of the two genders in this day and age-- we can hardly face each other 😢

I don’t want a red-pilled psycho, thanks.

I 100% agree with you. Personally, I'd like a woman to tell me what she wants instead of doping hints. Half the time she says she likes you but just doesn't want to offend you, or says she doesn't when she really does. Be straightforwards with us. If you disagree with your man, that's ok. What matters is you respect each other for your disagreements and find a way to work that into your life. The who "No I'm not mad" when you really are mad thing needs to stop. So yes, take initiative. Say you like him. Ask him out. Look at it this way ladies. If a man asks a girl out he has to fear being labeled as a sexual harasser if she is having a bad day. If you ask a guy out whats the worst that is going to happen? He certainly isn't going to file a restraining order.

*laughs in Mark Hamill.*

Haha. Semi-automatic go brrr

If it's the Joker from the 2019 movie, I doubt the date is real 😀

The fuck is a role model? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ah yeah, maybe add "not the psycho clown guy, but the chill youtube guy" 👍

Used to be a Level 1 welder in 2017 when I was 18 years old fresh out of secondary school. Now I'm a certified welding inspector on the side, and building custom computers as a main. Still using public transport to and from work, and also for my own travels. Happy and relaxed everyday when outside of work.

This can go for life in general as well. Instead of looking for things to be unhappy about, find things to be grateful for. I'm working on this

This can be applied about anything, it makes u happy...

Portuguesa?

Men wonder how many women are left who wish to marry a traditional man...and share in this by also being a traditional woman.

My guess?( Presuming& excuse me if way off base)Youre a normal sane strong women, simply looking for what makes good man ? How to keep one? Here on Jokers channel? Good for you.😁 If more ppl did their homework of a variety of subjects, the world would be a better place. 🥰 It used to be taught handed down. Now w both parents too busy trying to make ends meet( huge socioeconomical prob that needs to change) few have time to teach young ppl anything about life. Why Grandparents are so important. Married 33 yrs I find myself alone. Out of dating scene since I was 18. Its just nuts out there. Lol.

You must be cool.

@@WildernessMusic_GentleSerene Many want to marry traditional men, then they want to divorce them.

True

@Mike Robinson Believe it or not, there are women who don't want or care about male friends. My husband and I don't have friends of the opposite sex. Actually we don't really even have friends since we moved from our home state 14 years ago. We're happy just having each other.

@Mike Robinson I've been married for 20 years. I do not have guy friends. My husband is the first boyfriend I ever had so I have no "ex boyfriends". Of course I've had men hit on me but a polite thank you I'm married is enough. And my social media is facebook family and friends that we knew when we lived on the east coast. I'm sorry you have such a low opinion of women that you don't think it's possible for a woman to be faithful. But it is. I will tell you this.... a man who says he's unwilling to get married is a man who will never find a truly faithful woman. I strongly believe that. He'll find a woman who convinces herself she doesn't care about marriage. But as time goes on, if a woman loves a man, she will want commitment from him. My husband told me he wanted to marry me within the first month of dating and that was back in 1999. So yes a man can find a loyal and faithful woman, but he is never going to find that if he doesn't want commitment. And marriage is the ultimate commitment. Yes it's a risk. But it's also a risk for a woman to take herself off the market in her prime years and hope her husband doesn't find a younger woman when she's middle aged. Wanting a woman loyal to you for life isn't unrealistic. Wanting it without marriage is. JMO.

@Mike Robinson I want to clarify that I volunteer in our church working with girls teenaged to early 20s. The focus of our group is being feminine in a feminist world. We also discuss what men want in a future wife. I stumbled on manosphere videos a couple of years ago when a friend of ours had shared them on facebook. I was intrigued. I've actually learned a lot about modern relationships and I've even learned a lot about women! But I'm not here trying to attract men or seek validation. I'm just contributing my thoughts. I want to make that point clear. As far as if the "right man" came along? I'm already married to the right man. In this crazy world, if you can find love once you are lucky. I would never be so stupid to be married to such a wonderful man and still think there are better men out there. That's how 18 or 20 year old girls think. Also, what kind of a "right man" would pursue a married woman? Not a man with morals that's for sure. I met my husband at 25 when I'd already seen enough of the world to know he was a good man. And I did not have to sleep around to realize that. I was a virgin when I met him. But I had experienced enough to know he was the perfect man for me. Anyway marriage does not mean that you will never again find another person attractive. You will. Both of you will at some point in your life. But it's your commitment to each other and your marriage that sees you through that. I believe the Bible is correct that we should flee from temptation. Which is why I don't believe in have friends of the opposite sex or going out alone with co-workers. We should avoid situations that jeopardize our relationships, not play with fire. I would never confuse attraction with love. I've met nice, handsome men since I've been married. So what? They mean nothing to me. All of the women from my church singles group I attended in the mid to late 90s are still happily married. My parents and my husband's parents are married over 50 years. Maybe being surrounded by good marriages has given me a better view on it. But I want to respect this channel and not just be a cheerleader for marriage.I do respect what Joker has said and he does give very good advice. There is nothing wrong with a man being very cautious. If a woman isn't making a man's life 100 times better than when he was single, then she's just not the one. It can't be just okay. A relationship needs to be excellent for it to be worth it. Best of luck in life to you.

@Happle Apple They can be friends without liking each other. But what you are doing is proving to him and he is proving to you that there isn't even a possibility of any funny business. It's like Mike Pence saying he doesn't have meetings with women alone without other people around. Even if he has no intention of doing anything, he doesn't even want there to be a question in anyone's mind about it. I can see why a person might take that additional step.

That was my last GF. She kind of forced us into committed quick before I could check her friends list full of guys (just friends). She did delete her dating profile but she had me delete mine all female names in my contacts not related and any girl I smiled with while talking to casually she threatened to beat up. Meanwhile she flirted with every Chad possible behind my back. Lasted two years we had a lot of fun so no regrets but yeh this is pretty much the norm.

A huge double standard. Nr. 1 dealbreaker for me. In every relationship with a woman who had "just friends" there was always more going on. It starts as a shit test, with how much BS she can get away with. Nowadays I have zero tolerance. If she says she wants "exclusive" and keeps up with the BS, I drop her like hot potato or degrade her as a FWB and start fooking around too. Because options. ;-)

You know what I find funny, the only women you ever hear insist on having guy friends are women in relationships. You never hear a single woman insisting that she needs to have guy friends.

....and women with 500+ D's in her; need to find a man of equal immorality.

Smart system you got there. I tried to do something similar with my ex, but after enough years went by she got really adamant on marriage, convincing herself that if I didn't marry her than I didn't love her. Suffice to say, it ended our relationship. A woman who will participate in that system is pretty rare it seems. Consider yourself lucky.

I'm a woman in a similar situation and it works for us. Disney style love is a myth. Either you're committed or your not. 10 years together so far 😊

​@@deathzero0212 Yeah, a little lucky maybe, but I gave myself better odds because I was actively screening for 3rd wave feminism and baby rabies, and remorselessly jetising failed candidates immediately at the merest glimmer of a 2nd red flag incident (because at 2, it's starts to be a pattern). When the shit or get off the pot conversation inevitably happened about year 4, I simply asked her, "Would you rather have an (unmarried) life partner starting _right now,..._ Or, would you rather, starting right now, go out and try to find some other guy to _actually marry,_ and maybe, someday in the future, possibly, maybe have a marriage to that other guy, if you found one that is, maybe?"

Treat it like a business. I like that. Thanks for sharing.

@@Sevensliders well why not? You're working on your life goals together and (hopefully) building wealth and assets together. It makes sense. Not very romantic sounding. Doesn't matter.

THANK YOU! Your boys are lucky to have you! P.S. 😊 By the way, you're VERY pretty!

Girl start the vlogs on how to be more that type of woman!! I'd definitely watch 👍🏻as the gentleman above (or below?) Said you are very pretty so that'll get you views as well :)

I am ok with gender-neutral 50/50 relationship, but men don’t actually want that.

​@@rondolo1 Then find yourself a man who is like that. You are looking for an effeminate man. There is no problem with that, unless you don't like them.

@@pepepepe9682 I don't want him to be effiminate, I want relationship to be fair. And fair is sharing responsibilities 50/50. You cannot survive on one income in moderm world, thus two people need to be working. But if two people are working and have equal income then chores need to be shared 50/50. But that is theory. In reality men are totally ok with a woman going to work and brining home her income same as a man, but when it comes to sharing responsibilities around the house they quickly find excuses why they cannot do it.

True.

Ryan J well that doesn’t mean anything, if we’ve learned anything about woman, if you were such high value and hinted at dating her, then she’d be jumping out of that relationship instantly.

It's possible, but only with mature people that actually have similar interests.

Not true. It may or may not be rare but I have a few female friends. We have fun in many ways but we're not attracted to each other.

this is a tough one because there seem to be so many male-female friendships that work. And yet you can never really know how someone feels especially if they're good at hiding it or have a partner. I'm a fence sitter on this one.

Actually I think she had reasonable concerns RE the homeless bus. But the problem was a problem she created. Shoulda just parked and paid. That's a pill. Dated a girl that got pissed when I gave a decent tip to the waitress (I've worked for tips before). She said that was too much. I said, well, that's a decent tip (about 20 percent). She got mad and said that I was flirting with her. I ended up saying, maybe I should ask her out instead. They are a dime a dozen.

@ Emanuel..I hope it didn’t cause too much friction with the Family, they sound really respectful & nice. I hate to say you dodged a bullet because maybe she just wasn’t the one for you or vise versa but you dodged a bullet. Happy trails & stay safe out there. Peace!

IRL experience is more valuable than people think... Also, think of all the time your friends wasted studying such important electives such as "gender studies" and "art history" 😂

You are so right!!! Never thought of it that way. But your also right when it comes to higher education. I started out as what some people call a lowly auto mechanic. Was very successful, with great customers. I worked for a retail company that also did other services. I decided after 14 years that something needed to change. So I was recruited from another division of the same retail store to repair all kitchen appliances. Then it was furnaces, well pumps etc. Took a few college courses to improve my skills, such as electricity and hydraulics. Was offered a job to build homes from my brother....more skills learned, framing, siding, roofing, plumbing, more electrical, furnace installs with central air. A former teacher friend from high school says there is an opening for a Machine Shop teacher at the school where he now teaches. Which happens to be a Career Center....I'm 38 years old, and jump at it....I become a real teacher for the next 17 years, with fantastic students that are super successful .....so now I'm 55.....I am recruited to a company to be a machinist.....I enjoy the work, the company gives pay raises etc. Then I'm recruited to be a "Design Engineer" at a company that creates grain equipment. I get three patents......stay for three years. It was a great job, but the money ran out for the company to invest. Always wanted to be a Locksmith....became friends with a local locksmith, and landed a job....been there 4 years, but the virus came, and basically laid off. decided to retire....I also manage the family farms. The point with this story is.....I became everything I ever wanted to be including having a "Real" teaching certificate.......with NO COLLEGE DEGREE of any kind! Am I a genius? No way!! Do I know everything? No way....Do I want to learn more? YES YES !!!! Do I ever pay for anything to be repaired? NOT.....I divorced 34 years ago, have a nice lady friend. I live where I live, and she does the same. neither of us wants marriage. I do what I want, she does the same. We are now 40 miles apart, we telephone and keep in touch that way. Everything is paid for, all is well!! People....follow your goals....and maybe some of your dreams........some times dreams are just dreams. But realistic goals are real, and if they are not so giant, they can be reached. And be real with yourself. I know at my age I can't be a gymnast at the olympics. I'm not going to the moon as an astronaut. And thats OK..... I'm in good shape, no beer belly, cause I don't drink or smoke or do drugs. And I'm not boring to be with. So as I told my students.....go after what you want, but be honest about it, be real with your goals!!! But the Joker is right on all points!! Be very careful when it comes to women!! I have one great son, and had one poor marriage....

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That's is because of feminist indoctrination in schools. People used to learn it from their mothers and grandmothers. But now, they (both boys and girls) are taught by angry feminist teachers, who specialize in gender studies. What do you expect them to teach? Only when they grow up, they search on their own and discover it on internet. That's the meaning of THE RED PILL.

@@mahadevparmekar2565 i go to international school run by uk ppl and when they teach about politics, it shit i tell u. i wish to poke the dumb bs teacher eye with my chopstic.

@@de_soot its world wide phenomenon buddy. I am from India, it isn't much different here either.

@@mahadevparmekar2565 oof man.

There is rarely any viewer who acts on some advice given by a content creator. Humans are mostly lazy.

@Red Pilled Fox Your poll is to generic for me to answer properly, for example. If you want the advice to be heard, the answer is obvious;y a woman because brick walls have no ears to hear. However, if you wish your advice to be acted upon, then the proper answer would be the brick wall, because women will never act upon it.

@Nikki yea, but....there can be MORE loyal men in the world than there are obedient women..... So calm down chick 🤣👍

I think you nailed it......

what about starting by stopping the bs of acting offended if a guy propose sex.

Most definitely average guys have no chance to even sleep with top10% women nowadays in avg. Mby one in a million.

@@unlimited971 well, if the guy walks up to a complete stranger on the street and says "wanna fuck" ........yeah, they can be offended.....

@@Dimens1oner The thing about that is, people (other guys) have criticized me for holding out for the top 20......My response was and has always been: If I'm going to get shot down (rejected) by a 6 who thinks she's a ten, why not go for the 9's and 10's then? Case in point: I knew this friend of a friend was single and looking. She was a cashier at a Walmart type store, lived in a dumpy apartment, drove a crappy car. She was a 6 on a good day. I asked her out, she shot me down flat. What the F? I had a $100,000.00 boat, a decent truck, a decent apartment, worked at a large corporation, had $400K in a retirement plan, and she's shooting ME down?

@NightWolf or don't pick p women in night clubs.... they all have boyfriends.

NightWolf you arent socially retarded brother, youre too smart for a retarded society. That feeling you have, that everybody around you is a vapid idiot? Youre right. That frustration you feel, knowing that you know better than whats going on but nobody else seems to get it? Thats justified. Just dont let the frustration overwhelm you. Its a tough world out there, but thats why we are strong, clever, and adaptable creatures. We can carve our own way through that jungle that wants to eat us. You can do it, and so can i.

This is actually VERY important, to me at least. I'm extremely introverted, and have mainly dated extroverts to add contrast and color into my life. Unfortunately some of these people packed their bags up and left cause they felt that I was too quiet, or that I just didn't want to open up. I had an ex gf - 4 years ago - that put me through some mental gymnastics - she'd cry and break down cause I never "opened up". What she didn't realize was that I was merely trying to get more comfortable with her. I don't so much as "struggle" in typical social situations, it's more like I'm naturally reserved. So yes, sound advice, sir. Lots of people need to hear this.

after 20 plus yrs. in clubs, my advice is avoid them--you will never meet the right girl there

What's wrong with dating a woman on the autism spectrum? If neurotypicals won't date men with autism, it seems like an obvious solution.

Looks + Finance + X factor = Value. The X Factor is the unknown, becos I've noticed some people have average looks and finance but there is something about them that still creates a higher value, Eg charisma/confidence, promise, loyalty, etc. Another way to look at it, if someone is gorgeous looking and really rich but is a complete egotistical and violent person, then there actual value decreases in comparison to someone who is just as good looking and rich but has a better personality.

Men don't care about a woman's financial situation as long as she doesn't owe money in debt. When a woman has a higher financial SMV she doesn't want or need a man with less money. It narrows her options having a lot of money.

Yep, beauty is just skin deep... personality, character is marrow deep

​@Lisa L. It's almost NEVER the man who leaves. Just saying. F-boys leave, because they get bored. And that's what women confuse. But yeah I kinda understand why women are going yolo, they know they have a small time window for the funzies. They are so scared what would happen to them after 30. Well... Maybe if they established a good moral ground, instead of bouncing from f-boy to another f-boy......... "Ohh the thrills, the emotions, he really gets me going down there." All those 6packs with the lucky jawline and the facny car. Childish.

Let's go with big brother or uncle, I don't wanna feel that old! :D

@@BetterBachelor Lol

100% agree. Respect will make or break any relationship. And what most people think love is (feelings, butterflies, etc.) cannot be the foundation of a long-term relationship, as feelings are fleeting. But respect, and proper commitment, compassion and empathy, those can last a life time and aren't easily replaced.

I would say realizing your significant other doesn't respect you is worse than realizing she doesn't love you. Happened to me

@@deathzero0212 feelings aren't fleeting if done healthily - most people are emotional infants and can't handle depth of feeling and so then eventually become numb - often number before they hit puberty!

find out if she has criminal record or on meds or getting mental health treatment--run away

❤️ See I think these all should be a given as well.

@Jennifer Boehm No one would suggest you date someone like that tho. But be careful with words like insincere or demands sex, even egotistical. With insincere and egotistical, make sure you aren't looking for those when they aren't there. And demanding for sex isn't just asking and looking for intimacy. Guys are the most surprised when women date awful people.

No cigarettes/big tattoos/piercings especially nose and tongue. Don't use Jesus' name as a swear word. Not belittle a man if he has a bad day, just give him a big warm hug and let that soft glossy hair of yours bury his face. I'm wondering how well I'd do at attracting a man if I took on female form (not many are going to fancy me in this body haha) but retained my wisdom.

meanwhile you let yourself go, fart in front of her, hang with your buddies and use "game" as a verb, LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL go luck big dave

I miss that dude! He was/is awesome. Super solid advice. I think he peaked too early in youtube. He would be as popular as this guy.

Happiness is a choice.

Feminism has truly rotted their brains into believing traditional roles are somehow beneath them.

I think plenty of good people with morals (both women and men) are on board with most of this advice. Relationships predictably go awry when someone (whether male or female) wants someone else to be something or do something that he or she is not. If you are someone that's been in casual relationships (leaving annulled/divorced/widowed aside), then maybe is it unrealistic to expect a virgin? Anyone that goes into a relationship or marriage expecting the other person to be a full-time slave or servant needs to either be prepared to be disappointed or realize that they are possibly becoming a villain in a horror film.

@@maam-yj8ph I've got news for you: Villains are considered attractive. Especially by women. Lol.

Concur. In my experience a woman will ask for advice, listen attentively and agree with it, all prior to disregarding it utterly and doing what she was going to do anyway.

@@SlideRulePirate learned this the hard way n just stopped giving advice or even caring if she's listening or not on the rare occasions I end up doing so. There are rare exceptions to be fair. Very rare.

And stop mansplaying, never forget that ridiculous word

Men can get most things in life when effort is applied in earnest. All we want is someone emotionally supportive that we can fuck.

Decent men appreciate that, i don't want a girl who is married to go out with me ...

Yes! I agree 👍💯 with you. There needs to be consciously recognized levels of intimacy to friendships and voluntary adherence to the guideline that married men don't entertain single women solo and neither should married women entertain single men without their spouse in attendance. There are too many temptations in the world already to compound the issue of casting doubt or suspicion of infidelity into a new or even tried marital relationship especially in the too-easy age of hook-up culture.

latt.qcd92 absolutely. I usually pay my portion when I’m not interested, especially anything sexual. I feel like since they didn’t pay, I don’t owe them

It's damned if you do, damned if you don't, as is EVERYTHING about dating females.

At least she is honest if she pays her own dinner, she doesn't see you as a credit card with legs.

Keep in mind, that kind of response is likely to be an excuse for when they don't pay for their own food. It's a way to tell guys "hey, if I don't wanna pay, it's because I like you!" Don't fall for those mind games they play. A good woman (in theory) would offer to pay for her own meal on the first few dates, hell if she has a steady job, no reason should wouldn't pay on all her dates. It's a manner of respect. Also, those kind of statements only apply to average joes, when it comes to Chad & Tyrone, she will pay for his meal if he's one of those broke as hell but attractive and charming types. And than she'll sleep with him hahaha. I've seen crazier things in college...

I feel like it usually means she doesn't know he asked her on a formal date. If he says he'd like to take her on a date and make it clear it's a date, I would be interested in him wanting to pay. He doesn't always have to in the future but it's nice to be treated. I like treating men to dinners who treat me to dinners previously

Joker: "Ladies, Look nice, try to make good conversation, and offer to split the bill." Women: *NO*

Wouldn't that be nice? Stay off the market boys, it's not worth your time.

No feminism.

@UC1U7yls5SMpITN-dsC_hSLQ Well tbh they said "they don't need no man" so we're simply coping out. Dating and marriage has gone to hell, thank feminist and hypergamy for that.

And your legs lol

"I dump You because You willingly became the one I made You". Female "logic".

In my case that's the ex of my ex friend, motherfucker cheated on her with his cousin (idk what the fuck happened there, as far as I know, he still is doing it with his cousin.... O.O)but then she told me, when she was dating him that she felt something for me, I declined her offer bc, for me, it was like cheating my friend (even if he is a fucking asshole and we cut all ties, I already have been cheated before and I know how does it feels) so mf broke with her and now she is telling me that she wants something serious with me but tbh, I don't trust her at all.... I KNOW THIS WILL SOUND REALLY FUCKING STUPID, but since I was in middle school, I always have sex offers from a lot of girls (the fuck? I was a minor at that time o.o)but I declined bc I didn't want to fuck my life that young, rn I am in med school and also studying laws, I had been sexual harass by the head doctor and her whole resident team 😶 (good thing it was just one damn day and then I left the damn place) but I will be honest, I have meet a lot of women that don't want to commit and just want sex with me (they actually told me that) I rejected those offers and they just called me gay (I really don't care bc is really sad to use that as a counter to my argument) but thing is..... The fuck is wrong with ppl nowdays...... And ofc IDK what to do with this girl that was the ex of the motherfucker 🤦‍♂️

Right. What do men want? Faithfulness. That's pretty much it. What do women want? Enter the laundry list.

Its pretty wild right? Any perceived freedom can be constructed into a self built prison. The level of conflation in relationships is staggering.

Then we will be getting bacon by use of AA guns, because you know, pigs will be flying.

Women saying what they think is what got us in this mess!

To the men: stop make believing most women aren't manipulators....this works both ways, but I hear ya. We should be enforcing women to stop this sh*t, but like I said.....when are guys gonna STOP acting like most women dont do this crap 🤣👌🏻

chris ., that is untrue Chris... I am sure you will find someone one day... don’t give up on your values...

Only time I have seen a woman be thankful is when she got her divorce settlement and alimony. She was sure thanking that judge and her attorney!

@Chris - this is my last comment, it’s pretty late (early) here in Oz. The generation you describe is the silent generation- nearly all gone now, may they Rest In Peace. But you know you’re right, they survived the depression and saw many changes come into this world. I am fortunate to still have my two elderly parents from this time... I was brought up by two fine people, who had integrity, and good morals, but they weren’t judgemental. They led by example and dad was the head of the house, mum had her say for sure but they never argued, and always had fun and included us kids in that fun.. I was looking back very fortunate. All of these attributes aforementioned were exhibited daily. It was a rare day dad ever had to raise his voice, and if I ever displeased him, I would be inconsolable as a child. Now my father started with nothing, but he worked himself from nothing, up to owning a successful small business as a crash repairer/ mechanic/ tow truck driver, I used to help him as a teenager in the office. Mum stayed at home, her place was in the home and she enjoyed it. She was not trodden on or any of that rot by dad either. In all my life I think I have subconsciously been searching for a man who would be like my dad was /is with my mum. I never found anyone that came close. I am older now, are and realize my life was not destined to be as smooth relationship wise as my parents (just due to life circumstances and perhaps niiavety many years ago ) so I decided to remain alone I do not date and have no intention - I found this channel a week ago when it popped up on my recommended feed... thought I’d see how the other half are faring... some are still pretty unhappy... time heals all wounds... eventually.. good luck to you all from Australia 🇦🇺:)

@chris ., anyway , no princess no stress or no complain no bargain

I pretty much mention that.

If she can't pays her dîner run away

That's useless tbh, it doesn't tell you anything about her except she got money.

And what would you do in return?

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It's not a case of them 'letting' him be a leader. It's a more like 'don't try to interfere' with him being a leader.

The only way is LOYALTY to each other .Its not rocket science that needs complex equation .🤣🤣

So do we have equal rights where a woman and a man equally contribute- or does the man get a privilege of being a leader? It’s one or the other you can’t have both.

Jesus christ, what the fuck did you marry?

YES. YES. Many women today, had absentee fathers, fathers who walked out on the family, and so on. The result of no-fault divorce. And guess who the women are taking their frustrations out on?

"A pot on the stove BRINGS THE MAN HOME!" - Chris Rock

@Eva This is pretty much my life. Small village mentality. Being a stay at home housewife is a huge blessing. I couldn't dream of more than to be at home either training, cooking or doing housework

@Eva Not if you live in separate homes LOL...

@Eva "....pay all the bills and provide well for her and the kids." Sounds like your primary motivation is for a particular living standard and lifestyle. Whatever floats your boat, but be honest and upfront when you get into a relationship. And remember, if you look at him as a bank, he's much more likely to look at you as an "escort".

@Eva "I mean clearly he’s looking for the docile and complacent housewife type so" Is that a bad thing?

Usually sorry I see you as a friend means she got an eye on another guy. Next time she asks for something, you can always reply with that line. Sorry you are just a friend.

Well, that's great wording, but in real life, usually steak and patatos go together ;)