"GOLD DIGGER" IN THE PHILIPPINE. WHAT DO YOU THINK!

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Philippine girl friend Does she love him or just his Money. Should he break it off and Move on with his Life. He traveled 8,000 mikes to meet his Filipina girlfriend and she is ashamed of him. Did he spend enough on her and her family to make her happy or did he just embarrass her in front of her family and friends. Bring Gifts to your Filipina girlfriend and her family. Did you spend to much or not enough?. ‪@mikesphilippineretirement‬ ‪@DumagueteRentals‬ love and money, genuine love, financial interest, relationship advice, red flags in relationships, true love, relationship dynamics, love tips, relationship experts, real-life stories #philippines #moneymatters #retirement
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@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

The GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-81gy3TkTIK4.html

@RayH- 4 месяца назад

You just slip out the back, Jack Make a new plan, Stan You don't need to be coy, Roy Just get yourself free Hop on the bus, Gus You don't need to discuss much Just drop off the key, Lee And get yourself free

@silverstormienormie6146 4 месяца назад

Lolol Good comment 😂

@Mikeyyyy_L 4 месяца назад

Get on your bike Mike!😊

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

I know that song

@garyzies3486 4 месяца назад

50 ways to leave your lover! Paul Simon was a smart man 😆🤣😆

@markbrown1622 4 месяца назад

And say goodbye Mrs Robinson (or whatever her name is) and start giving her the sounds of silence as you cross that bridge over troubled waters and head homeward bound.😂

@Gurkha9 4 месяца назад

Supporting someone you’ve never met and spent time with in person like that is never a good thing to do but men keep doing it

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

It is an on going story that has no ending

@egovorch 4 месяца назад

Being lonely can make people do strange things…..he just wanted to change his life…just picked the worst way of doing it…

@aboveitall9600 4 месяца назад

Story is older than time it self….

@Gurkha9 4 месяца назад

@@egovorch The worst way to start a relationship is to lead with your wallet, especially one where you've never met in person

@rustynail3630 4 месяца назад

Everyone thinks it’s not going to happen to them. Too many simps fall for these scams. It happens every where. Colombia, Thailand, etc. Same game different country

@Gurkha9 4 месяца назад

Being old and lonely is not an excuse for being stupid

@Gurkha9 4 месяца назад

@jayo.6232 We all live and learn from our mistakes, hopefully.

@henrymcmiller2527 4 месяца назад

Chronic Stupidity is a disease, and incurable.

@rj4685 4 месяца назад

He was too gullible, the girl reeled him in and caught a sucker...

@tonytour4377 4 месяца назад

Fooled once shame on her. Fooled twice shame on him.

@TropicShade 4 месяца назад

@jayo.6232 He had 4 years to learn something... he chose not to!

@Grimjack1000 4 месяца назад

It’s hard to feel sorry for him, but I do. This girl wasn’t flying red flags. She was sounding air sirens.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

yes she was

@MrArcher181 4 месяца назад

If she always calls you handsome, she's a gold digger! They do that so they don't mess up and call you the wrong name. This dude was probably just one of several sending her money.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

we do not know that

@Mikeyyyy_L 4 месяца назад

I have a pic I send to girls to see. If they call that pic handsome I know she is looking for money.

@bailey9r 4 месяца назад

Wait, you mean I'm not? 8

@GeorgiaRedClay-r9z 4 месяца назад

If you wake-up at 3am, and your girl is going thru your pockets, "There's your sign".

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

has that happened to you?

@bailey9r 4 месяца назад

This lazy girl had him go through his pockets for her! ;

@GeorgiaRedClay-r9z 4 месяца назад

@@mikesphilippineretirement, Once! Took her and her belongings to her parents house the same day.

@MikeWood-yc1er 4 месяца назад

The fridge and stove weren't purchased I am willing to bet, so no tour of the house was on the agenda.

@napoleonmdusa8877 4 месяца назад

That's exactly what I was thinking.

@TropicShade 4 месяца назад

Ha, there were probably 3 refs, 4 big flat-screen TVs, 4 AC's and 3 healthy carabaos in the back yard! She didn't want him to see it all! 🤣

@philipcooper3330 4 месяца назад

I came over 15 years ago and yes I brought with me gifts for the parents and her sisters only. Sure, i brought a bunch of candy to pass out. Nothing to big. I brought a few bottles of booze and some coffee for my mother in law. I didn’t consider the small gifts I brought as being excessive. As well i brought several towels and slippers for everything. I was happy to do this and they all where very appreciative of my gesture. I was informed prior to coming that this was the custom here. I never felt used at all. Keep the gifts simple.

@WilliamLandlord 4 месяца назад

Bro 10 years sending a girl money!!! I'm a "nice" guy too but there is a line between "nice" and STUPID.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

no 10 years Started in 2020

@bailey9r 4 месяца назад

Oh just dumb then haha @@mikesphilippineretirement

@spincube5734 4 месяца назад

Geez...........the more I hear these types of stories, the more I love my dog.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

We have 3 dogs

@fredhowsare5736 4 месяца назад

@@mikesphilippineretirement3 dogs is an insurance policy 😊

@irnatorremoro1761 4 месяца назад

Funny you!

@aboveitall9600 4 месяца назад

Plenty of good Filipinas who are truly loyal.

@ivannovotny4552 4 месяца назад

Big time...!

@Mikeyyyy_L 4 месяца назад

Loneliness is a powerful feeling! It sometimes gets to a point that people do things like he did here. He was in love with her and wanted to beleive they had a future together.

@kennca8 4 месяца назад

Hopefully he will heal and learn from this painful experience and try again. Try/fail, try/succeed. Best wishes to him and may this be a good lesson for everyone else that may be tempted to go down a similar path.

@whittler0507 4 месяца назад

You dont have futures with someone that could be the age of your daughter ..It is fantasy and all they want is for you to spend money on them ..Men grow up and get smart

@seanfalconer7182 4 месяца назад

Man. I'm only 7 minutes into this video and I just can't watch anymore. Wow.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

come on you need to watch the whole video

@gsp721 4 месяца назад

On my first visit, I just brought the family about $40 worth of chocolate candy. They all loved it and were very appreciative.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

candy works

@lmcc0072 4 месяца назад

This guy has no one to blame but himself. He had no idea that she was like that before he came to the Philippines? After months and months of communication (texts, chats, messenger, FaceTime, etc…) he had no clue? Once she threw the necklace back at him, didn’t he consider walking away then? What she did was absolutely wrong, but he LET her do it. Meeting/picking your life partner is probably the most important thing that a person will do in their entire life. More important than your career or buying a house or buying a car. People can spend years planning those things out, but then they get taken by the first girl that they meet because they didn’t do their due diligence. Hopefully he learned his lesson.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

thanks for sharing

@alexjohnson4332 4 месяца назад

This will continue to increase as we keep simping and just giving away our hard earned money. I understand we want companionship but at what cost? These women are using us,not all,. Find a lady not asking for money in some way. And they ask in many,many different ways. Stop giving away your money or this behavior will continue. She and her family and or BF are laughing at us.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

Thanks for the comment Alex

@garyzies3486 4 месяца назад

Social media has enabled them. Many gals have several suckers on stand-by. Yes, they are laughing at us!

@faronray5765 4 месяца назад

He gets off cheap. He finds out what she is really like along with what the family expects before he gets married. Not a very good start to any relationship that is built on money and gifts. There are lots of good Filipinas who would be more respectful. Learn, move on.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

lots of good Filipinas who would be more respectful. I agree

@makeyourlifeeasier5794 4 месяца назад

Sounds like this guy didn't watch enough of Mike's channel & take his advice.

@rayleo529 4 месяца назад

Fridge and stove for parents? Maybe now you understand why she didn't take him inside. 😮

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

I know why

@egovorch 4 месяца назад

Lot's of great info Mike!....The longer I was listening to the story you were relaying, the deeper I was sinking into the chair.....I feel so bad for that guy....He was a nice guy, who was just lonely and wanted to meet someone.....For all those that are going to read this, imagine being that guy and that stark reality hits that you are just being used and they just see you as a GIANT ATM.....there would be no worse feeling than that in the moment.....

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

hope you did not fall asleep during the video. Hahaha Thanks for watching and sharing

@derekmarsden8934 4 месяца назад

This is what you can expect when you try to buy a relationship. These relationships between wealthy American men and poor Filipino women young enough to be their daughters exist only because of economic inequality

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

Thanks for sharing

@jerrymarshall2728 4 месяца назад

This woman is a player! She doesn't want all of her other boyfriends to know she's spending time with this guy. That's probably why she wouldn't introduce him to her parents; so she wouldn't have to explain her behavior. Any serious woman would be announcing to the world that she had her guy!

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

she did introduce him to the family just did not take him into the house

@ericsolkamans-kj2fd 4 месяца назад

I have walked away from women like this, and didn't say a word. As she see me getting into my car. Next, my phone didn't stop ringing. I never listen to voice mails, they can text. Reading the text, few would say sorry. I never l👀ked back to NEVER return their call. The beginning of the end. I ended it before it ever goes to worse. If You know what You want in Your life for the rest of Your life, You will never settle.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

your in the Philippines you get into your car a drive away. Hahaha

@Blu-Sin 4 месяца назад

My fiancé's family tried to serve me first. But I deferred to her parents. I helped with the dishes after dinner. Each time I visit her, I stay with her family. They are amazing, hard-working people. I am privileged to be joining her family.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

Thanks for sharing!

@markwakefield8563 4 месяца назад

A Filipina will show you love like you’ve never experienced in the US. I was married for 13 years in the USA. On a 2 week vacation my Filipina GF showed me more love in more ways than my EX wife did in 13 years. I know you don’t recommend meeting at the airport, but it is one of my best memories in life.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

So happy it worked for you Mark

@steveh7108 4 месяца назад

I have not met my girl yet but I am extremely confident of her moral character. And I can't wait for our first meeting that will most likely be at a airport.

@markc7274 4 месяца назад

The main reason they want to meet at the airport is to seal the deal and make sure foreign men find another girl before meeting them.

@garyzies3486 4 месяца назад

@@markc7274 Correct!

@jsully4064 4 месяца назад

@@markc7274 My then Filipina girlfriend LDR was terribly afraid of me meeting a girl at the airport and stealing me away from her...lol At 2 in the morning there were no other girls there besides those getting off the plane with me. That was in Cebu Mactan International.

@MiamiTwicewrice 4 месяца назад

The guy lacked confidence in himself. He didn’t owe her and her family anything. Too nice, too kind. Lacking social skills to be aware of such BS. Never put money out there ahead of your value. You are worth more than all the money in the world. She dug up his gold. She saw him as the goose with the golden eggs. She didn’t want silver. Dam, the water. He was the prize without having to spend a dime. She needs a visit from a priest.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

Thanks for sharing

@FoundingYouTuber-2005 3 месяца назад

Poll: I wonder how many men's lives Mike has saved with this video. I'm raising my hand. Sheesh, now I'm going to be having nightmares. It is going to be a two-Ambien night.

@dougdorpat 3 месяца назад

Many men, I am sure.

@gotruckyourself2976 4 месяца назад

Exactly why I'd never do online relationship. I'll go there and while I'm there I'll find someone and date for awhile and see if it's going to work.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

@gotruckyourself2976 thanks for sharing

@AtongZales143 4 месяца назад

Lesson learned here is before you guys go to Philippines please talk to this blogger folks from dumaguete I am Fil American from California and these guys are trusted people

@lilfairycupcake 4 месяца назад

she was a professional. he got played.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

at 40 did not think she was a pro

@lilfairycupcake 4 месяца назад

@@mikesphilippineretirement pffffffffffffff, you didnt listen intently to the story. right off the get go she brought half her family to meet him at airport. that served 2 purposes. family served as a barrier between him, and her. giant sh it test to see what he would tolerate; and he willingly tolerated. necklace, and you will pay my family 1,500, was also a huge sh it test. he failed everything. when u have no ability to say no, to any vajj,, you instantly loose the game.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

@@lilfairycupcake her , her son and one of his cousins. total 3 people not even close to half the family. you should listen better b4 making your comments

@lilfairycupcake 4 месяца назад

@@mikesphilippineretirement my comprehension skills are right on the money. her son, her cousins, the milk man, the garbage man, the family dog, whoever; it should have been just her. nothing like willingly putting your head on the chopping block. and how did the story end? it would not have ended up like that for me, because it would have never started.

@Blu-Sin 4 месяца назад

I was really lucky, as my fiance met me at the airport by herself and then wanted to spend 2 nights together alone before I met her family. She is from the province but has never asked me for money. She is grateful for everything I have done for her. Every time I have sent her money for things, she sends me a receipt. I offered to buy her another ring for Christmas, but she did not want one because she said we could use the money for a future trip. We have been together for over 2 years now, and our relationship is still amazing.

@whatwouldyoudo64 4 месяца назад

Good video, 👍🏻

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

thank you

@koufax174 4 месяца назад

Mike you are so wonderful of a communicator and knowing how loneliness feels and how the mind plays tricks on you. You’re a master communicator. I only bring chocolate and I’ve always been appreciated for that. Or always felt treasured with every Filipina. They have never asked for anything. I never use online. There are so many Filipinas to select from when someone is here. For me it’s way to risky to introduce being seduced with online dating. There’s no need to. Every where I’ve gone I always meet Filipinas if that’s what I want and sometimes I just want my own company which I truly enjoy. Great content and helpful to many men

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

Thank you Koufax

@wallacewong5374 4 месяца назад

Heres the way it should work. When I met my wife 45 years ago , we were 24 and 22 . she didn't care what I did for a living , the car I drove , or my bank account. she just wanted to be with me. I was average looking, but I was a hard worker and I was a gentleman and respectful of her family . she loved me for me , and that made me be a better man , a better husband , father and provider. 45 years later, we have 3 adult children , grand children, a nice house in California and a comfortable retired life . If God took my wife home to heaven , I would be ok to live the rest of my life alone unless God brought to me another person just like her , but although different too , But someone with the same traditional and Christian values . I will not settle for less. If I need a care taker, I will just hire a care taker. Getting into a relationship with someone who is out for financial gain is problematic.

@alanaldpal950 4 месяца назад

Great for you but why are you watching videos about dating Filipinos?

@wallacewong5374 4 месяца назад

@@alanaldpal950 my 37 year old son is having a tough time finding a long term relationship

@wallacewong5374 4 месяца назад

@@alanaldpal950 my 37 year old son is having problems finding a LTR . I am encouraging him to try overseas :)

@dennisraber9264 4 месяца назад

Good video

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

Glad you enjoyed

@vetgs 3 месяца назад

Confusing a 'good heart' with feeling bad for a homeless person and giving them money might not be a good comparison. You can be a good person and not give money to a homeless person, you might volunteer your time or give money to a charity. Some people don't understand that 'giving money' does not equate being a good person, this is the reason some are taken advantage of financially because they get pressured to give more than they should.

@befree9579 3 месяца назад

Exactly.

@robertclaus1102 4 месяца назад

Thanks for the advice Mike. So many pitfalls, so little time.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

Glad to help

@Rick421 4 месяца назад

older filipinas likes money just as much as younger filipinas does.. the age doesn't make a difference for the love of money & gifts..

@katemiller7874 4 месяца назад

That’s all women dear

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

thanks for the comment Rick

@Rick421 4 месяца назад

@@katemiller7874 yes exactly..

@irnatorremoro1761 4 месяца назад

Not at all, there's always an exception,

@American_Mike 4 месяца назад

People have been posting RU-vid videos about what can happen to foreigners in the Philippines for at least 15 years. They have been posting this content on the internet for at least 25 years. So even someone who is 75 years old was at least 50 and old enough to have learned how to use the internet. Lots of men probably watch all these videos or go to the websites... and they still make these mistakes... Men. Hear me. Just wait until you land in the Philippines to start looking for a girlfriend. And don't contract one-iitis. We don't always agree, but your videos are still good and informative. Keep up the good work sir.

@aboveitall9600 4 месяца назад

Don’t send money before meeting. Even after, set a cap and that’s it before marriage / moving to the United States. Keep in mind all the costs of food, hotel, grab, activities are on you during the trip. No to extravagant engagement rings…go to a local shop and get one 250-500usd. This is enough for a modest gold solitaire diamond ring. This will be huge for a woman there. American women have been told what to expect due to commercials and friends showing off huge rocks…with guys going into large amounts of debt compromising the couple’s future. You can upgrade later. The reality is coming to the Philippines is such a big step, financially and otherwise, that should count towards something. Do not expect or ask her to pay half on anything. Make it clear about family and friends…pay for a dinner but no to hotel / Airbnb….

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

@aboveitall9600 thanks for sharing

@Charles-rd6ku 4 месяца назад

Boy this is a tough one! No matter how much it's talked about their somebody to get stuck because the heart just takes over and most of us older guys who have to admit there are times that we think with the wrong HEAD! HAHA God Bless you all

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

@Charles-rd6ku yes you can lead a horse to water but you can not make him drink

@Mr_RD-1876 4 месяца назад

Brought some gummies vitamins to them for passalubong, they ate them all in a week like they were candy! Won't do that again!!

@katemiller7874 4 месяца назад

Oh noo they probably didn’t understand what they were. Oh well they’ll be healthy

@Cosmo4357-mj1tw 4 месяца назад

This happens so much in S.E. Asia.

@kmilton1593 4 месяца назад

Excellent video and advice, Mike. Roy really badly got Used and Scammed; he should never have sent her a cent. (Nor told her the date of his arrival; so he could have got rested first). Hopefully the other 75% of PH girls are not scammers and users like that 40 year old assertive "professional". Ghost her forever, Roy!

@ivannovotny4552 4 месяца назад

At 6:26, An engagement ring, a wedding ring, and then suffer/ring.

@DR23184 4 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing this upsetting story. Unfortunately some folks take advantage of lonely elder folks.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

#1 Target is older people living alone for all scammers

@AussieTonythemexican 4 месяца назад

Hi Mike, Online dating is crap, i tried it just before arrival. Im in Cebu, .met a filipina at her work, had great date last night. I tried arriving in Manila and saying im here shortly after the conversation started, they back off. 90% are just after money. It's ok to be a willing participant if you're happy to part with cash, but why treat ourselves with disrespect?

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

disrespect correct you should not have to put up with that

@JAMESJACKSON-o8q 4 месяца назад

I was waiting to hear how much he spent on that trip.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

Hmmm not sure of the total

@destinationphilippineschannel 4 месяца назад

Wow. My former Filipina wife and her family was not like this at all. My current Filipina wife and her family is not like this either. She has never asked me for anything. I have not met any people in the Philippines or Filipino's in the USA or Canada over the last 20 years that are like this either. Not saying there are not many, I guess I made better choices. lol I have met many women in the USA and Canada like this though! I always said goodbye at the start. (even left a couple at the table in a restaurant to fend for themselves) HA!

@jeffwright584 4 месяца назад

Never. Would have been a quick goodbye.

@Charles-rd6ku 4 месяца назад

Good evening everyone thanks for the post mike hope you three are doing fine?

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

All good @Charles-rd6ku

@jamescrabill7345 4 месяца назад

100% Agreement Mike. I believe I would have left them at the resort let them find their own way home

@scottmiller5337 4 месяца назад

Anyone who has watched almost any of your videos regarding these issues will quickly see how many obvious red flags there are in this one. He absolutely did the right thing breaking it off Love IS blind... A man can still have a good heart and not fall for the scams and red flags.

@rojawzciya 4 месяца назад

So wise Mike! Thank you!🙏🙏👍

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

Thanks for listening @rojawzciya

@davidagulay3545 4 месяца назад

Regardless, Roy should have known better. It’s your money, it’s your responsibility. It’s good he reached out for advice and had the emotional discipline to follow it. Too bad it cost him quite a bit. Hoping it didn’t hurt him too much. Do the world a favor and release the name and pic of the Filipina.

@StanHasselback 4 месяца назад

He's lucky that it only cost him money. Just say sorry it's not what I want and I wish you the best. She'll be upset but only because she lost her ATM. Not every Filipina is good girl.

@RandallGlatt 4 месяца назад

This sounds like a NARK. Nark is the same in each and every country...

@georgefair3244 4 месяца назад

Hello Mike, I have had a few Filipinas try to make Me feel bad because I wouldn't send Them any money. It didn't work on Me. I have known My Fiancée for over 8 years. We are engaged now. I will be going back to the Philippines in June for My third trip since We got engaged. She is very tight with money and won't even buy a new cell phone when I offer to buy it. But We enjoy visiting different Islands together. This trip We will travel from Cebu to Mindanao. Dumaguete to Siquijor Island and then back to Mindanao. I tell everyone to take Your time getting to know any Lady. Take care.

@vgshwk 4 месяца назад

Better to go over there and meet someone rather than meet online.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

I agree. But many men have found good wife's on line

@vgshwk 4 месяца назад

@@mikesphilippineretirement yes it is possible but I still think it is better to meet them over there. You would have a better chance if one doesn’t work out you might meet another or at least have a better chance of meeting another..

@garrylafferty100 4 месяца назад

you can learn a lot about her 6 -12 months on a webcam like is she worth spending thousand to meet her in person this guy did not know her long enough on line to see redflags if he never met her until he got their it would have been worse

@jsully4064 4 месяца назад

@vgshwk Wouldn't have never gone to the Philippines if I had not met my LDR online. Its very expensive to fly to the Philippines and "hope" you meet the one to marry. Was specifically looking for a woman online to bring back to the US on a K1 visa, like a lot of folks do, and to marry her. My wife was actually on vacation to the Philippines for the summer because she was an OFW in UAE (where dating sites are not allowed, at least to talk to women from other countries). So its not always feasible for peeps to go to the Philippines to meet someone, especially if you are in your late 40's with no plan to retire soon.

@vgshwk 4 месяца назад

@@jsully4064 a lot more expensive to bring a lady over on a k1 visa marry her and hope she doesn’t divorce you and take you to the cleaners.

@genxx2724 4 месяца назад

Mike, ghosting is when someone just disappears without saying anything. It generally shows poor character. Sending someone a quick message telling them that you feel they were insincere and he won’t be contacting them anymore is not ghosting.

@larrychow3307 4 месяца назад

So true and facts 💯 👏 Wright on bro on your video, great information. I learned a long time in the Philippines. Since 2005 🇵🇭 🇨🇦

@pbrewer32 4 месяца назад

Here's a thought, get back to the city. Get a hotel room for just himself and look for a new love. She will bankrupt him if he stays with her.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

He has money so not going Bankrupt. But He should check out other girls for sure @pbrewer32

@RichGPilot 4 месяца назад

Im also shocked he followed through with his plan to give her the ring. By his own account the scene was breaking down the minute he arrived.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

yes so was I

@frankbaptista8334 4 месяца назад

I am in Bacolod, had a similar experience, whole family scammed me, she told me before I arrived she had no kids, boom she had 6 kids, I was out, ran for my life.

@FoundingYouTuber-2005 3 месяца назад

OMFG, I would have turned around and went home so many different times in this story. I get it, he's 8 thousand miles from home, but at least go back to a hotel room and do some reflecting. He should have at least KEPT the ring (not given it to her). Query: Mike, didn't you say the family sent him pics of the fridge, etc. they wanted him to pay for? Bet those things were NOT in the house, hence why he was not invited in. What a bunch of snakes. Well, count his blessings, and dollars, at least in the end he ghosted her?

@josephkumnick7696 4 месяца назад

Thanks Mike! Could not have said it better.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

@josephkumnick7696 thank you

@ejm922 3 месяца назад

basically he is sooo gulable...so sad! a lonely man desperate! cant believe he didnt look for an american girl in san diego? there are lots of single divorced

@mikesphilippineretirement 3 месяца назад

not interested in dating in the US any more

@ClarenceKennedy-qw4vr 4 месяца назад

Bye-bye baby Don't let the door knob hit you with a good Lord split you!!

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

Is that Funny? I never heard that b4

@PK-nm8wu 4 месяца назад

I have a story for you but it's too long .11 years probably 300k It nerve bothered me until i told her i am retiring. It has to stop. She lived in Japan where we met, but demands for her family grew more and more..

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

@PK-nm8wu E mail me the story mikesphilippineretirement@gmail.com love to hear about it

@Maintenance63 4 месяца назад

Made similar mistakes when I was young. Pretty sad

@joshuarizalforeman816 3 месяца назад

Spot the idiot! Long-distance relationships, especially those initiated online, should always be red-flagged. I have met a few Westerners over here who are truly being suckered - much older guys with very young women. I met my wife in person in HK. We had a child together. She has kids from a previous relationship, as do I. We lived in HK for 3 years together before we relocated to the Philippines. We own property, we have a business and a decent income. Of course she loves my money, because it gives her a better life, and social status, better than she could have ever hoped for before she met me, but she didn't know I had money until we moved. She knew I was doing ok, but not 'how' ok until we came here. She is 12 years younger than I am. We don't give handouts to the family, although some were fishing. They soon got sidelined. Instead we employ some family members and take care of the kids' education as a view to their futures.

@Anthony__420 4 месяца назад

Great points brother Mike. Been there before with the daily problems. I ghost them

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

I found it hard to ghost someone but it is something that needs to be done from time to time

@IrAbynormal 4 месяца назад

Had it been me, lonely or not after the necklace incident, I would have excused myself went to the desk and ordered a cab back to Cebu, no matter how much that would cost. Better to cut your losses. No Way Man!

@KuyaStorm 4 месяца назад

Great video! 🎉

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

Thank you!! 😁

@GerleneBarra-np6vu 4 месяца назад

That is why foreigners shouldnt just strike anywhere in the Philppines. Stay with your money,.. dont be a fool by being s bank to any woman.Love is gone when your stomach is enemy.

@ReadySetGo113 4 месяца назад

Im sorry Mike but it is hard to feel sorry for guys like this. They often appear not to be stupid, but their actions clearly show otherwise. Seriously, how dum can he be?????????????????????????????????

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

@ReadySetGo113 thanks for the comment

@stephanegosselin2861 4 месяца назад

Sad story! Some Filipinas will give you a great times, unforgettable time! While other Filipinas will take to the cleaner without any remorse! Filipinas are not all bad

@lavonyoung2366 4 месяца назад

This is obviously just how much money can a girl get. Even if she is a super model you need to run.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

run forest run

@MikeWood-yc1er 4 месяца назад

Best is to have a DVD at night, cheaper too. That would be a wonderful biz opportunity for someone, supplying Ex-Pats with a new movie a night. The gold diggers will become unemployed.

@tonytour4377 4 месяца назад

Cut the loses and walk away, lieve everything behind.

@jimriggs9621 4 месяца назад

Mike , I would bet my house that LDR #2 -#10 sent that girl money for her trip. The photos needed without him prove that she spent LDR (many) cash. Warnings never seem to help these guys. Take care, and hope Janet and PJ are doing well.😂

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

That could be the case

@dantheman11121 4 месяца назад

Guys like this is exactly why some foreigners are not respected and get used and abused really he should be ashamed of himself. He’s 65 not 20. He should know better.

@audrinamaloc7331 4 месяца назад

He should brought her to Tulfo! Gold digger is real in southern Philippines 🇵🇭

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

That guy may have his own problems

@nottelling620 4 месяца назад

HI MIKE , From personal experience , for me it WAS NOT THE MONEY . but it was the hertbreak... Sad story for this guy. He should fly back to TIJUANA before going home... No use to say this or that , what happened to him has happened to a lot of us.. Please continue with these horror stories , they may stop someone from the HEARTBREAK and money. TY GOD BLESS CIAO

@rj4685 4 месяца назад

Buyer beware, if in doubt get out.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

good point. I did hear that before

@averagejoe9479 4 месяца назад

Please do a video without a hat.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

I have and I like my hat

@kevinacker9843 4 месяца назад

Used and abused. To much into family and not him Can we say gold digger...

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

I think we did Kevin

@MrPat156 4 месяца назад

Scammer, simply put, and she walked all over him Mike, it happens,but lesson learnt I’m hoping,on his part.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

learn and move on. So many good girls here in the Philippines

@wallywood6566 Месяц назад

This is when you say no since everything was paid for she would be there by herself because I would leave

@pugghansford2746 4 месяца назад

❤

@mikeokeefe9396 4 месяца назад

This is just common sense.

@mikeokeefe9396 4 месяца назад

And you are the same.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

explain your comment

@7rileyst 4 месяца назад

I gave my Filipina's parents a photo frame with a photo of each of us collated from photos we had shared online, along with some small souvenirs from my home city for the 3 other family members in the house she lived. Plus a cute fluffy local animal look alike for my gf - but I think she misunderstood that as a gift 😅

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

Thanks for sharing!! small gifts from your home country good idea

@materesafigueroa8876 4 месяца назад

How I wish my boyfriend is like Roy. I do everything for my boyfriend but he didn't treat me as good. I put his socks on and ironing his clothes washing cleaning the house but still not good for him he want me to contribute the expenses in the house. I'm tired of my boyfriend now and one day I will go back to my home town in Leyte Philippines

@Mikeyyyy_L 4 месяца назад

She’s probably ghosting him and waiting on another “atm” to arrive.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

I do not think she will ghost him. I hope he does the ghosting

@shb7772000if 4 месяца назад

People can read other people, and she must of known from her online chats with him, she could get away with this stuff. I wouldn't call her a gold digger, I would call her an ass hole. But she screwed herself in the end. Wonder if she will try this with another guy. When my wife first moved in with me, she would do stuff like walk behind me in the mall, so she wasn't next to me. No matter how slow I would walk, she would walk slower. She was 19 and good looking, I was 53, fat and bald. She also stole $500 in Thai money I had hidden away, in the first year we lived together. At first I thought maybe some guest stole it, but later I realized that it would be very unlikely that a guest would find it where I had it hidden. Mike did you change apartments? Before you had a big living room with a piano.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

Thanks for sharing @shb7772000if

@murrayspiffy2815 4 месяца назад

I tell my girlfriend everyday - how much I appreciate her - for all the little things she does for me. Then I list about 4 things - just to let her know I pay attention and don't take her for granted. She literally bathes me - dresses me - ties my shoes - cooks - cleans - laughs with me - walks with me - and watches TV with me. On top of those things - she wants to "please me" about 3 to 4 times a day. She's 32 years younger than I am - is drop dead gorgeous - and has the trim body of a toned athlete. In the US - I used to see beautiful young women and fondly think of my sexual yesteryear - knowing that those days were long behind me. In my first year in the PH - I've been with 8 different women - all under 32 - and have had intercourse more than 600 times. Fellows - the dream is real - you too came come and find a new and better life. (I only shared the "numbers" as a public service - not as a brag - because it's not a brag - it's normal.)

@ChristianGuitard-v7f 4 месяца назад

Has she got a sister??? Just asking....(:>)))))

@fredhowsare5736 4 месяца назад

1). Very well done video (serious) and I did watch it until the end. 2). Thanks for no crude click bait of you sitting by a half naked woman in white stockings. 3). When do we get an update on the BIG ZOOMER, the EYE GOUGER and REDBRICKFINGER?

@ericsolkamans-kj2fd 4 месяца назад

There's no such thing as extra money. That's like saying, do You have an extra cigarette? I say, no. There is only 20 to a pack.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

yes people do have extra money. enjoy your smokes

@robinwood1358 4 месяца назад

Sorry to hear. These guys must digest the ex pat vlog you tube content - comprehensively - before they even get here / if you're not educated to what's going on in Phils, you'll pay for your ignorance.

@mikesphilippineretirement 4 месяца назад

lesson learned