Grave of KATE SPADE | What HAPPENED? | Kansas City 

My friend's sister interned with her, and said she was the kindest, most down to earth person she had ever worked for. Long after her internship was over, she would still get little gifts like stationary and handwritten cards from Kate. In fact, Patty was my introduction to her, and now I have a lot of her stuff in my closet. I was heartbroken when I found out that she passed away.

Awww sweet Katy, we were besties when we were maybe 7-8 we went to school together and dance lost touch when my family moved out to Overland Park, Kansas. She was delightful and we shared so many great memories.

You know things are really bad when leaving your daughter behind feels like the least painful option. I hope she is in peace now. I hope her daughter is doing well. What a sad story 😢.

One thing no one talks about is how menopause affects older woman. She was around the age, and especially if she suffered from mental health issues during her life, menopause could have made it worse. It’s such a gigantic change for women, it feels like second puberty , yet it doesn’t get much attention.

In a lot of the photos of her, you can see a sad emptiness in her eyes. I hope she's at peace but my heart really goes out to her daughter.

Her grave marker is so understated and humble

I never knew her full story. Thank you for this lovely tribute to her. We never know what someone can be going through. RIP Kate.

always a stark reminder that no matter how glamorous you think someone's life is, at the end we all end up small little plots. So sad, such a talent.

Kate Spade was a brilliant designer! I absolutely love for handbags and shoes personally. This was a beautiful tribute to a great woman. Thank you Jordan. Money sure doesn’t solve all problems. I think most people who take their lives don’t really want to die they just want the pain to stop. Rest in Peace Kate. ~Love&Light♥️C.

People who suffer from depression are good at hiding it, but it's truly exhausting to do so.

Interesting fact: In 2017, Coach bought out Kate Spade. Also, actress Rachel Brosnahan, of "The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel" is the niece of Kate Spade! Thanks, Jordan, for the great video. Kate was an amazing designer and I hope she rests in eternal peace!

A friend of mine’s father was on a flight and was sitting next to a woman who seemed troubled. He talked to her at length, and at some point during the conversation, she just leaned over on his shoulder and cried. So he tried to console her for the remainder of the trip and she thanked him for his kindness. You can only imagine his shock when the news came on about her death. He told my friend that she was the woman on the plane. It made him uneasy, but he was happy to provide her the emotional support she needed in that time. I’m not sure how much time passed between that encounter and her death, but it’s just so sad. Imagine crying on the shoulder of a stranger because you’re so depressed and worn out. My heart goes out to her family and her poor soul, especially.

If there is ever a movie about her life, I believe actress Téa Leoni would be such a great fit! She looks so much like her!

What a sad place to end up, a simple headstone, no flowers hardly.. like people forgot about her?! She had so much going for her, so young… so rich and famous and successful yet depressed .. how sad!!

Kate was a member/sister of Kappa Kappa Gamma. After her death Kappa changed their philanthropy to mental health because of her death their motto was also changed to Dream boldly, live fully. A Kate quote and tag line on all her perfumes.

Upon a visit to a UPCI conference 15 years ago, I purchased a KATE SPADE black leather handbag at a vendor booth. I still own it today and love it. I was sadden & grieved to hear of her passing. RIP Kate, Your mark hasn’t been lost to us who loved your work 💕

I remember that Anthony Bordain died around the same time. I always suspected foul play in both cases.

Such a simple grave marker for an incredibly talented and amazing woman. So so so sad.

I will never forget getting my first Kate Spade bag. As a mom of 4 little kids, it made be so happy to carry it. There will never be anyone like her unless of course her daughter decides to pick up the brand Francis Valentine which would be amazing. I always thought she was destined to be our own American version of Channel. She was timeless.

What a beautiful tribute to Kate. I live in KC and never knew anything about her nor that she was from here. I exclusively carry Kate Spade handbags so she has always been special to me in that regard. Thank you for the landmarks to look for as I will go pay respects at her grave site. My heart goes out to her daughter.

Thank you for sharing her story. I never knew anything about Kate Spade and I have been using a wallet with her name on it. So sad she passed away at 55 years young. She had so much to still share with the world.

I remember when Kate died, my heart broke for her daughter and her family. I worked part time, at Stein Mart the following day I noticed a bright yellow small Kate Spade purse, we never sold her brand in her store. It had a calming effect, on me and it was a sign from her that everything was going to be okay and thanked me for my thoughts of love. I know, it sounds crazy, but I believe in signs and a higher power.

You treated this tribute with respect and sensitivity. It was a nice way to learn more about her life. Thank you.

Being from NY I remember when they removed her body from Park Ave. It’s sad that depression and mental health can effect any type of person even the rich and famous. I always thought my depression would go away if I had the fame and fortune, unfortunately the reality is it wouldn’t.

Thank you for covering this story. Sad that Kate Spade couldn’t get the help she needed. Rest in peace

I feel for her daughter. It's hard to loose a parent at such a young age. Her daughter was only 13 when she died. I can relate. I lost my dad to lung cancer in 1994 and I was 14 at the time.

This was such a lovely honorable tribute to Kate Spade, well done and Thank you! I always admired her quirky bags and dresses and finally was able to afford a dress one day! I always respected her class and uniqueness and bought a black phone cover in respect to her passing. R.I. Heaven, Kate!

Nicely done Jordan! You presented her story with compassion. I agree A lovely tribute ❤️💐

I was so sad when she passed away. I wear glasses and whenever I get new ones, they are always Kate Spade. I never mind spending the extra cost for them, they are the best frames! RIP Kate, you are missed! I lost my father to suicide in 1990 and I remember talking with him the night before and he seemed happy too. I believe they feel good after they made their decisions. My dad was involved in our town and my parents had a store that was successful, he was in Rotary and nobody could believe that he took his own life.

It’s hard to believe that such a very well known icon in the fashion industry has such a tiny insignificant burial plot. You would think that her husband / family would have sprung for at least a headstone.

I received a beautiful Kate Spade handbag - my one and only designer handbag - as a gift years ago. Her designs are timeless. Rest in peace, sweet lady - you’re missed and remembered ❤

A very nice tribute Jordan. Ty, now we know her full story. It's much appreciated. RIP Kate🙏⚘

She sounds like an amazing, creative human being! My heart goes out to Kate and her family. A lot of creative minds are super sensitive, (I know of what I speak) and just take constructive or even mean criticism too personally. It can be hard not to. Such a bitter sweet story of her. Thanks for sharing her life with us!

My daughter gave me a Kate Spade for Christmas 5-6 years ago. I’ve used it ever since as my everyday handbag. It still looks like new. Only the underside of the handle has a little bit of wear, but you can’t see it. I did not know she had sold the company. I still think of her when I see her business name with the little spade on it. I had never had a designer bag until this one. Never would think of buying one . When my daughter ordered it, she just asked me to pick from some colors and I choose blue. It’s a beautiful color of blue, a little different. Not a royal blue and not a navy blue but like a mix. Thank you for telling us about her. RIP 💐 Katherine Brosnahan

Thank you, Jordan, for this kind and respectful tribute to Kate. She was a sweet, ladylike, old fashioned presence in the fashion world. I love her originals. I am so sorry she isn't with us any longer. RIP.

This is why it is important to check in with people and ask how they are feeling. Someone can seem entirely at peace on the surface, functioning at a high level, but be suffering on the inside. You would never know.

Thank you, Jordan, for telling Kate's story. I hope she rests in peace. I hope Katy makes it home safely. Take care.

My great grandparents are buried there. Such a beautiful peaceful place. Owned many Kate Spade bags. What a beautiful tribute.

Andy said that her struggles started at 49. That is when mine started and mine was from Perimenopause. It’s been rough because it is like post partum at times and it can be really strong. Many women going through menopause feel out of it, in a bubble, disconnected, and sadly we’re ignored with these issues. I am finally starting to see better days as I weathered the storm and wish she had too. Her bags are still my favorite. RIP Kate. I am sorry menopause was that tough. It gets better (for anyone reading) but it may not feel like it because it can take years and really do a number on us.

Very informative & interesting video! I've wanted a Kate Spade glitter bag for YEARS. In college I liked to collect handbags mostly during the era of hip hop apparel lines like Baby Phat, Rocawear, Applebottoms, G-Unit, Dereon, etc that weren't super expensive but still a bit pricey. I had a few more expensive 1s from Guess & Coach but then I became a mom & as usual my luxuries were put aside & my child got everything. But I recently saved up all my credit card rewards & got a GORGEOUS lilac glitter Kate Spade bag & matching wallet for a great price on Mercari & Im totally in love with it! RIP Kate Spade

What a sad story. Unfortunately a lot of people present a happy countenance as a shield for their depression. Thank you Jordan for Kate's story.

I love her work.. I have been an avid collector for years. When she died I was seriously devastated

You are a great story teller. Thank you for the wonderful biography. Most people just earn a paycheck (myself included) and enjoy life more when leaving a career. There are others who are fortunate to develop their life's passion into a career. It seems that Kate Spade was the latter. In hindsight it's so unfortunate that she and her partners sold her lifes passion which was her identity. Yes, she was able to focus on her daughter. But ultimately her daughter lost her Mom. No amount of money or big payday can ever bring true happiness.

Thank you so much for doing this well done tribute. Kate’s loss was a blow to millions who loved her designs. I have looked at her resting place before and find it sad no mention of the mark she made in the fashion world on her gravestone. Her married surname or the ♠️ symbol would have conveyed her legacy Regardless, her unique colorful spirit lives on in her designs and no doubt in her beautiful daughter. RIP Miss you Kate Spade, fan from day 1.

She seemed so sweet, naming her shoes and purses after her friends and family 🥺 seems like she just wanted love and the world was to much for her. I totally get it. Rest easy Kate

I love Kate Spade's designs & own several of her bags. It's heartbreaking that a woman who made such joyful, exuberant designs that made so many people happy would have such sadness & be made to feel "less than" by the industry she contributed so much to.

Kate and I would be the same age. I’ve loved her designs, clothes, bags and jewelry for as long as I can remember. Thank you for this lovely tribute. There has been so little written about her life. The fashion world lost a true icon. Such a shame she didn’t know that in her heart. 😢

Kate Spades designs are timeless pieces. They are not a fad that shows up for brief amount of time and then disappears. I so admired her clean line and the designs of everything she’s done. Long after she’s left we will still treasure her bags and her designs. She is timeless like Audrey Hepburn.I wish she was still here but sometimes sadness grabs a hold of you that you can’t shake off. I hope she found the peace she seemed to be seeking. RIP

Thank you for providing her background story... what a talented a tortured soul. RIP Kate.

Very nice tribute Jordan. She was an inspiration to so many and her fashions timeless. Thank you ! 🌴🦩☀️😊☺️🥰❤️

Good morning Jordan , Katie and Jah! Hope you all have a fabulous day

Thank you so much for doing the research and telling us how beautiful, talented, and lovely this woman was.

Thank you Jordan. So sad she left her daughter behind at 13 years old.

Thank you so much for this, Jordan. Kate was one of my idols, and it breaks my heart that we lost her in this way. ❤

I remember my first Kate Spade handbag. It was so cool. I loved it. Such a tragedy. Very interesting that she is buried with her maiden name.

Great commentary and tribute to Kate Spade. She was genius in her venture. In fact I still have my KS bags from 20 years ago in my closet. I bring them out to admire and proudly wear on my left arm. I hope her daughter and family are doing well. My grandfather also took his life. It’s not a club any of us want to be in. Nonetheless I send love to all whom have lived through it or have been affected by this. There is pain in others and in ourselves that no one else can see😢

I’ve watched tours through her apartment on RU-vid, with her hosting, and her apartment was just color and artfully done beautiful. She was so gifted. Will miss her. Very intelligent talented lady.

I loved Kate Spade style - I am so sad she is gone. Thank you for sharing her story.

This was very touching and i think you spoke on her life in a respectful, beautiful and honorific way. Thank you for giving us insight into her legacy.

WOW. Thanks Jordan. I never knew how Kate passed. She produced really exquisite items. RIP Kate

I wear Kate Spade in honor of her. Mental Health is often overlooked because it's not obvious to everyone.

What A Awesome video-~ She Had a Hard adulthood with narcissistic husband-Rest-In-Peace🕊🦋🤟💫Thanks for this video Much Respect ✊

I read about Kate passing and was very saddened. I decided to keep her memory alive to buy her purses and anything else I can find of her that's affordable. I love my red Kate Spade tote bag with the red wallet to match. I also have one of her black leather purses. I just want to keep her memory alive because I know she must have suffered. My mother suffered from Bipolar disorder. Depression is no joke.

I went to high school with David Spade. I had no idea there was a connection, nor the tragic end of Kate’s legacy and life. Thank you for the video.

Thank you Jordan I appreciate your dedication to the work you do with the upmost respect to our fallen Americans who made their mark in the world

Such interesting information. I had a Kate Spade necklace pen which I adored. It’s so sad that her suffering was just too much for her to manage. It is for so many. Thank you for sharing this respectful piece about her.

Thank You Jordan for sharing Kates story. R.I.P. Kate Spade such a sad story, I was so shocked when I had heard the announcement of her passing. Sam & Dakota from Colorado send their Loves to Jah. 🤗🥰🌷🌹♥️

I love her handbags. So minimalist and classic.

I’m new to your channel, and I gotta admit that when I saw you I didn’t think that you’d be able do justice to a female fashion designer, but you did. That was very interesting and moving. Thank you for giving me more information on her than I’ve heard elsewhere ❤

What a tragic loss. I didn’t know that Kate had passed. My favourite perfume is Kate Spade NYC, it’s expensive but beautiful.

I knew that David Spade was Kate's brother in law. He's one of my favorite comedians. I learned so much about her from this video. Her death truly was shocking and sad. Thanks for honoring her. RIP Kate 💝🛍️💐🕊️ 🌈

Just remember the husband wearing the mouse mask after her death, so weird and uncalled for

I have always been interested in learning about Kate, I've never been one who has kept up with the fashions. So heartbreaking for her Daughter, Husband & Family. Very well done vlog, Jordan, Thank you! Rest In Peace, Kate🌹

Her wicker bags and clutches are amazing! Her shoes do not get enough respect. Yes, you can tell she loved Audrey Hepburn. She was a cute little pixie sprite. Safe travels Kate. ❤️

You are such a great story teller Jordan. Such a sad story and a great loss of life.

I admired her. Rest In Peace Kate. Thank you Jordan for this wonderful tribute to her! You are amazing!

Anxiety & depression is a scurge to women! It takes so much out of you! Wastes so much time and life!

Thank you for spotlighting her efforts in a big way! She so totally deserves it...she is a superwoman that we will always remember..! And we will remember her for her awesomeness!

Thank You Jordan For the Wonderful Tribute ~ I've Been Buying My Daughter Kate Spade Handbags For The Last Few Years( For Her Bdays & Christmas Presents)~ Rest Easy Sweetheart ⚘️

When you are in such a dark place not even kids are enough to keep you alive 🦋🧿

l have several of Kate Spade glasses cases and l love them...pink and orange color......❤

Beautiful tribute to Kate. Have had her purses for many yrs. now. Loved her style. Thank you Jordan.

Such a tragedy. We never know what someone is going through if they choose to keep it private. RIP Kate.

A simple head stone. Love Kate Spade. TY for doing this.

Thank you for sharing her story - RIP to Kate. I adore her fashion line ❤

Well done 👏 Thank you for taking time to create and share Kate's story. 👠 👜 💄

I recently bought my first Kate spade bag. I didn’t want to because spooky, but it was a quality bag and the spade symbol is cool. I had always admired the handbags

Thank you for sharing this. I didn’t know anything about her. When I was a teenager in the mid 90’s, my aunt (who was very fashionable) had a dark blue denim Kate Spade bag. It was in the classic rectangular box shape with a visible red and white checkerboard pattern on the inside. It was small and classic looking. I thought it was the height of fashion told my aunt so. A year later she gave it to me. It is one of the few things I remember owning as a teen, and I think about it from time to time. A good memory. thank you Kate ❤️

Thank you for doing a very detailed and accurate bio of Kate Spade. My first designer bag was Kate Spade (which I still have today) and I only knew from limited news outlets just a bizarre statement her husband gave but felt that something was off, yes, being menopausal and or bipolar is such a bad combo (I’m a member of that club) but she was so lively when interviewed but then to see how the end of her life played out is/was such a tragic loss for this talented woman. I’m still having doubts about her husband and that separation but we can’t bring her back. It’s so sad. rest in peace, Kate

Have faith. Life is tough & we’re all on this journey together.

This is a very beautiful and respectful tribute!

I never knew much about her. It’s so sad that she felt that way and did not or feel like she could get help! Sad for her daughter. Thank you for taking the time to do this for us.I learned something today.

This was quite lovely. Thank you.

Thank you, Jordan, for this respaectful documentary about Kate Spade. Her gravesite is a peaceful place and I hope that Kate is at peace. --- I work at a university here in Indiana and I find many pens each semester. A while back I found a pen that says "Kate Spade" on it and along with a name was a spade logo, the kind of spade you would see on a playing card. The pen must have been from before Kate Spade sold her business and I figure it was a promotional item of which there had been many. Kate Spade probably never used the pen, but I like having something related to this creative lady. Also I saw elsewhere on You Tube a vide on which Kate Spade gave a tour of her living room. Lots of books and interesting items. Over the fireplace was a big painting showing a dark circle that took up a lot of the canvas. Many viewers commented that maybe that dark space in the room was an indicator of Kate Spade's personal difficulty. We probably won't know how Ms. Spade felt about the painting or what it meant to her, but since her death it could be said to have a symbolic quality.

Thank you so much for covering this beautiful soul. YOU did an INCREDIBLE job. She was an amazing designer and her products are still loved by many today. May her soul rest in perfect peace.❤

That is really sad I didn't know her that well. I didn't know her designs until you showed a couple of pictures of them. And I realize how cute they are. I wish I had known more about her. Thank you, Jordan for it. I only knew about that she died. And that she was a designer. So I'm so glad that Jordan was able to show where she buried, Talking about stories of her life. I didn't know she was married to David Spade's brother, even so, this was very Enlightening thank you jordan😢❤

I'm glad you got to visit my hometown, Kansas City Jordan! 🥰 keep taking us on your journeys.

Great job again Jordan, you always do your research and tell the real story.

Thank you, Jordan !!!! What a lovely tribute.

Thank you for this, Jordan. I was shocked when she passed the way she did. I never knew much about her until I watched this video. I hope this lovely lady has found peace. Thank you for the informative, respectful and dignified way you tell these very personal stories. ⭕️❌