Great Self Concept Will NOT MANIFEST Your SPECIFIC PERSON. How It REALLY WORKS 💪 

I hope everyone hears this!! I literally married my person off (a model- they met and I immediately assumed she was better than me AND assumed they would marry THE DAY THEY MET lol Over the years, he and I have become good friends. I kept myself in the “he sees me as only a friend”. And over the years my intuition would pick up on feelings- and I’d tell myself “no way”.) Otherwise, in my own personal journey, I’ve always gotten anyone I’ve wanted. No real terrible history or anything that people talk about in terms of “I need to fix this!” It’s literally my perception of him and OUR relationship. I know this now. I can see EVERY step leading up to here. Everything has played out in accordance to my thoughts and beliefs. Now that I know this, I am working on that (and it will be my success story I share). I really do love the learning and growth, and really trusting and relying on myself. Sending love Athena!! Who plays guitar?? I play piano! I wish we were closer ❤

This is one of the most important points to understand about the law and I'd say THE most misunderstood one! This was also what made the most sense to me in retrospect, because I've always had a pretty good self-esteem and felt like I deserved good things in life but still used to have a ton of problems getting and especially maintaining relationships. When people came to me with the low self-esteem talk I'd even get furious because I was certain it wasn't the problem. What I had was an atrocious self-concept about tons of groups and life in general. "All men are like this", "all women are like that", "all things like this and that end up badly", I used to believe in pretty much all of these 😅

at first i really didn’t understand self concept, i was doing mirror work and self love affirmations and getting all kind of attention from strangers and men i did not want to date but then i really understood thanks to you and neville what self concept really is and the fact that it’s more than just self love and acceptance but every single assumption about myself and others and the world in general and even the fact that i’m or not in a relationship with someone is an aspect of my self concept. Understanding this was a very important part of my journey and it also explains how you can change someone’s behavior towards you because if you occupy a state where a specific person treats you a certain way and you feel the sensation that comes with it then being treated that way from that person will become part of your self concept and will be reflected in on the outside.

I think a high self concept helps you believe things like an SP are truly a possibility

I journal 📓 how W is treating me as his wife, being chosen and prioritized. We are blissfully happy together. ❤❤❤ i can feel him finally hugging me and telling me it’s always been me ❤❤❤❤❤ thank you ☺️ for this video it helped a lot ❤❤❤

Great video, this is so needed in the manifesting community! I had to really realize this on my own by seeing what I am mirroring in relationships and seeing the patterns in all the past relationships. My SP really mirrors me stongly and its easy now for me to see the reflection on my beliefs. Just resently I realized that I thought he was being avoidant at times and when I cleared this I am seeing that actually he is very open and communicative, I could not believe that it was there all the time and my assumption was just getting in the way of seeing it.

Self-concept is everything :) Sure, go ahead and affirm separately for SP, looks, money, job, etc, or just do actual self-concept work, which is actually about full stepping into God mode, realizing that everything and everyone is you and all that's happening to you is happening because it originated from you. No ifs, buts, no exceptions. Then it's like upgrading the whole OP system at once rather than installing separate little apps to do little jobs - why would I waste time with that if the newest OP system already integrates everything at a tap of an icon? Literally magic at your fingertips. God mode gives you everything. If someone thinks it has nothing to do with self-concept, they haven't fully grasped what self-concept is about. It is sooooo much more than feeling good about yourself but still having room for ANYthing in your life to misbehave in ways that need separate "work" to fix :P You're God. Creator of your reality. Based on your beliefs and assumptions the world will be. How much simpler can it be? Why on Earth pick belief systems that take you on the longer path when you can literally believe anything? Your belief systems need to be upgraded either way, otherwise you'd not be here looking for answers. Might as well go to the top of the top and skip all the unnecessary stuff! Sure, we can choose to believe that we need to separately focus on stuff to fix, or we can just skip all that and just be God I AM with control over everything. That's my choice. No time to waste on anything slower than this, those are not the most up-to-date info anymore! Keep speeding up to who you really are!

Aaaaaaa Athenaaaa, I saw some good stuff happening and just got slapped in the face by the 3d and 3rd party (That I didn't even know was still around). It's been a bit hard to deal with the wholesome #InternationalLove success story unfolding, lately. Using a lot of your 3rd party and revision hypnosis these days. Thank you❤

Athena, thank you❤ I was that person who always had a 6 months relationship but from now on i am a woman who has a long term dedicated relationship! 😊

So glad your channel is growing. You deserve so much success. ❤

Because we are all divine multidimensional beings, we are already perfect. It's about the belief that I already have my desire.

Super cool 😎 🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤ Yeah my SC is damn high and it reflects on others so I just gotta work on my list method now ❤❤🎉🎉🎉

Hey gal amazing video ❤ can you consider making a hypnosis on what we should think n feel in regards to relationship with sp (our own concept n about sp) or something around ths idea :)

Happy 😃 Tuesday everyone!!! ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

This advice is gold! Thank you Athena. I needed to hear this today.

Thanks Athena, your videos always come out with the right topic at the right time and give me the encouragement I need 😊

Brilliant Explanation. 💥🙏🏾💥As always! Thank you.

How wonderful to have a fresh perspective. Thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom with us.

Wow, that cleared so much for me… Thank you ❤

This is so true! Thank you Athena.

I’m working on my perceptions with regard to SP ❤

Preach Athena! Spot onnnn! 🙌👏👏👏💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯♥️

I was definitely oblivious to the fact that my sp had a crush on me for years. This is definitely true!

Thank you so much as always sweetheart for another truly informative video sending you so much love as always 💖🫶🏻

Waiting eagerly for your self concept Hypnosis ❤️

I have a really hard time on this point, Athena, since I have been hearing the same thing all my life from my family: "nobody will never want because you're fat". I am fighting it back, and trying not to let it get in the way because my SP is this lovely man who has made me feel secure and confident, but his family and his ex-girlfriend made him think the worst of me... my mind is a mess and I am struggling to clear and organize it so I may manifest him back.

Yes I agree strongly, self concept will not manifest your SP back, you can have a poor self concept and still attract relationships like many people out there, I know people who are negative and depressed and they manage to have a relationship, you need to change the way you view your SP in your mind, so seeing them in a new light and creating a new story from that. Don't focus on the past because you will keep creating that version of them that you don’t want. If you want them to stay for good you need to reprogram your subconscious mind in viewing them as the version who loves you, once your subconscious accepts this new mental image of your SP it will manifest. The key is how do you perceive your SP? Do you have a good self concept but view your SP as a player? Unreliable, dishonest? Then that is what you will get, it’s got nothing to do with self concept. Self concept will help you not be triggered by what they do, and is key to a long lasting relationship, but it’s not key to bringing them back. Change how you view them.

Game changer ❤️

Athena thank you, you make a hugely important point, now how how do we change this? You mention again imaginable the scene, it may be helpful to hear the scenes that may be helpful for " being chosen" "being wanted". help all of us who do not even know how to imagine this..

Hi everyone xx

Thanks, Athena! Your content is invaluable, as always. Brief update w/regard to SP... I just noticed something quite different on his IG. He 'WAS' following over 500 accounts & had over 100 followers. It appears he recently did a clean sweep, deleting all but 20ish in both followers/following! Everything gone w/exception of friends/family! He no longer follows any of his exes, with exception of me! Interesting... 🤔 I'll consider this as part of my bridge! ❤

Love it

Danke!

Ok, so I’m working on wrapping my head around this, and would love to hear what everybody’s experience has been: do I work on my self concept until I pretty much feel about myself the way I want SP to feel about me (so that I can receive it easier when it comes)? Or do I focus on just feeling good about myself while I imagine SP feeling what I want him to feel about me? Not sure I worded that in a particularly intelligent sounding way, but I think you get the gist 😅

I have to definitely 💯 choose my perceptions about my relationships. I was really doing well when I was friends with my SP & he truly chose to be my friend despite him being involved supposedly with someone. He always was a gentleman and I just need to step into feeling Chosen by my husband. I will work on feeling Chosen, special, & prioritized by WK. He always loved 🥰 me, gave me special attention, etc and he just mirrored my beliefs. I see this now that SC of Self is not necessary, it is more the connection with my SP. Ahhhhh. He is my prince 🤴 charming and he will come find me when he is ready. I will work on my Imaginal act then drop it. I love 💕 how you hammered this to us in the end, how do I see myself in relation to SP? I do have my desire to be married with him. I will work on my shyness around him ❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you ☺️ sweetie. 🎉🎉

I worry that it’s now too late to revise horrible scenes from more than 5 weeks ago with sp… It was too painful for me to dive deep into them but they were there resonating in my head … and my sp is about to come back to work and I am so worried they are still in his head … him Telling me I give him hell … him telling me to let him arrange his life and I feel nauseous…

can we imagine an end scene with some single line dialogue that we expect from SP? Like, i imagine a scene where we hug and he tells me something what i want to hear?

Hey Athena, thanks. Do you perhaps have a hypnosis / meditation / affirmations video to help with this? I'd like to change how I view myself in relation to my SP & men in general. & how I believe they view me!

Hi Athena, these days I have some important insights about my relationship with love, and how all my exes did "bad" things to me and it just made me feel secure to go on in life knowing it was better this way. For my SP it took me a lot of self reflection and deep understanding why I was still not able to forgive him. Now after a lot of journaling and meditation and your hypnosis video something finally clicked inside me. Now, I feel like another layer is on the spotlight which is feeling secure, trust and give in to love. Do you have any insight on this?

Yeahhh I need to put this to the test. I do get confused 🫤 with SC. And I am glad 🙂 you clarified that it is NOT necessary for manifestation. I do have my desire to be married to my SP. ❤❤❤

I worry that it’s now too late to revise horrible scenes from more than 5 weeks ago with sp… It was too painful for me to dive deep into them but they were there resonating in my head … and my sp is about to come back to work and I am so worried they are still in his head … him Telling me I give him hell … him telling me to let him arrange his life and I feel nauseous… And yes I know exactly what you’re talking about, struggling to function, washing my face seems like a struggle, I feel ugly and unattractive

To help myself understand fully, if I had a belief "The more I love myself the more other people love me", where would this fit in? As it is self concept, but it is also referring to other people 🤔

Hey! Been loving ur videos. Loved this. But how do I change the perception? Please tell me techniques, should I be scripting or should I be affirming or sleep tapes. Please do help. 😊

Can you do a more in depth video about this please. I do fully believe in the law and I can list the many things I have manifested. Sometimes however, probably due to seeing poor content, I do worry when having rough days. I am not clinically depressed but sometimes, with night shifts/hormones etc you have days where you just feel a bit shit. Although I fully trust in my end and the bleugh mood has nothing to do with the manifestation, it can bleed into thoughts regarding it if that makes sense? Even though logically I know it's unrelated. I am much kinder to myself than I used to be. I think the toxic positivity culture (not you) can effect how we react to these feelings and cause worry. I think it would be a great help to many ppl, unless you already have a video you can point me to? X

Hi Athena, hope you are well? Please suggest me some books on cbt and nlp. Thanks ❤

Arhena with ESP superstrat 😁

Athena great video clear easy to understand which is the way I learn do me a favor give Joseph a big kiss for me that man has changed my life

Can we manifest these relationships without changing ourselves? Not along the lines of self concept or self love, but in terms of behavior or the way we act. Not taking into account things we’re working to improve about ourselves, is that something that can be achieved?

Hi 👋

Hello mrs Athena. Me again with questions😂😂 Really I like your attitudes My question is. Really why we can manifest an sp? I know we can 100% i know people who manifested an sp just for sex And its truly possible But really why we can? Is it because each of us has our own reality? For example im with my sp in my OWN reality but in her OWN reality She doesn't even know me Or in another person reality she is dead or another examples Is it true? BUT If we share one reality so why we can manifest each other?

Athena! While we are manifesting, is it okay to remind ourselves the past sweet memories with SP and feeling them? Or does it come as an obstruction in the manifestation process?

How should I view my SP when we currently in NC? What meaning should i give?

Athena! I'm curious to ask you something Are all the SP's that you ever manifested, with you right now? How'z your relation with them?

I need help athena, my sp unblocked me (🎉yay) but we dont talk, the message I sent him he just viewed it. and I know my limiting beliefs but how do reverse 25 years of those beliefs, I told myself i wouldnt give up. But i am intimidated a bit by my sp, hes everything I want in a man… hes also a big influencer which makes me insecure. I need your guidance honestly, I know regardless of his success and his great personality hes still a regular person but i keep putting him on a pedestal, I really want to be a success story athena

Hi Athena! So I’ve been adiment that my sp is coming back. And I’m like if it’s not him it’s someone/something better. But I keep missing him and wishing he reaches out and all that stuff. I’m not sure how to be in the wish fulfilled without missing him. And I’m still living life but I always have thoughts that I miss him. And Ik that we’ll be together at some point but I’m a little impatient 😅. What should I do? Oh and also like he texted me after two weeks of no contact once, the ghosts me for two weeks and texted again once and now has ghosted me again for like three weeks. And I’m like who does that? I feel like why am I letting this happen to me? I don’t know what I should do anymore. About both these situations.

How to belive sc affirmations?

I love ur videos Athena and i try to implement the things you say- you explain everything so wonderfully🙏🏻 But i think i have one of the worst limiting beliefs: I believe that I have so many limiting beliefs about everything that it will take me my whole lifetime to change them and thus manifest..🥲