Clyde wants me to be happy. I owe him that, for all the joy he has given me. But I am in deep mourning. Had to stop his pain two days ago. There is a hole in my soul the size of a canyon. It's going to take a long time and far beyond.
I know! I'm so sorry for your loss Clyde. It does take time so please be patient with yourself. Yes, you can honor him through your happiness but it's important to Honor whatever pain in emotions come up right now. And then when you're ready to heal and move forward you can use that motivation to honor him. 🙏🏼🩷
you are not alone Man. same for me .I lost my girl Tina 12 years old. 2 months ago. she was definitely the most inoccent thing for me on the planet, my heart will never be healed.sometimes I think maybe It would be nice to die and reunion with her.
Yes..this happened to me. I'm a little lost with the profoundness of it. I do believe I will see them all again. PS.. the little monkey toy was Buckley baby boy's favorite
I'm trying to let go of the pain but it's just been 2 days since Baren died and I think he's going to come around every corner! It seems like the pain won't let go of me! At least I'm not afraid to go out of my bedroom door everyday now terrified that my dog will be dead. anymore 😢
We always still expect them to be there in the beginning and it’s heartbreaking when we have to remind ourselves that they’re not. It takes time. Please be patient and kind to yourself. ❤️🩹
Dear Doctor Tracey, thank you for this video and the whole series. I'm serious about working through it, but if anything, this is the most challenging one. Quite right, I am in an existential crisis. It's like I question what life is all about, my role in it, and if anything I do, or has ever done, has mattered. But in the same video, you say to live a better life and be a better person in order to HONOUR the life and memory of our beloved darling. I also agree (though it is a mindbender at times) that there is no death, because our souls are eternal. I was saying a few days ago 'I love you and I miss you' but from your other videos I felt I was hurting her by saying 'I miss you'. She knows - she just will be unhappy if she feels I am unhappy. She is with her cat family now - she outlived them all in this life, but they are together now. That is a beautiful thing. I may be collecting her ashes to return home the day after tomorrow. I still feel numb and listless. But I adore her, now and always, and when I sleep I now say 'I love you and hope you are okay.' She knows I love her, and she also knows that I know she is okay. It will be okay....but it is just so hard to process right now. I will continue working through the videos. Thank you again x
Thank you for sharing your experience, as I believe this helps others. It’s always ok to talk with her and tell her you love and miss her. In this session, I was referring to us falling into deeper grief and believing that we can no longer function without them. This is when our loved ones in spirit can end up not crossing over because they can’t leave us (in my beliefs and spiritual education). This is meant to encourage us to allow our love for them to outweigh the pain and to continue living. This part is not meant to discourage, shame, or avoid the grieving process in any way. I apologize if it came across that way. This grieving process takes time and these later sessions are meant to be taken once the initial, more intense, grieving has subsided and some healing has begun. This part may be too much too soon. We need to be able to go through the grieving process and mourn the loss of their physical presence. After we do that is when the spiritual part comes in to help us in our acceptance and healing. Thank you again for sharing this because this is a very important point to make for everyone going through this process. Please let me know if you have additional questions or concerns. Please be patient with yourself and honor whatever emotions come up and process through them. Take your time before moving onto the next session and move on when you’re ready. Sending you much Love ❤️ 🙏🏼
