Groom Rushes the Wedding Preparations to Go Surfing | Don't Tell the Bride | Real Love 

😅😅ah this show is really addictive

Me too!

Lol me too! 🤦‍♀️

Literally same 🤣

@@snowflake4065 haha me too

Exactly! Eeww

i cant believe this channel just casually uploaded a video with blackface like its acceptable. and its still up years later.

That is SO WEIRD. In the USA, the maids pay for, make, or have their gowns made for them. We always bought all of the fabrics and patterns for the maids and flower girls and our family made them, and our Moms gowns as well. Really I believe that each family can do whatever works for them, who made the rules anyway?

ikr. literal blackface

Haha!

Totally agree. He'll be a nice man when he grows up. Hope she loves supporting him or else they'll end up living with her parents sooner or later. The joy of true love.

I've never heard of bridesmaids paying for anything. They don't here in the USA.

@@mrsta1267 I"m in the USA, too. And every bridesmaid I know, including ones I was in, the bridesmaid bought the dress. I've never heard of the bride paying. She pays for the gift she gets all the bridesmaids, but not the dress, which the women keep.

You should a watch the Mr. Darcy/Pride and Prejudge themed episode if you haven’t seen it yet. It’s my all time favorite.

Absolutely agree!!! Sometimes it's just too much!!

@@realpixiestix I was just going to respond with the same suggestion. He truly did everything to make her happy

No they don't! I live in the U.S and paid for my 2 bridesmaids dresses. I would feel awful to ask them the favor of standing with me then making them pay for something as another favor to me. Just not what I did

They don't in the USA 🤷‍♀️

I can’t speak for those in the UK, but here in the States, every wedding I have been a bridesmaid in, I have had to pay for the dress.

​​@@sngray11 Same! I feel like paying for your own dress, shoes, etc. is perfectly standard in the US, especially if the bride's family isn't wealthy. The bride often covers the accessories (like a matching necklace), sometimes travel/hotel for long distance bridesmaids, and sometimes a spa trip or hair/make-up/nails, but again, I would never expect someone to do that for me. If you're asked to be a bridesmaid, be prepared for it to cost you A LOT because you're still expected to organize and pay for the bachelorette and attend all the showers, rehearsals, etc. I spent SO much on a dear friend's wedding (probably upwards of $1,000), and I wasn't even the maid of honor. The only thing that brides have ever bought for me were the flowers and the jewelry.

its just a tv show, not a reflection on uk weddings as a whole. its staged to encourage drama for entertainment value. and if i were a loved one of someone winning a paid for wedding, i would also hope that the groom would make everything in budget. the bridesmaids easily agreed to pay half the difference for the dresses too.

@@dineo8341 That is the ONLY TIME I have EVER seen maids do that on this series. They wanted fancier formal gowns that would also work for the pregnant maids and it worked for them and their gowns were perfect for the wedding gown. Which by the way was the MOST EXPENSIVE gown I have EVER seen ANY groom ever pay for on one of these shows whatever country it was in. It is unrealistic to me that TWO venues, and all of the parties, "dos" fancy transportation and on and on are expected out of this budget. Paying for ALL of the alcohol is weird as well. People should pay for their own if they are going to drink and be stupid. Noone should have to pay for that, and they would be be a part of the liability of any accident that happened . as well.

The budget is not enough to afford 9 bridesmaids. They should buy their own dress and shoes.

Wow where are you from? I've never heard of a bridesmaid paying for anything. They don't in the USA.

this show likely doesn’t reflect the whole uk culture. to me the bridesmaids were being advocates for the bride and each other, just making sure the dress was suitable for a wedding and comfortable for the pregnant ladies. i think they come off as intense on this show because the grooms are so lax and selfish, so the bridesmaids are the only voice in favor of what the bride wants we typically hear loudly because they have the chance to try and convince the groom to make at least that part of the wedding as the bride would like it. (typically, just acceptable.). they easily agreed to pay half of the difference with the groom. i think if my friend was getting married for free on a tv show that i would also expect the dresses to be within budget. if no one else is paying for anything, why should only the bridesmaids. weddings where many folks chip in if the couple can’t afford everything, i understand it. but this is s staged show where the drama is played up so they probably act more intense.

​@@mrsta1267Really?!? I'm from California, and I paid for everything for the weddings I was in, including the bride's shower and bachelorette! I even did my own hair, nails, and make up, while my own mom did the bride's (she wasn't even my relative), and I arranged for my own transportation too.

@@monica9450 I guess I shouldn't say not in the USA. In my area of the usa, the parents usually pay for a majority of the wedding. Mine couldn't so I did but my experience is not the norm.

@@mrsta1267 So weird! I want to ask around now and do a survey!

only some thoughts here: hihi & hihi & hihi.... budget finished & asking money from everyone... immature & sad

Finally someone said it. The blackface is unacceptable!

defintely

You would think they have talked about the wedding when they got engaged - the type of dress, type of venue, etc. But this show is probably scripted to make it worse than it is lol.

After seeing the turnout of her wedding, i see why the silence

either that or they only cast men who are self centered and not responsible or good at planning. it seems even all the women are organized, have high and traditionally standards for weddings, and take on most responsibility in the relationship.

It's reality TV. Of course the producers want drama, so they help create drama! This wouldn't be quite as entertaining if all the grooms were amazing at being caring and constantly thinking of their bride. Or, the brides were thinking of their men and what a challenge their task must be. This are heavily edited. The voice over definitely makes the drama sound intensely higher than it probably is. That all said, I like watching these episodes and really rooting for these men to figure it out at the end.

I’m still in shock ☠️

@@Locovirgo I can't believe so many people are in the comments like "sweet couple" 🫠🙄🤮

what bride was in blackface??

nvm i saw it, -oof 💀

LOL!