When I was 14 and on a flight alone, a middle aged man was seated next to me. I was wearing a jumper dress and he put his hand on my thigh. I froze bc I was young and didn’t know what to do. The stewardess immediately walked over and asked to speak with me. She grabbed my bag out of the overhead and walked me up to first class and sat me down. She let me fly first class for free just to keep me away from that creep.
Personally I don't think anyone under 18 should be on a flight unsupervised. That in itself is asking for all kinds of trouble. I've never been fond of the idea of kids roaming unattended for any reason
Ick, I'm sorry. Same happened to me on a cable car in San Fran. He put his hand on my bare leg,just the fingertips but I remember it clearly. I was frozen. He kept trying to get closer to me and I remember the look on his face. I was 9.🤮
Years ago, my hubby and I took my daughter and her friend to see a concert outside. They were both 13. Of course, they didn't want to sit with us on the lawn, so we let them take their blanket and move a little aways from us. Some old guy (to them anyway) about 30 or so started hitting on them. Before I could even get over to them, a man seated in front of them jumped up and loudly demanded the guy back off. I must have thanked him 10 times. The girls were scared then and moved right next to us. So many years ago, it was Meat Loaf, Bat out of Hell Tour. My daughter is now a mother of 2 and a high school calculus teacher.
Babies are in a hurry for independence but how wonderful is the bond and foundational love that they knew they could run right back under the protection of their parents
This is why many male family members and friends are so overprotective 👀. Young people do not need creepy adults coming on to them while they are innocently living their lives. Thank you to all the men who protect girls and women out there! ❤️🤗
I'm sure there was a serial killer who did exactly this, lured teenagers to his farm to work and then murdered the guy and tied up and abused the girl.
Everyday! All the time! The more a woman is outside the more it happens. Everytime a woman walks out the door she's avoiding and aware of moments like this.
I get your point, but I also don’t agree with how society is teaching each other to be rude and disrespectful, and to be proud of it. It’s becoming the norm to just be rude. Everyone always justifies it, and if anyone has a different opinion, they become abusive.
@@lang-ed3bk you can’t be serious 😂? this dude is creeping on a minor and completely crossing boundaries and you’re gonna say “b-but don’t be rude to him” tf is wrong with you 😂😂
I wish we knew how it ended.... This poor confused child, maybe her parents will see this and talk her into pressing charges if anything happened. Makes me sick.
@@jenniferwilliams9548 are she could be a victim of sex trafficking and her parents might see this and know their daughter is still alive and still have hope in finding her.
The “dad” started to say 18, then realized that wouldn’t fly and decided to go the daughter route and said 16. He’s a predator. I hope he’s caught and that poor child is rescued
I caught that too! I was like nope there's no way this guy is her Dad he was about to lie about her age so it seemed like she was legal then he went with 16 instead. What a creep!
Wouldn’t the girl notice that and understand that the guy is creepy and has bad intentions? Why did she continue to follow him?? I don’t understand any of this. I hope she’s okay and safe.
@@torilan2672 To her this guy is a "magic man". Thier love is going to change the world. The fear you see is not of the predator, but the guy with the camera will keep them apart. She needs serious therapy. He needs serious jail time, not that it will help.
@@stevendeans4211 true, I think they’re in a relationship (with her consent, although the old guy could have groomed her into it), her facial expression when the guy with the camera came up to them was more like she’s annoyed about people questioning them when they’re together, and the old creepy guy was panicking cause he knew he would be caught. So many teenagers run away from home and get in relationships with older men not realizing that it’s wrong and that they’re being taken advantage of. It’s so sad, I hope she’s in a safer environment. (Ps : this is just what I think, idk what’s actually going on between them).
As a 41 year old woman, I want to tell all girls to never be afraid to be "rude." You do not have to be nice. If they won't leave you alone, call the cops, run and scream fire, do whatever you have to do. I wish someone had told me that when I was younger.
@@iThiink You need a taser or maybe pepper spray, heck even a gun. Anything to defend yourself there’s no shame in defending yourself. It’s better safe than sorry, You never know how these folks might act
This guy is a sandwich short of a picnic , who takes a 16 year old on a date to the local pub ? ... and she looks more like 14 ! Years ago the Greeks at work knew the father of a convicted paedophile 18 it was all over the news he coaxed a young girl ( a toddler) at a shopping centre into a stairwell and digitally raped her. The farther of the offender said the sons first week in prison , a prisoner defecated on several sheets of newspaper then as the son came out his cell had it rubbed in his face. !
I am so glad situations like this are getting recorded, it can spread more awareness on how to handle this situations and how to identify red flags coming from others.
I wish someone was able to record these situations when my friends and I were young. No one would believe the men who tried and sometimes (through force) succeeded. Dirty old men in that filthy village I grew up in 🤮
@@paddysgirl2098 Oh my goodness, I am so sorry to hear that happened to you and your friends. We've got to hope that whenever we witness something like this happen there will be people who will protect the victims and let the abuser get what they deserve
@@pimpkins0831 the police and social work didn't help us when we tried to expose the creeps, so all we've got left is the hope that karma will pacify our torment. Thank you for your kind words ✌️ ♥ 🏴
"I'm only 17." "Oh, well that's a good age." Uhm, 17 is a good age for getting a prom dress and a driver's license. NOT for getting into whatever that creeper had in mind. Glad she was smart enough to get away.
@@sprshb1852 I think it’s more about the fact that most people who say “16-17” is a “good age” to date are usually people well into their late 20’s early 30’s. It’s not about being an adult once you turn 18 it’s about grown men and women thinking that because you’re closer to 18 than to 14 that it’s okay to prey on you. Look at the whole Billie Eilish situation people waited years until she turned 17/18 to start making creepy comments about her. It’s weird to think that once someone is close too or is 18 that it’s okay to prey on them, it’s more or less just really weird. Most 20-21 years olds don’t want to date Highschoolers so why are grown ass men and women so quick to want to date a Highschooler?? It’s just really weird imo.
@@sprshb1852 I do agree with you, it's not like somebody snaps their fingers on your 18th birthday and you're suddenly an adult, you're still very much a kid. The frontal lobe of your brain doesn't even fully develop until your mid-twenties. In a weird way, it actually becomes worse at 18/19 because you're no longer underage, which is an easy out if someone is clearly being a creep. Suddenly it's "fair game" even though you haven't really changed. I would still tell people I was 17 when I wanted them to leave me alone because I could still reasonably pass for that a few years after.
Straight up predator. He literally tries to get her to come to his secluded property under the guise of work. Thats the beginning of every true crime story and horror movie. Wow. Turn his ass in before he does kidnap someone. Thats just SCARY
I remember reading that Ted Bundy did something similar, he stopped and asked some girls to help him because he had a broken arm and that was how he lured some victims to his car...and we all know what happened to them.
Theres actually a real story like this. Some girl brought her fiance to help a man inquiring for help. I guess he didnt plan on the fiance to come with, so he immediately shot the fiance in the head and forced her into a storage unit on the property, he locked her in and would come in every now and then(use your imagination), I forgot how the police were led there, but when they did, bodycam footage showed him coming up to them completely normal, like an ordinary guy. Well, they found her alive, the fiances body was feound. Then they dug up a few other bodies who had fallen for the same crap.😔😔 I couldnt think of anything else but that story while watching that dude attempt to lure a 17 year old to his property. Despicable Disgusting
The best thing about aging out is this sh t stops. Once they start calling you ma'am you've hit freedom from all annoying random creeps in public trying to beg you for a date
I think it was his attempt to make her feel bad for him an more willing to help out.. other sickos use fake casts, wheelchairs, anything to get "help" then turn on them when Noone is around. If she was thinking maybe (which clearly she wasnt) he could have thought mentioning his "messed up knee" could make her feel if something did happen I could just run away from him...
Absolutely. Read the Gift of Fear by Gavin deBecker. He talks about the different ruses men use to shift control in a situation but the main message is that if anyone ignores any form of no the first time, they do not respect your wants.
@@TwinMama09 Well I think some people are scared because if they get rude, a man (who is usually a lot bigger and stronger than these young girls) could easily get mad and injure them. I know for me, I wouldn’t be rude in fear that it angers the person and then they harm me in some way. Just thought I’d bring in another perspective!!!🥰
A guy did the same to me when I was about 15 but it was his back instead it was so creepy when he ask if I could come over and do Massage Therapy for him
Yeah often times when women speak out about it, some men would either call them bitter because they aren't young and desired anymore, or make up excuses about how women mature faster so it's justifiable for an older man to pursue younger girls, so it's nice for a change seeing more guys who don't condone this behaviour in other men. I remember many stories of young underprivileged girls being preyed on by older men.
That second girl looked petrified. I'd have been concerned enough to get police involved. If I'm wrong, great. With all the trafficking going on, I would have never left her side.
As a young woman, this shit happens ALL THE TIME. I can remember it since I was thirteen. Men, please don’t hesitate to step in and help get us out of these situations…
Remember to make a scene if needed. Most people are gonna be minding their business unless they hear that. Safety is more important then you feeling embarassed by it, you'll be surprised how much help you can get from us around when you do
The way he took her hand and tried to start walking away with her made me want to cry. You can see how absolutely terrified she is. I’m so thankful for the guy who recorded the video.
I don't think she is terrified of the guy holding her hand. She's terrified of the guy with the camera... She know she's caught and I do believe she is aware of WHATEVER they are doing is illegal... TRUST...
@@tacodajones5379 I got close to the same vibe.....HER behaviour seemed off too.... if she felt terrified of the 'dad' guy- why did she stand there and start to walk off with him so willingly, when she had someone RIGHT THERE trying VERY hard to rescue her...??
She probably has no father figure and is looking for a substitute in a child predator. I know this story too well as I used to meet up with older guys online and hook up with them. I know it’s sad and disgusting, and I’m ashamed of it, but as I grew older now 35, I know I was looking for a father because my father wasn’t really a good one to me. Pray for this little girl, she may be in danger and wanting a father figure in her life.
He never got caught. He got his way with the child. And the parents couldv cared less. This little girl life has changed bc of her dumb poor excuse choices
The man in the second segment deserves our deepest respect and admiration. He may have saved that girl from trafficking, rape, and god knows what. I’m concerned that she went along with him initially, as though he whispered a threat in her ear. This vid needs to be sent to the local LE.
I don't know if he did save her because it looked like she was holding his hand and walking away with the man? What he did is awesome and admirable but you need to call the cops afterwards and not let her leave with this man she looked depressed!! I don't know what happened after the video but I pray someone called the cops !
"I don't know if he did save her because it looked like she was holding his hand and walking away with the man?" he could have told her...hold my hand and don't say a word or else I am going to hurt you and/or your family. Not all human trafficking is someone tied up and put in a trunk.
The way he said "are you engaged? Or *belong* to anyone?" What the hell do you mean 'belong to anyone"?! That sentence was enough for me to be creeped out and would **immediately** leave!
As a father of 3 daughters this scares the hell out of me. My wife and I constantly talk to our kids about situations like this and how to handle it. I wish the girl in the second video was forward enough to say “I don’t know him” or something else. Good on the man for protecting her.
I have three as well and I would as well always try and protect someone else’s child like my own. I have a good place for scumbags who try and pick up underage kids.
*@Jason.* Please show this video to your children and discuss the content with them, and share with other parents. I do not have a daughter, but I was trembling with anger while watching this.
We are working on this. The snakes have filled the well. It'll take time to clean this mess. They've networked in the dark for far too long. No more. Meanwhile we will stay aware of our surroundings and educate the children without fear mongering. Excuse me. I'll be adding to my list now. Love and appreciation. Truth is internal.
@@noodlepoodlegirl same. I've had a fair share of run ins with creeps and I don't want my little sister or my nieces to go through any of it. Ya sound like one proud mama 😊
Don’t forget, it’s the government that facilitates the survival of these types of people. In early America, before the establishment of police, these people were taken out into the woods and shot, as they deserve
The last girl looks like she's maybe 13. I'm so happy that the guy recording it was trying to help her. I wonder what happened after that. I hope she's safe.
Yup, definitely not 16. He even changed her age from 18 to 16 when he realized that she legitimately looks like a child and that can’t be hidden. Fucking terrifying and I’m hoping that she’s okay.
The fact that the first defense that dude went for was “she’s my daughter” just goes to show he knew how insanely young she was compared to him, that he thought he was old enough to be her father… sick fucks out there. Idk how these people don’t just bury them dudes out back, just let them walk off… unreal.
he address the elephant in the room, he is not obligated to ruin his own life over this mans actions - you get him arrested. Who cares if a predofyle calls you a rat, I'd rather be a rat than associated with such dirtbags . might be an award for it even
@@TheGuiltsOfUs The evidence ? He says she is 16 and him, 32, he would have be to be 16 when she was born, also, the first answer he gave isn't that he's his father, but that she's 16, and obviously she is younger. Not to mention she doesn't act like he's her father and he doesn't talk directly to her but whisper something to make her follow him.
Listen up girls. Don’t be afraid to be “rude” towards creeps when they approach you in public. Sometimes a simple “you’re making me uncomfortable, I don’t want to talk” or “you’re in my bubble, leave me alone” is enough to get them to walk away. Creeps bank on the conversation appearing “normal” to onlookers. If there’s any semblance of reasonable doubt that they’re directly overstepping boundaries, a creep will justify creepy actions. Making it socially apparent that you’re deeply uncomfortable takes the power out of their arena. We’re conditioned to practice good manners towards people who strike up a conversation. Some of us might even fear further escalation if we show any hostility. Keep in mind that predatory people feed off your hesitation and discomfort. That’s why he’s unfazed by the uncomfortable social cues she’s giving off. Creeps like to see you squirm. Standing your ground, or even embarrassing them, takes all the fun out of it. Even if a creep escalates, you’re still better off, because at least you know what you’re dealing with.
I agree and the guy was a TOTAL CREEP and not blaming the girl but she could’ve walked away a bit BUT she kept the video going for content too if u see she looked over the same clothes over and over again🤔😅
@@xlxshax4163 The dude got into such a weird creepy glass eyed mode once he realized she wasn’t walking way. He decided to shoot his shot and try to get her alone and vulnerable in the most confounding way possible
I’m glad that they recorded everything that was going on. Too many predators are getting out of hand. And mad respect for the man who stood up for the girl. Stay safe everyone. It’s getting too wicked out here if you know what I mean.
@@walkwithmeASMR I'm just saying they are getting too comfortable being around people under age is what I'm trying to say. Sorry for the misunderstanding. Just want people to stay safe and away from these kinds of people.
The 70s and 80s were when this shit was accepted. So much so people like Ted Nugent, Jimmy Page, and Steven Tyler were given permission by the girl's parents. Ted actually had custody of his young girlfriend, given by the parents. My friends and I wore that same expression the girl had, on our faces many many times. Pedos have - unfortunately - always been here and prevalent, we are just now seeing it more because of smartphone cameras. Hopefully the exposure, and strong empowered young females, will end it once and for all.
@@chippychin I don’t think it will ever end, there will always be older men who have a desire for young girls, the power dynamic that creates and a distorted sexual preference, simultaneously not giving a damn about any repercussions they might face if caught. We can teach our children best practices and still it’s not enough sometimes. I think applauding the people who “see something say something” like in this case is good. At the very least it’s clout, I don’t care what motivates it, preferably moral standing, but I want more people to call out sickos. It is socially acceptable to shame pedos for a reason.
Sin leads to hell, keep focused, the devil is on earth to destroy your soul. But God wants to give you everlasting Joy. But our sin is keeping this from happening. You must stop sinning and turn to Jesus Christ he is your only hope. He can save you from eternal suffering under the Earth, where hell is hot.. Not everyone who calls me their Lord will get into the kingdom of heaven. Only the ones who obey my Father in heaven will get in. Matthew 7:21.....
Seriously this shit happens so much it's sickening. Since age 9 I've had old men trying to pick me up for sex and no one does anything about it because he didn't actually have the chance to hurt me. Like why wait for it to happen, he's fucking sexually harassing someone fucking lock him up!
@@jameswiggle Yes, and the guy was like in his 40's and my mom cursed him out. And when I was 13 and I reported to police about drunk men on the corner hitting on us they told us to just ignore it.
Ive always looked older than my age. Even now at 19 I get mistaken for being in my mid-late 20’s (I was always a lot taller for my age as a kid). I started getting approached by grown men at a similar age as you. A couple of times in my school uniform as well…
I was THIRTY-ONE years old when a man tried to lure me somewhere when I was at the beach. I warned every mother and child there. I've got absolutely no trust and he had quite the nerve.
Dude, you’re doing a huge service by bringing these sorts of things to light and condemning them. It enrages me that my mother, sister, aunt, grandmothers, female friends are under threat of being approached by some creep or, even worse, having a predator set his sights on them, every time they walk out the damn door. Until we guys start exposing and standing up against this crap, our women and girls are never going to have the safety, the freedom of movement that we enjoy and that they deserve just as much, simply by being human beings. Huge kudos to you.
I hate the guy no more than the next person, but women have been standing up against this behaviour for years. Sometimes too much; numerous men have been falsely accused of bad behaviour, largely out of racism.
@@ifaiful I agree that history has been cruel. False accusations based on race, gender, sexual orientation, etc, were commonplace - & so were real, yet unreported, attacks. But the only way things will change is if we raise it, own it, and lead by example - be the change we want to see. A couple of decades ago, I remember it being totally normal for a woman to be called every name under the sun for rejecting a guy and hurting his feelings. Now, we've had Me Too, Time's Up, BLM, and a real push for LGBTQ+ equality. It's up to all of us to seize that momentum and push change through so that we are *finally* equal - otherwise it'll never happen.
@@ifaiful I knew it would be just a matter of time before someone, usually a teenaged boy got on and said something about false accusations. Never fails.
That kind of shite gets them off. They can’t have seckual experiences with adult women because they can’t satisfy them. So they prey on inexperienced children to feel like they are macho.
I used to lie ab my age, saying i was a minor and was SHOCKED when that shit didnt work. Also, ladies, NEVER take gifts from men you barely know. They will use it as leverage against you
I hate that this is true. You can't be kind to people anymore because nobody but predators do anymore. It used to be tradition to bring apple pie to new neighbors.
I’ll take that gift and fuck off lol it’s a game and you gotta learn to play it If you don’t, then most definitely do not take gifts &/or money! A lot of Men like to think that they own your time after that
i work at a take and bake pizza place. this guy, you could say he’s a regular, comes in pretty often and whenever i’m working he asks me if i’m in college EVERY TIME. everytime i say no and i say i’m younger than that but he always says “but you’ve told me you are in college” like sir, no i haven’t. if i had, you wouldn’t ask me if i was in college everytime you come in when i’m working.
Let me just advise ALL young girls... say very loudly "Leave me alone! I'm not interested and you're too old to be hitting on a minor!" Draw attention to the guy! Don't ever be afraid of getting as loud as possible. If I ever hear a young girl act like in public I will protect her and make sure she is safe!
100%. I think that scares them off most of the time. If you silently leave there's always a chance they may try again maybe more aggressively especially if its at night they'll circle back.
@@Kinobambino exactly! It draws attention to them and makes people remember their faces or small details about them. They definitely don't want that when trying to abduct someone.
This is very important. As a young girl, it’s hard to say no initially with confidence because of the fear of the predator getting mad or frustrated and becoming more aggressive, but I think practicing something to say beforehand if the situation ever comes up, women can be more prepared to defend themselves.
@@laurenhinrichs9084 it looks and seems crazy to practice in the mirror but I promise it works. I am 40 and do NOT like attention drawn to me ever, but I still practice in the mirror a few times a month. It helps to keep me vigilant and keeps me confident that I can do it IF I ever need to.
I was followed by an old guy walking home from a friends when I was 14, at first he kept driving past me and then slowed down to ask me for a ride. I just cut my eyes over and shook my head no, he started laughing and drove on. So I became spooked and started walking faster, there he is again facing towards me at a stoplight, he starts hanging out his window yelling something at me and at this point I'm scared. I take off running onto a side street and hide behind a tree on someones yard. Sure enough I see him creeping again looking for me but luckily he turns onto another street and I run all the way to my house. Never told my parents at the time because I knew they wouldn't let me out to walk again. I never saw the guy again either!
My 14 yr old daughter gets grossed out when grown men look at her. Crazy part is she dresses pretty conservative compared to other girls at her high school. She has told those that try to talk to her that she is 14 and they respond "so, age is only a number" 😡. Luckly I wasn't around.
This is why at 30 I still dress conservative. Let me say when I was younger and not of age I had so many creeps try things while walking. It's gross and scary. This is why I'm uncomfortable even at 30 to wear a skirt when I want to look nice. Ugh.
"age is only a number"... "how many years you are missing after my dad gets here is only a number too, how many guys and gals he brings with him is also only a number"
@@hollowpistol2378 I’ve been approached by these monsters whilst wearing my school uniform. Trust me. These gross people just don’t care what you’re wearing.
So grateful for this guy watching out and actually standing up for this young girl. Although he doesn't know her, he knows that she is somebody's daughter! Love it!!
@HellCatQueen50 but isn’t there more of that videos bc it seems like something more was going on. Why was she leaving with him even tho it looks like his drunk and was trying to groom her?
@@sakitsubaki probably along the lines of she already got groomed and he's now manipulating her with stuff like "im going to hurt myself/someone if you leave me" or "you cant live without me" messed up but not uncommon and it really shows the length he was going by saying she was his daughter and then dragging her along with him and freaking out even more when the cops were going to get involved.
I had a police detective come to our home looking for one of my dad’s tenants. He told me how pretty & wanted me to go out to dinner. I didn’t phase him at all. When I told him I was only 14. Their pigs too.
@@purewater4057 I know what they were saying, but what's the point in bringing it up? Are you trying to argue against helping the girl out since 'she's not scared'? You don't have to 'act scared' to be scared. Even if she's not scared, *she's a little girl being groomed.* It's as if they were trying to say she 'consented', even though she doesn't have the ability to consent.
Some weirdos are out there. My ex had a family friend who basically had a family with his young, I mean very young daughters. He had kind of brainwashed them into thinking it was normal for a father to do things with them, and they’re supposed to do stuff back. Being very PG here but luckily he was caught and in prison now. Unfortunately his daughters will never been the same after what he put them through.
"Are you engaged to someone, or belong to someone?" That right there is all we need to know and the fact he persists even after he finds out shes a child, is so gross and creepy.
There was a serial killer who lured women onto his property to do work & kept them in a shipping container. He killed the first couple but the 2nd woman was rescued though her boyfriend was killed. Sounds like the first guy in this video was using his playbook. I think his name was Todd Kohlhepp if you're interested.
Back when I was 15 I was standing on the bus stop and this guy kept circling the block in a car (it took a couple of times for me to notice) and he was…playing with himself-a guy across the street at the other bus stop saw what the guy in the car was doing and on like the seventh trip around the block, the guy on the other bus stop ran up and sucker punched the pervert (who quickly drove away) and he missed his bus to make sure I safely got on mine. I’ll never forget that and I really appreciated what he did.
Good on him! I went to an all girls HS and exhibitionist ped*s would expose themselves on the block between the student-frequented bus stop and the school building. The fact that ppl get off on simply corrupting innocent minds is grooming behavior smh
A guy was hitting on me and he asked my age and the moment I said I am 17 he looked so disappointed. It’s so refreshing to find adults who care about your age.
When I was 14 age of consent was 14. Now it's 16 where I live. I mean we still would've called this guy "a pervert" but not a pee doe file because we didn't know that word and didn't think we were children.
The last guy having the audacity to grab the girl's hand to try to take her away with him even after being confronted is so terrifying yet infuriating to see
@MsDudette21 I don't think this one was all that clear cut and our "little angel" there , was about to make , willingly , the worst decision of her young life ! WAIT , before y'all maul me hear me out ! Just reading her body language and actions , I come to a different conclusion than those who say she "is terrified" . Yeah , of the hero possibly calling the cops or making a scene that would lead to her parents finding out what SHE is up to . Observe : 1. When hero walks up guy has her bracketed and pressed up against her....but she is not even flinching away , not to mention yelling or asking for help when there are literally dozens of people standing . 2. When she first turns around she does not look "terrified" or look like she was waiting for just this chance to make a break . 3. She still does not make break even though creep has back turned and is fully engaged with hero , OR 4. STILL NOT saying anything even while hearing hero accuse creep of the very thing we assume she needs help with ! (Remember , there are many people standing around) 5. She gives a sheepish grin at hero but STILL says nothing even though hero is now BETWEEN her and the creep who has walked off a couple steps . 6 Finally , creep tells her "c'mon let's get outta here , just say yer my daughter if asked"".... and takes her hand , which she accepts , then avoids eye contact with hero as she passes , and then when hero again confronts creep with calling police , she looks up with a look...."of terror"?..I think not . C'mon , she has repeatedly let every opportunity to " get help" pass by including Hero saying he'll call THE POLICE , and there STILL DOZENS of people right there , and probably hundreds more nearby ., in a public place , in broad daylight ! I would say her look is more like worry . Worry of discovery . Said all that to point out that she seems to know the creep already and is cozy and comfortable with him . That DOES NOT make you any less a CREEP , if the underage participant is willing , naive or infatuated with you . I think , in this 2nd case , that the girl is infatuated and probably flattered that the older guy is wanting her and she is making some really bad calls here , but doing so willingly . If you are a guy whom an underage girl is crushing on , you'd better nip that shit in the bud...and it is always the older person , THE ADULT'S responsibility to know right from wrong . Because it is STATUTORY RAPE no matter how "in love" the minor thinks she is ! Bottom line : She is being VERY FOOLISH and , he is being an OPPORTUNISTIC , PREDATORY , CREEP !
I've been in an abusive relationship and whenever I knew I was being taken home for punishment I got quiet too. I wouldn't speak up, because I learned if I did the punishment would be worse or last longer.
@@jack-gn4yl You are dense. He thought he was in trouble because his kid was next to a bar. Both you and the camera guy are creeps for assuming the worst.
That makes my blood boil. I have a little girl, and the thought of a predator getting his hands on her like that is terrifying. Be the best father you can be to your daughters guys. You don't want her thinking she's gotta look for love from older men because you were a half ass father.
I had so many weird interactions like this growing up....I was so sheltered and innocent that I just thought these older dudes were being friendly or "fatherly". Now I realize how disgusting these guys were
Literally I used to just be nice a laugh everything off, my other girlfriends would look at me like I’m crazy. I don’t have any father figures or older brothers/ uncles, nothing. I didn’t know how to react .. lmao
It would take one hell of a good man to be friendly and fatherly in this situation one hell of a good man is not many of them left no more unfortunately
This happens everyday. It's not flattering. Sometimes it's just scary because you don't know if the guy is going to turn on you and get pissed because you are turning them down. I've been in a position where the same man complimenting me one minute, turns red and goes on a barrage of insults the minute I say no thank you.
@@yourinnerlawyer4035 I’m that nigga 😂 Last chick who blanked me, I hated her from then on. That’s why I’m better off alone. I don’t wanna hurt anyone but damn it, why won’t anyone love me?
The US have many creeps like this. They don't care about age or race. I was in Walmart in front of the bathrooms a few years ago with my nephew and my brother, the kid was 10 and I remember a woman and her creep husband or boyfriend like this one that approached us and said "If you want I can help you with your kid and take him to the bathroom for you" I got so mad that my face became hot with anger, my brother jumped the guy but I stopped him and I told him "there are cameras here and you and me can go to jail because we will be the aggressors in the eyes of the police". It was very frustrating to swallow that anger and walked away.
I was 12 yrs old, at Disneyland with my family. And a Vietnamese man in his mid 30's or early 40's, followed me for hours, from one end of Disneyland to the other. His English wasn't good, so he couldn't really communicate much. Except to repeatedly say "Phone number?" I kept repeating "im 12". But the man was not deterred. Instead, he grabbed a mini umbrella souvenir I had been carrying, and took it. He wanted me to chase him for it. I just let him have it. In the end, my father had to chase him off, I got my mini umbrella back. But seriously... what are these men thinking?! I was a child! Disney Land is NOT a hunting ground 😠.
To all the hot young girls: I live in the desert far from all civilization, and need nubile chicks to help me remove asbestos from some old buildings!!!!
You're absolutely right! The second she said she was 17 a normal person would have said, "Nice to meet you, have a nice day" and left. That guy is obviously a predator and you can tell this isn't the first time he's done this.
When I was 13 I was in a pool on holiday and there was this man staring at me and I had no idea what he was saying aside from “puta” and making these weird faces, but thankfully my sister pulled me out of the swimming pool
When I was 15 years old I went out to a diner with my 16 year old friend who could drive. These 3 men in their 30s felt entitled enough to sit with us and offer to pay for our food. I literally got up and tried to get help from people in the diner and not a single person helped us. We eventually were able to make a run for it but I seriously appreciate when guys stand up for this. If a girl is obviously not interested please back off. We rarely will just give in.
I think fathers don’t fully understand this, but around the age 13/14, young girls get approached like this all the time. It’s highly inappropriate, it’s uncomfortable, it feels violating, and often unsafe. You are developing into a woman and older men take advantage of that and is it as a reason to act like it’s okay to approach you in this way.
As long as people realise that if they approach my daughter, whether they think they have her best interest in mind or not, and try to harass us about whether or not I'm kidnapping her they're going to get popped in the mouth for approaching my kid. That said, that dude was definitely not her dad. If it were it would have been the first thing out of his mouth and he would have been pissed at the accusation. Not scared of calling the cops.
@@mossy319 because they know they can't take advantage of you that easily when you're an adult. They choose to go for teenage girls because they're a lot easier for them to manipulate.
My 17 year old daughter started working at a restaurant. Just after turning 18, I found out she was seeing a 40 year old there. Turned out to be a 11 time felon. After finding out about him, I told her he was fkn creeper before I even knew he was a felon. 2 years later and she has a 1 year old kid with him and doesn’t talk to us or any of her past friends.
Damn, that's brutal. And I mean the guy isn't even some rich millionaire or something. At least SOME reason why a girl that age would go for a guy who's 40. But a damn felon. What the hell's going on in her mind? To leave her entire family over a guy like that. Why do some women make choices like this? Sorry for your loss.
He seems like a love bomber. A girl with less confidence would be taken by the compliment, would get her in the "country" and then he'd show her who he really is. I agree with him 100%. Nothing comes for free. She handled it like a boss!
@@magictrixster921 Just that you have the self-worth to circulate your opinion indicates that there is a "primer" of self-esteem upon which you can build. Keep in mind that the narcissist has no sense of "self" at all, just like an empty shell. Image is everything. That's why, ,just like a vampire, they see no psychic reflection in the mirror and they suck the "life" out of everyone to which they attach themselves. Be careful with whom you choose to associate and build yourself up where you belong.
Wow, shout out to that man to actually did something about this, instead of acting like every other man and woman out there by "minding their own business". That was crazy... he thought he could take her out in public like it was okay...
Choosing to not protect another adult is one thing, but showing indifference towards a child being harassed is just plain evil. There’s literally no excuse for it. Anyone and everyone should be willing to risk their lives when it comes to child’s well being.
When I was 12 I looked like I was 18-19 body wise. Not only did guts who were 18 constantly hit on me, I had 2 uniformed officers hit on me right on the street and they were at least 40. I had to say ,”oh, do you know my dad, he’s a detective in the Bronx”. I lived in Queens so I knew they didn’t but anything to get them away from me. It was “normal” back then to have grown men hitting on you when you were barely out of puberty, no one protested as far as adults went and I often got blamed for how I dressed. Even my own clubs is hit on me in the most bikeways possible. I’ve had issues and still do to this day from it, I did blame myself and I “allowed” myself to be used by some of these grown men cause I thought I was “cool” and “mature”. As I said, at any rate, in the late 70’s and early 80’s, I don’t remember it being an issue for other men or adults. Thank God things have changed, it not only saves physical lives, but emotional well being.
Here in Spain was the same back then. Old men hiting on me (Me been 11/12)and nobody said anything ever. It was like normal. Thanks God all is diferent nowadays.
@@democratsaretrash9366 if it is a hot day, a girl has every right to wear little and expect not to be assaulted. talk about victim blaming. i've seen plenty of guys walk around with NO shirt, yet he doesn't have to worry about getting assaulted.
"The second you hear a number under 18..." Depends on the age of consent. Why do people have such a hard time with this idea: age of majority and age of consent are often different. Doesn't make this guy classy but the law is the law, internet humans don't determine it.
Ask the mother of a beautiful 19 year old daughter, it is revolting how disgusting and debased men can be. She tells me stories all the time of being hit up by randos pursuing her since she was 14. Absolutely disgusting. There are predators EVERYWHERE.
The “dad” one. I feel so bad for the girl, there’s was no reason to show HER face. It’s good he helped her and recorded the man face, I wish he had blurred out hers. She looks like she’s 12, but even if she was 16, now this video is pretty “known” and everyone can see her face and might recognize her. I hope now she’s doing fine and I hope she doesn’t feel bad, but if I was her I would be ashamed to be on the internet in such a way.
It’s better to show her face. Her fucking parents (if she has one) needs to be shown how neglected she’s been. Also, she could be a missing person, someone could be looking for her, or even someone she knows could see this to ask how she’s been, etc. Fuck the privacy because this little girl’s in the hands of a pedophile and she looks as if she doesn’t know the DANGER she’s in.
I agree Teresa. Right away I’m like don’t show her face. It’ll just make her a bigger target and her face could be plastered all over the internet when she did nothing wrong. Others don’t agree and I see their point but it’s better just get the law involved first. This dude did nothing but film her and post to the internet. His good deed is done, he can pat himself on the back. Do we know what happened after this? Did he still just let that dude walk away with her? He never even asked her if she’s ok, does she know this man, is he bothering you. I’m not trying to stick up for this guy (the creeper) and his intentions look bad but we know nothing else about this situation. And she definitely looked uncormfortable, especially the moment she turned around like oh fuck were caught, (there’s a small chance she was using the dude for free drinks) but most likely it’s cuz she doesn’t want to be recorded cuz she’s aware of what this can do to her. Either way the potential creep in still in the wrong. Again I’m not trying to play down the creepy ness of the dude but I’m someone who likes to ask questions or know more about it. It’s part of what’s wrong with this world today. People are tooo quick to judge before they even know what’s going on. But in a situation like this you do wanna act quickly or that girl could be gone forever. Idk, I just hope the girls safe. That video just raised more concern for me.
@@ANonyMouse627 she could be, but what if she’s not, her life will change either for the good or for the better if her face is shown, also if either way, legal actions should have taken place immediately, doing so, you first stop the rape, then if she was missing, you report that.
@@cateIeya as I told the other person, the police should have been called, so if she was missing, they would have come to know that way. Her parents (as you said, if she has any) shouldn’t be exposed to this, sure they should know what happened, but not by seeing their poor daughter on the internet helpless like this. For the people coming to ask how they are, some people after experiencing a trauma like this, might just want to be left alone, they might want only a couple of people to know what happened, here she didn’t have the choice
We need more people like the man filming this video. This man is a hero and has without a doubt saved the lives of multiple young girls God bless this man and thank you for helping to protect our children from the garbage in this world
The 'knight in shining armour' could be up to the same thing. She might take the view that she's been saved from a bad man by a good one, so be friendly to him.
I was 14 and was actually groped by a man on holiday when I was 14 and he was 35 with a wife and 3 children. It’s honestly disgusting 1 in 3 women have been either sexual harassed or assaulted.
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I was molested at 10 years old by my so-called bff in front of everyone on the bus. My mind is fried forever. I have no sympathy for these creeps, but all the empathy for every victim. Take care of yourself.
Getting hit on by creepers like the first guy even in my 30’s, still freaks me out. They really never just get the clue how uncomfortable it feels 🤦🏻♀️
@@johnsampson6387 just stop. your questions and excuses make me question if YOU are one of these kind of creeps. seems like you keep trying to convince people these behaviors are normal or excusable.
@@johnsampson6387 It literally has nothing to do with looks? If Jake Gyllenhaal approached me saying he's got bitten by ticks on the knee and wants me to come by his secluded farm for "work" as a pickup attempt, I'm going to be extremely fucking uncomfortable. That behaviour isn't justifiable or appropriate, regardless of appearance.
@@johnsampson6387 why should looks matter? If the most attractive man came up to me with such weird behaviour I'd be quickly turned off and wouldn't listen to a word he has to say. Also, the things that guy was saying just made me feel sad for him. An infected knee cap? Needs help in his garden? Seriously? Is that supposed to attract me to you? Lol
I was walking to a corner store when I was 14 years old. And a man, heading in the opposite direction, crossed the street and started walking alongside me. When he asked my age, I lied and said 12, but unfortunately, that was not a deterrent for him. He told me he knew girls mature faster than boys and tried to get me to go to his place for alcohol and weed. And followed me to the store when I refused to stop walking. I remember being afraid because he was just standing like across the street from the store. And I didn't want him to follow me home and know where I lived. And I was afraid of him being sins because there were young girls in the neighborhood, including my 12-year-old sister. I ended up using a payphone to Collect call my mom at work (it was the 90's). She called a friend to come pick me up. And had me tell the clerk to call the cops. Unfortunately, I had been in the little store so long the guy took off.
Yeah whenever a random man started talking to me and asked for my age when I was around 13, I would always say I’m much younger like 11 or something. Idk why, I guess I just thought the less they actually know about me, the safer?
Honestly it's jarring how much they don't care. I'm happy I look young enough to still pass for a minor but like you said, it's hardly a deterrent. I've lied about my age before to a group of men that blocked off the sidewalk I was going down(said I was 16 when I was 20) they believed it, but didn't care at all..
Guy in the second video needs recognition. Few people get involved today. That girl didn't look too happy. She could be trafficked. That wasn't her daddy at all. I have three grown girls and if I happen to have my arm around one of them and someone accused me of that denial would not be my first reaction. My first instinct is to protect my wife and daughters, and that includes their integrity, at all times no matter what so denial wouldn't exactly be my first reaction.
When my friends and I were 15, we used to get a lot of unwanted attention from guys much older than us. They were very polite and timid, whereas I would snarl at them and tell them to "fuck off!" Growing up around assertive, expressive men that encouraged me to be expressive and stand up to perverts, gave me that needed edge. The females in my family would say that's not polite and ladylike to be rude to a guy overstepping his boundaries. Unfortunately, sometimes our grandmothers and mothers give us some really bad advice in regards to how to deal with those situations. Needless to say, my friends really appreciated my presence during those moments.
I have a 14 year old daughter that I am very very protective of, but unfortunately I cannot be there 24-7, and it's nice that she has a few friends that are like minded as you. Fortunately there are more good men than there are bad men, and keep in mind that there are men, "good men" like me out there watching for scumbags like that guy on the video. I am probably one of the nicest people that a person could ever meet, and there are girls and young women that will see me walking down the street and get scared, and cross the street because they look at me and think I am a threat, and might hurt them. It makes me very upset and hurt, but I totally understand, this is why I get so upset at the sick perverts, and whenever they do something just once, they should be locked up for the rest of their lives.
I think you're great. Getting loud & rude alerts others. My mom had 7 girls. She taught us by the age of 10, to do whatever it takes, before getting assaulted or abducted. As a nurse, I saw too many victims in emergency rooms (rape, beatings, drugs, etc.) And, those were the lucky ones. Your friends are lucky.
@@firstsgt279 16 is legal here in the UK. You can become a parent, but you can't smoke, drink, gamble, drive, vote or watch p*rn. Makes sense when you remember we have Randy Andy in with the Royals and more than likely the 'higher ups' in the Gov. In 1979 they wanted to lower it to 14! Glad that didn't happen and then In 2013, the then PM rejected Dr John Ashton CBE, (a British doctor and academic), request to lower the age of consent to 15. So they're still trying. They should be highering it to 18 along with everything else I have listed above. Well, apart from driving, you can do that at 17.
@@teenybabs True, interesting. Don't get me wrong though US State live now 18 is Age of Consent, State born in is still 16. Started Driving on Farm at 14. 16 is usual age, training on road starts at 14(w/parent) unless Farm or Parent cant Drive both those min is 13yrs for them. In 1981 joined US ARMY at 16yrs old Retiring after 28yrs...
@@firstsgt279 Oh yeah, you can enlist in the armed forces at 16 here. So you can 'give your life for your country' and have s*x. We know who runs things here and it isn't 'the people'.
THAT second girl was under duress and looked terrified when "dad" whispered and dragged her away. Her sister is probably chained up in his basement. Whoever filmed, I hope to God he did not let them leave and made a scene. This has kidnapping and grooming written all over it. If someone recognizes where this was recorded, PLEASE show it to police or crime stoppers. Since there's no follow-up I fear that camera guy just walked away, potentially having made the situation worse by showing the girl that people may "talk big" but not help. No cop will hold anybody responsible for voicing their concerns.
@@IChIDH true, but nothing the guy said or did added up, and the true story could be cleared up really fast by a cop and a quick id check. When it comes to children, I'd rather err on the side of caution.
Former Victim Advocate here (and NON Karen) and I ABSOLUTELY agree that this was very sketchy and wonder what happened after the cut. Both their body language and responses said this was no bueno! 🙏
I am a 49 yo woman now, so this is not my daily experience anymore, thankfully… What I am trying to say is that this unfortunately is a quite common occurrence when you are a young girl. Happened to me multiple times, these idiots that don’t understand no, don’t care for anyone’s feelings but their own perverse needs. It’s disgusting.
No one stood up for me like this when I was being preyed on as a child. Got preyed on from three-years-old, up to when I was twenty-two. I didn't grow up around people who protected me. Now that I look back, it's extremely disgusting what I've been subjected to. Makes my skin crawl thinking of myself as a sexual object. I've been so gullible and vulnerable, and just got preyed on. Good to know that there's people out there that care.
Im sorry for what you were subjected to. Remember you are strong, clearly intelligent and you are far more than any of the traumatic things that have happened to you. Dont let them dim your shine! ❤🙏
I hate to say but your average male has no idea what a target we have on our backs from a young age, even if not "attractive," to predators of all kinds. And I'm not talking mutual peers, but PREDATORS. If they knew who pervasive it was, we would all be hooded from a young age. :/
for people who say it’s just compliments, today walking home from school with a backpack on, clearly a high schooler, a guy followed me a block and asked me how many more years he had to wait until im legal. he knew
Props to the guy calling dude out in the second video while everyone else is just casually walking by ignoring the fact there's a grown ass man kissing on a child.
I had a friend in middle school. We were both 12 at the time, and she would tell me every time she got followed home by a pedophil who tried to cocerse her into their car. The crazy part was she acted like this was a good thing to be desired by guys who were 40+ years older than her, and she loved the attention these men would give her. I tried telling her several times that this was not a good thing and she needed to be more careful, but she wouldn’t listen. It was all very sad, and I sometimes wonder how she turned out as an adult. I had another friend like this as well, and she did not have a good ending. This is why I encourage women to be selective of who they let approach them because people will take advantage of you. This is especially true with receiving gifts from strangers cuz that “gift” comes at a cost.
Just think this-these men only do things for themselves-if they give you something for sure they want something from you. A much younger gf or wife is also more likely to be abused.
Well unfortunately there are young girls in middle school up to junior high and high school and beyond that are attracted to much older males just like your old friends. I have an ex that at some point admitted she was mainly into men much MUCH older than her. Since she was a freshmen and sophomore in high school she would talk to and date men in their mid to late 30s and 40s according to her. And when she got out of high school she dated a man in his early or mid 50s if I remember correctly. I never judged or criticized her for this. I was one of the two men according to her that she dated that didn’t have that huge of an age gap with her. She was 22 at the time when I first met her and I was 30. We still talk from time to time. And ask how we are doing. She told me when she was in middle school there was a male teacher that would low key hit on her and flirt with her. She could tell he liked her, was attracted to her. She’s a very charming and very attractive woman. And I think some creepy men just can’t resist some beautiful girls regardless of how young and tender they may be. That is so wrong. These are predators in disguise and should be reported to authorities right away. My ex seems to have also been like your old friends; loving the attention from much older adult males rather than getting creeped out and scared like a young girl should…
@@diegofonseca6708 she may be accustomed to the harassment and attention from the creepy old men that it’s what she views as normal. It’s sad because she is most likely easily manipulated by these old guys. When girls are younger they think attention from guys older is great and better than guys their age. They want to feel popular and stand out. Sometimes people can grow out of it or they end up always following that pattern.
Teenagers like attention of any kind. It's kind of sad you're blaming it on her instead of the 40 year old men. Sometimes for teens it's rebellion against strict parents or low self esteem or a multitude of things... could also be a result of s3xual abuse warping their perception. Be kind please. Some kids don't understand it either but one thing is for sure - the adults are the predators and the children are confused usually due many issues from growing up, especially self esteem.
It’s very disgusting. The same exact thing happened to me when I was 17 and went on a trip to Mexico. There was a man that looked like he was in his early 40s hitting on me and then asked for my age. After that he said “oh you’re old enough to start dating” I felt so disgusted and uncomfortable and the worst thing of it all is that this still happens often
He hesitated when he said, "it's a good age to be" because what he stopped himself from saying was, "it's old enough". It's just not nature for young ladies to be rude a lot of the time because it can be dangerous. Best just teach them to be their kind self, but when they sense trouble to nice their way right out of it and QUICKLY. We should teach them also to be quick to call the cops because it's a scary thing to do.
I think the girl in the first video needs to show LE that video because this guy being as bold as he was, imagine if he's lured other young girls away with a offer of a job, especially if he's out in a rural area. And the second girl, she looked just as spooked as the guy and wondering if she was a victim of sexual trafficking. She looks like she's about 12 or 13 and the guy probably told her to keep her mouth shut. I hope that guy called the police on him, sad that there's no further video. These are both very serious situations.
If he's sex trafficking her though how could he be so careless parading her around in public. Maybe that's really his daughter and she's a little "slow"
@@LawnBunny777you'd be surprised how bold these predators are; it's called "hiding in plain sight." and if that's really his daughter, then he's acting sexually inappropriately with her. arms around her and holding her hand like a gf. but i doubt that's his daughter; he's 32, she's 16.
I've never understood this approach to meeting someone especially in the times we live in, it just comes off as really weird and creepy even if your intentions are pure
Humanity would not exist if no one decided to talk to anyone irl. Damn you guys really think 'everything is fine' the way things are going...even when you see a video like this smh.
@@JuanRanklin The comment itself was pretty forward "Coming up to anyone who doesn't know you will make it awkward or uncomfortable" no one's saying people shouldn't talk just don't go up to strangers anywhere just to be weird 😭
People like this cringey narrator? I agree. Imagine trying to claim that it is creepy for men to desire 20 year olds 😂🤡😂🤡😂🤡😂 Truly a beta male fit for reddit
This is an old video but I’ll post my story anyway. I was in America for a trip for basketball and was hanging out with some teammates in the lounge of a hotel. They are doing homework, I’m just playing videos games. This old guy at LEAST 65 (he told us he had a grand daughter) comes and sits beside us and talks to us. Mind you he stayed for a HOUR and there were 4 of us total 4 girl and him and he still wouldn’t leave us alone. He would touch my necklace and make creepy comments like my wife doesn’t like me talking to pretty girls. My dad even came down and the man got angry and more aggressive. We ended up just leaving but we were all so uncomfortable afterwards.
@@DodongoManoof i guess what he’s saying is that they may share some physical traits like skin, eyes, hair color, etc. Which would make the im her father attempt more believable if someone who was not as comfortable with confrontations were to try and call him out
I really think this girl is his daughter. They have the same facial features. Same nose, mouth, chin…. The girl looks scared because a stranger is after her dad.
The second story pisses me off more than most other things on the Internet. The guy is actually her father. I’m not kidding look him up. I often hug and kiss my 7 year old daughter I pick her up and give her hugs, I rub her back, i brush her hair, I run bubble baths for her, and then I will wash and condition her hair, because it gets real matted up and she’s only seven so she doesn’t do it very well and often doesn’t do it at all. Someone almost got smacked when they expressed disapproval that I’m hanging out in the bathroom while my seven-year-old daughter is in the bath. First of all, I have to check with her second of all I can’t have her go to school and camp or even around the house with her hair so messed up. These guys are comfortable with expressing love to their kids, so they want to step to this guy just because he is hanging out with his kid.
Well if he's her Dad they both behaved in the wrong manner. He should have confidently and proudly said she's his daughter and even provided proof if he had any, and she should have said yes that's my Dad, but instead she acted all shy and nervous and simply said she's okay when asked, and the guy appeared equally as nervous when confronted about it, stumbling on his words and making excuses instead of straight up setting things straight. His body language around her also seemed suspicious, the way he was standing so near to her and seemingly trying to convince her to follow his lead or almost coralling her. Just a weird interaction regardless of their relationship.
From personal experience, the most frequent and perverted sexual harassment i’ve experienced in my life was in the ages of 14-15. I’m 22 now. Had to do therapy to overcome the traumas men left me by sexualizing my as a child/adolescent in such a disgusting degree. Affected all areas of my life. I wish every man out there to wake up and help us and for every woman to remain safe and free
@@potso2257 I live in greece which is a very patriarchal country where harassment, abuse and femicides are extremely frequent. I don’t know what it’s like in other countries
This is why us women and girls need to assume that it’s “all men” who will harm us, because we don’t know which ones are decent and which ones are predators. I was groomed by my English teacher, and in the beginning most of it was in class in front of 30 other girls, the school dismissed my accusations and transferred him to another school, and I was so upset and depressed from not being believed and blamed and told I was making it up the first time I went to a trusted adult, my parents still don’t know and I’m about to graduate college. If a young teen comes to you and tells you something is wrong, don’t dismiss her, why would she lie about that when she’s just trying to learn. I’m 19 and I still feel unsafe if I see a man who looks, speaks, carry’s himself or touches me the way he did.
If you assume everyone is evil you are going to miss out on potential friendships or relationships. I understand that there's evil people out there but you can't just shut everything out.
@@genodedemon5109 if that’s what you understood from this, then I hope you didn’t go into college debt to be at this reading level. I’m engaged, I have male friends, I have a great relationship with male family members, but I’m talking about strangers, acquaintances, colleagues, bosses, doctors, teachers, people in a position of power weather that be in a position they hold or physical ability, people you don’t KNOW for certain will treat you like a fellow human being. Aka not abuse you in some way shape or form. This goes for men too, although it’s statistically less likely. Even then, some friends and partners can flip, never put urself in a position to be dependant on someone for housing, food, money etc so you can mitigate some of that risk and escape if need be. Date rape is the most common form of rape. Most victims know their assailants. You don’t take urself out of the game, but you proceed with extreme caution, it really could be anyone, so assuming that can help reduce the risk. Cross the street or get an Uber I’d ur alone at night, even if it’s the town preacher behind you, you just never know. Try not to be alone where you can’t escape, even if you’ve been on a date. Don’t trust people until they’ve truly shown you their character.
@@genodedemon5109 I agree. Though I think we need to be more cautious of who we interact with, especial given the fact that there are a bunch of predators out there, acting like every man is a predator until proven otherwise is the saddest and most irrational way to live life.
Years ago as a 23-year-old, I was in a bus station in Los Angeles when I saw an old creepy-looking older guy repeatedly talking to a young girl around 13, and she looked like she didn't want to know. I walked up to them both and asked her, "Excuse me, is he bothering you?". "Uhm... that's my dad", she replied. Awkward!
@@ZombolicBand You are SMART to speak as little as possible to strangers, especially to those considered vulnerable. That said, there are ways to stand out to people in a positive manner by getting involved in interests you share with people your own age, or donating time to a food pantry.
Absolutely disgusting monsters. I am the father of 2 daughters and I have educated them about predators and how they will threaten to hurt loved ones if their victims tell. Education about these sick people is key.
Whoever called this dude out...THANK YOU. for all the mothers, fathers, or even for us oldies that can remember having that crap happen back in the days we didnt have someone looking out for us like u. Even if it's not now, in the future that girl will be SO thankful u were there. Good eye by the way. And thank u again.