Hey y’all, back with another #storytime this is a loooong one. My ex bestie wanted to fight and I’m here to give y’all the tea on what happened. Be sure to like this video so I can make another for y’all soon! Much love 💕
Hey babies 💕 I’m back with my storytime + GRWM it was so hard to focus, I always get too into my stories. LMK if y’all have ever had a friend like this and how you handled the situation! I love reading y’all comments ❤️
Girl u are so gorgeous!!! Love your personality!! Just like my friends! Anyway...sucks losing friends over dumb stuff, but i try to believe it happens for a reason. Enjoy the friends that deserve your friendship girl! 😊
1st red flag...she said she was jealous of you and her cousin’s friendship? That’s some creepy shit. It’s the micro behaviors/comments you gotta be keen on.
I learned: if both parties haven't matured, "Childhood Friendships" should remain as such. Ain't got nothing bad to say, but babyyyyy we don't ride the same wave 🗣️ #GetYoAssOnHoe
This video did NOT feel 40 minutes 😂❤️ such a natural storyteller, which ain’t common gurl! She was a mess! Thinking I’m hooking up with a random guy I ain’t know was when my face would be twisted asf! I had pop ups to something that’s supposed to be chill. 😂
My bestie and I broke up twice 🤷♀️ she had a terrible boyfriend. She wasn't in or at my wedding. Once they broke up we made the commitment to make our friendship a priority.
Me and my ex-best friend did not fight but we did fall out and it was something that was so hurtful that I don't think I could be even casual friends with her. I love her and I wish her the best and I'm not the type of person that won't help a sister out if she needs it. But on the friendship level in the words of NeNe Leakes the door is closed!
Currently not speaking to mine, I noticed that she was the only friend I have ever had to argue, she was always in her feelings about something, and also treated me like I was her girlfriend. She was emotionally immature and always took her emotional burdens out on those around her. Personally, I feel like I have outgrown her. Seems like she loves to argue and is overdramatic
It sounds like she was definitely jealous of you sis ! I guess this is just the age where you fall out with ppl 😩. I’m 25 & me and one of my best friends from highschool fell out (she was on some weird ish) and several of my other girlfriends have told me how they been falling out with best friends as well . Losing a friend is never a good feeling
First time it was with a girl I was best friends for 4 years until I got diagnosed with cancer and she didn't even visit me once. No phone calls. Nothing. Few years after that, we ended up going to different high schools and we lost touch.
My ex bestfriend and her sister actually made a 48min “vlog” tryna drag me because they were bad friends and all of a sudden started leaving me out of stuff so I didn’t want to be friends with them anymore. Then when i wanted to fight them about it I was “childish”
I love your story times! Yes, I have friends that only talk about themselves. They about to be cut tf off and honestly they are doing the same things they've doing and Im trying to go somewhere in my life
Thanks love! You deserve better. Get them outta here, surround yourself with like minded people im learning this slowly but surly. We not accepting no BS in 2020
The way you do your makeup is so beautiful and so are you! Your skin looks like a filter 👏🏾 as far as the girl I feel like she was being super weird and only wanted you around to either make her look better or something of that sort, I’m glad you ended it with her either way because her energy was toxic and hateful.
Oh I remembered there's another one - I used to go out with this girl and then shed stay at my place because she lived out of town. After few years, she asked me to lend her some money for food shopping which I was fine with. So few weeks go back, I'm asking her to pay me back and apparently she can't afford to now but she'll pay me back. Ok. Few days later I check Facebook and she has new pictures up - going out, new hair and make up, new outfit. So you can't pay me back but you're buying all this new stuff? Hell no.
So many girls do this weird shyt it’s like they want a relationship with me. I had my own place since I was 16 and am good with solitude and so many just ARENT. And especially when I feel a force of the friendship or someone doing to much I immediately resist it
My ex bestie put me onto her friend just to book a flight across the country with him behind my back lmaoooo It really do be the "friends" you knew the LONGEST!!! She too would always wanna go back & forth like sis you're not my man tf 🤦🏾♀️ Just like you, I cut her off for the LAST TIME!
Wtf, thats so shady! I’m sorry that happened to you. You’re better off without. People love to put their issues and insecurities off on others. NOT TODAYYY lol 🙃🤣
I don't get why women get some made that someone doesn't want to chill with them and want to fight. Everybody isn't going to like you or want to chill with you again💯 Get over it!
@@JstDej Me neither. I will start acting distanced. Be sitting in the bed talking about I'm busy. Then I'm like why am I making excuses?! The experience was awkward and you can't feel it? That goes to show some people can't pick up on situations 🤷🏽♀️💯
Great Storytime! I have been there done that and I had to cut her off completely as well. Life is too short for the foolery! I’d rather be solo!! Anyway your so pretty❤️❤️❤️
I have a girl in my life who is literally the definition of a FAKE FRIEND. We was close in HS. Now? She only hits me up when I’m home from college when her life not straight 😂 she like posted me for my birthday and I’m like...bitch we aren’t even close enough for all that. I don’t even take her seriously when she tries to make fake plans and she finally getting the memo 👏🏾👏🏾
ive been binge watching your channel and story times you seem like a mad chill person love your storytimes and you be calm cuz those pl push your buttons for real lol, thast how i be like i try to stay as calm as I can. That girl was doing the most though she need to relax like makes zero sense. And your best friend shouldnt be trying to fight you so thats not a bestfriend thats sad wow it def does suck wish it would have worked out. sad that it happened that way some ppl smh and being a hater thast sad, i dont hate if my friends are doing well i big them up and try to push them to do better and dont bring them down thats what friends are supposed to do not hate sad
Girl I feel you, I had a "friend" like that I met through a mutual friend that warned me about her and she was IS the same if not worse girl, I couldn't be friends with no one else and whatever I'd talk about😐 when I had a chance to speak🙄 she'd always try to one up me continually girl it was like I could say I ate a piece of my 💩 this morning and I bet she'd cut me off just to say "well I ate a bigger piece of my 💩 than you did😂 fr, I'd do the same as far as compliment her but she did compliment me the thing with her though, she wanted to be like me, she'd try and dress like me talk like me just be like me but of course she'd go and spend more money on her clothing and talk about how her 2 kids only dressed in this brand and that brand and the other girl and if I didn't answer her calls or text right back she'd leave some stupid arse messages like "oh ok, it's like that well keep your shit I don't effen need it, go ahead and play your games cause you playing all by yourself self" 😐 I'd be like "b#tch you on some whole other shit by yourself, whatchu talkin about?" and she too wanted to fight so I said "you know where I live so bring your hoe ass over if you ain't then STFU" cause I sure wasn't going to her I ain't stupid, she's the type to call the police! I gave this girl so many chances but she was so toxic and just on a whole other level of crazy and at this point I'm trying to work on myself chakras and all girlfriend and I don't need that severely negative energy and toxicity around me and let me tell you she's a cold hearted 🖤hearted woman cause if she can bad mouth her own family, nieces and nephews sisters and cousins and call CPS on her own with some made-up BS imagine what she'd try with me, there's just no way she belongs in my space anymore so I cut her off completely no more chances cause I'm not like that I was just trying to help her from the beginning cause I thought "this is just a very heart wounded sister that needs a real friend to show her some real love" but I tried so hard and all she did was drain my energy and drop her bad energy off on me so by sis I bid you well and I do forgive her and wish her all the best cause girl, sometimes we just can't save those who don't want to be saved and most certainly not those who are inflicting low vibrational energies and darkness in our lives and continue to do so even after you've let them know all about you're good intentions✌🏽💙✨🌱
Love this! So sorry this happened to you, but if all happens for a reason. What’s meant to be will always be, family , friend, or foe i believe that whole heartily 💗💗💗
I had a similar experience to my ex Bestfriend that I met in high school, this just recently happened and I’m 24 now. So she would always tell me about her friends business too. So she borrowed money from this one girl and then the girl needed it back soon after. My ex Bestfriend didn’t have it so, the girl that gave her the money WENT LIVE on Facebook! And told everything that my ex Bestfriend ever told her about her friends. (I didn’t see the live but, she probably said something about me too and idrc what people think of me 🤷🏽♀️). So basically all her friends she talked about fell out with her. So now I’m looking at her differently thinming oh naw I can’t really mess with this chick nomore she messy as hell. Even told her brother in law’s girlfriend that her boyfriend was cheating on her 😰. Girl it’s crazy. So I stop talking to this girl for weeks and she texts me something on the lines of “would you just be okay with how our relationship going” or something of that nature and I was like no and she didn’t respond. So I blocked her. I was done I didn’t even give an explanation. She then goes to Facebook saying “these females be so jealous”. So I instantly comment because I’m just like honey what you talkin bout. And she was like you a jealous b*. (Wait****** she also got in contact with my 1st love and been talking to him while she got a man 😤). So I text her like what am I jealous of SHE COULD NOT TELL ME! Then I tell her how she lost all her friends and how it’s messed up you’re talking to my ex. She was like no I’m not. I said I’m done and blocked her. (Because on the phone she told me she was talking to him, so she was just prolly tryna lie so her boyfriend wouldn’t find out) I Changed my number and that was that. She was also boy crazy in high school and I felt like she was always tryna control me and really I think she liked me on the low. But hey
GIRL OMG!! Messy asf. I know too many people like that. That’s ridiculous, it’s sad because you think people grown outta that mess. It seems like it gets worse with time. They always scream jealousy, the word is used too loosely lbvs. I woulda asked the same thing “jealous of what” cause period lmfao. So sorry that happened to you! But you handled it like a boss should ✌🏾
Playing catch up on all of your videos. Had to back track like I did with all of my favs. GIRL! I had a "friend" who would tell me what her other friend(s) said about me/they don't like me, had me not messing with folks, whole time these people never said anything that she was saying smh. Then she so called wanted to fight me the night of our hs graduation (mind you someone told me and I didn't believe them) - she was saying stuff about me behind my back and behind her back I'm defending her and damn near about to loose other friends taking up for her and letting them know if they think they're gonna leap and jump her, I'm jumping in. SMH she had me out here looking like a whole clown.
Imma name the ppl in my story..tina rona and lala..so when i went to elementary school i met rona lala and their lil sister. Me and rona were the same age and became clothes they came over to my house met my mom etc. But for whatever reason ronas little sister, lala, did not like me she was my first fight in middle school. At 6 grade tina became the new girl and everyone was basically trying to get to know her. She became friends with rona and lala. But me and tina became close close. Like her family called me family i lived with them at one point. I knew all her family and the knew me. Years later situations happened and tina had to live with rona and lala. But another year passed and she was able to move out from them. One day i was set up by rona and lala. Was jumped by 6 ppl including the moms, a dude, rona, lala and 2 other girls. Plus i got bleach thrown on me. Had to go home on the train like that. Although i barely had an scratchs on me. I told tina and she said that she doesnt want to be in the middle of it. I tried to explain to her if they all knew me since i was a child and still jumped me what makes u think the wouldnt do the same to u?. Plus me and tinas friendship was WAYYYYYY closer than her friendship with rona and lala. But i stopped talking to her since she didnt want to take me side. A few years passed and tinas sister posted about their grandma passing. And i got really sad. So i hit her up and said hey im sorry for u lost. And we became cool again she said she wasnt talking to them anymore etc. She ends up moving out the state. And would come back every now nd again. We became more and more distant she wouldnt tell me when she was coming back out or how she was. Then one day i did sum snooping and found recents photos of her being in ny with lala...at that moment i was so mad..that i just blocked her on everything. And i havent talked to her since my first year in college. 4 years ago...
Girl I broke up with my Bestfriend almost 3 years ago now bc she would always slick put me down or belittle me. Always had me in some drama that had nothing to do with me. Putting me in crazy situations. She used to hype our other friends and their pictures barely ever even double tapped mine lol and she would always downplay me to others but always called me FIRST in her time of need. She called me first for everything but acted like I was disposable at the same time. It got to the point where she needed me to feel inferior to her for her to feel good. (I was heavier then and always was) She confirmed this bc she popped up at my house trying to rekindle 8mo later and I had lost 40lbs and the 1st thing she said was “Idk if I like this new you” Lol safe to say, I dipped. And my life changed tremendously for the better after that 🤷🏾♀️ sometimes I want a Bestfriend again but I’m lowkey traumatized lmao
Second time it was after who I thought was my friend, fed my daughter meat (were vegan) and she would always have digs at our way of life. I would watch her kids all the time too. I guess people just like taking advantage of me.
I’m late . But I had a bf I met in elementary school we got SUPER close in middle school and was glued to the hip basically we were sisters & at the age of 20 we fell out & I will never be able to fw her ever again. Sis left me stranded TWICE , she picked niggggggas over her friends always being stuck up , the type to count pockets etc just a messssssss , it’s been 7 years I’ve seen her 3 times within the 7 years apart & I just don’t see growth so , not even gonna attempt to rekindle that
Me and my former friend went different ways after 20+ years after her significant other did something and she sided with him and turn her back on her friends.
I fell out with my bestfriend of 12 damn years. Since middle school sis! And she was the godmother to my daughter!! But you lie to me about getting an abortion, and then get mad when I find out?? Lmaooo I am DEFINITELY gonna make a storytime about it!
Omg sad 12 years!? My current bestie ive been friends with since 6th grade and I tell her everything. No judgement. No drama. Sorry that happened to you!! Defs make a storytime. It’s really therapeutic lbvs
Hey I'm a new subscriber I really enjoyed your story time yes I fell out with plenty of so-called friends the first one I fell out with I felt like she was using me and a lot of my family members did not like her and they was telling me to be careful about her another one I fell out with is because she was insecure and very delusional she thought I wanted her EX's and her sister always had my name in her mouth and recently my friend of almost 10 years stop talking to me just because I asked her cuz she replace my Epsom salt girl that situation was just so stupid and toxic I should have Cut Her Off when she was insensitive when I told her my auntie died in a fire all because she wanted me to go to the movies with her and I told her I was depressed and I didn't feel like going this girl had the nerve to hang up on me that situation was just a lot I have a story time about it I also have a story time how I realized she was low-key obsessed with me but had the nerve to say I'm not her type after kissing me on my cheek and rubbing my legs multiple times but I'm not your type yeah all right she was very toxic
Ugh I hate friends who make everything about them & never ask u how u doing, what you’re up to or change the topic if it isn’t about them. That will get u cut off real quick lol
Me and my bestie aren’t friends anymore either she was very selfish everything was all about her and it’s crazy how she would treat my other friends better then she would treat me long story short me and her stop talking and now she’s very close with another girl I use to be friends with I had got into a situation and they all left me for dead mine you I was always there for them so I cut all of them off and life has been so much better no drama
