GRWM while i overshare about dating, my relationship, & my life 

CW for sexual harassment/creepy guy behavior!! starts at about 3:44 and ends at 12:45!

she is so pretty and motivating luv her

THE COMFORT THAT THIS VIDEO RADIATES you have no idea how much i love your vids, like you keep me going and motivate me to love myself😭

omg my current bf didn’t kiss me on our first date either but i swear it made me fall in love w him because he was so sweet n respectful and he ASKED TO GIVE ME A HUG 😭😭😭 GOD BLESS SWEET BOYS

That story of you and your boyfriends first date is so cute. Love a healthy relationship

Thank God you’re ok ❤❤ Always trust your instincts. A tip for any of you beautiful ladies out there--if you do decide to get in a guy’s car in this situation, always take a photo of his car and license plate. If he’s a good guy, he won’t get mad. Although that being said he should not expect you to get in his car to begin with if you just met.

Just found your account and I wanted to say you are so real and I’ve never felt more seen. I’m 21 and have been fat my whole life. I’ve always felt like there’s “a skinny girl inside of me waiting to come out.” I remember imagining a thin version of myself appearing when I turned 16 but obviously it never did. I feel so at peace now a days cause I’ve come to the same conclusion that we are beautiful, there are no rules, and we should be ourselves. These beauty standards are just stupid and there’s no wrong way to exist in your body. I’m so grateful that you’re making content and just being a gorgeous gorgeous girl ❤

my comfort youtuber

please please please post more content like this! love seeing you showing off your beauty trends and just telling us about life ☺️ also your cat is a princess and she deserves the world

You're the only motivation in my life to appreciate myself for who I am- thank you and luv u always Jess

Btw, that FAB moisturizer saved my hands and arms working food service (constantly washing my hands) during the worst part of the pandemic in the winter. My hands usually dry to the point of my knuckles splitting even with strong salves and moisturizers. One tub lasts me from fall through spring. Also, I need more long form content like this in my life. It’s like listening to a friend tell me stories while I play video games. 💜

you and your bf sound like the cutest couple oml haha, also, you’re so much fun to listen to, like catching up with an old friend, this was super relaxing

I’m half Italian and have been to Italy several times. It is AMAZING-the food, the architecture, the history, the people. I hope you guys have the best time there!!! My biggest tip is don’t be afraid to explore non-touristy areas in addition to the places you are planning to visit! Not that more touristy areas aren’t beautiful (they are!) but it’s also really cool to see the more authentic local lifestyle. I know you probably won’t see this but I love your channel and again hope you have an amazing time ❤️

You and your mom are so sweet! I lowkey hope we can see your bf soon too. You sound so cute together 🥺

this video is just so comforting and chill, plus you're so inspiring-

The fact that your bf went back to find your glasses with you. You both are amazing 💓

Would love to see a tour of how you store and organize your wardrobe as well as the spiritual practices or “behind the scenes belief system” that helps to show up.

Your videos alllways make my day, I love the long form content sm!

u seem like genuinely kind person it’s so refreshing to see ur content

Humana vintage shops in Rome are really good also. I’m not sure how inclusive the size range is but they’re relatively affordable.

I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS AND SHORTS, SIS!💖

love seeing you in long form content!! hope to see more here

Love this type of videos!!! ♥️

Sis this was so fun to listen to and watch. I’m 22 and I’ve NEVER gone in a date or even really kissed anyone. Trust is a very real thing and if you don’t nail those green flags on the first day then sorry, but no.

I SO wish I had you to look up to when I was younger. Thanks for being the best! 💕

I’m 31 f from Germany and I just love the relaxed and cozy vibes your videos send out. Thanks for your content, like your shorts as well 🍀🌈

Sick rn and feeling sad and this was something nice to have on

Omg!! I screamed when I saw you posted 💕💕💕

Love your honesty and you are my type of friend, my type of woman! I feel like I could trust you and that you would never stab me in the back 🤗

literally soooo fun to watch and comforting!! i need more of these kinds of videos in my lifeee also u look and kinda sound like sydney sweeney !

I love your content, you are so fabulous 💞💕

loved this chill grwm. loved the look. loved the apartment (yes even your bedroom) and loved the fat cuchie talk lolol. - your first-date with ur bf is my dream. i mean i am hella introverted so 12 hours would be pretty exhausting but i just want a low-key easy relationship and i feel like dates like that are the first of many good signs. also luv a shy boy and so adorable that he was afraid to initiate. you (and invisiboy) rock and i’m so happy you have a loving relationship. p.s. hold a grudge forever with that creep. or don’t, but do. (:

Completely relate. Sometimes it's out of desperation for attention and a need for validation

i love you and your style so much

Your outfit was so cute! Love how you are with your mom! My mom and I were the same way. Makes me miss her so much (RIP MOM ❤)

you're so relatable and awesome girly!

You are one of my favorite people on the intrent 💗😙 luv ya

im so glad youre trying out full length videos! love it! (♡˙︶˙♡)

Omg im so early!! I just wanted to say that I love u Jess and you're content is really inspiring to me :3 I wish u the best ❤

OMG I'm only 3 mins into the vlog but I am already obsessed!

With Italy, when going south of Rome (or even in the city) you have to be very aware of pickpocketers. So a purse with a zipper is always good! Or a lanyard for your phone/wallet (and keep it under your shirt)

Some men are so scary. I once went on a date where we were in a crowded room, so brightly lit, and I wasn’t feeling anything romantic. There was absolute NO VIBE when he asked if could kiss me. Shocked I said something dumb like “no it’s too bright”! Hoped he would get the hint… 10 mins later we were in a taxi to the next place, he goes “is it dark enough now?”🤢 I said NO! He shouted back at me “WHAT’S WRONG WITH YOU?!” I realised he just saw me as an object to comply to him. When we got to the venue I gave him a dressing down and then he kept saying he wished he could go to a rave, which I encouraged him to go to, alone, so I wouldn’t have to get the train home with him. After, my ‘friend’ said oh you went on a date with so and so, he BEAT UP his ex! Cheers for letting me go on a date with him! He had offered to drive us to our date (40) min on the highway. So glad I declined.

ur so gorg, i love ur hair.

Love you. You are very inspiring

You and your mom are adorable

Love these long length videos! And also, I’ve gone on a couple app dates like this one. I got off of them and met an amazing man in person ! We are currently just really good friends but maybe one day something will happen!

From Rome you can get the train to lake bracciano and it’s a really lovely day trip and the water is so clear and lovely to swim in!

When I went to Italy several years ago, I noticed on the beaches that there was a very body positive culture in my experiences. I am not sure if this is a culture of italy or just that beach on that particular day. I am not sure if you will have this experience but I hope you do!!

"why do so many women watch true crime" this is not even the worst of bad date stories I've heard.

I enjoyed the stories. Loaf is award winning.

Straight up my first date with my current boyfriend of three years I WENT TO HIS APARTMENT ALONE! Just not the smartest thing to do but just like your bf, it was fine bc he was an absolute sweetheart lol. Love you Jess!!! 💜

Love the Napoli area of Italy, Napoli pizza is the best, you can also get a super cheap train around the bay of Naples from Naples to Sorrento for like €3. That same train also goes to Pompeii. If you do go to Pompeii I'd recommend getting there for opening at 9am as it gets crazy busy. Sorrento is beautiful to wander around but very touristy, as is Capri island. I've stayed on Ischia island a few times and it's by far my favourite, it's like a tropical paradise, much less touristy, and cheaper than Capri and Sorrento, but loads of interesting historical sites and things. You can also easily island hop around the bay on the ferries. Also, highly recommend a swim off Sorrento or Capri, its probably one of my favourite things to do, crystal clear water! ♥️

in rome the best food we ate was at Cacio E Pepe in via giuseppe avezzana (all the locals go there) and also Mondo Arancina (delicious sicilian style food, arancini are their specialty).

It really is your world and we are just living in it.

i love how she got ready and everything just to order take out at the end😂

Love this

Love u Jess

love you

10/10 on the intro 🤣 and you aren't alone in holding grudges forever. I am the SAME. And you are not in the wrong for being a naive 20 yr old..I trusted people too much at one point too. I ended up getting r**ed and was stuck in that person's house until he took me home the next morning. Women are trained by society from a young age to "not put up a fuss" over anything so we sit silently and put up with things that are very uncomfortable for us. Most men are raised not to have any consideration of others feelings, so they don't think about how their counterpart may be feeling. Gotta love the sexiest society we love in. Yeehaw 🤠

puh, when I saw the title, I was already afraid, that you and you're boyfriend werent anymore! 💕

Seriously, you don’t even need the foundation. Your skin is so nice! 😊

Have a great lunch! 😉

Omg im born and raised in Chicago 👋🏻🐸 girl im 27 and i feel so bad for people especially women who use dating apps and have bad experiences

I laughed so much at the tiny tiny lips liner

If u made a podcast i would listen

Venice.. restaurant called La Zucka which means pumpkin

Oh dear... 😂 Yeah, I have some Savage X Fenty undies, and some of them are great and some of them are... not. I'm trying out a couple of of new brands hopefully this week. I fell in love with cotton modal boxer briefs from the Knix x Ashley Graham release last year, but they don't stock them anymore, so I'm trying MeUndies and Skims. (And heeeey if anyone has suggestions for fat friendly undies....) (I'd say we're twinning with our respective Mt Laundries, but I just realized you're young enough to be my daughter, excuse me while I go cry about the loss of my youth and find a walker...)

OHMYGOD I KNEW YOU WERE FROM ILLINOIS LMAO AS SOON AS YOU SAID MENARDS I KNEW LOL

…and have fun in Italy 🇮🇹

I went to italy visited florence bologna and Rome. Rome was over rated unless ur a history nerd like my husband then yeh visit other wise it was meh. But i wish we went to the Amalfi Coast, Sienna, Sicily. Bologna and florence seriously under rated, loved all of it.

I’ve had the real burger situation before too. My server was so apologetic I felt kinda bad lol.

Go to the emerald pool!

Here's to the ladies who grudge 🍸😉

Wow the juxtaposition between the creepy date man vs your SWEETHEART boyfriend is so crazy. I'm glad you found each other, he sounds like a lovely guy. ❤❤❤ Adorable 🥰

It's in the Jewish quarter of Venice, interesting area.

$40....im full grown and that's a big splurge for moisturizer. Really it is for any blue color, I work for a living, person. Keep kicking a$$ lady, love your stuff.

I love this video 🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛💋☝️

omg was this during the polar vortex?? i’m in shaumburg

i love living in the mid west....

feel like a doofus for asking but what does situationship mean?

I’m so excited for your Italy trip!! I really enjoyed watching @livingaskarina ‘s Italy vlogs and recommend them if you haven’t watched already!

Thats so horrible about that guy ☹️

Dd

The fat couchie issues is real. Sometimes I forgo the undies cause it’s more comfortable

You do makeup how it should be done as far as enhancing your beauty. I love clown makeup as much as the next chick to want a good performance photo but sometimes it’s sad when you walk in the mall and see girlies wearing contour like it’s a thing to make them pretty.

I hope you reported the guy on Bumble for bad behavior off the app

ya ok if he’s real then post him

Right! Yitty clothing line isn't good either, made for plastic surgery bodies.

Oof it needs a trigger warning

omg this video has such older sister vibess 🫶 i love ur videos - your sense of style and confidence inspires me sm!