Excellent video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my marriage of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Its ok to think about her but try to do something else that you enjoy. Do things that you have always wanted to do. It will take time but accept it for what it is.
Thanks for all your advise . - I tapped into my femenine energy, submission, followed your dating advice videos and now I am getting engaged with the man of my dreams: a masculine, providing, caring and loving man. ❤ THANK YOU!!!
Thank you for all the advice. I found my Boaz after I stopped looking. Only God and time could dot it! I will keep watching to check myself too. We are never perfected. I am a work in progress. God is perfecting me until He returns. I can happily admit that
The problem in today's world is a lot of these Narcissistic men are looking to be treated like a lady is crazy. This generation of men wants to be chased by women they expect a woman to take care of herself and them while they give the bare minimum. If he thinks he's the prize and she needs to work for him and if she's putting all the effort while he's low effort the relationship will always be that way. A man is going to put in the amount she expects from him. If she doesn't expect much he won't give much but if she set high standards from the beginning he will either rise to meet them or disappear. Listen, if you know you are unwilling to commit then don't disturb my peace because I don't have time for meaningless relationships, fake, shallow, supercificial conversations or time wasters! I value authenticity. I have told the truth.
I know this message is for me, bc I JUST got off a phone conversation trying to defend myself with this very thing..putting guards up, but still open😒 geez
This is absolutely astounding because yesterday I had a heart-felt conversation with god. Why did it take 27 years for you to bring the man of my dreams into my life? God gave me a vision of the past 27 years, and I'll the tough moments I went through. He asked if I thought I could have had a healthy relationship during those times. I realized he was right. Any relationship during those tumultuous years would have been unstable. When God told me 27 years ago, he was going to send me a man. I know now it was because I had to heal and change my perspective from being an independent woman not relying on anyone and building many walls. God sent me someone in November it didn't work out, BUT it changed my feelings about independence to wanting to have that special love in my life. Just recently, I met a man, and we both feel Christ has brought us together. Stephan, your teachings have resonated deeply with me and confirm the devine guidance I feel, and your timing is impeccable. Yes, this is why God sent me to you also!!
I have saved this video as I have a lot of hurt in my heart and I know I need to let it go because it’s been affecting my happiness or lack there of. I have a problem with letting things go. Thank you Stephan for your inspiration. You are a true blessing! ❤
0:13 0:17 My son has that proverb tatood under his left arm. ❤ I know it well and agree with that wholeheartedly ❤ I will protect myself at all costs even if that means losing a good man 😢 I do not walk in fear. I walk in love and protection of myself. ❤
I started listenig to this thinking I was going to get some relationship advise, but this video applies too every área of our lives. This was a message of faith. It was a great message. Thank you! I received this message.
I’ve been watching your videos for a while and I have to say, this might be my favourite one yet. It came right on time for what I’m currently going through and has inspired me to try to reopen my heart. Thank you
Hey Young man, it has been a minute, I see you are still doing great work, helping those who have no idea regarding everything, people don't want to claim their own shit, they attract the shit shows, get upset, when the shit shows don't go their way, hold on to nothingness long then they should, then want to blame, and who does that! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 Keep up the amazing work, definitely better than me, stay blessed and let's go! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
💯agreed...so much wisdom and am here for it all. This advice great for all relationships romantic partners/family/friends/employers/employees/coworkers/business partners/customers
Yes! Met an amazing man and still want to keep my wallet up because I’m like this is too good to be true! This other guy was zombing me!! we met not looking for each other. I wasn’t looking for anybody funny how things work out. We’ll see. It’s too early to know right now, but it was interesting how it all felt in place.
Stephan, I’m the girl that opens my heart too easy & ends up usually getting hurt by men. My mantra is live to love. That means everyone. I’m naturally very affectionate. I have strong convictions but I melt easy. I’m 49. This has caused me to slip up sexually. Then I beat myself up for it especially when it doesn’t manifest into a real relationship. In my younger years I practiced abstinence & was so much stronger it seemed. I waited many years for my husband & then once we was married he didn’t even want me on our honeymoon. Sounds crazy I know. I lived in a sexless marriage for 14 years til I knew that God released me. I’ve been divorced about 6 years now & I want to honor the Lord and live holy but there’s also that fear that what if we wait & then the next guy doesn’t want me. Sometimes I feel hopeless even though I know God has a beautiful plan for my life. Any advice?
I think you can do more videos like this with Bible interpretation. It is so healing to hear all that; it really speaks to my spirit - and I believe it is even more beneficial for ones who are not yet in tune for this
Sorry but I can never let my guard down in Vegas where I live. Being raped 3 times, can’t even enjoy a cocktail because I’ve been drugged when my drink came straight from the bar……married men all over the place and so many lies. 33% of men on dating apps here are married. Any man that gets me has to go through a full vetting process before I even consider dating them. I am so guarded that the walls may never come down. I can’t leave my safety up to god because I will get assaulted again if I let my guard down even slightly. This sucks. I don’t think a lot of men realize just how scary it is for many women.
I bought 2 e-books from your site this morning (about 9 hours ago), but I still do not have access to them. I sent an email but there is still no response. Kindly advise
So don't make it about me and understand that I am in his way when I drag it on for years which is my own fault? Cool so I can accept that n if I don't practice this regardless if I get a husband or not I will at least be healed not entirely but into a better place.. fasting? My gosh is soooo slow but how about with kids? Man so I gotta make a friend or find a sitter for this. Do I pray the entire time or do I just open my day up with prayer n just keep going so I'm not showing it off cuz ppl get competitive even in the church so I can be quiet about it so.. ok I'ma take naps in between so I'm not constantly distracted with having to cook or just throw back my food like I'm fresh out of jail. Nobody knows my struggles n so ..I'ma just not think about it n go do my yard and house n listen to the church music so far until ..I'm getting really tempted to give in so I'll just stay home n ignore the world it's my birthday and so ..ok I can do this. I have to apologize to some people I just went off on about praying and try not to stuff my Bible down people's throats cuz if they knew and don't I'm not a Jesus cop so ..ok this is tough but ok. Oh dinner prayers how long are those supposed to be really? Cuz I'll be going to sleep n trying to sneak a bite or waiting on my family prayer n sometimes they're drunk n my momma won't let anyone else pray .. I'ma just pray as I cook hopefully the food I cook doesn't get thrown out because my brother wasn't the one who prayed over it. I'ma ask God for family and support system cuz ..I'm tired of being ignored and just because I'm not tore back drinking all night doesn't mean my prayers or work isn't valid. Getting my self a timer too like ok 10 minutes at these functions and I'm out . 🙈..thank you 👍 I appreciate you helping us 💜
What would you do in this situation: a man and I have been texting for 4 months. I did see him for 4 days last month. When I got him I asked him if he wanted to pursue our relationship. He said as friends yes, but he had no spark. Now he’s changed his mind. Since we’ve still been talking. I told him about a dream I had about him and that changed his mind. User?
God's word is the truth and every man is a liar! Trust God's word not man's opinions. God's word will never come back void! If a man or woman isn't after God's own heart you'll know by testing every spirit you come into contact with. Test every spirit that you come into contact with, because it will expose their foolishness early on in the relationship. Date for data Ladies please......
Not sure that people understand, that by the time you are 71, and have been hurt over and over and over, there is no will or want to NOT protect your heart. I was divorced twice, I did the work, read the books, but still...excuses, ghosting etc. This is NOT how I want to spend the last few years of my life, sorry.
Why are you on this video then? And I’m not asking disrespectfully I’m earnestly asking. Maybe tune into content that caters to where you are in life. Even if this pops up on your recommended don’t watch it. Just tune into something that aligns more with where you’re at in life. Love and light ❤
The wrong one finds you at peace and tears you to pieces; the right one finds you in pieces and gives you peace. I read this or something similar one time, and it hit home. I pray everyone here has better luck than I have at finding the right one. I hope time doesn't run out on you, too. Don't let it run out. Time goes by much faster than it seems to be passing.
Almighty LORD please heal my heart. I feel so broke inside 😭but I know GOD the HOLLY SPIRIT is my conforter. I was in tears then I came back to watch it a third time bcs I have serious issue to open up and trust. I thank GOD because this time I listen the video with my Bible open and I checked proverbs 4:23, Matthew 12:34-35, Marc 7: 19-23. With those verses, I understood deeply your last point and practicaly how and from what I should keep my heart from..... thank you very much bro... much love for you and what your are doing for the kingdom of our heavenly FATHER. This is the true that set me free by breaking down the walls that I made to protect myself and it became my prison. You just set me free from this stronghold praise the LORD GOD Almighty 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉. Our GOD is good all the time! As you said "with YESHUA the worse day is a blessed day" hope I quote it right 😊
I really need to work on flushing out my negative thought pattern. I'm thinking im just protecting myself, but im holding myself back in life. Im an over thinker, and it's the worst.
no seriously i told a long friend of mine that want a relationship with me that im protecting my feelings. And he ask all the time what’s wrong instead of having a conversation with getting to kno me again
Stepha thank you for this video. I totally agree with you. I was just telling a friend this. He is still hurt over a relationship. Sometimes he is negative. I told just because his relationship did not work doesn't mean its the end of the world. Your videos have really helped me. I had my heart guarded few years ago. Talking to God, praying, listening your videos, writing down my thoughts help me through. Now I believe in love. Getting hurt made me a stronger person. I let all that hurt go because it was negative energy. I was holding a grudges. Now I am walking with God. I am happy stress free and enjoying life!!!
I use to guard my heart so much now I’m not doing so I’m just living loving having fun and not expecting too much from anyone, I met an amazing guy few months ago and I found out he had tell me a lie I prayed about it and a week or more he takes my hand and confess about it but I had already forgiven him, this man is a wonderful person and because of his amazing heart and all the wonderful things he has been doing, he’s not perfect and neither am I ❤❤❤
Having a genuine heart has done me no good letting anybody in. It's always getting broken and taken for granted, but never hardens. I do feel like me having, not just a genuine giving heart, but that it feels more like a curse. But also, the Bible saids he coming back for the pure at heart. By all means, I am not perfect, therefore, I will if made to, get tired of peoples hurt after being authentic, sympathetic, and forgiving. Just as anyone else will protect and close it off. Enough is Enough faze.
Ooohweee Labossiere the favor of God is all over your life. One thing i admire about you is that you pour so much into God's people. You love God's people and that is pleasing in all aspect. You are teacher very well. Keep it coming. We need and love it 💜❤💛.
Stephen, I thank God for your compassionate teachings. I continue praying that God will continue blessing you with wisdom, knowledge and understanding of His Word. May He continue covering your life’s journey.
Timely video!! It's taken almost a year to gain the trust of my 60+ girlfriend who definitely, to hear her stories, has had her heart broken more than once. I truly understand her not wanting to experience that again!! Who said "we" suffer from the sins of others! Walking on eggshells, one wrong move or word from me and I will probably get das boot.
So in essence its much profitable to GUIDE your heart towards positivity instead of GUARDING your heart which could also block your blessings Coach Stephan ive got it thank you You were born for this And in everything we do Lets not forget to let go and let GOD
So my ex and I just recently broke up about a week ago she said her reason for breaking up with me is that we were together for almost 2 years and I have failed to show her the love The care that she needed. She said that I wasn’t as loving and as caring and doing the little things and being initiative. Part of our problem though I feel is that we work together she is my supervisor therefore we are not allowed to go out in public and do things like a regular couple because she could get in trouble because she’s not supposed be dating her employee someone that she overseas. But now that I’m leaving that job she decided that I’ve taken too long to show her any action and to prove to her that I want this relationship as far as being more loving caring and being initiative and doing the little things. She told me that she still loves me and that she still cares for me and she’s torn between giving me another chance because she really wants to believe the things that I say but that I have told her these things in the past that it will be different and I have failed to prove it to her. So she is torn between giving me a chance again and letting our relationship go
I want her back I truly love her and like I said I didn’t come from a loving caring family so it’s kinda hard for me to express it when I’ve never really had that I grew up in it but I have it in me because I tremendously love her and her daughters a lot and I would do anything for all of them
My heart is tuff like leather. Once upon a time, I wasted 8 years having children with a man, thought it would work out. He cheated and had two children while I thought we were together. Never again that's it for me. Love again I am not feeling it nope.
thank you I hope you delete all these negative comments from time to time clean it up so we can feel better with our consciences and have a better spirit
Ive listened to you for years, and this is the most powerful session i have ever heard you speak. This session spoke to me more than any other ever has.
I am loyal too.Though never won the car :P but having an interwiev in IT USA company....I am not IT, jut experience..I was honest whole my life, no easy...
Thank you for the video - excellent content as usual ☺️🙏🏾 Did 30 days water fast from 08/08/28’ was greatest experience of my life 💫😇 Connected with my Creator on another level …..💕🙌🏽 He truly IS LOVE 🤜🏾♥️🤛🏾
Everytime I fell in love but for real my heart got broken. And I can recall every time an autoimmune condition appeared in combination after that. Call me crazy! But I’m not so crazy. Then a fasted and God did show me all the demons he wants me to clean out out of me. One was to stop dating. The evil in this world want me to suffer and have a stronghold on me. So he uses the men that are them self sinners to spread more evil to others by ghosting, deceiving and using For pleasure. Dating apps are a game no one wins and unfortunately a real women is never going to win over porn or be enough in todays world. But God got this 100%!!! Impotence is not fun for anyone 😂
I genuinely love and appreciate ALLL of your videos. It’s taught me a lot and so far the men I catch have been pretty decent! And I’m also learning how to step into my feminine energy! We appreciate you and keep doing what you do! 💙💙
I feel like I have to say the right person will help you thru the hurt and having a relationship with our Lord and savor first and giving him our hurt can move mountains just saying Jesus amen amen thank you amen ❤❤❤❤
😮💨 “Does God want me with this person” and trusting my own discernment in my next relationship. Because I refuse to allow his negativity make me feel like I can’t get anyone other than him.
