Guess Who's Had an Abortion | Lineup | Cut 

...he seems like a dude that would be a good friend in school to literally anyone.... that's a good boii!

group of people* :) its important to include non binary and trans folks in the conversation about these topics and this group with the nb guest :)

@@floatyseathing yasss!

@@JohnDoe-rg4tl sure

Raised by women for sure

lolololol

"i like turtles"

Big fan of the channel usually but I think this just a little far.

True

@@therealad4342 why

i have friends who are just like him and they’re such a breath of fresh air

Honestly

naive and awkward. lol very fitting

i’m 14 and i’m more mature than he is

@@anastasiiasergienko3529 everyone thinks that then they grow up and realize how stupid they were

@@wrong_planet I mean not only are you just wrong, that's not even what the comment is referring to. Maybe rewatch the video

@@kylovesart You think killing your child IS a learning process?

@@wrong_planet no. I think you are not properly comprehending the quote. Here's the timestamp- 7:00 At no point was abortion called a learning process.

@@kylovesart No, I know that, but you said I was wrong about abortion not being a learning process. Do you believe it is?

@@wrong_planet ohhh. I understand now. My mistake for not being clear in my original comment. Sorry. No. I don't think it's a learning process. I was referring to your anti-abortion stance and inflammatory use of "killing babies" to make a point.

that was so funny lol I think he saw it but didn't want to mention anything in case she actually wasn't pregnant

He is so well raised he didnt want to offend her in case she wasn't... Im impressed with this kid

when i was in 9th grade, my English teacher looked pregnant but i didnt want to assume so i never said anything. She then told us and she was like “i’m surprised nobody asked; maybe yall just thought i was getting fat here” 😭

I mean to be fair shes got a full chest and was wearing black and a jacket couldve genuinely missed it

Jaden knew that was a trick question

I don't blame him for not knowing, he's young and a little ignorant still but some of his questions bugged me 🥲 He was nice though.

@@inkeriananas why would his questions bug you? He's in a stage where he isn't expected to know these things. I think all his questions were fine since he's getting educated answers thus there's no problem with questioning things you don't understand

@@EnzoPepsiCola Probably should've explained what I meant better. It's more the lack of sex ed and the stigma around abortions that bug me, not the boy. So things like "1 or 2 abortions is okay but more means you're not being responsible, people who have abortions don't have kids or don't like kids and people who like kids don't have as many abortions." I hope nobody takes this the wrong way though, he seems like a good kid and like I said he's young and inexperienced with the matter. I'm glad he got the chance to talk about it and hopefully learn something. So what I meant with my original comment is just that I felt a sting listening to some of the discussion. It's a touchy subject for me personally. That's it.

Something about this channel works with awkward people. ;p

DONT talk smack about my boy jaden he carried the episode

Yeah that warmed my heart too. I buried mine (an embryo) in the woods after holding onto it for a few days. I'm so glad I did that and didn't just flush it down the toilet like I was told to.

Literally same :( hugs all around XX

@@marcusdion4585 she doesn’t owe it shit

@@timi5281 She owe's her soul to Satan

@@andrewbingham3304 whine elsewhere nobody cares

And she was rude in return

I think he genuinely didn't notice. 15yr old boys aren't the most observant people

Not really

@@nomnomnommy2955 Not really its just the truth most kids and dudes don't notice

@@nomnomnommy2955 if you say so

@@AxxLAfriku ???

@@AxxLAfriku ???

@@AxxLAfriku yeah I think the teen kid is funny as well.........bro literally why do you make these comments.

@Alan no...

@@AxxLAfriku ???

100%. Cried right there too 💗

No tears but I’m glad it happened for her and anyone else that needed to hear it.

Me too! I burst into tears haha

Bawled like a baby in the middle of work. I needed to hear that.

I dont know why it would be seen as weird especially if she seemed to plan to keep it otherwise. A lot of women already have some emotional attachment when they find out so to have to make that decision when you planned otherwise? I'd want the closure too. Heck yeah to validating her desire to say good bye and to anyone who gets told its weird or anything else, its time to get rid of that person too

Abortion is murder

@@britishmgtow7251 You didn’t watch the video then. One woman had a DNCIS and someone else had high risk pregnancies.

@@britishmgtow7251 boohoo.

@@xwrtk I never watched the video, correct Abortion is murder Still stands true

@@jordey8867 Bell end

@@mrsmileyfrance4038 I ain't reading all that

I would like your comment but dont wanna ruin the like numbers 😂

@@yuna-kk7to 😂 aye we always appreciate a man of culture

He was very funny! Also, seemed interested in hearing stories and learning from them. Please, bring him back.

I felt such a sense of lovingness when he was chilling with the matriarchy

He was and wasn't, The way he spoke about abortions was in a very negative tone and very ignorant. He said multiple times that only people that don't like kids get abortions and while that statement is true its also not the only case because a lot of abortions happen because they dont feel as they are in the proper environment to raise a child Ex. the one lady that said they were experiencing houselessness when they got pregnant.

@@austinengland1107 you're right, but he's a kid and he even admitted at the end of video he changed his opinion.

@@austinengland1107 Well, he was sharing that that was his impression. He also said at the end that he learned that that wasn’t true.

Yeah but I don't really understand why they brought a young male teenager? To get a young opposite gender's view on things or assumptions I guess?

@@hinamatsuro1908 Because young male teenagers are taught NOTHING about abortion, abortion rights, or positive takes on reproductive rights. I'm sure Cut knows their audience and pays close attention to their analytics and as an adult man now, I wish there were more conversations like this that could both demystify and de-stigma things like abortion when I was a teenager. I (and I'm sure many other) men can see themselves in a kid like Jaden and I think that's imperative to the conversation.

@@kamari1630 woah true

@@hinamatsuro1908 lack of education to boys is why the old men with power now think they have a right to control what women do with their body

@@kamari1630 Agree

It's 100% a womans responsibility

@@LordBattleSmurf yes but it’s an open conversation

@@LordBattleSmurf not birth control and infertility….

@@LordBattleSmurf men can take birth control too, no one ever talks about it because men would rather have women go through the shitty symptoms instead of them

@@LordBattleSmurf and men should still educate themselves on the topic, soo…

Thank you for sharing your story with us! Really enjoyed listening to you

You’re so welcome, it was a great experience and I’m glad some folks found this so helpful to see.

I've never had an abortion and have always been pro choice. I do have a child. I had her when I was in my late 20s. After having her I got on birth control and never had to worry. However, if I got pregnant I would welcome that baby. I would get my tubes tied after that tho lol

I don't believe you don't regret murdering your children. I think you're just trying to avoid the guilt of what you've done.

@@wrong_planet sure. W/e helps you sleep at night love 🤷🏽‍♀️ thankfully I don’t have to pretend to care abt what you think 🥰

Exactly man, his conciousness is there in his very personal way u know. I think its cool

He used they pronouns for the first one🥺

Woke king Jadon

he looks like his iq is below room temp

@@JohnDoe-rg4tl I don't know when appearance started to determine intelligence. Regardless, he was respectful, kind, and willing to learn, so he was perfect for the video.

Time stamp?

@@mrsmileyfrance4038the person in the video is talking about getter the gender wrong of the person. Nothing to do with abortion

@@mrsmileyfrance4038 the comment that we are talking under mentions a part of the video. The part of the video includes the person saying the quote that has nothing do with abortion.

nah, jokes like that are only funny if they make sense, which it didnt, its obvious hes asking a hypothetical question so making it out as if it was a literal question is just cringe, and is only funny to brainlets who dont see this in an instant

@@laxxdood ok

@@laxxdood you must be fun at parties

@@aiskeo1459 yes because being fun at parties is a marker of literally anything sudoku asap 👍

@@laxxdood chronically online

well he's 15, he's still so young, not saying that young people are dumb lol but there's just still so much he hasn't learned yet. when I was younger I'd probably think like him too.

In that case, a lot of couples choose a vasectomy, or birth control pill, or any other type of contraceptions when needed. Couples usually don't just get pregnant and then do an abortion.

@@Nutzername92a yes, usually. That's the key word as it still happens yet perhaps people aren't made aware of it (for a variety of reasons someone having an abortion having had children may simply want to keep that information private)

he seemed to realize by the end that his assumption was wrong, so good for him! hes 15 and i respect that hes open minded.

@@mimi-xx yes! it's really nice to see how he's getting more open-minded as the conversation going, and he looked like he learned a lot by the end of the video.

You can still get abortions, goofy.

Whatever theirs worst things happing these days and ur worried about this only 😂

they do in cali so come down here

@@mikamiller4431 ​ ​ first fix your grammar, second just because there are "worse things", doesnt mean their problems are not valid, also i dont think this is the only thing the original commenter is worried about nowadays

They’re literally still in America

And what about the person that had 4 abortion, you don’t want people to hear her story?

I think it wasn't really an abortion it was just a regular miscarriage. I don't know why they called it an surgical abortion

@@fhiyos_2611 she did have a DNC so it was an abortion, which helped with the miscarriage

@@mof5490 of course. I want all their stories to be heard, but she had to make a choice to abort a child she originally wanted

@tynde describing abortion as killing a baby is so factually incorrect it's ridiculous. Half of the women up there described their abortion as simply taking a pill. I have family members who were in prison with people that ACTUAL killed babies. I mean like chopped them up and fed them to their husbands or put a living baby in a microwave killing. That is no way even in the same lane as abortion. Please educate yourself because this misinformation around abortion leads to real deadly consequences for women walking this earth right now

He wasn't though, The way he spoke about abortions was in a very negative tone and very ignorant. He said multiple times that only people that don't like kids get abortions and while that statement is true its also not the only case because a lot of abortions happen because they dont feel as they are in the proper environment to raise a child Ex. the one that said they were experiencing houselessness when they got pregnant.

@@austinengland1107 He’s definitely ignorant which is why I think this was a good learning process for him

@@austinengland1107 he is a 15 year old boy who is trying to learn, cut him some slack.

@@austinengland1107 Lmfaoo he’s a kid

@@austinengland1107 dude he's like 15, he's never had sex nor would he ever have been in an environment safe enough for him to even be asking about abortions. Cut him some slack. He even said at the beginning of the video that he think its a woman's decision. DUDE IS 15 and already thinks so maturely.

@@mrsmileyfrance4038 they are not born so idc about abortion at all. Like i personaly never want to have kids so if i ever got pregnant they are going down the toilet and i wouldnt feel guilty at all :^ If am gonna have the kid cause abortion is considered murder, then i prbbly wouldnt be a good parentd because i didnt want the kid in the first place, so it is better to not have him than have him and regret him.

I STOPPED THE VIDEO AND REPLAYED IT LMFOAOA

Thank you for sharing.

I appreciate your story, thank you for telling it.

very well said, im so sorry to hear all the traumatic stuff youve been through. Stay strong!!

Thanks for sharing this......u r so loved🖤

You do know that you're an outlier and one in a million. I respect the fact that you went against it. I'm sure you actually wanted a child. But there's no excuse for "oops" and "oh well" when compared to situations such as yourself.

You sound like a decent person. Good to know we have some of those on YT

I am so sorry that happened. They should've explained to you in detail what the process would have been like, it was your right to know and its your body.

@emmainkeri wow i’m so sorry…

Wow, I'm so sorry that that happened to you, that sounds really traumatic. Hope you are able to heal from this experience

This made me cry. Sorry you had such a hard time. I would have buried it as well ❤️

That sounds awful, I'm sorry you went through that... you're so strong

I found out my mom had an abortion. I would have had an older sibling

It feels so strange to hear that so many people had abortions, and like four times! Here in Germanys abortions are illegal, only allowed in very few cases and it is really hard to find information and doctors who do that. So yeah, most likely I don't know anyone who had an abortion.

@@schokoloko2092 Considering that the only hurdle to abortion is a consultation in Germany, there is many legal abortion. Also it is not hard to find someone to do the abortion after the consultation. You get a list.

I do judge. I absolutely judge and so does God

@@LordBattleSmurf god also says to be understanding and compassionate, giving care to those who need it most. you should not judge until understanding the background, and even so god says to check the plank in your own eye first.

ig can't have an abortion if you've never had sex or got pregnant?

i mean i think it's a pretty good one

wait why-? 💀

I can totally relate to this. I am 100% pro choice, and had an abortion when I was 18 years old. I didn't get a chance to mourn this very, very big decision, and I had nobody to talk to about it (my parents don't know to this day, and I'm now a 42 year old mother of a wonderful 18 year old son whom I adopted when he was 9). My partner's mom was "cool" so she knew I had an abortion, and told me she had one at a similar age, and waited to have her kids when they were ready, so I thought "OK! I'll do the same thing! I'll have an abortion, finish college, and then we'll have kids!" But there was nobody there to hold me, talk to me, etc. about how hard it was for me to NOT have that child. I really wanted to have kids. I really wanted to have kids with my partner (we got married as soon as my parents had paid my last semester of tuition because they wouldn't let me marry before graduating, and threatened to cut off my tuition if I did). Long story short, I lost interest in sex after the abortion, didn't make the connection (I know... I was very young, and didn't really know myself! And again, nobody to talk to). My husband didn't understand it either... and so we had a really difficult relationship around intimacy. It only got worse over time, and we never had a healthy sex life for 10 long years. Finally we divorced, and though it was amicable, I look back now and realize how messed up our relationship was. I was often coerced into having sex, and I never felt like he really understood me. Though I went to therapy and eventually made the connection between the abortion and my loss of interest in intimacy, it was kind of too late to repair what we went through, especially because my husband still didn't really understand what the "big deal" was. I think we need to explain the complexity of emotions and the range of emotions around sex AND abortion in sex ed classes. Also the abortion clinic I went to (Back in 1998) had people picketing outside, and an almost gleefully cheerful doctor... it was a really surreal experience, with NO conversation about feelings.

@@monicamacneille3372 Thank you for sharing your story. You’re so strong and brave.

I can’t even imagine, the thought scares me. You’re very brave

@@monicamacneille3372 I relate to both of your stories. My pregnancy was far from planned and I didn't wanna have kids. When I took the pregnancy test and it was positive, my first reaction was "oh fuck. Shit. Okay. I can have an abortion, it's no big deal", and that's exactly what I had thought all my life. I'd always known that if I ever got pregnant, I'd abort it. But for the next few weeks I kept going back and forth between "I don't want a baby" and "what if we had a baby?". I needed more time to become more comfortable with my decision to abort, but I felt like I was running out of time. I didn't want the embryo to develop into a fetus. So I finally made the decision to go through with it on week 9, took the pills and had a really rough few days. Cried a lot and held onto the embryo I gave birth to. Took it for a walk around town and buried it in the woods. Cried saying goodbye. This happened last year. I still agree with my decision but it doesn't help with the pain. I feel like I lost someone that was maybe a part of me. I just wish it had never happened. I was always taken seriously at the clinic and they actually told me to go back home and think about it, when they saw that I wasn't ready yet. What bothers me is that they didn't tell me in detail what would happen if I took the pills. I had to ask, and they told me what pill 1 and pill 2 would do to me physically, but they didn't say I might give birth to and see the embryo. They didn't prepare me for that or how I might feel emotionally. They offered me support and someone to talk to afterwards when I asked for it, which I'm of course grateful for. But overall they didn't offer enough information.

@@inkeriananas Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm so sorry for your pain, and I'm glad we're starting to have these conversations as a society. It's such a huge decision, and the stigma means people don't talk about the very real emotional/physical experience. Sending you lots of love. I hate the internet but it's conversations like these that keep me involved.

Irresponsible ones

People who fuck around mindlessly.

@meggiesaurus Rape victim should have immediately gone to hospital and police and gotten the Plan B pill to prevent conception. And birth control failing when used appropriately is EXTREMELY low chance of pregnancy. Both scenarios together make up significantly less than 0.01% of all abortions. However for the sake of innocent babies- If YOU agree the other 1,500,000 American abortions every year are wrong/ evil and should stopped then i'm ok with the AT MOST 15,000 American abortions due to rape/incest/ life of mother being at risk, being legal

@meggiesaurus R*pe victim should have immediately gone to hospital and police and gotten the Plan B pill to prevent conception. And birth control failing when used appropriately is EXTREMELY low chance of pregnancy. Both scenarios together make up significantly less than 0.01% of all abortions. However for the sake of innocent babies- If YOU agree the other 1,500,000 American abortions every year are wrong/ evil and should stopped then i'm ok with the AT MOST 15,000 American abortions due to r*pe/incest/ life of mother being at risk, being legal

@meggiesaurus there are exceptions, of course.

I love how they laugh about dead babies. So empowered and cute 🥰

@@nomnomnommy2955 shut up

@@mrsmileyfrance4038 i don’t give a fuck

@@mrsmileyfrance4038 ok thanks!

It should be shamed! It’s killing a human fetus! What is not shameful about that?!

FR😭

Yes, it’s extremely hurtful when someone assumes someone to be pregnant when they are not. Good on him for being more polite and appropriate than a lot of adults I’ve seen out in the real world.

He didn't though, The way he spoke about abortions was in a very negative tone and very ignorant. He said multiple times that only people that don't like kids get abortions and while that statement is true its also not the only case because a lot of abortions happen because they dont feel as they are in the proper environment to raise a child Ex. the one that said they were experiencing houselessness when they got pregnant.

@@austinengland1107 He’s 15. He’s uneducated on the topic, but continued to be respectful.

@@austinengland1107 i agree. I'm an educator and have had an abortion. My students are most of my life. His point of if you don't like kids you'd have am abortion was very wrong

Exactly. Many of his questions and immediate impressions bugged me, but not because of him as a person but because of the lack of sex ed in school and just the stigma around it in general. it fucking sucks like this shit is normal and very fucking common

Fully agree!! :) abortion such be normalized and talked about so much more!

@tynde since when is a piece of unalive meat getting out of ur body considered murder

@tynde ur disgusting, its their body so its not ur business.

@tynde ah yes, the same how some men couldnt resist keeping their junk in their pants🤷‍♂️

@tynde no it is not it the removal of unwanted cells.

In the OVERWHELMING majority of cases it IS women being reckless and irresponsible. There are stats on this and its way over 90%. And don't you dare suggest growing up poor is worse than being dismembered while you fully feel pain either (12 weeks), thats a bullsh*t lie to try and justify a woman's amoral decisions and reject accountability for their actions. These women had the baby killed because they were irresponsible and because it would have been an inconvenience to them for 9 months- that's the facts. They cared more about 9 months of their life than the potential 90 years of life of their child. Selfish

@@LordBattleSmurf so you prefer the child to be potentially not well taken care of by people who are not financially or emotionally ready to have children? Is that really a better option for the sake of this whole pro-‘life’ rhetoric? Just because a child lives, doesn’t mean they will live a good life. Living isn’t the same as thriving

Right. Although I have not had one myself, I did miscarry so I really identified with the woman who had the DNC because I can relate to how she felt about the miscarriage. I've also held the hands of people who so badly wanted a child but then found out the child had non-survivable abnormalities. That's gut-wrenching. There's a lot of gray area between reckless and making an informed and responsible choice for yourself - and your other children. We must remember, too, that women still die in this country from childbirth. Not everyone should carry to term. Birth control sometimes fails. People are assaulted. Maybe if we supported families and women better we wouldn't be having this discussion, but here we are.

@@LordBattleSmurf Yeah, shut up.

@@hollyj20001 No.

@@mrsmileyfrance4038 who asked

It’s utterly ridiculous. Only women have uteruses.just like only men have prostates. It’s basic science.

@@PindakaasMetHagelslag lmaoooo the way you're so confident in your ignorance

@@hyqnoticdata please explain.

@@PindakaasMetHagelslag there's nothing to explain

Fr it’s tiring to talk about stuff like this when everything is getting political nowadays and everyone’s picking sides.

Is that a good thing?

As it should be

@@akilegna1255 yes, it’s a medical decision that should stop being stigmatized

@@graceblossoms130 a MeDicaL DeciSoN

That sucks not suprising since its iran. I wish every women had the option at least for unhealthy babies. In every country. Can u at least put the child up for adoptian if u cant or dont want the child? Or is that a issur too in iran. Just curious. I dont know much about the legal system.of iran beside some snipets of what people tell me.

@@cynthiavanteylingen7922 some people leave their babies at hospitals or other places and they end up in orphanages but you can't volunteerely give up your baby for adoption.

That is a great thing

Envious????? Envious???? Thankfully not all cultures endorse the murdering of infants for the convince of their parents.

@@agathachris9722 oh shut up

This video does the opposite. Laughing about abortion won’t bring more people to your side.

its killing a human its definitely something to be ashamed and always will be!!! I hope who ever has an abortion has karma delivered on a silver platter.

@@F95GHomestead a glob of cells isn't a human g

@@F95GHomestead sad you are so judgemental

@@babecat2000 its killing a baby you cant convince me that's ok. This is a subject im passion it about. Im not against it completely but society tying to make it normal and easy.. i cant stand behind that

To be fair, having a hysterectomy while young is risky, and tubal ligation is only about as effective in preventing pregnancy as an iud or rod, which are reversible.

SAME. I thank the patriarchy for having to have an abortion. Because I told every single doctor I’ve been to since I was 15 (just wanted it on record that I’d held the belief as long as possible) that I didn’t ever want kids. At 23 I started asking for surgery. I think keeping an opinion 8+ years shows it’s been well thought on. But nope they all turned me down. I’m 31 now and they STILL turn me down. Meanwhile my boyfriend had vasectomy when he’d just turned 20. Before he had any kids (this is a requirement for women). Now they say it’s because vasectomy is reversible but that’s not completely true. In many cases it can’t be reversed. That’s always a significant risk. So why allow young men who’ve never had kids to get this surgery and not allow women the same option?? Patriarchy. I have a cousin who had 4 children by the time she was 21. She basically got pregnant every time she had sex, once with a condom & another time while on bc. She had to drop out of hs in 10th grade. Ended up a stripper. Struggled just to survive. She BEGGED SEVEN different docs for surgery. All said she was too young & May change mind. She ended up having 3 more by the time she was 29, when a doc finally agreed to perform surgery. Unless you get incredibly lucky, in order to get surgery as a woman you need to be over 30 with at least one (preferably more) kids. As I have no kids they still deny me at 31....

Sorry for the book haha. I just get fired up about this. I would’ve never had to have 2 abortions had they allowed me surgery at 23.

@@SaunterVaguelyDown does safe sex just not exist? I agree with a lot of the things you've said but it seems a little crazy to "blame" your abortions on the circumstances surrounding doctor refusal

@@EnzoPepsiCola safe sex quite literally does not work 100% of the time for preventing pregnancy.

Ha! Me too. Now I'm all old and jaded.

If a human life is ended then it is something we should be discussing

@@megwalker8790 It ain't human though because they terminate the pregnancy before it can fully develop into a fetus

I hope who ever has an abortion sufferers forever with the decision they make.

@@F95GHomestead Keep on hoping, because it's not happening.

@@F95GHomestead such a disgusting attitude you have, I truly pity you.

You sound like a beautiful soul. My heart is going out to you! I hope you are in a decent place mentally & physically, and that your whole being will continue to mend as you are able.