Guests : Kang Hyeonguk, Kahi, Chungha, Kim Sohye, Heo Kyeonghwan[Hello Counselor/ENG,THA/2018.09.10] 

Woah.. i really2 hate guy like that. I never date so idk much about being in a relationship 😂

“If she can’t control her own children, how can she be a teacher” is a completely different question that has nothing to do with societal standards and taking part in defamation of another character. Being a teacher requires you to be accountable of your students and parents to their children alike. The statement is simply concluding if you cannot control children that are closest to you then you simply must be unable to control children that you do not share a close bond with. “You don’t even know how to dress up, how do you call yourself a woman” is a completely unnecessary question that places the woman in a societal standard of fitting in with other girls when she can dress however she wants to dress as. A woman is a grown female-there is no other characterization that can be added to change that grown female for who she is. If someone does not love you for how you dress, that is their fault and you are not to be blamed for their verbal abuse. But if someone is making a comparison to your tendencies at home with your career, it is a healthy conversation that they are addressing to you so you don’t lose your reputation or your job as a bad teacher.

@@dannydinh100 no.

NERU NERU yes.

Aside from ridiculing her ], he is also ridiculing her profession is so wrong. As a person on the path to being a teacher, I'd like to teach him a thing or two of what it means to be a teacher...

so true😭💓

she looks really like Jurina from Akb48

@@pinkeu8821 yess but imo kahi looks younger 😂

@@pinkeu8821 yes! Jurina looks like her too.. They are kind of tough-beauty ❤️, feminist but somehow have a soft heart I adore them❤️

Lyra94forever i wonder how this couple met. I expect this people is y generation. It's not what korean people said joseon generation. I expecting many y generation has better perception about getting married and become parents. Communication is the main part your relationship. Marriage is just not only having sex and having kids. IMO Her husband's violence is his upbringing from his young , she should know this before they got married. When husband said her wife was so driven to get married, i wonder why country like korea still embarassing get married late

Ikr the second concern really shocked me, seeing the father and the mother reaction when the little girl told that, broke my heart 😢

I cried so much when she answered “yes”. It breaks my heart. 😭

I lived in South Korea and I can confirm that many young people are changing their perception of marriage, even though it will still take the korean society a long time before they will be able to change many of the things that we consider negative. I really hope the husband will try his best to change...for the sake of her daughter/wife as well as for himself. In the show he seemed genuinely shocked to hear the truth from her little one, so I hope he will change. I am still concerned about him being so violent, but if his reaction was genuine I believe there is still hope. It's not too late. I wish this family the best.

Me too. I am shocjed after hear that. For child to behave like that. It is must something serious. Hope they will better

Yeah me too. How can Dongyeob think like that. He must really sharp to understand the situation. Dongyeob often talk or ask something trivial. I like him

Seventeen Xoxo I wanted to sleep but fck no I need to watch this

Seventeen Xoxo wait was Kahi a professor in produce 101?

@@lazyg7218 yes.. Dance trainer

Seventeen Xoxo sohye do u want to become singer ---> sohye do u want a nice figure 😂😂😂

Georg # that was bae Yoon jung who said that, but yes kahi was in the show

Yeah it's clearly OCD. I recognize the exact symptoms in myself too, and the severity. I'm not a psychology expert or anything but I have a feeling that if she's not treated soon + if she feels that they're laughing at her anxiety and shaming her, it will get a lot worse and more difficult to manage. I really hope the mom will be sensible and take her to see a psychiatrist.

It’s got to be a nightmare for her in Korean society bc they’re no where near the same when it comes to their outlook on germs. I really hope they get her professional help bc it will only get worse and/or manifest in other ways. She’s already washing her hands raw 😬

I immediately think of that too. It is actually OCD (it might be worse if not treated early and it might be still in developing stage) from the way they explain what she says or think even before mother came out. I do hope psychological disorder would be much more explore in Asian Countries. I admit in my country, people are still not aware of different types of psychological problem in certain people.

The moment I heard the concern I knew it was a form of OCD. I just wanna fly over to Korea and tell them that it’s OCD.

Somehow seeing the first girl holding the microphone and even close to her mouth, I unconsciously let out a sigh... THERE'S HOPE!

My master fantasy would be that their current contracts would be up by then and then they could reunite permanently, and become that super group again. Of course it won't happen, but there's always hope :)

Kahi is pretty too! She looks so younggggggg

True, my parents fight in front of me and this has been going on for 5-6 years now and has emotionally affected me so much that sometimes i can't even think of anything else and can't focus on my own anymore..it has started to physically affect me too (i suffer from tachycardia and cardiac arrythemia and anxiety disorder) because the fights have been going on for too long now.. i literally start to shiver when they fight and my heart starts to beat so fast, i can't even tell you that feeling.

@@doctorrika i feel bad for you.. we have the same situation but i guess the way our parents fight is not the same? Sometimes, my parents always fight over small things and it always upsets me. They started to fight when i was a kid.. i guess when im 7 or 8 yrs old? They fight because my mom found out that my dad was cheating on her. I still remember how my mom cried.. almost every night. That effects me, i just couldnt tell them cause they wont understand. Im an anti social person but im glad there's no depression. But still, it sad cause im not that confident compare to my friends 😔 they would say "its okay" , "its not even that hard", "why are you scared?" Or something like that but seriously, they dont understand a thing. Nobody seem to care and want to care. They just know to say something but there's no help at all.

@@doctorrika so long 😂

@@flop.anywaystanloonastanta8107 i get you! I have same problem ..i suffer from sociophobia even though it's not to that extend now beacuse i picked myself up😁 i got out of depression because i was tired of feeling down all the time but medications for my Anxiety disorder are still going on because if i stop taking medicines it still physically effect me....seriously, i'm so sad to see that what loving someone so much effect us and many other people so much.

@@flop.anywaystanloonastanta8107 btw, i hope yoh find happiness😁

Heh, it's funny because Sohye does have a nice figure. She's just not as fit as other people, like strong man Sejeong. Then again, not that many people are as fit as Sejeong.

@@Briguy1027 it is a joke from infamous line by Bae Yoon Jeong trainer: DO YOU WANT to be a singer? Hahaha

in my opinion some things weren't too big of a concern like making their mom be super active or help her cut down on her unhealthy eating habits. their intentions are different and the diet isn't totally normal but it doesn't seem like too bad of a thing in my opinion. if my mom would actually listen to me and exercise some more and eat healthier i'd feel a lot more at peace? she's turning 50 next month but she already has memory problems and pain in her joints and back and she also has sleeping problems. she's skinny but that's because she was born that way. i still wish she'd exercise and make herself stronger. its proven that exercise helps with memory and increases energy. everyone needs a healthy diet ofc. i just want my mom to live a long and healthy life but she won't listen. she's mexican so the food she cooks is high in carbs and really unbalanced, she always eats bread and coffee 2-3 times a day. she complains that she doesn't want to be a saggy old lady but doesn't exercise. when menopause hits her, shits gonna get real and i don't want to be like "i told you so."

also, i like that they make her mom take on her activities and hobbies. they said it helps with memory and decreases chance of dementia which means they're just looking out for their mom. its true that its wrong for not taking into consideration what their mom wants but maybe they think she's helpless on her own? i'm the same way with my mom. we're like best friends and she asks me opinions about her outfits, what clothes to buy, and asks me to help her learn english. i also signed her up to an online english class and set up daily reminder notifications but she ignores them now. as your parents grow older you want to help them take care of themselves before you really really have to take care of them when they're unable to do so for themselves. those girls are too pushy that their mom is tired of it but their intentions are good.

I certainly support what you said,they are beauty country,everybody wants to look pretty and hand handsome,wants to enter entertaiment industry. Its too much

I don’t think everyone is OBSESSED with their looks more so that they want to look good. Growing up in Korea my parents used to always tell me “beauty is pain” so as I got older I would be told to get the hair on my legs laser removed witch isn’t painful but stings a little and feels uncomfortable. I would wear more heels to look taller so much that I’d get blisters on my feet and it hurt bad but I always remembered “beauty is pain”. I have a few piercings on my ears and I’m a sensitive person so when I got them it hurt a lot but you know what “beauty is pain”. At the end of the day most girls nowadays only look so pretty because parents tell their kids “beauty is pain” so we don’t mind doing this and doing that even if it’s painful because we think if we do it we could be more beautiful. And in Korea parents like to push their kids to be the best, you know like have good grades, don’t bully, don’t do drugs, always have a good appearance etc. and whenever my mom would see a girl that was prettier than me or looked like she was better than me she would say “Jisu why can’t you be more like her look she is perfect” so it would just push me to try harder to be perfect for my mom. Not all Koreans are like this but a lot are and that’s the reason why it looks like we are ‘obsessed’ with our looks. (Every family is different if your Korean and disagree its 110% fine to disagree but that’s how me and my friends were raised)

exactly!

Joycelyn Chai ikr ! I hate touching dirty things too , but I got used to it as I grow up. Even my parents and friends said it's okay. Her parents should bring her to see a doctor :'(

Unfortunately you shouldn't put that stress on yourself. I grew up in a similar household. I'm the middle child and my sister didn't protect me. The only way to solve your problem is for your parents to get divorced. I thought about killing myself multiple times because of them. At some point you have to put you first. Get out, save money, and have your siblings come with you if you can.

im similar, i dont think mine was so extreme but my parents were always arguing and actually i think them constantly fighting is what made me so close with my siblings now, my parents eventually divorced only recently and i had to make sure my two younger siblings were okay and i care a lot more about their well-being than my parents' fights and drama, i close myself off from my parents and anytime they try to bring up their divorce or any issues they have i genuinely dont care, id rather spend my energy on myself and my siblings who had to deal with their ugly relationship for years.

You're not alone. I struggle through the same thing. Everytime my parents fight my tries to kill herself and do self harm which is even worse then them already fighting all the time. The sad thing is i can't leave them nor they can divorce since it is considered a bad thing in our society. I really think i would end up becoming a psycho living in a household like this.

I feel the same as you, ive always held my feelings everytime i heard them fight or any of them saying hurtful words and it was really tiring to me tbh and very depressing ... i even tried to talk indirectly to my mom (when my dad went to work) about the ways they both behaved as parents but she never understood wht i was trying to say so i gave up ... I used to talk to her bout those things and all she said was that i always look things negatively ; which i couldn't deny at the very least and it made me sad since what she said is very true but the thing is she still didn't get my message that im always in distress hearing and watching them fight & the dull atmosphere, i just couldn't understand why, altho i discover the cause of argument always links to the finance, household, my parents' family sides and others, but it made me feel so disheartened idk i just wanted a good family that may not be perfect but just understanding and lovable .... this doesn't mean my parents are inconsiderate, im always grateful to them and feeling indebted for all the things they've done tho they may upset me sometimes it's part of life i guess, it's just that i don't love seeing them fight and seeing my mom crying or anything :(( ... Im the only girl (middle child) in the family and having an older brother who's always have this bitter feeling towards me and 15 y.o brother who's always keeping to himself and just don't care nd a 6 year old brother who's way too much to handle sometimes gets me feeling a little bit low and down at times ... ive never even told this to any of my friends but it's keeping me sad for so long and talking about it only makes me sad so i tried to make myself be happy when im with friends and do things but at the same point of time, i could be very unhappy when i realize how unimportant i am to my friends and that my presence is only a bother to them, ive had almost zero self confidence and my difficult personality only makes my friendship going downhill and i get ignored ... im always stuck in between the difficulties i face in my family and in school ... :') it's never been easy

Where do u live?

@@nicholass2347 indonesia 😊 some videos are unavailable here

*and sohye!!

😂❤️

He halted all appearances to fight his anxiety disorder. (:

same😭

Ledeu Belbet IOI this her professor (Haki)

It's not really the show just the culture. But the show is influenced by the culture. But I agree 100% with what you're saying. I'm pretty sure it's just that Korean Culture isn't super aware of mental things, and if you havfe one, usually you're shamed for it, rather than encourage to seek help.

@@whatislife2027 Yasss JJParents are comiiingg

RealInseo 89 exactly! It’s not that big deal! I change my bed sheets every day to wash the other one . I also hate to eat or drink after anyone! I feel uneasy to do that . Just same as you !!! And I’m living okay

They obviously have no idea what OCD is.

In this case, the OCD inherited from the mother. Even the specialist told us that in this show. The mother also has OCD.

They are 100% joking. Remember they have to entertain.