Halal Types Of Dating! - Does Marriage Kill Love? - Expert Shared Key Tips! 

this is a video that none of us wanted but needed.

During the last Ramadhan, I've been focusing my pray around marriage and now I'm watching this. Alhamdulillah 🤲🏼

Marriage should be considered as an act of worship so as to protect the cohesion of the family. May Allah be with us.🤲

SubhanAllah, the beauty of Islam is limitless.

Me and my partner have been together before we’ve practiced Islam, we live together and when we decided to both practice Islam and get closer to allah, we decided to give up our relationship but we’re still “together” but not together, we’re both keeping our distance and started working more (as specially him since he’s been looking for a job but it’s been difficult) in order for us to have a halal relationship/marriage, I’m Kurdish, he’s Nigerian, he’s so humble and he loves and fears allah, only problem is my mum isn’t happy about us because she doesn’t like the fact that he’s black, my dad and brother are happy with him, but my mum is hesitant when I mentioned that I like him and I want to marry him in the future when allah SWT inshallah allows it

5 stages of marriage; 1. In love stage 2. Honeymoon stage 3. Conflict stage 4. Pull up stage 5. Autopilot stage

I am very surprised, but I find these advices actually useful for modern, non-religious dating (especially the part with asking other people for opinion).

🌹1.Don't insult (Q49:11) 🌹2.Speak kindly (Q2:83) 🌹3.Speak gently (Q17:28) 🌹4.Don't backbite (Q49:12) 🌹5.Speak the Truth (Q3:17) 🌹6.Keep your oaths (Q5:89) 🌹7.Do not be arrogant (Q7:13) 🌹8.Restrain your anger (Q3:134) 🌹9.Think good of others (Q24:12) 🌹10.Don't be rude to parents (Q17:23) 🌹11.Don't make fun of others (Q49:11) 🌹12.Turn away from ill speech (Q23:3) 🌹13.Walk in a humble manner (Q25:63) 🌹14.Keep your trusts & promises (Q23:8) 🌹15.Don't claim yourself to be pure (Q53:32) 🌹16.Do not even approach adultery (Q17:32) 🌹17.Don't call others with bad names (Q49:11) 🌹18.Remember Allah and be thankful (Q2:152) 🌹19.Speak nicely, even to the ignorant (Q25:63) 🌹20.Don't ask for repayment for favours (Q76:9) 🌹21.If enemy wants peace, then accept it (Q8:61) 🌹22.Salute the Prophet (saw), do salawats (Q33:56) 🌹23.Call ˹all˺ people to the pilgrimage (hajj) (Q22:27) 🌹24.Give charity /spend (in the way of Allah) (Q2:254) 🌹25.Don’t criticize small donation/charity of others (9:79) 🌹26.Be mindful of Allah and be with the truthful (Q9:119) 🌹27.Do not consume one another’s wealth unjustly (Q2:188) 🌹28.Stand firm for justice even if it is against yourselves(Q4:135) 🌹29.Don't remind others of the favours you done to them (Q2:264) 🌹30.Return a greeting in a better manner or at least the same (Q4:86) 🌹31.Do not be excessive, extravagant, don't spend wastefully (Q17:26) 🌹32 Life of this world is no more than the delusion of enjoyment (Q3:185) 🌹33.Performing prayers (salat/namaz) is a duty on the believers (Q4:103) 🌹34.Turn away from trash talk like gossip, slandering people etc.(Q28:55) 🌹35.Fasting is prescribed for you-as it was for those before you (Q2:183) 🌹36.Don't Bribe authorities in order to devour a portion of others’ property(Q2:188) 🌹37.Establish prayer (salat/namaz) and donate from what was provided (Q8:3) 🌹38.Establish prayer (salat/namaz) and donate from what was provided (Q14:31) 🌹39.Establish prayer (salat/namaz), pay alms-tax, and bow down with those who bow down (Q2:43) 🌹🕋40.Know that this worldly life is no more than play, amusement, luxury, mutual boasting, and competition in wealth and children.(Q57:20)🕋🌹

Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said "Whoever fasts Ramadan and then follows it with six days of Shawwal will be (rewarded) as if he had fasted the entire year." 🌺Don't forget to fast six days in Shawwal 🌺

I was in two minds about re-marrying. Now I’m relieved to know that it is not wajib when you are not ready and when you don’t have someone you can accept his appearance, financial/ social/ mental compatibility and Deen. Excellent teaching video

I am in my 11th year of marriage(10 years and 5months ) and the last five months was the most testing time for me. And this video solved my problem just like that in 21 minutes. Alhamdulilaah ( the most helpful, hopeful, reassuring video i have ever seen on this topic) the other marriage problem related videos have made me sader than i was at the time of listening. they added my heartbreak into more heartbreaks. jazakumul Allahu khayran for your clear explanation made me see my faults and their solutions.

that list of haram to wajib marriages is very interesting. I wish i learned that in school. Jazakum Allah kheir

ربنا هب لنا من أزواجنا وذرياتنا قرة أعين واجعلنا للمتقين إماما ❤

From 2 days I am having dream of my marriage and now this video.Ya Allah is this the sign. Sub-hanAllah

Our Lord! Bless us with pious spouses and offspring, who will be the joy of our hearts, and make us models for the righteous🤲

I have my wife and until I have my six childrens 3sons plus 3doughters.i never saw such a nice Person like this explaining everything regarding marital affairs.Jaza Ka Allah. Respect from Pakistan.

I prayed for so long and every single day almost. My prayers been excepted and Allah brought m to this video Mashallah. Alhamdulillah for everything ❤

Religion begins in the heart. It's more than physique. Masha Allah!

This is some high quality Islamic content that should be go viral

The title of this video very interesting ... Jazakumullahu khairan ... barakallahu fiik ...

I am going to get married ingshaAllah and i got some important questions answered alhamdulillah.

This is our deen, absolutly beautiful and the sheikh is so amazing, May Allah bless him. a young Muslim here trying to get better, I ask from my brothers and sisters to do Dua for me that Allah grant me a pious and a beautiful wife.

Alhamdulillah i've never dated anyone. I'm 18 years old and i'm a girl. I'm only focusing on how to maintain a good relationship with Allah

I'm a man, but I can only cry when imam explains how Rasulullah saw & the sahaba works towards their marriage & advises their children. I know I have many weaknesses, but I also know I've tried & have always, always, always longed for an Islamic dating & marriage. Maybe my longing is to find someone that have that longing to uphold the deen, even when we're not perfect like other fully practicing families. Please make du'a for me for I don't know who's du'as will be answered by Allah SWT. Jazakallahu khayran kathira... May Allah SWT reward you greatly & in abundance.

Thank you, Towards Eternity for this interview. This is the best advice about the topic that I've discovered so far. Can you please invite him for other videos, such as how to have a lasting marriage? I believe many people would appreciate it.

Ya Allah I needed this video to share with others who are not willing to listen to me when I talk about ruling of marriage. Now I can just share the link. I cannot thank you enough for this. Jazakumullahu khairan fidduniya wal aakhirah ❤

MashaAllah, such beautiful and meaningful advices all with reference to hadis and ayats. I'm currently 24 and unfortunately divorced and the part where you mentioned that there are 5 stages I really cried cause even though we both were really good people, it was a marriage my family convinced me to do it and in the 4th stage I was the only one trying to solve and find solutions to the problems while fighting where as he was only arguing, saying sorry but wanting me to back off and come back and follow him instead. I felt like I had no voice and he wouldn't make ne understand or understand me at all but just say sorry like a robot (being 12 years elder than me). I know asking for Khula was the last resort I had and I do feel terrible sometimes. But InshaAllah I'll pray to find someone as you mentioned, who fits me in all 3 criteria just like I'll be for him and that we both follow the 5 stages of marriage together. Aameen!

May Allah bless our brothers and sisters of ummah with Jannah ❤ Aameen summa Aameen ❤

Masha Allah the way this brother is a loving husband subhan Allah and loving his beautiful wife Masha Allah . May Allah SWT makes all our childrens to learn from this brother and bring BARAKAT , NOOR , HAPPINESS to every marriage couples , our children’s who are getting married in future and every ummah house ameen 🤲🏼

اللهم لما أنزلت إلينا من خير فقير 🤲 ربنا هب لنا من ازوجنا وذريٰتنا قرت اعين واجعلنا للمتقين اماما

Alhamdulillah I came across this video at the right time. The answers I’ve been searching for. Jazzakallahu khairan

A person said "(Allahuakbar)" later he said "(Subhanallah)" and after that he said "(Alhamdulillah)'' he again said "(Allahummagfirli)" he also said (la ilaha illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu minaz zalimin) in this he earned many many good deeds and that person is you

MashaAllah! Every youth needs to watch this.

the more i learn about islam more beautiful it becomes ❤

I feel like I need to come back and take notes! TabarakAllah, jazakumullah khairan.

Wow, Thank you for this video!Just what I needed and been looking for. Alhamdulillah, such good advice for those looking for marriage.

Excellent conversation on love, dating, marriage in Islam..

Wow I was struggling with this issue especially today, and suddenly bam here is the video talking about it. Thank you!

I'm so happy I came across this video. Because I have been having doubts about this same issue. Alhamdulilah 🙏

Masha Allah, I listen to this several times and still currently listening to it. Barakallahu feek usthaz ❤🎉

I think, this is one of the most teachful and smooth video I have ever watched. Ma Sha Allah. May Allah give you best rewards.💐

A beautiful direction this video !! MashaAllah, Jazakumullah khayran 🙏🏽

❤ Beautiful Dua ✅ رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامً “Our Lord! Grant unto us wives and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.” [Al-Quran 25: 74]

Masha Allah, may Allah reward you all for posting this video, one of the best and a must to watch before marriage.

mindblowing ❤May Allah guide us all. Mashallah brother.

Wow maasha Allah Really needed video Jazakallah for this video 😊

The best advice I have ever had ❤ Thank you so much for the beautiful interview

I like everything he said masha'Allah.... Allah bless him and his wife well done my regards from Morocco 🇲🇦❤️

Prophet Muhammad (SAW/PBUH) said: "In 3 situations, if you pray dua, it will definitely be accepted: 1) When your body starts shaking. 2) When you got fear in your heart. 3) When you got tears in your eyes. The Prophet (PBUH) also said: "Whoever shares this knowledge, he will have a house in front of me in Jannah... ( Al-Bukhari )

Subhanallah🥺❤ This is the Best video i have ever watched regarding marriage

Badly needed this. And it was the exact time for me to listen all about

In my family, relatives no one can understand english i wants to share this video with them🥺 It's make my day and teach me how to be happy after marriage don't to be scared of marriage ❤ if a person meet me with this mentality i will be definitely want to marry him

Masha Allah,very informative We need more content like this

Very insightful video indeed. Jazakallahu khair!

Masha Allah, Alhamdullilah, JazakumAllahu khayran, we really need this. May Allah reward you and grant us all a marriage best for us.

Amazing video most of the necessary topics are included..✨

Thank you , i needed this. Baraka Allahou fik

Our beloved Shaikh Yahya ❤ Love from Perth ( Australia)

We all need this video...... may Allah give us the right person 🙏

Mashallah! It was amazing conversation,that I needed

Wow thank you so much for such a beautiful educational honest conversation. I learned new things thanks to you 🙏🏼😊

This was really beautiful and informative to listen to

GenZ here, These are the Aspects one wants to looks for in their future Spouse.. and i too have these things priority wise But people around me call it as "High Standard". These are the basic things in marriage but hard to find.. Still Allah Azzawajal made you whom you deserve, just need have sabr and believe, faith on Allah Azzawajal ❤

Awesome video.... With some basic answers

This was wonderful! I recently started speaking to a wonderful Muslim man and this helped a lot towards our future together and how to get there.

this is absolutely the best episode I've ever watched.

Thanks for sharing knowledge on much needed topic❤

these videos are so eye-opening, thank you for this video

SubhanAllah! Beautiful video

this guy's voice is so calming mashAllah

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله تعالى وبركاته I really liked the video. Full of priceless germs that I and other Muslim youth should learn and keep in mind when looking for the right spouse. I REALLY HOPE HAVING A PART 2 FOR THIS. May Allah bless you. جزاكم الله خيرا

was looking for this one

Such an amazing experience watching it Jazak allah for the knowledge 😇

Thankuh!!! This video can melt many hearts mashallah

Wao! Love this video, Barak Allah feek, found it without looking for. Watched at time.

such a valuable video with so many important messages

SubhanAllah Sheikh Yahya made this sound so beautiful and intriguing. May Allah bless him and his wife immensely.

beautifully explained jazak allah khairan,

SubhanAllah...i needed this.. jazakallah khair

And that was a nice lesson sir! Thanks a lot, jazzakoum allaho khayran

Not a single video gave me this much info that I needed the most May Allah grant u peace Jazakallahu khiran

Really beautiful message Jazakumullahu khaira

Thanks for sharing these values Sheikh...

Jazakumullahu kheyru aljazaa Sheikh Yahya ❤

This was very informative, thank you.

i needed to hear that. thank you

Best Channel i could have ever seen, thanks for this video

Mashaallah that was lovely to watch. Can't wait to get married and become a good muslim husband. May Allah guide us and make us good husbands, and may Allah give us good wives to marry and take care of. Allahuma Ameen.

Soo informative and useful❤

This was a beautifully curated video. May Allah always bless you Imam Yahya and team✨

Ma sha allah....much needed 💗💗

Masha Allah Very insightful video indeed jazakallah Khair

30s and not marry yet but after this i think i will push a little bit to find the one

Mashallah sheikh yahya we want more videos of this sort it's so helpful for me allahumma barik

Wise words mashaaAllah ❤

4:05 As a Muslimah, I wanna make clear that just because someone isn't attracted to you, doesn't mean you're unattractive to everyone. It just means that person isn't created to be with you, so Allah is cancelling/blocking a terrible marriage. Definitely a blessing, in disguise. "We have created humans, in the best form". Surah At tin 95:4

That's the best video I've ever watched about marriage, so nice

Thank you very much brother we needed this video ❤

Mash Allah lots of lesson I learn❤Today

Im in my 28th year of marriage and the last 5 years hv been the worst; this is too late for me but will be very helpful for my children InshaAllah. JAK