When the coomer meme started a few months ago, it motivated me to start nofap, and I could go a week at a time without cooming. I failed NNN on day 5, though.
i almost feel like this meme acts as some sort of spiritual awakening, and we're all finally starting to take a step back and rise out of this fog that will inevitably kill the human spirit. At one point I was watching porn on lsd which kinda fucked me up for a while, but I also kinda realized, from a 3rd person point of view, how sad of a picture it really paints. A monkey, alone in the dark, with his face plugged into this little LED screen showing us a warped image of our sexuality.. I always thought that I was alone with that feeling. But now I'm glad this meme exists... I think memes are the next evolutionary step in human communication.
That is why I only support the Nsfw-Artist and hentai. I must thank the video that got me off 3Dpd. Thanks 🙏 two girls one cup, you disgust me so much that I can’t even look at a real good ass.
@Halen Hardy masturbation and porn causes unnatural levels of dopamine in brain which prevents us from our true potential,if you dont have any knowledge about it shut up and try to learn about it,if nofap were a superstition thousands of men wouldn't give up the ultimate pleasures like porn and jerking off think about it if it didn't work why all these mens lives are changing suddenly
Then, by logic is not okay to be weak in the first place. Being is a constant. Staying is a constant. It's fucking amazing to be strong. It's necessary to stay strong.
@@alexisjesusgonzalez5074 You are right. But the point that I was trying to get across is that, you (as in me, you, and everyone else) need to change from what we are into something better.
Its sad when people cant be rational about their masturbation addiction and just rely on memes to guide them. I completely stopped masturbating and watching porn by reading and informing myself. Thank god i can rely on myself and not... This, even if the cause is noble, it will not hold out for long because memes are forgotten and become a passing fad, but knowledge always remains unbeaten.
@@idcaf Addicts often know what they are doing is bad and have read the facts, but dont care. Cigarette addicts are one of the best examples of this, shoving how bad it is in there face will not change it as they already know. It sometimes takes an outsiders POV of your addiction or something that almost glorifies it to realize how wrong it is. That's exactly what the Coomer meme does, not shoving the bad effects but instead showing how others see it. Imagine it like those videos of crackheads, most people don't want to do it because they see what it turns you into.
@@bailey5836 all this meme does is make fun of addiction and when that eventually stops being funny it stops being effective. Then whats even more stupid are addicts, who can try a NNN for one month and then happily relapse back or they try to do it only with imagination, or whatever "compromise" they come up with to justify cooming with a false sense of accomplishment. What i mean is that it really does not achieve much in the long term, which is essentially the most important thing you should do to quit masturbating
@@idcaf Plenty of people have already said that even after NNN they would continue to try and stop. Thanks to the Coomer meme, it has left a lasting impression on them. It doesn't make fun of addiction, it gives a different perspective of it that almost glorifies it. I mean look at the videos of the coomer guy actually getting ass, until you realize how sad it really is.
@@bailey5836 do you even understand the basic fundamentals behind memes, and their longevity? You have to realize that things like ragecomics were once a meme, loljesus was a meme, advice animals were memes, (de)motivational posters were a meme... whatever message they had sooner or later became forgotten. Coomer meme like every other will be forgotten in a few years. I'm not trying to say that the meme has no effect. Of course some guys will come to their senses while the meme is fresh but relapse can always happen especially if you do it only because of a meme. Just like how people can after a few good years gain their weight back, can start drinking or taking pills again or start masturbating again. You have to change your life completely. There is no simple formula... If there was, we wouldnt have so many relapsed addicts today.
This generation of young people probably have it the worst when it comes to sex. Especially guys. There's so many unrealistic expectations and standards going around from both genders and women are treated like trophies because of simps and incels thus inflating a lot of their egos and standards. It happens to some men too but it's mostly a thing with girls at least from what I've seen. I think this generation basically being raised on the internet and social media has fucked a lot of things up for them and which is why I think social media should only be used by people 18+
@@stealthSGMB no it will not, your life will be still a joke, you just won't fap, that's all. my life was a joke since my birth, my life was a joke when i started to fap, my life was a joke when i realised that fap don't help you not cumming in bed at night when ur sleeping and i just stoped because i don't realy like it. those no nut weirdos talking shit, i don't get it why there are so many of them
Me too. It takes plenty of dedication but boy is it worth it. Watching this video daily helped me stay strong. Also going for a run or lifting weights when I had the urge
Visualize your coom problem as a demon, as a material thing that is disgusting and should be hated. Then imagine killing it, get up, and focus on something else.
RECLAIM YOUR HUMANITY AND CONQUER BOYS, BE THE ONE IN THE HISTORY BOOKS, LIVE UP TO YOUR ANCESTORS WHO BUILT EMPIRES AND CITIES, MAKE YOUR FATHER PROUD. RECLAIM THE LION INSIDE AND CRUSH THE SOUL OF YOUR PROBLEMS UNTIL THEY FALL UNDER YOUR MIGHTY FIST, CONQUER!!!
ᚢᛚᚠᛦ it’s not worth it brother. Join me. Together we can prosper in a life where we have discipline and self respect. You can achieve your wildest dreams. It’s not worth throwing it all away over a few seconds of pleasure.
Dry cleaner nick I’m about 9 hours clean. Yeah any advice would be appreciated. To tell you the truth my political views have shaped the type of porn that causes me the most arousal; I usually relapse after reading something incredibly hatful. Which I’m greatly ashamed of. Like I said I would love some advice.
Decayed Knight same thing happened to me, it’s okay. You have to understand it’s OKAY. You have to love yourself. And that doesn’t mean, let yourself do whatever you want. It means discipline yourself. TRUE freedom is discipline from your passions. Honestly, and I know this isn’t popular, but I recommend an abrahamic religion. Particularly Christianity, but I’m a catholic, so perhaps I’m biased. For me, it was a BIG part, praying to God, something bigger than myself and truly knowing that the force of Good wanted me to do better for Himself, but also for MYSELF. We’re MEANT to be good people. You KNOW you’re meant to be a good person. You have an addiction. MOST people, (which is heartbreaking) do you porn. When you get out of it... you see how many of your friends and family are affected by it... the guilt in their eyes... the denial when it’s brought up. Be happy you at least acknowledge it’s a problem consciously. But if you train your conscious, eventually your sub conscious will follow. Try to find reasons why you won’t jerk off. I know it’s addicting, I know you’re bored, I know most people do it, there’s a million excuses and reasons to justify it. I’ve fallen SO many times using excuses and justifications. I remember last year, I’m pretty sure on Christmas Eve I prolly jerked it. And I believed in Jesus back then, I just wasn’t a really great follower of Christ. I’m not even saying you have to follow Christ. It’s just what worked for me and a lot of people. You need some type of higher power tho because you are a human. You have a body that is literally an animal, but with thinking capabilities that allow you to become addicted to things, to choose right and wrong. You are meant to ascend to the capabilities of conquering your body, not the other way around. Listen, I KNOW the more depraved what you’re watching gets, the “better” it is. I KNOW. I used to do that. I’m sure many many of us do. It’s so sad. Even my girlfriend, my brother, who knows maybe even my parents all watch p*rn. They all prolly wish they could get away. It’s an empty promise. It’s just a dumb thing you keep doing because you can’t take the suffering. Suffering is good. Suffering is virtuous. There is no point to life if all you are doing is searching for the next pleasure circuit. You can ascend to nothing. Yes, a healthy motivation for sex, is okay. It’s alright to find woman attractive, it’s okay to see the beauty in women. And for a while, if you’re quitting, it will be tough to get those disgusting thoughts out of your head when talking to anyone, your family, strangers, employees, even watching TV. You may fall, you probably will. DO NOT shame yourself if you fall. This is a trick of evil forces to make you think you’re not to be loved. You ARE to be loved. Have mercy on yourself, love yourself, and honestly, just remember God loves you and immediately has mercy on you, as soon as you come to Him. I know it sounds stupid, I know it sounds crazy, but try praying about it, try repenting to God (why? Because you are better than this and He gave you your body which you are abusing to the detriment of His plan, but also to the detriment to YOUR plan). So repent, ask for forgiveness with an honest heart, and God will have mercy at least. I’m a catholic, so personally I go to confession. You don’t need to be super specific, just confess what you think is enough detail (I’ve watched porn 25 times for ex., masturbated 23 of those times ex.) Ask God for help. Even if you think you are completely alone you are not. I promise you by everything I am, you are not alone. Even just me, I am not doing this just to help you, this is grace from God, probably Him working through me to tell you. Personally, since I’m a catholic (sorry I keep mentioning that), I asked Mary for help repeatedly. She was the Blessed Virgin and a woman, and the mother of God on earth. Constantly asking Her to pray for me helped, as stupid as it sounds. It may just sound like I was duped into this by psychological trick. Even if I was, who’s to say that’s not how God works lol. But personally, I promise you will be surprised if you trust in it. Do not expect an immediate answer. God works how HE works. It takes time sometimes, sometimes it’s immediate. Sometimes it’s subtle, sometimes it’s loud. Ask and you shall receive. Ask for strength, for a sign if you truly need it to believe in God. You’re not really supposed to, but if you ask Him to come to you with an open heart He will if that’s what it takes. It prolly won’t be a vision, but it’ll Happen nonetheless. Never lose hope. Always be hopeful. Go to a gym, or at least workout at home if you can. Develop other habits, keep yourself busy. Honestly, help other people. Just serve other people in various, creative ways. Just waste yourself (no pun intended) on other people. (This guy may look creepy at first, but he’s incredibly smart man, Fulton Sheen lecture on wasting yourself... that’s what I mean about this). It’s such a monumental climb.... almost Impossible but mere human standards. Our flesh is powerful when you give our flesh power. If you serve it it becomes more powerful over you. So master it. Honestly fast from food. Test your bodies limits (without injuring yourself). Literally go to any resource possible to learn how people remain celibate or abstinent. Last thing: a lot of people are severely severely afraid to approach God during certain points of their life because they are afraid of punishment, repercussion, judgement, or a call to suffering. And they disguise this as being above God. As being more mature and evolved. As being scientific or practical. Well, God is evolved and mature, practical and scientific too. That point aside, what’s more mature? Pleasuring yourself whenever you want as long as it doesn’t hurt you personally or those you love, or attempting to live a life of serving others more? Attempting to master your base desires? Even the base desire for pride, which is the root of all sin. Excessive pride. Porn pleasure yourself. Money, for yourself or your close ones, never your enemy tho. Lazy, because you’re tired. Jealous, because YOU deserve what they have. Etc., etc. This is all a result of what the eastern religions call “ego” which is excessive pride kind of. Even fear is from pride. Do not be afraid or too prideful to give God a chance. Do not Be too prideful to expect a great wonderful miracle to happen JUST for you. Just ask God for the help you need. Ask for forgiveness. Ask for strength. Leave it at that. Pour your heart more if you want. I’d say just try that once a day for a week... and then if you don’t care anymore don’t do it. I love you, you are worthy of love, you are called to be greater than you are acting. If you have any more questions or need any more Help, I have got you. Good luck. God bless.
Dry cleaner nick Thanks for the help Dry cleaner. I’m a Christian myself and I’m hugely religious. I really got into porn seriously (prior to August of 2018 I jack it a lot but never was too into porn.) around August of last year. When I came across the alternative right and heard about the “great replacement.” And got into Christian apologetics (act17apologetics in particular.) and became more aware of Islam and the threat it imposed upon a free society I grew seriously politically and religiously conscious. Part of this over analysis of the world; mixed with my already high sex drive made porn binges further and further corrupted. Since I’ve last commented I’m 41 hours clean (almost 2 days.) I’ve never gone more than 2 days without touching myself (there has been a few notable exceptions but for the most part it’s true.) and I’m hoping i can go at least three days without porn. My plan is to no longer view porn of any kind. (One fail swipe or swoop on even vanilla porn can cause me to relapse) and jack off before going to sleep. (That way it rids of my sexual energy and I can wake Being a few hours clean; which is far better than relapsing while your awake and feeling awful for the rest of the day.) I’ll keep my phone away from when I’m alone and I won’t allow myself any viewership of porn in the future. I’ll try to pray more often for help as well thank you brother of Christ.
The coomer is immunized against all dangers, one may call him a scoundrel, parasite, degenerate, deviant, it all runs of him like water off a raincoat. But call him a coomer and you will be astonished at how he recoils, how injured he is, how he suddenly shrinks back: 'I've been found out.
@@ДанилаЛимонов-ж3е As of right now, been failing unfortunately. Didn't know I was REALLY addicted till I stumbled upon this video (with self-reflection + other sources making me looking into pornography addiction). I started journaling if that helps, been writing down what I did right, wrong, and how I can improve. As I'm writing this, I failed 3 times already in the day, but because I'm actually journaling my progress (whilst attentively being more conscious and aware of my actions and thoughts), I feel like I now know what to do. We can make it.
William Bullen when you finish journaling show us what you wrote lol, I’d love to read it. I’ve trying NNN too, started 3 days ago and haven’t failed 😅
One thing is real. No girl wants to be a prostitute. They are either raped or lost their faith in life. When I look at P, i can see their pain in their eyes. They are not there because they want to be, they are there because they are broken.
There are tons of resources validating your comment. Watched a few videos where girls were going into great detail in how they were lied to and raped or trafficked into the industry. Honestly heard some terrible stuff that I’ll never forget. One girl had talked about how she thought she was going to do a model photo shoot, ended up getting r*ped, and they cropped out the scenes so you couldn’t see blood on the sheets. That company ended up getting charged for trafficking and r*ping multiple women and posting their vids online. All the while it looked consensual. So messed up. But hey, the devoted coomer doesn’t care. As long as he gets his fix, over and over and over and over and over and over again.
C Kizzle Thanks bro. I’ve been jacking it for 3 hours a day for a year! Previously it was 90 minutes a day. Now without porn I’m trying to go for only a hour a day. I hope one day to be free from cooming and porn, and hope to help others avoid it as well.
Its dying anyways. You can only make so many videos before they all start to look the same. All it took was someone pointing out how porn effects your prefrontal cortex and people stopped masturbating all the time.
@@michaelmorse4444 It's not dying. It's thriving as it always was. The internet just allows people to trap themselves in a bubble, you surround yourself with like-minded people, and join forums and groups, and it makes it seem like everyone is part of it, and makes it seem way bigger than it actually is - In reality, noFap anti-porn weirdos are a tiny minority of weirdos. Porn is still going strong.
@@dankbear8890 Why would you want the porn industry to go down? Just because you don't like it? Seems a bit narcissistic. I don't like the Cosplay scene but I don't care that it exists, I just don't pay attention to it. You should try that some time. Imagine getting all offended over something you're not even obliged to watch, fuckin weirdo.
Biting your nails is a habit. Eating a salad with dinner is a habit. Playing on your phone is a habit. Exercising everyday is a habit. Chewing your pen is a habit. Brushing your teeth is a habit. Playing video games is a habit. Locking your door when you leave is a habit. All of these things are habits, because they can be *easily* broken through sheer force of will. You can stop whenever you want. Make no mistake. Porn is not a habit. It is an addiction.
@@rohanbhuckory1297 Haha e-"friends" Making an in-game funeral after your fellow gaming addict dies alone in his mother's basement won't make you friends.
@@coal2710 I honestly feel really bad for how complex your guy's life's are. When I was a kid we all just hung out with eachother maybe smoked a joint or two every now and then and listen to some good tunes. You guys seem to have to face an existential crisis with every single thing you do. I think a big problem with your peers is you don't ever seem to understand there is a life outside of your own. There have been people that have lived for 100s of years before you and so will they after, all the things you think are big deal in the grand scheme of things really aren't. Just try to enjoy your time while your here on it because before you know it you will have spent time you can't get back.
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Bosoms in seconds on thirds with hips I’m falling apart I’m fapping it I just can’t CUNTrol it I’m a coooomer I’m a cooMIN I’m a cooMER Im a cooMER I’m COOOOOOOOMMMMIIIINNN Don’t Say any pornstars name Watch it rise where’s my shame
@@DarkHalloweve Christ set me free. First by attacking my pride so I admitted that there was a problem. Then I began to see it as disgusting and trained my emotions to hate it and react negatively to it. Over time I found more positive outlets for my masculine energy (like physical activity). Lately, I've adjusted my schedule so that I don't stay up late on the internet. I eat less sugar and I avoid it at night. Periodicallly, I give up normal things (like RU-vid) to cleanse my dopamine receptors.
I'm turning 23 tomorrow and have had terrible social anxiety, went to Brazil as an academic exchange and met incredible girls but I was too terrified to develop a relationship with them. Ended up as a coomer. Now I'm recovering, 3 day streak for me, and giving myself more time
Unfortunately i'm a Coomer but this song hit me hard emotionally and made me rethink my current lifestyle. It honestly made me tear up, this song is a masterpiece. Edit: Hello again! Thanks for the support. I just wanted to give the good news about me being on NoFap. I’m 14 days in and don’t plan on ending my streak. I feel so much better now.
I hope you get through it, I thought it was a joke but I guess it really does affect people. Five dollar push up grips, twelve dollar resistance band, find a pull up bar and there's you're gym. Find a hobby that doesn't involve a computer so you're not tempted.
So, NNN is over. I didn't achieve some magical zen-like clarity or whatever, but I did get something else, something more realistic... I've relearned self-control. If I can resist a base instinct for a month, then I am able to be more active, practice a new skill, eat better, etc. What started as a silly meme has become the first step on the road to regaining my autonomy. Next step: Severely cutting back on internet. Because _that,_ I believe, is the real cause of "cumbrain".
I’m confused like are these comments fr talking about jerking off is horrible? It’s natural bros as long as you don’t sit in your room and rub off 5 a day your cool man I mean masturbation is normal and like all things should be used in moderation
@@HonderdtachtigCC I lost about a week in but I already did like a year ago video chat my girl. So I was doing it because I can. But I'm glad your 26 days in, finish the month for those that couldn't have made it. Even if one made it, it still a victory.
@@felixuniverse6009 wow amazing conversational skills you must be the coolest guy at the spelling bee meet-up, pointing out everyones grammar mistakes in order to make you look smart and somehow superior to others to repress your insecurities real smooth playa playa
"You're under no obligation to be the same person you were 5 minutes ago." -Alan Watts Quit porn. Hit the gym. Go outside. The only person stopping you is you.
@Muramasa Seriously? Go rock climbing. Go caving. Go swimming. Go white water kayaking. Go fishing. Go hunting. Go skiing. Do you really not know how to do outdoor activities?
The reason this meme works better than "no fap" is because it focuses on the coom. The coom is what we're after. Like cocaine addicted rats. Just one more coom. That'll make me feel better. Just one more. Just one more. Just one more. I can't stop.
Another reason it's so effective is because cum is replaced with coom which is funny but also helps get people talking about the problem, saying cum even in text feels gross but saying coomer allows easier conversation
Nofaps are generally very judgemental and preachy, and look down on people that aren't a part of it, making it look uninviting at the face alone. But beneath the face, the whole ideology behind it is fucked. From what I've seen, Nofap is just hiding your addiction behind coping mechanisms like useless (or fake) hobbies while massively exaggerating how successful your life is for said hobbies, and demonizing the opposite sex for 'tempting' them, (as if it's someone else's fault you choose to masturbate to them.) It's basically MGTOW lite for normies. The 'Coomer' meme attacks the problem at its root, and starts conversations for better understanding of a largely unknown issue rather than trying to preach a harmful answer with no facts supporting it.
RihannaIsIluminati Jews good. Long term health and visions of self and societal greatness bad. Short term empty pleasures good. Being enslaved to your lust good. ✡️✡️ love that Zionist touch
John Smith U right, I think everyone has had that moment after busting a nut to some porn where they feel the urge to advocate for a National Home for the Jewish People.
@Love Death That is so not true. Masturbation and porn can cause many mental health problems. It causes you to eat more junk food (due to the brain constantly needing dopamine from masturbation and porn, it will look for other ways.)
I have a coworker that says that memes peaked in 2010. After seeing this I know he is wrong. The best is yet to come it looks like it. Gotta love the internet.
@@RedPlaystationController I think he is one of those "back in my day" people. He likes to talk as if he is an authority on various things. Some would call that pompous.
