Happy Birthday 

I love that she has so many aunts and uncles that show up for her and support her.

Sheri was like a mother to her own siblings and I’m sure that her love rubs off on all of her cousins.

I love how the rest of the family has stepped in and provided that support for Shari during what probably is a difficult time for her and her immediate family

I honestly could cry watching Shari be held by each of you during such a painful time. Knowing that, despite having young kids of your own, you’ll make the time to have hours to spend on making cakes, shopping trips and just making her feel cherished. I’m also grateful Shari has allowed us to see this time as I know it puts so many hearts at peace to see her loved for and cared for, something I know you will extend further to younger in time. I’m not religious but appreciate the good it can do, and you are definitely someone who lives to the best and most honourable elements of Christian beliefs.

I feel so sad for Shari that her family is torn apart but how awesome it is that her aunts, uncles and cousins are all supportive of her. You are such wonderful people to be there for her. 😊

Thank you for providing that “open door” for Shari -so glad she has y’all 💕

I love how y’all scooped Shari right up and loved on her when she needed it most.

Loved seeing Kevin's parents. Happy Birthday Sherri!

I love this so much. With everything that is currently happening, thank you for showing up for Shari and being such a big support in her life despite the challenges you guys are all facing.

Watching this now makes me so happy that Shari has amazing support from her family. They seem so nice in comparison. I hope her brothers and sisters are ok ❤

Thank you on behalf of everyone who cares about Shari for taking her in and making her feel so welcomed. I do not believe Ruby is a horrible person, but I really hope that she sees the light soon and realizes nothing is worth missing your daughter’s birthday party over.

I adore the way you treat Shari! Not only are you kind and open, but you are as attentive to her as a mother would be. So lovely

This was so heartwarming to watch, I loved your comments at the end about how you have an open door to her. We of course don't know exactly what happened with your family but we can see how much Shari is loved and cared for by your whole family! and including her other grandparents was so sweet. I'm so happy to be seeing her more and more in your families vlogs and hope you all are at peace with whatever the circumstances may be. She may not know all of us here on the internet, but she has a HUGE internet family here rooting for her and that love her! Happy Birthday Shari, hope your next year is as wonderful as you!

5 minutes in and I was balling. I am in exactly Shari's position and I have no other family, aunts, uncles etc. I was alone with just my husband at 19 (so grateful for him and his family) and there is a LOT of grief and uncertainty and fear in being alone. Things like nowhere to go at christmas, no one to phone when you get a job or somethings wrong with your car. I would give anything to have even just one person to be there for me. So I just wanted to share that and I know what a difference it will make to have that support for essentially 3 extra moms who will support her and love her the way she's always deserved

At Shari's age I was in a situation where I felt very alone. Having close family down the road would have made all the difference! Your open door policy sounds like a wonderful thing and makes more difference than you might even know💜

Watching this actually made me cry. You sound so much like ruby but soooo much more nurturing, kind, caring. How did Kevin allow the abuse to those kids for so many years

Wish I had a sweet cousin like Shari. Lucy especially seems to love her. Thanks for inviting us along to celebrate. Can’t wait to see Shari flourish in her law career. She seems like one who would fight for the underdog.

Shari could not have had a more radiant smile than she did in this video. I am so glad that you are all there to help her navigate this difficult time in her life.

Thank you for being there for shari especially because of the current events that have transpired last week. ❤ you guys are amazing

Julie & Landon, the two of you are such a blessing to Shari and I’m glad to see the support she has from you as well as Bonnie’s family. Thanks for sharing her in your videos and letting us know she is doing well in spite of any situation going on.

The way you are there for each other and especially for Shari, shows what love and God's grace you have been blessed with from your parents and grandparents examples. You are wonderful Christian people. God bless you all.

It makes me happy to see Shari being taken care of by her aunts. She deserves all the best in the world.

This is so nice to see Shari being loved by the extended family in spite of Ruby's choices. I feel so sad for Olivia too that she cant see Abbie and Julie anymore. I really hope Chad starts attending events like this soon too now that he is 18 he can make his own decisions.

Shari is soo lucky to have you guys and such wonderful support ❤❤ This is why we love y'all!! ❤❤

I love how shari has so many wonderful family members there to support her not only on the Griffiths side but also her father's parents too!

Love that Shari has loving Aunt's and Uncle's and that her Grandma and Grandpa were able to visit .

Shari and the kids are so cute together! And i am sure she appreciates the family support when her ‘s is in turmoil and being destroyed by her parents. So sad to see but so glad you and landon and the rest of the family has been there for her.

Hello Julie.... All of us have heartache in family disputes and misunderstandings..choices. We don't have to know the details of yours to know it's been heartbreaking....the way you've CHOSEN to support your beautiful niece through her own heartache-is loving family unconditionally at its best! You've saved her SO many tears and given her the courage she deserves to choose HER OWN LIFES PATH to true happiness. There's those that claim to worship God and live as best they can in his word and then those that not only do it but do it so SO beautifully like all of you are with Shari. HAPPY BIRTHDAY Shari and you're loved and supported by many in this world...I pray you know that. And I pray it brings you comfort. 🙏💛🙏

I love seeing Shari with all of you, she deserves it for sure. She is the sweetest

I’m going to pretend I’m not in tears because wow this was so sweet, it is such a blessing to have family who loves you so unconditionally.

As the oldest sibling and the oldest cousin on my dads side,I love seeing all the aunts,uncles and cousins being so sweet and supportive of her ❤️

I'm so glad that Shari has aunts and uncles like you for support her. You all have such beautiful and big Heart. Happy birthday Shari. Sent you all lot of love from France 🇲🇫💖💖💖

It's very heartwarming to see how much you care for Shari and you give your best to make her know she is loved. She looked genuinely happy in this video. It was extra sweet of you to include her paternal grandparents. I hope you will be able to "recover" the rest of her siblings. I wish you all the best.

Makes my heart happy that you guys are all there for Shari ❤ Happy Birthday Shari!!

So nice that you included Shari’s other grandparents. You are such a sweet aunt to her. Love that your little ones are getting to spend time with her ❤❤

Thank you for giving Shari positive family memories again ❤️

Made me cry when you sang happy birthday. You are such an amazing aunt. There when she needs you the most. Your family inspires me and I love you all so much. I have been following you all for years. I pray that you stay the course and follow the light always even through the darkest times. THIS TOO SHALL PASS. I pray Gods knowledge and wisdom is with you always! Love you and know the right people are here to support you!

I’m so happy Shari can count on y’all.

Happy Birthday Shari!! Family supports each other it’s so nice of all of you to pitch in what wonderful aunts and uncles you are❤️

this makes me so emotional. Seriously can't believe how kind you are Julie ❤ Love to shari x

Lucy picking out her own dress? I'm so proud of her. Happy birthday, Shari.

I'm so sad that Shari isn't close with her immediate family right now, but it's so great to see that she has you guys to support and love on her. Not everyone has a support system like this. ❤️

Shari is the epitome of grace and strength. She will do great things ❤

Happy Birthday Sherri! Wonderful to see you with your family again! You can see how much they love and missed you.

The sweetest video ever! So happy for Shari she’s a very bright young lady with a Amazing future ahead of her!! Once again Happy Birthday Shari you truly don’t look 20, I know right now you may not want to here that by the time 40 rolls around you will.. Take care sweetie the sky is the limit...

Belated happy birthday, Sharri. She has grown into a lovely young woman. Having an open door policy for her lets her know that she is an important part of a wonderful family. Being surrounded by her aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents on her birthday is joyful. The chocolate cake looked delicious. What an amazing day.

Happy Birthday Shari! Welcome to 20s club! It’s so heartwarming to see everyone supports and love on Shari 🥰

It honestly warms my heart that Sherri has so much family there to step in and surround her with love. ❤ This is truly what family is all about.

I so hope we get to see chad soon, it’s lovely to see Shari again and looking so happy

You guys are the best Aunts, Uncles, Grandparents & cousins. Shari is such a beautiful person and I love seeing her loved & celebrated.

I love seeing Shari with family around her. You are good people.

Julie, I don’t like that you film your kids. However, you seem like the most kind of the sisters and I’m glad Shari got some normalcy and a wonderful 20th birthday. This whole Ruby situation is absolutely insane.

Every family goes thru things and I love to see you guys stick together and give Shari the love she needs and deserves. That's what family is for. ❤️

Happy birthday shari. I hope her own family wish her their own good wishes for her big birthday. And would hope that Kevin is still close to his parents. Never take a day for granted . You never know what's round the corner. You're part of a lovely warm family Julie. God bless you xx

Thank you for taking Shari in as your own!!! I can definitely see that she’s happier! Also she shares a bday with me!!!

I’m so glad she has the best aunts and uncles and cousins! Thank you for being there for her!

Happy Birthday Shari!! Just praying that her and her siblings are doing well and thriving 🥰🥰

Huge Happy Belated Birthday Shari so glad she lives so close by to you. I just love that Grandpa and Grandma Frankie came to visit.

I absolutely love watching your family love on Sherri! Seeing her back with y’all just makes my heart happy! I cried watching this but it was all happy tears!!

I love that Shari has melted right into your family, being so close by and feeling comfortable in your home. And thank you for kind of addressing the elephant in the room without addressing it. Very classy.

It’s so good seeing Shari happy and supported

What a beautiful and loving video. It’s wonderful to see Shari loved and supported by family who truly love her and care for her emotional and physical wellbeing. Acknowledging that things have been hard over the past 2 1/2 years is appreciated. Continue to love and support one another and celebrate family, life and good health. For life is too short to allow things beyond your control to steal your joy! Happy birthday, Shari!

Dear Julie Bonnie and Ellie, The admiration I have for you with your grace and example comes with the highest level of respect. You are the most amazing and beautiful examples of love

Happy Birthday Shari! Thank you Julie for being a step up Aunt!

Shari deserves ti be loved so much! You all are amazing!

So lovely to see Shari enjoying time with you all. She’s a great big cousin and you are all fab aunts and uncles for just being present for her. A big happy birthday to Shari 🎉

2 and a half years is a long time to be going through anything let alone family related difficulties. Always been a fan of watching vlogs from across your family and to be aware of the challenges recently it does break your heart to see it, but I know Shari is part of a loving and supportive family and all her aunts, uncles and cousins will always be there for her no matter what. Also seeing that Shari's Franke grandparents came to celebrate with you all just warmed my heart. Hoping Shari knows how much support she has from people all over the world. Happy 20th Birthday Shari! Your twenties truly are the best so far in my experience - I hope you enjoy every second x

As someone who went no contact about 11 months ago, it warms my heart to see Shari surrounded by family. My entire family has sided against me and alienated me. I have made my own family with friends and loved ones who have taken me in. However-sometimes I wish even one family member sided with me and wanted to hear my side of things.

I’m so glad Shari knows she’s welcome with you guys such a sweet family ❤❤ The S on the bread is soo sweet ❤❤❤

Julie, I think you are an example of love and kindness. I love that you are here for Shari. She is such a sweetheart. ❤

Happy Birthday Shari! I love seeing you in all the vlogs. You have the best aunties and uncles who give you all the love and support!

Happy Birthday, Shari! I hope her day was fantastic! 🥳🎉🎈🎂💖😊 I gotta admit, I cried at the end when you were talking about things being different and challenging for your family because I have also been going through an estrangement with my twin sister for almost 2 years now, so I can totally relate. I love seeing you and your family reconnect with Shari. It gives me hope for you that your family will be whole again someday soon. ❤️❤️

1. Cake looks Amazing!! 2. So good to see Shari!! 3. Ive been a viewer for 3 to 4 years and do not have a clue what happen in Sharis life I remember your sisiter but its none of my bussiness I love her!! 4. Sweetest video ever

It makes my heart very happy to see that Shari has support within her other family members. They truly all care for her ❤️

I love seeing your families all together - how wonderful for the kiddos to have such awesome cousins! Happy Birthday Shari! 🎉❤

Warms my heart to see. It's so important to have unconditional love and support and it's wonderful that Shari's getting that from you and many other family members. Also love the open door policy. So good to have a place to come home to.

Happy birthday Shari!!! I love watching your family you are all so kind, caring and loving! May God bless you always❤

Sheri is so good with all the kids! She is lucky to have you all! Happy Birthday Sheri!!

Thank you for being there for her! You think of her as a wonderful and best cousin to your kids We think you are wonderful and truly awesome for showing love, compassion and kindness to Shari, when life has dealt her a rotten lot! Happy birthday Shari, I hope your wish comes true and that your 20’s are filled with magic and happiness. Xx

Such a sweet family. Also love how her grandparents came. Happy belated birthday Shari! 🎉

Bless Sheri , strongest woman out there , I can’t imagine going through what she’s going through , I wish her sucess and happiness

Goodness! Lucy is growing up so fast! She’s so sweet. I’m so glad that Shari has a supportive loving family. Y’all are the best. ❤

I’ve watched Shari grow into such a warm beautiful woman. I’m so happy that she is so close with her aunts. You’re such an amazing family. Shari you are blessed. I’m sure you’ve had a wonderful birthday and many many more to come 🎉

I Love Your Relationship with Shari i Love it it is so sweet and kind.

Julie I have to say watching your Vlogs I always feel so at peace, you bring such a calm feeling to us and your family too as I can see. Your videos are always so so nicely balanced and the music and shots too. You deserve a lot more views but I selfishly really like belonging to your circle that’s not too big to feel to distant 🙈 also: here in Germany we love our sourdough bread too and I’m so happy that you guys get to love it too!!!

Thank god for you being such an amazing aunt to Shari (along with all of her other aunts & uncles). This was such a sweet video.

Happy Birthday Shari! I hope you had such a wonderful day!❤️

Shari is lucky to have you all. Happy belated birthday Shari.

This makes my heart so happy! ❤ love that she’s with all her aunts and uncles, and cousins!

This video made me really emotional!!! Thank you for being so good to Shari!! I hope that soon all the problems get solved and everything goes back to normal! HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY dear Shari! May your wishes come true!

Goodmorning Deru Crew family. Wow it's nice to see Shari with her cousins and aunt and grandparents.Happy birthday Shari.Hope you had a amazing day God bless you 🎉🎈🎊🎁🎂❤️🥰

Such a sweet, supportive family❤. Happy Birthday Shari!

Hope you had an amazing day Sheri, 💗 You are beautiful and your aunts are very strong women who obviously love you. Lucy picking g out her own hair band melted my ❤️ Julie you are an amazing Mom❤️🇮🇪

Shari is so lucky to have you all around her ❤️

I've been watching a long time and never get tired of it. So sweet and comforting is your family.

Love how you all love on her! And it’s also so sweet see her grandparents supporting her! Showing Gods love to others perfectly

She probably misses her siblings as she always was a very caring older sister. I am sure she feels very blessed to have her Aunts, Uncles, Grandparents and cousins who love and support her and are there whenever she needs them. Happy Birthday Shari.🎂🎉🎁🎉

Julie, You're all exceptional aunts, uncles & cousins... Shari is soo lucky to have your gracious families in her life & her in yours. 💞 TY for Shari-ng with us...best cousin ever. 💖

How lucky is Shari to have such an amazing family. You guys are the best to make her feel so loved. Happy birthday Shari!

I am so happy that you have such a wonderful and supportive relationship with your niece. All families face challenges in one way or another and it's so inspiring to see when siblings, cousins, aunts, uncles, moms and dads rally together and rise above them.