Harmful Cultural Practices ; A Victim's Story Feat. Kelly Kosi | The Honest Bunch Podcast S05EP19 

This lady has Stockholm Syndrome and a truck load of trauma. Her story just makes you realise how much we have failed each other as humans, as a people and as a society. Toun was very correct- Therapy and healing is needed. Husband Material- Thank you so much for your diplomacy and wit in asking the right questions.

She’s so traumatized because she’s still defending the people who did her a lot of wrongs. The friend who made her have sex for accommodation,her ex husband,foster mother,etc. May God heal her. She was so innocent and people abused her. Such a beautiful person.

Dear fathers, protect your daughters, be present in their lives and let them experience the love of a father.

Who else among u love her the more she speaks in igbo language.. .. ❤. Her English is uniq

Wow young lady we are proud of you. Get a lawyer and get custody for your kids. You are a great woman. Stay strong.

Oh, my goodness, she is the same age with my last child. I am crying. Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. It's not too late for everyone involved to be arrested. I am so proud of her.

Someday I must gather d courage to tell my story. Her story is really similar to mine. May God heal u fockelly u a very strong lady😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.... pls my people never mock d pain u never experienced I beg u😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Nothing fit shake this girl for this life again,she is now a very very strong woman

Who else wasn't expecting this section to be emotional? i come jejely to come do aproko, ended up emotional

Sharing children among family members to look after, after the demise of a parent is very true and it is the only way to help the children survive. My prayer is, may those who accept to train other people's children be good to those children. God bless this guest for working hard to bring her siblings together. That is a selfless thing to do. My eldest brother did that for us and we value that. It made us close. May the good Lord continue to bless my brother. 🙏

Chukwudi is the conscience of this show. Always bringing everyone back to the subject matter and asking relevant questions.

I want to believe this platform provides psych support to people like this because the amount of trauma they offload is heavy. Nobody remains the same after such. As much as viewers learn from their experiences: I hope this girl (especially) finds genuine peace.

If u be girl u come from rich home or u get good relationship with ur parents u don't know wat God has done for you cos life a woman is hard

Honestly we shouldn't judge anyone before we walk their shoes. Also, we can't condemn until we've heard from both party.

For the first time, Edu and co sounded so ignorant in their line of questioning. Poor girl told you she was 16yrs old when she was groomed, manipulated and abused because of poverty and you are questioning her like she is 30yrs then. How many of us are able to make decisions even on our 20s without an external influence especially in Africa.

This is a bruised, wounded and brave woman. Mixed feelings

Mr. Nedu, this lady needs serious support, especially on the kids

Nedu saying she enjoyed the sex with the man for 3 days, when she clearly slept with him out of desperation was disgusting. But I’m glad she corrected him and he apologised

The moment she told Husband material to go for miracle!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I had to hit pause and laugh for two minutes straight! Never laughed this hard in a while! Husband material couldn't talk back there for the first time

I am a young person that the responsibilities of leadership really forced to be matured at a very tender age, so i have learnt in a very hard way at the past, never to pass judgement until I hear from all the parties involved in a case. That's how I can get a balanced judgement.. In issues like this, i step aside so that i won't be caught in the trap of one sided emotional blackmail. In a case like this, emotional blackmail can make you to goof as a judge and you will never see things from the right perspective, because emotion has been involved. If you must be a great leader in any sphere of influence, pls learn this uncommon life principle 🤔.. This my above statement is meant for matured minds, and not for biased individuals. I arrest my case..

This is my story this lady is narrating Every month I go through a mental breakdown but God is so faithful to us that have been in sure situations not to give up in life. I was born on May 27, 1999, the same as this lady the only difference in my case is I didn't get pregnant in the process of abusive teenage marriage 😢 Everyday I cried and till now haven’t gotten heal from this trauma I lived with both of my parents before I started living with my ex but none of my family members fought for me to remain this guy that I was only a kid. It’s hard to come out sure situation when you’re from a poor family to make a right decision. I’m so hurt and unhappy for all the horrible experiences I had while I was teenager 😭😭 I pray God come into my situation and heal me from my brokenness.

I keep saying it that people should not judge others until u are put in there shoes 😭😭😭😭😭😭

She’s so beautiful, even her heart is beautiful because she still speak good about the people that hurt her….I just wish she’ll see a therapist 😌

That is why I don't judge people... If I can't help you I will leave but if can help and I helping without sentiment

Husband material they ask questions sha... He is a deep thinker

She needs an award this is a good life lesson kudos to her I pray God heals her heart

Nigeria is a lawless country.made for the rich,stop bashing her about the husband having custody of her kids,like she said the man has money and she doesn’t how do you expect her to get a lawyer and fight for the kid’s custody,love you Kelly you are a strong lady ❤

Oh my God we share the same dream of building an estate and giving it to the poor to live for free. My name is Chijioke Ezebude

From TikTok 😂😂😂 Anyone?

Bruhhh, this lady is a strong woman, she's seen shege, i hope she gets therapy and heal no joke...

I love her. She has a very beautiful heart. Imagine not being able to hold grudges after all this pain! Ill learn this nne. You are forever protected by the LOVE of the Universe, Kosi

I pray she heals perfectly❤..and this is also an audience for every parents out there learn to spend time with your kids get to know them better and stop making them feel insecure to talk to you about what's going on in their lives and trust me a lot would be made known to you

Seriously I love the way Nedu ask questions, for clarity purposes

I love how nedu seek for clarity with questions 🎉

I agree with Husband Material. God will not use someone that haven't repented or been transformed. You can't mix light and dark.

She doesn’t need a therapist just by doing the content career she’s already healing from her past 😊😂

If you are watching from Cameroon 🇨🇲 react with a heart

hmmmm this one tears go follow ohhh cause i am so emotional Na only God go help us

Truly this lady is a very strong person....I really thank God for your bravery and I pray God continue to bless, provide and establish you more.Amen I love you 🥰🤗❤️

He is not Nice but a manipulative man... He created the nice image he created just to make sure you depends on him

All the way from TikTok ✌️

The most emotional episode for me. ❤ Kosi is a strong lady and courageous. Weldon.

Pple and there hate comments, but anyone making hate comments on her , his or her children will experience this too. Am really proud of her👏👏. Very touching story😔😔. Anyone that has experience manipulation will know better💯💯💯

Her story has molded her to become the strong woman she is now. May God give her a lasting Joy by bringing her children to her one day

All this things started from the family,the family you come out from us very very very important

I love you Kelly Your challenges will strengthen a generation.

When someone that is/was abused start defending his/her abuser, then the person needs huge help…

I don't understand igbo language, but I love the way she spilled in small igbo language to expressed her self. This life no balance at all

Can't hold back my tears. May God heal your pains young woman. This episode got me really emotional.😢

It is deeply concerning that a significant portion of the Nigerian population is facing numerous challenges. I have observed the struggles of many parents who are unaware of the daily experiences of their children. It is disheartening to witness young children, under the age of 10, unsupervised and roaming the streets at late hours. These observations indicate a systemic failure that has adversely affected a substantial number of individuals. It is imperative that we collectively identify and implement effective strategies to address these issues and improve the overall well-being of our society.

Kosisochukwu. You are loved. It will end in praise.

This deep man, literally cried….we Nigerians are wicked, not judging in anyway, but as a family both mum and dad has his or her own role to play to the family and kids….. still forgive and move on.

I insist that this lady still needs a counselor or therapist. Even she will deny that. But is obvious she is holding a lot and needs to heal.

She’s sounding so relaxed and making it look normal. I don’t think she even knows that she was raped and abused as minor.

This is my first time commenting but i have to say this, Nedu you have been asking silly and irresponsible questions. What do mean by "do you squirt"? Asking so many stupid questions.

50:26 NA PIKIN NAW NA PIKIN!! Husband Material Me And You Get Talk.. My brother you are blessed and your type day rare and Alibaba said it when he came and I quote "you are highly intelligent" PS: Only u reasonable people day give this honor to.. much love and respect bro

A mummy G.O at 17😂....crazy things dey sup bruh

This is the best podcast I've watched so far on Nadu's page ❤

This show actually brought me to RU-vid to watch this. God continue to be with u Fockelly

Husband Material and his Introductions are classically funny. Cheers to you Husband Material 🥂

All the way from facebook, anyone?????

Looking at the snippets on tiktok and twitter, one would think she had no message. We all have battles we are fighting. I hope she gets reunited with her kids

Familiar spirits give people visions, dreams, prophecies, and miracles. Be careful! Do not be exposed to demons and think it is God. The gifts of God are without repentance; once given, they are never taken back, but the fruits of the Spirit are the real deal! Foc Kelly, you are loved!!!

Father's are very important in a family... Because my dad was never present in my life I know what I've passed through but even my mom doesn't know.

Nedu I love the way you ask her questions for clarity keep it up ❤

I wish your mum was strong enough. I was 17 when an over 30 year old man wanted to marry me... I can remember vividly even my aunty already accepted but thank God for my mum. The kind craze my mum bin bring that day 😂... She said, them wan destroy her baby life. Poverty is really a disease ooo... I'm 28 now and everyday I thank God for my life that I didn't make that careless mistake. I pray for you, that you heal from whatsoever you're going through. God will see you through

That babe Kelly speak 🗣️ volume ❤I had to bless her, she’s a pillar to many your ladies. The Lord is your strength and pillar IJN AMEN 🙏🏽

One minute fantastic guest and conversation, next minute this type of conversation that is making my brain cells hurt and feel redundant all at once!!!!

Nice podcast, and kudos to the lady that came to the show and pour our all the past experiences she had. I like nedu questions though lol, and everyone there, but Toun was asking a lot of innocent questions lol. Kudos everyone.

Even till now she's still growing, she's not fully matured emotionally and mentally, God bless her

I felt like pouring salt on Nedu's tongue. Haba! Learn to listen kwanu.

Kudos to nedu for trying to make things work between Kelly and her sister. 👊🏾❤

I just want to give her a hug 🥺

Na now I understand when tems said crazy things dey xup

"Coming with Pride" 😂😂😂😂 Honorable

Babe is so young and has a lot of growing up to do, I hope she gets the help she needs to heal and grow. Parents protect your children!!!

The pastor in question is by name Apostle Little - David Foc, General Overseer of Save the World Love Evangelical Ministry Asaba - Delta State..

The fact that I watch this from beginning to end

If given the right mentorship, she will be a good mentor and also a guide to today's girl child. She's strong and beautiful, she's sound and i respect her a lot.

...at the beginning, I was scared for this girl's mental health but, as the show progresses... I learned she is above most of those things wey we call her problem... yes! some unresolved crises, so are many of us, from my little understanding of psychology... she will be alright...

Nedu go use question finish you but no panic 😂

I can’t believe I waited for 6pm just to watch this particular episode 🙈

All love from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤ I’ve been seeing the snippets on Tik Tok and had to listen to this lovely lady’s story. She’s one brave woman❤🎉.

After watching this , i now have another perspective about this girl. U really passed through alot.

She disassociates 🥺 oh God bless her

i love the way Nedu breaks things down... her story is not really clear from the beginning😅

You be strong person no cap! With steeze and courage. I pray you heal 😢😢😢kaiii.... who we offend as women for this life?

Omo sir nedu shout for the knuckle heads,I don follow you for all platforms,love you girl,stay strong

Make i hear say bet 9ja no dey empower youth 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

if every girl/woman who grew up in Nigeria( rich or poor homes) opens up about their molestation stories eh......families go divide, everywhere go divide. the girl child is not safe at home,it's mostly safer outside for some.

This one of the best honest bunch podcast,well done guys

I swear this is a strong woman. I pray she heal totally from all these her childhood traumas

I too like this ezinne woman😂😂

Omo similar to my life story 😢but thank God for today

Omo this is so emotional got me crying, how is she not hating this people fgs 😮… may God heal her and give her everlasting joy…sending her hugs 🤗

Thank you for speaking up, please adults it’s our responsibility to look out for every child 😢

Trauma! Trauma! Trauma!! I feel for her, may she find true healing.

So many unsaid stories and very complicated. I hope we all healed.

The fact she's intelligent is something I admire!

Have learnt so much from this and also I now understand this lady better and I wish her all the best ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤