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Harry Chapin - Cats in the Cradle 

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"My child arrived just the other day,
He came to the world in the usual way.
But there were planes to catch, and bills to pay.
He learned to walk while I was away.
And he was talking 'fore I knew it, and as he grew,
He'd say, "I'm gonna be like you, dad.
You know I'm gonna be like you."
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, dad?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then.
You know we'll have a good time then."
My son turned ten just the other day.
He said, "Thanks for the ball, dad, come on let's play.
Can you teach me to throw?" I said, "Not today,
I got a lot to do." He said, "That's ok."
And he walked away, but his smile never dimmmed,
Said, "I'm gonna be like him, yeah.
You know I'm gonna be like him."
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, dad?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then.
You know we'll have a good time then."
Well, he came from college just the other day,
So much like a man I just had to say,
"Son, I'm proud of you. Can you sit for a while?"
He shook his head, and he said with a smile,
"What I'd really like, dad, is to borrow the car keys.
See you later. Can I have them please?"
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then, dad.
You know we'll have a good time then."
I've long since retired and my son's moved away.
I called him up just the other day.
I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind."
He said, "I'd love to, dad, if I could find the time.
You see, my new job's a hassle, and the kid's got the flu,
But it's sure nice talking to you, dad.
It's been sure nice talking to you."
And as I hung up the phone, it occurred to me,
He'd grown up just like me.
My boy was just like me.
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then, dad.
You know we'll have a good time then." "
/Lyrics from The Harry Chapin Archive at Harrychapin.com\

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@John-zh1ud
@John-zh1ud 2 месяца назад
The saddest part of this song is that it wasn't any one bad thing, but a bunch of little things and he missed it all. No hurt feelings, no family crisis, nothing... just the slow realization of having missed having a connection with his son.
@sanchoporkwiches9871
@sanchoporkwiches9871 Месяц назад
I feel this hard. My dad was always busy working. I kept moving on but eventually one day my dad didn't understand anything I was doing. We are total strangers. He doesn't have many years left I Really need to reconnect with him and make a couple memories before he passes on.
@WillWalker-xo5oq
@WillWalker-xo5oq Месяц назад
I keep a tight relationship with my grandson- because this is how it is/was with my son 😢
@MaximusKW
@MaximusKW Месяц назад
Correct 💯
@Crustypenny-l6w
@Crustypenny-l6w 27 дней назад
Way to late
@ceenina1975
@ceenina1975 19 дней назад
Wow, thank you for that tidbit. I love rock-'n'-roll history. I was born in '75.
@34stzoo
@34stzoo 2 года назад
My 6-year son was at a sporting event over a weekend. I didn't attend because I've worked all week and wanted to enjoy my weekend. I told my wife I didn't have a father growing up and he'll be okay. I was at work one day and this song came on, and for the first time, I really listened to it. I stopped what I was doing and started crying... I never missed any of my son's events after that! Both my boys are out of the house now and I cherish every moment, every event, and every school trip I took with them. Thank you, Harry Chapin, for making me understand how lucky I am to be a DAD!
@audiophileman7047
@audiophileman7047 Год назад
I had the same experience with my son. The song changed my life and my son's life. That's what great music does.
@russvorhees8985
@russvorhees8985 Год назад
We will never meet or get to lnow eachother, but i hage love for you and all the other fsthers in the world, i love my father desrly and as a son i love all fathers. Your comment has warmed my heart. I hope to be a great father some day. God bless you pops.
@brigittebeltran6701
@brigittebeltran6701 Год назад
You are awesome! 👏🌹🙏
@lloydchristmas1086
@lloydchristmas1086 Год назад
As a kid my Dad cheated on my Mom and moved out of state and was never around for a few years..I would hear this song and it always made me sad. He finally came back and ditched that woman and has been around and very involved and suportive since I was in high school..so maybe he heard this song too lol.
@TexasCat99
@TexasCat99 Год назад
​​@@lloydchristmas1086 Great that your dad learned early that he was throwing away something he would never get back. My own father was never around. When he passed there wasn't anything to cry over. I caught my wife cheating and she was removed from the family home. I lose time as a single dad because I work more and it is a single parent household now.. Every time my son goes away for visitation weekends, it angers me. That it is time that is taking away from MY SON. I have primary custody for a reason. I recently had to spend 5 months working 70-hour weeks. I explained to the company that had to stop. I told them my son is asking for more of my time with him and it was no longer acceptable. I take my son to school everyday, and I do school volunteer work so I am there. I taught him things like riding a bike, reading, fix things and he teaches himself computers and Even though I'm in that field, he is able to show me things and I tell him I am proud of him.
@iamella7001
@iamella7001 2 года назад
Thank you to all the Dads that actually take time to spend with their kids.
@USA__2023
@USA__2023 2 года назад
Our children were our # 1 priority. When not working we spent time with them. Camping, road trips, the park... How could a child grow up without that? Too many do.
@TheTaloooly
@TheTaloooly 2 года назад
Sadly not all of them had a good father, some of them usually abuse their family and barely talk to their kids.
@teletuby5338
@teletuby5338 2 года назад
Exactly, this song is the a Opposite idk why people dont understand that. The dad never had time for the kid because too busy, when the kid grew up and the dad wanted to have a litle conversation the kid rejected the dude because he was too busy fo his dad who never gave him quality time except commodities. How fkn sad!
@neilmalyon8784
@neilmalyon8784 2 года назад
His wife wrote the lyrics. Brilliant song.
@davidprovan5650
@davidprovan5650 Год назад
I think you mean about almost all of Dads. The bad ones do not count of Dads.
@rosiegigglesestablished1969
@rosiegigglesestablished1969 7 месяцев назад
I'm a woman. I grew up without a dad and this song has always hurt. Girls just like boys need their dad's.
@greg2976
@greg2976 7 месяцев назад
🙏🙏❤❤
@mickjagger8439
@mickjagger8439 7 месяцев назад
Sorry, I was so lucky to have two good parents, but unlucky they passed away too young. Life isn't fair :-(
@sherylsocia4496
@sherylsocia4496 7 месяцев назад
I am sorry. I can't imagine how you feel. So sad. My dad was around, but we weren't close. Finally, we were able to patch things up before he passed
@sarahmathews3
@sarahmathews3 7 месяцев назад
Same. I was just telling my husband how little girls always pictured time with their dad's like tea parties and stuff. I never had that. My great uncle is the one who taught me to fish and my brother, to throw a football when I was 10. I always get envious of wishing I had a dad. I love this song but I always cry when I sing it too (my siblings are very talented in the nusic department, and I'm also talented in the artist and writing department)
@sarahmathews3
@sarahmathews3 7 месяцев назад
​@@mickjagger8439so sorry for your loss, I couldn't imagine losing my mom. I lost my grams and that has been hard enough on me recently. My prayers and condolences to you ❤❤
@EdLassley
@EdLassley 5 месяцев назад
I once was listening to this song with my son and I started crying. He said dad that’s not about you and me. You’re a good dad! With God’s grace I wasn’t that man though my dad was. My son is now 28 and lives far away. We see each other and talk to each other regularly ! God bless Harry Chapin -Harry Lassley
@daepicpigeon3274
@daepicpigeon3274 4 месяца назад
You are a blessed father. I say this as a 21 year old man with a completely dysfunctional divorced family.
@daepicpigeon3274
@daepicpigeon3274 4 месяца назад
Please set the example for your kids...
@exhibitionistyogapants1220
@exhibitionistyogapants1220 3 месяца назад
same thing happened to me
@tristanzegethm.n7649
@tristanzegethm.n7649 2 месяца назад
Same here, same here. He read my mind as I wondered if I was a ……….😢😢😢
@canwejustloveeachother2550
@canwejustloveeachother2550 2 месяца назад
Beautiful, Mr Lassey. Great health and lots of love to you and your family❤❤❤❤
@thinkingandwondering4725
@thinkingandwondering4725 2 года назад
I am a Young Man. 25 years old and now I am crying like a little girl. Thank you Dad. Thank you that you drove Home 45 Miles evry evening... Just for me.
@SomeGuyWithaPC
@SomeGuyWithaPC 2 года назад
W father.
@Taluta394
@Taluta394 4 месяца назад
❤️
@tonylloy327
@tonylloy327 Месяц назад
Cherish him while you can. As a 58-yr-old man whose step-father was an absolute angel in my and my own kids' lives, I miss him every single day. Still kills me after waking up from dreams of my childhood to the fact that he's gone. Too many words of appreciation and respect that were never said.
@ge2623
@ge2623 3 года назад
My Mom put a quote on her fridge years ago that read: "A child comes into your home and for the next 18 yrs makes so much noise you think you can't stand it.....Then they leave, leaving your home so quiet you think you can't stand it"
@jorgetanchez8754
@jorgetanchez8754 3 года назад
Now that's nice sir...
@jp-mc2bp
@jp-mc2bp 3 года назад
God bless you my child.
@SUGAR_XYLER
@SUGAR_XYLER 3 года назад
😂 I wouldn't know..... *I was smart enough not to have kids*
@ge2623
@ge2623 3 года назад
@@SUGAR_XYLER I appreciate that. Me neither.
@cathyeason9493
@cathyeason9493 3 года назад
So true!
@georgesturdy7040
@georgesturdy7040 26 дней назад
I love the 70s I was lucky enough to see Paul Simon and James Taylor in 2018
@michaelkeeble1480
@michaelkeeble1480 3 года назад
This song is gutting as I can imagine some Dads making this mistake. Im one of the few men that raised their Son alone ( since he was 2 ) Hes now 26 and a better man than I ever was. What more can a Father ask for.
@Psycedilla
@Psycedilla 3 года назад
the mother of my child doesnt want me around him, some fathers dont have a choice. atleast i get to see him every other week.
@colingeddes2172
@colingeddes2172 3 года назад
Huge respect to michael. Predictably this song reminds me of me and my son. Hes 28 now and im glad to say hes my best mate and weve always had a great relationship since the day he was born, , but i know some dads and sons havnt been so lucky.
@kevindisher6252
@kevindisher6252 3 года назад
could never ask for more man from a grown ass man. my dad joined the marines just to get away from his rough come up, i joined the army to pay for college but also to make my old man proud and to go through what he did and to make him proud as the youngest of his 3 sons. one day your son or daughter will see you the same way i look at my dad i promise man. Just seeing his face when i graduated basic training was all i needed to see my dad was finally proud of me and i had earned his respect. whatever you do as a dad as long as youre around the boy will turn into a stand up guy believe me youre doing the right shit.
@DCJUNIOR2000
@DCJUNIOR2000 5 месяцев назад
I heard the saying the other day, When you bury your father, you bury the only man that wanted you to be better than him.
@daborshy4089
@daborshy4089 2 года назад
I feel like it'd be dangerous to play this song on radios... last thing you want is a million drivers sobbing uncontrollably
@RightOnTheBeach-bv6zw
@RightOnTheBeach-bv6zw 9 месяцев назад
Yet it was a top 10 hit before seatbelts were mandatory.
@ARessler95
@ARessler95 5 месяцев назад
Yep. Couldn’t agree with you any more . Me and my dad never got to reach the last verse ir the second to last for the matter . Lost him before I got the chance to show him the type of man he raised.
@nickdean3152
@nickdean3152 3 месяца назад
It gets me every time
@KarenBass8822
@KarenBass8822 5 месяцев назад
This song reminded me of my dad and older brother. My dad was a Church of Christ Minister and he didn't give us much time. I just imagined my brother wanting his time. Always in the Word. My brother died before my father at 27 in a head on collision. I cry every time I hear this.
@GB-st8fp
@GB-st8fp 4 месяца назад
I am truly sorry.
@SharpShooter-NLD
@SharpShooter-NLD 2 года назад
I'm a sergeant in the light mobile infantry brigade in the Netherlands. i lost my child because of a miscarriage i hope he will look at me from above and be proud of his dad.
@FrankyCpunishmentSTYLE
@FrankyCpunishmentSTYLE 4 месяца назад
Yes sir I’m sure he is god bless yall I lost my daughter three years ago, god is good and everything happens for a reason stay safe sir
@damianhawk3
@damianhawk3 29 дней назад
They are with you always
@ericoakes-fr1cp
@ericoakes-fr1cp 5 месяцев назад
I love my sons, and I'll never let this world get in the way.
@anthonyduell2075
@anthonyduell2075 3 месяца назад
Here I sit on fathers day! Listening to mine and my dad's song. He died almost 7 yrs ago. Balling like a baby! I miss you so much dad. Happy Father's day😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@223Michigan
@223Michigan 2 месяца назад
My father passed away24 years ago, was our song as well. Tears in my eyes when I hear this
@AntZvonick
@AntZvonick 2 месяца назад
​I live Gypsy 😊I die Gypsy...😮@@223Michigan
@Tyler-k3v7y
@Tyler-k3v7y 2 месяца назад
I lost my father to about little less than a year and it hurts
@johnlord5303
@johnlord5303 Месяц назад
I lost my dad feb 4 2016. I completely understand how you are feeling.
@AntZvonick
@AntZvonick Месяц назад
@@anthonyduell2075 hey nigga-I let you know the truph- you story had me sad, sad
@michaelbond9953
@michaelbond9953 5 месяцев назад
This song is truly a masterpiece and to all the fathers out there. Tell your children how much you love them and how proud you are of them.
@thomasmckenzie4584
@thomasmckenzie4584 3 года назад
My 13 year old son and I took a 7 week fishing trip this summer and fished every morning and evening together. We must've listened and sang this song together 100 times. I never really listened to the lyrics before. It was the best summer of our lives and I'll never forget it.
@X1mi
@X1mi 3 года назад
best summer yet*
@SoullessxDream
@SoullessxDream 2 года назад
And he'll never forget it either.
@johnsutherland2456
@johnsutherland2456 2 года назад
@@SoullessxDream 0
@kenlovelady7820
@kenlovelady7820 2 года назад
This song is so true!
@SoullessxDream
@SoullessxDream 2 года назад
@@shootmcrunfast better than 7 weeks of working and then coming home to sit on your phone the rest of the evening. Lol
@kaybrewer8348
@kaybrewer8348 3 года назад
It took me to the age of 33 to understand this song...and my dad. I was always so mad at him for never being there and always working. Mom said it was because he didn't know how to love. Now I realize that he worked himself to death because he loved us so much and because he was afraid that if he didn't he wouldn't be good enough Dad you were good enough and I grew up just like you. I am so proud you were my dad and I miss you.
@JavierSanchez-zj6su
@JavierSanchez-zj6su 3 года назад
Even a 7 yo kid could understand this
@quackedout397
@quackedout397 Год назад
Ohhhh this comment hit me in my chest. Yes.
@ValhallaBeckons
@ValhallaBeckons 4 года назад
I'm now faced with my Dad's mortality. This song now leaves me a wreck. Keep your loved ones close, peopIe. I'm nearly 35 years old, and I don't want to lose my Daddy...
@Flips420
@Flips420 4 года назад
I feel you ValhallaBeckons. You take care.
@laurenraziz3032
@laurenraziz3032 3 года назад
I’ve been struggling with my dad getting older too
@Makujah_
@Makujah_ 3 года назад
I've lost my dad a few years ago. He was almost 50, I was 23, my bro was 10. It still hurts regularly and I cope by means of nihilism every time so as not to lose my composure.
@kevinespinosa9178
@kevinespinosa9178 3 года назад
My dad passed almost a year ago and this song kills me. I try to laugh and remember the good times but it's tough....please hold your dad tight. Some of us can't
@vaderjones357
@vaderjones357 3 года назад
It's been 13 years since I lost my dad....it never gets easier...we just figure out how to navigate through life never being the same again...much love to everyone in the club
@MrCjchamp
@MrCjchamp 3 месяца назад
Happy Father’s Day
@Faltzerbeast90
@Faltzerbeast90 3 месяца назад
My pops passed away 4 years ago and this song always hits hard. We lived in different countries at the time and I regret not calling him more. "I don't know when, but we'll get together then"
@cpusftwre
@cpusftwre 4 года назад
This song came out before I had kids and I promised myself, after hearing how Sad this song was, I wouldn’t repeat that mistake. 40 years and two wonderful kids later. I cherish the time We have together.
@Jabermania
@Jabermania 4 года назад
TEKKEN
@BHK0000
@BHK0000 4 года назад
Nice to read one comment of a good story for once, thanks;)
@Black8Sun8
@Black8Sun8 4 года назад
My dad should've done the same but now my parents are getting divorced and now when I'm 16 he suddenly wants to do stuff but now I'm done with him. I want to see him as less as possible
@Black8Sun8
@Black8Sun8 4 года назад
I'm glad your kids have an amazing dad
@jerrysstories711
@jerrysstories711 4 года назад
Did you notice that at the end of the song, he whines that his son was just like himself, when that wasn't actually true? His son has come about caring about his kids. He had time for them, not for the neglectful dad he hardly knew. His claim that his son had come out just like him was one last self-absorbed indulgence in self-pity.
@ltkreg
@ltkreg 2 года назад
I'm reading all these comments and it's obvious that this song has touched more hearts than any other song that has ever been written.
@josephcook9559
@josephcook9559 7 лет назад
this song really hurts me for I wasn't the father I should have been. all you parents please learn from this song. especially young parents. I was only 16 when my son was born. sure wish I knew then what I know now. 52 years ago.
@hunger4jsutice
@hunger4jsutice 5 лет назад
Tell him you are sorry. Tell him you live him. He needs to know.
@ZachVanHarrisJR
@ZachVanHarrisJR 4 года назад
It’s not too late sir. It’s never too late. As sons, we need to hear this. Peace and one love friend
@aaronschecter8498
@aaronschecter8498 4 года назад
I exactly where you're coming from, I was just 18 years old when my son was born, finally reunited after 42 years
@gandalfshakur8235
@gandalfshakur8235 4 года назад
Hugs for the daddy -son duo!
@nutster9000
@nutster9000 4 года назад
Just be around, talk about any old shit & just enjoy life together. Just appreciate him for who he is. I can assure you that you were & are better at being a father than mine ever was. Despite me saying that I was still proud of him.
@dongardner2880
@dongardner2880 18 дней назад
This song is so true. I'm 70 now, and it brings tears to my eyes every time I hear it!
@Rudy.843
@Rudy.843 3 года назад
I cry everytime I hear this song. Life is so short. Time flies. Love your kids unconditionally & enjoy all the small moments !!!!
@gatormark
@gatormark 3 года назад
This song almost makes me cry...every time. There, I said it.
@krismachado3038
@krismachado3038 3 года назад
That's OK!
@buckaroobaizuo25
@buckaroobaizuo25 3 года назад
What do you mean ‘almost’?
@gothfather8741
@gothfather8741 2 года назад
This song can definitely make people cry...it is one of the most depressing songs ever written.
@jfiyibclfjvqdcx6426
@jfiyibclfjvqdcx6426 2 года назад
@@gothfather8741 Not depressing..but the reality of life described in a beautiful way
@francescosalvioli
@francescosalvioli 2 года назад
Same to me!!
@MM-qi5mk
@MM-qi5mk 4 месяца назад
Hurts when your old man face planted randomly from a heart attack when you’re 16. Shout out to all the good dads during their best. You’re the real MVP
@Someyungrebel
@Someyungrebel Год назад
I’m 19. I’ve heard this song all my life, but yesterday it finally hit me how true this song is, and I bawled my eyes out as a result. I’m a splitting image of my old man, inside and out.
@hal-rekabi6724
@hal-rekabi6724 Год назад
Take care and give him a hug.
@ethanmoua49
@ethanmoua49 Год назад
you're a father at 19?
@richardladow4734
@richardladow4734 Год назад
I’m 63, and I still do.😉
@ritahansford8858
@ritahansford8858 Год назад
I’m crying too. It’s broken but hard my son is one of the kindest man in the whole world. Hey, what’s good every minute with me he does everything to help me if there’s never a day and he’s a grown man. That I’m always saying OK honey I’m sorry I’m really busy. I got to do this. I got to do that. I’ve been doing that all my life to my son all of his life. I don’t know how to make up and I will stop being busy 24 seven.
@ausername7470
@ausername7470 Год назад
Give old man by Neil Young a listen
@johncapobianco2527
@johncapobianco2527 5 месяцев назад
My Dad played catch .. took us on trips .. tried to spend time with us. He was ambushed by a serious cancer diagnosis in September and died on Boxing Day that year. I miss him so much. He used to cry listening to this song. His addictions caught up with him and stole 30 years from us.
@rickwatkins7285
@rickwatkins7285 Месяц назад
This is a great song about what was and what could, should be. I lost my father in the 8th grade. He worked 3rd shift. Regrettably, I never got to know him very well.
@davidp7037
@davidp7037 4 года назад
54 now. Things changed for me quickly, I am now wishing and wanting a family of my own. A song of my childhood that now makes sense and hits home.
@bluepower1177
@bluepower1177 3 месяца назад
My dad died last summer. Happy Father’s Day everyone 🤙🏼❤️
@danucciguzman
@danucciguzman 3 года назад
The ideal Father's Day song. All we can learn from this song is to still love and honor our father and cherish the time we still have with them.
@joselugo5915
@joselugo5915 3 года назад
Breaks me.😎😎😎😎😎😎😎
@renatonunes2550
@renatonunes2550 2 месяца назад
So many times as my son grew up I listened to this great song. It tought me some lessons and prevented me from being like the Daddy on the song. BEAUTIFUL.💖💖
@elprado1963
@elprado1963 4 месяца назад
Any Father who listens to this song and has a young Son please take my advice and spend as much time as you can with him because all too soon it’s gone and his life no longer has you in it. It’s just the way it is the circle of life..
@MmM20978
@MmM20978 3 месяца назад
Very true! My Husband abandoned his five sons! They hate him
@johnhamilton7797
@johnhamilton7797 3 месяца назад
“It’s too late, when we die.” The Living Years, Mike and the Mechanics.
@MmM20978
@MmM20978 3 месяца назад
@@johnhamilton7797 it is
@kyleseabaugh6220
@kyleseabaugh6220 2 месяца назад
What if the mother is keeping the good dad from the child
@MmM20978
@MmM20978 2 месяца назад
@@kyleseabaugh6220 What if sons have had it with Dad
@airsickemu5809
@airsickemu5809 8 месяцев назад
When I was 17, I stood at the shed with my old man. This song came on the radio and we sat and sung along, his Dad passed away before I was born and he loved him dearly. Saw him bawl his eyes out talking about the lyrics and how much he missed his Father, my grandfather. Dad passed away 3 years ago this year and I’m 23 now, I’ve got a 7 month old daughter, and I still ask “When you coming home, Dad?”. Miss you, Dad. I love you, Dad. Your boy still thinks about you every second of every day and how different life would be with you here. I listen to this song now and I get how much you missed Grandad. It hurts but I’ll hopefully grow old, tell my kids all about you and make you proud. You raised me and my brothers without the guidance of Grandad, so I know if you did it I know I can too.
@theexiled473
@theexiled473 8 месяцев назад
Beautiful 👏
@matthewryan7281
@matthewryan7281 8 месяцев назад
Yes you can. Great song my friend
@AlexLozada-pe8zf
@AlexLozada-pe8zf 8 месяцев назад
this shit got me crying at work rs
@argenta1933
@argenta1933 7 месяцев назад
Bless you. You were clearly a good son and are now a good dad in your own right. I feel sure both your father and grandfather would be proud xx
@auriannaharrell3057
@auriannaharrell3057 7 месяцев назад
My Dad passed away 7 months ago and I feel so guilty because I didn't have kids yet. But I miss him so much. Love you Dad, JWH the 2nd
@RolfClausnitzer
@RolfClausnitzer 4 месяца назад
Always love this song being so real to life
@mythtree
@mythtree 13 лет назад
RIP Harry. Hug your kids, even if they don't hug you back; someday they will.
@dongvermine
@dongvermine 4 года назад
mythtree Harry was a gangster and a thief
@DrMantisTobboganMD
@DrMantisTobboganMD 4 года назад
Don Workman fuck you
@andyburns5356
@andyburns5356 4 года назад
Sorry about your dad passed away. He was a good Singer.
@Draven-tc3mn
@Draven-tc3mn 4 года назад
@@DrMantisTobboganMD lol
@Draven-tc3mn
@Draven-tc3mn 4 года назад
Also it's almost been 38yrs since he passed away damn
@dannyfont305
@dannyfont305 3 года назад
Beautiful song. I hope to be a great father to my kids when my time comes
@ChoppingtonOtter
@ChoppingtonOtter 8 лет назад
My dad always made time for me, and I've tried to for my child too. We have them for such a short time and they grow so fast every single minute counts.
@mikecory179
@mikecory179 5 лет назад
Yes
@bud7707
@bud7707 4 года назад
It’s like kid teen I gotta go
@nutegunray34
@nutegunray34 4 года назад
big brain
@Flips420
@Flips420 4 года назад
Fuck yes Choppington Otter. Fact. Ugh.
@kaylavillines6881
@kaylavillines6881 Год назад
I didn't understand this song as a kid growing up in the 90s I thought this was some kind of nursery rhyme. Now I do and it makes me very emotional!😥 Such a deep song with a powerful message!
@GamerBoy10095
@GamerBoy10095 4 месяца назад
Anyone listening 2024?
@plbjjmt
@plbjjmt 4 месяца назад
I am
@mikemyers7340
@mikemyers7340 4 месяца назад
YESSS!! This is one of my Dad's favorite songs. He's close to passing away, this song brings me some comfort 👍
@patcollins6520
@patcollins6520 4 месяца назад
I'm still listening to this song lost my son 3 weeks ago in a car accident I can't call my boy no more 💔
@chadwilliams3705
@chadwilliams3705 4 месяца назад
Still jamming
@joylapine9004
@joylapine9004 3 месяца назад
🙋🏻‍♀️
@MrMaddox57
@MrMaddox57 5 месяцев назад
Another legend, and legendary CLASSIC.
@ChuckyD
@ChuckyD Месяц назад
Cats in the cradle: a powerful song written by Sandy Chapin and made famous by her husband Harry Chapin in the early 70’s. It’s haunting story of a father realizing his short comings too late with the iconic refrain, “My boy was just like me.” In consideration of the story line, it seems the boy did have many problems and shortcomings, but in all irony the boy did not become like his father. He seemed to still admire his dad, but when he became a man he understood that his family was now his priority and came first. For those that have felt loss due to family shortcomings, consider that though blood may be thicker than water, how much better is that bond that marinates into your heart and soul. In your definition of family, include those that truly matter, those who as the Clampetts might say, “relax, take your shoes off.” Some may dispute the meaning of the first part of Proverbs 18:24, but almost every translations agrees with the latter, “...there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” That’s the person, who ‘coincidentally’ out of the blue calls to see how you doing-especially when you are not doing well! The person who lifts your spirit, and does not leave you disheartened because of some personal failing. I’m not talking about your dog, though they often put us to shame in regards to devotion and loyalty. It’s the person in your passing thoughts, who was probably thinking about you already. People in our lives will come, and like some with kids, they grow; cherish those of your yesterday, who are still vital parts of your today and most likely to be there for your tomorrows!
@pedrosilvastone
@pedrosilvastone Год назад
Thank you Harry for this song. You made a lot of busy fathers in life realized that spending time with their kids and wife is more important than any job in the world. This song is a real wake up call.
@jalapablocrypto
@jalapablocrypto Год назад
As a dad, this song never fails to gut you. My dad was never around when I grew up, and it hurt so much that I told myself I wasn't going to be like him when I had my own kids. So, for the past 15 years my wife and I have brought the grandchildren around every year, and we all get to spend a few days with him. I'm 52 now, he's got Alzheimer's, but the memories this last decade have been good. He showed me what NOT to do as a father, and for that I am thankful, and love and forgive him.
@ParanormalPiictures
@ParanormalPiictures 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing man my dad and I got into an argument an honestly lots of times we don’t get along or agree an I just wish we could thank you for showing me that I need to forgive him & be thankful for the things he’s shown me what not to do life’s to short to be angry or hold grudges an be upset an not forgive much love thank you
@AndrewLoukidis-jr2bp
@AndrewLoukidis-jr2bp 8 месяцев назад
I was teasing my wife singing this after we dropped our son at college I can say we always spent time with our son and did a lot together But they grow up so fast I wish we had more time where he was young
@jeancasola9340
@jeancasola9340 2 месяца назад
Harry Chapin gave his life to charity it's a shame he died so young. I'm sure when God asked Harry what he had given to humanity, Harry took much of the Lords time that day. Harry was a fine example of what a man can do to help his fellow man. Harry's one of my hero's, thanks for being born.
@jackkintreski842
@jackkintreski842 2 года назад
My son passed away at the age of 10mo in 1998. This song makes me bawl knowing all the time I have lost being with him. Appreciate your children, but don’t spoil them of course. You want them to do you proud.
@keithbyrd-MysticRuby0117
@keithbyrd-MysticRuby0117 Год назад
This song reminds me of my Dad.....RIP Dad....
@alfredroberts5138
@alfredroberts5138 Год назад
:(
@siobhandolores
@siobhandolores Год назад
Always listened to this with my dad. Luckily we have a great relationship. Found out last week I'm having a son and the poignancy of this song is so powerful I find myself crying. Beautiful song.
@genghiskhan669
@genghiskhan669 3 года назад
Sitting here with my 2 month old son crying and hoping I can be the dad he needs
@tilico9499
@tilico9499 4 года назад
When you're dad left to get milk but actually comes back
@mcborris6515
@mcborris6515 3 года назад
My dad would often come back without the milk a few days later, but he would be drunk and have aquired a dog or a ferrett. At least he didnt come back empty handed!
@bennyblanco4696
@bennyblanco4696 3 года назад
you’re either too old to be memeing, or too young to be here 😂. Respect.
@a_man_of_many_screams
@a_man_of_many_screams 3 года назад
*:)*
@leonie5291
@leonie5291 3 года назад
@@bennyblanco4696 lmfaooo
@mikebravo6400
@mikebravo6400 9 месяцев назад
I will never get tired of this song. 3 kids later this still is the best advice of how to raise kids. Be there, be available and always be proud of your kids.
@tomsnyder6955
@tomsnyder6955 4 года назад
This song reminds me of my childhood. I so miss music like that. The '70's for sure.
@carolynjulien6640
@carolynjulien6640 Год назад
😢 I have love this song for a few decades and even years later, it still saddens me and causes me to be tear-eyed. My husband and I have a son and the military separated them during his teen years and just like the song when my husband wanted to spend more quality time with him, our son returned from college and didn’t make the time. And now my son is overseas in the military - LOL. But there is still much hope in the future for some good quality bonding and family time for those two - thank you lord Jesus!
@seangooley8696
@seangooley8696 3 года назад
I wish that my Dad made time for me as I was growing up. He still doesn't even 40 years later he still just works and works.
@marisahauge3288
@marisahauge3288 6 месяцев назад
I have the most amazing husband and my kids love their dad but this is the anthem of their life. He gives them everything, but its so hard for him to give them his time. My dad was the same way with us girls. I find myself being very much like the gr9wn up son. This song still gives me chills and brings tears to my eyes.
@pokedude104
@pokedude104 4 года назад
This song terrified me as a kid whenever it came on the radio I didn't want to get older. Actually older now I realize how lucky i was to have a dad at all let alone one that always tried to make time for his kids.
@dylancolon-r2w
@dylancolon-r2w Месяц назад
I love my dad, even though he wasn’t around a whole lot because he was in the Air Force and worked at later worked at TSA so that kind of sucks you’ve been at my school Father’s Day donuts events. My dad didn’t show up. It was just my grandpa, but I still love my dad know he did his best and was saving people from terrorism.
@SpankyDizzleD
@SpankyDizzleD 3 года назад
Man I tear up when I hear this song because I relate so much with my 4 yo daughter and 1 yo son. I work at a concrete plant 6 days a week 14-15 hours a day so I get home and it's time to hit the bed. I don't want my son to be anything like me in that aspect. I just hope he'll at least know I was doing it for them. With a mix of bad diabetes and breaking back work since I was 14 (26 now) I don't think I'll be around for my son to tell me well catch up later.
@dustinjef
@dustinjef 3 года назад
You sons with remember and love you. I am a child of divorce and my mother kept me away from my father but even I know how much work my dad did for me. And I love him.
@tyrone6486
@tyrone6486 Год назад
What sacrifice, you’re a better man than most. Your son will recognise it better than you ever can.
@TheHbjohnson
@TheHbjohnson 2 года назад
Lost my dad to cancer in 2012, he and I shared a love of music, he could name members of bands long gone, i miss his knowledge, our chats... i was the apple that fell, was caught, we made ourselves a great pie... miss you dad. Xoxo
@arthurbishop3173
@arthurbishop3173 5 месяцев назад
An intensely sad song with timeless wisdom, along with being a cautionary tale. Parents and prospective parents should listen very closely to these lyrics, and decide what kind of parent they really want to be, and what kind of parent they want to be remembered as.
@heirling25
@heirling25 15 дней назад
As a kid growing up in the 70s I had no clue about the father/son dynamic of this song, I just loved the groove.
@amygodbless8544
@amygodbless8544 8 месяцев назад
So I pulled over the other day, to Shazam this song; just wanted to REMEMBER to save to play list. Literally, an old Man with a young man were walking their dog. I asked if they happened to be father and son. Yes, they were. I turned up the radio; should have seen their smiles. Song is endless with time. Brings so much joy. Ty
@michaelrosas9263
@michaelrosas9263 7 месяцев назад
My dad took his last breath 2/26/2023 @ 14:25. This song hit very hard today because it’s true, how fast life goes. Love and miss you Dad. 🙏🏼💔
@christinaspires6817
@christinaspires6817 16 дней назад
Me, too 😭
@pacnwguy9056
@pacnwguy9056 11 дней назад
I'm very sorry for your loss. Oddly, mine passed away on the same day as yours this year. Take care, you're in my thoughts.
@williampingpong
@williampingpong 5 месяцев назад
Just heard this song and it teares me up, im glad my dad was around, and i hope when i have kids, i can be around for them.
@Fu-jb9dt
@Fu-jb9dt 9 месяцев назад
Ty for the real dads that put providing over "spreading time with the kids" cause that leads to dad time being under a bridge
@kelb6073
@kelb6073 4 года назад
This is one of the earliest songs I liked and heard in a car ride as a kid in the 90s. I was so young, I didn't even realize what it was about, I just knew it was sad.
@danielingalls8980
@danielingalls8980 9 месяцев назад
My Father showed me this song when I was just a small boy. He had a massive collection of records from every era and they all number around 3000 records. He had most of Harry Chapins library of albums and always had him playing next to Pink Floyd of course. But looking at my two daughters ages six and two I vow to be as loving, honorable, and brave of a man and Father as my Dad was to me. If there isn't a truer song in all of history it's this one. Peace and love to everyone. And love your parents and children like nobody else.
@audiophileman7047
@audiophileman7047 4 года назад
It is so easy to get busy with life. You even think that you're taking care of your children by being away from them. I'm lucky that I heard this song when my son was still pretty young. It caused me to change course and make more time for him, even when I didn't want to do what he wanted to do. It is about me loving him rather than myself, because he needs it as a growing young man. I also discovered that he's my treasure. He's 17 years old now, and I'm now teaching him how to drive as he prepares for college. God bless you Harry Chapin for writing a song that matters so much. May you rest in peace, dear brother.
@chrislynottcomedy
@chrislynottcomedy 4 года назад
Spot on bud..Well done..
@jeffbieber7870
@jeffbieber7870 2 года назад
Thank you Harry
@michaelcutcher8592
@michaelcutcher8592 3 года назад
My dad died from lung cancer when I was 8 in 1976. In and out of the hospital for months. This song means so much to me!
@jorism
@jorism 7 месяцев назад
Fantastic song. It does describe the exact relationship I have with my dad, but that's ok. That's life.
@colinz24067
@colinz24067 4 года назад
When I was in fricking preschool I’d beg my mom to play this song in the car everyday
@michaeleverwein1688
@michaeleverwein1688 11 месяцев назад
My dad showed me this song and I remember us crying at that stop light now I cry when I take a listen remembering the 7 great years we were on the earth together I’m only 16 but I know that if you have kids make sure you make more than enough time for them as you don’t know when you will be separated
@classichost
@classichost 5 лет назад
You look up, and the next thing you know they are grown. Life has to be lived, needs must be provided, it all goes in a blink of a eye
@Mr102405
@Mr102405 4 года назад
I hate this song. It rubs catch 22 guilt in your face. You want to spend every second with your kids but you have to sacrifice time to provide for them. Then they’re grown and gone
@audiophileman7047
@audiophileman7047 4 года назад
@@Mr102405 This song isn't about putting you down for providing for your family. It's about spending what ever time you have with them and loving them. Even if you're on the road and away from home, isn't it possible to call every night; talk to your children; and wish them good night? It's about taking an interest in them. It's about loving them.
@tymen9989
@tymen9989 4 года назад
Yeah im not a dad so..... Very epic
@donnaodonnell290
@donnaodonnell290 3 года назад
Im so glad in my blink I got to see Harry like 5 times. He passed to young. Such a nice caring guy.
@donnaodonnell290
@donnaodonnell290 3 года назад
@@Mr102405 just think of them first after your day working. Show them live take time make it you wont regret it and I really think the bond is stronger..you think no time I had 5 from 1980 tp 1993. I gave up a lot all of them were good. No real problems all through college. I gave up alot, but it was worth it.
@Vahnskeyblade
@Vahnskeyblade Год назад
My dad died before my kids were even born. He was always in some other state or another, but some of my best Christmas memories as a kid were with my dad. He was also the only person I believed was proud of me with no strings attached. He used to play guitar and sing, sometimes even did gigs in bars. He performed this for me all the time, almost whenever I asked. I played it for him when he was in hospice. Now... I've divorced my own kids mother, and only get to visit them. I tell them about him, as best I can. I try to make sure they know I'm proud of them, no strings attached. I've turned out a lot like him...
@garfieldenjoyer420
@garfieldenjoyer420 2 года назад
I’m going to be 25 this summer. When I listened to this song as a kid, I didn’t really listen to the lyrics. Now when I listen, I think about how much I’ve always loved my dad and idolized him, even though I didn’t get to spend nearly as much time with him as I would’ve liked to. He was always so busy with work and keeping a roof over his family’s head. I know he loves me, but I miss him so much every day now that I no longer live at home and get even less time with him. I cry every time I hear this song and think about how I have hardly any memories of truly spending quality time with my dad. Always either at work or too tired from work. But when he did make time for me, I felt so special and happy, and they are some of the best memories I have. I beg my dad to spend time with me now. I ask him to visit me, I ask him to go to the city with me, I go to visit him and try to pry him away from working at the mill or on one of the cars. I tell him how I listen to this song and I think of him and I, and he tells me that he does the same. And then he tells me how he’s just too busy. He hardly texts me anymore and he doesn’t call. Maybe things will be different one day, though. I love my dad, and I always will. And when he’s gone, it will crush me. He shaped me into the man I am today, even if he doesn’t even know it.
@mikehalpern1439
@mikehalpern1439 3 года назад
When he says 'And as I hung up the phone it occurred to me- he'd grown up just like me... My boy was just like me... -Gets me every time...
@maineh3985
@maineh3985 4 года назад
Love you DAD, Love you SON......thank you harry for singing and puttin in words that i couldn't...... I love you all...💖💖💖🙏🙏🙏
@rustdustguts424
@rustdustguts424 3 месяца назад
This song always got feelings out of me, but it hits different now that im expecting my baby boy this summer
@FunkyDPL
@FunkyDPL 4 года назад
This song hit the radio when I was 7 years old and though time I resolved not to let this happen. 45 years pass, my sons are 20 and 22 now and we still hang out and do stuff together. Sons need their dads, especially once they hit the teenage years.
@matthewpeck4656
@matthewpeck4656 3 месяца назад
When i hear this i think about me and my dad working together on the weekends we did floor fitting together from my age of 14 till 18 and ive now moved away and dont talk that often. so i called him and it made his day
@allanburton8115
@allanburton8115 3 года назад
My dad passed away in July 2009. The lyrics really hit home.
@michelleb1
@michelleb1 3 года назад
God bless.. sorry about your papa
@ozzied-uy6mr
@ozzied-uy6mr 2 года назад
Sorry to hear about that man
@beard3000
@beard3000 Год назад
Man it's true my pops was around cars I push it the next level and my son's will own there own shop got 4 so hopefully they become better than me I'll make sure of it 💯
@danielburns987
@danielburns987 5 лет назад
this song went to #1 on the pop charts in 1974!!!
@aaronknudson7666
@aaronknudson7666 4 года назад
The year I was born. I miss all these Great songs!
@seanr8219
@seanr8219 3 года назад
Ditto
@jjosten529
@jjosten529 3 года назад
This played at my Grandpas funeral, and my dads... I haven't had children yet, hopefully my boy won't find this song necessary to play at my funeral when it comes my time.
@jImMiYwOnTtObE
@jImMiYwOnTtObE 3 года назад
lost my father two years ago, still cry everytime when I listen to this song.
@blairdickey1689
@blairdickey1689 3 года назад
Sucks, me too...
@holydiver1375
@holydiver1375 Год назад
Prayers my friends
@chrispurse3931
@chrispurse3931 Год назад
I had to be the 100 like. Great tune.
@reaper78541
@reaper78541 2 месяца назад
My dad and I had a rough upbringing. I never really knew him as a child even though he was right there next to me. Took ages to finally find out who he was. His birthday was last week. He passed away 10 years ago. I was afraid this song would have been our lives but luckily it didn't turn out that way.
@barrypowell829
@barrypowell829 2 месяца назад
My Dad passed when I was 16 I’m now 67. We didn’t have any time together.
@reaper78541
@reaper78541 2 месяца назад
@@barrypowell829 I'm sorry to hear that was your situation.
@sanddollars23
@sanddollars23 7 лет назад
Great Lesson' -- Some need to hear' When your time is over - and " too late" -- Love You Harry-" A Brilliant writer"- A beautiful song' --
@loribell3983
@loribell3983 3 месяца назад
Beautiful Tribute ❤️
@rnindless
@rnindless 4 года назад
Not a father, not a son, not even a guy. This is just an awesome song. 10/10
@miriamanastasiavirgadaula696
@miriamanastasiavirgadaula696 3 года назад
totally agree.
@frlouiegoad4087
@frlouiegoad4087 3 года назад
WRONG!!!!!! I LIVED IT!!!!! I did NOT go to his funeral! He was NEVER there for me!!!!!! The night mother died! He went with his drunk duds!!!!
@NukesWarshipsBlitz
@NukesWarshipsBlitz 3 года назад
@@frlouiegoad4087 so? There are bad people out there. Dont have to hate in people for your past. I am sorry for you and will pray for you. Also will pray for you to have the strength to not burn your energy on being rude to people.
@Ha1cy0nN1gh7s
@Ha1cy0nN1gh7s 3 года назад
None of that criteria matters as long as you feel the message...
@RepublicConstitution
@RepublicConstitution 3 года назад
You can only imagine.
@Mistamistadobalina
@Mistamistadobalina 4 года назад
simply: one of the best songs of all time. All parents should listen to this regularly!
@sharonj.9597
@sharonj.9597 2 месяца назад
I cry for some reason every time I hear this...
@LegitMan335
@LegitMan335 4 года назад
To all fathers and sons out there. Happy Father’s Day 2020
@cynbartek9324
@cynbartek9324 Год назад
My 1970s childhood is so long ago, and this song is even more beautiful and powerful now.
@BeverlyCatania
@BeverlyCatania 6 месяцев назад
I am 60 years old. When I was 17 I was a camp counselor on Long Island. On my way home during a horrific thunderstorm Harry Chapin had a heart attack in his VW bug and passed away. I will never forget the loss I felt. What a talented man. Hope you're looking down and smiling. God bless
@thispantherwarrior5628
@thispantherwarrior5628 2 года назад
My dad showed this to me when I was 13 yrs old when I snuck out of the house and said listen to this and I cried my eyes out and I still do and I hug my dad I'm now almost 17 yrs old and still hugging my dad like it's the last time I'm gonna see him
@USA__2023
@USA__2023 2 года назад
wow, I didn't know kids still did that. sneak out of the house :)
@kevinjackson8234
@kevinjackson8234 3 года назад
Some songs never go out style and still teach us something.
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