Harvesting Yam - Efforts to Regain My Ex-Husband's Trust When the Single Mother Is Away, Daily Life 

I'm 14 years old, I'm not good at this. I need more advice, Has he really changed 😥😥

The problem is he thought that you wouldn't be able to make it on ur own.Here you are your place is looking good ur looking good so, he wants u to take him back.Don't trust his motive might not be genuine.

Don’t be dumb ! Please don’t let this drunken man back in your lid ! Just remember how he beat you and threw you out of the house ! He broke into your home call the police ! He knows you make money and he wants the money you earn to go get drunk ! A drunkard never changes ! He jumped your fence BUILD THE FENCE HIGHER ! MAKE HIM LEAVE ! CALL THE POLICE !!!👮

You do not live with him daily so you will not know if he has truly changed. You do not see his daily actions you only see when he is not drinking alcohol be very cautious ❤❤

Please be smart follow your heart you are a strong mother because I leopard never changes spot❤❤❤❤👍👍💪🙏🙏

To Laura’s father, your wife is a great woman. With God’’s help and good neighbors she has fought hard to survive without you. Please do not interrupt her greatness if you mean her no good.! Peace and blessings LY, and Laura.🙏🏽

He broke in and only bad people do that. It's not his house. Call the police.

ESTE HOMBRE ES BIEN FRESCO COMO ENTRA A TU CASA INVADIENDO TU PRIVACIDAD TIENES QUE DENUNCIARLO . EL NO HA CAMBIADO NADA TE VA A DEJAR CON OTRO CHICO ES UN BORRACHO ABUSADOR CUIDA DE LAURA Y DE TI BENDICIONES 🙌♥️

Dont trust him and fix you fence higher an put a gate there because he keeps crossing over the fence into ur place.when u make ir fenceput some spikes at the top.

For me plsss don't TRUST him anymore.Think twice its better to be alone with your baby ,just pray to God for your protection and God is good,God will provide a better soulmate for you in the future.Godbless and staysafe.❤❤❤

Please don't trust him, remember that he mistreated you and drinks,think of Laura,she has a happy home with you,lots of prayers for you and your daughter,USA.

Good day,God be with you and your child. Look, you do what is best for you and your child,my opinion is that don't trust him,give a chance to the good man he help you a lot and he respect you and your child, God bless you and your child be safe.😊

Hi Ly don't be deceive by the actions of your ex husband person like him don't change you and your daughter survive the hardship now you are getting better he's coming back think it a thousand times Ly

You have done well alone with your child. Make sure you make the right decision for yourself and your child. Take one step at a time and eventually you will make a good decision ❤❤

He is very cheeky to light a fire and start cooking he is just using your home when he wants and how I think that is being bully into something y you don't want to do

Девочка тебе всего 14. Ты сейчас живёшь своей жизнью. Спокойна со своим прелесным малышом. Не думаеш ,что сейчас придет этот алкаш. Начнет придератся ,тровмировать вашу психику и тем более ребенка. У вас может пропасть молоко которое так нужно малышу в этом возрасте. Не пускайте его в свою жизнь снова. Может вам одной трудно. Но вы знаете ,что заработанные вами деньги будут тратится на вас и ребенка, а не на выпивку мужа. А мы видим с каким трудом вам даются эти деньги. И почему он так бессовесно врывается в ваш дом. Это ваша територия. Надо заявить в полицию. Кушает вашу еду которая приготовлена не для него. А к вам он хочет вернуться, потому что видит что вы сильная не упали духом. Все приодолели построили дом завели хозяйство. А уж если так сильно будет плохо ,вас ваша мама звала к себе. Роднее мамы некого нет . Кто кроми нее пожалеет, приласкает, добрый совет даст. Непускайте этого алкаша в вашу с ребенком жизнь. Маленький ребенок как губка все впитывает. Не травмируйте ему с грудного возраста психику. Да хранит вас бог. От плохих любей

Llama a la policia , quien és ese tipo para entrar en tu casa , que hiciste tú sola , mientras él estaba cayendose de la borrachera🤮🤮🤮yo soy la primera que deji de ver tus videos si ese tipo va a vivir contigo , y los videos te dan dinero

Questo vuole la vita facile. Il lupo perde il pelo ma no il vizio. Stai attenta. Ti fa fare un altro figlio. Poi. Sono cavoli tuoi per crescere. Il bambino. Non fidarti..

Don't trust him once an alcoholic always a alcoholic he never changed he is trying to get your trust back why is he jumping over your fence when you are not there you and your baby is fine on your own he cannot take it that you don't need him anymore rather be safe then sorry God will protect you and your baby🙏❤

No le permitas volver ahora que ve que vos podes sola vuelve no le perdones ellos no cambian así es fácil vos viste todo eso solita no necesitaste de él así que echalo de tu casa

You have been given really good advice, especially from peoples personal experiences, we know how difficult it is for you but take the advice given tell him not to visit when your not home

Esos no cambian hija esta asiendo todo eso para q caigas despues buelve alo mismo y el señor te ayuda xq estas solo el solo. Quiere llegarse a sentar despues de todo loq as logrado y ya el señor vecino no te va aseguir ayudando

Cuídate y no confíes recuerda que te es más fácil con un solo niño , cuídate de no salir embarazada sin tener la seguridad de que el papá te ayude a mantenerlos, es muy difícil que una persona deje el vicio del alcohol tan fácil, está atenta

He hasnt changed. He wants you to give him a place to live and your hard earned money so he can drink. He has shown he has a temper even in front of his mother when she made him leave before.

Be careful with your decisions. Your ex husband is coming back because he sees your doing well with your life and you can live your life without him. Your better off without him.

Gostei muito desse vídeo parabéns minha querida mamãe maravilhosa ❤❤

Дочка не верь пьянице они не меняются. У тебя всё будет хорошо ты уже лучше стала жить мама у тебя прекрасная она же тебя позвала к себе жить ты сказала пока хочешь пожить одна. Дочка растёт ты прекрасная мать, всё у тебя будет хорошо.❤❤❤

MELHOR HOMEM PRA VC É I SEU VIZINHO

Good morning Ly and baby Laura once again you need to make your fence higher no one including your ex-husband have no business coming into your place while you are not home. You need to be very careful you no what you been through and Be careful with your baby she needs to be near you at all time snakes in the woods. For your ex-husband he is cooking trying to get close please please be careful think about what he did tried to burn down your last home now you doing good he wants to come in just be careful and God bless you.👩👶❤❤💞💞💙💙🙏P.S. he needs to be at work why is he there cooking do he work put your money in a safe place.☺

I would not take him back. Once a drunk, always a drunk. He is no good. Please make a higher fence on your property so he can't come in.

Этот мужик очень хитрый! Ему быстро надоест ухаживать и станет прежним!!!! Всё твои сбережения вытащит и опять рыдать будешь!

Hi Ly and Laura, it is OK to consider the advice of others. But in the end, trust God, he will give you the answer, people will fail you, God will not.🙏🏽

Pls know him well before you give your trust. If he realy change.

See what we see she's not homeless any more her and baby's home is beautiful, and she did it with out a man, she is strong, resourceful, takes care of her own bizzness, loves her family, but loves the baby more then any thing else or any one❤❤❤🎉🎉

Don't trust him you never what is his intention take care of yourself and your beautiful daughter be safe god bless you 🙏❤

Youve work jard for what you have dont risk everything you have built for you and your child.

Please DO NOT trust him, he is trying to regain your trust so that he can get his daughter back. Keep him at arms length. Cx

Is this not your landlord property ask him to chase him away or call the authorities please

Hi thi ly. Wow reading d comments i find your followers really care about u. I know u will think n decide wisely. True that leopard never change its spots so taking him back is really a gamble. U deserve a better man not for the status, money or looks but his sincere heart for u n laura. Just continue to have patience n be cautious with your daily life. Take care, we are here to support u n laura. Bless both of u n your helpful neighbor. ❤❤❤

Юная девушка. Нужно сделать новый высокой и крепкий забор. Который защитит тебя ,твоего ребенка, твой дом и твое хозяйство пока нще не очень великое. Но я уверена ты сильная и у тебя все впереди. Ты все преуспеешь. Только без этого алкаша. Он неизменится. Как говорят горбатого только магила исправит. Бывших алкашей не бывает ,как и наркоманов.

No he is not charged. Please take care. It's too fast to have changed. Please let him prove it to you if he has really changed.

Absolutely he is not to be trusted , put a gate, and do do not eat his food

Joven, NO REGRESES CON EL ,TE CORRIO DE DU CASA CON TU BEBE,

No lo quieras , y que se vaya de tu casa , quien le da permiso para entrar en tú casa y tocar tús cosas !!!!! Tu no lo necesitas , que lo pensara antes , el alcohol es muy malo de dejar , ese quiere vivir a tu cuenta y borracho a saber que te hará a ti y a tu hija 😢😢😢😢😢 no lo quieras

Hi dear hard working lady such a sweet baby girl happy you went to see your mom want to tell you don't fall for this man change you are doing fine every thing you do is perfect keep strong and healthy

Não sou ninguém para julgar a atitude dele mais pensa bem antes de voltar com ele porque você é guerreira batalhadora e construiu tudo sozinha Deus sempre vai te abençoar e sua filha linda também 🌹🌹

Niña No permitas k ese hombre vuelva a tu vida un vicioso y mala persona jamás cambiará, estas bien sola con tu niña y invita a tu mama k venga a visitarte y no permitas x ningún motivo k entre en tu casa k te costo hasta un desmayo de hambre y gracias a tu vecino estas bien ánimo k co te conkiste con una comida cocinada x el tu saber hacer tu propia comida denuncia lo x fabor k salga de tu vida el te llenará de hijos solamente todo fácil lo ve k mendigo abusivo😢😊

Follow your heart sweet girl. ❤

CÓMO TU LLEGAS TE COMES ESO SIN DABER LO QUE TIENE NI QUIEN LO HIZO .DEBERÍAS PENSAR MEJOR YA TIENES UNA HIJA 😡😡

Yo diría que no ala primera borrachera la maltrata .y como si nada .le pone otro hijo y la bota. Le permitiría compartir con su hijo .pero hasta ,hi

He sits there like he owns the place you can cook your own food you don't need him I wonder does he even have a job😮

It’s easy for people who have their husbands in their 🛏️ bedrooms to tell you never take your husband back. They are not raising their child alone. It’s hard to know what the right answer is. So making a list of things you like about him, what made you fall in love with him . Next write about the things he has done to hurt you and like him with drinking what does he plan to do to make sure that never becomes a problem again. Talking to him honestly is the best way for you to make the best decision possible. I hope this helps. Sending you lots of love and positive energy .❤❤❤

Não coloca ele pra fora só vai na polícia também faça um B.O contra ele e não aceita ele de volta em sua vida, ele só quer boa vida não te amo fica esperta, bjs 😘 Deus abençoe

Keep ur gate 🔐.

Next time don't leave your child unattended & don't put any blanket or piece of cloth that she can grab & put in her face might she gonna sufucate so danger 😢😢😢😊

Next time you will 2 children ..leave him 2 someone else

Why is there no subtitles in English yet? Please put in subtitles we want to know what is being said. This is like watching a silent movie, not good

Piénsalo muy bien ,el toma mucho licor un hombre así no sirve, piénsalo,tu has salido adelante sola ,y gracias a ese señor que te ha ayudado 🤔

Amiga na ti preocupada com a Laurinha a hora que tiver engatinhando com essa água toda no buraco perto da casa vai ter que cercar tudo para ela não cair aí dentro

Olá BOM DIA querida o pai de Laura já tá invadindo a sua casa vc acredita que ele mudou ou tá tentando te enganar fica de olhos abertos te acompanho der de que seu marido expulsou vc e sua filha de casa tenha muito cuidado vc é uma boa mãe è especial trabalhadora Um forte abraço pra vc e sua filha DO BRASIL ❤❤

DON'T TRUST HIM HE SHOULDN'T JUST WALK IN UR HOUSE N DO WHAT HE WANTED HE THINKS U ARE STARVING

Nemojte mu vjerovati Bog vas blagoslovio od ♥️ iz Hrvatske 🌹

sneaking into your home when he is not wanted there is not change. He should wait at your gate if he is changed. Wow he is going to cook while you do the hard labor with your daughter.

How can you be busy at someone's house when she's not there...that's disrespectful...ybus he bothering you 🤔

Советовали этой хозяйке удленить и повысть большой забор,чтоб никто незалазил к ней и оберегать поросят,их могут украсть,почему то ворота закрывает на замок,а дверь в доме не закрывается.

If you could buy a pop up playpen like another lady has for her children and she takes it with her and some toys and a snack and drink and the children are safe and sometimes they play with their toys and roll about or sometimes they fall asleep It is a great idea and safe for the children

Sana all.grabipo pinapanoodkopo siya kanina nagloloto grabipo Ang bilis.

😥 fiquei preocupada achei q vc nao comeria, jesus fiquei com medo q ele fizesse maldade com vc.....se cuida Li por favor tome providências, desconfie sempre, esta sendo lobo em pele de cordeiro......vc é uma crianca q vence mais q certos adultos......vc é boa comerciante vende tudo o q propõe......por favor se cuide e q Deus guarde e proteja vcs.....menina linda essa bebê e vc tbm......👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😘😘💐❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ gratidão por seus vídeos.....nao parem de gravar isso ajudará mto 😘

Grabi Po lomakinapo Ang anak Niya gomawana siya Ng paraan para mahalin moolit.ikaw Ang mag disisyun hindepo Ako.

When I saw you put back the yam head I smiled because next year you come you can get yam , this yam is very expensive I could eat this yam seven days a week. Look at husband when you were with he carry his friends to eat of your food and turn around and throw you out now he can not get any pum pum he come playing nice guy,he just want what is between your leg’s.

I have been following your story and want you to know I admire your life skills and see you are brave and a beautiful person .Your child is fortunate to have such a sweet loving mother . Your husband appears to be sincere . Hold your ground to protect yourself and your child . I realize in your country things are different and I will pray for you to have favor with the Lord where he will show you what you need in your life. I will continue to follow your story and want the best for your family. God Bless all of you ❤❤

Glad to see you have a seat for the baby.

You went through to much to give in just like that he is not worthy to you and your daughter 😮

Que coisa mais fofa ❤❤

An expression is that a leopard never changes its spots. Visiting at night time and at your house is not good.

Make the fence higher and the gate more secure

Que Deus abençoe a sua vida é seu bebê ❤❤🥰🥰😍😍💝💝

My advice is this…. You got married way too young,had a baby and a divorce to managing things on your own. I think you need to stay as you are…. On your own with your baby. Discover your life and raise that sweet baby! If he brings things for you all,which he needs to help support his child too!! But that does not mean you reconcile with him!! Remember what he did to you in the past and how afraid you are of him?? You both need to grow!!!

Почему одно ребёнка оставили? Какая глупость😮😮😮😮😮

U need to be more careful for the sake off ur lovely daugther stand up for u and ur daugther dont be scared off him report him to tje police if he step over ur boundries u will do better on ur own with ur child keep her were u can see her build higher fence so no one can climb ober in ur yard put the pogs in ur uard put fencing around ur pigs and bathroom please dont be so free

Do not let him back in your life and baby you are doing very well without him do not let him back

Hallo Hallo meine Beiden lieben Süssen Mäuse es ist so schön euch so gesund und munter wieder zusehen freue mich immer riesig auf ein neues Video von euch habe euch Beiden lieb liebe Grüße von deiner Freundin aus Deutschland ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Ly if i were you i will make my fence higher so that your alcoholic husnand cannot passed through your fence, and don't believe him that he is good now, you know why because he see's that you can make yourself a living and can raise your child without him so pls don't thrust him, your a smart and brilliant mother no need to have another child, just make your fence higher so that he cannot passed there godbless you and your little laura....

For me dont trust him anymore. Its better to be alone with your only one baby.. think million times. Your ex husband is coming back because he sees your doing well with your life..he made mistake, and he did it again and again when you can't see him. Please Don't accept him anymore.

Hello sister your husband is not change he came to you because you are the real doing well everything on your hands don't allow them to come between you and your child, he is abusing you and kick you out of the house now is coming to your house don't take him back and at the end of the day you will regret, and don't live your child alone carry them at the back please my dear God bless you and your son

Lindaa as flores 🌷 🌺 🌹 💐 🌷 🌺 🌹 💐 🌷 🌺

Who does he think he is helping himself to your kitchen and thinking he can just come back and be boss of you and than go back to his ways please keep him away you don't need his food you are doing just fine by yourself honey becarefull lady you are better stay strong blessings to you and your baby ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Please dont trust him if you accept him he will repeat again what he did you are ok now you are amazing you build your own house and your surroundings you made it beautiful so no need to accept him you are doing a geat job so please dont accept him ok take care God bless you and your daughter ❤️💕💕💕

Esta chica tendría que hacer un muro más alto en frente de la casa. Este ex entra y sale como pancho por su casa. No me gusta. Es una falta de respeto,por más que le dejé la comida lista. Ella no le pide nada

WHY DOES SHE NOT GIVE THE BABY SOME SOLID FOOD SHE IS BIG ENOUGH TO EAT IT AND IF SHE MINCE SOME OF THE VEGETABLES AND RICE AND FISH TOGETHER THE BABY COULD EAT SOME AND IT WOULD NOT NEED TO BE BREAST FEED SO MUCH THAT WAS A LOT OF FOOD FOR ONE PERSON

Levanta más tu cerco para q no pueda entrar más

사람은변하는게아니에요고쳐써야되지

Your daughter looks just like her dad....

You’re only 14 years old you have many many chances to find the one. A Nice man, NOT an alcoholic man. A man which is responsible and a kind, he can loves you both with your child.

Esse seu ex, está se fazendo de bonzinho, para ir morar na sua casa. Depois ele vai voltar a repetir todos os erros de novo, ninguém muda assim de uma hora para a outra. Fale com ele não entrar mais na sua casa. Ele tem que ficar do portão para fora.

Definitely better off without him ....u will find alot better man than him that will love respect an work with you

Plus the baby should be eating baby food. Not only breastfeeding

like mother like daughter her mother is also hard working woman and also quiet , loving she does not like to see her daughter in pain , she love her and the granddaughter too much

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If you dont trust him why you eat the food😮