People can do and date who they want. Quiet as it’s kept, single childless men give a lot of grace to women with just one child and vice versa. One child is typically ok. It’s when it’s more than one that there’s issues and worries
And that's honestly true they think oh I can have babies forever and everything they don't know that they are called for most babies coming out with issues. Even my doctor told me if you decide to have children later in life it will be best if you go younger. What he was meaning he was basically telling me get a younger man
It is….and schizophrenia, birth defects and premature birth. Their sperm is on a rapid decline by age 35. Speaking of autism, diagnosis has increased from 1 out of 150 in 2000 to 1 out of 36 in 2020. The avg age of dads in the 70s use to be around 28 and over the last four decades it has increased to over age 30. The causation implies correlation.
Very true. Men tend to tell on themselves when they talk about certain types of women a lot, even if it’s negative. Talking about someone a lot = always on their mind
This is wild. I’m dating a man with a 9 year old and never thought all those vile things about single dads. You don’t see women trashing men like this online calling them wasted goods. I buy his daughter stuff all the time she isn’t a waste of resources just because I didn’t give birth to her. The way they think of women and children is gross.
It’s just another way for them to try to “humble” women and try to manipulate women. It’s the same thing with marriage. They love throwing marriage in women faces even if they have no intention in marrying any woman. The irony most of them were raised by single mothers. And time and time again they are exposed to be dating single women and making women single mothers…….
Very gross. If you love someone who has a child you should open your heart to loving their child as well. And to think of a human being (especially women since these attacks are always towards single moms who take care of their responsibility while the fathers are absent) as “damaged goods” is appalling. Having children doesn’t diminish who you are.
You may not think that way about men however they absolutely WILL use a woman (like you) to take the weight off of him when he’s supposed to be the one raising his kids as a single father to lambaste & disrespect the mother of his children because he has a girl friend, wife , step mother, mom, sisters, grandmother, aunts & female cousins to take over HIS responsibility of his children when the mother has less support while raising them. So that’s why they don’t value taking care of another man’s child but want another to help him raise his.
@@Anna-vi8jl so many women don’t think about this. I have seen what happens to not only the men that don’t take care of there children but the women the man stays with. Stepmother that husband or boyfriend that had a baby outside the relationship. When you decide to stay and you make it hard for the man to take care of his child, you will suffer right along with him. It may not happen today or tomorrow, but it will happen. Read your Bible people
They do like single moms. I was dating a white guy in college who told me “I’m too independent” because I had a lot of financial support from my family through college and he didn’t. He married an unemployed black single mom at the time with a black daughter and had two more kids with her. He’s a well to do electrician and she’s stay at home mom. I Can’t make this shit up. They love single moms ladies.
@@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 Yes, I was baffled as well and slightly hurt at the time. I asked him why was he so crazy about her he plainly said he comes from a single mom and so she was good at needing him. It’s literally an ego thing. This stuff is a game. Can’t even be myself out here without unintentionally being intimating. You have to play the “damsel in distress” or be single pretty much.
2 out of my 4 exes were dating me when I was a single mom and I have come to realize that at least one of them was into red pill content as well as many other men I have been on a date with.
Idk how anyone can really be sitting and listening to this negative ish consistently. No wonder they're all unhinged smh. The greatest thing they did for women is reject them for their standards. Saved us a lot of drama and headaches 🙌🏾
I am very glad the manosphere psychosis exposed itself and the goons became vocal about how awful they are. Makes it easier for women to spot the losers and avoid them
As a black single mom, my child’s father is an anesthesiologist, and my child just came back from studying abroad, they can call me whatever the want bc I sure as hell don’t care😂 ladies these men need not apply nor do they even qualify to be a “baby daddy”
A single Mom I knew was never without a man. They might not be quality men but hey! And yes, they would be wanting to move in and play house - quick! SMH.
That’s so dangerous to do when u have a child. I don’t understand why some women prioritize peen over their children and peace. Will never understand that. Especially if they’re not “quality” men
Yanie you are correct. Those hate filled weirdos do “love”single mothers but unfortunately not because of a savior complex. They love having access to the child! And the desperate nature of the single mother may be easily convinced and allow them ro be able to use and or abuse the woman and child or children at will.
@@Allison12321 That's the same thing I was thinking. Donovan kept going on and on about how "beautiful" his teenage "niece" is. It was very disturbing. Very inappropriate.
Many were already at odds with the rhetoric Sharpie and Fresh and Fit pushed. It was just a matter of time before they said something. Toni and RcBlakes were the first two who went against what was being pushed by the manosphere but without actually calling them out by name. Many white “red pill” men weren’t feeling these guys either, they just kept it small. Many black men seem to do the red pill out of pure hate for both men and women. They get to speak ill about women while simultaneously making money off sad, broke men, who are mostly of color because they seek guidance
@@td4079 taz exclusive battled single handly alone didn’t nobody help way before it became popular them for years and years and still now ppl may not accept his harshest criticism ,facts,Data & history & he tries to be fair & balanced to women or he went into majority of all their spaces to battle them
I have zero idea who tf this dude is, but why does he think it's ok to be in a 14y/o business? Exposing which kid she's crush on. The poor thing must be embarrassed to no end.
😅😅😅😅he looks like those grown men who live with their parents, and stay in the basement bedroom, play fortnight and eat sandwiches made by mommy all day 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️and barely take showers.
I got married at 25, I am 31 today and I still believe that it is young. I didn’t know myself enough and I didn’t even know how much trauma I carried within myself. My husband and I gave ourselves the space to grow, change , heal and discover each other all over again. So yes, you can get to know yourself while being married but your spouse has to also be committed to the process and grow as a person to remain fully yoked.
No I think she was okay with him hiding her age, her kid and speaking to her like that so that he could make money off of lonely angry men. I think she is now paying for everything but I think she was definitely going 50/50 on everything. She kept quiet though so he could make money, so people trying to figure out how she felt knowing he was lying, she didn’t care. She knew he was a fraud and they would probably laugh about it. They for sure made skits though, remember she was an “employee” of his.
Why are they proud about doing drugs and paying for xes? That's their defintion of high value? I feel bad for the xes workers.. ick! Same with Fraud and Funky they literally pay for those basic ig and pay for play girls to come on their show - arguing & disrespecting them on camera/live just to sleep with them before sending them back on their flights. They are so weird. Who is taking these men seriously? Who?
I have a 17 year old nephew if you deal with teenager boys and you hear how much they lie to seem cool to their supposedly cool aunties and uncles. That's exactly how these guys sound "I drink with 7 club owners" lie
Yanie be careful with that individual , he did come for me and I’m not even a RU-vidr , plus all his black women hating fans will also try to give you a hard time
31:12 I had to tell one guy. “Sir I’m not arguing with a strange man online sounding like Tamar Braxton.” He literally told me to “get your life” I blocked him because absolutely not.
I fell down the manosphere rabbit hole during COVID out of curiousity and boredom and while I found them hilarious, they're overall disingenuous and hate women for whatever reason.
There’s a woman called the happy wife on here and she is the most toxic of everyone in the redpill space in my opinion. She claims to be reaching out to women married to ‘good men’. That basically men are inherently better than women in every way, even parenting, and women should cater to their every need. She is gassing up so many potentially abusive men it makes me sick. Like Pearl, she gained a following quickly spewing the same few talking points over and over. Which all evolve around blaming absolutely everything* wrong on women while saying women take no accountability for anything. She calls herself the worlds happiness expert if that tells you anything. There is money to be made off telling men they don’t have to better themselves. Lastly, her male mentor is obviously running the show. It’s bizarre.
I am 26 with one child and I see that shit with other women my age and I just cannot stand when they bring up shit from the “manosphere “ idk what any of that is and please don’t piss me off
I have a similar experience with body count and my virginity. They deadass don’t believe you. They think of you like they think of themselves as if your goal is to sleep with as many men as possible
What you said about accountability is what I have been waiting for someone to articulate for so long. It’s such an overused word but I don’t think a lot of people understand what it really means and you expressed it so well. 🙌🏾
I will never understand why women sit up on Funky and Fraudulent just to be degraded. They ask questions in bad faith and constantly move the goal posts.
30:42 Omg Yanie, thank you! Ever since I started consuming "gender war content" I feel turned off about these guys participating in it. Too much yapping, too much clap back, they get loud... like women! Such a turn off. Just stop guys! Just stop!
His cap is 🤮. All these men seem predatory. Talking abt virginity, their step daughters, younger women. I need women to be suuuuper careful abt the men yall bring around your children.
It's crazy you titled the video this... Just yesterday I talked to my husband about the audacity of the world today... And how I ain't taking this isht no mo 😂😂
If she likes it then what else is there? Women have so much knowledge at their disposal. There is no reason for any woman to settle for rubbish in this day and age.🤷🏿♀️
The whole concept of what they’re teaching is nonsense from the beginning. They’re always talking about alpha men this alpha man that well alpha men don’t stand in front of ring lights and camera phones and cameras all day. Shouldn’t they be out doing manly things?
All the manly men I know that I was raised learning from don’t care to use social media😂 and those that do are there for very specific reasons. My moms husband created a Facebook to post pictures of her to save space in his phone and buy boat stuff on marketplace😂❤he has no clue this side of the internet even exists
This man does not know what women should do..marrying at any age is hard..I don't recommend marrying very young..How many men in their twenties are really ready mentally spiritual & financially to be a husband.....
I am a single mom of one. Weirdly I have gotten approached so much more when I have my kid with me than when I don't. I've always found that very bizarre.
@@michael10613 I also think some of them have mommy issues. My mom was a single mom and all of the dudes she dated would always say we’re too close and that we spend too much time together (I think I was 5 at that time she started dating). And they see how she would cook for us and clean and then try to come into that and take over and be controlling and want her to do that for them. Like um we’re her kids, she’s kind of supposed to do that.
Yes because plenty men are pdf files. They see you and assume you are a desperate single mom who will do anything for a piece of meat-meat and will pull out alllllll the stops. Just to get in trusting proximity of your kids either to “compete” with the child or harm them or BOTH.
Why do they all speak like that? This quick monotonous glitchy robot tone.... Is this the pace of a liar trying to sound like they telling the truth? 😂
I can nvr get over how gorgeous you are ma'am. I'm not going to lie, I was choking this whole video 😂. At 31 yrs old, I be rolling my eyes at these men. They are backgrounds, weird, and just off. The advice you gave about doing the opposite of what they want is spot on. They know that the older a woman gets, the easier it'll be for her to catch on to their bs. Young sisters, PLZ watch and learn from older women. Watch how these men move, they're always going to snitch on themselves.
These men contradict themselves so much, and when men from the general public spew the same nonsense, and you talk common sense to them...their speechless. The number of times I've called out the hypocrisy of these podcast men and guys have been like " oh well when you say it like that.."
Yanie, I am so thankful for your content because my father age 60 has been in this black manosphere since Covid , he’s even became a passport bro . I have tried to just love who he once was -a strong, inspirational black man who taught us to love ourselves and love our people. But now he spews so much hatred for “modern” black women and our relationship has been in the gutter for 2 years. Recently I had to stop talking to him for something else but I feel his feelings on that separate situation was based off how he feels being in this manosphere. Also I’m 25 a single mother of a almost 4 year old baby boy and I can attest they love single moms . But I don’t play that shit at all I’m very no non sense and like I said my dad was once a great inspo to me so there’s a lot he taught me not to allow or accept from men . I’ve had a couple of low points but most of the hobosexuals and men like this don’t approach me because they know they can’t run games on me . And I don’t allow anyone around my child . And side note if he is a Leo man it explains a lot although I like Leo’s as a libra woman ; my dad is a Leo and they are dominant to an extreme depending on the one you get . They wanna control every aspect of the conversation or situations and can definitely ignore or not acknowledge what you’ve been through .
This wedding 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 who was a guest to this? Why are there tables like it's a presentation? Sis wrote vows? She wrote vows 💀 Is this real life? This can't be someone's real life.
So they mean talking point for getting married before 30 if you have a better chance of having kids. But then also your value drops once you have kids and also say no to single mothers which is what they'll be if they get married before they know themselves as an adult yep they prove their point that makes absolute sense😅
I can’t believe this woman allows this man who looks like he negotiated his place into earth, who has a criminal record, who publicly humiliates her… chile I’m in South Africa watching this… this man is humiliating her in front of the WORLD, continually denying her, talking bad about women who look like her… HOW does she let that man stay in her house or have access to her body. The low self esteem here from him but mostly from her is the saddest thing ever
Good stream. Like many movements, it went downhill/extreme the moment it becomes mainstream. I agree with you on dudes not wanting too many kids. I want to be blessed with two at most but maybe when I am closer to 35. I have a family member that I house (immigrant family as he gets going here in USA) and he’s about my age (31 ish) and I look at that dude like 0.o……you always going to be poor/working. He not only got a kid here (my baby cousin’s kid) but he ended up with another woman in Dominican Republic and got another lol.
I’ve been watching your channel for a while now honestly about 10 years. I’m 26 I just recently about a year ago just started dating again. For the past maybe four years I’ve been just working on myself and just loving myself. These past four years have been awesome honestly being single I have gone on some dates, but overall just being single. I haven’t had any sex Over this time. I now know what I want in a guy and what I’m looking for and I am finding better matches as I go along on dates. I feel like a lot of girls should date themselves just learn ourselves more and get to know yourself and love yourself. Because when you get Into a relationship if you don’t love yourself, you’re going to settle and just constantly think bad about yourself in that person or that guy may take advantage of you.
I'm a black single mom and I'm a lawyer, my child's dad is an accountant. We are great co-parents! This stereotype that all single moms are poor, struggling, and all made awful choices is just dead wrong! I know some married women whose kids don’t have a dad as good as my child's dad.
Men may not necessarily leave relationships. But they do get killed, they do get incarcerated, they do get fired from their jobs, they do get injured in accidents. So why would a woman not want to have something to fall back on support not only herself but to support her family if something were to happen like that?
Also YANIE can you cover HINDZ. He’s another “popular RU-vidr” who’s all about spirituality and was just exposed for cheating on his wife with his 21 year old assistant…… these “men” really be out here FINNESING YOU HEAR ME 😂
Wait a minute I think I remember a video where he told his yt girl that they wasn't going to do the nasty until she loose weight. He was looney for that.
👀 The idea of that woman spending the *rest of her life* with this terrifying man gives me anxiety. Does she already know she is making a mistake? Watch her face….this is a mess.👀
@@CharlesPinkett-b7g So you agree….99% of men are Pookie and Ray Ray😂😂 So the only way to avoid ending up as the baby momma of Pookie or Ray Ray is to avoid men altogether.😂😂😂 Thanks for driving my point home sir.
Chileeee I’m at work with a damn headache and stomach hurting because this whole video took me Tf out lol 😂 ….. but I will say She ate up that wedding dress though .. NOT GOING TO LIE 🤷🏾♀️
Hello Ladies, This was a great episode, I can’t wait to see the entire series. There were great points made. I can’t believe me actually listened to this man. Ladies, when it comes to the matter of children Yanie made a great point. Some women will want kids regardless, but I do think women should stop having kids. Expertly black women, more of us die doing child birth, these men really don’t want kid. More than 70% of black people only make 40K a year. Not many people are willing to work two jobs. This is sad. I went to pick up something to eat and there were over 10 guys sitting outside in 98 degree weather, next to the local dive bar. It’s hot as hell outside. You would think they would go inside the bar where it is cool. There is no cover charge, order some food or a drink and chill. But no they broke as hell and don’t want to be at home with baby mommy. That’s sad as hell, it’s to hot for over ten grown as men to be sitting outside.
That's sad asl I don't have kids and not even 30 yet but make 13k monthly and don't have to leave my house but I wish them the best cause nobody wants a bum
I feel you on that Yanie the more these dudes talk the more I don’t want kids or be married. I’m happy with the decisions I made long ago. Looking back I was with bums my younger years imagine if I got pregnant by one yikes. 😳
