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Brothers and sisters, where are you from? Muslims. Peace be upon you, the mercy of Allah and His blessings ... what do I want to say? sometimes we find ourselves in a stressful situation when people around are tense, the atmosphere is hot, something is going wrong, people are seized with anxiety, perhaps on a trip or for family reasons, everything is not going very well. You may not believe it. But what do I do in moments like this? sometimes, not always. not all the time. I do not mean such deplorable situations as death, accident, something terrible, I mean something less serious. I'll give you examples soon. in such a situation, I usually try to make people laugh, at such a moment I try to make people laugh. you might think that sheikh hasan ali is crazy? but seriously, it worked. I have done this several times. one day we went to the hajj. and on the day of the Hajj we returned from Mecca directly to Mina. in fact, it was a very long ride in a vehicle that did not move, with 1,000 to 10,000 cars. all cars have engines on. exhaust gases penetrate through the car windows. but there is no air conditioner. Imagine the windows are open, the exhaust gases CO carbon monoxide gets, hour by hour, 4 hours on the road from Mecca to mine. Usually such a route takes about 10-15 minutes, but because of the Hajj it all took a long time. and we're in the midst of it all. and do not drive back and forth, people are tense. There were 8 of us in the transport. and you know what I did? I know the time of the Hajj. just to cheer everyone up. in fact, I could say: leave the car, get out. and now the blame falls on me. allegedly you ordered, you are an imam. I'll do something. I will please everyone with jokes. I wanted to mix them up and the whole trip the remaining 2 - 3 hours until Mina herself lasted with joyful faces. they were happy. we had a great time together. except for one guy who was just no positive, just didn't want to smile laugh.
I want to say. Some people, they're just sad people. Suppressed. If you are one of them and they joke with you. Sometimes even when someone is joking, some people go crazy. do not want to laugh. sad people. they want to sit like scientists. important ones with glasses. sit and try to dissect the whole joke. it's not funny. it's not funny. smash everything to pieces. no no. do not laugh. I have a bad day and you may have a bad day. what's the matter with you guy. let people laugh. if people want to be happy, to be joyful, then don't bother them. let them be joyful. are you having a bad day? go sit in a corner and savor it further. let people be happy. sometimes there are such people. themselves are suppressed and want to suppress others.
Once I was in Spain, we went to the mountains and got lost. No navigation. The navigator doesn't work at all. In the middle of the mountains. Really scared. It's night time. About two in the morning. If we fall asleep and fall, there will be serious injuries. 9 people in one van. The same number in the other. And I said to myself: you know what, now I'm going to make them laugh. After all, if you are sad at such a moment, then God knows what you will decide for yourself. The genies will seize us, this will happen. And you know what? We just laughed heartily. After all, you are defusing the whole situation. And everyone mentally disconnects from the situation. And I did it even with my wife. When I saw that she was depressed.
I saw that something was going wrong. Sometimes we argued and in the middle of an argument, I make her laugh. I made my wife laugh. And she laughs. Says to me: oh you are so and so how could you make me laugh? when I'm in such a bad mood. And she laughs, her mood changes. And now we are both normal. And he did it more than once. This is a very good way to bring a person back to normal from a negative mood to a positive one. I don't do this all the time. Understand correctly. Not that I'm joking all the time, I'm laughing. But you can use this mechanism to make people happy, happy.
Psychosomatics from Ibn Sina (Avicenna): if you, future healthy, start to pump up (tell me not good, unwell ...), then you will get sick in a matter of minutes; and vice versa, if a person encourages himself (I'm fine, I'm better ...), then he will pull himself out of a sick state, radiating joy and positive. Brothers and sisters, it is all within you. The bore will whine, cry Find a positive. JazakaAllahu hayran Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
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8 мар 2017