'Hashtag Drama' Full Ep. 4 | Marriage Boot Camp: Hip Hop Edition

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Love watching Waka and Tammy’s relationship on Marriage Boot Camp? Tune in to the ALL-NEW SEASON of Waka & Tammy: What the Flocka Thursday nights at 9/8c on WE tv. Catch up on what you’ve missed here: allblk.tv/wakatammy/
The stars are put on blast when a surprise press conference digs up dirty laundry from their social media. Later, the couples are ambushed by a wife swap! Jealousy wreaks havoc over the house when old flames, Lil’ Fizz and Nia, are reconnected.
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Four hip hop couples face the music when they are tested at Marriage Boot Camp by Dr. Ish & Judge Toler. When dark secrets are exposed, will their relationships survive?

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@keiabrianna3070 Год назад

i love how supportive tammy was to dime during the press conference aww

@taysmiith Год назад

and how she fixed Mo's lace at 7:25 - 7:30

@tiarathomas3500 Год назад

@@taysmiith I peeped that too! Tammy definitely a real one

@GodBlessedThisBod Год назад

Tammy is one of the realist. I love her and Waka together… considering that no relationship is perfect lol

@ifbbprotia3636 Год назад

Yes I'm glad they made up when they had a lil spat at Tommy's party. ☺️

@marii2prettyy831 Год назад

@@ifbbprotia3636 yea it sucks they broke up

@ronnie_nichole3885 Год назад

Crazy how none of these couples are still together except Dime and her husband❤️

@Swing93. Год назад

Oh they got married?

@nyianextdoorr Год назад

Exactly

@keepingupwith_moe Год назад

They not married. They’re just a couple.

@keepingupwith_moe Год назад

Ain’t none of these people together they on here for a check

@chinequiaancrum8123 Год назад

Wait Dime n her husband broke up😢

@user-sh2rc5kc7x Год назад

One thing i ❤ with Tammy is that she used her time with Sean to give advice and offer up Jessica's perspective on things as best she could

@XahariaBae 5 месяцев назад

Rtttt

@NA-sv6so Год назад

The girls giggling extra hard with fizz sitting there upset 💀💀💀💀 LOVE it! Plus Waka being EXTRA sweet & petty 💀💀💀

@Spotgeekyjones Год назад

Fizz annoys me more than Souljah like he's not available emotionally AT ALL

@treybaybie1526 Год назад

@ Asia, his attitude was so disgusting 🤮

@Spotgeekyjones Год назад

@@treybaybie1526 yes it was sis 😩 cringy like how is this a relationship...

@treybaybie1526 Год назад

@@Spotgeekyjones 100% agreed. It made it uncomfortable to watch

@stellarose9191 Год назад

I believe Fizz likes men and is projecting so people can't see who he really is.

@gina0701vipt Год назад

Fizz has been thru some stuff with Chris Stokes and Marques Houston. I to believe Razz that he was SA too. If he ain't got that taken care of internally, I understand why.

@selenayvette15 Год назад

Not Lil Mo saying “ I thought Chris Hansen was gon’ come out “ 💀💀😩😂😂😂😂

@Youreapwhatyousew Год назад

😂😂

@hersheylipz6355 Год назад

I love Tammy and Jessica Dime. They so pretty and real.❤️

@rakystalewis9431 Год назад

It's soooo sad and heartbreaking to hear Nia physically say "this is just what I'm use to" Omg Nia noooo😰💔💔

@itachistan437 Год назад

But like soulja said. Just admit the truth. U don’t want a relationship. And instead of being honest u tip toe around the subject.

@amyj4438 Год назад

On the Tasha K interview she did she goes deeper into their abusive relationship & how bad it was. I think she thought he change.... but she realized he wouldn't & moved on.

@ragantate3995 Год назад

I’m surprised Teddy Riley never went upside his head behind his daughter.

@princessqweent7181 Год назад

So funny how the whole time tiff and dreux been there he kept saying he didn’t wanna be with her that way but soon as he seen her with waka he the first one got mad that’s typical boys for you

@HisgGalore Год назад

im over here cryING 😂😂

@glittergang5830 Год назад

I got embarrassed for him😂

@leelee5574 9 месяцев назад

She was playing herself even coming on a couples counseling show with a man who made it clear that he did not want to be in a relationship with her In the first place

@DashonnonJohnson 7 месяцев назад

That's what I said it's was confusing like come on FOREAL

@queenelizabee7246 2 месяца назад

childish. he weird af for getting mad that somebody else could make her happy, he want hers miserable and horny weird ass

@casandrarhodan2602 Год назад

I love how Waka stood up for his wife! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 next question 😂

@kaniyahclark9481 Год назад

He didn't stand up for her he didn't want the dude planting what's already known in her head again, had he been asking about something other than her staying with him while he's cheating he wouldn't have said a thing

@fallhasfellboo8430 Год назад

😂

@keepingupwith_moe Год назад

He always does and I love that about him. He don’t let nobody disrespect her or his family. Even if they’re not together he don’t play them games.

@nyree9370 Год назад

@@keepingupwith_moe so he gets to disrespect her ? That’s so weird

@whenitreignsitsoars7772 Год назад

@@kaniyahclark9481 .. EXACTLY sweetie!!!!...I'm so glad that there are ppl on here that can read thru the bullshit!!!!🔥👍🏿🎯💣🖤💪🏿

@joannagreen2223 Год назад

“Imma throw you out the tent” is CRAZYYYY😭😭🤣🤣

@alyka.m___ Год назад

I cried ngl😂😂😂😂😂

@mikeseal3375 11 месяцев назад

Waka take up for his Woman like a real Atlanta Man does

@rykona32 Год назад

This was the best Marriage boot camp cast!!!

@inahbaxter6964 Год назад

Dead ass😂😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾😍😍

@Aaliyahbaby19 Год назад

Most definitely!

@blackken9960 Год назад

Yes I loved this season so much

@momonie4 Год назад

IKR!!!

@HelloSeptmember Год назад

Not the best but actually interesting 🤣

@karleshastokes4234 Год назад

Dr: “Nia and Dre why do you think you were up together” Me: Cause y’all messy 😂😂

@thisparishtv7804 6 месяцев назад

Soulja upset about Nia going on a date with Fizz in the past cracks me up. The AUDACITY is hilarious.

@KandyGeeGaming Год назад

14:09 “whya pull up” lmaooo ma’am wya means “where you at” not whya chileeee 😂😂 I’m so weak 😭😂

@MelanieMichelle2 Год назад

I thought I was the only one that caught that🤣

@HeyyMrsCarter. Год назад

😂😂😂 I was dead

@LexiDiarys 9 месяцев назад

Lmao 😂😂

@vic902 Год назад

Blogger: “Even Stevie wonder can see that u must be ashamed of her” 13:07 I cackled 😭😂😂😂😂😂Fizz is a joke of a man

@2021FOREVER Год назад

Dime and Shawne need their own show i love them

@2KGbaby Год назад

Yeah, they relationship is cool and smooth. That's that southern ish. And by the way, " He's dropping that soulja boy and becoming more soulja man". Lol

@antinatalistwitch111 5 месяцев назад

Yesss can we get this.

@mssharelltiahna1169 Год назад

The wife swap dinner was soooo uncomfortable for me like I was there 🤣🤣🤣

@jeanyoung9002 Год назад

Ms Sharell Tiahna@ I ENJOYED THE WIFE SWAPED DINNER, IT WAS UNIQUE, INTERESTING & CUTE. AM SURE THEY LEARNED SOMETHING FROM IT. I WISH THEM THE BEST.

@richmondbreya6187 Год назад

Fizz hated Tiffany 😩😂 it’s really not funny but …. He bold af.

@Evelinestv Год назад

No frfr, there was NO hiding that 😂😭

@erinharman2867 10 месяцев назад

Nobody can mess wirh Tammy and the Fashion of it all!!! Her style is always flawless

@Moebaee Год назад

Waka said “Hell Naw he playin aye bruh don’t ever in yo life talk to her like that” 😂😭 I love both Tammy & Flocka but Flock you set her up for that man be frl 😩🥴.

@jesusmywholehaschanged Год назад

The question wasn't even disrespectful. Cheating is VERY disrespectful.

@mimseydeartist1691 Год назад

Jessica is soooooo gorgeous! 🥰🥰 I love them as a couple, just beautiful.

@jurniskii Год назад

naturally😍

@butterfly-ef8fx Год назад

I'VE ALWAYS LOVED JESSICA DIME😍😍

@Karra__with_a_K Год назад

Regardless if the breakfast Soulja Boy served wasn’t edible. I think the true lesson was that he truly enjoyed himself.👏🥰🤭

@SpiritualLifeCoach43 Год назад

You're right and it was time for him to do for others and be humble.

@HisgGalore Год назад

omg yes he did:) its like he's open to any guidance:)

@meekashabazz6135 3 месяца назад

Thy all said the breakfast was good.

@lunacy3 9 месяцев назад

As a person with experience, people like Fizz are the most draining and frustrating to be in relationships with

@crystalfrench2425 Год назад

it was so disgusting seeing how immature of a man lil teeny fizzle pop was being towards tiffany

@emilydouglas5671 Год назад

Lil teeny fizzle pop 😂😂😂

@naliniwilliams1646 Год назад

It was

@strawberrywatermelon3570 Год назад

You mean mushroom man lol

@MakylaWoods-cy9xp Год назад

He was just jealous because he was he didn't want nobody to be with his girl . But he need to know how to love his that he got not from his home girl they might sleep together on lower key

@Missypooh562 Год назад

@@MakylaWoods-cy9xp wrong. They already came out and said they weren’t a couple and come in this show for money. she was pregnant with somebody else child during this show.

@tashinapatterson9128 Год назад

No man should be talking about your personal hygiene to the public SMH

@cruisecontrol7911 Год назад

THIS ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️😱😱😱😱😡😡😡

@tonyagreen8899 Год назад

But the thing about it is he is most likely why her toootooo is smelling his bacterial infection carrying butty🤦Smh.Dudes these days.

@Cristina_504 Год назад

Right that so disrespectful!

@antinatalistwitch111 5 месяцев назад

😔😔🤦🏾‍♀️

@blackken9960 Год назад

The producers knew what they were doing when they swapped couples... If you pay attention tho they all were a perfect match for one another

@karmengreene9611 Год назад

I don't know what his problem is with Tiffany. She is a beautiful girl, intelligent, and has a great attitude when not enduring his digs. He's missing the mark with her. Straighten up Drew.

@iPhone-rg1of Год назад

They were never in a relationship. They went on the show and pretended to be a couple to get a check

@WinterBaby90 Год назад

@@iPhone-rg1of yep

@ogtrybe1233 Год назад

@@iPhone-rg1of true... although they were dealing with each other on that one season of lhhp Hollywood... I feel she actually loved him he just didn't want what she wanted

@FootWrkTv Год назад

He has personal issues. No one is perfect. He has to grow up . She is pretty and seems like a great catch

@kayla123ism Год назад

He don’t want to say he’s in a relationship because he’ll lose all his side chicks. That’s it basically.

@Aaliyahbaby19 Год назад

This was MOST DEFINITELY the best cast!

@alyka.m___ Год назад

This was my fav cast EVER

@MaryMary12386 Год назад

The dinner party was so lit🔥the role playing & the jealousy priceless 🤣😂🤣

@dayYdream2k Год назад

The press conference had em all shook..except for Dime😂😂..I love how Drew ass got read too..he's a jerk!

@glittergang5830 Год назад

Fizz is so embarrassing 😂😂😂

@wwenewyork7570 Год назад

That blue dress Tammy had on at the press conference 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@vanessakimmy805 Год назад

tammy saying as much as i want for the infidilelity question was embarrasing. she thought she ate w that comeback

@colors5778 Год назад

She sounds like a fool for that answer smh 🤦🏿‍♀️.😎

@jurniskii Год назад

😂 second hand embarrassment

@butterfly-ef8fx Год назад

I LOVE TAMMY BUT SHE NEEDS TO GET WITH THE PROGRAM BECAUSE THE TOXICITY BABY IS REAL AND RIDICULOUS

@shadonnamarie93 Год назад

nah she made sense, that’s like a woman getting beat by her man constantly and someone asks “well how much are you gonna take”? and she replies as much as I want to because at the end of the day she’s gonna leave when she’s tired

@parismel3991 Год назад

Facts 😂

@kenyah.2676 Год назад

For the record , I loveeeeeeeeeeee love love ❤️ wakas attitude when it comes to Tammy and his mom.

@jennyjenga1929 11 месяцев назад

Mo thought Chris Hanson was about to pop out on her and Soulja 😂 LMFAO my evening with Tammy's husband was exceptional 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@desari2866 Год назад

The fact that they be high as hell is so funny

@Pinklotus222 3 месяца назад

Fr so entertaining

@mylegacy2543 11 месяцев назад

I love tht tammy and dime friendship, and it felt so good to see tiffany smile,laugh, and just get the affection she wanted🥲🥲🥲, meanwhile lil fizz over there being a lil jackass😒😑

@user-qz4vb1ts2e 9 месяцев назад

Tammy is so so gorgeous and i love her character, she is so dope and sweet 💜

@jaet6712 Год назад

She said "wya" instead of "where you at" 😂😂

@LookInTheMirrorFirst Год назад

Yes I hollered 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@cmb1407 Год назад

Omg I cracked tf up 💀🤣

@user-sz9ut8fb9o Год назад

😂😂😂😂😂😂

@CallingCandis_inaru 10 месяцев назад

Tammy was low-key supportive on that date shit lol

@biskkk12 Год назад

That Soulja Boy to Soulja Man comment was crazy 😂😂😂

@BRIIZYNITIMUSEAUDI Год назад

This f***in' cast was the most lit!! 😂❤

@lissandrapatin9923 10 месяцев назад

One thing about Waka, he not gonna let anyone disrespect his wife but him 😅

@imperallady Год назад

When the judge went in on her man about how Jessica Dime held herself in the press conference 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

@MakylaWoods-cy9xp Год назад

Give Waka his gratitude he know how to treat a women fr fr 💯

@MisticGoddess Год назад

No he got triggered cause he cheats lol 😂😂

@Oarabile__M 8 месяцев назад

@@MisticGoddess bye mam😭😭😭😭

@blackbettyboo5039 4 месяца назад

You are blinded by what they show you on TV🤦🏾‍♀️

@Corbeauxoxo Год назад

Fizz is such a baby 😭 it’s embarrassing asf

@MsBossy2UBustas Год назад

the problem with fizz is hes always high. its aggravating to be around sleepy smokers when they high all the time

@suzs3770 Год назад

He’s always on Xanax too

@babyt556 Год назад

He’s getting high to numb the feeling of having to address the issues in his life. That’s actually why anybody gets high they’re masking their trauma and stress

@powermiller855 Год назад

Waka is a good person fr. He treats women very well .

@just_apotato Год назад

Because constantly cheating is treating Tammy good.

@americanlivinginjamaica181 Год назад

Waka has a good relationship with his mother, from what I recall. Also, he gave props to Tammy for teaching him so much. His respect for women overall allows him to be a gentleman which is really why women are drawn to him. He is a lady’s man and sometimes he doesn’t consider long term ramifications of cheating.

@HelloSeptmember 9 месяцев назад

I would want to see Soulja have the same respect he has for Mo with Niya. Tami and Waka won this one ❤

@miss_connie Год назад

Tiffany was in love by herself😅😅

@Lovesomicky Год назад

They had too much patience in that press conference lol caz boyyyyy

@cruisecontrol7911 Год назад

😂😂😂😂

@malehlohonolo8463 Год назад

"Soulja boy is a child to me. I feel like Chris Hansen would come out"😂😂

@VeroRochaEscorcio Год назад

Lmao when lil mo said cris hanson gonna come out and say have a seat

@angelaspencer6838 Год назад

😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

@astoldbymzlevelz Год назад

Karl is just sitting there drinking and laughing and Mo is crying smh I knew than that they shouldn't be together

@Karra__with_a_K Год назад

Lol I wanna be there for Jessica’s surprise too🫣🤭

@MizzFireRed Год назад

My favorite couples of all time on Marriage boot camp🥰

@mikeseal3375 11 месяцев назад

Are you married?

@Oarabile__M 8 месяцев назад

@@mikeseal3375 bye😭😭😭😭

@JaggedEdge1975 Год назад

I love Tammy I wish her and Wka could have worked it out I love them together and how Waka is with her daughter

@kailadurham3258 Год назад

Yo fizzz 😂😂😂 in his feelings harddddd

@myahallen803 8 месяцев назад

Man waka, Tammy, dime, Shawn, and Tiffany made this funny 😂😂😂

@carliemcarthur5396 Год назад

Bruh these men are straight up disrespectful. Like what?!

@ashleyo8903 Год назад

Tammy I LOVE THE SUPPORT MAMA!!!!!!

@KountriKandi Год назад

Waka is a good man...ii hope him and Tammy work through their problems....

@colors5778 Год назад

Good man smh 🤦🏿‍♀️ he not especially if he cheating. 😎

@123shakiena 9 месяцев назад

idk why yall hyping up Tammy during the press conference. She just said shes ok with getting cheated on and insults people when they call her out. There's nothing to admire about that other than her support for Dime because Dime actually responded properly without being rude or disrespectful

@chasitywalls7587 Год назад

fizz saying women being on his page is not part of his "brand" would definitely be my breaking point... cause like wtf you mean?

@lilangasoginga Год назад

Growing up, I used to have this huge ass crush on that B2k guy. I thought he was sweet 🥺 but now I wouldn't dare date a guy like that.

@luisafrance1635 Год назад

😂😂😂😂

@lilangasoginga Год назад

@@luisafrance1635 I don't even think he's a bad person, but you can just tell he's been through the most and he is carrying it on his shoulders and through every relationship 😩

@hannykoomson3271 Год назад

I love wocka🧡for defending his lady 🥰🥰

@Tylerbreana Год назад

Something about Nia annoys me. She always has such a strong opinion but she has the worst relationship.

@ariahsavagesavage Год назад

Only couple still together is Jessica and her husband

@Karra__with_a_K Год назад

Chris Hansen was gonna come out 🤣🤣 she is so silly

@cici-vi7ew Год назад

That lady said..."baby WHY YA pull up?" Like lady it says WYA like where you at...🤣🤣🤣🤣 u can tell she's old nd don't kno the new ways ppl talk on the internet or texts...

@apriljohnson7899 9 месяцев назад

I played her guard!!! That whole paragraph was an amazing statement for Waka to make about life. ...

@rebeccaboyar Год назад

Waka sitting next to Fizz. Lol he out towers Fizz. Haha 🤣😂😭😭

@shaniabell4833 3 месяца назад

When they announce drew and nia as partners and nia started laughing. By the look on Soulja face he wanted to smack ts outta her😭😭😭😭

@DayinALifeWZa Год назад

Lol y’all must’ve missed this when it aired😂 it’s a old season yall

@nakiaholley7722 Год назад

You're right za-za i know i seen this EPO b4

@iSmackRatchets Год назад

No Shit Sherlock

@charlene8239 Год назад

“Soulja Boys like.. a chiiild to me, I felt like Chris Hansen was gonna come out and say ‘ heyyy uhhh just sit on down’” 25:30 😂😂😂

@simminglybeautiful8465 Год назад

14:38 🤣🤣😭😭 that man was outta his mind fried 💀

@buhhbibi23 Год назад

Nah that was ruthless ass shi , I would’ve walked off ngl😭

@GodBlessedThisBod Год назад

Tiffany called Fizz ouuuut… he seems so blah… I used to have a little insecure boy in my younger years and Fizz reminds me of him. Didn’t really try bc of their insecurities… he would try to act hard or like he was too cool to cover up those insecurities and not put the effort in to making me feel special. He was especially insecure in front of others… men and women.

@jahnaykingking2770 11 месяцев назад

That moment when waka preformed on my campus and slept in the girls dorm for an extra 3 days after his homecoming preformance😶….he definitely likes them young I’ll say that😬

@realitybeef Год назад

17:23 I can’t believe he got away with those tweets either 😣

@rodneyhill6056 11 месяцев назад

7:25 mo wig cap was showing but I love how at the 7:20 mark Tammy helped her fix it !!!! Love ❤ that the next queen wanted to help the next queen....bwe all need a Tammy

@ms.p6828 9 месяцев назад

Shot out to my girl Jessica Dime, I love all the versions of you boo! And I’m definitely here for the growth, I see it❤️❤️❤️❤️. Many blessings!!!! Tammy I love you too😘😘😘😘❤️.

@grayln Год назад

I'm glad Tammy told Mo her lace was showing, that was nice...or whatever.

@cmichole Год назад

Lil Mo is so hung up on the fact that she thinks she's so much more than her husband. She mentions it every single time. I can see how he might feel belittled or emasculated by her. He's the worst though.

@Cristina_504 Год назад

I mean she ain’t lying tho 😂😂 but still a man not gonna like being diminished so I get it

@queene3oh3 Год назад

Exactly, Like Then Why Chose Him and "Settle", Just To Tear Him Down On A Daily Basis...

@jimora16 Год назад

Do ya see the way they sit in their confessionals as a couple says a lot about who’s dominant in the relationship.

@antinatalistwitch111 5 месяцев назад

They smoked through all the drills 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@idrisettalbott 9 месяцев назад

The people in the background reacting to the tweets during the conference had me cracking up!!!

@finstonhoward9223 Год назад

This was my favorite season

@latashaconway8048 Год назад

I Love Tammy And Waka Energy. They Got Love For Each Other And Others. People Need To Take A Lesson.

@freshbme2 Год назад

Why he keep cheating on her then...if you dont respect your partner there is no love...waka is a narcissist. He wants to play while making tammy stay!!!

@suzs3770 Год назад

If you cheat on someone that is NOT love!! You don’t hurt ppl you love

@angelapicello2190 Год назад

I love tammy so much! She's such a great woman n mom! I know she'd be a fabulous friend! Tammy I thought waka and u were a great couple but u had hurdles n then the infidelity was out of this world! U deserve so much better and pure happiness! Unfortunately now it doesn't involve a relationship with waka but hopefully u will move forward with ur head held high! He'll always be in ur life with ur beautiful daughter that's her dad! But u will be great! Nia I'm glad u have moved on now and are very happy! U could see just from this show how toxic the relationship was and how horrible he talked n treated u! I'm glad ur moving forward with ur head held high! Mo ur outfit is banging! Hell yes! U rock that outfit girl!

@abbeysch861 Год назад

Ik she didn’t actually pronounce wya like that 🤣

@ReesyQueen Год назад

Nia Girlllllllll 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂 wtfff helllll nahhhh

@east1808 11 месяцев назад

Crazy how waka seems to have great husband/partner potential smh Maybe theyll spin the block once they both grow. Good show. First time watching

@emilymalungahu6625 Год назад

This is not teaching these couples anything but bringing back painful past memories..It's basically like social media bunch of B.S!!

@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI 11 месяцев назад

Reality show BS.

@antinatalistwitch111 5 месяцев назад

Dime so gorgeous even without makeup

@keannarichardson3464 8 месяцев назад

Waka said I’m bout to throw you out the tent 😭

@neenaspeakstruth Год назад

Not Mo saying she felt like Chris Hanson was gonna come out cause she was on a date with Soulja Boy 😂

@ManifestDestinee Год назад

Tammy helped Lil Mo with that wig.. Good lookin Tammy cuz that Thang was pushed back..

@linamarie84 Год назад

I REALLY REALLY hope that Tammy and Waka work it out. They could be really good together.

@jrose1999 Год назад

I want them to Work so bad 😭

@dheireea Год назад

Me too, I hope they get back together and have another baby, Charlie may not be Waka's biologically, but that's his baby.

@jrose1999 Год назад

@@dheireea yeah i know babies don’t bring people together but I would love to see them have a child. And waka is definitely charli daddy 😭

@ogtrybe1233 Год назад

They grew apart and its obvious to see... Well I'll say Waka grew a lot mentally and spiritually and I personally don't see that growth from Tammy... It's hard to stay with someone when yall not growing together on all aspects and one is reaching that growth while the other hasn't