4:34 Steve I wish you personally would get to read how much respect I have for you and how much I love to listen to you as you are one of the wisest people I've ever encountered in my life time. You are caring and good. Thank you for being you. I get emotional a lot of times because you remind me that I to ,am just as important as anyone else.. thank you steve
I see the HOLD THE DOOR THING AS GENDER NEUTRAL/ Whereas I can open a door and won't stand waiting for a man to do this. I say thank you if he does. BUT. I think it's INCREDIBLY RUDE IF you have gone through a door and DON'T HOLD IT OPEN IF THERE IS SOMEONE RIGHT BEHIND YOU. That's just nasty and inconsiderate. AND, I do hold a door open if there is someone right behind me. It's such a simple thing.
Remember these four things folks. If people learn to say hello, good morning, please, and thank you, the world would be a different place. Everything else is an added bonus.
My parents never had to teach me good manners. Somehow they behaved that it is always a joy to me to have the best manners possible as well as to apologize instantly if my intention of having the best manners misfired and led to discomfort to the person I tried to make feel as good and safe as possible. We only have a short life. Why messing up the little time we have? My love to all the people who are hurting right now!
My parents mostly my mother always tell me that if we're outside the we have to be in our best behavior and never do anything that make you or us embarrassed. And now 26 years old I teach in our church every Sunday and I always tell the little children to behave but I know at the age of children they are hard to juggle, but I always tell my females students that never open their legs when sitting down. And also tell the boys to not bully the female children and vice versa.
People should be taught to respect where someone's manners toward you come from. So if you say "yes ma'am" to someone who doesn't like it, THEY should have been taught that it comes from a place of respect. That said, if I, a woman (67) reaches a door first, I usually open if for whoever is behind me. That's how I've modernized it. I really got used to that after my dad, who did all of the old school manners such as doors, helping mom into the car, standing back to let her out of the church pew first, holding her chair... - after he had a stroke and couldn't do those things. She and I did it for him. I'm from the north (hi Steve, from Akron) and manners were a bit different although mom was from the south. We were not taught to refer to someone as Miss Mary, for example. But we were taught basic manners. Getting away from them (I think much is due to Trump) has caused meanness. Christians aren't Christian when they behave that way.
When I get "don't call me ma'am" I take it as "don't be so formal". When one compromises one's standards, one is at a lower point when again compromise is made. Hold to your standards and you won't lose them.
enforce and apply strict discipline. if needed, impose some punishment. if it really warrants break and cut their horn. spoil the rod and you spoil the kid. believe me, these kids will grow up righteous and well mannered. 👍
Why do people feel the need to fix things that aren't broken? My children would have to walk in front of people at the store and at the age of 3 would say excuse me. And thank you as they passed the adult standing in the aisle
Think back to that person you met who came across as inconsiderate and maybe a bit disrespectful to others but you thought you’d give them the benefit of a doubt. Well, how do that turn out? When I witness bad manners and selfishness I cut these people off because they are literally showing you who, and what they are.
Steve isn't necessarily wrong because it's his way of doing things, but at the same time the woman should raise her children as SHE sees fit. If the woman was raised so well, why would she have to go on television and ask Steve about it because she's unsure? Especially bringing the mother WITH her. That's so many red flags in my opinion. I feel like the mother had the right idea but got immediately repressed from the outside. Her mother is obviously raised on very old and traditional female values, but that's just not the same age. Hell, just from the demeanor and vibe from both the woman and the mother, they seem very different and the woman seems to want to try to "break out" in a sense. I think the problem was that she came to Steve, someone who's obviously gonna give you the answer that he gave. He's built in old traditional values so he'll say just that. Hell, sometimes the guests make so little sense with some things they ask they almost seem planted so the echo chamber of Steve's values get out there regularly and everybody just starts clapping to all the buzzwords because he knows what the women wanna hear.
It is in the Bible that time will come people are ungreatful ,rude, greedy etc etc. 1 timothy 3:2 you can read and see in this world that its happ ning
