Have You Run Back To Your Man After Being Cheated On? 

These women are staying in relationships longer than they should. At some point you’re not a victim your a volunteer.

Going back to a woman after you've been caught cheating is the worst thing you can do to yourself 😂

so him having a baby wasnt enough but not feeling alligned was? smh lol

This women is fine, talented, and from her commentary shows she is seeking marriage + kids. The problem is she spent 10+ years ignoring red flags: - Dude already had 1 baby in HS - Has a 2nd Baby on her post College I'm sure there were others along the way. While ignoring these red flags she also likely ignored the `guy(s)` she should've been with in College and early post college days and said eligible man is now married. So it's definitely gonna be tougher for her now not impossible. It just shouldn't take 10+ years to figure out someone isn't equally yolked. Just feel like this is the common story for some of the folks saying it's hard to find a man.

Goes to show you. Women will talk and say there’s no good men but will rather stay in a mess of a relationship than to be with a good man. To each their own I guess

Cthagod looks like a villain with what he has on and burning that piece of wood 😂😂

There's definitely alot of women who been cheated on and went back...

Her story telling is bothering me. Don’t call her up there no more. 😂

These women know they guys are cheating and tell them to wrap it up?? Wtf. 🤦🏽‍♂️ shit sad bro

Soon as a man have a baby on me it’s a done deal. No talking ! What the hell be wrong with some of these women smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ Any man that cheat on you and have a baby on you ain’t that amazing 😂 she’s a bird brain for sure

Here's my cheat story. Sorry it's so long!!! So I was in the military and he wasn't. About 8 years in and before I met him I brought a house in Texas because I knew when I got out that's where I wanted to be. When I brought the house I had a doorbell with a camera installed and also simplisafe cameras hidden inside the house because it made me feel more secure. My friend out there was tending to the house for me as I couldn't find new renters at the time. Anyways, during that period I met a guy and we dated for a year. We ended up getting engaged 4 months before I was supposed to deploy. I decided when I came back from this deployment I was going to get out so he was going move to Texas and live in the house I brought which was great because he was able to get a job transfer. Anyways, 2 months into my deployment he tells me he's going on a business trip so he probably won't be as available to talk to me so I ask my friend to stop by periodically and check the mail. When she went to check the mail she saw him on the porch entering my house with a girl and they looked too intimate for her liking so she emailed me to let me know. This is when I remembered my cameras backup video for like 30 days so I got the footage of inside the house and saw that he pretty much moved this girl in and they were playing house. I was so heartbroken and couldn't focus especially being in a whole other country while my world was falling apart. I tried to call him but he didn't answer so I had some friends in legal help me do a power of attorney so that my friend can get the locks changed. Also recorded a video giving her consent in case she ran into any trouble. So next time we skyped each other I told him he had 1 day to get his stuff and get out of my house because I know he's cheating and if he wasn't out in 24 hours I'd have the cops escort him out. He lied and tried to say I wasn't thinking straight because I was stressing but I told him I had video proof then he started apologizing and promising it wouldn't happen again. Cops did have to escort him then my friend got the locks changed. It was rough and very painful but as painful as it was I couldn't imagine staying with someone who didn't respect me, would cheat and lie. I knew the kind of love I wanted and the kind of love I give so I had to let him go. So happy I did too because I met my husband :).

I don't want nothing back but my money, if you owe me.

When I had low self esteem I stayed with a cheater, once I learned how to love myself I no longer tolerate any BS or disrespect in a relationship and I will cut off all communication immediately

It is difficult very difficult for some people to let go even when they are hurt by someone. You don’t even have talked about things you’ve done wrong to your wives yet they stayed stuck around they forgave. Me myself and I’ve always said I would never be with someone who cheated on me, but I also know you should never say never. I’ve seen people truly regret cheating on the woman or the man. They love and worked hard to redeem themselves. I’ve also seen people lie straight to someone’s face. I’ll never do it again and did it the next damn day. I will say this, we do have a lot of people who are very eager to be in relationships with others. I’ve seen people so eager to be in a relationship with someone else they will date someone who is married, knowing that the person is married. That worries me the most when people are so eager to be in a relationship they won’t push for exclusivity in a relationship.

It’s disturbing how many woman are willing to be cheating on lied to and disrespected and take the same dude back and then wonder why we have so many woman beaters and egotistical men they pass that ego on to the next woman he gets with. We need to change the mentality of these ladies because this is ridiculous 😔😒

This is crazy to me. I’m gone after a man cheats 1 time. Life is too short to waste my life with a liar.

These type of stories really make me irritated because when are we going to start respecting ourselves as women??!! Ain’t no D that damn good that got you dumb enough to allow a man to cheat on you with your friend or someone you know, have a baby, and you get on the radio saying how great of a husband and father he will be one day like he won’t ever do that shit again. And then you played stepmom for these kids that he had on you! SMH. Breakfast club please don’t have this lady on again. Idk who she is, but we need more strong-minded women who are going to promote respecting ourselves and being confident in our standards and not going to get caught up in a small piece of male flesh. We need women who know what they deserve and won’t settle for the bullshit because he knows how to slang it. Thanks!

Charlamagne and that Palo Santo! He's gonna start a fire in the studio. I hope he has good personal liability insurance

Ray ray, Pookie and Tyrone never lose.😅

Life is about choices if you chose to stay that is on YOU.

Turn her mic up is WILDDDD 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

So she said the way Common did Tiffany hasn't or will happen to her but her dude can cheat, get her cousin bf pregnant lie to you and then talk you into coming back to play stepmom. But a man would never do u like Common did Tiffany Haddish...FOH. And she lied cus she said they was highschool sweet hearts heading into college but then said she didn't mind being a step mom cause he had a kid when they met🤔... C'mon Son

SOME woman gonna lie in these comments and say "hell no".

She says she’s over it but I don’t believe her she sounded like she was about to cry when talking about it.

Low self esteem..love yourselves women

I feel like we can work through anything but nope nope nope my man knows cheating is a deal breaker period... there's no back and forth, no conversation needed ✌🏽

Spinning the block for over 2 decades is some stalker type ish, why tf don't y'all just tie the knot and call it a day? People weird asf nowadays...

Charla is the biggest instigator, always, Facts 👏🏽

It’s not the dick. It’s because women don’t want to be lonely, no one does. We want to be with someone of our opposite sex that we enjoy their presence. Hence why we have children

These caliber of men you guys let play you! Wrap it up?! Whew 😰 yal deal with whatever these men give 🙄

The hardest part of holding on, is letting go.

Yeah I took him back because I was cheating too..😂😂

How she say he’s gonna be a good husband after he cheated on you what makes you think he’s not gonna do it to the next chick lol 😂

Let’s start a petition to have envy stop saying “mama” 🙄🙄

RU-vid guidelines say to keep the comments respectful but HOW are people supposed to when they hear stories like these? These women are just.... dumb

High school sweet hearts? But he had a kid already? And you had boyfriends already? The timeline seems off LMAO

Should’ve asked all the callers if their father was present in their lives

All them willing participants 😩 ladies let’s choose ourselves IF POSSIBLE ❤️

Jess and TS was going back and forth all weekend and no report.

Ladies think they are dating other people the whole time they are getting ran through by new dude while going through an heart break 💔 sad!

Damn wasted all her 20s damn near on a dude with 2 kids, one of which he had while dating her lmao

I love how TBC has become a safe space for women. Thank you Envy and Charlemagne.... also Envy has been on my okay side lately. That man gets under my skin 😅

One thing I learned from all of this is that too many Black women are addicted to toxicity, disfunction, cacophony, and choas in their personal relationships, under the guise of looking for excitement and sexual titillation --- I DIDN'T ANY PART OF THIS --- These are the type of women not suitable for mundane nature of longterm, relationships, marriage --- Hence, the very high Black women led divorce rate in the Black community ---

Many times us as women blame other women’s instead of our mate and that contributes why we stay

What a cool ass lady you are Loren, bro like nobody gives men with bms chances the way you sounded too and had the right mentality about bms (cordial, ain’t gotta be friends) wow yo you’re alright lady and I’m sure gonna have a good life

I forgave. 🙄😶‍🌫 I was young, dumb, each other's first and engaged. Other than a death, it was the only time I cried in a relationship... unchartered territory: emotions, forgiving, trust, vulnerability. Looking back, I was delusional with being faithful because he was just getting started. After the apologies and "reassurance" --- It's a no for me dawg. I'm glad.. clears the path for someone wonderful.

A lot of this begins with the "type" of guy most girls/women are attracted to. Don't dance with the Devil and then claim victim.

There are some women who will experience a bad love life because they don’t have self respect.

So y’all was high school sweethearts and he already had a baby? Smh

The moral of this segment is wait til your married to have sex so you can think clearly and not make irrational, emotional decisions because your caught up in your feelings about a man your just dating.

This shit was too hilarious I had to watch it twice 🤣🤣

First of all... That's not how you deliver news to someone. People are some dumb.

I like the co host. Dope vibes!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Sounds like Lauren was with her twin flame but that is still toxic af frfr 🤣

She met him in high school and he had a kid already?

8:07 congratulations 😂😂😂😂😂

Im confused. Am I the only one that heard they weren’t together for some time? She was doing her and he was doing him. He didn’t cheat

This is what I think most men need to see/hear. There are men who are chosen, who can do any and everything to and through women. Fellas, you don't have to try so hard, she already knows.

This guest host fire🔥love her honesty and humor

Women need to learn how to make decisions based on logic not emotion

Women, learn to respect yourselves!

Yo carla love these stories 😂😂😂😂😂😂

In a relationship for 6+ years and you aren’t married?! RED FLAG🚩

_Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me - You can't get fooled again_ . -- W

I be wondering the same thing. What do these dudes be saying to these women for them to stay? I never understood the finesse, but I’m jealous because I could never figure it out. ( I don’t feel bad for anyone going back to a perpetual cheater, that’s your fault 🤷🏽‍♂️)

Interesting. So, sex is that important huh?

the whole king/queen thing seems so obnoxious.

Shoutout.....

DJ E and Char shouldn't say nothing on this topic ....

Hell nah!!! I would NEVER!!!! No 🥷🏼 will ever have me in a position where I will explaining why I stayed after this nonsense. I feel embarrassed for them. On another note: Most times these situations aren’t surprising at all to us outsiders. Most women ignore the obvious signs until he actually pops up with a baby. This all comes down to internal value and self-respect. As the folks used to say back in the day, “It ain’t that much love in the world!”

No they run back to their man when the other man don’t want to deal no more…probably talking to you about their man saying he ain’t this and that etc.

Yup smh

Why do women ruin their friends momentum with this kind of news? Your friend is on tour needing to focus and you tell her this?

I like Loren. She has an interesting personality

Women never tell the entire story

Men won't stop cheating until women cheat just as much as them and get caught. Spread the hurt. Let hurt people hurt people. Maybe in a couple of generations we can get back to healthy relationships.

Smh im the guy on the other side crazyyy

The way these women act your better off bein single

Enough with the damn cheating conversations we get it damn

I just came to the comments to say BRING RAY J back either him or Jess Hilarious need to be full time co host

Hands down this channel has more hatred while at the same time complete ignorance than any spot on the internet I have unfortunately stumbled on.....

These callers are sad and embarassing.

This whole segment sad tears only.

Feels🙄

REAL Communication is ‘Key’, it will prevent a lot of drama!! Reality is…most Women & Men…just can’t handle the truth! 😮

i got this married women pregnant..whe kept the child and her husband think its his.... fellaz lets stop protecting cheating women because they sure dont do tge same for us

Fix the heading Breakfast Club wheres the editor

I just don't see why women don't go to the "lames" dudes who want them

A women will stay with a foul man got years and dump a good guy for being good nice.

Get funky dineva

Is the Breakfast Club falling off? 🥺😢

🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾🌏

@ 2:56 Lil John appears.

I’m single so no

These women are stupid they stay and go back to toxic relationships but the good guy that wants to treat them like a queen and actually want to be with them they don’t give them a chance at all…..low key I don’t feel sorry for them they choose these messed up men plus this chick went back to a dude that got another woman pregnant but she is missing the big point her ex was having sex with no protection with another woman he could have gave her something smh

She is a bird 🤦🏽‍♂️

There are women out here who will willingly deal with a man who deals with multiple women as long as they are HONEST so they know what they gettin into. But thennu have the women who deal with bit that understanding even thoughbit wasnt communicated. What are u willing to deal with? Thats the question

You guys lost my sub ! After that horror of a show with Viv and that creature that said she was a veteran a billion times ( am sure she was paid you don't do it for nothing) so racist and rude! Done with u all.

She seems young & foolish. Lost young soul, not saying nothing really.

Jody Breeze said that you can control a woman with good D n y’all shamed him! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Exhibit A