Hayley Kiyoko's Advice On Coming Out And Loving Yourself 

*HAPPY NATIONAL COMING OUT DAY!!!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈* for everyone who's not out, don't EVER feel pressured to come out, ESPECIALLY when it's not safe. Just know there are people who love you and care for you, and you have a whole family standing behind you. we love you bby gaes :)

I came out today :) and I'm kinda scared to go to school tomorrow... but you made everything better ❤

I’m gay and I haven’t even told my twin sister

God I love her so much and I am so proud of her for the impact she has made on the LGBT community, specifically the younger ones. Her music is amazing as well.

I came out to my best friend recently and she was like, "okay" I was glad she didn't make a big deal. I knew she was gonna accept me either way, but I didn't want a reaction that was too dramatic. Either way at the end of the day I like to be viewed as a human being so any reaction that does that is fine with me

I'm still trying to accept my sexuality. This video was amazing.

Honestly this helps me so much. I only really accepted myself in the past year and it feels like I can finally breathe. The only person who doesn't know is my Dad, but I'll get there... eventually. Hayley, I love you to absolute bits. You've helped me so much, you help everyone so much - you're the best! Annnnd I'm gonna start telling myself I love myself everyday, too. Cause I suck at loving myself and believing I'm enough. Thanks a million times over. xoxoxo

Omg my love Lesbian Jesus,,,..,We Stan a inspirational legend,,.,,

I can't stop crying.. I love Hayley so much and like she's just so amazing.. And I can relate so much and j just want her to give me a goddamn hug

God bless you Hayley. You have helped so many people and myself as well. I’m closeted and unable to come out due to homophobic family but because of you I know I can be strong no matter what

Hayley kiyoko is such a good inspiration 💜

OMG! This make me cry so much, because a live a lie to myself!

I came out two years ago and It was the best thing I could have done. "You are enough" is my new mantra!

I remember watching this for the first time almost a year after it was uploaded. At the time, I was exhausted of being in the closet but carried way too much shame with my sexuality, and had a lot of internalized homophobia, biphobia and self hate to come out. Over the years, things just got worse and I went through very dark times where I would self harm and nearly killed myself. So many times. I just couldn't understand myself and hated being bi. Now, I FINALLY understand what Hayley meant in this video. Like I actually get her, and everything she said is so relatable. I'm in a space where I no longer carry shame with my sexuality. I've taken the time to focus on myself and learn to love me for me and no one else, all while understanding that self love is a journey, and not a destination 🤍 I'm in that period where I don't see a reason to stay closeted anymore, but the thought of coming out to everyone (including some homophobic family members) all at once is way too overwhelming and gives me a lot of anxiety. So, I want to start small - and come out to the friends I trust will accept me. Even if they don't, it will hurt but I GOT ME and that's what matters ❤️ I still want to come out slowly though, and eventually get to a point where I am an openly black bisexual dude, regardless of who you are to me 💯 Thank you guys sm for this video, big shoutout to Hailey for being vulnerable with her story ❤️ it's ironic how as queer people - we go through so much thinking we're alone but can relate to one another in so many ways 😌🤍 RU-vid has always been my safe space ❤️🏳️‍🌈 love ya'll

it made me cry because it was with Hayley's music that I managed to survive this year so terrible for me when I was on a bad day to improve I was going to listen to her songs, watch videos and their interviews. Thank you so much Hayley for helping me❤️ expectations has been a gift

2018 is a huge year for me. I stopped listening to others and I came out to nearly all of my friends and family and I feel so free and comfortable and so confident🤗

I really want to come out but I’m so scared. A lot of people at school know i’m gay but I haven’t told my parents

Hayley always inspires me to be proud of who I am and who I love

Can't believe I'm going to see this wonderful girl in two weeks I can't waiit

Hayley and I have one thing in common, every day I say "I love you Hayley" too 😍

I came out today infront of 70 people today!!!... it's was a huge step for me I feel so vulnerable but I will keep telling myself that I am enough

I came out to my best friend a couple months ago. I was so scared and idk why. She has been my sister for 9 years now. Well I was like hey call me I gotta tell you something. She did and I was like hey guess what im gay. She laughed and was like saaaaaaaaame. I was like huh. She said yeah me too I couldn’t figure out how to tell you. That was one of the best days of my life. Telling my favorite person who I truly am and her understand

I love you Hayley

What a coincidence... I also say "I love you Hayley" 10 times in the morning 😂 * daily prayer *🙏

I came out in 5th grade and till this day it makes me feel so much better about myself it’s honestly the best feeling when the people u told understand ☺️, even if they don’t u shouldn’t care u love who you want to love 💕

i love you too hayley

This is incredible! Thank you so much, Hayley! I'm so excited that you guys got her to do a video, and it was just as good as I wanted it to be! Love you guys

I felt this video so hard... i loved hayley from 1991 (i wasn’t even born yet) till my dying day, she’s such a beautifull girl with such a beautifull soul. Helping everyone she could, just by using the perfect words. SHE DESERVES EVERY SINGLE GIRL IN THE WORLD. Love you little bean. ❤️

I think coming to terms with your own sexuality is always the hardest part, but once you have life gets so much easier

I came out to one of my best friends today as bi. And although I knew it was highly likely that she would be fine with it coz we have other close friends who are lgbt+ I was still so nervous!! Ended up literally just saying "Boys. Girls. Both. Get it?" And she was like "ohhh yeah ahaa!" And i got so nervous and she was like "awwww its okay! Thats perfectly fine!" Im so happy I told her and she was so chill about it and I'm so happy about that 😭❤️😭❤️

Hayley, you make life so much better. You have helped and continue to help me and so many people

This is good information I came out as a lesbian in 2019 July and I was scared to scared that my friends would turn against me scared I would be disowned but no everyone accepts me for who I am. So if you're reading this remember that it's gonna work out in the end if they don't accept you remember that I accept you and everyone here does too I love you all and stay safe Happy Pride 🏳‍🌈❤

she has my heart. WE LOVE YOU HAYLEY!!

You are the reason I accept myself and find who really I am .

I came out to my parents a year ago and it went horrible with my mother. We haven't talked in three months and she has been judging me for a long long time. Now it's all good. We are all trying to understand things and to forgive I think. I feel a lot safer now that a year ago because those days I was so afraid that she's gonna kick my ass out of the house. It gets better!

hayley has to be my biggest role model. honestly, she's literally all i want to be, she gave me the courage to be proud about who i am after years of being scared and ashamed of it 🌸

Hayley Kiyoko is definitely and totally one of THE Best of the Best Singers and Best Lesbians of All Time throughout the years in the making of LGBT Community!

I came out in 5th grade... I first told the person I trusted the most which was my mom... She helped me come through to the rest of my family. Just believe in your self and every thing will co.e good as long as you have faith in yourself.

I’m crying omg

I LOVE YOU, HAYLEY

this is so helpful and powerful for a young gay youth like myself. this is what i'm living through right now so seeing someone like hayley where she is today is so inspiring

Yes hayley kiyoko l love you ❤

A very important thing to remember when someone comes out to you- match their energy. If they're being casual about it, you should be chill too and not make a huge deal, even if you mean it in the best way. If they're crying or emotional, make sure you reciprocate the emotions, let it be a sentimental moment, tell them you love them. If they're really excited and happy, then be excited with them! Hype them up!! Everyone's coming out is different, and there's no one way to react:)

i’m crying

I love her accent❤️

Thank you for sharing your story Hayley🤍

Shes amazing

Everything gets better when you listen to Hayley !

I came for Hayley and I got sum tiny Hayleys Best day ever

I love her sooo much

I honestly can say that I can relate to everything Hayley talks about!!! Life within our selves is always a struggle!! Strength within yourself and believing that You are important everyday!!!!

I love Hayley and her muisc. Just all the songs I've heard from her is great!!!

WOW skinny legend...............what an icon

This was so helpful. Even though I’m out to most of my friends.. I’m not out to ALL of them and my family (except my sister) at all. They’re heavily religious, I’m 19 and I got a new job yesterday and it finally feels good to work towards a goal, so I can leave home soon, so I can be with my girlfriend of almost 4 years. I’m proud of her everyday because she came out to her dad a year ago and that was so hard for her and her mother loves her the way she is. I just wish my parents were as supportive and wouldn’t get so scary at the idea of me loving another girl. I guess it starts with me & self love and my coming to acceptance with who I am. Thank you Hayley. This whole channel is so helpful. I know I didn’t have to go into detail about my life, but videos like this really help me feel like it does get better ❤️

i told a few of my friends that i am lesbian and then I told my mum but when I told one of my friends, he told me that he was gay and I was so glad and proud of myself for doing it

i loveee you so much hayley

Omg I love Hayley Kiyoko! ! She's not only beautiful, but she's caring emphatic, and compassionate. Her music helped me come out as bisexual , listening to her helps me feel less alone! ! # I'm her biggest fan # She's also my future wife♡♡

I love you, Hayley. I think I might just come out to someone now, so Thank You.

Thank yooou my queen. 👏 👑

She’s so amazing. I came out yesterday btw.

Hayley you are amazing and an inspiration to many people including me. I’m bisexual and I want to come out on June 1 since it’s pride month. I want to say that I’m bisexual in my Snapchat story so that all my friends know. However, I’m scared to come out because I’m scared that some of my friends will judge and reject me. I’m not telling my family yet because they are religious and I don’t think they approve. I think most people will accept me but coming out is still scary. I’m tired of keeping secrets and I want to trust the people closest to me.

i love yiu hayley your such an angel my inspiration..😊

I recently got trashed and finally had the courage to come out to two of my best friends from high school (I’m in college) and one said “no shit!” and the other said “me too!” So that was super fun

inspiring, Hayley!

Hayley is just the best.

I love Hayley so much! It's so nice to be able to come out and have your family and friends love you and accept you for who you are.

Thanks for the advice

Hayley, Hayley, Hayley...how are you so amazing???? 💕

I'm so happy, that you are there Hayley... You are so important for us and we are so thankful for calling you our idol😍

This is so sweet. Thank you, Hayley!

I love Hayley so much ❤ She's my biggest inspiration I am at the moment of my life that practically all my friends know that I like girls but my best friend and family have no idea Love from Poland ❤

I love Hayley I discovered like 4 days ago!

Wow. This is honestly so powerful. I hope more people know about this because it’s true. I swear on everything, Hayley is my Idol😩❤️

*This is what I have always needed*

Queen

Thank you, Hayley! You're an inspiration to more people than you know!

Amazing thank you

Thank you so much! You deserve the world and all the love that is in it!!!

Lemonade Mouth anyone?

I came out as gay to a friend of mine who wasn’t as close (all my other “friends” are homophobic), and he just said it was cool. I felt so relieved.

This was perfect! I saw this the day after it was posted!

I Came out in august of 2018 but i recenlty came out public to my friends in december!

She came out in 7th grade? I'm in 12th grade and still fucking scared of it😥 But this video helps me a lot to accept myself a bit more. It's nice to hear the stories of other people & how they managed to go through this😊

I come out a few months back I like girls and guys but I’m afraid to open up to my mother and same people close to me

hayley kiyoko on intomore and here?!?!?! nice.

I needed this

My birthday is on National Coming Out Day... The 11th of October!!!

WOO HOO! 💕💕💕💕 Happy National coming out day everybodyyyyy! 🏳️‍🌈 Let's make National coming out day into International coming out day!

Omg I remember her from wizards of Waverly place :)

I know I'm very late to this video, but I've thought I was bi for soo long but I've just realised that I'm gay and I'm trying to come to terms with it and to come out all over again 🏳️‍🌈

I can relate i been confused about my sexaulity since i was like 12 now I'm gonna be 17 valentines day I'm a quiet person and have always cared about what others think of me

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I am bi I come out to my friends but i haven't come out to my mom and i am kinda scared tbh..

The summer between 6th and 7th grade I came out to my best friend she was fine with it

Should i come out to my dad on national coming out day?

The wAy i. look at her 😊😊

Kyoko-san kawaii😍

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I absolutely hate coming out. Somehow i’ve avoided it for 6 months but im hiding it from my friends and it sucks.

I have realized for a while now that I'm gay, and I've told only a couple of my friends, because I'm scared that my other friends will not look at me the same way. I am also very scared about coming out to my family. Only my older sister knows. I'm scared that my parents won't love me the same way, but I always remind myself that if they really do love me, they will accept me the way I am. I am so glad to have supportive friends and family because I know they will always love me for who I am, but that still doesn't mean I'm not scared. I'm terrified, but I think that even though it will be terryfying to tell the people I love most about my sexuality, I know that it will feel like so much weight has been lifted off my chest. I'm telling my friends one by one, and so far they have all accepted me for who I am. Some dvice for some people is that if anyone, like for example; one of your friends do not accept you for who you are, the they aren't real. Real friends will still care and love you no matter what. I hope everyone can feel proud about their sexuality, just like I am🌈💖