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I recently found your youtube channel and icl your shit might be like one of the only funny content left on youtube lmfao, I usually just put your stuff on the background and do something else. Its crazy cuz I actually chuckle and stuff which rarely happens with other youtubers
@@Thealeatoiretalks mf BOTH i cant even judge how unhinged you are cz i am too lowkey 😭 i be screaming and tweaking and shit whenever you do twinning through the screen
Girl as long as your boundaries are being respected I think you're fine. I always think of age gaps in life arenas. It's not like a retiree trying to party with a college girl between classes. You're both working adults and manage independent lives so just be cautious, anyone else looking at you sideways doesn't know you and or is jealous. I don't think there's anything wrong with giving it a try if you're comfortable! You can break it off if the age difference is an ongoing issue for you. And yes the family stuff is a very valid lol
As someone who was like you, please be careful of older men who seem nice and easygoing but who think identical to the man in post because a lot of them think that way and at a young age it’s hard to realize especially when you have lived beyond your years for so long. Be careful of those who just want to use your youth. Nothing wrong with having fun but be careful because some of them are also super possessive and will stalk you if you decide to leave.
This video made me feel as though I was having a talk with a friend or a sister. It was so funny and addressed a lot of the things I think about but never actually talk about with ppl. Kyra you’re dope and your authenticity shines through, keep it up ! ❤ Ps. I love the end of your videos where you share the stuff you’re watching or listening to!
My dad is 53 dating a 29 year old. And i would say run. My whole life ive watched him treat women like they're disposable and justify awful behavior from my sisters boyfriends out of pure sexist beliefs. Theres a reason we don't talk to him much anymore. He's just dating to run from himself
Ok so as a autistic 20 year old who’s never had a job take this with a grain of salt but if your honest with yourself with what you want for your future and what you want now you can and probably deserve to be treated and taken care of even if it’s just one off dates with this guy you deserve to feel good and as long as you understand the give and take you and this man have and no one is being mistreated and no one is uncomfortable do your thing and have fun your still young enjoy it. Ok that’s it you don’t have to read this it’s just my two cents ( ps. I hope that dress was cute ) (pps . Your hair look so good in this )
You're such an inspiring person, I "discovered" your channel recently and i love how you discuss all those different subjects. Also, i wanted to thank you for sharing your personal experience with us too! You're a true warrior, and it's damn clear that you know your shit! Its true that when i first watched your podcasts i thought you were like 28 too... (No offense tho, im literally 15, my dumbass would look at a 18 years old person and be thinking they're 30 eh) Honestly i do think if you involve yourself with older men/person it's your buisness and your buisness only. Though, it sure would be great to figure out in therapy if that's only the result of your experience as a child (having to grow too fast) and if it influences too much your choices at this level, it would /maybe/ be better to work through it before you commit yourself to any serious relationship of this sort (to end the family curse) ! (but ofc that just a suggestion that i'm giving! It's your life and i'm nobody to invalidate the way you're livin' it! :]] ) You're actually a very honest and cool person to your audience and you're hella funny too! I love playing your videos in the background while I'm doin things around
With the way you carry yourself and the popular culture you speak of, I would’ve easily thought you were in your late twenties like me or early 30’s. You absolutely are mature like you said and are unlike any one I’ve experienced in your generation. I love your wise mindset and sharp wit. Your personality is an 11 and I hope you can relax now and life will gift you back abundance for all the struggle and hard work you endured in your childhood Wishing you all the best and thank you for sharing your beautiful mind with us all 🤍
I don't believe these types of relationships are legitimate because the older guy is always very well off. I'll believe it when a 50-year-old man who makes a little over $20 an hour pulls a 20-year-old.
Im halfway thru and from my perspective you just need to be around him longer. I don’t know what the time period is but it seems like you recently met so just give it some time to marinate and make sure you convey your future goals and plans in life and see his perspective on it, because the family and future thing is very valid. If his demeanor changes in any way and the red flags start to show, then by all means get that bag and dip, but if he genuinely seems like someone you want to be with then who cares it’s your life and we all gon die anyway
I got the last one reccomended and by god you're so great to listen to and just think about the subjects. Had the entire podcast on while just doing other stuff, and it was incredibly entertaining.
first video I've watched, it got recommended to me in my feed, and since I'm also in an age-gap relationship that's been working for the past 11 going on 12 years (and i dont see either of us breaking things off anytime soon LOL) I'm dying for some nuance to the conversation I tend to see online, and I'm so glad I found your video! You speak so honestly and open about this it's so refreshing! With some of the points you raise/questions you ask: If you want to know if he's a real one, communicate! You said in your video you two vibe, which is honestly so great, and I think if you want to know if he's gonna stick around with you, the way you want to stick around with him (maybe), is, just ask! Ask the uncomfortable questions, have the uncomfortable conversations, go deep! The sooner you do, the sooner you'll know whether this guy is gonna be with you for life or if he's has a history of dating younger women and wasn't planning on settling down with you, yadda yadda. If there's red flags they should start to show up in these conversations. Also, if he ever belittles your more "youthful" or "age-appropriate" interests, leave LFGLDLSL that's a 🚩 Also, since he's 30 years older than you, I would advice you (which you can take or leave bc I'm just a stranger on the internet I'm not your read dad I can't tell you what to do LMAO) to not plan your life around him, but have him plan his life around you. You do not give up anything you have built up for this man, regardless of how attractive it sounds, because like you said, if the older guy dies suddenly and you're completely dependent on him because he's the one with the bag & the established life etc. You'll get completely uprooted. There should be space in this relationship for you to establish your own life, He should not want you to become dependent on him! (that's another 🚩😂) About children: do you have family and friends who would jump in to help you? It takes a village to raise a child & people can die at any moment for whatever reason. You could start a family with someone your own age & they could get in a car crash on the way home from you delivering your baby and die - that's grim but it's true! You never know what happens to your partner or what kind of hidden health issues they might have regardless of age & when they'll start showing up. You might have a really good relationship with this man for 20 or 30 years - that's longer than most relationships last nowadays 😅 Who knows what happens right?? But even if your relationship only lasts a couple of years - you'll still be in your 20s if things don't work out, you have PLENTY OF TIME to find another partner to start a family with. I'd say, enjoy your crush, enjoy eachother in the moment, if you both do, that moment could turn into a beautiful long-lasting relationship. I hope something in here was helpful ❤ good luckk
you're literally one of the most entertaining people ive seen on this platform, i can genuinely watch your videos for like HOURS. it feels like im just having a chat with my friend. keep up the awesome work!! and last video i know you were talking about anime, i would heavily recommend bloom into you if you like gl/yuri. changed me as a person. cheers!!
@@yourratnextdoor4185 yes! i have a lot. obviously start off with bloom into you, and finish the series with the manga as the anime doesn’t cover all of it ( thought the anime is *incredible*. ) then id suggest whisper me a love song, mainly the manga tho, the anime which is coming out is sadly mid quality due to the company creating overworking their employees. other ones i’d heavily recommend are the guy she was interested in wasn’t a guy at all, i love amy, im in love with the villainess, the summer you were there, and lycoris recoil which isn’t explicitly gl, incredible story though. they really shouldve gotten together & there’s a s2 coming out so hopefully!! you can read all of these online apart from lycoris recoil which you can stream.
Okay first I love all your videos, I binged them when I first found you and now I get so happy every time a new episode comes out . And secondly, you should cop that mannnnn. If you like him I think you should just go for it and see what happens, roll with it!
I recently just found your channel and I can really relate to your videos and I LOVE THEM especially the video are you outgrowing your friends or just growing because I’m about to go to college and the thing that’s stressing me out the most is am I going to lose them
OMG if you're watching Scott Pilgrim you HAVE to read the graphic novel series it's based on bc the graphic novels are so good!!! Also, best of luck on your new relationship; I think that if adults go into it without fetishistic intent and are willing to address the age gap as it comes up, then age doesn't matter at all.
From my experience I noticed older women don’t usually gravitate towards younger women which im like WHYYYY but idk maybe it’s not an age factor but the person
13:31 it's not necessarily the age that women gravitate toward these "older men". Its more so the resources that women gravitate to because by a certain age, most women understand that if she's going to elevate to a certain lifestyle which requires a partner to be financially well off, it going to come from a much older man that has established his resources. 27:30 Again! lol. It's natural, its hard wiring from the psyche. They all want an older man, but it's not for his age, it for the resources. They will alway revert to what a million year of evolution has instill in then to seek resources.
Personally, I’ve always been more fond of older people. It’s understandable why people stay away from it, but as long as your boundaries are met, there’s nothing wrong with it.
Wait if you still consider yourself to be "in childhood" because you're yet to be 21 and have the party, it is kind of odd dating someone so far into adulthood while still "in childhood". Ohh also be careful with the 'Lolita" comparison on this topic because there is a very famous book of the same title. Its a story about a kidnapping and sexual abuse of a 12 yr old girl through the perspective of the abuser/step father who by definition is a pedo and it goes in explicit details about everything. I only read about it yesterday myself
@@ZaisHernandez I don’t consider myself to be a child as children don’t get up every day to work and pay their own bills, lol but I do believe I am still very young, especially compared to the older gentleman. Which is why I used the word Lolita.
@@mcgaming6387 Yeah, it's not too huge of an age difference or maturity gap and those ages are more likely to relate, they are going through the same stages of life, and might have the same life goals and personal values. However, it really depends on the individual because not everyone is the same yk
