Today we're gonna be a taking a look at how to not handle rejection after proposing for marriage with a Lamborghini Twitter: / xenoshot Twitch: / xenoshots
Agreed. I can maybe see why some people find it to be a grand and romantic gesture, but personally, I'd like something quiet, intimate, and personal. It should be about us in that moment and not a crowd of strangers.
Yeah. It's weird. I live in Mexico on the beach and there's a service here that puts out a red carpet, rose petals and HUGE "Marry Me" letters on the beach. It's always awkward and often accompanied by their friends waiting in the wings. 😮
You took the words right out of my mouth….although this adult toddler was probably counting on that as just one more thing to push her into saying yes.
You would think this was common sense...though I'm inclined to believe he knew the answer would be no, so he tried to make the situation so she couldn't refuse. Big 🚩
They make a public spectacle purposely to pressure the woman to say yes. Thats why he had the reaction he did, his intimidation and bullying didn’t work. He seems like the type that never hears the word NO.
If he's willing to act like that towards her in public when they're not even married, nor probably in a serious relationship, then how he is going to act if they are? She dodged a missle.
nah og commenter was right. You cant expect someone to fall in love with you that fast just because they buy you nice things, no matter where in the world they came from. @@tu_lei
If this were me i would be mortified. This would be way too much. Him grabbing her after she refused was incredibly disturbing. This is the moment when you let her go when this happens and you take the L and learn not to do this again.
Poor guy. Accidentally bought a bouquet of red flags instead of roses. [Edited to add]: literal red flags are used for warning of danger. In this case, him proposing after casually dating for only 3 months is a ridiculously huge red flag. Specifically this flag is referred to as "love bombing.'
And that’s all he brings to the table it seems. Most people prefer significant others with more substance. You can’t buy love or a yes from a sane person.
@@lapris7380 Agreed, but tell that to the average "modern" woman. Most seem to prefer money over love and stability. They think true happiness comes from"stuff". I feel really bad for them, but it seems like thefeminism lie is working. The number of women over 30 who are depressed and medicated is increasing daily, while the number of men going overseas to find wives is on the rise. give it another twenty years and the only women in the USA will be cat ladies.
WHEN are people going to learn that love has NO price tag on it?!!! It does NOT!!! If she accepted the car and started a relationship with him that would’ve been a horrible one. I am just glad that my fiancé loves me for who I am. It’s not what I have that impresses her. It’s who I am really.
@@Findpepperbridgewell yes, but is very upfront relationship, that is a talked and agreed arrangement. What he did is not good. The average person won’t want to get with someone if they havent known each other for over 3 months and bought something so extreme, PLUS a public proposal when you haven’t talked about marriage. Unless you are offering to give said luxury and they reciprocate such extremes (accepting), it will feel like too much.
Maybe money can’t buy love, but it certainly can buy marriages. Quantitative aspects still rank high in Asia. A man needs to have good income, a car, a house, and can buy her LV bags.
This is in China (read: normal behaviour). A super-rich, spoilt kid proposed to his Ukrainian girlfriend. She didn’t want to marry him because, according to her, he was a bad-tempered, entitled mommy’s boy. Money cannot always buy you love. She dodged the bullet with this one. Horrible!
My husband went all out for a proposal… he rolled over in bed, looked at me and said “we should get married” It was everything I ever wanted! 😂 The 18th of this month is our 36th anniversary ❤
I proposed to my husband over the phone while he was out of state for 2 months for Air Force. He said yes, but wanted to move the date A year sooner. 34 years and going strong.
I warned my husband very early on that I would LOATHE a public proposal. He ultimately made it in a park where other people were around but didn't have a reason to look at us. This, though? Horrific.
He really thought she loved him for his money, She probably liked him because he seemed like a nice guy (at first), but he showed his true colors by the way he handled that rejection.
Him grabbing her like that was a tad bit frightening 😢 imagine what he's capable of behind close doors? Thank God she left. I really hope this was just a stunt 😂 cuz man, this mad wild. He won't be able to recover from that outlandish behavior
So what she said was "I don't love you!" To which he responds "But I'm rich and you aren't going to embarass me in front of all these people." Glad I can finally put all my anime skills to use
I had a sinking feeling these kinds of proposals were becoming more and more common, kinda gives the vibe of some people thinking "if I can force my partner to marry me I definitely will", eugh
I have a few rich asian friends from high school, one is from hong kong. Hes okay to hang out with but he is a bit of a jerk. He doesnt go all out like this but his MO was to impress women with his money and then would go absoluetly balistic when they started dating if he didnt get his way. He perceives women as something he bought. He threw a chair in a restaurant once because his GF was sick and had to cancel a dinner we were going to. When were kids he was kind of like this, not as bad but when he started making his own money (his dad gave him a business to run, but hes actually really smart any way) he got worse. Hes always bragging about the women he slept with, even while dating someone, even when he had a fiance
Congrats to the Lady for dogging a bullet. That proposal was 100% all him and clout and 0 about her. He reminds me of a stalker...corner the lady in public so she won't cause a scene out of embarrassment
This is why I can’t stand huge public proposals. Basically if the woman says no she’s seen as a bitch even if she has a good reason. My husband was going to propose to me at the movie theater where I first told him I loved him but was so worried about drawing a crowd that he proposed at home instead
I am not Chinese but I have watched some videos of people who are in China and the attitude towards domestic violence by the police. it is considered typically a family matter the wife is screaming and hitting the husband or vice versa things really have to get out of hand before the police will consider stepping in on domestic violence in public to a child as well.
Strike one: doing the proposal in a public setting. Strike two: buying her an expensive, useless car she probably doesn't want. Strike three: acting like a three year old when she says no.
My fiancé proposed last October…where tf is my lambo?! Actually it was an amazing proposal, it was our 8th anniversary and he proposed at the Biltmore in Asheville which is basically a giant romantic house, gardens, and vineyards
Speaking only for myself as a woman, there is no greater red flag indicating a person prone to manipulation and controlling tendencies than public proposals and promposals. Because most people see it as a grand romantic gesture, the recipient is now socially required to accept even if they don't want to. And if the recipient is honest, and rejects the proposal, not only are met with the immediate vitriol of the in person on-lookers, but all of social media tears them apart as well. There is no winning. You either relinquish your choice to societal pressures or you are punished for exercising your choice.
This reminds me of another story similar to this one but the guy was a stalker, he bought her a car and proposed to her. The poor girl begged him to leave her alone during that.
So basically he's saying "I got money, I will buy whatever you want, marry me" when she started crying. I'm not from China but I believe could be parent pressure him of faster getting married
@@deathbydeviceable uhhh it's not normal to throw a hissy fit over someone setting boundaries and saying no. if you truly think it is, I hope you never run into an unfortunate woman/man.
Hell, I wish somebody would buy me a lamborghini. I would have thanked him. I hope he kept the car. He's a spoiled rich guy. I'm happy she dumped his ass, but his behavior after she ran away was horrifying. I still had to laugh though😂
The guy clearly has issues, the girl was smart in rejecting him, respect for that girl for being able to give up on such an expensive car for the sake of her safety and well-being
This is just love bombing to the extreme. I would die inside if someone did all this for me regardless if I loved them or not. The amount of pressure to say yes is intoxicating, especially in public! I feel so bad for her (seems like 90 day fiance now that i think about it)
She's speaking English with a Russian accent. That would make sense if that was their shared language, but he never breaks from Chinese. Beyond the short amount of time they've known each other, they can probably barely communicate. Regardless, "no" was the correct answer.
Based on how he reacted post rejection, I’d say she made a good choice. Public proposals are one of the most unnecessary things ever. The amount of pressure and attention is so overwhelming that it’s almost like you are *forced* to say yes. You just can’t buy true love.
He's a rich guy and as such probably has never been told NO in his entire life. This is a learning experience. Also, buying your bride-to-be a Lamborghini in order to impress her to say Yes actually feels cheap and lazy and proves that being rich doesn't automatically give you taste, personality, make you creative, attractive or likable. Aaaaaaaaaawkward!!!!
I heard that this could have been a set up by a company that was trying to sell those drinks or whatever it was that he kicked over on that randomly placed table. If this was actually a way to secretly advertise I think they missed the mark 😂😂😂
MY ex husband completely surprised me when he proposed after serenading me with his guitar in a crowded restaurant on Valentine's day,. The only nice thing I can say about that man is he had a beautiful voice. The whole restaurant stopped, to be respectful I'm guessing , like servers stood there with food instead of taking it to their tables, nobody talked, everyone was looking. It's a hard position to be in, I thought him and I had an understanding and we were going to hold off on getting engaged, and the ring was so flashy and huge on my finger. He knew I was against the diamond trade, now you can find the history or check to see if stone is ethically sourced. I think I would have responded differently if there weren't 100 people watching us.
He's insane! 3 months isn't lomg enough to buy your girlfriend a sports car and ask her to marry you. Now he made himself look stupid in front of his friends and all of the other people there. She definitely dodged a bullet.
I am learning Chinese and understood most of what he said, he was saying i love you and can give you everything etc... also he most likely speaks English and she chinese. Also dating isn't the same in china and Korea like here, they can get serious pretty fast... so its not simping its a different culture, but besides that he took it bad...He thought it was a romance drama, but soon found out it was a family drama, which means there would be a lot of suffering for everyone. 😬😬
This might be in a place like Harbin (far northern China), where Russians and Chinese have a history of mingling due to their shared proximity to the geographical border. Bc of this, many Chinese understand how to speak Russian and vice versa. As for her speaking English, I assume he also knows how to speak English. The fact she's choosing to publicly speak English may be her attempt to symbolically detach herself from him. Just my observation/opinion.
Love the car and the color of it. Some guys need to understand that money can't buy love. Wish I knew what they were saying. It's sweet that he would buy her such an expensive thing, but she clearly doesn't want any of it, and he is being too pushy. Most women do NOT like pushy men. Him throwing a huge tantrum us a HUGE red flag! That is not normal behavior. I get he is upset, but acting like that will only make things worse😡 If he is going to get aggressive like that in public because he didnt get his way, and get VERY pushy with the woman he wants, then he would most likely do worse behind closed doors. I don't care what your culture is, being abusive to women is NOT ok. nor is being controlling with women!
Certainly if he acts like this when things don't go his way, that gives you an inclination of why she turned him down; good thing she found out early on!
Sorry to burst everyone's bubbles, it seems like it's a social media fake thing. The fact that she says it in English with an accent. We shouldn't take everything we see as a factual incident.
