Literally was at a bar met a chick she was so drunk she literally told me she used to get ran through In college. And she then said she wanted to be serious with someone… I laughed so hard 😂😂
I used to work at Walmart and would dig out this new girl’s guts, then one day she comes check out at my line with another dude, says hello to me, grabs her bags and leaves. Turns out the dude was her boyfriend, she had a boyfriend the entire time I was digging out her guts. And she even had the audacity to check out at my line like nothing, These females COLD G 🥶
When a woman cheats on you it is almost always premeditated. She had to have lost feelings for you weeks or months prior, talked about said lost feelings to her girlfriends or family (this is why should never look at her friends and family as your own because they are for her best interest), searched for a man she has proclaimed your superior in some arbitrary standard, entertained said man for weeks or months (while you are none the wiser), and then finally she does the deed. She'll do it several times in order to figure out if said man wants to take her seriously...oh by the way she'll continue to sleep with you in order to not arouse suspicion. Now she'll either get careless and get caught or she'll break up with you and get with him a week later, this how they move on much quicker than men.
Bro It ain't got to do with nothing about no loss feelings all these shi u saying she 4 Street she 4 Street stop making excuses you talking about it's cuz she lost feelings you're saying that as that is a good excuse if that is not a good excuse then why you even saying it SMH then you got these little kids under these comments agreeing with you
This is all true. The problem men has is, that they can never understand the womans decision in these cases is correct. She left because youre a shit match. The guy can never see this when the ego is hurt and the purpose is lost. Thats what makes women much stronger mentally.
Or better yet instantly drop all the feelings and give different reactions towards shit like this by letting her know without telling her that it didn't bother you but made you happy or laugh and just treat her like the sl*t she is
You will never be the only one she’s talking to 💯 you gotta be whiling to walk from these chicks at anytime 💯 the best way to is to focus on your purpose and always put yourself first 💯 we will always get the last laugh when we stay on our purpose and become colder and successful 💯 and pay attention to her actions and not her words 💯
@@jibril2473 Facts, the best thing for him to do would’ve been to walk up to the car & say “I see what you doing btw, dont even think about calling me again” in a calm voice with straight voice & then walking away and never contacting her again. Or heck, say nothing AT ALL and just block her number so she dont even know he know. But tbh it probably wouldn’t have meant anything to her since this looks like he was an overly emotional beta male which is why she probably cheated.
I mean think about it alotta guys including myself used to be straight up beta males having feminine energy so when we see other dudes out here living like that it's usually a dude who has no dad not so many men in the family or has a beta father or stepfather who would have female mindsets and rarely that would also happen when they do have a dad in their lives because it could be their dad trying to teach their sons the game of life especially stuff like this while the momma tries to prevent him from doing that
When Steph said “talkin to him with the other mans diggin stick still inside her” I couldn’t help but to bust out snickering with a laugh… there’s no limit to this circus of absurdity 🎪
The reason why men struggle so hard is because they prioritize their life around needing validation from women and struggling not to validate her. When you truly start to love and improve yourself, you dont struggle withholding from validating a woman because you genuinely dont possess the desire to, because you are transforming yourself. Only you can love yourself in the truest way. Thats it. Not another man not another woman only you. When you are fulfilling yourself you win. And self love is synonymous with self esteem, it only comes with genuinely doing the work. But when it begins to pay off, it pays off tremendously. You can enjoy women, but at your convenience rather than your self sacrifice without giving away your own energy. Thats when you win. When you cant be controlled or manipulated, because you put yourself first.
Right you can still enjoy beautiful woman as long as you’re not overly invested and you don’t let her make you emotional and cry like a little beta right?
Yes. But for the average man its gonna take hard work. Its the emotional attachment that gets men. Being too invested and not doing the self work. Its doing the self work and putting yourself first with the understanding of the pitfalls of being too invested, that keeps you from actually being too invested. The understanding is important. Alot of men are still simply trying to pretend to act with value rather than genuinely doing the work, which is why they end up giving their energy away and losing the attraction. Getting too emotionally attached and needy/desperate is always going to be a factor when you arent on your personal purpose and improving. Self love removes neediness from everyone/everything. But it doesnt come without doing the work. This is why men may manage to raise interest but then lose it, because the facade of faking high value only last so long. Eventually how they really are emerges and women catch on, leading them right back to square 1. The root cause of the problem is not doing the work of self development, both internally (adopting the positive mindset of believing in yourself to succeed) and externally (doing the actual physical work) mindset and action both must be in a constant synchronicity for success to happen. When you truly become valuable and value self, you wont need to pretend, it will be as natural as breathing. But you have to do the work and not be lazy. No way around it.
@@johnsysays Most Men are averrage and even below averrage looking the beard is make up to Men cause they know that without they wouldn't look good. You got to have a extremely beautiful face to not have a Beard.
It’s crazy to think steph is only 24…… he’s literally just 3 years older then me yet he’s like 20 years ahead of the game mentally and financial wise too, you’d think this man in his mid 30s or 40s , it’s mindblowing tbh
That’s what happens when you put some one over Jesus Christ. “Do not put your trust in princes, in mortal men, who cannot save. When their spirit departs, they return to the ground; on that very day their plans come to nothing. the Maker of heaven and earth, the sea, and everything in them-- the LORD, who remains faithful forever. ... Praise the LORD.”
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions 2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue 3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman 4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man 5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger 6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge 7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP 8. Stay away from single mothers 9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s 10. Never fully commit 11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut 12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you 13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment 14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust 15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf
And some weak minded men would take out their guns and gun these chicks down right there and then and that would result in their lives being ruined in the process. All because the chick deceived him .
The dude who killed his baby mom and girlfriend said these exact words . Stop playing with people emotions . Don’t condone the way he went about it , but you can only feel for him when females be doing shit like this
Nah, you cant control what others do but you can control yourself. As a man you not even supposed to be THAT emotionally invested in a chick. A lot of guys were raised without fathers or by beta males so they think that “falling in love” is good. You should NEVER fall in love with a woman, or invest too much of your emotions into her. There should always be an emotional wall that you keep up with women. And your mindset should always be “I dont care about this bih, its nice to have her here for now but I got better things to do like improving my finances & fitness”.
@@osmanbey8796 your right as a man you should always be worried about your finances and fitness .But i disagree you can’t have that bitter Macho man randy savage attitude . You just can’t go out like no sucka and wear your heart on a sleeve . All females not bad and I’m sure there were signs that this man tried to ignore but him going out as soon as i would’ve peeped that she on some weird shit i would’ve just dropped her way before it came to him pulling up and recording Elizabeth get off of her looking ass lol
No matter how much it hurts you gotta leave when u get that gut feeling. That’s what being cold is: The ability to put your feelings to the side for the greater good
Be cold is never being fully committed to a woman in the first place. The ability to have fun with women, enjoy their company & NOT catch any deep feelings for them, that’s cold af right there. Nothing scares a woman more than a man who can fuck her, have great experiences & laughter with her, and then immediately turn emotionless when she misbehaves. That kind of man she can’t manipulate.
Wisdom to the young men. The only way a man can be cheated on is if he “claims” a female as his own. Always give a female the freedom to do whatever she’s been doing before you met. When you put it down like that you’re also giving yourself the freedom to do the same…without saying it outright. Use other females to keep your mind off her.
Lol 🤣 u can't live life like that an build a family, when ur in the streets roll that way but u have to be intentional and not hungry for a realationahip ready girl ublook for the signs during not after.
Exactly. Dont get why the jilted guy still feels the need to go on a rampage and shoot the chick who cheated on him .and he even goes further by shooting her lover and her mother and so on . And the fool ends up destroying his own life because he invested his entire heart and soul in that 304 and couldnt comprehend that she could cheat on him.
Facts bro now I see why chris brown said these ho'es ain't loyal a lot of us men and boys gotta understand are time will come but we gotta focus on our purpose🥶💪🏿💯
1:23 There's no need to ask fam...If you catch her in the act then that's the only answer you need right there. Repeatedly yelling for her to answer the question is futile at that point. Just walk away!
Facts bro. It happened to me. She was in college we was together for 2-3 months. Both freshmen. I was a fool back then. I surprise visited her and I kid you not she was there, in her dorm, lights down and on her bed laid up with another dude. Right next to her bed was literally our pictures on the wall. I didn't even say nothing man, I just walked away. It hurt and I wanted to go off on her but in my head I considered that would just add more hurt and fix nothing. That was my awakening moment.
Not every women is a Jezebel! Smh! The social grace showed me there’s a lot of hurt men and women. I’m getting rid of it. Outside of the social I don’t hear about this kind of stuff. So toxic!
A subscriber from South Africa here.. wanna say Steph bro I no longer watch TV, Sopies or even series. Your Redpill wisdom is what keeps me FREE mentally and emotionally sane. Not to forget EDUCATED. Redpill Is an important service for men.
Bro literally something very similar happened to me a few weeks ago. She traveled with her family and met a guy over there. She cheated and called me to let me know cuz supposedly she felt so guilty about it for doing it. To keep the story short I was the one who broke up with her and later on she told me she don’t love me no more and she said she didn’t regret it cuz she started to like the guy. Now she wants something with him. I’ve been watching and learning from Steph for a long time but after watching this video it really impacted me and made me realize I need to get colder and boss up. Honestly I needed this video from Steph he’s always spittin facts for us and getting us straight
Get in the gym, take up a trade in Electrical, Plumbing or HVAC, Cyber Security is good too... then get you a side hustle on the side... watch how the tide turns literally before your eyes. Stay strong and never ever fall for a woman again until you know the Most High sent her.
She’ll regret it eventually. She probly regrets now but women are too prideful. They will never admit it. Use this to be your best version. This is fuel to the flame.
Just walk away. It happened to me. She was in college we was together for 2-3 months. Both freshmen. I was a fool back then. Nothing was even suspicious there were no red flags. We talked a lot, we called every night, she always texted me first. Then I surprise visited her and I kid you not she was there, in her dorm, lights down and on her bed laid up with another dude. Right next to her bed was literally our pictures on the wall. She had our first pic together framed on her desk. I didn't even say nothing man, I just walked away. It hurt and I wanted to go off on her but in my head I considered that would just add more hurt and fix nothing. That was my awakening moment.
A guy can be above average in all fields, but if she feels CHEMISTRY with another dude, its a wrap. Doesn’t come down to size, money, height, etc. those are just bonuses
It’s crazy this actually blew up IK the dude who recorded this, he was posting her days before this happened it also happened in Katy,TX(basically Houston)
It sounds like he was putting her above him before that moment. Maybe that's why she cheated. He even bought her food for her lunch break and look at what happened. He sounds like he did everything right. Never do everything right bro. I can bet that man who she's with in the back seat wouldn't do half the stuff that the boyfriend did for her.
“If she nasty with u, she’s going to be nastier with him” this line really hit home. It goes to show womens’ hypergamous nature. And it won’t stop, that’s why there’s the emphasis of us men focusing on ourselves. At the end of the day we have our program that is designed for continuous improvement and growth, it’s up to them if they want to follow the program or leave it, either way the growth/improvement is not gonna stop for anyone
It’s tough but on the real money growth and freedom is a lot better and easier than being with a chick where you have no idea is riding with you 💯 percent or not. Shit is very sad
I really want steph to talk about men who get cheated on after being with them for 7years - 20yrs. It’s always easy to walk away and swallow the pill, but steph has to help out who spent decades of our LIVES with a woman who cheated.
Same concept. Once you understand she can leave you at anytime it makes it easier. Doesn’t mean you won’t be hurt but have to value self. We fell for the Hollywood movie bs. My wake up moment was after I got of the military. Moved to a different state to be with her. I even told her that her coworker was shady. She said she didn’t like him. Guess who she cheated on me with LOL. She started a fight a tried to make me hit her so it would ease her guilt. I packed my truck and left South Carolina headed back to Michigan. I stopped at a pay phone and called her. I was crying and she told me man tf up and hung up on me. LOL that was 2003 and since then ever relationship afterwards was easier to deal with. When they want to go there is no fight. I just do me. A woman who loves you won’t cheat on you. If you take them back they will do it again.
One time a chick I met briefly through a friend added me on snap and would blow me when we met up. She invited me out to her bday party and whole time she had a BF that was there. Apparently he cheated too and she wanted revenge and they're still together. Pretty messy imo
yo Steph thank you for all of these videos man. i'm going through a tough breakup, after a 3 years relationship from 16 to 19. my girl cheated on me, we kept talking for three months, then i decided we can't do that anymore and after the first two weeks, she kissed a fuckboy and then told me she's sad that he's a fuckboy cause after that night she wanted more. some bitches ain't shit, real talk. thank you again Steph, you're the man! (i'm from Romania, just so you know that you reached this part of the world too)
Yep. If she doesn’t believe in The Lord Jesus Christ more than you do and read her bible every night before bed you literally have no shot of a relationship with her in my opinion. I’ve dated too many girls that fake believe in God or just didn’t believe at all.
And wat that ohhhh I know listening to this nigga and going off wat he said huh, make ur own mind instead of taking advice from someone who stereotype women because of a bad past
Been watching Steph for 3 months. I served 5 years, 2 deployments for over 10 months. I done saw so many relationships ended, rings getting “lost”, etc. Shid my girl cheated on me, I kept it G though💯😂.
Why.......is this young man ARGUING with this chick.....while she's with ANOTHER dude???😳 I bet he paid the car note, the insurance, AND put gas in the tank........🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 What part of the game......is THIS???? Somebody, PLEASE teach these young cats some game.......🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The best revenge to give back on a woman who do you bogus like this is to succeed in life. Never put a woman first in anything because you will fall flat, and that applies to everything. Stay cold 🥶
Same bout man it gets better with time. My girl left me a month ago and monkey branched but it’s all good I’m leveling up I just took it as a sign that she not supposed to continue on my journey. Pussy was amazing but that’s it girl was toxic as hell.
@@ProperXSmoke to be honest I don't even miss the trick. I just miss that sweet watery gut. That's just the scarcity mindset that most of us need to change. Anyways, moving on
The side chick part 😂 I just had one catch feelings for me and I had to end it. It was her idea to be fwb but now she wants more. Women cannot have causal sex, they like you if they give up the guts. I’m learning this.
As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another, thabk you for all the free information you have given Men about the truth of female nature. Praying 4 u my bro, grace and peace from polynesia New Zealand.
I see you bro. I was wondering when you was gonna trim it down. I understand tho most of us introverts don’t really keep up to style cuzz we on our own shit 💯💯
What's so funny is my ex, literally the one who did the same and redpilled me is also named Elizabeth. Two years later I have a nice ass car, almost have my own crib, dress and look better than ever, cold approached for the first time a girl at my job and she came and asked for my number the next day. The same hoe is thirsting, viewing all my stories and and added me back on fb. Only reason I accepted is that she can see me with all my new hoes doing better than ever.
