I ended a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man I was with for over a year and going no contact has made me feel positive.Iam now enjoying life with and doing stuff for me No one is ever going to make me feel that fuckin shit about myself again
omg sister i JUST ENDED MY FWB "emotionally DEAD inside" 2 YEARS with the man Today !! im hurting but he had long enough to want me fully. IM FUCKING DONE.
@SliceofHeaven1984 most men are bluffing and testing to see how much they can get away with because they think women are too nice and blindly loyal. My ex had a mental breakdown when I finally moved on to another man lol
When he comes back, make him take you on a luxury shopping spree lol. Otherwise, he will keep treating you like a revolving door if there's no consequences or punishment.
💯 true .. women think "he loves me but he's just too broken from last relationship/too busy with career/ or he loves me so much he runs away from me coz it scares him" 😊
Not necessarily. I had a bf do this, he was unsure about me and being in a relationship. He came back after 3 weeks and proposed to me 1 year later. So a man can come back but when they come back you have to be ready to say that you want something real.
Thanks for spitting the cold hard facts, Eliott. I did one round of this bs with an emotionally unavailable man that I’m crazy about. He came back after a month of no contact saying he missed me, but it was all the same breadcrumbing crap again so he could keep the pssy going. After about 6 weeks I walked away again and now it’s been another month nc. Done this time, not going another round with his dusty ass.
I absolutely love the fact you don’t sugar coat any of these situations because we as women need the harsh reality to actually change. Thank you for your content 🙏🏽
I had this happen with a guy friend, where it’s on going like this back and forth for years. After not speaking for months, he comes back then feels pressure, this helps me see the bigger picture~ not sure if he will ever realize where it will ever go, but it is crazy😢 thx Elliot 😊💕
LADIES - how to proceed with such an emotionally unavailable, commitment-phobe should he want to meet/come back into your life: 1. Make yourself LOOK as fantastic as possible ie lose weight; change your hairstyle/colour; update your wardrobe; wear heels if you're a trainers type of woman; get contact lenses in place of glasses etc so you LOOK TOTALLY DIFFERENT to when he knew you before 2. Slip into the conversation how you built up your career since he knew you, or that you've become a blogger or business owner etc 3. Drop into the conversation that you've worked like a Trojan in the intervening period and PAID OFF YOUR MORTGAGE (he won't have!) 4. Even if your heart is breaking at seeing him again after many years, act like your life is happy and fulfilled (this will crucify him) 5. Set your 'phone to ping during your chat/meeting with him so he thinks people are messaging you (makes you appear popular) 6. Be pleasant, kind and charming no matter how much you want to swear/berate him for how he treated you (this will freak him out) Do all these things - and watch him squirm!!
Love the way you deliver messages , honest and direct I want to win , I want Him to feel even a little of what I felt . This will booster my self esteem
Lmao I’m so mad bc he did have to come back and prove it and did all this work and we were back together for a year and he did it AGAIN after all the work he put it to get it back. Never again I am moving on.
Elliott I believe what you’re saying is true and women need a wake up call. I just also believe that you are not communicating this (and I know you’re a great communicator) the way that women will receive it in an advantageous way for them as well as you. I felt put off by your presentation. Many women buy into what men do and say. That’s why men keep getting away with their behavior . Talk about how fabulous women are and how high value they are and give them insight to what’s really going on that doesn’t make men look like dogs and predators. And let women know that they are what high value men need and want. Teach women how to weed out the emotionally unavailables I know you do that I’ve been watching your RU-vid for some time now but this video was not skewed to your female audience in what’s in their best interest in a manner that makes them like or trust your opinion. This is my opinion, just saying.
All....straight, no- bullshit facts 💯. A guy i was dating for a year is trying to pull this exact scenario. Mind you ive already stupidly had gave him like 2-3 chances with this marry go round. He messages, " I miss you, I love you " lol things and i told him, Sir....thats not how love goes, and all the best in your life 🫡
This does not exist, emotionally unavailable! Otherwise he would not even be able to cry or laugh..where did his emotions go??? This is just a stupid excuse they use for saying, i dont want you🤣
