Traditional values in the Philippines includes sex before marriage being a sin according to Catholicism. This couple is strong and has a very mature attitude.
I admire this couple and wish you all the best… I am a Filipina, married for almost 59 yrs to US Air Force. Now both of us retired living in Honolulu, Hi..
I was 19, and my hubby was 31 when we got married 1980. We were both single and never been married. During our years together, I never let my husband support my family. When I migrated to Canada, I went to school and worked to help earn money for our family. We help out with my family in the Philippines,only during emergencies. After a few years, We managed to sponsor my 6 nephews and nieces, and 2 sisters… we even played match makers to some of our friends and relatives. We are both retired now, enjoying the best of our two countries…
My wife is from Indonesia. She also would not have sex before marriage. That was difficult at times, but I respected her for that, so waited. We’ve been married 16years and still going strong 😊
I’ve been trying to reply to the viewers who found the term “Daddy” icky. That’s how Filipino couples call each other, or even Mama and Papa, or Nanay and Tatay. It’s a term of endearment for us. My American husband and I call each other that, and he’s only a few months older than me. It sets the tone on how the kids address their parents. My parents and grandparents were the same way. There’s nothing weird or dirty about that, unlike in Western countries.
If a woman is a virgin, I could see why she would want to wait a little while. There’s nothing wrong with waiting until after marriage. But, once you‘re married, never stop doing it.
Women have the right to decide to wait for marriage even if they're not virgins. Men are not entitled to our bodies any more than we are entitled to your money. Everyone can set whatever standard they want.
My girlfriend and I are in an LDR, and she's Filipina. Everything they say here is true about traditional roles. I love being with a Filipina and we are planning on meeting in person soon.
virginity is the best gift that u can give to ur husband,thats why we filipina's values our virginity in the first place.my husband is a filipino he is so proud that im still a virgin,how much to a foreigner which...very proud of you sis...
Being a Christian man and finding a 28 year old young beautiful girl who is a virgin is idea in my mind. Like the guy stated, he is a Christian, he should wait. Good for them. I wish them nothing but happiness and success.
lol i didnt hear she said she was virgin, haha i met lots of them who want marriage first before sex. and i asked them if they are virgins and they said no haha.
Patrick is incredibly fortunate to have found a genuine Filipina who upholds traditional values in this modern era. As a Filipino, I can confidently assert that there are still many religious Filipinas who abide by the cultural norm of abstaining from sex until marriage.
@@selohcin That is rare to find nowadays because of the civilization and influence of the western world especially the entertainment industry, the ratio statistically is 1 out of a hundred, you can find a girl who accept long age gap but she'll go only for money, some were seriously genuine but not accepting over 10 years gap, they are variety of choices and types.
I'd like to remind people, the girls can lie right?! Lol she could be 100% genuine but also I'd keep my guard up and make sure I'm not getting scammed or anything bad that could happen.
I do the same i want to keep pure till get married. But my ex did not want that. So he did not come back here again. Its okay God save me from the wrong person. I like this man he has a lot resect to his woman. God centered relationship was the best. God bless you beautiful couple.
I admire you. Make sure that you do not fall for s-x before marriage. Please write to me. I live in California and would like to correspond with you. May God always protect you and guide you.
I did the same to my partner. We didn’t have sex after we got married. We been married for 30 years, with one beautiful daughter! Every marriage have a challenge and everyday is a surprise day. Just don’t give up . Love can conquered anything . Just don’t forget God🙏🙏🙏
Wonderful couple! I was married to a Filipina for 21 years and knew her for another 4 years! We had a wonderful life till she passed away form cancer in August of 2022.! I hope I can meet another Filipina when I am ready!
That’s heart-breaking to hear. I can only imagine it must be incredible to be married to a Filipina. Praying you find another one who will love you as much as the first
if you want to marry Filipina, the simple way is, don't be a bossy, don't be like a rude king, don't hurt her physically and mentally, you have to be equal decision and talk about your own responsibility, then you can have what peaceful mind you are expecting, sometimes Filipina there's a something called, "Toyo" means, she's angry without any reason, but don't be mad very quick, you just have to be quiet, don't talk to her for a while, then after a minute or for an hour, come to her back and say the 3 words and say "where do you want to have dinner"?, then your happy life must go on.
For foreigners looking for a good Filipino wife, explore the right places. Don't expect that you will find a good catch while spending time at the nightly bars. And don't give out money, Filipinos can fend for themselves - the responsible ones, I mean.
I married my American husband for twenty years never ask money from him, I work for own need and extra for my family since then. Husband just take care rent and insurances, mine is food and utilities. That’s my arrangement. I feel ashamed to ask money from my husband for the reason I’m financially earn my own since after high school. Even I went to college never ask from my parents.
Good for you, everything is case to case basis , it is not easy to find work here in the Philippines but if the guy will bring him to United States and there's job's that we Filipinos can work we take those chances ,we are not dependent people ,we work even during holidays, so have some respect to others you donot know them as i do not know you, thank you for your comment anyway. Happy holidays.
That is what most adults do I understand you live in a hard country to make a living but it is not imposable many people living there make a livable wage it is just if you want to do what it takes to get such a wage.
If the girl respect her body she don't give her virginity as easy like that.. to me virginity is one precious gift to a a coming husband.. great video content
I was so impressed by this couple and how they love and respect each other. I also love that they are not having sex before marriage and that they don’t cross certain boundaries so that their marriage will be their blessing to each other.
Met my fiance in Colombia and a lot of the same values. The USA is one of the most dysfunctional societies in the world. I highly encourage men of any age to travel and find a woman overseas.
Chad thank you so much for your videos, I've watched many of yours and some others also, but content from you is superior and especially appealing because you are not one of those guys just looking for a hookup. This is your best interview yet. What a genuine couple that you have here. It so special especially in today's world to find people that choose to honor their commitment to the Lord. Please do a follow-up interview after they're married. Keep up the great work and may you be blessed.
I met my wife. She was 30, I was 46. She'd never even kissed a guy before. But, she had a good job, and had decided to have a baby (which I didn't know). She called me a couple months after I was back in USA from my 2 week trip and told me "I'm pregnant, it's ok if you don't support us". Well, I wasn't going to leave my child in Philippines, and now we've been married 17 years :).
@@timngim583 Nah he doesn't care about silly stuff like that, the main thing is she said it was his baby, so regardless if it's his biological baby he feels like a father.
Lucky man, she’s beautiful and very sweet, the first time I heard about a 31 year old virgin in the Philippines I laughed because I thought that wasn’t possible but now I know that’s very common in the Philippines for woman to remain virgins until marriage, my wife is a Filipino and she has a good friend who was a virgin until she got married at 45, I know to Americans that sounds crazy but these are traditional Christian women and it’s not uncommon there.
I really don't think sex and intelligence are connected. I work with Filipino doctors and nurses who are all incredibly intelligent, and they all believe in sex before marriage. Which makes a nonsense of your comment. And they are totally totally fluent in English too !
@@timmy4wimmy i just think its intelligent to Not give away sex easily for a girl. i think its dumb for a girl to give away sex easily. which part of that didnt you get, the eas or the ily? a man can already tell if they wanna marry a girl by their physical appearance , personality and/or level of intelligence. sex is not a factor unless youre the most shallow man on earth
I'm a Filipina. I've met white men and they don't believe that I'm still a virgin at my age😅. I told them in the first place that I'm not into premarital sex and I notice that they don't agree with what I want so I let them go🤷.
You got lucky. So many get burned and we don't hear their stories enough. Many find the girl wants babies instead of birth control. That she puts her family above her asawa. That she craves hot chix-boys, etc.
I married my Filipina after a year LDR. We met four times in Manila where she lives, she’s from Cabanatuan. We never touched each other nor did we want to. She is the first woman I really respected. You can only imagine how special our first intimate time was, as it should be and as it is meant to be. My beautiful virtuous woman is with me in Australia now living happily ever after.
Interesting video with 2 nice & pleasant people living their own lives. Too bad there are so many jaded & judgmental folks making negative comments but that’s RU-vid.
Very informative and useful. As a Catholic, it is very useful to share this video. The info on a Christian dating site is extremely helpful. It's nice to know that there are provincial ladies who save themselves for marriage. The great part is for Filipinas to see that there are men with the morals to wait for a physical relationship. For Filipinas to be natural, and not be worried about language--Americans don't care about the difference--"all" relationships take time to build and learning the language both ways is just one of those building that relationship. God Bless!
Such a great video. So happy for Patrick and her (did they ever give her name?) She is amazing, they are amazing together. I hope to meet someone like her one day when I come over there. Thanks so much for your great videos, they are so informative. Keep up the good work. o/
Another great interview with good subjects. very happy they both met each others rare standards; the same as I would look for. Very good examples of the right way to establish a relationship. 👍 I will be there in a week for the month of January at Dauin.
I'm a Filipina, married an American at the age of 38, a virgin. I have a couple of friends who are now almost 60 but still virgins. Virginity is big deal in our family.
I have found a beautiful Filipina woman, that we both have vowed to keep traditional values. I understand that there are desires, but I told her that I will respect her always which means that I will never go against her and our values. We are expecting to see each other later this year. We have respect for each other.
Your interview with this couple is why I subscribed to your channel Chad. I cringe when I hear all the negative interviews and comments about Filipinas who treat foreigners as a meal ticket and an ATM. Sad to say that in most cases this is due to the fact that these stories so often come from the mouths of foreigners who have arrived here for the first time and have very little knowledge of the Philipino culture and even less knowledge of the girl or her family. They make the mistake of not telling the girl from day one that they are not a bank or a loan company and they are here to find happiness and share that with someone who will reciprocate in every way. That means in honesty respect , in attitude, and tender loving care. They should point out that the relationship between the two of them has to be developed before committing to any financial assistance towards her family and make it crystal clear that it is a non negotiable condition until enough time has passed for the foreigner to feel that the girl has a genuine desire to build a.Happy and loving relationship together.
👏👏👏👏👏 I salute her! This world full of immoral, immodest and impure people needs more women... AND...men like her who want to wait before marriage. The man she ends up marrying is very lucky. Please treat her right!
You don’t know someone, as a partner, until you sleep with them. If it’s the woman requesting no sex before marriage, you truly have to ask what you’re buying here. Marriage is just about FOREVER in the Philippines, so good luck…
Very nice couple. Good girl and a very nice gentleman. You're very lucky to have each other.I do believe that waiting till after marriage is such a beautiful promise & commitment . Good luck to both of you .
21:25 “Have fun, enjoy life and honour God.” Patrick would put that on his family crest What a great philosophy That is my reading of the Book of Ecclesiastes 🎉
I think it's very telling that Alona acknowledged that even in the Philippines, it was very hard for her to find a Filipino man who was willing to abstain from sex until marriage. All the best to Joe and Alona!
Honestly I can’t find all the words to describe the emotion I felt watching this episode, but God Bless the beautiful couple. Hopefully I can be blessed in the same way too. True values between a man and a woman. ❤
I agree completely with preserving the sanctity of a woman's purity as a gift to a couple's union. That being said, I've long since come to question the whole idea of ritual marriage via statutes and laws. Is it not about personal vows between two souls under God and His word? Either way, it is quite admirable and rare to witness. May their path be paved with God's blessings...
I watched this video and it is so close to mlour story, been here for 4 months, been traveling now for 2 yrs, and I must say there story is so similar that even my fiancé was tapping me on the shoulder. But I agree 100% on getting the right one!!
Who needs sex?? Certainly not me.I am 65, I am glad I don t need that anymore. I am married to a philippina since 2022. We never had sex and we are both happy that way!
One of very few good stories older American man married young Filipina . I hope they stay together for ever. I wish them good luck in their life journey.
Im very sorry for these guys. Young woman, old guy. Draw your conclusions. He even has to pay money to her parents. There is no love there. It’s all about money.
but it's exactly the same in the West, dating decisions are massively influenced by status... i.e. money, just in the West we try to wrap it up and delude ourselves, try telling your girl that you want to step-back and have a more chilled lowered paid job and then count the months until she leaves you... fact
Amazing couple! Lucky man, this pinay is genuine, God fearing and they will have a good future for sure.. God is the center of their relationship…. The guy also is very kind and decent!
My best friend is 63 and was dating a very young girl who is 28 with a 10-year-old daughter. He took $140k of his 401k for her to build a house, and he can only afford a peanut butter sandwich for lunch and dinner, because, besides the $140K, he still sends her $1000 every month.
Not a scam. In the Phils. having so many sex partner before marriage is seen as dishonorable and unpure. Tradtional and conservative Pinays hold on these values of being pure and clean until the wedding rites are done.
No offense also but some foreigners also after sex they go away 😂😂😂 and lots of filipina also have a kid from a foreigner that missing in action so its a scam ang stupid foreigner also no offense😂😂😂 My husband is european and we are 2 years happily married and counting..if want true love from a filipina show your love not your money😊
So many filipinas still have that traditional belief even me im 29 i got married first before i had that even my sister she married an american and he respects my sister he waited until they get married and now they are still together and married for almost 33 yrs and me 31 yrs so you guys be patient if you met that kind of filipina
Sa panahon ngayon parang kunti nalang mga kababaihan na pinahalagahan ang virginity. Matagal akung nakapag asawa dahil din conservative ang personality ko, wla akung naging bf na pinoy dahil takot ako, mahilig maglaro ng kababaihan ang mga pinoy kaya maraming nabubuntis at hindi nagkatuluyan.I got married at my age 45 and my american husband also followed the old traditions of marriage.
