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Thank God someone sees 👀 the importance of speaking 🔊 out sometimes 😢Its sad when certain people think 🤔 this show is only about defaming people they fell out with 😢
Oh, bra! It’s just so sad. She did everything to maintain the marriage despite the red flags. Hopefully our sisters will take notes from this sweet lady. I hope God restores everything she lost because if this guy.
Wow. This is a touching story. I believe the lady was blinded by love and thought it would all work out but it did not. I can sense that she has a very very good heart. I even got emotional watching this. May God bless this beautiful woman. Thanks for fostering
Life abroad is hard already, we dont need partners that bring more frustration. From the story, this guy got it very easy. Free loader, rent free, user- he will see how life abroad really is. Please, ladies, don't tolerate these abusive partners. Prioritize your peace of mind, health and happiness.
@@keteninnsroja5753am glad you're not taking sides, cause this is nothing new with Ghanaian women when their relationship don't work, then they start to play am the victim game.
My first time witnessing Dj given someone a platform without interacting. Hmmm… this lady needed someone to talk to and by given the platform was amazing. You did a very good job Dj.Keep your head up sis. Everything happens for a reason.
Psychologically, low self esteem drives women to settle for less even when the red flags are there. Let's love these men but at the same time, let's love ourselves first too. Our lives also matter. Listening to things like this gets to me. Kindness should have a limit my fellow women and men. Gone are the days our ancestors took bs in the name of marriage.
It’s not advisable to marry anyone from Ghana. There are so many men and women abroad . People are only desperate to travel and not looking for love. Please stop dating people in Ghana!
If this woman had been told by her family in the last minute, she wouldn’t have listened or she would probably consult others who’ll tell her that her family envies her. A woman in love is like a blind bird, they only flutter their wings. Anyways, l can tell she has a good heart. You’ll be alright baby.
If you’re a woman and you’re desperate for a man, that’s how men will treat you. A man supposed to be a provider and a protector. Women please love yourself and don’t let a man take you for granted, especially a man you take care of. We’re our husbands helper not a provider.
Says who? Who made men providers and women the helpers? Both men and women are working these days. It's not like the olden days where women weren't allowed to work. Therefore both the man and woman are providers. It's 50/50.
Watching from UK, Milton Keynes, the lady is very humble but and downhearted. From day one,the man came to her life with different agenda but not love!
There is no perfect 💔 relationship but "Redflags" should not be ignored. Women bringing men from GH is scary and should either desist or be careful. Let men do the move.
Sis, beware of Red Flags in early stages of relationships. He was a Narcissistic Person. Heal yourself very well before you will enter into a new relationship. You've a beautiful soul.
Hmmm, this woman has been through pain, monetary, emotional, psychological trauma but it’s all good my dear sis. God bless you for taking on the responsibility of fostering these children and your work shall never be in vain. As for your husband, hmmm, please don’t stress out, just focus on the kids and keep trusting God. May the lord strengthen you
This lady has been through hell and back. Thank God she still is sane. You are a very great woman! May the good Lord continue to shower His blessings on her.
My dear sister if what you are saying is exactly how it is then all along you should have known that he was not in the marriage, sorry for what you've been through.
To answer, we always need to pray about the person with fasting or seek directions from holy spirit. In proverbs 3v6... its says we must always show our plans to God before moving forward. Our problem is we don't seek the face of God first. God always show us warning. Humans can be wicked. Finally women don't be the man in the relationship. By giving them money buying the cars. Etc etc etc. Men are supposed to be the bread winners with our support.
He’s a user and opportunist Do not take him back, please! If you cannot be by yourself, sis, get a man! He’s not your soulmate your soulmate is out there looking for you and you can get to him once you let go of him. Sis, take care of yourself, you’re beautiful and you’ll definitely meet your soulmate at the right time. Leave him and his ungrateful family’s sorry ass alone. You’ll be fine without them Hugs to you
I know it’s not easy to pull out of a marriage but you saw a lot of red flags, his parents were in Boston they couldn’t help him there now that you helped him he knew he can go there for refuge, toxic man our own enemy Ghanafour
This is ungratefulness in the highest order. My 90 year old uncle once told me that there're people who only have human skin as covering but inside, they're beasts. This guy's is one of them.
You can still complicate his future citizenship petition and immigration benefits petitions by placing disparaging reports on his USCIS records. Get an appointment and give him hell!
@labeaute312 uscis website. Report fraud. Fill form online yourself and submit. It is easy. You can also forgive him and let God, karma, take its course! Good luck!
Good journalism there, God bless you sir, for being so quite for the women to voice out her heart and emotions out. I think it's been of a great therapy to her. Sis trust, you will heal out. Your story is really sad 😥.
Cool chop and He abused it big time. Ei,hmmmm! I want to be your friend obaa. Please get in touch wai. You have a good heart and I appreciate it. God bless you
DJ Nyame, this is the best interview I have watched from your program. The man should be condemned. The parents made a big mistake by approving this marriage. Under no circumstances, should the parents allow their daughters who has been in the country for close to 30 years to go back to Ghana for marriage
This woman allowed this nonsense to go on for far too long to include finalizing his green card. This guy showed who he was from the beginning including sexually assaulting a child in your care. Finalize the divorce in U.S. court and be done with him permanently. He’s definitely a narcissist!
The man wasn’t love her and she should know from Ghana, before their marriage and her family did not try not to tell her the truth about him. She should reported him to the police in the place. She made things easy for him that’s why he was treated her anyhow, she should sat down with him and talked to him about everything in the house and helping her paying bills. I feel sorry for her 😮😢
My dear sister, you did very well. You have not done anything wrong. You have a big heart. You are beautiful inside and out. You are the daughter of the most high God. Don’t take any more abuse from that man. He is sick in the head, a typical Narcissist man. He just wants to control you and make your life miserable. It’s not easy but God will continue to see you through. Stay strong, God will take care of you and your children. It’s better to have your peace of mind and live for your children. You deserve better and know your worth. Remember you are not alone. God bless you with much love.
I am proud of you that you are divorcing him. He is a Narcissist man and that is how they play the victimization. He Will blame you for everything. What he is doing, he will rather accuse you for it. They appear to be so charming and will claim to be a marriage counselor but lack communication skills. They are prideful, egotistic and Mr know it all. Don’t tolerate and do not accept that cheating is ok. There are all sorts of sexual transmitted diseases out there. You are better off without his disrespect and control. God bless you 🙏 Take your time, you are very intelligent and hard working. Don’t rush, at the right time, God will give you someone that will love you as you are and value you.
DJ I commend you for how you allow your interviewees speak without interactions. You are a great listener and i hope this session with our sister heals her from all the pain and betrayal and May the good Lord give her someone deserving of her love.
This woman indeed definitely met what's called "useless man" b3rma w'agyimi sei de3. I wish i have a responsible and helping wife as this but chale American life with bills is not a joke ooo
Sounds like this marriage was doomed right from the beginning, but listen, life goes on my dear, just pick yourself back up and move on, this is not the end of the world, wishing you all the best, don't forget all the lessons learnt, good luck!
Very ungrateful family , even his sister is supporting his foolish actions instead of advising him . But woman , don't worry it's better to have your peace. God bless you
When it comes to Ghanaian in laws don’t entertain them much no matter what they will take their children side so in a marriage put your self and your children first and protect them my their
Hmmmm, a lesson to all single women abroad. Never go to Ghana to marry. Find a man who matches your level of exposure abroad. Once you live outside Ghana for a long time, you develop a different culture, different the the typical Ghana culture. Marrying a man who has no exposure to your level of exposure will always create problems. Their insecurities or ego will cause them to find problems with you. And also, to our Ghanaian family who like saying "Nyame b3 y3" in tough situations like this need to stop..when a lady notices a man is not good or safe for her, please beleive her and leave her alone. Don't push a husband on them because at the end of the day, they will be the ones dealing with the hostile relationship.
It’s like part of my story is being told by her. Is quite unfortunate that those with good hearts are sometimes😢treated like badly especially by narcissists.🤬
Pls, never accept him back. He dosen’t benefits from the woman he is staying with. He has taken u as a fool , for u to support him. Pls, be wise he want to use u.
Don't ever feel like you wrong him Antie. I can feel your pain and is the reason why i have decided never to marry again and focus on myself and my childeren 😊