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He's Just Not That Into You (Gigi Ending Monologue) 

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Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up: If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs. And someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending.
Every movie we see, every story we're told implores us to wait for it, this third act twist: the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule.
But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending, we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave.
And maybe this happy ending doesn't include a wonderful guy. Maybe it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over. Freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is just moving on.
Or maybe the happy ending is this: Knowing that all the unreturned phone calls and broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment... you never, ever, gave up hope.

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Комментарии : 143   
@candelacecilia4240
@candelacecilia4240 8 лет назад
"Maybe it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over. Freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is just moving on. "
@lucindamobley5492
@lucindamobley5492 7 лет назад
For some it is like that. It's not really a bad thing, it just gives you time to work on you, and to find out what makes you happy.
@ClearYourMindTravel
@ClearYourMindTravel 3 года назад
For me it was. I've been single and celibate for almost 4 years and I couldn't be happier.
@smitra5901
@smitra5901 Год назад
That's me!
@lexic993
@lexic993 4 года назад
the whole love affair storyline w bradley cooper and scarjo’s characters pissed me off SO much i’m really glad the wife divorced him and he didn’t end up with scarjo’s character
@rossmanlapig3883
@rossmanlapig3883 3 года назад
me too hes so asshole in this movie 😂
@leprovokateur7745
@leprovokateur7745 3 года назад
@@rossmanlapig3883 don’t u dare talking shit about Phil…if not the pack will come for you
@rossmanlapig3883
@rossmanlapig3883 3 года назад
@@leprovokateur7745 😂😂😂😂
@moodforever
@moodforever 2 года назад
Pissed me off too
@racqui87
@racqui87 12 лет назад
NO, she divorced him because he was lying to her about it right to her face. Plus, the smoking was a metaphor for the other things in his life that he wouldn't stop doing and was lying about like CHEATING! He wasn't even cheating for love, because he didn't get with her in the end and it shows him in the same grocery store situation that the affair started with, implying that he might start all over again.
@Bella-Mae0422
@Bella-Mae0422 7 лет назад
racqui87 he was an asshole it was obvious that he wanted to leave his wife but didn't know how. He got married too soon instead of playing the field first.
@blpalv15
@blpalv15 6 лет назад
Basically, he was a coward. He didn't have the guts to tell his wife he wanted out. He even gave in and married her.
@ClearYourMindTravel
@ClearYourMindTravel 4 года назад
He never wanted to be married in the first place. The wife even admitted to it. She said she pressured him to get married.
@alaaye5237
@alaaye5237 3 года назад
@@ClearYourMindTravel He could’ve said no lmao. Did she hold a gun to his head?
@pandorian7203
@pandorian7203 3 года назад
@@blpalv15 yup i agree i alqays thought he was just a coward. Br a man and admit you like the other girl not have sex in front of her!
@juliaavalos1602
@juliaavalos1602 7 лет назад
"Maybe the happy ending is moving on" YESSSSSS! Happy endings are subjective. For some it's ending up married with kids, for others it's ending a toxic relationship and starting over on their own. Love the wide range of endings in this movie but most importantly, love love LOOVVEEE that they sent the message that there's absolutely nothing wrong with not having a man by your side, like Janine
@graceclark3481
@graceclark3481 Год назад
Sometimes the key to being happy is to first be happy being alone. You'll never be happy with someone if you're not happy with yourself. Being happy with yourself shows self-respect. Which every healthy relationship needs
@ClearYourMindTravel
@ClearYourMindTravel 4 года назад
Well my happy ending was moving on. I'm so happy I'm single. My blood pressure and cholesterol levels are normal, I lost weight, I look healthy, and I'm just living.
@violettbellerose1173
@violettbellerose1173 3 года назад
You're thriving!
@davisanderson4274
@davisanderson4274 3 месяца назад
For a movie that most people have probably forgotten, this had some of the highest grossing stars of the 2000s.
@Aster_Risk
@Aster_Risk 11 лет назад
I love that it mentions a happy ending doesn't have to mean having a guy. That's a nice way to look at it.
@MusiKForeverEternal
@MusiKForeverEternal 6 лет назад
This movie is just incredible, help me realise how much i've been interpreting things and how sometime, interpretations and the end we have in mind, is far more better than the reality which is: he's just not that into me!
@ClearYourMindTravel
@ClearYourMindTravel 5 лет назад
I learned this lesson at a very young age. I assume that every man is the same until I get to know him. If a man compliments me, I say thank you and keep it moving. I made this mistake once and I've never done it again.
@MysticWolfMagic
@MysticWolfMagic 2 года назад
Aww. Alex grabbed Gigi's hand for a second when she went to kiss him on the cheek. He grabbed her arm and patted her on the butt too. He's so touchy feely with her I can't handle it 🥰
@amywonderland9297
@amywonderland9297 Год назад
Gigi looks so cute in that last scene. She looks great throughout but the last scene she’s just so happy that it lights up her whole face!
@charismatickarma
@charismatickarma 12 лет назад
This was a good movie in my opinion...cute, great plot, well-developed characters, etc. and does actually have some good advice for men and women, both single and in relationships. I like what she says in this scene as well. The ones who came here to give others advice on relationships and how to find yourself (mostly aimed at women, which is amusing) rather than just leaving a simple comment...it's pretty obvious some need to explore their own selves before counseling others. Just an observati
@AaronTalented1993
@AaronTalented1993 8 лет назад
i know I'm a guy and this is a chick flick but this is beautiful!
@marcelking2277
@marcelking2277 8 лет назад
same
@llarmstrong783
@llarmstrong783 6 лет назад
Aaron Buffett I'm judging you for enjoying a chick flick. I enjoyed it too
@linaa5341
@linaa5341 4 года назад
Lol. Once my brother watched a romance movie with me and my cousin cause he thought is was gonna be so stupid cause it was a chick flick but he thought it was super good😂
@I.pray.to.George.Carlin
@I.pray.to.George.Carlin 2 года назад
I tried to get my bf to watch this with me last night but he wouldn't. He absolutely would have liked it just like you did but his dumb pride got in the way. Kudos to you for swallowing yours!!!
@ragnarlodbrok1233
@ragnarlodbrok1233 2 года назад
@@I.pray.to.George.Carlin it's not about pride, it just seems uninteresting. If it was about pride, we would've secretly watched it and say nope never seen it. But, it's just that these movies are marketed in such a way that it seems completely uninteresting to most guys. However, if we do watch a well made one like this one for example, there's no shame in admitting that it's good.
@ClearYourMindTravel
@ClearYourMindTravel 5 лет назад
I'm so glad I'm single. Relationships are too much work. Good ending though.
@mjparadero7046
@mjparadero7046 5 лет назад
Omg the Myspace!!!!! The nostalgia 😭😭😭 Myspace was so much better than Facebook!
@hannahbaker6617
@hannahbaker6617 5 месяцев назад
Is it still a thing?
@mjparadero7046
@mjparadero7046 5 месяцев назад
@@hannahbaker6617 unfortunately no. Myspace was sold years ago, but it was better, no free speech censor and you can even customize your profile and add a background song to it
@leilanipurcell12
@leilanipurcell12 11 лет назад
so Alex was totally slapping gigi' s butt in the end... funny and they are solo cute
@shaziaiesec
@shaziaiesec 13 лет назад
"...Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope. "
@lincoln2324
@lincoln2324 4 года назад
I loved Ben Affleck and Jennifer Aniston as a couple, both looked great together
@erinoliva343
@erinoliva343 8 лет назад
I am just working towards putting myself out there so I can get a job... I find it really is true. If you never even TRY to be Impressive (Man or Woman) You'll never get anywhere... You may fail a lot and get rejected, but do not GIVE UP... If you give up you'll just end up sad and alone. (The best thing to do when you are trying to BE NOTICED... by anyone... to get a date, to get a job... anything... is to just BE IMPRESSIVE.) Also BE THE REAL YOU. If you are open and honest with everyone you meet THAT is the way to meet people who will LOVE you for you, and that is LOVE, True Love. :)
@reynamc8880
@reynamc8880 2 года назад
I love that this movie shows how you can’t make anybody you and that one persons reject is another person soul mate
@danielleg.3724
@danielleg.3724 8 лет назад
Great ending and dialogue:) I love Ginnifer Goodwin
@ambientmusicstation
@ambientmusicstation 13 лет назад
If you're wondering what's the background music playing in the clip, its Love, Save The Empty by Erin McCarley.
@MangaEater68
@MangaEater68 11 лет назад
I didn't read the signs, even though everything around me told me he'd leave. So now I'm here, just as she said, "picking up the pieces and starting over. Freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is just moving on." This is my happy ending. Time to pick up the pieces and move on =)
@RojaJaneman
@RojaJaneman Год назад
I hope u r doing well after ten years. 😊
@paradisedina
@paradisedina 4 года назад
Never lose hope. Go Gigi !❤️
@hannahbaker6617
@hannahbaker6617 11 месяцев назад
She found her Prince Charming.
@morganagreyeyes4182
@morganagreyeyes4182 2 года назад
I love this movie . 2009 the days before covid .and MySpace 💜
@Chubcity879
@Chubcity879 9 лет назад
Maybe the happy ending is moving on...
@thebriancedric6052
@thebriancedric6052 2 года назад
I kept repeating this part
@anacristalmuniz1644
@anacristalmuniz1644 4 года назад
Never give up on love or finding the one is waiting for you out there.
@toffeenutmacchiato3164
@toffeenutmacchiato3164 11 лет назад
this song and these lines = pure perfection. i feel so understood.
@jenniferhonohan4278
@jenniferhonohan4278 6 дней назад
This is a great movie and a must see for anyone dating. I wish this movie was out when I was younger and dating.
@mrdlore1
@mrdlore1 11 лет назад
It doesn't take a movie to help you realize that shit happens. Life is made up of ups and downs. Amazing highs. Depressive lows. As you age, you gain an understanding that this is what life is made of. You can almost brace yourself for when things get shitty, because you know that out of the hell--there is light. When one door closes, another opens. If you live your life like that, I promise that it won't be all shit all the time.
@ShoSho-cq7ct
@ShoSho-cq7ct 3 года назад
Well said
@HunterMagunter
@HunterMagunter Год назад
Justin long never fails to give a great performance
@ThePeaceAround
@ThePeaceAround 6 лет назад
Gosh Ben Affleck's been through Hollywoods Jennifers. Jennifer Lopez, Jennifer Garner, Jennifer Aniston. Surpised that they didn't put him with Jennifer Connolly in this film too lol
@llarmstrong783
@llarmstrong783 6 лет назад
ThePeaceAround they will have affair in the sequel
@dafilmqueen556
@dafilmqueen556 5 лет назад
@@llarmstrong783,I have my own ideas for the sequel,which involves Jennifer Connelly's character Janine finding love even though she doesn't want another relationship after her divorce.
@llarmstrong783
@llarmstrong783 5 лет назад
Stephanie Zambrano great idea. Probably no sequel though. There should be more films about women empowerment
@anhtran9111
@anhtran9111 7 лет назад
You know you're old when you still use myspace
@lucindamobley5492
@lucindamobley5492 10 лет назад
I wasn't taught the boy hitting a girl b/c he likes her thing. I was taught that little boys try to get a rise out of you by doing that. It's not until they get older that they're interesting in girls. Every happy ending is different for everyone. It might not be what you expected, but it happens.
@ilovefood9362
@ilovefood9362 5 лет назад
Idk why but I just feel like Janine deserves like so much betTer
@dafilmqueen556
@dafilmqueen556 5 лет назад
So do I,which is why my idea for a sequel will get her to find love.
@darrinsiberia
@darrinsiberia 4 года назад
It happens sometimes when couples marry early, neither man or woman has time to develop and mature in trial and error relationships. Clearly Janine was more mature and didn't need the same experiences Ben did. Since Ben only had Janine, he wanted to experience more. Even if he didn't meet Anna... Even if he has some kids with Janine... he will probably cheat sooner or later. But he lied to her. Lying is worse. Lying shows a lack of morals and a liar can't be trusted. That's why she divorces him. I like how the end of the movie shows Ben checking out a girl at the supermarket. It's like, he wanted to be free to play games with girls so now he gets his wish. Ana will never get with Ben because Ben lied to Anna also. He stuffed her in a closet while he lied to his wife. So Anna knows his true nature and will never go to him. Women often choose poorly with guys. They choose someone familiar, because maybe they also lack the courage to choose the right one. We're all just people who have lots of messed up experiences so sometimes it's hard to love and be vulnerable. Ultimately the main character Gigi is the most vulnerable so she is (for a brief moment anyway) rewarded with her love (who knows how long it lasts). Also the guy on the boat was vulnerable because he never replaced his lover and stayed true to her.
@navreetdhillon6067
@navreetdhillon6067 3 года назад
i feel like scarjo’s character and janine both deserve better
@ablurida
@ablurida 3 года назад
she deserves better than Ben, but I found her character annoying af
@DivaDelgado128
@DivaDelgado128 15 дней назад
Saw this in theaters during it its run back in 2009. Love this movie
@andrewsduran
@andrewsduran 13 лет назад
The perfect song to an amazing ending to brillant movie.
@llarmstrong783
@llarmstrong783 4 года назад
what song is it?
@maryjulianne6689
@maryjulianne6689 2 года назад
Alex and gigi-💖 Beth and Neil-💕 Conor and mary-👌 Janine and ben-🕳🏃‍♀️💨 ben and Anna-💩
@zehraduran.
@zehraduran. 9 лет назад
chomp86 you saved my life, thanks for the song!
@ambientmusicstation
@ambientmusicstation 9 лет назад
glad to be of help! :)
@susanheming5266
@susanheming5266 3 года назад
Love this movie! Everytime I’m not sure with a guy I just watch this and it helps ahah😂❤️
@alikoenig4715
@alikoenig4715 2 года назад
Best ending ever!!
@lisaz8884
@lisaz8884 3 года назад
I've watched this movie several times and just noticed Derek Waters from Drunk History just sitting in the background at the end😂😂😂
@knightwarrioranimations9656
@knightwarrioranimations9656 4 года назад
I love how knows he's in the situation as before.
@ambientmusicstation
@ambientmusicstation 11 лет назад
Love, Save The Empty by Erin McCarley.
@BrianSharpe
@BrianSharpe Год назад
What a classic!
@lucilapereira4695
@lucilapereira4695 5 лет назад
Movies makes things easy
@CantStayAway
@CantStayAway 12 лет назад
I love this movie.:)
@barbaraespinoza9430
@barbaraespinoza9430 11 лет назад
Does anybody know what song is the one that's playing on the video?
@blueberryeminem13
@blueberryeminem13 6 лет назад
Does anyone know how they did Drew's hair for this scene? I LOVE IT!
@lindaleelaw5277
@lindaleelaw5277 5 лет назад
BUZZ. women are afraid if they don't go " me, me, me" , guts,will ignore them. Men are fine.
@christopherb27
@christopherb27 12 лет назад
Yes women are never satisfied it seems. We are all taught from an early age and even now though that there's a soul mate out there and everything will be all lovey dovey. Relationships are hard, and there's more bad than good just like everything else in life. The imperfections in your partner are the things you should like the most! There's tons of great guys out there, you just looking in the wrong places with the wrong outlook. Work on yourself more before rushing into a relationship.
@tomwotton9
@tomwotton9 Год назад
Genuinely didn’t know Drew Baymore was in this.
@rodrigobarba930
@rodrigobarba930 Год назад
This reminds me of the ending from juice.
@antivenommkii
@antivenommkii 12 лет назад
she divorce him becuz he couldn't stop smoking. 1. she didn't try to help when she found out 2. smoking is addictive as hell.
@Bella-Mae0422
@Bella-Mae0422 7 лет назад
Ben no she divorced him bc he lied about smoking it hurt her that he couldn't tell her the truth not only that but he was cheating on her as well. She had enough of his emotional abuse.
@TM-lp9jv
@TM-lp9jv 6 лет назад
She divorced him because he couldn’t be honest with her. Heck, he couldn’t be honest with himself throughout the movie as he struggled with the affair. The only time he was completely honest was when told his friend on the boat that no guy wants to get married because after they do, all they think about is the women they can’t sleep with but even then, when he realized how he sounded and that his friend didn’t share the same feeling, he was still in denial of being a pig. Lol.
@Bella-Mae0422
@Bella-Mae0422 4 года назад
T M9091 Yeah, I agree! He was definitely a pig. His wife obviously loved him and just wanted him to be honest with her. He confessed to his cheating bc he thought that be his ticket to getting out of the marriage but she wanted to make it work and then when she asked him if he was smoking that was his chance to come clean with EVERYTHING which he didn’t which showed he wasn’t taking the marriage seriously.
@andthewinnerisJ
@andthewinnerisJ 13 лет назад
Yeah....only in the movies
@zamzamahani4889
@zamzamahani4889 4 года назад
Guys, can anyone tell me what song is being played in the background?
@robinalberti177
@robinalberti177 4 года назад
Lol... because I don't want him there...
@christopherb27
@christopherb27 12 лет назад
I agree,stupid ending to a movie that's suposed to be honest and brutal. The cold truth is, and lady's listen up! Very,very few relationships start out as friendships. Ex: I had a girl I was seeing who didn't like me that much and confided in her friend. the whole time her friend liked me, but being 15 I didn't see it for a while. After a ton of phone calls and getting to her without the akwardness of me liking her, I fell for her. Since then I have been on the other side, and alone.
@JazzCastaneda
@JazzCastaneda 4 года назад
at 1:59 in the bottom left corner, is that drunk history dude?
@ZachEJT24
@ZachEJT24 4 года назад
Yeah, I think that is him.
@chocolatechiplizzie
@chocolatechiplizzie 12 лет назад
Does anyone know what dress Gigi is wearing at the end? At the 1:50 mark.
@Kaboomboo
@Kaboomboo 4 года назад
1:51 Is that the Drunk History guy?
@jaden4602
@jaden4602 4 года назад
What’s the song that started on 1:02
@llarmstrong783
@llarmstrong783 4 года назад
What song is playing
@gavinromero3698
@gavinromero3698 2 года назад
Why are relationships so complicated? Like they don't have to be so complicated. Why can't be as simple as meeting someone and asking them out on a date? 🤔
@TeaCup1940
@TeaCup1940 9 месяцев назад
Because people have the idea of meeting the perfect one, or they just want to fornicate and not marry. And both things are toxic, because nobody is perfect and marrying is a lifelong commitment that involves hard work and isn't just the feeling of the moment. If people search for the perfect one, they will never settle with anyone, not even after marriage because they will think there is somebody better out there.
@lorenzoadami4159
@lorenzoadami4159 Год назад
0:59 I don't know whether to feel pity for Ben has sense or not. He was blown off not just by one, but by two women ❤💔💣💨
@theninjararar
@theninjararar 11 месяцев назад
is it just me or does it look like a ps5 next to the tv
@karenbee1996
@karenbee1996 12 лет назад
I actually wanted anna and ben to end up together... Cuz they r both hot ass ppl
@dafilmqueen556
@dafilmqueen556 5 лет назад
Maybe but they still suck.Gigi and Alex,however,are the king and queen here!
@DorianoPaisanoCarta
@DorianoPaisanoCarta 13 лет назад
hate when people disable embedding... grrrr!!!
@muhammadali-dn4gm
@muhammadali-dn4gm 3 года назад
Black widow and rocket racoon should ended together
@darrinsiberia
@darrinsiberia 4 года назад
The only saving grace is the girl deletes he online bullshit dating account at the end. That online crap is seriously ruining people year after year. Delete and get back to reality people.
@gymrachel
@gymrachel 13 лет назад
hmmm!
@michaeljones3509
@michaeljones3509 2 года назад
Well Janine finally realized she is wasting her time to save unhappy marriage why he lied to her about smoking but worst having affair she admit herself that if she gave Ben ultimatum to get married this never would happen but he didn’t man up to admitting to her he wanted out of this unhappy marriage this would avoid more heartache and waste of time and like I say if Ben would have being a man and tell Janine to her face I’m not happy with this marriage so like says end this toxic relationship meaning going separate ways
@abigalerimner9369
@abigalerimner9369 8 лет назад
can someone tell me what is the name of the song!?!?!?! please.
@SVHAW87
@SVHAW87 7 лет назад
"Love, Save the Empty" by Erin McCarley
@caliemm4558
@caliemm4558 Год назад
Would of really been something special if Ben had of hitched up with Aniston.
@Stillkicking24
@Stillkicking24 Год назад
I adored connor and mary. Anna treated connor like shit.
@NicholleChristineEdwards
@NicholleChristineEdwards Год назад
Gag
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