@@Your_Epicure no no i comment in many videos of this channel and they are of different topics. Childs are innocent.One incident can change their entire future life.Even at small age they don't know what's happening with them...
@@sachin265 you talking about your self. not me or my friends neither cousins are that disguised minded so teach your son probably he will get your hormones.and at last women think from their brain and that's in their knee💀.
Not almost, EVERY WOMAN ( specialy middle class girls facing these problem in day to day life ) catcalling, harassing its seems nothing to those who does that , but girls who faceing these traumatised by these incidents
Pls don't make a nuisance coz a celebrity u cud not do anything shit just for media ur reacting... U still had a chance of fcking them by Just watching
This reminds me of an incident years ago. I was working in Infosys and was traveling back from Mysore to Bangalore on a weekend to meet my college friends who lived in Bangalore. When I got down from the bus stand, I saw a guy walking towards two girls. This made both girls make space for him and he groped both of their chests with both his hands and continued walking as if nothing has happened. This was in day time. With dozens of onlookers looking and walking. No one said a word. The girls were in complete shock and stood frozen on the spot. I was on a phone call. I said I will call back and hung up. Ran towards the guy. Hold him from his college bag. Punched him on the face. Grabbed his hand and pulled him back to the girls. Asked him to say sorry and he did. I didn’t told him why I punched him. He didn’t asked me why. With his sorry, I saw a sense of peace and calm flow down on the face of both girls. They smiled and said thank you and I knew they both could sleep peacefully that night. And we all walked our separate ways. If more people stand up to these acts, no one will have courage to do this to another girl. Peace!
Just sorry? This guy could repeat this act ten times a day and say 10 sorries. Not a big deal. In our society this kind of action involves serious consequences for the perpetrator.
@@anbukarasanmoroter6571 You think such a minor altercation is a lie because you lack the courage to take a step yourself or is there another reason? If it’s the first case, I feel sorry for you and your family!
I was not even 10 when a guy touched me inappropriately in a public bus and damn the trauma is so real. Its legit scary to walk next to a stranger guy till this day. I hope God punishes every monsters who abuse kids and walks freely away.
But are we that much incapable of bringing change leaving it to God all alone. That's why women needs empowerment and acknowledgement of their rights. Sometimes I feel like why these days people were so reluctant to take the initiative and think they are not enough to handle things. We need to be inspired from our rich history, fought centuries under oppressors for our freedom and dignity and never gave up the cause, but strangely today's society had freedom, laws, more educated, technologically empowered and still thinks hypothetically like "God"(lol I'm very spiritual). But even God gets irritated, if we failed to perceive the previleges. Are we that much vulnerable, whom to blame?? That boring history class which I used to sleep gave me this much consciousness and Now I wonder the whole education system is sleeping in awakening that spirit of persistent effort in this whole generation sadly😢
I was sexually harrased for 2 times(he was as old as my father) when I was like 10 or 11 years old..I was so scared and alone not knowing what to do how to react..Thoses incidents still haunt me..And the most disgussting thing is when I have to have to behave well with the same person in front of everyone asking him how is he,telling him to sit,smiling towards him as if nothing happened..I told no one about this cause it was in the past..I am 18 now..They will never feel what I felt..They will never try to understand what's exactly going on inside me..3rd time when I was about to be harrased again by someone else(a boy).I slapped him so hard that he has never been in front of me since then.. I don't care what other people says,but I feel damn proud for giving that slap.
Its sad ….. im sorry for what you have gone through 😔….. i wish i could slap that uncle. I just with you do the best in life, god give you the best career and happiness
Law and order is very weak in India when it comes to sexual assault. Even many boys get sexual assaulted by gay men but they never reveal it and even when they do, their parents don’t understand it. Because it happened to me for 2 months when I was 8 by a tuition teacher. These crimes are not so prevalent in China or Dubai because they get publicly executed to put fear on other psychopaths. Psychopaths don’t feel empathy but they do feel fear.
😂😂😂😂😂 Respect women is most Stupid thing a mother teach her son Men who respect women they can't get women they get cheated and betrayed Men who don't respect women abuse and assault show some Toxic Masculinity Bad boys get most girls For S£X S£X with Girls is only matter Respecting girls is like Weak Men Sign
What about schools? Those idiotic places are far from education. What do you expect. Kids study moral science when they dont need or specially they dont fully understand but no moral science class for teenage and adults when they need and understand it.
Because they are part of the problem. If mothers wouldn’t raise their sons as ‘raja betas’ who can do no wrong in their eyes, society would not end up with all these criminals
@@rownakmushtari5632 I was also about to say this but i saw this comment not every time mother's are responsible to take care of children's Fathers should also teach them how to respect every women like their mother and sister. From my personal experience my own brother such an young gentleman that i am proud of him and it is all because of my father.
Once as a teenager in a bus someone tried to touch inappropriately, I was not shocked or shy I simply grabbed his hand with my strong fists and told him what are you doing ? Believe me the guy got the shocker of his life and just fleed from the bus even before anyone could realize what was happening!!!!!
@@Youknowwho910 The way our girl child is nurtured, she has to remain coy, well behaved all the time.. makes them loose their ability to stand against things which are right.. psychology says a wrong doer is generally scared until repeated unnoticed crimes makes them hardcore ones...the way today's generation is dancing on trending reels, the kids irrespective of caste creed or color should be taught self defense as a mandatory life skill..only then we can avert the horrors later in their lives...bacche padhao atmanirbharta seekhao
If you're an Indian woman, there's a 100℅ chance, something like this happens. I was only 10 travelling on the train when an unknown Man tried to touch me. I just ran off, I didn't even comprehend it at the time to be something abusive. As a young adult, I quickly learnt to avoid local train general compartments. Only travel in ladies only compartments no matter how crowded it is.
@@jazzzzzuz I mean in every place are happening like this incidents, And he is touching her in public in inappropriate way and he goes, she didn't know what just happened because she is young and this kind of cruelty is happening in this society so sad for the girls who experienced 😭😖
Hats off to Sai Pallavi . She always proves to be sensible and sensitive for society .. no wonder she has a huge fan base .. magnetic personality .. and magnanimous in her social awareness … ❤❤❤ wish all celebrities become as responsible as her to talk openly talk about what’s important in a society
When I was 18 one of my relative touch in a bad way I was shocked at that tym I can't react but I don't know why and now I'm 23 still I can't forget it.
In 1835 it is started न्यू क्रिश्चन इंग्लिश एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835 is inactecd by William bibington mekale to distroy Sanatan Hindu vaidik values, Where only Hindu culture People are indentify with name of Mother or by name of पत्नी Example अंजनी पुत्र हनुमान सीता के राम With the help of न्यू इग्लिष एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835, have changed opreting system of all Mankind of earth, that is made क्रिश्चन, This is a Root cause of Problem, She is discussing problem Solution is धर्मक्रॅसी, start teaching of Sanatan Hindu values again And all our women are worshipped again ख्रिश्चन + मुस्लिम+ कम्युनिस्ट पार्टी ऑफ माओ वादी running shows where women are shown as objects, Netflix s, one night stand, Ult Balaji , why they are creating movies web series, it is to distroy Sanatan Hindu values,
In 1835 it is started न्यू क्रिश्चन इंग्लिश एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835 is inactecd by William bibington mekale to distroy Sanatan Hindu vaidik values, Where only Hindu culture People are indentify with name of Mother or by name of पत्नी Example अंजनी पुत्र हनुमान सीता के राम With the help of न्यू इग्लिष एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835, have changed opreting system of all Mankind of earth, that is made क्रिश्चन, This is a Root cause of Problem, She is discussing problem Solution is धर्मक्रॅसी, start teaching of Sanatan Hindu values again And all our women are worshipped again ख्रिश्चन + मुस्लिम+ कम्युनिस्ट पार्टी ऑफ माओ वादी running shows where women are shown as objects, Netflix s, one night stand, Ult Balaji , why they are creating movies web series, it is to distroy Sanatan Hindu values,
I stand with you....but I should remind you that...men also facing this but no one cares that because he not going to be pregnant....but the thing is he also effect that mentally because he is also a human being like women no one trying to understand that😢....I respect women problems and i should say this may women facing this from one gender...but men facing this from both genders...
@@Itsme-s7q it's nothing like that bro we do care .. Wrong is wrong girls too face this from both the genders throughout their lives..and yes male too in their childhood it's all about the upbringing .... It's a failure of parenting .... Parents themselves lack the morals ....so what would they teach their young ones..!!
I was groped in a bus by the bus conductor when I was a little child. I was travelling with my family. My mother was sitting in a different row. The bus conductor realised that I was far from my family members so I would not be able to seek their attention. I was in the isle seat. He stood next to my seat and started groping me. I didn't understand what was happening at first, but I knew I felt extremely uncomfortable. I don't know why I went numb, couldn't say or do anything. I now realise how traumatic this small incident was that as a grown woman I still remember that incident vividly and get angry for not being able to protect myself.
@@Khushie_singh i totally understand that the feeling of a guilt it won't go throughout your life, but don't blame yourself for it and now if you feel so strong to voice up or to fight back than better stand for someone else who is a minor or don't know what to do or how to handle the situation.
This is so heartbreaking 💔🥺 But please don't blame yourself for not being able to protect yourself because during such situations, generally women and girls go numb.. plus you were just a little child🥺
Well..maybe it's just me, I am really thankful that no one has ever harassed me, but almost every woman/girl I have met has gone through this, so you aren't wrong, this happens to many girls, almost every girl in India, or maybe worldwide too ig...it's really sad.
@@akankshasinha5327 in other words we can say that each and every male in the world done to any or many girls in their lives, even your father, your brother,your husband, you grand father and all male members of your family... Now go to the police station and make complain of your father brother and your husband and every nearest and dearest male person of your life first. Ok....
@@sparhi1776 I am talking about almost every Indian woman being harassed in someway. I never concluded every man being the harasser. One culprit can cause harm to several. If you are on the receiving end (may this never happen), or have enough empathy or enough awareness about it, you'll become sensitive and capable enough to think better and choose your words and tone better 🙂
@@akankshasinha5327 i think you are not getting my point. Why you are not accepting the fact that each and every male person either he had done this atleast once in his life, or he will definitely do it in future or atleast he is doing these in his mind but could not do because of fear or less of opportunities, but please accept it that every Every every male is same regarding this matter.
I experienced the same when I was 16. Now I'm 26. Still I remember that incident. But for that guy it might be happiness for a second. If any man is reading this. Pls don't do that. It will affect our mental health.
i don't know who needs to hear this...be it girl or boy(anyone who's been abused)....... listen to me child it's not your fault and it isn't fair to you at all. but u can't let this cripple your life....the path forward won't be easy but i'm sure as hell it will be worth it. don't give up child.....if you survived this long then you can cross the finish line. love ur self for u are brave ✨
In 1835 it is started न्यू क्रिश्चन इंग्लिश एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835 is inactecd by William bibington mekale to distroy Sanatan Hindu vaidik values, Where only Hindu culture People are indentify with name of Mother or by name of पत्नी Example अंजनी पुत्र हनुमान सीता के राम With the help of न्यू इग्लिष एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835, have changed opreting system of all Mankind of earth, that is made क्रिश्चन, This is a Root cause of Problem, She is discussing problem Solution is धर्मक्रॅसी, start teaching of Sanatan Hindu values again And all our women are worshipped again ख्रिश्चन + मुस्लिम+ कम्युनिस्ट पार्टी ऑफ माओ वादी running shows where women are shown as objects, Netflix s, one night stand, Ult Balaji , why they are creating movies web series, it is to distroy Sanatan Hindu values,
Thankyou for this 🥺🥺❤🫂 legit made me teary This needs to be pinned for everyone in this post Thanks again ❤ as a words of affirmation person, can't thank you enough..
Thank you for saying these kind words. I am a mother of two and i taught my kids from day one to stay away from strangers. Don’t let any teacher, watchman, driver etc to touch you NO matter how kind or sweet he looks !!!
I’ve been groped in public twice as a school girl and as an adult , both times in a crowded bus stand, once while I was boarding a bus from school and the other was when I had just finished college and was job hunting, attending different interviews in a day, and it happened AGAIN in a crowded bus station! Both times I reacted the same way, it was of shock, I couldn’t move, almost felt paralysed, I was embarrassed and disgusted. It happened in a flash, the creeps disappear in the crowd before you realise what just happened to you. This makes me think that they’re habitual offenders. They do this regularly hence the speed at which they disappear. Trust me no matter how old you get, you’ll never recover from that incident. It scars you for life. I didn’t tell anyone about it because of the shame of being judged. I have a daughter and I worry for her! I don’t know how to protect her from such perverted people. I educate her, but I really have no control over the environment she’s going to be in!
I gone through such situation. I was in 6 th grade. I am studying in my room,and my mom and sister went to visit neighbours. At that time my father's older brother came to me and tried to rape me. First I thought it was because he loves me or something as his brother's daughter. Then he began touching my private parts. I was horrified and disgusted. I ran away and lock my self in another room. When my mom returned I told her. At first she thought I was over reacting and I can't tell her about what happened exactly before that I burst into tears. My sister was the one who took it seriously and contacted that sick old man's family, and they came to settle this, promising that this won't happen again. Everytime I saw him at family function I feel disturbed and disgusted. I just can't pretend like nothing happened. Trust me because of that I am now even afraid of my own brother. I know my brother won't do anything like that. But I can't trust any man. My father died when I was in 3rd std.i always thought my father's brother's in the position of my father. He was almost the age of my grandfather. Why did he have to do this 😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭 I hate to be born in india😢😢😢
This comment section will tell what the problem is. So many girls commenting their experience but hardly any guys. The clean boys and men think this happens to some small percentage of women and do not bother to react. The indecent men think that touching a girl is not a big deal. For every teenager and grown up men here - if you see or hear your friends talking ill or treating a woman badly, please stand up for the sake of your wife, sister, mom and daughter. If you are the one who touches a female without her consent, remember that Karma is a bitch.
Many of them, NOT ALL, but many are busy defending their gender. Yes it happens to the other genders as well, but they could just shut up for a second and empathise with the women also.
Boys never do this some wastes will only do this and we can't teach wastes bcs wastes always will be wastes we can only do make them be scared and resist their bad actions....btw please don't call them boys or men it's a shame full for men...that kind of people not even a human..we can call them wastes
Btw men also facing this...but not only from one gender...men facing this from both genders....but they don't even share this to with anyone because if anyone know this they will insult them😢
@@senseprevails24true, many men in this comment section are just writing anything to defend their gender....even the ones who are putting up males molestation stats are only doing to defend their gender and not actually worried about molestation happening to both genders.
I have experienced this inside a FREAKING temple when i was just 13 or 14. That mahn is DAMNNN old most probably 80. He did it twice. I was in a crowded place with my mom. First time i thought it must be an accident but the second time i felt soo uncomfortable i just took my mom with me and moved to the other side. I just started crying and told my mom and then she was like youre crying for this?? It happens all the time its fine. But bcz of that *********** i never felt safe with ANY MEN ever again. I am scared of all men i dont trust anyone even if its my relatives. If a man is standing behind me i just get SOOOO uncomfortable and self conscious. Ive never seen that grandfather in my village ever again though. Im about to be 17 now. But i dont think I'll ever trust men ever again. Edit: my mom had gone through multiple incidents like this and in her times they couldn't even travel in a bus safely without such incidents. And bcz she has encountered a lot of these incidents in the past it has become a norm for her. Also thank you for the likes🥹🙏
What your mother said is absolutely wrong. Maybe she was conditioned to accept that these kind of behaviour is okay and is to be expected and it's understood that women are expected to put up with these kind of behavior. You felt uncomfortable, you know it was wrong. And I know in most cases we would just freeze in shock. For whatever reasons girls who call put these kind of behavior are tagged as trouble makers. So let it be. Don't ever let anyone make you feel like that. Ever. It's gonna be hard, but once you learn to stand up for yourself or any woman, trust me it just gives you a lot of confidence. Hope this helps
Not your mom trying to downplay the whole incident 💀 I'm really sorry that you had to go through that but I hope you try to make your mom understand that it's NOT FINE. Ik we sometimes feel that our parents are from a different generation & are coming from a different life experience but what's right is right and what's wrong is wrong. Irrespective of their skewed sense of right & wrongs. We sometimes need to show them what's actually right & help them unlearn certain things which they find is "normal" but actually isn't.
Well, best advice is to Surrender to God dear. With ur whole heart & wisdom. Then the Universe / Divine will automatically create miracles in life & u will also be able to overcome ur fear of Trusting males again. God will make it possible & 108% safe Don't worry dear
A high school boy once tried to do this to me and I am 25 years old and he was hardly 15-16 years then. I don't understand what kind of values are being taught at home/school and media does play a huge role in youth these days. So as actors the best they can do is stop glorifying movies like animal. I'm not talking about her, but all actors in general need to promote more dignified movies and not the typical movies where the boys follow the girls until they fall in love with them.
Im damn lucky 🥺❤️coz my mother already taught me about bad touch and good touch she even told me..if i came through any situation like this i should inform her without any hesitation..🥰i hope everyone be safe❤️❣️
Yes it's easy. Because when it happens with woman atleast everyone believes them but when it happens with men no one believes them. Now think which side is having more issues and discrimination. Women condition is like poison with antidot and men's condition is like poison with no treatment.
Being men is too hard... because if you are a men should face this from both genders and you can't even share this to anyone no one will support you not only that if anyone know this the will insult you....
I remember for me it started when I was a 10 year old kid… the first time it happened to me was when I just turned 10 and the only birthday gift I wanted was to join tennis class. I was always interested in tennis but the classes were 2 hours away from my house. That birthday I cried and convinced my parents. My mom said ok. We reached outside the classes and we were about to go in when a man, I still remeber how he looked. He was wearing black shirt fully unbuttoned, a cigarette in his hand, and he looked like he was under the influence of some drugs. He came near me and tried touching me, my mom and me ran from him and there was a group of women on the other side. That’s all, my tennis dream was crushed. I remember not understanding why they won’t let me to go to play, feeling uncomfortable and my mom explaining that this world was not for me anymore…. Since that day I’ve been assaulted so many times by people that I can’t even count.
I was harressed in a temple when I was 12 years old , I told my mom ,there was too much crowd, before she could catch him ,he ran and vanished in the crowd,he was around my father's age,shame on these people, I am 38 now, till now I afraid to go into a crowd 😢😢
I was 13 when I was returning from my tuition classes, usually I used to get off by 6pm in the evening but that day I had stayed there extra 1 hour so, it was around 7 and while returning I was alone and two guys came on a bike and touched me inappropriately on my breasts it hurt so bad that I screamed. They ran away quickly on the bike and I was so traumatized, I went home but even while walking I was scared that they might come back again, when I reched home I couldn't tell my parents because I was scared they wouldn't allow me to go for evening tuitions anymore, after a while my dad came back from office and usually he'd take me on a bike ride for refreshing my mind and I used to talk a lot while the ride about school, tuition, studies, friends etc. That day I kept quiet. He asked me, why I was so unusually quiet. I burst out in tears but couldn't cry out loud, but my dad noticed it, and was really worried, I just made an excuse that there was a test in tuition that I couldn't get a good score in, and he consoled me. After that day asked my mom to drop me off everyday. Fast forward to 10 years later, I still carry my bag in front of my breasts and whenever a bike approaches from behind, I get scared and defensive. I can never forget that incident.
The same thing happened with me when I was 13 years old.. I had gone in a hospital for some health issues, a man came near me and touched me in a very inappropriate way and then he went away from there.. literally firstly I thought that he would putting me aside as I was standing on his way but the way he hold my chest.. I felt so guilt of it, I was so embarraed that I didn't courage to share this even to my mom who was there available with me at that time.. I can't ever forget this incident😢..how cruel this society is becoming day by day..
Kinda same happened with one girl in a Sabzi Mandi of our small town in front of my eyes, I was with my 2 friends, one grown drunken man was with his few friends and that drunk man was eating pea and tossing those peals on that girl , lot of people including us watching all this happening, I said to my friends but they said let’s go this is not our problem and he is drunk and it’s happened in our country on daily basis, but I couldn’t swallow the fact ‘ignore it’ , I hold his shoulder and asked that what the fk is going on, he was surprised that someone tried to stop him ? ! I told that what are you doing with that girl why you are harassing her ? He started argue with me . And Funny thing I noticed that other people who were so called sober folks knew by the time BUT didn’t say a single word to that guy EVEN my friends stepped back but I didn’t care , may be to see my confidence or what was that idk but his other friends asked him to leave. And this is how he stopped harassing that girl . I really request to people please band together in such situations because to take our baby step on such situations will bring change in our society, but we need stop to be selfish. Just join hand together because today you are saving some one’s daughter or sister Next time some good folks will do same for your sister or daughter, 🙏
Kinda same incident happened with me when I was so young like 8-9 maybe. At that time i didn't understand whether it was appropriate or not but now I am 20 years old and feel traumatized whenever those incidents suddenly come to mind. I always pray that no child ever has to face that horrible feeling.
In 1835 it is started न्यू क्रिश्चन इंग्लिश एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835 is inactecd by William bibington mekale to distroy Sanatan Hindu vaidik values, Where only Hindu culture People are indentify with name of Mother or by name of पत्नी Example अंजनी पुत्र हनुमान सीता के राम With the help of न्यू इग्लिष एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835, have changed opreting system of all Mankind of earth, that is made क्रिश्चन, This is a Root cause of Problem, She is discussing problem Solution is धर्मक्रॅसी, start teaching of Sanatan Hindu values again And all our women are worshipped again ख्रिश्चन + मुस्लिम+ कम्युनिस्ट पार्टी ऑफ माओ वादी running shows where women are shown as objects, Netflix s, one night stand, Ult Balaji , why they are creating movies web series, it is to distroy Sanatan Hindu values,
it's disgusting how some guys consider us toys to play. When i was in 3 Rd class after school I used to go to a neighbour aunts house to wait for my mom come after her job . It's like taking care of me. She had a son who was in 7 or 8 th class. So after my lunch I used to sleep &. One day I woke up by unwanted touches I saw him & said go away & sleep in distant. But some days it continued one day aunty gone to talk to someone outside he was studying & Mee too he touched my hands out of anger i hired his finger to wall & blood cloated. He said he is going to call my mom & was threatening & blah after that he didn't do anything. Then fortunately I started staying home alone studied how to take food & eat & ask people before opening the door. I had a pet rat too to spend my time with. Today also they are my neighbour he is in college. He changed a lot. Really good behaviour eventhough I can't forgot that . He once was bringing this topic by saying I'm sorry about blah . I changed the topic cause Im not interested to talk about that. I'm happy he regret his sins. Also recently during school vacation i was going to supermarket. Some guys in 20s was going closely next to me & said i
In 1835 it is started न्यू क्रिश्चन इंग्लिश एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835 is inactecd by William bibington mekale to distroy Sanatan Hindu vaidik values, Where only Hindu culture People are indentify with name of Mother or by name of पत्नी Example अंजनी पुत्र हनुमान सीता के राम With the help of न्यू इग्लिष एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835, have changed opreting system of all Mankind of earth, that is made क्रिश्चन, This is a Root cause of Problem, She is discussing problem Solution is धर्मक्रॅसी, start teaching of Sanatan Hindu values again And all our women are worshipped again ख्रिश्चन + मुस्लिम+ कम्युनिस्ट पार्टी ऑफ माओ वादी running shows where women are shown as objects, Netflix s, one night stand, Ult Balaji , why they are creating movies web series, it is to distroy Sanatan Hindu values,
@@GayathriKarhaleIn 1835 it is started न्यू क्रिश्चन इंग्लिश एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835 is inactecd by William bibington mekale to distroy Sanatan Hindu vaidik values, Where only Hindu culture People are indentify with name of Mother or by name of पत्नी Example अंजनी पुत्र हनुमान सीता के राम With the help of न्यू इग्लिष एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835, have changed opreting system of all Mankind of earth, that is made क्रिश्चन, This is a Root cause of Problem, She is discussing problem Solution is धर्मक्रॅसी, start teaching of Sanatan Hindu values again And all our women are worshipped again ख्रिश्चन + मुस्लिम+ कम्युनिस्ट पार्टी ऑफ माओ वादी running shows where women are shown as objects, Netflix s, one night stand, Ult Balaji , why they are creating movies web series, it is to distroy Sanatan Hindu values,
Yes u r right ....wo worst feeling life k end tk rahti hogi shayad kyunki jab m 13 yrs ki thi tab 1 school m khade hone wale chaat vendor ne mujhe inappropriate way m touch kiya or m jhenp gyi...or sudden uski taraf dekha or us uncle ne dirty si smile kr diya....me bahut dar gyi thi....mene fir us se kabhi kuch ni liya...or baad m pata chala ki wo ese hi sabhi girls ko touch krta hai....wo gandi si feeling aaj bhi yaad aa jati hai nw m 34 nd mother of 2 daughters....m apni betiyon ko bahut sikhati hu but ungandi nazro se kese bachau...un gande logo se kese safe rakhingi...bahut dar lgta h apni betiyon k liye...har tome to m sath ni rhti na unke....jitni bhi boys ki mother hain plz apne ladko ko sikhao na....ese na kiya kare...bachpan se hi unko grls ki izzat krna sikhao....
Parents need to teach their Sons to respect girls instead of commenting on girls what they wear and making fun of girls who wear whatever dress they want to. My daughter also has the same experience when she was in 8th standard. She is scared to walk on the roads. Still she remembers that helplessness we both experienced.
In 1835 it is started न्यू क्रिश्चन इंग्लिश एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835 is inactecd by William bibington mekale to distroy Sanatan Hindu vaidik values, Where only Hindu culture People are indentify with name of Mother or by name of पत्नी Example अंजनी पुत्र हनुमान सीता के राम With the help of न्यू इग्लिष एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835, have changed opreting system of all Mankind of earth, that is made क्रिश्चन, This is a Root cause of Problem, She is discussing problem Solution is धर्मक्रॅसी, start teaching of Sanatan Hindu values again And all our women are worshipped again ख्रिश्चन + मुस्लिम+ कम्युनिस्ट पार्टी ऑफ माओ वादी running shows where women are shown as objects, Netflix s, one night stand, Ult Balaji , why they are creating movies web series, it is to distroy Sanatan Hindu values,
@@SHAHABUDDINKHAN719 Bro!! Men do sleep around with multiple people as a money machine.. That doesn't mean it's okay for thieves to rob his money.. There's something called consent for everything.. Consent is not gender biased..!! And about that attention thing.. Girls doesn't need it.. It's only those wastrel men who seek attention by misbehaving with someone...
@@SriSri04395 don't teach me how things work Girls are 24 hours hungry for Attention If can't they become desperate and started showing there body I saw and experienced all these things Women always Sleeping and Hang around with multiple Men for Money support security backup plan It can be in Righteous way through marriage with one person But no women want all her options together Women don't care about anything if things going smoothly until she face consequences then blame MEN for everything It's better to teach women lesson time to time world is not around them
@@SHAHABUDDINKHAN719 do you know the word consent exists ?? Is your brain working ? Or do you need help to understand a simple concept of consent? Seriously go back to school or something
While hearing her talk i thought " is she talking about me?" Im not even beautiful still experienced this shit when i was teen.. If you think it's just a one single incident, you can't judge men by this, NO. its a BIG NO. Later im not even ok with my father and brother touch.. its a trauma that i can't overcome, i still feel ashamed
In 1835 it is started न्यू क्रिश्चन इंग्लिश एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835 is inactecd by William bibington mekale to distroy Sanatan Hindu vaidik values, Where only Hindu culture People are indentify with name of Mother or by name of पत्नी Example अंजनी पुत्र हनुमान सीता के राम With the help of न्यू इग्लिष एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835, have changed opreting system of all Mankind of earth, that is made क्रिश्चन, This is a Root cause of Problem, She is discussing problem Solution is धर्मक्रॅसी, start teaching of Sanatan Hindu values again And all our women are worshipped again ख्रिश्चन + मुस्लिम+ कम्युनिस्ट पार्टी ऑफ माओ वादी running shows where women are shown as objects, Netflix s, one night stand, Ult Balaji , why they are creating movies web series, it is to distroy Sanatan Hindu values,
girl it's not bout beauty, how you look. it's not attractiveness. men do it because they want a sense of control and power. please don't say you're not beautiful OR that only beautiful girls get harassed, it makes it sound like the fault is removed from the man who did it.
In this generation, moms should teach about good touch and bad touch to both girls and boys. It's very important. If you want your girl to be independent one day, to know the value of life, we all should teach them. Also, the fathers of this generation should teach the son's how to respect each and everyone, not just women but everyone!
The trauma that many girls and women go through because of some one’s cheap behaviours will hold them hostage from embracing themselves . As a therapist myself i have noticed 80% of the women would have give through the abuse. I think EQ and SQ among humans should be a necessary subject in schools or even from homes .
This is a lesson for us to teach our boys better..... teach them what sex is...teach them the difference between love and lust....we have to start somewhere.... can't let this happen to another girl child.
In 1835 it is started न्यू क्रिश्चन इंग्लिश एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835 is inactecd by William bibington mekale to distroy Sanatan Hindu vaidik values, Where only Hindu culture People are indentify with name of Mother or by name of पत्नी Example अंजनी पुत्र हनुमान सीता के राम With the help of न्यू इग्लिष एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835, have changed opreting system of all Mankind of earth, that is made क्रिश्चन, This is a Root cause of Problem, She is discussing problem Solution is धर्मक्रॅसी, start teaching of Sanatan Hindu values again And all our women are worshipped again ख्रिश्चन + मुस्लिम+ कम्युनिस्ट पार्टी ऑफ माओ वादी running shows where women are shown as objects, Netflix s, one night stand, Ult Balaji , why they are creating movies web series, it is to distroy Sanatan Hindu values,
I was sexually harassed from the age of 6years but I don't know it was sexual abuse or etc... Until when I was in 10th standard he try to do that again. Then I realized I was going through this in my whole past life. And I got the courage to punch him and run away from there. After 6years also I feel uncomfortable to be alone with a men, boy or a guy
Teach kids to RESPECT other beings and to not cross into anyone's personal boundaries & to not treat anyone as commodities...and parents be the example of how a person should be
Of sad,, after so many years today I found that the actual real song is this. ❤❤❤❤ Tujhe apna banane ki kasam... Just masterpiece lots of love and respect to Pakistani singer and whole people involved in this song
It hapens with me as well. I faced it for the first time at the age of 13 and it was done by a relative. 😢The twisted thing is that by then I had heard him taking to my father about the bad times ,bad men and women safety several times. These men are two faced 🐍
Boys never do this some wastes will only do this and we can't teach wastes bcs wastes always will be wastes we can only do make them be scared and resist their bad actions....btw please don't call them boys or men it's a shame full for men...that kind of people not even a human..we can call them wastes
Your thoughts is very bad...men also facing this but not only from one gender they facing this from both genders but they can't even share this with anyone because if anyone know this they will insult them
Every girl has experienced this. Some express and some don’t. Public awareness must be created for little girls to speak up and it’s okay to open up and say this to the people she trusts the most.
We can see in this small post itself every girl/women in her life time had gone through some trauma by sexual harassment , molestation at a mere young age where she doesn't even know what in the world is happening with her, just remember the trauma which we face in our childhood is unforgettable it happened with me too the only thing is we don't know whom to say, is that good or bad, a 1000 thing's would go through in our mind, I was 5 when I was touched at inappropriate places by my class teacher but it haunts me till now . I'm 24 now it still haunts me it makes me feel I can't sustain in this society I got anxiety issues remember guys even a inappropriate gaze is a crime.
Really true😢 it feels really bad... Mens plz understood this if you are touching a woman or girls in a bad way... You also have Maa bahen then they will also b suffering And tumhara ek baar ka ho jaata h... But girls zindagi bhar nahi bhul paati aur jb b Yaad aata h tb bahot Ganda lagta h....
She is absolutely right. The body remembers. The little girl will always remember this trauma. I do. I am sure every other girl does. Even little boys too who become such victims.
It was my first day to college, was riding my bicycle. I was wearing a scarf by my neck. Two guys on a speedy bike passing by, snatched my scarf and I fell on the road, bruised all over my body. I bled so much, that there was blood on my body, my clothes, as well as on the road. Thank God the scarf wasn't too tight and the signal was red, so I didn't fall in the middle of traffic, otherwise the result could have been drastic. I was bruised enough for not being able to stand or walk without support. I was staying alone with my mum as my father was in defence services and was posted in Assam at that time. Imagine my mum's situation seeing me in that condition. I couldn't go to my college for two weeks because of the pain that could be seen and the fear that only girls can understand. While I am writing this, I have clear flashbacks of how it happened. That's how deeply it gets and stays within you. A normal, routine life, even before college or job or marriage, the struggle starts from the day a girl is born.
I met with an accident when I was in college and was unconscious. I was taken to the hospital by some strangers. I was bleeding and in a lot of pain. I had to get stitches on my scalp. I was also given anesthesia. There were 2 nursing students who had to do the stitching and they started touching me inappropriately. I remember I wasn't completely conscious but still knew something is happening. I kept pushing them away. Everything was blur. I felt so helpless. I couldn't tell anybody about it. It haunts me to this day. I can never heal from that. I can't imagine how hospitals can also be not safe for women. How cheap they could be to do those things to someone when they are fighting for their life or when someone is bleeding and is in so much pain? 😢
She is right. Same thing happened with me twice when I was around 11-12 exactly. I was both the time on a bike behind my dad(he had no idea about this inappropriate touching or else those guys will be in hell) . And the guy's creepy ass smile 😾. I wish I could have done something but I couldn't comprehend what just happened. And now I'm 19 and much more aware. I will not let go of any guy who even think of Doing this
In 1835 it is started न्यू क्रिश्चन इंग्लिश एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835 is inactecd by William bibington mekale to distroy Sanatan Hindu vaidik values, Where only Hindu culture People are indentify with name of Mother or by name of पत्नी Example अंजनी पुत्र हनुमान सीता के राम With the help of न्यू इग्लिष एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835, have changed opreting system of all Mankind of earth, that is made क्रिश्चन, This is a Root cause of Problem, She is discussing problem Solution is धर्मक्रॅसी, start teaching of Sanatan Hindu values again And all our women are worshipped again ख्रिश्चन + मुस्लिम+ कम्युनिस्ट पार्टी ऑफ माओ वादी running shows where women are shown as objects, Netflix s, one night stand, Ult Balaji , why they are creating movies web series, it is to distroy Sanatan Hindu values,
Salute u took action dear❤...and yes all the parents don't worry about your children's education and marriage...worry about their manners and characters..the.world will become beautiful again 🙏
As a guy I always feel so embarrassed to see how many guys in public see Women in such a inappropriate way like I can literally see in their eyes with what intention they are looking at and I just feel so embarrassed to see that how come we still can’t provide a better society for everyone
I can only tell you this. We cannot prevent these situations even with adults present. But we need to teach children to shout, scream or do anything that would bring attention when they're touched ANYWHERE without consent. Even a hug. Then run away the moment the offender is shocked. And get help immediately. I absolutely hate this bcz nobody deserves to go through this shit 😢😢
Naah like...I think girls should focus on what they wear...we boys can't do anything about our desires😅....we are natural to get excited seeing a girl...so you girls should cover yourself properly..I think so
In my opinion, parents should show greater respect and appreciation for their daughters than their sons, as the dynamics of society have drastically shifted. Today, it seems that a larger percentage of sons fall short of the ideal expectations, while daughters often embody those values of care, responsibility, and strength that we hope for in our children. I believe daughters will continue to represent these ideals. The real issue lies in the fact that many parents have failed to recognize the true worth of their daughters. Had they done so, our world could be a far better, more harmonious, and peaceful place.
People talk about one incident that can’t be forgotten, imagine how would it feel to be repeatedly abused like this for 20 long years and your family does nothing about it instead asks why didn’t you speak out for these many days! Oh god this victim blaming society💔 And they expect you to move on from it! With each passing day, I only hate them more😭
In 1835 it is started न्यू क्रिश्चन इंग्लिश एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835 is inactecd by William bibington mekale to distroy Sanatan Hindu vaidik values, Where only Hindu culture People are indentify with name of Mother or by name of पत्नी Example अंजनी पुत्र हनुमान सीता के राम With the help of न्यू इग्लिष एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835, have changed opreting system of all Mankind of earth, that is made क्रिश्चन, This is a Root cause of Problem, She is discussing problem Solution is धर्मक्रॅसी, start teaching of Sanatan Hindu values again And all our women are worshipped again ख्रिश्चन + मुस्लिम+ कम्युनिस्ट पार्टी ऑफ माओ वादी running shows where women are shown as objects, Netflix s, one night stand, Ult Balaji , why they are creating movies web series, it is to distroy Sanatan Hindu values,
Just think about yourself. You are not responsible for what happened to you. Why are you tourturing yourself for that. Make yourself such a strong person so you would be able to stop if this gonna happen to someone in front of you. Allah bless you and make you strength in your life.
She can never forget this 🙂 Almost all us as a women, we face this issues alot, eventhough another men make us more comfort, seriously this can ruin all of our mental health🙂💔
It happened with me many times. I always try to move on but the worst thing is they do such things in public and before I could understand and take any step, they would have gone😔 Hope one day every woman will teach her son to respect women
@@krishnakumar.k3051In 1835 it is started न्यू क्रिश्चन इंग्लिश एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835 is inactecd by William bibington mekale to distroy Sanatan Hindu vaidik values, Where only Hindu culture People are indentify with name of Mother or by name of पत्नी Example अंजनी पुत्र हनुमान सीता के राम With the help of न्यू इग्लिष एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835, have changed opreting system of all Mankind of earth, that is made क्रिश्चन, This is a Root cause of Problem, She is discussing problem Solution is धर्मक्रॅसी, start teaching of Sanatan Hindu values again And all our women are worshipped again ख्रिश्चन + मुस्लिम+ कम्युनिस्ट पार्टी ऑफ माओ वादी running shows where women are shown as objects, Netflix s, one night stand, Ult Balaji , why they are creating movies web series, it is to distroy Sanatan Hindu values,
It happened to me in my early teenage yrs a person was touching me inappropriate backside in a bus while I was returning home after school I just was shocked dumbfounded didn't know what to do 🥺🥺🥺 still can't get over it😫
@@raman__dangi__jaatis age m itna courage nhi hota h. It's not that easy bcz hme b smjh nhi ata ki ye kya tha. But now we should teach our daughter how to deal with this situation and teach our son how to behave like a man.
Everyone face it Boys and girls both boys are not trusted in 21st century also if he complain against girl ... In 20 century girl will also not listened nowadays people understand girls
I'm 34 now. Yes, I always remember it. Same thing happened with me. Horrifying. What on earth do these men sitting behind men on bikes get out of this?
It's true i have also been through this and it was not even a stranger but the relatives till this i have not tell anyone anything about this it was traumatizing and till this day it haunts me it happened when i was 12 now i am already 14
😢I can feel how it feels im sending you my greatest hugs 🫂 sweety ♥ I hope you can mive on from this even i remember something. When i was 9y/o i was touched inappropriately by an old guy who was around 55-60 😢🥺it was really traumatizing and now im 16 I really feel how u feel right now. I even remember when i was in a bank there were 2 guys who kept lookung at my thighs and i was so uncomfortable i felt like running away from that place and i never told my mom abt this happened with me in the bank
A good Indian friend of mine assaulted me after in office party. He is married with a daughter now and everyone praises him as if he is some messiah or a good guy. This happened in USA. Needless to say, the guy is well educated and has an extremely good job.
Since I was little, I had faced a lot of these abuses in public places or from known ppl and I could never protest although used to avoid those ppl. When I was in class 9 and travelling by bus with my girl gang , one of my friends who was huge (I was short and frail) turned around towards me and cried out , miki someone groped my a$$ , since I already had pent up anger with such abusers, I caught the collar of the guy next to her who pushed the other passenger and jumped onto the oncoming traffic. We screamed at him letting everyone know but he disappeared. After that my friend became a bit bold and found her screaming at another abuser that she will slap the shit out of him if he touches again. Mostly these abusers are uncles or grandpa age hence we mostly felt safe when younger guys stood next to us because they would make sure to keep a distance from us
Same situation I've faced in my school but not with me, with my friend vaishu..... 😢 She is the only best friend for me in that school The incident was happened in 9th standard. As we were leaders of our class we supposed to go to the office room frequently. . After our final exams, there was school for some days. On those days, I never seen vaishu, I don't know why, all teachers asked me about her. But I can't say anything. Being bestie I didn't even know her address One day my class teacher told that some issues have raisen in the school because of that girl. I asked that what are they? But she didn't reply. In summer holidays I tried many times to communicate her. But she didn't reply me. In that situation I don't know what to do. We're going 10 then, one side I have that tension, other side my friend with is not with me, she is the only girl who is there with me in any situation. But I want to know what happened to she, That's why I asked my telugu teacher about her, as I am the favorite student of her she said the whole thing that one sir who is working in our school as a accountant, he 😡 He behaved with my friend inappropriate way.... After listening this I was so nervous By listening only I am nervous , but in that situation how is she....... 😔 After that it became a great issue and it went to police station but there is no change in his post. He is coming to school regularly but because of that situation vaishu had took tc from school. Who done mistake and who is deserving it😏 But I observed a small change in that sir after that incident He was so afraid to talk with girls, being a girls school he has to see girls fromm morning to evening but he can't move freely with all of us even with his colleagues. After that I tried so many ways to communicate vaishu but it doesn't worked........ 👎 But I missed her very much 🥺🥺🥺 this year Now Iam 11th Hope this message will reach her when she become doctor and take care of people, and using her own phone with her own money and watching RU-vid shorts like me....... 😁🥺🥺 Hope she will understand that how much I missed her, How much I am missing her, How much Iam gonna miss her............... 🥺🤞
Hey! Yes not vaishu but yes i am that character you described😒😒 my bestie tried her best to convince me but i was so डिप्रेस्ड that time i blocked her an every person from my school😔😔.... Am doing under graduations now but still feeling affected an scared of that incident.
@@sangeetharameshkarthik5165 Actually she is continuing her studies without any problem I prayed for God ....that she shouldn't face any problems with this incident and it works...... By the way thanks for your suggestion Sangeetharameshkarthik5165
Same. When I was 12 i joined a function of a relative but there a drunk man suddenly came and tried to kiss me.i was so scared and my friends were dumfounded while this happened...my father almost killed that old man😢😢
In 1835 it is started न्यू क्रिश्चन इंग्लिश एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835 is inactecd by William bibington mekale to distroy Sanatan Hindu vaidik values, Where only Hindu culture People are indentify with name of Mother or by name of पत्नी Example अंजनी पुत्र हनुमान सीता के राम With the help of न्यू इग्लिष एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835, have changed opreting system of all Mankind of earth, that is made क्रिश्चन, This is a Root cause of Problem, She is discussing problem Solution is धर्मक्रॅसी, start teaching of Sanatan Hindu values again And all our women are worshipped again ख्रिश्चन + मुस्लिम+ कम्युनिस्ट पार्टी ऑफ माओ वादी running shows where women are shown as objects, Netflix s, one night stand, Ult Balaji , why they are creating movies web series, it is to distroy Sanatan Hindu values,
@@SayantanChakraborty-ub7ei true! But most parents also teach their children to be lovey dovey, smiley and nice to family members , uncles aunts included! I’ve seen instances where an uncle touches his niece inappropriately and thinks it’s ok because he’s the uncle and the girl’s parents are okay with it, because he’s the uncle. We need to teach our children about inappropriate touch within the family as well. We need to respect their boundaries too, for eg: if a child doesn’t want to go with a relative, or doesn’t smile at a relative, they shouldn’t be judged and mocked for their natural instincts! Instead we should respect them because that’s what keeps them safe from predators!
I also faced the same situation 3/4 monthes ago. Usually my class ends 18:00 but I leave at about 17:30 cause It takes me at least 1 1/2 h to go home and I take the bus. ( I don't wanna trouble my parents to pick me up ) Once I got in to the crowded bus without waiting for another one so I could go home quickly. There wasnt even a space for me to hold but there was a man and showed me a little space to stand . I didn't think something would happened cause there were people . Another thing was he was about my dad ' s age. So I thought it would be safe . He behaved inappropriately and I didn't know what to do and started sweating . You don't believe me , three men in row behaved this way. I was so shocked and I couldn't even speak a word till I got home. It still haunts me. But since that day , I don't take the crowded bus , always keep the poker face when I am alone and got a habit to carry a pocket knife 🥲 ( just in case ) Men are different nowadays . Specially those old hags. Don't believe anyone blindly including your bf. Self defence fightings are more important for girls other than boys.
Brother this has been happening before there was Instagram or Facebook or vine existed .y'all can always find a reason to humanize or understand the offender better
It even happened before insta and FB happened. That girl was a minor, with her family in a public space, with proper decent clothes on. So don't blame insta, FB. Nowadays we have media and social platforms so these things come to light. But before, even they wouldn't get reported. It happened within families where close relatives took advantage. That's why joint family concept is fading away.
Its happens to me two times. One time When im 9 years old and another on my 12 years old time. I don’t know what was that at that time I felt too uncomfortable and scared. Now im 26 year and a parent of an baby boy. Many memories are erased from me but still remember this two my terrible childhood memories. Until now I didn’t said anyone about this. 😢
After all i heard, I just came up with a decision that i will make my son so good that no girl will ever feel uncomfortable around him. I will make my son a gentleman and my daughter a fighter so that she can help herself in these situations
In 1835 it is started न्यू क्रिश्चन इंग्लिश एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835 is inactecd by William bibington mekale to distroy Sanatan Hindu vaidik values, Where only Hindu culture People are indentify with name of Mother or by name of पत्नी Example अंजनी पुत्र हनुमान सीता के राम With the help of न्यू इग्लिष एज्युकेशन ॲक्ट 1835, have changed opreting system of all Mankind of earth, that is made क्रिश्चन, This is a Root cause of Problem, She is discussing problem Solution is धर्मक्रॅसी, start teaching of Sanatan Hindu values again And all our women are worshipped again ख्रिश्चन + मुस्लिम+ कम्युनिस्ट पार्टी ऑफ माओ वादी running shows where women are shown as objects, Netflix s, one night stand, Ult Balaji , why they are creating movies web series, it is to distroy Sanatan Hindu values,
Yup this generation should know all this and should proper education provide to young students. I'm 19 now in my young age i was studying in 8th or 9th standard that means my 13 or 14 age..i also experienced this type of misbehaviour from stranger,idk about anything but i have uncomfortable he improperly touched my hand, suddenly i keep the distance still now also i saw that person i remember that incident then I'm keeping ny distance.Then other thing i was 15 I'm going to a temple celebration with my mom at night ,so a old man i think he's staying at public he's had no home, he's watching at that crowd so i noticed that suddenly i moved to another place to my mom but he also came there and that crowd so more he touched me improperly that's really harrased me idk wht to do in that crowd he fastly gone somewhere.so so many incidents every girls in their life experienced this types of issues so we should provide education to know about this.
This is so true.. I travellled from delhi to my hometown and bcoz severe traffic i got late.... And the type of male i came across coz it was 9pm or something that atlast i had to call my brother and father to pick me up.... It's really scary and dangerous for girls who are travelling alone and too worse if it's evening, night or early mornings... I have felt it... Where i was just wishing for my ownself to get home safely...
