I met a real top notch man last weekend, never married. He's looking for a wife but looking for a woman who wants the same. Good for me because we're dating now.
When a man is trying to learn about a woman..it SHOULD be because he really wants to understand whom she is as an individual..not so he can try to find ways to bambozzle her and play games with her. Always use discernment.
This was a great video, and it's all true. I met man in January. I asked he what he was looking for, "he Siad let's just see where it goes. " I did not take him seriously at that statement. However, his actions were on point. This man works 7 days a week (2 jobs), and he goes in at 5a-, then gets off at 5p. (sometime later) Then he also coaches his son's sports teams, cooks dinners, and more. But it made time for me every single day. And now we talking about marriage
The consistent conversation should offer positivity, healing, harmonious, be exiciting, etc. If it doesn't promote anything of the sort, then that may nlt be a good sign. "Effective" communication is a very important funtion of a relationship.
1. He's not afraid of titles 2. He is in constant communication 3. He will take a deeper interest into learning more about you 4. He is willing to invest his time and money Sorry I haven't gone into detail, but it is worth the watch if you can.
"You deserve a man that is going to give you the commitment you actually deserve." ... Me: "To the 999th degree." I would say to the 1,000th degree, but only 1s were used in the oldest number system concerning the lowest number.😊
1. He's not afraid of titles 2. He is in constant communication 3. He will take a deeper interest into learning more about you 4. He is willing to invest his time and money Sorry I haven't gone into detail, but it is worth the watch if you can.
@@cynthiamey6693no Stephan is not married. I think he has a hard time being well off to choose a woman but he likes a very pretty woman who is fit and takes good care of herself. He said it on a video with Dr Bobby Price.
I completely agree so many women are afraid to ask questions in fear of pushing or coming off as needy or insecure. Thank you for this ; “You will not run a man away who has serious potential about you” “ the man who serious about you will bring you clarity and peace, not chaos and confusion” It seems so simple but it’s actually really helpful to hear !!
Random comment…. I appreciate that you do not edit when you lose your train of thought. It shows a vulnerability that gives your message more transparency and easier to accept. 🤗
Have to use discernment concerning "He will not run from a title", because some guys will do that to try to create false pretenses to a woman or others he doesn't want to see be with someone else. He will do that to cause confusion, but not want to do the inner work.
True indeed, men are hunter's. In a few day's you will know if that person is for you or not. Never argue, it's pointless. Never text always call. From the beginning, you should know what you will deal with and what you won't. Always talk. If it hits a nerve say something, never ignore your feelings or their's. Once the relationship is over never go back. Respect is key
I had a man we are talking about future, i though things are gong well. But being him active on dating site was making me confused so i confront him about it. Until he confessed that he still wants to look for other women. Now he friendzoned me. Men lies to women so the woman will stay and not going anywhere. They are so selfish!
Find a man that TRULY LOVES JESUS and you will find a man that learns how to treat you. I warn anyone reading this now, if your foundation isn't Christ it forfeits the blessings and security that comes with God being in the middle. No amount of worldly advice will save it. Learned from experience now being married to a Godly women.
Wow i just thought that... I was thinking maybe ... Im not meant for relationship and should not date or put my self in a position of men having acess to me.
Hey Steve, will a man that might be a narcissist or narcissistic traits can commit to a woman? I use to follow him to see if he’s being faithful and most the time he is. I just heard so much about narcissist man and some of his ways fit in that area. But he continues to tell me he loves me. Please help me understand!❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks ... Question, because I think I have it all wrong. So after listening to the video, what's the difference between an exclusive relationship and a commitment?
Happy Friday Steph😅 💐 Thank you always for your eye-opening and informative content. You got some valid points. Every single one of these factors is of paramount importance in a love relationship. Keep the Fyah 🔥 burning Mighty Warrior 👑🪖💙💪🏽🙏🏽
What do I do when I have been talking to a guy that I like for a period of 1month but he doesn't want to come clean on what he wants to happen BTW us and is angry when I call us friends. What do I do in these situation?
You continue to be nice but treat him like a good friend. No sex, keep the sexual talk general, don’t be anxious to contact him back when he contacts you. Don’t apologize for your untimely communications. Don’t ask him where he’s been or what he’s been doing. Always tell him to enjoy his day and if he says he’s going to do something without you tell him to enjoy himself and let you know how it went when he’s done. I guarantee you, he’s going to start communicating more and wants to keep tabs on you. It’s going to plague him to know what his position is in your life. He may not say we’re xx kind of couple but his actions will and that’s better than him saying it. Trust me, I’ve been there and the guy I’m seeing started out like this. Now, he communicate with me everyday and I know as much about him as if I was a wife.
He’s a friend , treat him as such. You don’t owe him anything if he not reciprocating back! He should be able to tell you what he looking for/what he wants from you.
I met a nice guy unfortunately his ex passed from cancer last year and I’m a little hesitant to get into a relationship but he says he’s ready but on his FB post is a pic of him and the ex hugging that’s been there for a year . I asked if he’s ok just looking at her pic all the time and if he’s really ready to move one ? He says just don’t look at my page . I’m wondering if it’s a red flag but I don’t think he’s committed to moving on
He’s not ready if he unable to delete the picture. 1 year is a short time for grievance. Even if the relationship checked out before the death, the burden is still there as maybe he thinks of what could have went different.
So I met someone on the dating site 2 months of talking and seeing each other not alot but some. He says he misses me but it going on 3 weeks have not seen him but granted been sick both of us now that we are much better he still doesn't make effort to see me. Also we do talk or text everyday but that's about it. I'm not sure where we are and he still goes into the dating site. He also let me know that he doesn't have much money to go out and it's been twice that I paid because I was caught into the trap at last minute. I told him I'm ok sharing the pay but not all the time it's not going to work for me.
If he’s still going on the site while talking to you he’s keeping his options open. If he’s making no effort to see you, he’s not serious. Men will treat you exactly how they feel about you. It’s up to you to pay attention and use your discernment. You deserve better.🎯
