Whew 🙌🏾 you were preaching..I had a dude that was jealous of me even tho I never tried to act like I was better he just knew I was too good for him and it showed. He would pull away anytime we got close, he would self sabotage. He would try so hard to make me look bad to make himself feel better about how he treated me
It’s crazy how this video popped up today. I really needed it. I met this guy on social media and we were talking for a few weeks. He heavily pursued me but I wasn’t really paying him any attention because I was too focused on work and enjoying my single life…but after awhile I decided to give him my attention because I liked his effort. This man swore up n down he was serious about me and wanted to build with me…he asked me to be his girl…even let me meet his kids and gave me a key to his place…literally 2 days after we make it official, he calls me and tells me that he’s still in love with his ex and that he wants to go back to her. She seen him posting about me on social media and all of the sudden she wants a commitment with him….I was basically a placeholder
No, you were not a placeholder. She was jealous of his new relationship and maybe she didn't have one and thought, oh no he is not going to have someone new in his life and I don't have anyone. So she played on his emotions and him wanting a family. So take it as a lesson and ask questions about the mom. How often do you see her are you still in love with her, do you still want a family with her. But make your intentions known from the start. There is no harm in telling that man or woman what you want and expect up front. I personally would not have ended being single until I was ready. It always seems like when you are finally enjoying your best life and finally happy with you. Here comes this person wanting to join in. But finish focusing on you first then if it was meant to be and they are willing to wait, keep enjoying you. His ex was just jealous. Good luck and many blessings to you.
MJ BABY i am dyinggg of silent laughter in my cubicle ahahaa. You really hype up these f**ckers in the beginning. Your story telling is second to none. Can you come to NYC so us gals can go out on the town?!?! P.S. I am also a Pisces and a creature of habit and once you step out of routine, my Pisces intuition KICKS into high gear.
Good God! Amazed that you knew this at 20! Well done!!! I fell for that " You're too good for me" bs and paid dearly for it! Just like Maya Angelou said, " When someone tells you who they are, believe them!" Thank you for your lessons MJ! We really need them!
I feel you MJ! I’ve had men say the same thing to me too & blow-up out of no where. Just gotta chalk it up to someone self-sabotaging something that could be totally wonderful. It’s frustrating but sometimes a blessing in disguise 🙏🏽😮💨
Oh I’ve had a few of these. They don’t last but a minute because I just can’t deal with the vibes people like that give off. Miss me with all that! Bye boi👋🏼
MJ absolutely is the best❤️❤️....I love listening to him, I feel like we go thru the same things...because this is hitting everything I been thru and sometimes go thru. And yes I am definitely a creature of pattern!!
MJ, you tell the best stories, and keeping our undivided attention. I've been divorced for approximately 8 years, which is my third and final one. Lol It seems as though I just need a handy man. The reason I say that, because I allow them to get close to me and then I push them away. I am thinking that's my coping mechanism for guarding my heart. I would love to have my own man, but I refuse to settle for less. Thanks for the tips and advice, and I'll keep you posted! 🙏♥️🙏
I just went through this 9 months ago I showed him the door he moved on my street after i asked him to leave it didn't work out with his ex so when im off he walks by my home multiple times I ignore him he is miserable I think he better call Tyrone 😂
Baby Im loving this story you have me on the edge of my seat. And you are wearing my favorite color any color green. Now keep talking.❤You know what he saw someone that was way out of his league He was good as long it was just the two of you.. But the moment that he saw that you were on a diffrent level. Baby that man was only a step down . The truth is that he saw your star shining and he knew that there was no way in hell that he could keep up. So thats why he said what he said.
Malcolm…I’m so glad story time is back! Tell my sisters to give the little ones some activities so we can hear some of those x rated stories of your twenties that you use to tell. Malcolm honey, you used to have the kitty cat justa purring while you told us about your shenanigans.
Hi MJ , I agree with everything you sharing , you guys should listen well his advice works , I got a man now that respects me , and treats me as his Queen 😉
Amen to that mj totally and absolutely. some parts of your story especially in the beginning and middle parts of it I found unbelievable funny in the way you were telling it.but mj in your final speech you were spot on.thank you for this video peace and love 💛
Wonderful Video, im just wondering how to deal with a masc partner (woman), who always puts their family first and will move to be with them whenever they call
When you are not equally yoked and they are insecure it will NOT work - even if you accept them and don’t see them as less than. They will act out because they are insecure. They will sabotage things. Or start to resent your success or position in life. It’s not a good idea.
My mom introduced me to you 2 years ago. She past in aug last year.. She loved you so much. She was 77.. She would love to see your videos it made her feel so vibrant...Much love now i follow you too.. Love you M. j.
OMGOODNESS MJ, you are putting us up on game with this story! Tips on how to make an entrance and work the room with class. And always bringing positive energy separates you from the crowd. Love the advice on being ok with awkward silence. You consistently give what it's supposed to be giving! Thank you for teaching this, Ole Gurl some new tricks! Smooches 🥰
