He Was Clueless, But She Didn't Stop Trying! | In Love or Not

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Rohan and Aria may or may not still be together. Hear the story of their relationship and decide... do you think they are still in love?
Tell us what your vote is in the comments! Why did you make that choice? Was it body language or a look in their eyes? Or was it something they said and the way they spoke to each other? What clues do they give off?
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Комментарии : 3,9 тыс.

@aintnothingchanged2697 7 лет назад

you can tell she loves him

@a7med58 7 лет назад

but he is not

@ameliacave3839 7 лет назад

Mhhhhmmmm

@mukmin01 7 лет назад

because he wants blonde

@TheoCynical 7 лет назад

I'm sure they'll figure it out eventually and have stories to tell their children. loll

@ROSEBRICK 7 лет назад

This is a completely biased comment. They are both technically Asian based on U.S. census measures, although we all know many people consider East Indian to be a stand alone culture, as each country's culture is different. I honestly think to say " don't expect too much" is just as bad as saying " all men are dogs", both are huge generalizations.

@muralisaripalli164 3 года назад

Damn! The border tensions got to him

@ramasjk8641 3 года назад

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@ethanallen952 3 года назад

U nailed it dude😂😂

@revantpande1813 3 года назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙏🙏🙏

@ashilyjustin4748 3 года назад

Hahahaha ❤️

@sourishchandran5744 3 года назад

@@ashilyjustin4748 lol

@kahoshewotsa5165 5 лет назад

U cannot find another girl who could love u like she does.

@ragamuffinhooligan4019 5 лет назад

Old folks in my national origin would say, 'it's not who you like, it's who like you' or 'the gyal has to like you more than you like her!'

@Charlotte-oe3hl 3 года назад

I don't believe that. If he is not inlove should he force it? He will not be happy for the rest of his life.

@ni3070 3 года назад

@@ragamuffinhooligan4019 it's interesting, because the reversed is believed in many other places......like the guy has to be in love more

@whocares3132 3 года назад

@@Charlotte-oe3hl believe me it is easy to blend in.

@rahmahdalhat8484 3 года назад

@@ni3070 i believe this

@daniellesewitt5484 5 лет назад

She is like the most perfect looking Chinese girl I've ever seen

@merladyneptune3908 5 лет назад

Danielle Sewitt Yes! And so well spoken

@plantecsmiths1622 5 лет назад

Not even close to me

@Mr.Eminem 4 года назад

They all look same

@mgirl8g 4 года назад

She seems pretty average to me...

@Growvloggiepolkadots 4 года назад

I guess you havent seen then😂😂😂

@BHAGWATIPRADHAN 6 лет назад

THE GUY IS IN LOVE BUT IS AFRAID OF COMMITMENT, THE GIRL IS IN LOVE TOO & IS WAITING FOR HIM TO LET HER IN, IN HIS LIFE & HEART.

@himanshu-ol7wq 5 лет назад

Exactly...it seems..

@elat9635 5 лет назад

Commitment is very scary for me too

@jay2610 5 лет назад

because Indians and chinese are very suspicious of each other

@foxskinn 5 лет назад

Bunty Pradhan can someone love someone if they don’t commit??

@introvertedlass6355 5 лет назад

wow apko pata hai lol

@808JuJu 7 лет назад

She still loves him, he doesn't. I could see that from the first 10 seconds of them talking

@nobitadoremon6094 6 лет назад

Yea.. I agree

@besmabibicha2194 6 лет назад

that's exactly what i thought !

@abdulrazakshaik2106 6 лет назад

Maybe he is not in good mood. Uncomfortable At that time

@litlife3113 6 лет назад

She plays along just so that she can at least keep the friendship and communication going on. She is certainly in love. One can make out from the facial expressions and body language.

@Food_india_smile 6 лет назад

because Chinese products have no guarantee 😂😂😂

@SWIFTzTrigger 5 лет назад

Dude at the start said he saw his father always shower his mother with love whilst his mother barely responded with affection. I think deep down he has a fear of commitment because of how he perceives the dynamic of his parents. If he does express his love he feels like she will be apathetic towards him so he decides to be apathetic first to protect himself. At least from my very arm chair psychologist view.

@nitinnishant7783 5 лет назад

Meanwhile, she never deeply connected with her family, leaving a hole in her as far as familial bonding goes. The first person she could connect with so deeply was this guy. So it is obviously going to be difficult for her to let go of the first genuine bond she's made in her life.

@sarahjong7977 5 лет назад

classic case of an insecure avoidant type pairing with an insecure resistant type

@claravasconcelosss2003 5 лет назад

I think he's acting like his mom in this case, I don't know why, and she's trying to keep inside her feelings for him, it's probably like the top comment here, he doesn't like her that much and so doesn't want to get in a relationship with someone he doesn't feel in love

@moodoffgirlop6402 4 года назад

See chanakya ,a great ancient Indian scholar told ..."to make a good society....u must remove the immoral and bad habits of the women of that society first.... otherwise the entire society degenerates "....I read it somewhere in the shrimad bhagvat Gita as it is by prabhupada....I think now how intelligent our scholars were....

@kalakatana503 4 года назад

He's avoidant she's anxious attachment. Those types attract and repel each other after connecting

@sundarj8174 3 года назад

Dude , you’ll miss her when she is gone. You’ll regret it. Its hard to find someone who loves you. When you do, hold on to them. Don’t let them go. Most likely you won’t find another who loves you as much as she does

@sylow1357 3 года назад

it is what it is but, its his choice

@salaskusina 3 года назад

It's not always the case. When someone loves you so much but you don't feel the same feeling, you cannot force yourself to love him/her back the way he/she does. You can try but you'll get tired. In the end, it's always better to be alone but genuinely happy than staying in a relationship for the sake of saving the "relationship" but you know deep in your heart you're not really happy.

@ForteExpresso 3 года назад

Its a misconception that you can't find another person who would love you like someone already does. Because people with similar personalities (16 in total) are similar and would end up with the personality they like if they chose their heart. Its not that hard to love someone you genuinely like. And its not like people end up liking few people. People are always looking out for better partners even while being in a relationship.

@sugatasamajder9399 3 года назад

Bro...she is Chinese...few of the Chinese students in US are spys... Security ka sawal hay yaar...socho thora

@mrsupershotgunn 3 года назад

I'll say what a stupid brain dead guy. Leaving a goddess like that for some stupid arranged marriage

@debbieomi 7 лет назад

I'm sad and you can see and feel their sadness at the end. It just seems that they are in love but their definitions are more than they need to be. Does that even make sense?

@itsmrsjones 7 лет назад

yes!!!

@Participant 7 лет назад

Interesting!

@vitayudhani6982 7 лет назад

debbieomi couldn't agree more..

@Venezuela305 7 лет назад

Agree. I believe that LOVE is the only thing in the universe without an explanation. If you're able to make sense of it, is not love. Love is a choice, yes. But the sometimes illogical force inside you that makes those decision, that's the inexplainable part. This relentless desire to make the other person happier than they were 5m ago. Specially when things go south. That's Love.

@olivendikum126 7 лет назад

That's so true. I so agree with ya!!

@RohitSharma-tj4mx 6 лет назад

Dammm she is in love with him. The way she said " close friends, very close friends". Her facial expressions were screaming out loud that I STILL LOVE HIM. I wish someone can look at me like she was looking at him.

@somabiswas2020 4 года назад

Bhaii bahar chale jaa...wha bandiya pat jaegi...chinta mat kar

@arterisdewberry9467 4 года назад

Who cares? She's my woman now!

@arterisdewberry9467 4 года назад

@Heiwajima Shizuo She will be mine one day.

@arterisdewberry9467 4 года назад

@Heiwajima Shizuo too bad because I like asian women

@nomiak6150 4 года назад

@@arterisdewberry9467 why do white men like asian women so much?

@najeesha326 5 лет назад

I am an Indian and I absolutely find the guy Handsome.. They should have been a couple

@JAHIDxJD 4 года назад

Najee Sha I think he’s just worried about it changing into the relationship that his parents have

@Ricarica981 4 года назад

I am dating an Indian guy here I. The Philippines. He is hard to figure out. Maybe he is in an arranged marriage

@19cmgang 4 года назад

@@Ricarica981 u r dating a married guy?

@borgir8889 3 года назад

@@Ricarica981 wait you are dating a married guy

@haguhishu4544 3 года назад

@@borgir8889 I think she wanted to say that her bf is "into" arranged marriage.

@bijetapaul491 2 года назад

He was never in love with her. He was just infatuated to her and overtime the infatuation was gone. Meanwhile you can tell she really loves him after all this time. It's my biggest fear, to love someone who will never love me the way I will. Also I think it's good they separated. I hope he finds someone in his live who he will really love and I hope she finds someone who will love her as much as she does.

@sanjithmuddam319 2 года назад

how did you know they separated

@TheSMCSS1234 6 лет назад

An Indian guy does not realize he is from Asia too...calling her an Asian girl hahah

@sasidharvivek5817 5 лет назад

He was saying indian girls too. Girls basically are not that good at driving. Fact

@rocalvo6588 5 лет назад

@@CherieShrimpzzz So, him being sexist means he should die? Or following your logic never have been born? Now that makes you an even bigger "douchebag". Yeah some people are racist, sexist, biased somehow or something, not saying it´s a good thing, but should they die because fo that?? I highly doubt it. Seems muricans nowadays get offenden by everything and anything..

@rocalvo6588 5 лет назад

@Shivan Anirudhra & Emperor Spriggan It doesn´t matter what Amercans think of when hearing or saying Asia. Asia is Asia and India is a part of it.. If most muricans think of something in particular that's their problem and certainly a topic that would need to be addressed at schools or, well somewhere..Being uneducated or foolish doesn´t justify altering stuff to fit your own world view.. Most western people... Really, how do you know that? Have you asked most western people what they think of when talking about Asia? At least where i come from people know pretty well that India is a part of Asia.

@monikaverma8008 5 лет назад

@@sasidharvivek5817 says who 'a sexiest moron ' .

@mayaout7808 5 лет назад

Sasidhar Vivek that's what wrong with this world when you put someone down based on their gender. Make sure you let your views known to the girl you gonna date or marry..

@Chimarkgames 7 лет назад

i guessed correctly because the way he looked at her, there was no love in his look of his eyes speaking with her. Also she sounded strong woman which i sensed she had her heart broken but she moved on.

@ameliacave3839 7 лет назад

chiMarkgames that's exactly what I saw

@beyondallcontrol 7 лет назад

I felt the same way. I even wondered if he ever truly was in love with her. Meaning, I am sure he cared about her but she had to chase him and he was just kinda like, "Alright, I guess we can kinda date." But he never felt comfortable saying I love you. I feel like deep down he doesn't see himself with her but she is nice to have around so they stay in each other's lives. Unfortunately, I feel like she keeps hope alive that he will one day realize he is in love with her and come back. I feel sad now...

@anamateurmakes 7 лет назад

+beyondallcontrol or maybe the guy is not so much comfortable in front of camera ! you know most of the people find it hard to utter the right words in front of camera , they are wanting to say one word and speak out the other in real !

@beyondallcontrol 7 лет назад

Look at 2:44 she says that she can't remember every being able to easily say, "I love you" and before that he said he has always had a hard time expressing strong emotions like he needs her in his life. They have known each other for years and they still have uncertainty about how the other feels (which is what they have said) is a red flag. At 5:30 he says that he goes in an out of love, that is not love. Those are warm fuzzy feelings. Frankly, people will save themselves a lot of grief if they just live by this rule: If he or she has been with you for years and can't with certainty that they love you, MOVE ON!

@lilacfunk 7 лет назад

Man, I feel exactly this case in my relationship. He says he loves me a lot but can never move it forward. I think deep down he's never let himself truly think that I'm it. That's why I absolutely had to breakup with my boyfriend last week.

@VasReds 5 лет назад

She’s so beautiful. Them cheekbones and dimples. Oh my heart 😍

@HAlimabushra123 3 года назад

What cheekbones 😂 she has a flat face

@1211jinx 3 года назад

@@HAlimabushra123 she's cute.

@HAlimabushra123 3 года назад

ペラテルエレン she looks like every other chinese girl to me

@hibye-op3fl 3 года назад

Halima B hater you jealous of her

@MaryK02 3 года назад

@@HAlimabushra123 Where are you from? You can't be Indian.. This from what I've seen South Asian, middle East women like to put down other women the most.. And it's funny you think having east Asian features is ugly?!! Racist much... idk this girl but I can bet she's 10 times less vain and not superficial like you

@rifqim9485 6 лет назад

She's definitely not okay with 'only friend'

@DestiB1 7 лет назад

I was wrong....I got that she was still in love with him but him not as much as her

@minilme 7 лет назад

because he never was. You can see that she pursued him and he just went with the flow for the sake of it. He was never in love with her. He just loved the attention from her. He got tired of it. What a hole!

@Chibi_003 7 лет назад

Destiny Bennett I know a guy in my friend circle and he's the kind of guy who'd take whatever comes, but never chase what goes.. but with guys like him it's hard to figure out what do they even want because he really loved this one girl and still let her go

@solveigstir9844 7 лет назад

minilme: hahah, you just can't make assumptions like that, you don't know anything about their situation other then what they've told us..

@jennyksslr 7 лет назад

Destiny Bennett I was wrong too. I feel like they made a really good couple.

@irishvarshaiyyadurai5305 6 лет назад

PietreADI, what is your problem dude? Why do you bring stereotypes into this? They were together for 5 years and it doesn't sound like he harmed her like that.

@kratos218 7 лет назад

i thought my life was complicated but damn son, these 2 take it to another level.

@kratos218 7 лет назад

probably his indian parents won't agree with this.. why else would he pass on such a good thing

@megaprimegamer1184 7 лет назад

Banks93 nah. he's American. so, technically it shouldn't be a problem. But damn, I bet he's cheating cuz that girl fine as hell.

@saiswaroop47 6 лет назад

Banks93 😂😂😂lol

@sams517 6 лет назад

MegaPrime Gamer so why would he cheat if she’s fine as hell...

@rationalhuman5338 5 лет назад

his indian parents and relatives wont accept it

@unrealsamurai2023 3 года назад

Hard to find girls who love you as much as this girl loves him

@mabz12ify 5 лет назад

50 years from now, they'll meet each other and admit if it wasn't as complicated as what they made it out. You only live once, don't keep your feelings to yourself.

@KingKnight16 7 лет назад

The eyes Chico, they never lie

@mhatter5740 7 лет назад

.....where did I hear this? oh God this will bother me.

@AhhYouPooped 7 лет назад

M Hatter scarface

@DaleyC94 7 лет назад

HAHA ur a legend for this comment, thought the exact same thing.

@stxfdt1240 7 лет назад

Noah Williams What did she mean by pushing buttons btw

@stxfdt1240 6 лет назад

rajesh raj Bhai it's called joking and acting like a normal male person .So tell me if I tell that she's ugly would you be happy.Reality is that because of guys like u everybody feels ashamed; hindering everybody's freedom of speech.I did not say anything that offensive.You can interpret it in anyway u want.I was just complementing her from a different point of view.P.S. If I say that in America they would really consider it as saying something positive about them

@karshaps7648 6 лет назад

it is funny that almost none of the Indian chicks in the comment section find the guy good looking.. (i see one desi chick who commented that he is ugly..) . They seem to be noticing other things (like "I feel bad for the gurl".."the girl is pretty".."still in love"..etc etc..") .. But chicks from other ethnicities seem to think he is fine AF . I have seen sooo many brown chicks going gaga over an average looking latino/Arab/White dude ! Grass is always greener on the other side...lol

@glorydays3378 6 лет назад

Hey I really find him good looking tho

@robbiehernandez8019 6 лет назад

He's better looking from afar.

@nishisaxena4831 6 лет назад

karsh aps you r right ... I’m desi but I’m only into write Arab hotties ... kinda bored with desi guys tbh

@SK-hd1yk 5 лет назад

Maybe because he is normal to them? They see desi dudes daily so what does this guy have that sets him apart from the rest of desi guys for them to ‘have to’ comment something? You’re looking into it too deeply, I’ve not seen what you have seen in the comments and tbh this is a stupid argument I don’t know why I’m entertaining it.

@SK-hd1yk 5 лет назад

nik141991 i don’t know where you got that from. I’m sorry but Indians in the west are not the same as Indians in India. In the West they teach us about gender equality and how you should and should not be treated. Do you even blame them for not wanting to marry into a culture that might suffocate them?

@Blessindisguise 5 лет назад

Man it's SOOOOO refreshing to see a unique mix of people like that! No matter how we look like or where you are from we #weareone

@chinmayyt6461 3 года назад

Nobody gonna talk about how fine the guy is?.

@arjunnair6023 3 года назад

Coz he's NOT! lol

@iitnakanpur.. 3 года назад

@@arjunnair6023 pervert spotted😂😂

@comradeleppi2000 3 года назад

@@iitnakanpur.. do you even know meaning of pervert?

@comradeleppi2000 3 года назад

@@arjunnair6023 he is handsome

@iNeed2.p 3 года назад

Average looking

@808JuJu 7 лет назад

I think the hardest part of losing someone, isn't having to say "goodbye", but rather learning to live without them. Always trying to fill the void, the emptiness that's left inside your heart when they go.

@srisruthitangirala 6 лет назад

RyZe JuJu u definitely nailed it!

@harrietkorir5088 6 лет назад

RyZe JuJu well said. Moving on can be really tough. Knowing that person is no longer the first person you tell whenever something happens.

@solidn6 6 лет назад

@RyZe JuJu I'm going through it right now and it hurts like hell, I miss her so much. It's essentially dealing with death because there now dead to you and you will never speak to them again.

@lanjicucksmoke3034 6 лет назад

solidn6 how you keeping up bruv?

@solidn6 6 лет назад

@folatomi akeju I'm doing much better now. Being away from her has made me realize she was very toxic, manipulative & controlling. She reached out to me a few times was stupid excuses to belittle me, and make me feel bad. I'm seeing a new side to her and slowly falling out of love with her. I know I can do better than her.

@uh3442 7 лет назад

SoulPancake destroyed my whole knowledge of human nature. How should I ever trust myself again?

@Participant 7 лет назад

Haha happy to be of service.

@lalremkimi3759 7 лет назад

U H Lol

@khalil1711996 7 лет назад

Trust urself dont worry she is madly deeply in love with him

@shkilmshkil1792 7 лет назад

J Kim

@taracheng345 7 лет назад

Lol

@olisa633 5 лет назад

Speaking from experience, I'd say that most of us from Africa and Asia have this unique challenge about marrying someone from outside our race and tribe. The problem with it is that we sometimes end up with people who are nowhere near making us as happy as the 'outsider'. It is really sad. Rohan will probably marry an Indian girl in the end to please his parents - but there is no doubt in my mind that Aria loves him very much. And would have made a great life partner for him.

@danreed1105 3 года назад

I wonder how their future will be. I have seen the same situation to two Indian/Chinese couples, when we were all in our 20s. That was 40 years ago

@teja6134 3 года назад

Best comment , I totally agree with you 🙏💜 , what you said is really correct

@klppdc 3 года назад

You are wrong. Many Indian men end up marrying Chinese and Japanese women. Lately Korean as well. If you travel to East Asia you will find many mixed race couples with Indian grooms. That’s because Indian men are open minded and Asian cultures share many similar values. Indian men with Chinese women is the most common mixed race couple in Hong Kong and Singapore etc.

@olisa633 3 года назад

@@klppdc You win!

@cherrysimon 3 года назад

I agree

@heatengine9283 3 года назад

The guy came straight out of some anime/manga.

@gautamshivam530 3 года назад

Chad from bleach

@senrabetrollin 3 года назад

@@gautamshivam530 don't disrespect lol. Man's Kishibe Rohan From jojo

@Ma28navMB 6 лет назад

Dude why ? She's amazing ! Most men would kill to be with a woman so in love. You can tell the entire story just by observing how she looks at him. Those eyes have a lot of love but hurt as well.

@goofygoofy6098 4 года назад

He seems to be a arrange marriage guy. Mummy nahi mani sayad. Isliye most girls are not comfortable of dating an Indian guy, no commitment from the guys side.

@mohanr7274 3 года назад

@@goofygoofy6098 shut up

@thendino1 3 года назад

@@goofygoofy6098 you are confusing yourself with Pakistani and Chinese guys...

@amitjose3739 3 года назад

@@goofygoofy6098 not every ones a simp, no ones that desperate, maybe he doesnt like her.

@itsanewday5219 3 года назад

Yeah

@Cheeky_Mouse 7 лет назад

They spoke mostly in the past tense, so I figured their relationship had been over for a while. The fact that they were so comfortable in each others' personal space told me they were most likely in love at one point. The video is bittersweet. It shows how the end of something can make you grow as a person. A breakup does not need to be ugly. I love that they still respect and care for one another.

@YuvrajSingh-fl9tf 3 года назад

I need part two of this to see they are in love now! This broke my heart!

@imviiku 5 лет назад

He is So Confused that Whether he Should Do Love marriage or Arranged Marriage 😂😂

@Gauravkumar-jm4ve 5 лет назад

😂

@glenncoco8840 5 лет назад

Lmao

@bountyhunter6722 3 года назад

😂😂😂lol

@anushkapradhan4398 3 года назад

😂😂😂😂😂...right!!

@gajendrasinghpatel6068 2 года назад

Kyun bhai sbhi jagah launde hi commitment dikhaye kya laundiyon ka firj nhi bnta kya.tumhare jaise strawberry vale laundon ko barbad kr rhe.

@chandinimohan2795 7 лет назад

poor girl...... i really feel her love even in her stares

@BabanTudu 6 лет назад

Chandini Mohan yes

@RDCFemmes 6 лет назад

Same here

@aznn9205 6 лет назад

PietreADI that's just not right man

@ars2485 6 лет назад

lol yea true

@NiftyConceptStudios 6 лет назад

me too

@saltandpepper2889 7 лет назад

You just can't tell if the girl still loves him... He not so much! Kinda makes me sad😢

@Participant 7 лет назад

So interesting! Some people have been saying the opposite, that he's more in love than she is. Was there body language or an interaction that made you think that?

@saltandpepper2889 7 лет назад

Soul pancake I'm not sure, probably because he seems more careful with his words, not putting all out... On the other hand She is more vocal, looks more comfortable and when she looks at him she smiles, he just avoided making eye contact, he was focused on the camera! Maybe is just me!

@maggieg2972 7 лет назад

that could just be their natural body language i'm not sure

@fffuckyouspielberg 7 лет назад

I totally agree with you, in the end her smile was kinda unnatural, it was sad, while his face was indifferent

@Chibi_003 7 лет назад

Kira yes the way she looked at him was filled with affection or maybe the friendly way you see someone and when he said we're not in love but I'm in love even through other things he was holding himself ... I mean I don't have exact words to put here of what I actually felt while watching the video but ...

@shampersaud2763 3 года назад

The guy looks more in love with the girl, look at their body languages. But there seems to be inner work need to be done with both of them. They seemed really kind and caring towards each other But communication blocks need unlocking .This relationship can survive go very long. If only they get done to the psychological and emotional issues.

@the_pr3d4t0r8 2 года назад

The guy doesn't seem to be in love at all. Why are so many people just imposing forceful love on the guy side. When it is clear he is not in love at all.

@LeanPrimal 5 лет назад

Oh wow they explained it perfectly the thin line between to love or not to love is very small when it comes to people you like

@justinezey 7 лет назад

you could tell by the look of his face instantly

@sheetaljain8125 7 лет назад

justine mckinzey skme people are just very vary of the camera.. i cud talk for hours.. but put me i front of camera.. ill talk like i have a gun pointed at myself..

@justinezey 7 лет назад

sheetal jain good point, but he just looked a lil bummed out

@LetUsSee001 7 лет назад

I'm the same way. I think it's an Indian thing. We're just awkward and shy.

@Lilyevangeline 7 лет назад

What he says at the end about falling in and out of love kinda upsets me. Love is much more then just a feeling. At the end of the day love is a choice. You can tell they do care about each other, but they didn't choose to make that commitment to each other. So many people go into relationships with the mindset of what they can get out of it for themselves, not with the thought that relationships are to help each other grow as people and to be each other's rocks through life. And with that comes up and downs, but that doesn't mean we should just give up when it's hard to love that person.

@astrokidd9372 7 лет назад

Well love is different for everyone. When people fall in love, how they fall in love, when they know they fall in love, and how they know the fell in love and the same with feeling love. It's all different for everyone. Everyone also has their opinions on how they want to be loved and how they want their partners to act.

@alicemarie5761 7 лет назад

Lily Evangeline I can understand what he is saying though. love is technically just a chemical reaction in your brain.. attachment is a bond that lasts much longer but "love" as a feeling wears off after a few years at most.

@Lilyevangeline 7 лет назад

Alice Marie that's not really "love" tho it's attraction

@alicemarie5761 7 лет назад

Lily Evangeline ok but attraction is what makes you "in love" with a person rather than just love

@alannajohnson5043 7 лет назад

Lily Evangeline agree. thanl you for clear it that up. I'm 22 in 3 days and ive never been in a relationship so it's hard to understand what a romantic kind of love is. therefore his viewpoint was really confusing me. But tjam you for explaining it. I agree with you 100%

@imviiku 5 лет назад

So apparently.. India & China Got Together In US.. So Ironical if you think Politically 😂😂

@AA-rv3yc 5 лет назад

vivek sharma a socialist Country boy , a Communist country girl in a Capitalist country .

@ryana-6762 5 лет назад

bahaha I thought China hated India and had land disputes?

@prajwaljadhav8984 5 лет назад

@@AA-rv3yc we are not socialist we believe in mixed economy

@AA-rv3yc 5 лет назад

Prajwal Jadhav we are Still socialist country according to the Constitution though we have practically mixed economy of socialism and capitalism.

@trishshimmer9766 5 лет назад

lol you are funny

@tashinorbu6303 5 лет назад

Go for it bro... She really love u man

@darlingmkxo 6 лет назад

It's so obvious he is NOT in love, but she is totally still in love. She f***ed up by pursuing him. He wasn't clueless, he just didn't like her. His love for her is solely because she loves him, not because he feels it. If someone really loves you but you don't return the same feelings you feel bad because they are a good person that loves you. So you feel you owe them something. You don't. She needs to move on. He won't love her the way she loves him ever.

@Gauravkumar-jm4ve 6 лет назад

Malini very correctly said

@dilhararukshaniliyanaaratc5728 6 лет назад

Malini so true

@suzie5813 6 лет назад

Malini I hate how he straight up says he wasn't into her at girst, in so many words and she just dismisses it...:/ehehe

@tiaussardar8192 5 лет назад

well, here I got the expert advice...........thank you...........

@andremotivation6561 5 лет назад

Malini most women want what they can't have

@denisemoyer1729 7 лет назад

From the second they sat down together, I felt like they were, "Oh boy, here we go". Then when they talked about being together through their twenties and how you "learn so much about yourself," I figured they learned that they were not right for each other. Even with their friendship, I feel they are just hanging on out of history for each other. Once either of them meets someone else, I feel they will move on and apart from each other.

@Participant 7 лет назад

Wow, really interesting perspective!

@KiKi-ne8hg 7 лет назад

Denise Moyer or maybe once they meet someone else , they'll realise that they were more comfortable when they were together as a couple ,but then u never know !

@lionessprowess3581 7 лет назад

Denise Moyer: why did they sat closer to each other in the middle of the vid when they started to have fun...?

@denisemoyer1729 7 лет назад

LionessProwess: I think it's just the history thing. When you start talking about all the fun you had together and your face-to-face with a person you had deep feelings for (they were together 5 years), I think you temporarily (at least) put any difficulties aside. The did have and on again off again relationship.

@denisemoyer1729 7 лет назад

Rob: Sweet! Thank you.

@itsanewday5219 3 года назад

They both love each other so much.I know there is time when even if you love someone and want someone back you can't express it.Hope they overcome it and have a happy life.they will be happy together

@Monica-lu6gb 5 лет назад

He is soo good looking

@ruggsparch2787 3 года назад

Wtf?? Indians don’t usually get attention, what’s going on??

@teenypi6960 3 года назад

@@ruggsparch2787 well looks like the tables are turning now

@frankocean6676 3 года назад

@@teenypi6960 im indian i can say he is basic

@teenypi6960 3 года назад

@@frankocean6676 and there are guys like me 😎

@frankocean6676 3 года назад

@@teenypi6960 wow r u indian?

@Ngawanghardy 6 лет назад

They looked so disappointed when they said they were close friends.. as if they wanted more.. sad 😢

@Dona_maria 5 лет назад

I feel though ✌🏻

@charmander777 5 лет назад

The guys face: I think I better go back to studying now

@adhithyanal908 2 года назад

@@charmander777 😂😁

@jaswinderpalsngh 6 лет назад

That sighing at the end...she's still hoping...

@smukhopadhayay2634 Год назад

2:45 - she actually said I love you. Man you should marry her !

@smukhopadhayay2634 Год назад

@Anonymouse and it’s a crime to reply to a 5yr old video? Or there are restrictions that we can’t comment on an old video?

@danielaalzateduque9852 6 лет назад

I actually thought they were in love just because the way she looks at him, like she might still be in love with him. He being so static and kind of uncomfortable with the whole thing made me realize they were not together anymore

@ranjithramesh8332 3 года назад

5:50

@priyalpatel4250 2 года назад

No...i don't think...that.... it's because he is a reserved guy...shy guy .. whatever you wonna....call that

@the_pr3d4t0r8 2 года назад

@@priyalpatel4250 Nah, he is done no need to force it on him. As of the chick she might have moved on, but think she still hopes that he would come around.

@Ram-Deep 6 лет назад

He is god of friendzone...

@introvertedlass6355 5 лет назад

Ram lol yeah. I would never want that kinda man

@saywhat5034 5 лет назад

Introverted lass to be friends with?

@daddy3663 5 лет назад

U meant to say he is your god right ?

@Mr.Eminem 4 года назад

@@introvertedlass6355 don't worry . You never will

@arnabsom3251 3 года назад

He is God of sakt launda

@samanthacampbell375 7 лет назад

I guessed no. I could tell by their body language. and eye contact. I could tell the care deeply about one another, but not in a forever kind love.

@biswarajkarmakar9650 6 лет назад

Samantha Campbell - Ur comment is interesting...bt how U define ' forever kind of love ' ?

@rahilk5139 6 лет назад

What is the forever kind of way body language and eye contact should look?

@ItsMeToYou 6 лет назад

Bull! Indians grow into love! He's marriage is probably already arranged anyway 😏

@aravindsai8978 6 лет назад

Do you know about 'Leftover Women' in China? Obviously China considers women who are not married beyond 30 as something as Incapable of producing a Child. Can't Blame China they were trying to reduce Population.The same American Feminists kill you for being different.You don't matter. Might and Power maters not being Politically Incorrect as you do.

@kkhyojin18 6 лет назад

You know in their culture, they do not make eye contact much. And I gotta be honest with you shes got big ass chin.

@radbrad8150 2 года назад

He broke up due to Chinese aggression. He is a nationalist 🤣😂

@ritishakapoor1513 2 года назад

Based

@immortal__-__2994 Год назад

😂😂😂😂

@engineeriumm Год назад

anti ccp cop

@adithiarjun6764 Год назад

Based😂😂

@nishantaadi 7 месяцев назад

🎉❤😂

@vivianhir3930 5 месяцев назад

This video is so relatable based on my experience and made my throat tighten.

@rauufbajrai 7 лет назад

she more than loves him. he's afraid of commitment. the one pulling them both back from a deeper relationship is him. here's the thing, you gotta love your significant other every single day for the rest of your life. it's work in progress.

@DK-wl2om 7 лет назад

she's so pretty

@chriztafa 6 лет назад

for an asian

@loguchennai 6 лет назад

Sabh Restman Indian girls are also Asian ..

@surplustrident1073 6 лет назад

JUSTin 😂😂😂😂

@daschund7680 6 лет назад

Sabh Restman HAHAHAA says the insecure singaporean girl ? AWWW pats yourself on the shoulder

@joelfernandes9793 6 лет назад

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, so what's attractive to you may not be attractive to others.

@ashishkhaitanvlogs1025 5 лет назад

Women can shift from one relationship to another within a small time period men on the other hand have difficulties overcoming a breakup , Maybe Rohan didn't want his heart to be broken and so he maintains a distance.

@subhadramahanta452 3 года назад

I read somewhere that it's opposite, like in an article or something maybe

@klppdc 3 года назад

Women can move on at a drop of a hat.

@vishnukvv 3 года назад

absolutely correct

@vishnukvv 3 года назад

@@subhadramahanta452 If that is the siutation ...many arranged marriages wont happen in Indian subcontinent at least ...leave about others

@IamDanish99 3 года назад

@@subhadramahanta452 can you share that article link

@abhayinqualabi9564 5 лет назад

Love is a relationship in which you are there for the Happiness of other person and you try to keep it even if your thoughts are not matching but let it go when other doesn't want to stay

@TheGuitarpro3 6 лет назад

He looks like an Indian version of John Mayer.. Lol.

@daGOAT81 5 лет назад

IraqUpBeaches hahahha you are right on

@HELL0NESSA 5 лет назад

Yes!!!!!

@shermaynebrown5165 5 лет назад

Now I can't unsee this hahahhahahahhah

@kunalnagarkoti4409 4 года назад

But different race

@leann4265 4 года назад

Oh my god can’t unsee

@808JuJu 7 лет назад

The hottest love has the coldest end.

@ernestmofokeng3963 6 лет назад

RyZe JuJu ...wow, you just said the most amazing comment. . I was at that situation, it ended exactly like that... hmmmm love! :-(

@ernestmofokeng3963 6 лет назад

PietreADI hahahahahahaha

@SunnySingh1 6 лет назад

PietreADI, the pakistani dude with the name Farzad is a india hating bigot who's spamming the whole comment section. www.nationmaster.com/country-info/stats/Crime/Rape-rate India is 94th in rank in this international report on rapes per capita so shut your hole Farzad

@bradleybrad398 6 лет назад

Thats not true, dont say that. It just didnt work out.

@soljashet5692 6 лет назад

Lol drake

@marshallislandsg5630 5 лет назад

I can't even show support to that girl because I was in a similar situation. I was in a long term relationship with a Taiwanese girl and I ended it because I was afraid of commitment. I wish I can time travel to correct my mistake.

@hirenahir76200 Год назад

That's why i don't go on relationship when i don't think i can comited

@tigerlily6668 3 года назад

Yes! Exactly love is the respect. Without respect there is no love.

@maruti_rakshit9867 7 лет назад

they are in love, but they want diffrent things from love, they have different goals actually. thats keeping them away from accepting their love for each other.

@lazybeastz182 6 лет назад

its not they want different things the indian dude is no longer attracted to her

@linmutum6986 6 лет назад

the girl is crying inside

@khilangajjar 4 года назад

yepp

@patriciaselwyn799 3 года назад

Yes, and should cut the relationship off!(before she is badly hurt) The boy knows how attractive he is and is waiting for his mum to get a proposal!

@rakeshkoul92 3 года назад

so true but the guy does not see it, he does not see the writing on the wall. may be there are more important things in life than love but are there i ask ?

@ArunSKasrk 3 года назад

@@patriciaselwyn799 Don't stereotype Indian guys. All Indian guys don't wait for their family to bring the proposal. And he grew up in the USA so i dont think he'll go for that arranged crap.

@mohanr7274 3 года назад

@@patriciaselwyn799 what the hell with the stereotyping? This arranged marriage thing is so passe` even in India

@saraogden1229 3 года назад

the best kind of couples in this world, congrats

@satyadhoundiyal 5 лет назад

Made for each other...They were born for each other. So blessed that they found each other.

@VISHALNZ007 7 лет назад

i don't why people makes things so complicated, they always thinks they will find a better person than the person they already have in their life. Its human nature-in every relationship we tend to feel to good in the beginning but in the end we loss interest, so don't fall prey to your emotions, make yourself aware of things that is happening around you and enjoy life

@laughtertherapy4570 6 лет назад

puchu kumar most realistic comment in this feed

@xw6475 6 лет назад

puchu kumar You are soo Right!!! Spot on👏👏

@krishnasuresh2080 6 лет назад

Well said

@user-ss9ib9er8g 6 лет назад

damn this guy is gorgeous

@rajavarma3894 5 лет назад

express451 white are jealous

@rosymaharjan2924 5 лет назад

Yes

@bibeksewa1612 5 лет назад

@Shivan Anirudhra that is a misconception....

@IBelievenevermind 5 лет назад

express451 you're a ugly triggered virgin kid

@IBelievenevermind 5 лет назад

Natalia reply me lol

@aashishsharma9106 3 года назад

The guy could be a model. Very good looking.

@user-ey8ic6ux9e 2 года назад

Indian hate Indians 😒

@nahlanat.kreshnan3131 3 года назад

You are both very good looking people. It's okay to keep finding yourself WHILE grow together. Together or not, I hope you are both happy.

@vidyarani3353 7 лет назад

Sad 😭.She is in love still, he is not and never been, but tried. Sad

@bubujooestes1499 6 лет назад

Indian guys marry the girls their parents pick for them.He used her.

@Nico.Robin7 6 лет назад

So do chinese. It's an Asian thing.

@rahulvp9184 6 лет назад

May be they love each other cause of difference then the same reason cause their break up. But generalising and stereotyping is something only stupidds or assholes do. U know what i mean right

@penpithmind1941 3 года назад

@@bubujooestes1499 Not 100% true. Love marriage are normal too in Indian community.

@Jamgirlkay84 7 лет назад

What I learned from these videos is that communication is key. Don't sit around for years without defining your relationship. Have an honest conversation.

@sidds3180 5 лет назад

Her sigh at 5:57 put a dagger through my heart so hard, it came out on the other side *smh*

@plsnh 5 лет назад

He is a arrange marriage guy...his mum gonna decide dont worry guys

@neptunians 5 лет назад

@@wickramasinghenishshanka137 just what I thought.

@ananyagummadi1145 5 лет назад

Omg this made my day 😂

@jajaja7394 5 лет назад

A number of hindu ppl marry outside thr religion but cant say that for sikh ppl! They are communists and dont marry outside thr faith! That's sick!

@dididisun 4 года назад

lol

@chellecruise7016 4 года назад

Exactly!!! Mum knows best hahahaha

@hoa925 6 лет назад

Love this. Choking back in tears, great story. Thanks for sharing.

@IncognitoGirl112 7 лет назад

What I feel is she's always and still is into him.. very much. But he isn't. Either he doesn't know what he wants or just not that into her in that way. Idk that's how I see it.

@barrygattenhof9903 6 лет назад

Aria is as sweet as they come. Why has she been dealt the cards she has. So much love in her to give and the warmth she exudes i can feel 9000miles away.

@DraconaiMac 5 лет назад

These two are awesome as friends. They only get awkward when they're made to wonder why its not more.

@aatkins2569 7 лет назад

5:03 crushed my heart. no words spoken, but his expression spoke volumes. in less than 5 minutes I had invested so many feelings into this couples relationship.

@gracenazi9724 7 лет назад

the woman loves the man way more than he loves her. i feel her .loving someone too much can be tough especially if the other doesnt love you back as much

@jaswantsokey1877 5 лет назад

I guessed correct -"not in love"- straight away. I could sense that there was no "love" chemistry between them. There is just average good friendship and a healthy dose of respect between them!

@nujacordep1686 5 лет назад

Damn she was aggressive af to get him lol

@kunalm15 4 года назад

She definitely wanted him to be her man.

@Nanancay 7 лет назад

It looks like he was always unsure and he didn't actually LOVE her, but he felt pressured to love someone? IDK it just looks that way to me, maybe he WAS in love but his body language and the way he talks about the past is just unfavourable.

@RAMIC-tv1ye 7 лет назад

he is just the kind of guy who takes things in life too seriously ..he wants to be in love with her yet not so sure about if he is certain ..it would be better if the part off..

@beyondallcontrol 7 лет назад

Point blank... if you have to keep making the moves on a guy and he keeps having to study, he is just not that into you. If you have been dating for a while and he can't get himself to tell you he loves you, he is just not that into you. It is easy to see this when you are a third party but it is hard to see when you are in the girl's place. Been there and I totally get it. I hope they both can find happiness and love soon.

@lionessprowess3581 7 лет назад

beyondallcontrol: based on your line of logic, my boyfriend is not into me either.

@zouhourayachi3375 7 лет назад

that " very close friend " is quite disturbing xD

@sachinrane4716 4 года назад

Love is being with each other in any form just to complete each other's life without any conditions

@kholipaul8264 5 лет назад

Sad that they cant feel each others heart. They look good together

@thesouroppe4460 6 лет назад

This happens when their is no Doklam stand-off.

@vishwassharma7882 6 лет назад

sou chak he still boycott her 😂😂

@robertmitchell8630 6 лет назад

sou chak rofl

@priyankadevlekar8951 6 лет назад

Awsm man😂😂😂

@justfun9971 6 лет назад

Dam man

@piyushpandey8509 6 лет назад

just spilled water off my mouth after reading this comment ....rofl

@ApplesareDopeable 7 лет назад

Omg what.. They're so cute tho!!

@sawanarora2627 7 лет назад

Melissa Zeng Word!

@ninhbac04 7 лет назад

being a "cute couple" doesn't mean two people should be together.

@pankajtiwari6775 7 лет назад

Melissa Zeng u r cute!!

@ninhbac04 7 лет назад

you could impress her more if you didn't say u r

@henryfung9725 7 лет назад

he is not white...i thought asian women were obessessed with whtie men

@ASHISHSINGH-lt3jd 2 года назад

Such crazy story, but yeah, this shows that people are good, people are just people without any label.

@emon07afif 5 лет назад

Even if he is in love he can't admit, he is rooted in traditions that control him unconsciously. That holds him form saying "I love you". He will always be in a dilemma. While she is in love. It's a frustrating feeling.

@ItsAmena.Z 7 лет назад

Omg NO they are in love! The way they look at each other, the way they were playing and laughing ith each other... Even the way they said it at the end you could feel very well that they are sad about this and they want each other back! And I think just the fact that they collaborated to make this video and were interested enough to sit with each other and talk it out shows that they still have feelings for each other. I really do think there is hope!

@mystictulip7438 7 лет назад

the way none of their faces brightened up at the word "I love you" made me guess something was off

@CaptainPlanet007 5 лет назад

In love goes “in and out”, damn he’s honest!

@detachedloop1004 3 года назад

They're one of those that overthink it in times where people don't even think twice before jumping onto someone's bed.

@begummm11 7 лет назад

can you see the sadness in her eyes when she says "we are very close friends"? i do. she is obviously still in love

@jadebroadnax3352 7 лет назад

Rohan has the most beautiful skin

@sneha9890 6 лет назад

bruh big log appreciate rather than bringing random ppl in here

@supersagarsagar 6 лет назад

dont let the white boys catch you saying that

@ArchEnemyNemesis1 6 лет назад

Skin? Wtf you talking about? No. Rohan has the most beautiful horses.

@gloriamutoni5137 5 лет назад

I can sooo relate to this..very close friends, who love each other but being together is harder than not being together. It hurts..in the end it's either forever or never (not friends anymore)

@chiefcuningcoyote4906 2 года назад

Best move to make, if he can’t see it then it never meant to be for you

@anekafernandez7164 7 лет назад

That couple was beyond attractive

@goddamnthedamned 7 лет назад

Oh come on guys! Get together! Have a baby! We need to know what the future of mankind will look like...

@RAMIC-tv1ye 7 лет назад

future of maniknd ??? correct me if i sound confused

@abhisekdas435 6 лет назад

Indian and Chinese are the feature of mankind... Together they will have perfect kid of future who can servive in all condition

@neel9137 6 лет назад

Robert Oppenheimer you are just a jealous person

@supersagarsagar 6 лет назад

He wants to marry a Indian girl like you feel proud

@rahulvp9184 6 лет назад

natasha gupta The population explosion in these countries are a big problem.

@eswareepuliyadi6507 3 года назад

those eyes and curls are perfect...

@susmim5437 5 лет назад

I like them both individually.. They look so good and I can totally understand his situation as I have been in one myself.. The respect aspect that he mentioned is so true.. He doesn't really wants to hurt her..but he is not being to able to lie to himself too