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Healing, feeling and accepting your emotions won't work. Do this instead. 

Saja Fendél
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Emotions don't need to be healed.
You don't need to be healed.
#nonduality #meditation #removethoughts #suffering

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10 окт 2024

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Комментарии : 67   
@Chrizbent
@Chrizbent 2 дня назад
It's truly remarkable how this video found me at the exact moment i was ready to hear exactly this. The algorithm is FREAKY sometimes. This was beautifully said and simplified something that A LOT of people, teachings and myself included, have a tendency to make extremely complex and difficult. Thank you, an angel in disguise ❤
@sajafendel
@sajafendel 2 дня назад
I really appreciate this comment man. I know right? I believe the universal algorithm collaborates with RU-vid 😂 Thanks again my friend, have a beautiful day 🙏💚
@DawnZimmermann
@DawnZimmermann День назад
Its pure grace. It has led me all the way to here. Many avenues, one path. God is everything and it astounds me every day.
@Atomicbubble1
@Atomicbubble1 День назад
Needed this. Reminds me of “we have no false feelings, only false stories”. Lovely🙏🏼
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
I haven’t heard that before but I love that! Thanks for sharing :)
@rhiannonjones6409
@rhiannonjones6409 2 дня назад
The way you’ve explained this has made it finally click for me, thank you so much
@sajafendel
@sajafendel 2 дня назад
I’m so glad, thanks for sharing this Rhiannon! 🙏💚
@Hananssm
@Hananssm 2 дня назад
Totally agree ❤❤
@DawnZimmermann
@DawnZimmermann День назад
Brilliant observation which I also accidentally fell into. We are the authority of our own lives. I had bad cptsd and tried variius therapists who really didnt help one bit so I took charge of my own healing because suddenly I realised only I know myself. I healed my cptsd with intense biographical journaling and shadow work. Im free of all but one plaguing reaction but this is very helpful thank you Saja. 🙏
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
This is beautiful dawn! Thank you for sharing, glad I could help a little bit with the residues :)
@jonber9411
@jonber9411 День назад
I really like the way you put it. Forgiveness is so strong, if you really do it as you stipulated it.
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
Absolutely man 🙏 I appreciate the comment.
@maxbevers6369
@maxbevers6369 2 дня назад
The tooth fairy analogy somehow really made the processing emotion thing finally click for me. ❤
@sajafendel
@sajafendel 2 дня назад
I’m so glad max! Thanks for the comment my friend. Wishing you peace 🙏🌅
@aayushmakhadka4852
@aayushmakhadka4852 Час назад
thank you! im somehow in tears
@Mystic_Paths
@Mystic_Paths 2 дня назад
Recognizing what you're feeling without judgment. It’s important to be aware of all your emotions, whether they're positive, negative, or neutral.
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
Absolutely 🙏 and not just that, but all experience.
@lad4444
@lad4444 Час назад
Its not about healing, its about allowing everything to flow. Because we’re not damaged, but stuck trying to avoid.
@EmmanDesh
@EmmanDesh День назад
The startless path! gonna shake things up fr
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
🌅🫶
@juang4618
@juang4618 День назад
mindfulness AND equanimity is the simple, consistent solution
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
A solution shouldn’t need consistent effort brother.
@juang4618
@juang4618 День назад
@@sajafendel have you heard of "effortless effort"? Consistent in all useful teachings, is what I meant.
@juang4618
@juang4618 День назад
There is an effort needed, or an intention if you will, to retrain how one uses their attention. This is true for over 99% of the population.
@MartinHernandez-re6hh
@MartinHernandez-re6hh 8 часов назад
By the term "consistent solution" you used, I understand it as applying 'mindfulness and equanimity' to all situations we might face in life. Not that we have to "continually" apply it to the same issue. Sajafendel didn't get it or didn't want to try to understand what you meant.
@AstridPerellon
@AstridPerellon 2 дня назад
Thanks for sharing the example from your childhood. It gave me perspective
@sajafendel
@sajafendel 2 дня назад
Of course! Thanks for the comment Astrid :)
@MikeSpinoza
@MikeSpinoza 2 дня назад
From the transcript: "... it's like finding out Santa Claus is real ..." I fucken knew it!!!
@sajafendel
@sajafendel 2 дня назад
Lmao I need to take a closer look at this damn subtitle transcript 🥲🤣🤣
@kathleenwharton2139
@kathleenwharton2139 2 дня назад
Well..I have been doing this wrong my whole life! Thank You 🙏 😊❤
@sajafendel
@sajafendel 2 дня назад
My pleasure Kathleen, thanks for the comment 🫶
@davidwhitcher1972
@davidwhitcher1972 День назад
I feel my emotions without any conscious thought. I don't feel awe or any other emotion that feels good.
@K.Loves.You8
@K.Loves.You8 День назад
SPOT ON!
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
🙏💚
@SCgroove
@SCgroove 2 дня назад
Great one Saja. Thanks so much for sharing this.
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
My pleasure thank you for the comment and support 🙏
@benahmedoumaima6254
@benahmedoumaima6254 2 дня назад
I love this video ❤❤
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
Thank you 🙏💚
@thomasweiler1680
@thomasweiler1680 2 дня назад
This is SOO good
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
I appreciate the comment brother 🙏🌅
@millymoon9951
@millymoon9951 2 дня назад
You are speaking A Course In Miracles forgiveness keith k😊😊
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
I know of it but no familiar with its content. Thanks for sharing :) 🙏
@robertwaterston3846
@robertwaterston3846 2 дня назад
Nice one.
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
🙏💚
@djimmy92
@djimmy92 2 дня назад
Nice video !! You really help !!!
@sajafendel
@sajafendel 2 дня назад
I’m glad :) thanks for the comment!
@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027
@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 День назад
Go back into painful trauma. Add self love, forgiveness
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
We dont need to necessarily go back into painful trauma. If one gets a thorn stuck in their leg, we dont have to go back to the shorn bush to uproot it. Likewise we dont even ultimately need to address the trauma directly. This approach is about being an all forgiving welcome to all of our experience irrespective of whether it’s labelled trauma, an emotion, the sound of a bird, or a sensation 🙏 Hope this clarifies.
@kristenthemystic
@kristenthemystic День назад
Whoa.
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
🙏🌅
@nareshs8764
@nareshs8764 2 дня назад
What if you don’t feel emotions but are depressed/sad. How do we process that?
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
If you’re depressed in this way you’re likely resisting the urge for change. So you’re likely in a suppression. You need a new environment, you need to make changes like make new friends, start the hobby you wanted to to when you were younger, movement s need to be made. It’s likely from the depressed perspective “I don’t want to do anything though, I have no desires, everything is dull” that’s when you know you need to do things more than ever. Create new opportunities and experiences and the emotions will come back.
@DawnZimmermann
@DawnZimmermann День назад
Journal to the depth that you find exactly what is causing your sadness and dont stop until you do. Its all inside you.
@submodality
@submodality 2 дня назад
You know, you are probably right. Still "hey I'm feeling like shit! Isn't this amazing to experience?" Ahm well not so sure about that
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
Then you’re misunderstanding what I’m saying brother. If you’re feeling like shit, and this approach doesn’t work, then I suggest therapy. Because the fundamental part of this approach, the part where I mention about uprooting the truth of the thought, will stop You feeling like shit in the first place making what you’re saying redundant because that’s not what I’m suggesting at all. If the thought that makes you feel like shit can’t be uprooted, then like I said, therapy may be required.
@submodality
@submodality День назад
Man! Didn't want to offend you here! It's just sometimes this advice like everything is for you and embrace the pain is hard to swallow, even if it is still the right thing to do! So all good, Saja! ❤
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
@@submodality haha I’m not offended at all brother, I’m trying to help you understand the point clearly, because I know you’ve been marking with this for a while 🙏💚 I don’t know what you thought I was offended by, but what I said was genuine 🫶
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
My brother Luke will be hosting a class soon I think he will help a lot with this approach 🙏
@juang4618
@juang4618 День назад
Feel what you feel. Don't go looking for anything, be still and it will come to you. As what you feel presents itself in that moment, just experience the sensation without making a judgement about it. This is what " it is what it is" really is about. This takes practice to get it.
@chanelmarky
@chanelmarky День назад
Great video - have you read Life Without A Self by Odeh Turjman - be interested to know your thoughts
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
Thank you! :) and no sorry I have never heard of it!
@SueCarr-q8n
@SueCarr-q8n 2 дня назад
Dont get it
@sajafendel
@sajafendel День назад
Don’t worry there’s nothing to get
@MegaTen-ts5xf
@MegaTen-ts5xf День назад
where are all these 20 yo gurus coming from, I expect a child explain dharma to me next
@juang4618
@juang4618 День назад
If a new born child could speak, it would be a guru.
@vincentcaudo-engelmann9057
@vincentcaudo-engelmann9057 4 часа назад
@@juang4618whoa. A child fresh from creation.
@michaelworshamGodisLove
@michaelworshamGodisLove 2 дня назад
Aren't you clever#
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