Society ko behtar KrnY ki zarorat hai....tarbiyat ki zarorat hai ..... warna in sab masail ka hal shelter house nahi hai.... sheltar house kholnay walon main aksariyat Allah maff karay k khud b un zakat k paison se aiyashi kartin hain our Rabb ko kya jawab dain gay ..naiki k sath sath boht se gunahon ka bojh b uthatay hain... aj kal sheltar houses b bussiness ban gay hain...hum boht se aisay logo ko jantay hain....sheltar house khol k kahan se kahan chalay gay aish hi aish duny main our zahiri naik-nami b mil jati hai....is se b insan boht se gunahon main mulawis ho jata hai. Aj kal log naik ban'na nahi chahtay bas naik khelwana our nazar ana chahty hain....yeh munafikat ka a'ala darja hai...Allah pak hum sab ko hidayat day..ameen
@@sartajakter2093 everything has a cause and a reason or maybe karma or maybe what goes around comes around you never know Me being Pakistani I’m sorry to say we are good at judgments and conclusions we don’t think about the cause what makes things worst at first place.. never force a person to loose his cool everything has its limit to bare but the circumstances and boundaries are different
even if your mother is wrong. Even if shes the worst person ever, SHE REMAINS YOUR MOTHER. You can not even raise ur voice or say "uff" even if shes 100% wrong!!!!! No mother abandons her children even if they r addict or litr the worst person, she still doesnt let go of her children.
@@asaanaccounting4162 I’m not saying to abuse or get rude to your mother no never, it’s better to be distant when you’re mind set doesn’t match cos all people living in the same house are living there together but that doesn’t mean they all have the same perspective to life, I myself have a child I will never impose my perspectives to life on him, he has to learn himself by the ups and downs being a parent and I’ll be always there to guide and protect him from the downs but my son has to decide if he can be there for his father at his high and for that I know how to treat my child so he always thinks for his family first not by saying or imposing, Just to know that this is his prior responsibility how his father is providing the family. Be a role model to your kids not a monster who controlled his life. Pakistan mai koi ye sab nae sochta Q k ap toh jawan haen upar sy larky haen mard ko toh dar nae lagta dard nae hota mard rotay nae that’s what we are good at bhar mai jaey us bchy ki soch us k pass toh dil he nae hota feelings nae hoti bchon mai lol Bacha jitna sensitive hota hai hai na soch hai apki or agr netti grettis mai chalay jaen toh burhy he ho jaen.
@@asaanaccounting4162 ap ye bhi toh dekho k parenting bhi toh ap he ny ki hai.. ye nae sochna k masla kahan sy start hua bs mai sahi soch raha k masla kahan sy hua ab jb dono he is soch mai parh gye k Bacha behs kr raha hai toh mai barak pan dikha dn being a parent no no no parents ny muqbla krna hai toh waheen sy apny usay sikha diya how to prove his point bhalay Bacha ghalat hai so we really need to work on our parenthood mai ye nae keh raha ap western culture follow karain no Zara zehon py Zor dalain bs wese ham movies daikh k fashion toh copy krty haen but kaam ki cheezain nae seekhty unsy
I used to visit this home but the beginning of the story is not correct because she told me another story and the lady who gave her the house,lady Fatimah's pic is put in the office.Us aid also helps them.She n her family is doing a great job.very neat place.
Asalamalaikum wa rahama tula hy wa barakato hoo 💖 Bhut bhut Acha kam hy Allah in ko jza e khair dega Ameen suma Ameen 🤲💖 r ye bilkul sahi keh rhin hain bete ka qusoor hota hy bewi kuch nhi krskti agr beta Sacha ho apni maa ke sath 😢
فرزانہ اپا مجھے دعاوں میں یاد رکھیں میرے ماشاءاللہ تین بیٹے ہیں اور شکر ھےبہت اچھے ہیں اور ،ماشاءاللہ تین بہوہیں اور پوتے پوتیاں ہیں بہت اچھے ہیں الله تعالی سب بچوں کو ہداہت دے امین ثم امین
Being a mother,bachy ke paida hony pe jo khushi maa baap ko hoti ha wo byan nhi hota,pta nhi kaisy maa baap ki mohabbat km ho jati ha ke uny ghar se nikal do
This is very painful to listen to, but 100% true. May Allaah az give me abundant finances to support these mothers I've subscribed due to this particular podcast 👍
Society ko behtar KrnY ki zarorat hai....tarbiyat ki zarorat hai ..... warna in sab masail ka hal shelter house nahi hai.... sheltar house kholnay walon main aksariyat Allah maff karay k khud b un zakat k paison se aiyashi kartin hain our Rabb ko kya jawab dain gay ..naiki k sath sath boht se gunahon ka bojh b uthatay hain... aj kal sheltar houses b bussiness ban gay hain...hum boht se aisay logo ko jantay hain....sheltar house khol k kahan se kahan pohanch gay hain...dolat k anbar lag gay hain our aish hi aish dunya main mil rahi our zahiri naik-nami b mil jati hai....is se b insan boht se gunahon main mulawis ho jata hai. Aj kal log naik ban'na nahi chahtay bas naik khelwana our nazar ana chahty hain....yeh munafikat ka a'ala darja hai...Allah pak hum sab ko hidayat day....ameen
Both men and women need to be strong religiously, educationally, professionally, physically and mentally. Parents shouldn’t divide inheritance till both parents passed away. Unfortunately, in muslim country like pakistan many mothers who become widow have no protection .by law. Both Pakistani men and women are very far from religion.
Olad ko to sab bbura bala keh rahay hain...zara yeh b bataien k aksar konsi olad aisa karti hai ?? Aisa to wohi olad karay gi jiski tarbiyat nahi howi hogi?? Humay sheltar house ki nahi ...achi tarbiyat dainay ki zarorat hai...society ko behtar ban'nanay kliye institute kholain...deen ki taleem ghar ghar pohanchaie jaie ...Quran pak our seerat un Nabi sallallahu alehe wasalam prr amal ko yaqeeni banaya jaie...taqwa our Allah ka khoof sab main jagaya jaie tarbiyat k zarye ..sheltar house in sab ka hal nahi hai...yani elaj ki fikar sab ko hain lakin bemari ki waja ya jarr nahi cut ki ja rahi...afsoos...society ki tarbiyat howi ho to olad na sahi to koi neighbour ya rishtay-dar b khushi khushi kafalat kar paiega ...aisay institute to bilkul b nahi jo zakat batortay our khilanay k sath sath khatay b hain. Business ban gaya sab ab to
Maa'on ko b aqal day k olad ki zindagi itna tang na karay k uski Zindagi ka skoon barnad hojay....... Mjhy afsos hota hai un maaon p jo beton ki shadiyan kr k unko tang krty hain..... Or allah ham oalad ko hidayat day k maa baap ka khayal krskyn.....
@@madhiaadeel9775 no it's not what I am saying..... I always protect my mother and my mother in law but I saw my husband is broken now.... And we know one day we will have to face aloneness, we are facing a lot but we always shut our mouths but how long ????? Our peace of mind was destroyed badly ..... My husband earns well but they are parents that's why we are trying to be calm but the bad things happening on a daily basis...... And we know one day we will have to leave this house or they will throw us. Just because of the 2nd son and his wife. Why can't parents treat equally why they protect one child......
FOR ALL THOSE WHO ARE JUSTIFYING THE SONS WHO LEAVE THEIR MOTHERS SHOULD HAVE SOME SHAME...... shamefull ...... quraan perhoo hadees perhoo maa baap k huqooq dekho jahilooo . sharam ka muqaam hai
Asalamualaikum viewers, I just wanted to make it clear that this is an old home that is paid for monthly, like any home in the western world. It costs 50,000 pkr per person, we have a relative currently living there. I feel like this wasn't mentioned, so I just wanted to be transparent.
Jo b logo ki mao ko doosre Rakh Rahe hai wo b ache tareeqe se Umrah yak Karaya hai logo ko Jo k in par farz nahi tha maa ka sambhalna bacho pe haq hai na k gero pe
Tm b to unhi m sy ho tmhari maa b to tmhary ghar m isi halat m hongi har ghar ki yahi kahani hai kshen kahen nikal ky old house bhejwa dety hai or kch log ghar m hi maa ko facto saman bna dety or kch log unko betiyon ky ghar chor dety unky husbnd rakhen to sahi nh to fr wo darbadar or ye wohi hoty hai jo maa ko nikal ky fr haj or umara b krty hai😢
BETEY NERM HALWA JO GELAY SE BOHT AARAAM SE UTERTA H ISSI TTRAH JBB BDD BSKHT BOHWSIN AATI HN DEKHHA K SHOHER SSHIBB HAAN HAAN HAAN HAAAN KEHTE HN BIVI KI KISI BAAT CHAHY NAND YS MAAN BIVI K KHILAF BAAT KERTI HN SHOHER SAHAB BIVION KI HAAN MHASN MILATE HN BIVI KI SHHEH MILTI H SO HSLVA HAZAM HOTA H YSHI BETEY HOTEY HN SO SAAAAAARA QUSUR PUTTER HAZZRAT JO BAAT ZAHIR HONE P BIVION P PERDS DAALTE HN MASN BASP KO JHHOOOTA JHHOOTI N BIVI SACHI XABIT KERTE HN TO BIVI SAHIBA ASSMAM P AA K PATHHHER PHHHAARHTI H BETA BRTA HAIRAT H
So e mothers are jealous of sons and daughter in laws not every story is the same they are even jealous of their daughters and son in laws and favour unjustly between one child from the other and one grandchild from the other and start unnecessary fights and done daughter in laws are good some are bad do every story is not the same done mother mother in laws are good sone are trouble najers
Maa pal pos kr bara krti he Baz maa Apne bete ko share NAHI kr pati bete ko chahye k maa ko ehmiat de aur bv ko smjhae usko neglect NAHI kre balance kre maa ko chor dena bv bachon k lie bewaqoofi he ap bhi boorhe hon ge maqafat e Amal ho ga aur maa baap ka Dil dukhane ki saza Dunia o akhirat dono me mile gi aqal kro Khuda k lie
@@NazninHussain-r9y apni soch ko Sahi Karen maa jealous NAHI Hoti Jo mard bv ko ehmiat dete hn Wohi unki zaban bolte hn maa ko bojh smjhne wale Jo is Dunia me tkleef utha kr Lai Pala Dunia me Kisi qabil jb ho gae to APNA pla hua beta JIS ko dia Wohi bharkati he bahu se NAHI ap se Allah pooche ga
