Reasons why you should stay alive. 1. We would miss you. 2. It's not worth the regret. Either by yourself if you failed or just simply left scars, or the regret everyone else feels by not doing enough to help you. 3. It does get better. Believe it or not it will eventually get better. Sometimes you have to go through the storm to get to the rainbow. 4. There's so much you would miss out on doing. 5. There is always a reason to live. It might not be clear right now, but it is always there. 6. So many people care, and it would hurt them if you hurt yourself. 7. You ARE worth it. Don't let anyone, especially yourself, tell you otherwise. 8. You are amazing. 9. A time will come, once you've battled the toughest times of your life and are in ease once again, where you will be so glad that you decided to keep on living. You will emerge stronger from this all, and won't regret your choice to carry on with life. Because things always get better. 10. What about all the things you've always wanted to do? What about the things you've planned, but never got around to doing? You can't do them when you're dead. 11. I love you. Even if only one person loves you, that's still a reason to stay alive. 12. You won't be able to listen to music if you die. 13. Killing yourself is never worth it. You'll hurt both yourself and all the people you care about. 14. There are so many people that would miss you, including me. 15. You're preventing a future generation, YOUR KIDS, from even being born. 16. How do you think your family would feel? Would it improve their lives if you died? 17. You're gorgeous, amazing, and to someone you are perfect. 18. Think about your favourite music artist, you'll never hear their voice again... 19. You'll never have the feeling of walking into a warm building on a cold day 20. Listening to incredibly loud music 21. Being alive is just really good. 22. Not being alive is really bad. 23. Finding your soulmate. 24. Red pandas 25. Going to diners at three in the morning. 26. Really soft pillows. 27. Eating pizza in New York City. 28. Proving people wrong with your success. 29. Watching the jerks that doubted you fail at life. 30. Seeing someone trip over a garbage can. 31. Being able to help other people. 32. Bonfires. 33. Sitting on rooftops. 34. Seeing every single country in the world. 35. Going on roadtrips. 36. You might win the lottery someday. 37. Listening to music on a record player. 38. Going to the top of the Eiffel Tower. 39. Taking really cool pictures. 40. Literally meeting thousands of new people. 41. Hearing crazy stories. 42. Telling crazy stories. 43. Eating ice cream on a hot day. 44. Talking bad about people that deserve it to your best friend and ranting all day 45. Travelling to another planet someday. 46. Having an underwater house. 47. Randomly running into your hero on the street. 48. Having your own room at a fancy hotel. 49. Trampolines. 50. Think about your favourite movie, you'll never watch it again. 51. Think about the feeling of laughing out loud in a public place because your best friend has just sent you an inside joke, 52. Your survival will make the world better, even if it's for just one person or 20 or 100 or more. 53. People do care. 54. Treehouses 55. Hanging out with your soul mate in a treehouse 55. Snorting when you laugh and not caring who sees 56. I don't even know you and I love you. 57. I don't even know you and I care about you. 58. Because nobody is going to be like you ever, so embrace your uniqueness! 59. You won't be here to experience the first cat world emperor. 60. WHAT ABOUT FOOD?! YOU'LL MISS CHOCOLATE AND ALL THE OTHER NOM THINGS! 61. Starbucks. 62. Hugs. 63. Stargazing. 64. You have a purpose, and it's up to you to find out what it is. 65. You've changed somebody's life. 66. Now you could change the world. 67. You will meet the person that's perfect for you. 68. No matter how much or how little, you have your life ahead of you. 69. You have the chance to save somebody's life. 70. If you end your life, you're stopping yourself from achieving great things. 71. Making snow angels. 72. Making snowmen. 73. Snowball fights. 74. Life is what you make of it. 75. Everybody has a talent. 76. Laughing until you cry. 77. Having the ability to be sad means you have the ability to be happy. 78. The world would not be the same if you didn't exist. 79. Its possible to turn frowns, upside down 80. Be yourself, don't take anyone's shit, and never let them take you alive. 81. Heroes are ordinary people who make themselves extraordinary. Be your own hero. 82. Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections. 83. One day your smile will be real. 84. Having a really hot, relaxing bath after a stressful day. 85. Lying on grass and laughing at the clouds. 86. Getting completely smashed with your best friends. 87. Eating crazy food. 88. Staying up all night watching your favourite films with a loved one. 89. Sleeping in all day. 90. Creating something you're proud of. 91. You can look back on yourself 70 years later and being proud you didn't commit 92. Being able to meet your Internet friends. 93. Tea / Coffee / Hot Chocolate 94. The new season of Sherlock 95. Cuddling under the stars. 96. Being stupid in public because you just can. 97. If you are reading this then you are alive! Is there any more reason to smile? 98. being able to hug that one person you havent seen in years 99. People care enough about you and your future to come up with 100 reasons for you not to do this. 100. But, the final and most important one is, just, being able to experience life. Because even if your life doesn't seem so great right now, literally anything could happen
Thank youso much.. you can't even begin to understand how much I needed this.. everything's been so confusing and scary with foster care and losing my big brother to suicide and I've been thinking about ending it but this makes me rethink everything,how much my family would miss me,how sad my mother would be when she finds out I'm gone.thank you..
@@yohelpineedausername5908 finally found someone to relate to. But im really sorry really really sorry im so miserable and pathetic ghat I can’t help you I really really do mean to help if i can because im going through what you are going through. No, actually im not anywhere near what you are going through
Are you ever just at that point where you’re out of tears? You’ve been hurt so much that you just can’t cry anymore. And you want to but it just doesn’t come out. That’s me right now.
Nooooo don’t cry idk what your going through but I KNOW your heather. You make soo many people happy your gorgeous, stunning and perfect in ever way. I’m here for you
I had my chance, he was single, he didn't care that I'm nonbinary. I wasted my chance, he's so happy with his girlfriend. I'm so glad he's in love, no matter how much it hurts me. I want him to be happy.
It’s crazy how we want something or someone so bad, that we care so much about and they choose someone who is better then us in so many ways 🥺 like Im not the prettiest or bravest, at times I’m too clingy and to talkative but I promise I can be quiet. I can continue to be okay even tho I’m not, I can be someone I’m not. I can smile and still be dying on the inside. And if you don’t want me just like everyone else then I can disappear and I promise you’ll never see me in this world anymore 🥺
Aw don’t disappear, we would miss you so much more than you think we would. I know how you feel but I PROMISE it’s gets better I know everyone says that but I really promise pinkie promise. Don’t change yourself cause you don’t feel like someone would like you because if you have to change yourself for someone they ARE NOT worth it trust me. I hope you have a good day. And keep your head up high because if not people won’t be able to see how truly beautiful you are inside and out :)
Theres always something at the end of a rainbow. Even if you dont think it's that special. Just imagine it's you. Its unique in it's own way, something you dont see everyday and something you'd remember and go "hey that's cool" you are amazing in your own way. Dont let anyone or anything stop you.
hey, i love u just the way you are. lifes gonna get better, i promise, if you ever need anyone to talk to im here for you, my discord is kenna#5436, and if not i just want you to know it WILL get better. 🥺🤍
its funny how I listened to this song as I was texting him, butterflies in my stomach and smiling like a freak. a couple of months later, here I am listening to this over and over again because I just wasn't good enough, bawling my eyes out and heartbroken. the power of a song.
He doesn't deserve you. You are far too good for him. It'll hurt for a while...... Be strong...... There are many things to do in live than to cling to someone who doesn't value you. You lost nobody, but he lost someone who could love him entirely the way he was for the eternity. Keep your head up princess before the crown falls...... you will be a queen one day
My parents wonder why I sit in my room all day,get bad grades,just sleep all day,never gets out of bed then once I do they always have something to yell at me for....
Even my family wonder why I'm stuck in the bed and watching phone all day. They call me lazy,useless, traumatizing me with the sentence "when you're older u will get pregnant and give us 2 grandchilds".
My family can always find something wrong with what I like. I like to watch/play minecraft? Stupid. I like to play Roblox? Basic. I like this tv show? It’s plot is dumb and predictable. I like writing? You could never make a living out of that. I like photography? That’s even dumber then writing. I like singing? Your voice is trash. Then they also just make fun of my weight, looks, etc...
hey, its been 4 months. hope your doing okay. I love you. please stay safe and healthy. please. sleep well friend. live long. it'll be alright, I promise.
also hits so much harder reading this when you best friend ditched you for their toxic ex best friend and now they constantly copy you and you can’t do anything about it because they sit right next to you in school. just me?
@@floraxo7222 similar to what's happening with me . just she ditched me for some other girl and they both ignore me , it's like im not even there :/ she also was my only friend in my school but luckily i don't go back to school until september so i wont be all alone . we can get through this 🥺💕 stay strong
“You can’t have light on light, and you can’t have dark on dark. You have to have a little bit of both.” -Bob Ross edit: i'm back having a mental breakdown lol edit: two days later, back having another mental breakdown :/
He was talking about painting and we all know thet. I know you were trying to make a cute quote and all that but unfortunately he's just a painter. Isn't Bob Ross a painter I might be wrong lol.
@@rea9627 Bob Ross was a very inspiring person and painter. Some believe that there were deeper meanings behind the words he spoke, he seemed like such a happy guy and brought light upon people. Even if you see these words as just technical painting meanings, others see them in a light as something to keep going on. so in conclusion, telling somebody that the words that were spoken arent meaningful in a hopeful sense can make you be seen as somehow who wants to tear others down, or just someone who doesnt use their imagination. Of course I dont believe that's the case! You might have been genuinely curious, even with in my words I could be seen as a hypocrite. But, they see it as something to believe in and to inspire others, which makes the words deep within itself and seen as something to live by. I suggest looking at words in this light! Even if it comes from nothing, a sentence can become something beautiful and words can create symphonies.
Me: crying because I know I’m heather but everyone makes me feel like I’m not to the point where they just ignore me and give me no attention, or just be rude. I try to stay happy but it’s hard sometimes..
i have nothing to be sad about, I love my life. Or so I think, whenever I listen to this song everything hits me and I notice I’m just trying to be happy just so I’m not broken
that’s what my mom says when i bring up my dad dying and then she says it doesn’t compare to my sisters dad running away and that i have nothing to be depressed about.
Just friends. *gave me his hoodie *always talks to me *comes to my house all the time *we’re each other’s valentines.....but we’re still just friends. I told him my feelings. I think I ruined everything. I hate myself. I’ve never felt this way. Sad and angry I can’t do anything. I’m hopeless.
*hold on.* I assure you, no matter how lost you feel, it *will* get better. I went through something really similar, and I wanted to die so bad. But you never come to appreciate the one who's always been around until you notice how dedicated they really are. *Find that person.*
hey, i love u just the way you are. lifes gonna get better, i promise, if you ever need anyone to talk to im here for you, my discord is kenna#5436, and if not i just want you to know it WILL get better. 🥺🤍
*This is my story* 💔 I had a best friend. We grew up together, had known each other since we where in diapers. We used to play hide and seek, tag, and even learned how to ride a bike together. When we turned 8, he moved to the United States, a few months later I came to the United States to live with my family. I never heard from him ever again and It didn’t mean nothing back then, I was just 8 years old. When I was 15 he came to New York and he really had grown up, things where weird because we had not seen each other but we soon became very close. He became my first crush. I don’t know how it happened but it happened. We did everything together, went to the same high school. When he got a part time job, I would always visit him and hang out with him and then we would walk home together because we lived in the same building. When he was stressed out and sad I would go to his home and hang out with him and make him smile. I remember every time I was near him my heart felt like it was going to jump out of my chest, when we made eye contact I felt weird things in my stomach. I loved watching him smile and loved hearing his laugh, I would watch all his favorite movies with him and play video games with him even if I was not good at them just to keep him company. Then when we turned 17, he moved again because of his fathers job. He moved to New Jersey. We still would talk, he was still my best friend. We would call each other and tell each other of our days and even FaceTime. I would take the train to New Jersey at least twice a month to hang out with him. Then one day when I went over, there was this girl at his house. I thought it was his friend but when he introduced her to me, he said “This is my girlfriend (her name)” and then pointed at me and said “And this is my best friend (my name)” and I felt like my heart broke, but then I realized that yes indeed, I was only his best friend. That was the only way he ever saw me. I remember I tried to still hang out with him and I wanted to hate her, I wanted to loathe her but I couldn’t, the girl was definition of perfect. She was super nice, had beautiful blonde hair, beautiful blue eyes, a face of an angel, beautiful body. She didn’t even get jealous at our relationship, she was always nice to me and trying to become my friend telling me she will do my makeup, she even got my number and invited me to hang out with her. I wanted to hate her so badly but I couldn’t. The problem was not her in the end. So after a few weeks, I remember I began to ignore him, didn’t answer his calls and messages. It went on for 2 months and he finally came over to my home and I couldn’t, so I confessed to him and told him that I couldn’t be his friend because I didn’t just wee him as a friend anymore, I wanted something more than just be friends. He was shocked and rejected me telling me that he just saw me as his best friend, and I knew it. I did cry a lot but that day was the day that I lost my best friend, but letting him go was the best thing that I ever did. It’s like the string that was keeping me attached to him, finally ripped and I was free. It’s been 4 years and things are the best for me. I’m going to school, have 3 best friends that I met in high school. Have no boyfriend, I’m just living my life. Our parents are still best friend and I still see him at weddings or quinceañeras or parties that we attend and when see him I just smile at him because I’m not gonna be rude, I don’t hate him. and go my way and he goes his way. I don’t know if he’s still going out with the girl or not, but I don’t really care because things are good for me and I want to keep them that way. Listening to this song always makes me cry, not because I still like him, but because I lost my best friend. The one who I grew up with and spend most of my years with. I sometimes even regret even confessing to him, I feel that if I had never confessed I would have never lost my best friend. I be thinking about what exactly would have happened if I never confessed, would it have gone away as time went by, or would I still be suffering with a one sided love. But this is the way things turned out and I feel so free, I am living my young days, having fun and not getting attached to anyone. I just want to spend as much time alone and with my friends. If you are going through this or go through this in the the future, know that things will get better eventually and if things are meant to be than you guys will end up together in the future. But if you feel yourself getting lost, stressed, depressed, the best thing is to let them go. Like I said, if things are meant to be you two will find your way to each other in the future, whether it’s as lovers or as best friends. But if not, the one meant for you will find you or you will find them
This actually broke my heart 💔😭 I cried. I have attachment issues so I can never let anyone go easily.. Ever.. It's the absolute worst. Hearing about losing ur best friend like that hurts me on a whole nother level. But I'm rly happy youre doing great. :)) I'm happy that you figured things out and feel free
According to wattpad, when you became about 24 - 25, this boy is going to look at you after a long time not seeing you and will realize everything. But now you need to continue… Are you going to deny the feelings? I don’t know.
Heres my story about why im crying rn: I don't feel confident in myself at all. I just want to feel wanted by someone thats not family all my friends are in relationships and im not. I hate the way I look. My friend try to cheer me up and said she was sure there were people who had crushes on me. I asked her to name one single person she knew and she just fell silent. I will never be the heather in someones story. I hate my personality I hate my looks I hate myself. Thanks for listening random stranger. The lyric that resonates with me the most "I wish I were Heather" Update: A lot has happened since i posted this! I discovered more about myself, I realized I am a trans guy and I now have an amazing girlfriend. Shes awesome and we just got together about a month ago but we've been friends for longer. Hope it gets better guys
it’s bad. i hope you’re doing better. i find myself in the exact same situation. started to love my body and my looks only to hate myself much more after. but we’ll get through it, i guess..
who wants to sneak out at night and just hang and talk about all the deep stuff we have inside because we can’t talk to anyone else about it. we can just chill and listen to music and have tons of fun for the first time in a long time. because i need a hug
everyone here is talking about how they were second choice but i wasn’t even an option :( edit: wow i’ve never had this many likes on a comment lol. i expected no one to see it
you arent and never alone remember that! If no one has said that to you then i'll tell you!! and also no one has ever liked me before, while my friend gets everyone. So i completely understand just know im here. :)
I still remember the third of December, me in your sweater You said it looked better on me than it did you Only if you knew how much I liked you But I watch your eyes as she Walks by What a sight for sore eyes Brighter than the blue sky She's got you mesmerised while I die Why would you ever kiss me? I'm not even half as pretty You gave her your sweater, it's just polyester But you like her better Wish I were Heather Watch as she stands with her, holding your hand Put your arm 'round her shoulder, now I'm getting colder But how could I hate her, she's such an angel But then again, kinda wish she were dead as she Walks by What a sight for sore eyes Brighter than the blue sky She's got you mesmerised while I die Why would you ever kiss me? I'm not even half as pretty You gave her your sweater, it's just polyester But you like her better I wish I were Heather Oh, I wish I were Heather Oh, oh, wish I were Heather Why would you ever kiss me? I'm not even half as pretty You gave her your sweater, it's just polyester But you like her better Wish I were You welcome:)
pov: you’re new at your school, and it’s your first day of 8th grade. you walk in and start spotting all the cuties, and one of them just happens to be in your first class, science. you are partnered with them, and they smile and introduce themself. you start working on the assignment, sorting the different galaxies in space. you point down to a galaxy in your textbook, “is this it?” you ask. they move your hand to the other side of the page, “*that’s* it.” you look up and see them smiling while a you get a couple of looks from other girls. later that day you see him again, and before you know it you’re really good friends, maybe even more than that. he’s taught you how to play baseball, his favorite sport, and COD on his Xbox. one week, you start to notice he’s taking interest in a new girl, Heather. she was so sweet to you the whole year so you had nothing against her, except the fact that she was with the one you thought was yours. as the weeks go by, you stop getting texts from them and over the summer you begin to loose the sound of their voice and their obnoxious laugh. you remember everything you guys did and can’t help but miss them. but they were with someone they loved now, and you had to move on. things wouldn’t be the same without them, but it was time to move on. a tear fell out of your eye and before you knew it you were trying to hide the million others streaming down your face. you tasted the saltiness of the tears, like your heart. suddenly, you hear a knock on the study hall door, as it’s the first day of school again. you wipe the tears from your face and open the door. before you is standing a new kid, who just so happens to look kinda like them. their face goes red. “uh hey! where’s the science classroom?” you stood in shock while your eyes wandered away from their face. remembering your presence, you responded. “oh! it’s down the hall and to the left.” they responded, but you couldn’t hear what they said over the thoughts in your head. you couldn’t get your heart broken again, it was too risky. you didn’t want to shatter yourself but you were also miserable alone, so both routes lead to a dead end. the bell rang, snapping you back into reality. your next class was science, just like last year. your eyes began to burn, but you didn’t feel anything any more, you were too broken. you walked out of the study hall room and heard a familiar laugh, but not the one you wanted to hear. it was heather’s laugh, and right behind her laugh came his. the same one you remembered. you walked past the pair as the pain got worse and worse. taking a left, you saw the lookalike again. he was standing in front of the classroom even though the door was wide open. “hey,” you said, “you good?” he responded almost immediately. “yeah, fine, thanks,” then walked into the classroom without a word. *what was up with him?* you wondered. -after class- science class was pretty easy, just like all the other days. you could take the advanced class, but your parents didn’t care enough to spend the money on the AP course you were offered. you lived in a small town, and all you ever wanted to do was leave. once you could get a job, you’d work and save your money to run away and have a better life, you just had to find someone to do it with. all your friends loved the town, but you didn’t. you had plans with your life, you wanted to do great things that weren’t accomplishable in that place. the only good memories you had in that town were the ones you made with him, but that was the past, and this is the future. one half of you wanted to leave without any people, you wouldn’t have to expect anything of anyone so you would never be disappointed. “you awake?” mr. clarke said while he waved his hand in front of my face. “oh yeah, just thinking.” mr clarke was the closest thing i had to family. he was the guidance counselor and he was only the best. and to be honest, he’s part of the reason i’m alive. “come to my office, i can tell something’s up.” i walked over to the office that had a certain warmth to it. the bookshelves were a burgundy color that matched his velvet chair and the lamp on his dark wooden desk was an antique. i sat down across from him as he took a seat in his throne. “so, what’s up?” (i will keep writing later, hope you enjoyed the extended version!). NOT CONTINUATION OF THE STORY: so i’ve been making comments, and somebody told me that it may help to just edit this, and i can’t believe i never thought of that 🤦♀️. anyways, i just want to say thank you guys for all the support. i made this story thinking it’d get 2 likes, one of them being me, haha. i can’t believe people are actually invested and interested in the story that i wrote, it really makes me so happy that i can reach this many people with one simple story i’ve written. i love you guys! (p.s., i will continue my story once i get the time, i’ve been thinking of some extensions to the it!) love u guys! 😊💕
Finally I cried lmao. I just wanna have a breakdown,telling my family that I'm not their toy that they can control. I'm a human as well....but I never can... So I just cry with songs at midnight...
Pov: your sitting on your window seat at 2am watching the rain fall on your window. The street lights are blurred and your listening to Heather, thinking about the person you wish was with you.. But little did you know, they are doing the same thing, wishing you were there with them. Edit: I might be writing a story about this on Wattpad. If any bts fans are here my Wattpad is taetk95 I have a trailer for it on the taekook AU book
am I the only one that acts nice I from the of my friends so they don’t think I’m sus or anything? The only reason why I’m upset/Broken is bc of my weight, hight, skinny, ugly, etc. It’s dramatic, I know but I’m sensitive..!
Same I'm always too fat or too tall or too flat and my forehead is too big. I'm really tired of hearing it but I dont wanna lose them so I just pretend it's ok.
Hey hey hey you are perfect donor change a thing. If you need to talk I’m here and you should talk to your friends about being sad it helps a lot and if they’re good friends they will be there for you if you’re sad or insecure. It’s not good to hold it all in around your friends. They will understand and if they don’t then I’m sure there’s someone who can help. Just remember that you are perfect.
Also I was listening to this with my eyes closed, falling asleep when an ad came on and this kid was just like “bEeF JERKYYYYYYY” and it woke me up lol 😂
If you're the second choice, they dont deserve you. One day you'll find someone who puts you above everything else. You will be heather, it just takes time, trust me. Stay strong😁❤
@Maddy Hernandez have you tried talking to her about it? maybe she'll try to get you with him or hint that you like him. if not, try to move on. if your crush doesnt realize how this is affecting you, then you need someone else. goodluck bb
Pov/Mini Short Story: You are sitting on the bench outside of the gym holding the prom. You came with your best friend hoping to confess your feelings, but your friend left you for one of the strongest guys in the whole school. You hoped that after a bit your crush could see how much the guy was full of himself, but no... they just continued trying to get his attention as well as every other girl and guy that thought they had a chance. You went outside in hopes that you could at least enjoy the night in some way, you didn't mind the rain as you steadily were drenched by the water falling like tears from the sky. The moment the song began to play, you felt your heart begin to crack as sadness crashed over you like a tidal wave, the tears began racing down your cheeks competing with the rain. The life slowly began to drain out of your eyes as you wished you were no longer alive, you were plunged into the depths of sorrow and depression that to your friend, that's all you were, friends. The gym doors opened before being shut quickly, the guy that had girls and guys alike swarming him stepped out feeling much better without so many people swarming him. He noticed you sitting there with the rain drumming on your still figure, he approached and sat down. Your eyes shifted over to the guy, why was he sitting there to simply get a breath from being fawned over. The guy glanced over at you, his face had a red hue showing off his faint freckles, "Um... how you doin?" he questioned awkwardly. You simply turned your head to look him in the eyes as your eyes showed how lifeless you felt. The boy's breath hitched at seeing how dead you looked, "Who hurt you?" he whispered taking your face in his hands, he leaned forward as his thumb wiped the mixture of tears and rain from your cheek. The simple action and question was the thing that broke the dam, you chocked out a sob as the tears replaced the liquid from before. The boy gave a soft sigh as he pulled you into a hug, you couldn't help but cling to him so tightly, like he would disappear the moment you loosened your grip. "You know... over all the people that I could love... you caught my eye." Your broken sobs slowed to whimpers from the pain of your broken heart as he continued talking. "You were always willing to help when you would get nothing in return except a smile, you even stand up for people that think the worst of you." The boy pulled away to look you in the eyes with a look of pure admiration. "I love you, will you be mine?" he questioned as you could only stare in shock. You chocked on another sob as you said brokenly, "yes." The boy gave a smile full of love and happiness, he kissed you and you kissed back, your broken heart already slowly healing.
not me finishing crying and 10 minutes later i'm just thinking of how i could've been better in everything i do looking at a fidget spinner in pitch darkness at 4:07am (i pulled an all-nighter waiting to call my online boy bestie who i think i'm in love with because he had to watch a movie with his dad)
pov: you're dissociating at 2am staring at the wall thinking about how someone you once considered your best friend, possibly even more, has no interest in talking to you anymore. You used to talk all of the time but then you noticed that you seemed to be talking less and less. You still message her when something interesting happens but she hardly ever replies. You went from talking every few hours to every few weeks, maybe months. You start to feel like she only really comes to you when she wants something. There is no "Heather", nobody else to blame, you just weren't enough. You weren't second choice because you weren't even an option.
@@susansmith288 idk what this is but I'm assuming you're correcting me so that it fits with the song? This isn't supposed to perfectly match the song (considering there isn't even a "Heather") this is just my own experience and what I personally think of when listening. :)
They should make "Heather" A type of person (Kinda like how they use Karen as an example of a certain personailty) Heather: A person you see as "perfect" and are almost Jelous of. (No offense if your name is Heather!
I have a best friend and I have a crush on her. One day she asked who my crush was. I turned red and said her name. She stared at me and gave me a hug. A few months ho by. A new girl starts hanging out with me and her. The new girl decided to tell my best friend she had a crush on her. But I knew something bad was going to happen. I told my best friend but she didn’t listen. Not long after, the girl decided to tell my best friend she didn’t like her anymore. My best friend was heart broken. All I could do was comfort her now. I still go to her house every weekend and sleep over there. Mostly because I can get away from my mom.
I had been talking to this guy for a couple weeks, and it felt like we had really hit it off and that he liked me. a couple weeks later, he asked if i wanted to hangout with him sometime, and i was really excited. A guy had never asked me out, much less complimented me. but then a couple days after he was acting weird. leaving me on opened, or saying that he was busy whenever i asked when he was free to hangout. I then told him about how hard my day had been and how i hoped he could cheer me up, but he deadass told me that i was kinda clingy and self centered for talking about my problems. i asked if he still liked me, but then he fucking said that i kinda turned him off and that I made him not like me anymore. i told him to go fuck himself and then blocked him, but it really hurt me and i cried alot. this was like a week ago, and im still really heartbroken even though i knew it was to good to be true that a guy actually liked me.
I know this was three months ago but if a guy says something like that trust me they ain’t worth it. If he was then he would like you for you and not stop likeing you for dumb reasons one day you will find the perfect guy and if you don’t then you can join the single Pringles. Don’t let that guy make you upset he’s stupid. One day he’s gonna not get the perfect girl and then be like crap you were the perfect girl and he’s gonna realize how much he messed up. He sounds like he wouldn’t have been that good anyways if he’s gonna treat someone that way.
@@ellawilkinson5952 aw thank you so much, im finally over him sorta but i really appreciate it. He actually came back to me like a month ago and said he couldnt stop thinking about me, but i told him he really hurt me and i wasnt interested anymore
hey, i love u just the way you are. lifes gonna get better, i promise, if you ever need anyone to talk to im here for you, my discord is kenna#5436, and if not i just want you to know it WILL get better. 🥺🤍
People say that I help them in so many ways, that I always make a situation turn around, that I’m a heather. I’m not suicidal, I just feel like getting my life done and over with quick. That’s probably the only reason why I put on a fake smile, because people enjoy my help and appreciation.
This is based on a true story that happened to me. These are my own lyrics I still remember it was art class Me in your table You said my art was better than it did yours Only if you knew how much I liked you But I watched you eyes as she walks by... What a sight for sore eyes Brighter than the blue sky She's got you mesmerized while I die... Why did I even think you liked me? I'm not even half as pretty You gave her your smile It's just a f*cking expression But you like her better i wish I were heather Watch as she stands with her, holding your hand Put your arm 'round her shoulder, now I'm getting colder But how could I hate her, she's such an angel But then again, kinda wish she were dead as she walks by... Why would I ever think you liked me? I'm not even half as pretty You gave her your smile, it's just a f*cking expression But you like her better I WISH I WERE HEATHER... Oh, I wish I were heather Oh, oh, wish I were heather Why did I ever think you liked me? I'm not even half as pretty You gave her your smile, it's just a f*cking expression But you like her better... Wish I were-
I'm crying in my room because I miss my old self, I didn't care about anybody opinion I was so happy playing with friends at the park but know I just sit in my room all day and overthink.
I have a friend who hasn't talked to me in a year. I can relate as I'm listening to this song. They were online recently, I talked to them, but they never responded. 💔
the fact that i didn’t have friends for a whole year and my mom compliments my best friend more than she compliments me just proves how ugly and worthless i am
DO NOT say that about yourself ever again! You are beautiful and worth so much more than you think. Even if the ones closest to you don’t tell you how beautiful you are that does not mean youe aren’t because you are STUNNING.
thank you, it means so much!! im feeling better now.. i was in a low state then! thank you so much it means the world to me!! and im here if you wanna talk too x
for me there is no “heather” or any guy in my life and i’m crying to this song bc of my insecurities and i just can’t stop comparing myself to my friends or other girls from school. i have a twin and i would be scared to be compared to him bc he’s so much funnier and more outgoing and i feel like i’m the boring twin and also we were so close and we would have the funniest times but now he’s so mean and i feel like he doesn’t want anything to do w me now and i miss the old him so much😭 last year i was so sad and i felt like he was the only one who was making me happy. i don’t know what i did wrong.. thank you guys so much these comments are making things better 💗🥺
aww you poor soul, so sorry... i kinda feel that, too, tho my sister was the sweetest person growing up, and then she started acting more like a teenager before she was even 8 bc of the shows that she was always watching. she would argue with my parents, make my mother cry, and always be mean to me in private and then act like a prim little princess in front of my parents. i cant really do any fair comparisons, cuz she just turned 12, but she acts more like a brat now that we're in quarantine and her best friends dont believe in wearing masks. plus two of her other bffs turned around on her and started bullying her, so she tries to turn that around on me whenever im going through something. even if im trying to explain my depression or why im always so isolated or only listening to sad music, she always has to slip in "yea, well, at least you get to see your best friends at summer school. mine doesn't want anything to do with that." shes turning out really bad, and i hate it. i wish we could go back to our childhood when we would play together in the garden and give each other noogies before bed. now, she stays on her computer all day, playing sims 4 or talking to her friends, while im isolating in my room everyday. i hate it. (plus, she only ever is nice when im crying, and half the time she makes me cry, and she knows it cuz im a very sensitive person) but hey, we can both share the pain. dont know why i said any of that, just needed to get it off my chest i guess. sorry for ranting. hope you feel better. (p.s. dont compare yourself to others. i do it everyday, and it has in turn fueled my depression, the fact that "im not even half as pretty" as the song says. you are perfect just the way you are. if you wanna change how you look, do it on your own terms, not by other's standards. u r loved, i want you to know that.)
Alright. If you see this reply, read it. Trust me. People change. A lot. He’s mean because he feels like he has to be mean to be cool. I have had the same experience with one of my old friends. They were incredibly nice in 8th grade, but as soon as high school came around he became a total bully to everyone around him. I could tell from his tone though that he wasn’t acting like that because he wanted to be mean, all he wanted was to be cool. I also have a ton of insecurities. Just like you. I don’t really know why, and I bet it dint know either. But comparing yourself to those girls at your school won’t help. Your just another human in this twisted world. We’re all the same. All human. Doing that just makes people worse, obviously. Your beautiful, amazing, smart, incredible and sweet. You deserve the world and more. You did nothing wrong, he just grew up a bit. Everyone you’ll understand at some point. I hope that helped. I really do. I don’t want anyone to undergo the same pain that I went through. Stay strong. Stay healthy.
me listening to this sitting in my room crying wondering why my boy bsf who i like chose a girl he barely even has a friendship with instead of me...the person he hangs out with every weekend, his very best friend, i'm the light of his life and he's the light of mine. i just dont understand it
This song is so sad and the minute I heard the guitar change in the beginning and them his voice sounding so droopy...rhe emotion smacked my face and I started crying.. 😢 😭
“but you like her better” that her was my bsf. edit: guys thanks for the likes, and understand that ive been through this before and things will get better! you will find someone :)
Look if you guys where dating but they where dating before you then they will obviously still care for each other , if it's them two that are dating and you like him. Don't be a home wrecker but if you both are dating and he likes her then let them be if you two where meant to be he wouldn't be going after her :/
it happened again. i finally thought that maybe this time he'd be different. maybe i'd finally get to make him happy, and maybe this time i'd actually get it back. i was so wrong.
I wish I could believe that so I’ll pretend I’m telling you now so when I tell you another lie it won’t fool you “I believe that! I see myself as a heather if I look in the mirror long enough”
When I hear this, I think of my old self, and how I used to be able to take on hardships and come out okay. I don’t even feel things as strongly anymore. I miss feeling
update : he doesn’t like me back, only my friend. second update : he asked her out and they’re dating thanks for the support, I’m currently having fun with my friends and gotten over him :)
Hes not worth it then. Dont put yourself in the pain if it hurts you to be friends. If he asks why your distancing tell him it hurts you. If he dosnt like that awnser he really dosnt care.
No one is going to see this so, I just want someone to realize the amount of pain I’m in. Not replacing it as some sort of hormone because it's not, I’m in pain. And all I ask is someone to realize this, just to be there for me, not to give me the life advice I have already tried, just to know I’m hurt and be there for me. My feelings of pain morph into anger and I feel like a horrid person. I just want to feel love.
Wow, that was so relatable... Hush hush, it's okay.. just slowly fall asleep calm down... I'll make food in the morning, just hush... relax... you're okay..
why are all these comments so depressing. i know this song is sad but it makes me sad to read depressed comments. so if you are crying and reading this comment then let it all out if you want. if you are heartbroken, suicidal, or a relative passed away then dont feel like that/im sorry on what happened to you. just know that not everyone lives forever. dont die. whoever broke your heart is a bitch. but trust me when i say this. everything will eventually get better. i know a lot of people say that but its true. it may take long but everything will get better. i know that because it has happened to me. i dont want you to feel pain or suffer. i care about you so much i dont care if we are strangers but just know that i love you so much. and other people in this world do too. this is a big reminder that everything will get better sooner or later, you are loved, you are cared, and that you are an amazing person. appreciate yourself. treat yourself. do whatever you want in this world. we all only have 1 life and in that 1 life we want to have an amazing time right? then treat yourself and do whatever you want if its like running away or going anywhere in this world. oh yeah i forgot to add that you are worth so much to me, but if you die i would cry. a lot of people would miss you and be alone. no one wants that. so dont die. this took me very long to type but it was worth it. i hope you all stay safe and i love you all ♡´・ᴗ・`♡
here’s my story i met him about 7 years ago, we both had the same class and I never looked at him in anyways but he always made it his way to be my friends... it wasn’t until my 8th grade year he gave me something during a field trip and told me he had bought it for me and i never really understood why he sis that but i knew he would be the one after that day... a couple months pass and we started high school and we became insuperable. As we kept going through the year he got a gf and that broke me inside bc i thought i liked him but i eventually let it go. After that failed he came back to me and we were once again inseparable... this time around we were like closer than ever it’s almost as if we had became one
I miss the days where I didn't have a care in the world. Now, every time I even *think* about going outside, I have to stop and think about how I'm walking, what I'm wearing and everything else. The most depressing part? No one even gives a shit
I miss the days where I didn’t have a care in the world. Now, every time I even think about going outside, I have to stop and think about where I walk or what I’m wearing in the chance I ever run into you again. I can’t go to the bar or go grocery shopping without feeling on edge and looking over my shoulder in fear that I see your face again. It stops me from living my life. The most depressing part? In the most counter intuitive way a part of me still holds on to that hope that I do actually run into you just so that I can see your face again and I can be a part of your life again. Even though I was the one that ended things because I knew you’d never like me the way I wanted you to and I was tired of hurting. It was just sex to you but to me it was much more. Hopefully one day I’ll see you again and these feelings will be gone, but I have a feeling that it’ll stay with me for the rest of my life.
Same I miss the days when everyone was still there for me and my brother didn’t have cancer and my parents didn’t start smoking and my grandfather didn’t die and I didn’t cry myself to sleep every night lol
Y’all have sum pretty sad stories, and I’m glad you’re getting them off your chest and telling them. Even though they might be anonymous, they’re still yours.... But I’m just thinking about the onigiri imma make for tomorrow’s lunch so it’s hard for me to feel sorry for y’all at the moment lmao
a little tip: if you're listening on your laptop you can choose loop. in this way the song will automatically start over. and you can make a playlist. but thesis obviously also very good, but not every amazing song has this.
My older brother, younger brother, friends, and cousins are all heathers... Me, I'm just known as their friend, or their brother, im... Just the background charecter, even in my own story, i do exist in the school system... The only teacher that notices me and remembers my name is the coulseler, if you are a school counseler... thank you, you help so many kids, you dont even know... you help me with my anxiety, just think about it... and to all those other people in the world... do you KNOW how many peoples life you change? How many people love and care about you? Well if you dont, take me as an example, I love you... it wont be the same if you were gone, I will be there for you, I love you, even on your most stressful days, and bad days... its fine, I love you... dont worry
Your so beautiful, what are you talking about? I dont even know you and i know how stunning you are. Just remember, only a BOY would treat you like that, you need a man
hello Ellie. Just wanted to comment and let you know that someone, somewhere considers your presence absolutely golden. And once you realize that everything you need is within yourself, the ache gets better. Ik you don't know me, but if you ever need to vent I'm always here. keep light within yourself :).
im generally not a sad person and i like to keep a smile on my face and make people laugh, but sometimes i feel so alone and down. i always try to be there for my friends but it hurts a little to know theres no one there for me. no one to check up on me, text me back first, come hang out whenever they can. all i want is someone dedicated to me and will always stay by my side and keep me happy. that might seem selfish, but i just want some love.
My first crush rejected me but... my next crush loved me back so I'm happy I didn't die (suicide) before I met her or that would mean... She's someone else's and never was mine :/