Thank you for being brave enough to make the decision you made. I applaud you Leni. From listening & observing some red flags, I wish to draw the conclusion that you were married to a narcissist. I see & hear the pain in your voice. Seems to me you have used up all your energy on a lost cause (Vinn).However, learn from your mistakes & take your time to heal recover fully. You seem to be a victim of narcissistic abuse. I can relate to that. It is very difficult to move on from such. Seek God for strength & courage so that your future could be brighter. Count your blessings you were not with child. You are young & have the whole world before you. So go out there and enjoy your life. Your parents are a blessing. Thank God for them. God bless you & keep you my darling. Stay sweet!
Maturity of highest order. Am a 57 year old Kenyan man who cannot tolerate being taken advantage of. Now that you have aired your views, kindly don't allow it to pull you down. You have a future that needs focus to be accomplished. I wish you well girl.
I’m sorry, but as per her video, she said nothing more than she wanted a seperation. They both have done each other wrong. Vin didn’t say anything bad about her more than the banking info was changed and she had changed all the passwords. Is it true or not I don’t know, because she never defended herself on such. She left her subscribers to insinuate that she was an abused woman by Vin. Now if Vin physically abused Leni it is absolutely unacceptable and in this case she was 100% right to leave him. In the other hand if he did not it is absolutely wrong to give your subscribers the impression he did.
Dear Leni, you were always the protagonist in your marriage, here as a woman I support you and admire you for the big heart that you always had for those around you and those most in need. Continue walking with your head held high. You are worth gold! God bless you
And so is Vinn. If as you said she was the protagonist valerie there was no need for Vinn to be, all I know what I saw as one of the earliest subscriber is a young man who worshipped his wife. They just allowed unhappy people like you to step in and mar their lives
As a Kenyan woman, please accept my sincere apologies. On behalf of our young brother, who did not know your value, we are sorry. Please live your life in peace and happiness.
@queenchebet So what exactly caused their breakup? Nothing has been said to that effect, which is causing too much speculation and putting the blame on one person. Whatever the cause of the breakup is, it takes two to tangle. Therefore, the blame should be shared and not heaped on one person.
@@denniscasely-hayford3245 is the same thing im wondering seems as if leni called some of these people and tell them exactly what happened so they feel justified to crucified vinn ..ooh wooow
Leni - I’m a 67 yr old woman that your RU-vid channel came up one day! I watched you and Vinn and prayed for you! Vinn was less and less involved in caring and making sure you were in a good place! So I commend you for your brave honest talk! And may healing come quickly because of this talk! You have nothing to be ashamed of and nothing but a bright future ahead of you! I see you must walk through healing waters and tears and that is healthy! I heard you friend or family member behind the camera encouraging you and I’m grateful as all your subscribers are that you are in Germany- safe and supported! We all are ready to support you from around the world! Rumors are lies! I totally believe in you and your decision! God bless you as you walk away from these days … and walk toward many future victories! No doubt you’ve made the correct decision!💜💜💜💜💜Purple Hearts for enduring … Brave Leni!
IM 61....BEEN MARRIED TWICE ....NOW WITH A MAN THAT GIVE ME RESPECT ALL THE TIME YES HE,S OLD NO MATTER I STILL PRAY FOR US THERE ARE GOOD TIMES AND BAD IN LIFE .....IVE LEARNED TO TREAT A MAN LIKE HE WANT TO BE TREATED THIER IS A DIFFERENT IN A REAL MAN AND A SELFISH MAN HAVE NO RESPECT .....TO ALLWAYS MOVE ON WHEN YOU NOTICE A FOOL IS BETTER...TEAM LENA W.O.A.R SUPPORTING WOMEN ORGANIZED AGANIST RAPE ....🟣🟣🟣🟣🟣🟣
We love you Leni, stay strong, God is faithful he will keep you…..look up great things are coming your way, stay bless, we are praying for you, that to will pass ❤you are in a safe place….. love you 😍 ❤
Leni stay strong no one is perfect gossip is something I do not follow, you are a beautiful person with a beautiful sole people judge without facts but people are people you keep focusing on you you've got a lot of good people out here who understand what you're going through without saying anything. I don't subscribe to lot of youtubers out there you're my first of only 3 youtubers I subscribe to sometimes you just have to pay attention to what's not being said, hope one day we'll meet, you're better than you think you are never give anyone power over you. Keep holding your head up you are loved❤❤❤❤
It's about damn time!that was not love but a narcissist -empath relationship...you were being used and abused by Vinn and his family Wishing you healing 🙏 in this next chapter of your life
People who come here to ask for details, just know that it’s re- traumatizing the person who dealt with the trauma. Knowing and acknowledging the hurt of the person is REAL support for Leni❤
Hi Leni we are all missing you. Please forget about all the negative people and start sharing your beautiful videos of all those beautiful places you visited and the mouth watering dishes you prepared. Come on Leni you are almost at 11K. Please continue sharing good and uplifting content on your channel.
You are a lady of honor and beauty. Shut the door on this… God will deal with this on his own… it’s not for you to suffer anymore. Don’t look at the site, block everything and everyone. Left your family hold you while you heal. Prayers🙏🏻
Leni, giant hugs and many blessings from Dallas, TX. We love you, and we'll stand by you, sister! You are already strong and taking the right steps for your well-being. Keep making those beautiful videos. They will be part of your healing process. It really bothers me that your name is still used on the joint channel.
Leni, i could never thank you enough for the decision that you took. I am a woman in South Africa, and I would never live under those conditions. I saw your pain in the village without you saying a word. What you had for him was true love. This proves to us that he was using you, and I saw it from the distance. All he was concerned and cared about was his family, and you were not included. That's why he continues to use your name. God will bless you abundantly, focus on your life and healing. We love and support you. " LOVE ALONE IS NOT ENOUGH." 🇿🇦 🇿🇦 ❤❤
I am a South African woman and I mudt say you are soo typical of the SA women becos all i see from this very long message is how you care about wht a person has .There are still some women like Leni ,who love wholeheartedly and do not care about material .If your problem with Vinn was how he didnt love Leni,you would be talking but it seems you hv issues with where he came from. This is why in SA everyone is single because Love is transactional. LOVE IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE ENOUGH FOR AS LONG AS BOTH PARTIES ARE IN IT,it is selfless it is kind,generous,respectfull and if these are reciprocated in a Union ,LOVE WILL ALWAYS WIN. Love fails only when its one sided.And if you can say this was the problem in this Union,you will be talking instead of bringing in material. People are sooo miserable becos of transactional love.
Hello Leni, I am Heidi, have been married with my African husband for over 46 years. We do live in Germany. I was excited to see your videos from the time in Africa. Sometimes I was a bit confused about things that happened. I want to let you know, that I pray for you, for wisdom and wise decisions. I pray for healing for your soul and that you can overcome all the trauma. I have been thinking that it would be fun, if you would also have either a German channel, or more videos in German. As a young person I experienced some trauma - being in an interracial relationship did not make things easier. But we have overcome, and are able to encourage others. I believe, that, if you allow God to work in you, he will turn your pain into a testimony. He will guide your ways. As hard as it is right now, start the process of forgiveness. The faster you can let go and forgive whoever has wronged you, the faster you will heal and be free to live life to the fullest. Sorry for this long post. It comes from a caring heart❤.
If it wasn't meant to be, let Leni and Vinn be. Was it a must they stay married? They hurriedly got married, they're still very young. Pursue your dreams. And maybe ...who knows, love may find you.
Am very sorry for what you are going through. If vinn doesn’t want to remove your name on the joint channel just contact RU-vid and the channel will be blocked because it’s breach of privacy. Germany this matter is serious with privacy and data protection. So take the steps with the lawyers for your best. We love you because the sacrifice you made was huge and one day they will know the jewel they have lost. Keep your head up because we love you.❤❤❤
Leni take care of yourself and you're a very humble beautiful soul. Wish you all the best in the future and you deserves to be happy and leave all the negative things behind you. Lass dein kopf nicht in denn Sand stecken sei stark und du hast einen sehr wundervolle familie die da sind für dich. Bitte denke mehr an dich und nicht was die andere über dich denkt ok. ❤❤❤❤
Hello Leni, I am so proud of you for having the strength to make this video. I am comforted that you are now surrounded by love, family and friends on your journey to heal and move forward. Congratulations on being over 10 k subs! ❤
As a Kenyan woman, I can tell you for fure you have made a very good choice. Your maturity is unmatched. This is just a phase and it shall pass but thank God that your eyes were opened at the very last minute otherwise you would battle a lifetime mental breakdown. You are a gem and the one that God kept for you will definitely find you. Cheer up your fans are still with you
Janetanyango, I thought that my countrymen were wicked to each other but I find that it is not true because nothing said by Vinn or Lenni spoke of mistreatment. Ad a matter of fact, I saw nothing but love from both sides during there journey. It is the coldness of hearts like yours laced with envy of this beautiful love that is marring their union
Janetanyango, I thought that my countrymen were wicked to each other but I find that it is not true because nothing said by Vinn or Lenni spoke of mistreatment. Ad a matter of fact, I saw nothing but love from both sides during there journey. It is the coldness of hearts like yours laced with envy of this beautiful love that is marring their union
Leni... I Know That This Video Was Hard For You To Do, But You Did An Amazing Job! Leni, We Love You So Much!! Continue To Hold On To God!! Jesus Gives Peace That Passes All Understanding!! Rest In Jesus! We ALL Support You, Back You, Love You And Most Of All We ALL Are Praying For You!! Everything IS Gonna Be Ok!!
@@laurafrancis2104 Since you said you believe Black Beauty TV, go now and watch her latest video where she said Vinn is the one who injured Leni on the head.
Leni once you are feeling stronger please keep posting. I know your channel will do well. I would love to see some 'Day in my life' vlogs. Stay strong. We can all see you are a beautiful, genuine girl and believe in you ❤
While Leni & Vinn business is not my business.. All I can say, I respect Leni I first came across the channel and my jaw dropped to the ground when discovered you chose to love a man who had nothing... You chose to live in a slum, not by choice but led by love.. Not many women from a wealthy 1st world country would give up so much comfort for the sake of love.. As you rightly said LOVE alone cannot solve the current issues.. I don't know you, but chosing to love a man and going further to marry him and joining his struggles to make a better life proves good women still walk amongst us... To all the Queens out there that support their spouses and to all the the Queens with a good heart who sees a man for his WORTH AND NOT WHAT HE HAS ---> I SALUTE YOU ALL... This soon thall pass Leni and you will find happiness AGAIN!
@@MrsN-nc4du Indeed she is a great woman, here I am being judged & passed up by women :-) because I risked it all to write an MBA in France at 45 and after graduating strugging to find a fulltime job.
@@Leniweise we really believe on you since the begining, I think you should Keep vloging positve things and very soon your chanel will impact people the more and more.
1. End of this chapter now Leni 2. Contact RU-vid to remove your name and other legal stuff with your previous videos if possible. 3. Heal, get your career and life back in Germany.
Or just leave all that and concentrate on herself and heal because if she does what you're advising, she will just get hurt the more. I don't know if you saw what Deemwango did🙄 she left the guy with the channel and all and she's right now one of the biggest female RU-vidrs from Africa.
Leni, please don't bother yourself anymore about the channel. Whatever videos you both did together are part of your past which you can't erased from the online system. It is time to concentrate on your future and your channel now. Please, don't respond anymore to all the shenanigans online. Stay blessed with your family.
Well done Leni. Your approach speaks volumes. Continue to be brave and graceful, God will see you through this difficult time. Your village is behind you ❤
Hey Leni Life can be incredibly challenging, and sometimes it feels like the weight of the world rests upon our shoulders. But remember, you’re not alone. Even in the darkest moments, there’s a glimmer of hope waiting to guide you. Take a deep breath. Allow yourself to feel the pain, but also embrace the resilience within you. You’ve weathered storms before, and you’ll weather this one too. Reach out to those who care about you-they’re your anchors in the tempest. And when the sun rises again, as it always does, you’ll find strength in your scars. You’ll discover that healing isn’t linear-it’s a dance of progress and setbacks. Be kind to yourself during this delicate process. Remember, you’re not defined by your struggles; you’re defined by your courage to face them. So keep moving forward, even if it’s just a tiny step. And know that brighter days await you. Sending you warmth, love, and the promise of better tomorrows.🫂🫂💌
I'm speechless, Leni. I recalled from time to time sending little notes that he should allow you to speak, don't leave you walking in the back, but never this. I'm so incredibly proud of you for taking a stand. It's true " love isn't enough " especially when you are constantly giving and giving. I often tell my children that love cannot be measured by how much you love someone, but love is measured by how much " they" love you. Hence, love will never make you feel the way you are feeling, but believe me, it will go away. This was just an experience that helped to bring the building of your character to a higher level. Chin up! Don't forget, misery loves company, so pay no attention to negative people. I'm so disappointed, but not dismayed because you will always be loved by people. Your gentle spirit, your captivating smile is a delight. Give your family a hug for me. Beautiful family ❤❤❤❤. Eventually he will have to remove your name, " time is the master". Have a slendiferous day!❤❤❤
Good morning dear Leni. Sending uplifting thoughts your way ❤ Sending peaceful thoughts, and calm for this channel to create a safe environment for Leni and everyone 🌺
Victors with victor said in his newest video today that Vinn is stable and very very okay…you were so right Inge about this in your other comment i have seen.
@@tipsvaniris î didn’t watch it yet but I’m very happy that he is very ok. And I hope he can heal on all levels now ..I hope the bullying stops for Leni and that she can heal as well. Thanks for sharing 🤗
❤ Liebe Leni, ihr ward so ein schönes Paar, nicht nur vom Äusseren sondern auch in eurer Art - zumindest kam das hier über due Videos so rüber. Dafür danke ich euch, es war wirklich sehr berührend... sehr schade und traurig, dass eure gemeinsame Reise nicht weitergehen konnte. Ich kann mir vorstellen, wie hart und schmerzhaft das alles für dich gerade sein muss. Nicht nur eine Trennung, sondern auch noch dazu in der vollen Öffentlichkeit. Horrible. Ich würde dir aus meinem Gefühl heraus raten, ziehe dich eine Weile zurück aus dem youtube Business, mach noch ein kurzes Video wo du das erklärst und dann mal Sendepause!! Und digital detox! Gib dein Handy ab und versuch auch nicht nachzuschauen, was wieder passiert und geschrieben und gesagt wurde. Das ist an diesem Punkt hier schon echt ungesund. Gib dir eine von dir selbst bestimmte Zeit ( zwei Wochen, drei Wochen, ein Monat...) in der du deine Augen und Ohren hütest und beschützt und nur Gutes und Freundliches an dich heran lässt. Ruhe, Natur, Familie, Freunde. Sommer, Sonne, Wasser. Punkt. Ohne Stress, ohne Zukunftspläne, einfach nur heilen... Dann kommt Schritt für Schritt eine neue Welt herein. Ganz herzlichste Grüsse aus Wien von einer, die deine Oma sein könnte 😉❤ Alles alles Gute!
Dear Leni you have endured enough. You were respectful to him and family. What you got in return was ...........!!!!! You surely don't deserve it. Your peace, safety and humanity should be priority number one. That man doesn't deserve you . Please stay with your parents 🇳🇦
Lena, a dignified woman. "My husband, Kenya and my Kenyan family will always have a big space in my heart, but sometimes love is not enough" Lena, one is always expected to do the best based on his/her ability. You did your part and the world took notice. You cleared your conscience. As a result, your healing has begun so stay strong and healthy. Lena, focus on your God, yourself, family and friends who have your well-being and interests at heart. You are loved by many who would view, like, share and subscribe to your future videos. All blessings to you. Stay safe. Respect and blessings. ❤❤❤❤❤
Wow this is what class looks like. Bravo Leni, you owned your mistakes and you are moving on. I thank God that you were strong enough to move on before you were used and destroyed anymore. Good luck for the future and God be with you
Well done leni for speaking out. Your speach was great. Thankyou leni Mum for supporting your daughter during this difficult. This is definately tough for the whole family. As a kenyan born in kenya but living abroad, i can say that you are a strong woman, you are humble and you gave alot in kenya. I saw you giving in the slum and in so many ocassions. We all make mistakes, do not beat yourself. In kenya, safety is not always there whiles things fall apart. Flying to your friend and family and to a place where you could get therapy was the best thing to you. Taking care of our mental health is a good thing. Just as you have given alot to people like you did in kenyan slum etc, i hope you will find love and support in this difficult time. Leni this will pass. May your experience in kenya bear something good in the future. Maybe it was not aloss. Maybe God wanted you to be in kenya at that time. Don't regret. As a kenyan, i apologise for any unrespectable thing that was done to you. No one need to have her name tarnished online etc. Without saying much much...please take strength and seek support so that internet bullying will not impact you. I understand your decision to remove that content that drags you behind online. That was wise. Health comes first. Take care of yourself, enjoy the nature, treat yourself, accept love and support, enjot the icecream and pamper youself. You deserve it gal. Sending you hugs and support from scandnavia 🇫🇮
@@gabyweise6544 Mrs. Gaby Weise you have such a beautiful family . We are very happy that Leni came back to such a loveing home with you and your amazeing family..She is safe now and can finally heal of this traumatic situation. God bless you and your family and God bless Leni and may God walk with Leni in every step she makes♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
For anyone coming to comment about victors latest video, I think leni is aware of how low they’re willing to stoop for views at this point, so let’s refrain from bothering her about it any more. Have a think about it. If this situation were real, would Victor make such a video about it? Being extremely vague, only talking about himself and his “guilt” to gain sympathy, creating unnecessary fear by not telling his viewers if vinn is actually okay? No, he would simply relay exactly what’s happened and how vinn is doing now to update his viewers. This is just for views. He mentions he doesn’t know what to tell vinns family, yet it’s okay for them to find this random video on the internet that will just terrify them and doesn’t mention if their son/brother is okay? Come on now.
@@Inge508yes when vinn started with his story of how he wasn’t able to get the job because of the RU-vid commenters I was like here we go… this will be their story from now on. Zero accountability, just continuing their disrespectful ways and then complain about bullying and playing the victim saying their whole life was ruined by online bullies so that they can manipulate people into condoning their behavior.
@@Inge508 yes, and it’s so sad because I would have (and I imagine many feel the same) actually WANTED to support them, especially vinn, having seen the situation he’s in, his background, his family… It’s so sad they’re choosing to create all this pain and lies instead of going about it in a sincere way.
You are a strong and independent woman, you are not alone. You have a huge heart, and only you can know what you feel and what you are going through. You don't have to prove anything to anyone. Keep loving yourself, and keep being the way you are, we love you so much Leni!
I’ve been married to African man for the past 13 years. Vinn and his family used you and abused you. You have sacrificed so much for love! I’ve seen them as very selfish people, who cared only about themselves and believed that Muzungu was sent to them from heaven just to improve their financial situation. They talk about God and believe that everything they get is from God, but they do not have basic moral values. They are from a community where ‘survival’ matters! No matter how much you hurt another human! You are strong Lena, and you will be fine! The best for your marriage was for Vinn to come to Germany and experience European life! He would have learnt a lot! Maybe with time you guys will be able to make it up again. He has to grow up! He needs to stop being so selfish! He needs to go to work and be responsible for his actions.
As a woman and a mother. I stand with you. May God send a host of angels to comfort and strengthen you during such a difficult time. You will overcome. Many blessings!
When men can't see beyond their nose. What else is a man looking for when he had such peaceful natured wife. Wahala no dey finish. Leni you're a well mannered lady.
I heard she cheated on vinn with his younger brother but don’t know how true that is. If you have noticed non of them have said what really happen between them any way let me mind my single life business 😂
Leni, you are safe and blessed. When you get stronger from your healing write a book to document your journey from Germany to Kenya and back. I will purchase five (5) copies. One (1) copy for myself and four (4) copies to giveaway as gifts. Leni, the Social Worker, Vlogger/Influencer and Author. Give God all the glory, honour, thanks and praises. Stay safe. Respect and blessings. ❤❤❤❤❤
I have watched you channel with Vin from day One and I was getting concerned for you. You did all the giving and he did all the taking. Let him get on with his miserable life and please heal yourself and think of YOU! You deserve a good life you are a beautiful woman. I won’t watch his channel but have subscribed to yours. pece love and light Lena. Xx
I had a similar situation. For me the best thing was letting everything go, simplify the divorce, and move on. No contact with anyone associated with him. "Let go, or be dragged".
I have followed your other channel (unsubscribed now) from the start, and you are a true pillar of strength, enduring all of the challenges you faced in Kenya. Throughout your videos, you have consistently shown respect, positivity, love, grace, kindness, empathy, and compassion - anything else stated is a false narrative. I thank God you are home safely and are now surrounded by your loving family and friends. You only deserve the best! ♥💙💚🙏🙏
@@Leniweise Absolutely! I'm looking forward to watching your future vlogs touring Germany and sharing your cooking recipes. God is good every day. #blessings #newbeginnings
Leni we stand with you in this time. All will be well, focus on yourself, healing and rebounding stronger and higher. We love you and are praying for you❤️
You have made the best decision for you, walk in your shoes not in someone else’s shoes. Promise us that. We can walk beside you, but you are the one who have to walk . We Will be there for you. Don’t look back, look forward, don’t turn around your head because everything is already history. You can not do more than you have done. You will make it I promise you. Don’t listen to people because they don’t know anything what has happened here, and keep it on that way. Don’t go back. Stay with your parents until you can get an own and live your life ♥️♥️ you can always talk to me if you won’t , I will answer
Leni, you gave more than your share in your marriage. Relationships are give and take, and you were definitely the giver. Kindness is viewed as a weakness by some people, but many of us see you as a strong, compassionate person. Thank you for this video and the way you presented it! You defended yourself without attacking your estranged spouse.
A vision of class and kindness. The way you've handled this very trying situation is commendable and despite so many trying to attack it, your character has not wavered. You're so supported and loved Leni💕
This is too emotional, l couldn't stop shedding tears. Your speech is so touching. I hope you take care of your mental health and wish you the best in life. God will always favour you in anything you lay your hands on. 🙏🙏🙏 All the best from the UK.
Wow. This is a classy lady. My heart goes out to you dear Leni. Head high. I wish you health, strength, happiness, safety and love. 🌸❤ Du bist eine starke Frau. Viele Grüße
I feel the majority of us will not be following Vinn any longer. Try to keep us up to date with YOUR progress though on you tube. Time will help heal you Leni. We are all supporting you. X
I would say the majority of the ppl who are leaving comments have unsubscribed from Vinn and Leni, but the majority of total subscribers are subscribed to both channels. It may seem that way if you're just reading the comments, but most people don't leave comments.
Men are from Mars and women from Venus, and that's why you both shared your stories in different ways. You both are humans with feelings and emotions, though. You both handled it the best way you both could. You both have to bear the consequences of sharing your private life with the public. May God see you both through this difficult time. ❤❤❤
Es tut mir sehr leid, dich so zu sehen. Ich wünsche dir von Herzen, dass es dir bald besser geht. Ich bin beeindruckt, wie du - trotz der Umstände - so respektvoll und wohlwollend bist. Dies spricht so sehr für dich liebe Lena!Sei gesenget!
You are a beautiful soul,you were so loving to everyone around you,that you forgot yourself.everything is going to be ok God bless,sometimes LOVE is not enough.
Dear Leni, I was introduced to your previous channel through Sylvia and Koree and it was truly inspiring to see your platform flourish. You embody humility, beauty, and compassion, qualities that shine through in your work. While you generously offered much of yourself, as you've rightly pointed out, sometimes love alone is not sufficient. It is commendable that you chose to prioritize your well-being and identity. Although your presence will be greatly missed here in Kenya, it is comforting to know that you are safe and supported by your family. Stay resilient; I am confident that you will find your footing again soon.
@@Leniweise you are amazing your smile caught my eye on your videos you put so much love into others hearts sad things turned out the way they did ending with such pain sometimes we have to let go or push on to something more important to our well-being but your story of Kenya was beautiful in the videos I enjoyed and will miss much love ❤
@@Leniweiseyour heart will always remain in Kenya and that is okay I have been to that country many times in fact I've been all over Africa and a big part of me still remains there but I still often go there even though I have been through similar situations and I'm a man not a woman so you will go back one day do not let this stop you from doing what you love and desire which is going to Kenya
Leni, regardless of what you read online or what Victor posts about Vinn, do not fall for it. Stay in Germany and take the time you need to regain your strength and heal. You deserve to focus on yourself and your well-being. May God grant you abundant love, courage, and the support you need to find true happiness and fulfillment. Surround yourself with people who genuinely care for you and remember that your happiness and peace of mind are paramount. Take this opportunity to rebuild and grow stronger, and trust that better days are ahead for you.
And YES, contact RU-vid and your lawyer to get that channel shut down or have your name removed if you are not profiting from it. He should not be eating or profiting off your name.😊
Representing 🇿🇦🇿🇦❤ Im Leni's big sis. You dont need wasted years. Once you know one you can easily spot one. To live with one under those conditions! Not for my humble, precious sis.
You know what helps people heal from narcissistic abuse? Other people that validate and believe you when you stop the relationship. Other people that are not after every dirty detail of your story. Other people that just want one thing: restore your self worth, your self- esteem. Other people that hold your hand while going through the deep process of grief. Other people that value the effort, the endless love,the sacrifices you made in order to make your relationship work. Other people that stand up for your Justice and tell the world the truth. And when the right support is given, with time we don’t need to call people a victim of abuse. We overcame abuse and become the best happiest version of ourselves. And we can always be a safe place for the ones that endure the same mental, emotional and physical violence. We are not here to enjoy DRAMA, the situation is already dramatic enough the way it is. Team Leni ❤❤❤
@Inge508 Beautiful words. Very good point that we are not here to enjoy the drama. I believe we are here to support Leni to heal from whatever happened. ❤I don't need details.
Leni jus keep yr head high cause u knw wat u been through...We❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ yr content jus keep on posting..U definitely need healing ..Jus do wats rite for u ..Jus ❤❤❤❤❤yrself U need dat...U are with da best parents n da best friends..Lots of ❤❤❤❤❤❤fr South Africa Durban
Good morning Ms. Leni. I keep on replaying all your video, hoping to see your new upload..May God heal all your pains and be inspired to make more videos.❤❤❤
But why? Nobody knows what happened to Leni or Vin. She made a lot of videos and looked very much in love with Vin, she seemed to enjoy herself in Kenya. Do you know what happened?
Me, too! I loved the video of the girl's day she had with her mom. Can't wait to see more of her content as she starts this new journey. Sending her and you big hugs!
I really enjoy her videos too. Would Love to se some vlogs and Maby some appartment hunting and getting settled in a new place. Moving on and enjoying a new and more possitive chapter in her life. I Makes me so happy she Got out of there alive and that she is safe. 🙏 I Love seeing her beautiful supportive parentes. ❤️🌸🌺🌸 Hope she goes back to School and finish her masters too.
@@charlottefolsted478I think she definitely will need some time to overcome all what happened emotionally, mentally and physically.. before she can turn that page and start vlogging, or studying again. When I saw the mad man on the video, I almost got scared myself.. so glad she could escape this madness
I now understand why your dad's face always had that compassionate face towards you. He loves you and wants the best for you. He wants his lovely Leni back. I know you will heal and you will get your vibe back. Av been there. I know how it feels. Am 44 yrs from Kibra and let me tell you, that freedom and space you get from a broken relationship, is worth it. Just work and concentrate on yourself and happiness dear. We love you and shall miss you.
As a Kenyan woman who understands our community i support you 100% i was abused at an early age by my Kenyan first love. I was on 20th young and innocent, i understand your silence, some of us unfortunately can fill the gaps and read over the lines. Be strong you will find trueee love and a proper relationship
Yes girl, that is one of the crucial things you were missing while in Kenya, a frind that sees thought all the bullshit! You deserved better treatment, everyone could see and they kept commenting, but your emotions were being played upon. We will support you in your new journey 🙏
Just to describe the situation a bit better, it was like standing in a SWAMP, being continuously bitten by LEECHES and being unable to get them off you
Since you live in Europe you may be able to exercise your right to be forgotten and request RU-vid to take down the videos of you that you can no longer access. Might be worth looking into it.
Liebe Leni, Ich habe es immer soooo geliebt eure Video mit Vinn und dir zu hören. Ich habe mich immer wieder gefreut zu sehen wie du sooooo viel für Kenia und deren Population gemacht hast. Ich Danke dir für deine große Hilfe und für alles wo du gegeben hast. Ich freue mich das du bei deiner Familie bist und dich die Freunde und Familie unterstützen können. Liebe Leni ich Danke dir für dein großes ❤und wisse du wirst den besten Weg finden. Ich verstehe dich sehr gut,denn ich war 19.Jahre mit einem Mann aus Westafrika verheiratet. Liebe Leni behalte den Mut und wisse dein Herz kennt den Weg und du darfst deiner Intuition folgen. Ich umarme und Danke dir für deine Wahrhaftigkeit. Alles Liebe 🥰 Herzlichst Doris
Respect for Leni. Please viewers/subscribers kindly communicate by expressing your unconditional love this young beautiful lady. One just have to take into consideration his/her mother, sister, aunt, grandmother, daughter, grand daughter, step daughter or god daughter. God's blessings to all who sent positive messages to restore her peace of mind and healing. Stay safe. Respect and Blessings. ❤❤❤❤❤
Lenni, you did the right thing!! You are a real lady!! He lost my respect when He played the blame game!!! He showed his true colors!! He is a real coward!!😅 The sad thing is He continues to play the victim and not be a man and take it on the chin!! I am happy you took your stand and remained the beautiful person you are!! Sending you prayers and blessings!!
Absolutely true we need people like you ,who are not afraid to speak truth as it is .vinn has been abusing leni for a very very long time she was pretending to be happy in front of the camera Lord knows she's even no one was perfect in their marriage but she stayed in slams because she truly loved Vinn
Lema das war sehr stark und mutig von dir ich bin richtig stolz auf dich niemand hat das Recht dich in jedlicher Form schlecht zu behandeln du bist ein tolles Mädchen Dein Papi das Ass❤
@RolfWeise Mr. Rolf Weise you are an amazeing father and your daughter Leni has such a beautiful heart and soul. Your family is so loveing and beautiful❤
You are missed☹️ Now that the Victor/Vin saga or episodes are over Please come back and post some more of your yummy recipes I am getting hungry for some good food 😋 ;-)
Oi Leni! Continue firme, forte, viva sua vida daqui para a frente sem olhar para trás e saiba que Deus está com você, direcionando sua vida para o melhor. Todas as experiências, por mais difíceis que sejam, fazem parte de nosso crescimento interior. Você terá um futuro brilhante e o passado ficará para trás como algo que a fortaleceu para seguir adiante. Tenha sempre auto estima fortalecida, inclusive para não se deixar abater e não ser mais enganada. Conte sempre conosco para o que precisar. Deus a abençoe, querida! 🙏🏼🙌🏼😘🌻
