@@Alicia-yd7sk that's not a nice thing to say. Just because a little girl gets a lovely bday party doesn't mean she's spoiled or that her parents are rich. As parents we want to give our kids a nice bday party. Especially parents like me that can't afford to spoil our kids all year and have yo save up to make our kids bday party special and fun. And out of all the days in the year a child's bday is one day they should be spoiled. It's not a bad thing.
@@na0m1125this is exactly what I’ve come to say. I’ve found that things I would think are special are actually just “normal” to rich spoiled kids. That blow up isn’t a rental! They probably blow that thing up most weekends. She will definitely be forgetting this birthday, and most others.
My mom threw me a 5th birthday party and put her all into it. It was more DIY than this, not sure that we had any vendors but I know she spent a fat penny on it. 22 years later and I remember it like it was yesterday. Don't underestimate how much it means to your kids!
I’m jealous as an 18 year old. My 4th birthday was the only one we did anything for and it was fairy themed, there was outfits and we went to a kids birthday party place for it I was so excited. We invited my whole kindergarten, it was actually a whole thing I walked around with my mother sticking the invites in the kids cubbies and I was a mean kid, I hated all the kids but like 3 and didn’t want to invite anyone but those 3 kids, I ended up inviting everyone. When the day came we got to the place and waited an hour for people to show up, no one showed up except one of my 3 friends. He came in and basically just said he was sorry but his twin sister was sick so only he could make it. Him and I ended up just playing but I remember feeling so heart broken. I remember having a frog in my throat but refusing to let myself cry because I wanted to look strong and show my family I still appreciated it and was okay. Still breaks my heart 14 years later😢
You should've been nice 🙂 that would've made people want to show up ..but still ..sorry you experienced that.. I'm glad you had at least one friend show up and the support and love from your family
Be easy with her people. It's actually age appropriate and a great birthday experience for the kiddos. It's not expensive if you have the know-how. Happy Birthday, Olivia.
It’s the parents right to celebrate anyway they want to, but don’t insult everyone else by telling us that the party wasn’t expensive, if someone has the know how. Even if she hand made everything, the materials alone are expensive, and I guarantee the blow up ball pit wasn’t hand made, nor were the balls.
How about just a regular old birthday party (for a four year old)?! There’s nothing wrong with a simple gathering and cake… you don’t need to spend a fortune to have a good time, in my book.
It’s actually still very expensive even when you have the know-how… because I know how and this is easily $600 if not a bit more with food doing everything yourself and including the bounce house
Really because I remember my 4 th birthday party It was at the McDonald’s down the road from my house and most of the kids I invited didn’t show up It really bummed me out but the McDonald’s still had their Nintendo 64 so me and other kids play Mario party 3 ❤ the only thing that’s a blur is if it was my cake was blue and yellow or if that was another kids birthday cake But I do remember one of the birthday cake was decorated with Barbie then my mom dropped it
I still think about my 12th birthday where i got a bouncehouse in my back yard. So much fun, i will never forget about it. Your daughter will remember that forever.
Yes it may not be expensive for someone but royal and unaffordable by someone out there. Instead you can give your child a small party, and give that money to someone NEEDY, donate it to Charity, NGO, Shelter, etc. Or save that money for your daughter's /child's future ❣️
@@twit9129 Because most children don't have birthday parties this nice or even have birthday parties at all. I've had 1 birthday party in my entire lifetime for instance. Most of the people I grew up with never or rarely had parties either. She's infering that most parents don't try this hard to make something so aesthetically pleasing and over-the-top especially when it's for a child who might just ruin it. The party may be for the child but making everything look utterly perfect is a show for the internet. Most parents would be too exhausted, or not have enough money to do something this elaborate for a child's birthday party. She literally said that this is just her initial setup before all her vendors get there! She set it up like a wedding and didn't even finish because the short cut-off.
@@deadsetondreams19881000% these are the people that throw money at their kids to save face and look like an amazing mom. Appearance is the most important thing to them.
some of yall in the comments are miserable. a 4 year old isn't going to become a snob just because her parents have the means to pamper her on her special day. grow up.
The feeling of like a summer spring morning setting up for your birthday is what I remember from my childhood when I would do these type of birthday partys. Idk but I just remembered my 6 birthday, it was also Barbie themed😭
As an adult who can remember their 2nd and 3rd birthday, doing something for a childs birthday no matter the age is special even if they may not remember, in the moment is just a special. You arent going to remember every birthday it varies by person.
Exactly! People are mad at the mom for spending money for her daughter. Like it's HER money, not theirs, even if she does forget it, it is still special, and making a child happy is a great thing.
I'm 19 and the last bday i remember was me bawling my eyes out and studying for an exam. Lol. 😭 Happy 4 years to your kid. The decorations are gorgeous. ❤
Its really nice but you are setting up these kids for the “more & more or Im not happy lifestyle”. That every b-day has to outshine the last one. What happened to a simple cake, ice-cream and a few friends. Not to mention the pressure of other parents having to top your party. Imagine a single mom trying to get by with a small budget. My parents didn’t spoil us and we grew up appreciative and well adjusted. Some of these pampered kids will grow up to be society monsters.
Ita not even spoiling. and who said they were making it to "outshine the last." Please, none of these is your kids. Having birthday parties isn't going to ruin the child when they grow older. Unless you have crystal proof.
It’s a special memorable occasion for a four year old. I mean I would want my child to feel amazing on their day and this isn’t the craziest I’ve seen. Now, I wouldn’t know this family personally (and I would assume you don’t as well) because this is a online viewing of this family’s life. Let my child feel like a princess on her special day lol. Anyway, I’m sure this birthday party is far from *that* deep.
Cute but too elaborate for a 4yr old. I can't help but think these way over-the-top expensive and elaborate parties for toddlers are actually a lot more about the MOM showing off than they are about the kid's needs. Giving me ego & gluttony vibes. It's just too shallow & excessive. Like WHYY? That bouncy house is bigger than some tiny homes! Little party w/cake & family is enough for a 3yr old turning 4. And how will you top this each year, mom? You're raising a little princess who'll think that every year her birthday should be a national holiday. 4 isn't even any big deal number. I'm so over the ostentatiousness. Ick.
What is wrong with you sadly some kids don't even make it to four years old and ahe should be able to give her daughter anything she wants plus she can reuse some of the stuff there and no she isn't raising a kids who will think her birthday is a national holiday she is rasing a daughter who will appreciate every birthday party that is given to her and how is it giving you ego and gluttony vibes you need to clam down honey and focus on your own life and leave her alone.
@@Obviouslyaroach1011 She IS able to give her daughter anything she wants. No one's stopping her. She has the right to do whatever damn fool thing she wants. But that doesn't make it good parenting, far from it. Spoiling a child like this (especially so publicly) is sickening to me. The ego vibes come from how ostentatious it all is and how the mom is broadcasting to the world to show off, obviously thinking it makes her look like a great mom...but those of us who are wise know the odds are very high her kid WILL become a spoiled brat. Perhaps you've never raised kids? But the reality is that if you excessively give give give stuff to a child, especially a very young child who is only just learning to comprehend complicated concepts like gratitude, empathy, earning, entitlement, self-worth, money, hard work, etc, it messes with how they process all that. It absolutely is NOT likely to make her "appreciate every birthday party that is given to her." Are you serious?? Far more likely that she will come to expect more and more each birthday and GOD help that mom if a time comes when she cannot or doesn't wish to go over the top with spoiling that child. Monster meltdown, I'd bet on it. As for me, I'm quite CLAM. Or maybe I'm lobster. LOL 🦞You, however, are so worked up, you are getting your crustaceans confused. haha Just kidding. Relax, dear. I respect your right to your opinion and wish you a good day. 😄
bro what that girl is so young and she gets all that!? when i was her age my mom made a cake invited friends and we played pin the tail on the donkey and played outside with nothing besides our imaginations. she better thank you lol 😂
I agree with you, it’s not really important for a 4 years old, but actually if we really think all of them just cost 200 dollars if we set it to the highest value possible.
